I'm glad yall back!!!! 😌 I need yall to post every week again.
@JazziJay123
2 жыл бұрын
Gia is so clear and concise when she speaks. She is able to make sense of how she is feeling and communicate it efficiently. I feel like she gives a lot of thought behind her words and how she says things. I really could listen to her speak all day.
@yamillettelebron3265
2 жыл бұрын
I think they need therapy to be able to accept each other’s way of thinking. I was him in my marriage and I eventually had to leave because I was turning into who he wanted me to be and how he wanted me to think. I was unhappy at the end of the day. Not everything requires an in-depth conversation and an explanation satisfactory to the other person. I think therapy is a great idea. 27 years of being together it’s definitely something to preserve and respect. FYI. I also feel like he didn’t like the laughing at him when he was trying to express himself. I felt for him when gia began to play the violins and when he was being genuine about caring about people.
@ineyshatyzhae
2 жыл бұрын
100% agree
@aquariangypsy8892
2 жыл бұрын
Gia’s questioning is an Aquarius trait! Intellectual, inquisitive, curious, and deep thinking. I’m the same way and so are many of us. 😁 I love learning about human behavior.
@danicawilliams1310
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! My husband is an Aquarius and he is the same way! I'm an Aries and i just want to discuss the topic and over! Lol
@aquariangypsy8892
2 жыл бұрын
@@danicawilliams1310 😂
@nicolefelton6324
2 жыл бұрын
Love this podcast❤️Gia is a highly intelligent, Classy, beautiful woman! Envy is a hard working hustler!
@kishajones841
2 жыл бұрын
Envy does need to take the time to get to the root for a final resolution, which will in turn prevent future issues. However, I totally understand after working all these hours when he gets free time he just wants to relax mentally and physically.
@toiahgordon8892
2 жыл бұрын
As I was listening, I understood Gia's frustration. The issue comes down to Emotional Intelligence. Gia, you have tremendous EQ. I think that most women have more Emotional Intelligence than men. Men are busy trying to provide and protect. Emotionality isn't something that comes as easy or naturally for them. Envy basically said this... But these are the relationships that work. We each bring parts to the relationship that create a beautiful balance. This is what you two have. Though it's hard at times, it works and it is admirable. Envy is blessed because of GIA and her thoughtfulness, loyalty and love. He knows that.
@tania6666
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like DJ Envy has PTSD from Gia being hurt back when they were kids. And so he automatically clocks out to preserve himself in case it all goes wrong. He needs therapy.
@ilovefatpussy11722
2 жыл бұрын
Also from when he cheated on her and he was ready to end his life and ended up in the hospital
@SL-ew7qb
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds crazy but yep I absolutely agree
@belladonna5904
2 жыл бұрын
I don't think envy was ever going to end his life but yeah he was desperate to get her back
@aquagoddess8257
2 жыл бұрын
We need y’all every week stop playing games with our emotions much love to the Casey’s from the White family ❤️
@kristennicolemann
2 жыл бұрын
Gia's gift is communication so I am not surprised that she's good at asking questions. She makes Envy a better journalist because of her support. God bless this union and I truly enjoy each episode.
@timoffthewall1561
2 жыл бұрын
There’s a lot of expectations for Envy to be exactly like Gia when we’re all individual people.
@meadowsol11
2 жыл бұрын
I’m just like Gia with my memory! I’m so glad to hear that someone else experiences memories and things like this. It really makes the fullness of life so much better 🤍
@aliiiiiiiful
2 жыл бұрын
He seemed to say in moments basically “i know you’re not going anywhere so I can stay emotionally immature & closed off bc I provide.”
@dianewitherspoon5682
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! He does that a lot. He says it without saying it.
@aliiiiiiiful
2 жыл бұрын
@@dianewitherspoon5682 I can clearly see that she sees through it though
@catthearts
2 жыл бұрын
Ding ding ding!!!!!!
@shelinahatcher183
2 жыл бұрын
This is why I lovvvvvvve her, she is me! We think so much alike and I love this conversations! Love you guys, BLACK LOVE🥰
@tiaramccall983
2 жыл бұрын
I love seeing a new podcast from y’all!!! You guys are literally my favorite podcast!
@roshundarenee885
2 жыл бұрын
I hope Gia does an audio version of their new book soon to be released. I could listen to her speak all day. ⭐️
@timoffthewall1561
2 жыл бұрын
There’s definitely a time and place for the deep dives. If I worked my ass off all day, especially if it’s a job were I exhaust a lot of energy talking and communicating, then no I don’t want talk, i want to relax. People like to push and push at the wrong times. Yes communication is important but picking your spots is more effective. Otherwise you’re talking to an exhausted half thinking person.
@moniquevance7257
2 жыл бұрын
I agree!!
@shelinahatcher183
2 жыл бұрын
My memory is the same as Gia's I like to know everything so I can evaluate the whole situation, to understand it better! Love them!!!!
@belladonna5904
2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@queentahlia9492
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Benz ! We missed you. Congratulations on all your recent endeavors. You're so inspirational in your journey and I'm praying you get all the blessings you deserve. Keep going ! Love you girl. 💯🙏🏾💜🎊🎉👏🏾🤗
@carrollgirl547
2 жыл бұрын
I can understand and respect everything DJ Envy was saying. Glad to see y'all back
@KeishaCharmaine
2 жыл бұрын
I’m the exact same way as Gia regarding my memories. I always remember when songs and movies came out because I can remember where I was when I first heard it or when the song was at its peak.
@aquagoddess8257
2 жыл бұрын
Gia is the brains and beauty Envy brings the brawn and muscle
@an3rzz
2 жыл бұрын
For the question Gia asked about why DJ Envy doesn't care as much about their foundation, I think the answer may be that Gia prioritizes their relationship, and DJ Envy just prioritizes Gia. Could it be that to DJ Envy, Gia is synonymous with their relationship, but in fact, they are 2 separate issues. You have to work just as hard in maintaining the relationship as you work to provide for your significant other and do the things to put a smile on their faces.
@mizzyfit_334
2 жыл бұрын
Women want to talked about every intricate detail men don’t it’s really that simple he cares about her but no man wants a conversation about every single thing
@latisewilson4561
2 жыл бұрын
Gia girl.... it's okay let Envy talk
@shawndreaka
2 жыл бұрын
I'm like Gia when I want to know something are when my friends are telling me a story I want to know when and how the story begins and ends.
@chereegreen8340
2 жыл бұрын
I live for y'all honesty!!! I absolutely understand Gia and why it's important to talk about your issues in your relationship. You both have to about it,work it out and move past it. Now when Gia asked Envy why he doesn't care about the conversation...he answered the question 20 times and I couldn't understand...until he explained how Gia ask many questions and is very detailed...Envy is a short answer person...I was like finally I get him now...So both minds just work different when it comes to conversation. But Envy not remembering the great past memories is crazy to me...like Gia said I love to reminisce about my childhood,holidays,fun with friends ect...especially when you have a few drinks and start talking about what you did as teens...parties...school...on old jobs I love to laugh and talk about all those memories. I'm 47 and to me talking about the past memories growing up was better than my memories of today. Love the podcast and I can't wait to ger my book🙏
@KeishaCharmaine
2 жыл бұрын
55:15 the way my ears perked up 🤣🤣🤣
@RealEstateHer
2 жыл бұрын
53:00 Yes, this is so me!! When someone tells me something, it’s a movie in my head. I picture every piece of the story. And I’m the same with giving and wanting details lol
@ellejaym3162
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like Envy is making excuses to not want to communicate, everyone is tired at the end of the day but we need to talk things through or someone may become resentful.
@ilovefatpussy11722
2 жыл бұрын
He'll communicate with Charlamagne about butt stuff
@sagitterrorists
2 жыл бұрын
He's an only child. Those formative yrs have conditioned him to be less inclined to want to have 4 hr conversations. He doesn't want to do a root cause analysis on everything. He "yes's her" bc it's the road that requires less communication.
@moniquevance7257
2 жыл бұрын
@@sagitterrorists ALL OF THIS! I’ve dated an only child and they seem to follow the same trends!!
@belladonna5904
2 жыл бұрын
I think Envy is being truthful about why he doesn't communicate, but I agree when you don't the woman can become resentful. It's a compromise.
@rcz2023
2 жыл бұрын
Just purchased 2 books at Barnes and Noble yesterday! Love you guys
@aquagoddess8257
2 жыл бұрын
I love y’all I swear. Gia is so on point and Envy so lost in the cause what a perfect match yin and yang
@ineyshatyzhae
2 жыл бұрын
LOL gia seemed aggravated throughout the whole video but i do admire the way y’all are open, transparent, and clear how y’all communicate. i hope to have dialogues like this with my lover.
@aishatidwell3389
2 жыл бұрын
Really wish you guys could be consistent
@sadiemariealonzo1872
2 жыл бұрын
I would love to know Gia skin care routine and products she uses also makeup products. Please a quick 15 min video Of Queen Gia 🙏
@Simply.Dee12
2 жыл бұрын
I agree! Gia needs to give us a skincare routine
@ellejaym3162
2 жыл бұрын
She did a skin care routine on one podcast a few years ago. I remember tatcha was one item she mentioned. The rice polish I believe.
@misst1078
2 жыл бұрын
I preordered the digital copy. I cannot wait to get it. I wish I listened to this podcast a week ago. I just did the very thing that you guys are talking about, not posting it on social media but venting and going off to family and friends about my situation and now... two days later, things have calmed down and now I have been in the ear of all these people. Ugh!!
@queentahlia9492
2 жыл бұрын
Yayy. I know with life and the new baby, we can't get the consistency back with the uploads, but I always get super excited when a new video pops up unexpectedly. I also appreciate and absolutely LOVE the long, in-depth content. 💜💯🙏🏾
@allieberrie9245
2 жыл бұрын
I think Gia is pushing a little too much, had it been her the busy one throughout the day not even a kiss she would have the energy to give when the sun goes down.... Give the man a break and let it be what he is explaining/ expressing stands he must be tired most of the times he is a hard working man.
@the_stepfit_maven3991
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! She keeps telling him he’s wrong about his thinking and that HAS to be tiresome for him... geez
@sammyj2428
2 жыл бұрын
You know Gia, you’re great at pushing Envy to consistently strive to be the best version of himself. With how hard he works, I’d be tempted to let his nonchalance on some things slide but that’d be detrimental to your relationship. Keep on stepping on his neck 😂 (sorry Envy 🤷🏽♀️)
@sammyj2428
2 жыл бұрын
Also shout out to Benz for bossing up. Some boss ladies in that Casey household! Let Maddie live her best life 💸
@Zhanx
2 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad he sounds exactlyyyyyyyyy like someone I know 🥺 they think saying sorry you should automatically forgive and move on but gia is like me imma go in-depth on how we got here
@paigecammack5445
2 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% with Gia you can live for right now but memories is that for a reason if you can’t remember anything or don’t take time to reflect then are you truly living
@kenb120
2 жыл бұрын
Envy money doesn't buy happiness money shouldn't always be on your mind
@belladonna5904
2 жыл бұрын
But he's the only one making the money to provide for the family and in turn secure their legacy. How is that not going to be foremost on his mind..
@belladonna5904
2 жыл бұрын
The man has damn near 10 children
@tamaramckissick9330
2 жыл бұрын
I ain’t gon lie Envy I felt you on the conversation piece.
@tmreaves1
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like DJ Envy does not live in the moment or present. He seems to stay busy which could be a defense mechanism. He shuts out good memories as well as bad. It's like some type of trauma triggered for him.
@queentahlia9492
2 жыл бұрын
I'm with Gia 100% (and I'm not just saying that because I'm a woman). I feel like an in-depth conversation needs to be had every single time. I need you to explain to me why you did the things that you did or said, why are you sorry and what steps are you going to pursue to make sure this argument or incident doesn't recur again. I am this kind of person naturally so I expect the people in my life that I care about to treat me the same way and give me that respect that I deserve. I always take accountability for my actions and make sure I'm a better person than I was yesterday. When it comes to social media, you will always be micro-managed and under scrutiny (especially if you're a celebrity) for every single thing you post. Therefore, why would you want the world to have that kind of power and access to you in that way? Nothing ever comes out good when you put your ENTIRE life into the world's hands, especially social media.
@sheldongrant7258
2 жыл бұрын
Bro the way Gia leaned forward with the "I know your heart"? 🤣🤣
@SoRealSoReal23
2 жыл бұрын
I 1000% agree with envy. Women, whether they realize it or not, tend to be overbearing over the simplest things all the way to the large things. It goes from I’m just having a convo with my lady to feeling like an interrogation. Even if you haven’t did anything wrong, she is looking for anything to latch onto and beat it into the ground for HOURS and usually it spirals into a huge issue and opens scars from years ago that really didn’t have anything to do with the original conversation. That is ridiculously draining for men, especially after a long day of work. We really would rather enjoy each other’s company instead of spending the few hours we have before bedtime arguing because I didn’t remember a minor detail of a story that I literally didn’t care about. Now she thinks youre lying about something and you have to navigate a mine field over something that doesn’t exist.
@chasitymims9949
2 жыл бұрын
Gia he isn’t you let him be y’all are two different people.
@Redman092000
2 жыл бұрын
💯
@the_stepfit_maven3991
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@TheeCiaraJenae
2 жыл бұрын
My memory is like envy’s honestly… I actually wish I could remember some of my past more but it is what it is!
@FlyArkProductions
2 жыл бұрын
welcome back! praying all the men out there continue to do the inward work and evolve emotionally. the "Protect and Provide" notion of what it means to be a man has too long been limited to the material- finances, shelter and security. A man's duty to "provide" and "protect" has to go way beyond just that to keep our families together. reminds me of Kim's joke in her SNL monologue. Yea her husband may be a genius black billionaire. But because of personality deficences and other careless behavior on his part ; she (rightfully so) wants out. is okay to unring that bell.
@islandguy1842
2 жыл бұрын
Watching these two while having a glass of baileys is a different experience lolol
@queentahlia9492
2 жыл бұрын
When Gia pauses and Benz pulls out the "violin" 🤣🤣🤣
@sexyblackcharlery
2 жыл бұрын
I know what Envy means, I think it's good to schedule time to talk about serious issues. Most men are not real talkers more fixers. I guess he's scared of getting too deep as it's too painful and exhausting. Obviously, though a man needs to do more than protect and provide, the emotional side is needed, good to see Envy is getting better. I think it's important to live in the present more. Gia is a dime, dnt get lazy, u guys are great together, I really look up to u both. Love u Gia xx
@candacejohnson2824
2 жыл бұрын
Stay on his neck Gia!! All that rambling and you didn’t give up your point
@darlene5984
2 жыл бұрын
Not Benz tryna sneak to the fridge, literally on the low 💀😂
@amethystj1541
2 жыл бұрын
It's horrible how much Envy is explaining my thought process lmao
@AS-eq2qm
2 жыл бұрын
Gia GOT TO be a scorpio rising!!!!!!!
@Beautybydora
2 жыл бұрын
Gia, you and I are the same, I see it, i remember how things make me feel, I picture it like a movie!
@Beautybydora
2 жыл бұрын
i thought I was crazy this whole time lol
@Itsdreana_
2 жыл бұрын
Omg yay! Y’all are back!! Hello hello hello beautiful people ❤️
@binta31
2 жыл бұрын
Storyteller over here Gia. Ppl in my life know, I need details. It has to set the scene for me in order to get full grasp of convo and make astute responses. I can see why Gia gets frustrated. It’s insulting to Gia in IMO that the convos she wants to have, have to be considered an interrogation. Envy has to be more empathetic and patient. “”Getting the check” doesn’t remedy all issues. Envy has to “tap in” more and be less dismissive on things that are important to Gia
@kennie9304
2 жыл бұрын
Yaaay!! So glad you’re back!
@jlaw5194
2 жыл бұрын
Gia can be so condescending, and it’s so hard to watch. Yes, she’s intelligent, an elegant communicator, and poised, but she chose Envy, and she agreed to this power dynamic. He doesn’t think the same way as she does, he doesn’t communicate the way she does, he doesn’t express himself the way she does. He’s not a deep thinker, and she’s always known that. That doesn’t make him a bad person, nor does it make her better than him. She’s relentless in her pursuit and it’s exhausting. Sometimes men want ease and comfort, not a teacher/therapist/disciplinarian. Accept him for who he is, or move on.
@InterstateStunna
2 жыл бұрын
Envy should know any real woman is going to do that, they want a full answer/response. It's part of marriage, I had to learn that, cause as a man we really have to learn how to be a listener
@paigecammack5445
2 жыл бұрын
My Favs ❤️😍🥰
@alricasheppard2636
2 жыл бұрын
I love how you think Gia , wish most think that way. Man, life would be so much easier
@ladytinag4276
2 жыл бұрын
Are there plans for an audiobook?
@yoyo31390
2 жыл бұрын
Missed y’all ❤️
@daceymoralez
2 жыл бұрын
I got mines ordered as soon as u announced sales!! 🎉🎉
@christinacampbell8585
2 жыл бұрын
You should go to a mahogany Books, Black owned bookstore in DC and National Harbor!!
@Thee1Naza
2 жыл бұрын
“I need an answer that i can understand and respect” THAT PART! You can’t serve me bullshit and expect me to eat it.
@gloriajoseph8221
2 жыл бұрын
Dj Envy needs deep therapy sessions to address why he does not like going back in the past to pull memories. I can recall things similar to Gia.
@mmone1178
2 жыл бұрын
I luv this as always 🤩🤩 Thanks soo much for sharing 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@actuallyitsamirah3301
2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t pre order because I wanna pay full full price.. but given this news, making my order now
@lalaloveyouuu1
2 жыл бұрын
Omg I’ve been waiting for a new podcast yay my favs now I can listen at work
@ladytinag4276
2 жыл бұрын
How are you ever living in or enjoying the moment when you’re constantly in “next move” mode?
@honeyb8733
2 жыл бұрын
I literally woke up at 3 ( randomly) and had to listen then dozed off so this my 2nd click 😂
@Katomusicgroup
2 жыл бұрын
Mannnn Envy I feel your pain brother because my wife is just like Gia bro if there is a problem then we are going to sit down and talk it out for hours until we figure out what the issue was and I also figured out that my wife is like a therapist and she will ask me the same question 15 different ways and I would give her 15 different answers and Gia is making you get down to the bottom of the question she is asking you and you are going around the bush and talking about thirty different things and she keeps bringing it right back to what she asked you at 1st and she isn’t getting away from that until you give her a true real answer trust me I know exactly what you’re going through because I can see you sweatin bro
@januarylewis6787
2 жыл бұрын
I'm like Envy always thinking about the next move but it's NOT intentional on my part I guess I trained my brain this way. Yes that doesn’t mean the special moments aren't enjoyed!
@paigecammack5445
2 жыл бұрын
Gia really loves envy because sometimes he’s annoying like I understand you wanna secure your life & your kids lives but money is not the end all be all why wouldn’t you want to remember all the great times you’ve had with your wife and kids over money it’s kinda weird
@belladonna5904
2 жыл бұрын
Money = protect and provide. If you don't have money, your wife and kids aren't safe or comfortable. That's the most important thing on a man's mind.
@shanell6424
2 жыл бұрын
Best podcast! Glad to see a new episode
@rcz2023
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@gee.kay.4787
2 жыл бұрын
Gia is such a gem!
@alricasheppard2636
2 жыл бұрын
My memory isn’t that great either . But, I def remember a lot , especially the things that impacted my life
@samlovexo
2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people who work a lot think the way Envy does. It remind me of the episode where Jeannie Mai said when she come home she want to be submissive to her husband. She is a boss of so many things when they come home they want everything taken care of by someone else. They need peace and relaxing when they come home
@tania6666
2 жыл бұрын
Also, DJ Envy needs to send voice notes of his significant day to day happenings to himself for Benz to journal for him. That way he can look back and remember stuff.
@tracylewis2460
2 жыл бұрын
DJ Envy said he is better at communicating, since, yesterday. Lol! 🤣👀
@irisotero6561
2 жыл бұрын
Why did it go black? I can’t see the video 👀😩 I MISSED YOU GUYS! ❤️🤞🏾
@darkmagic9590
2 жыл бұрын
I love you both, such an example of black love. God bless y'all always. Please tell your husband their is no Santa.
@belladonna5904
2 жыл бұрын
Foh Santa exists
@darkmagic9590
2 жыл бұрын
@@belladonna5904 do you burn your fireplace during Christmas? My family does and no Santa can come down. He directly not in the hood my letters was never answered. It's a lie
@Deedanyel
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been waiting for y’all to post lol yay!!
@CeeTheSpiritualGoddess
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you bring the book on audio
@alricasheppard2636
2 жыл бұрын
I’m a Virgo like Envy and sometimes I don’t think, I just act . But , I’m learning man lol
@brittneygonzalez9155
2 жыл бұрын
Gia, you are stunning! I miss and love you guys ❤️ #CaseyCrew #MyFavoriteFamILY
@nikkibleu6774
2 жыл бұрын
Lol I just realized that I am Envy lol. I just don’t care. I don’t ask all those questions but my fiancée is definitely Gia.
@latisewilson4561
2 жыл бұрын
I see Envy's side.... sometimes the past is the past
@Evbddgegeh
2 жыл бұрын
I’m a women and I just don’t care about details either I like to get to the point. I don’t care so much about people so that might be my issue. Envy I get you maybe it is the only child issue cause I’m the only child.
@kf1462
2 жыл бұрын
I'm actually like DJ envy. I remember very few things especially from child/teen year's
@cyrussmitchell4880
2 жыл бұрын
Gia looking amazing as usual .. love u guys ❤️
@candacejohnson2824
2 жыл бұрын
38:38 Envy is rambling and ignoring Gia point!
@nursenicole1999
2 жыл бұрын
I preordered my book a couple of days ago.
@latisewilson4561
2 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna lie... I'm a woman and Gia talks a lot for me.... or at least she takes the long way to get to the point
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