Based on my experience, I would advice anyone who is oppressed to get as far as possible away from wicked, callous, lazy, mean and selfish people. They are usually found among our family members, relatives friends, neighbours and co - workers.
@MerwinARTist
13 күн бұрын
I want to say .. to the one who is mistreated .. always try to do your best .. always do the right thing .. even if you never get acknowledgement for your skill or for being smart .. because it is you who is changing the world.
@zealiabella8553
14 күн бұрын
Most Asian family structure is based on “toxic narcissistic traits “. One child is the golden child, where they can’t do no wrong. The other is the scapegoat child, where they can’t do no right. The head of the household is usually the father who rules with an iron fist and no one can talk back to him. I feel so sad for the daughter.💛🙏
@jamescc2010
12 күн бұрын
True or mom can be a bad parent also in many cases. Accept it or no, no parent is perfect but we can learn to be better.
@matthewcain2880
12 күн бұрын
Moral of the story, love your children so they become good people for the world ❤ 🌎
@jamescc2010
12 күн бұрын
100% love them equally and share and help them to become better.
@cstan8165
15 күн бұрын
Have anyone heard of anything along this line? “In this 6 realms everything is fair game. It is a non ending game of giving and taking back. And more significantly. It is a solo game” So please cultivate this in your minds. “Whatever predicament, or fortune that befalls upon me in this life, I accept wholeheartedly. On the other hand, whatever is owed to me, be it material, apology etc, I am willing to close that accounts now.” Then just beware not to cultivate bad seeds and allow life to flow as it suppose to be. And hopefully, we get out of this game as in here there are no winners or losers
@ivanwabbi1341
15 күн бұрын
You are a very wise man
@luutran7799
15 күн бұрын
Thank you
@jamescc2010
12 күн бұрын
Love is blind sometimes for these (bad) parents sadly to sell of assets to spoil their son without realizing it. I feel sorrow for the daughter and hope she has strength and courage to pursue her own dreams and be very successful. She did the right things (does mean for money) for her parents, and we admire her for that. This sounds like our family too when my mom prematurely gave the house (under pressure) to my brother son and his wife, and then she become homeless and lived with my sister. Love is blind. As a Buddhist, our life comes with present and past (long time back on past lives) karma (results) whether good or bad. I hope the girl will realize and trust that her good karma and keep making good karma will bring her more joy in the future instead of sadness of the past.
@RoadLeastTravelled
15 күн бұрын
Some parents do it to make the children fight, it's their intention. Divide and conquer.
@unitedstatesdale
15 күн бұрын
A person can reverse negative feelings by doing the opposite actions that created the negativity. The main function for a parent is to teach the balance of love. ❤
@ninatrabona4629
15 күн бұрын
Fairness is important. Parents, though, usually spend more on the boy child because they think he will work and make money and care for them when they are old. They expect the girl child will be busy with her husband, children, and his family and will have no money of her own. She may even move away if her husband wants it.
@zealiabella8553
14 күн бұрын
The irony is, thee daughter is usually the one that will take care of their parents.
@jamescc2010
12 күн бұрын
@@zealiabella8553 Yes and no, depending on a child.
@AzeemKhanAukSunConsultantsLtd
15 күн бұрын
Live long Jon Jandai
@breadgarlichouse2265
15 күн бұрын
praise Korean Jesus 🙏🏼🇰🇷✝️
@vuaeco
12 күн бұрын
The daughter shouldn't feel sad. In fact, she should feel happy because she's done her deed to pay back her parents' efforts to raise her. She owes nobody. She should be proud. As opposed to her brother, he should be ashamed of himself. And forever in this life and the next, he owes his parents big time and he'll have to pay back one way or another.
@jamescc2010
12 күн бұрын
Agree. She has done her duty well to serve the parents and she has no regret doing it later on in life. Unlike the son. Gratitude is hard to come by, and the daughter has 100% of it. This good karma will bring joy soon if she can stop thinking about the negative past.
@honeybadger8942
9 күн бұрын
A ( grown up) child should never ever feel indebted to his/ her parents for bringing him/ her into this world and raising him/ her. If a parents try to make his child feel indebted, he is trying to take the place of God.
@rogathesarwatt
15 күн бұрын
Im experiencing the same situation.
@jamescc2010
12 күн бұрын
Me too in the past, mom passed already. I hope you find and do right things and take positive not negative. Good karmar will bring you happiness.
@linAlex-vs6ok
14 күн бұрын
if not don't have a kid!!!
@ENG_Mowlid_Hagiaden
12 күн бұрын
really fact
@jamescc2010
12 күн бұрын
You can have kids but treat them with love and support equally. 🤟
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