Your 'before' house was cluttery...yet every photo showed smiling. active, happy kids! And your 'after' house makes for a happier you, too! Rock on Mom! Bravo!!! ;-)
@sandiconley4449
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I don't know what else to say. I've been watching organizing and decluttering videos for about 3 years. Until now I haven't gotten what I was needing from them. Depression is such a big part of it and anxiety. I'm fighting it so hard. Instead of decluttering I go spend money. I don't have money or room for the crafts I make. I just discovered you a couple of days ago but I have to say you are getting to the roots of my problem. Thank you! Hugsssss!
@annaalm18
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Rachel, everything you say is so true!!! What I loved most in this video was the sentence "I love having the dishes done" instead of "I hate doing the dishes" :)))
@marieboyce8437
3 жыл бұрын
I have had MS for 20 years with debilitating fatigue. I eventually learned to also use the method of telling myself to just get “something” done each day so that I wouldn’t get so overwhelmed and depressed. Also, just taking the extra few minutes to put things away helps in the long run.
@AJ-nw5sn
2 жыл бұрын
I've had MS for the same amount of time. I'm fortunate to be able to still be walking but fatigue and cognitive issues have destroyed the person I once was. So thank you for this video contecting the dots between depression and clutter. The idea of just doing one thing, instead of giving in, is great. Thank you.
@loriolsen5785
3 жыл бұрын
"Morning Me" hates a messy kitchen! When it is time to start breakfast, and I still need to clean up from yesterday's dinner, Morning Me is not happy! I remember that when I look at the kitchen after dinner. Truthfully sometimes I don't care about Morning Me and her needs! But I am still working on making this a permanent habit. I am getting there though!
@dellnichols4625
3 жыл бұрын
By showing your “before” house, which was a very brave and honest thing to do, you relate to so many people that think getting their homes under control is an impossible task. My home was not as cluttered as yours, but there were times I felt many of the things you spoke of - the worst was not feeling comfortable letting people in at times. Then I was able to get more in control of my house, and I’ve never gone back to the way it was. One thing is to realize you aren’t really getting your house in order just for the benefit of being able to have other people over. It’s so you can enjoy your own home every day. Such a stress reducer!
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true, thanks Dell!
@loriolsen5785
3 жыл бұрын
Well said! It IS a present to ourselves! Plus if we aren't having anyone over, it doesn't give us the excuse to let it all go because "nobody will see it." WE will see it and live in it!
@mnice3784
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree! Thank you for being real. Gosh did I need this ♥️
@Jo-hello
3 жыл бұрын
Great tips Rachel! And Thank you for addressing the link between clutter and anxiety and depression. For me, minimalism isn’t about aesthetics. It’s about having greater mental capacity for what matters most in my life and energy too. I want more of those things and less stress, worry, overwhelm, fatigue, negative thoughts etc. I really appreciate you making this video xx
@annammazur9712
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, for me the same anxiety and depression when I have to much. I had lot of trauma behind to .uch staff because my grandmother was a hoarder and this affects me a lot. This series really open my eyes about anxiety and too much staff.
@MelindaPlainandSimple
3 жыл бұрын
The stress and anxiety over dishes is the stuff of nightmares! Literally! I've been making sure my dishes are done and put away before I go to bed every night for awhile now. I haven't always done that, but since I decluttered all but 2 place settings for my husband and I, it has been easy. No stress. No pressure. So I was surprised when I woke up in the middle of the night last night with this overwhelming feeling of anxiety mixed with relief that my dishes were done. In that moment, I knew if that day's dishes had not been done, I would not be able to face them the next day and they would go undone forever. I was aware that I had done them, but the thought of my dishes ever piling up again filled me with such anxiety. Of course, I only have a few dishes, so how bad could it get, but in the middle of the night, reason wasn't part of the equation.
@renel7303
3 жыл бұрын
When my mom was older and living alone she got rid of everything that wouldn't all fit into the dishwasher together. She said that even if it didn't get emptied, or only partially emptied there was never more than a few items in the sink.
@ineedmyteaable
3 жыл бұрын
I can not believe I didn't find you earlier. It's been only 4 days since you were a suggested video. This was no accident. If I would have known about you a year ago, I wouldn't have wasted my time watching anyone else. You really get it. I dont feel I'm watching a obsessively clean person who decided to make a KZitem channel. I feel I'm watching a person who really understands it. Thank you so much.
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, that means so much to me!
@MercyUS
3 жыл бұрын
🦋 you’ve really nailed the psych-social issues & rationalizations so well. I’m identifying too much here! So instead of getting down to declutter, I’m telling myself I need to study more!🤦🏻♀️I whole-heartily agree that its not just tidying & organizing; it must result in a manageable & comfortable & easy pickup! This distinguished your approach in my opinion. Thanks so much!✝️🌻🇺🇸
@estrela3889
Жыл бұрын
Again, Rachel, watching your videos is a gift to me today. How beautiful the way you acknowledge the tiny steps, the one dish done! Once I worked out a schedule plan, linking specific tasks to specific days of the week. In the second week of trying that out, I realized on the bedroom-tidying-up-Tuesday that I didn't have the energy to clean the way I said to myself I should. But I truly wanted to honor my commitment. It was then that I discovered a powerful thing: I am the one defining what it means that a task is completed! So I was able to give myself permission to define that on that day, when I was depleted of energy, 10 minutes of bedroom-tidying-up-Tuesday were enough. So much joy emerged from that shift! And with that, more energy... It's about agency, empowerment on our own terms, isn't it?
@Waiting_with_oil_lamp_full
Жыл бұрын
You are the most realistic vlogger on this subject. I love how all of your stuff has meaning to you and your family from your furniture to you decorations on the walls. Every video I see on simplifying or minimalism, they have these perfect homes ( and they all look the same). You can tell they have the money to get rid of all their stuff just to buy aesthetically pleasing, matching furniture, dishware....tons of plants it just to get the minimalist look. It's so fake to me and unattainable.
@Nourishingminimalism
Жыл бұрын
Thank you AJ! I really appreciate that! ❤️
@aidenhesters9809
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I’ve been struggling for over 6 years with this. I have 2 boys and a husband. I can’t put into words why and how I feel. I thought something was wrong with me, that this was an only me problem. Thank you.
@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I felt bad for only doing 10 minutes of sweat for yesterday, but that’s all I could do. You’re right, it’s better than not doing it. Excited to look at the PDF
@Star-dj1kw
3 жыл бұрын
This is MY STORY. Overwhelmed Guilty But shopping to cope 🙄🙄🙄
@kirstyfirth5409
3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos, they are so helpful. You make so much sense and your calm presenting style is like a balm to the soul! ❤
@teresasnamesake4784
2 жыл бұрын
I identify with you. I am still in the process. Thank you for this video. I feel pretty bed when I look at family and holiday photos from years back. I wish I had done better. Bless you for this video. I am working towards a better normal.
@jamiehemba6349
3 жыл бұрын
I am off to do my dishes. See you in the next video! Thank you
@kch4580
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the before photos! So brave and inspiring
@annieheath986
3 жыл бұрын
I haven't read that book but their KZitem videos are great. Thanks for sharing.
@christinaoconnell1853
3 жыл бұрын
Hi, this is a powerful video ,I am struggling at the moment and this made me feel I can manage small things to make a difference . Thank you xxxx
@keeperofthememories
3 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! I’m just loving all of your videos and look forward to each new video you put out. I have always been a neat person, however my home has always been full of stuff-too much stuff and I can see how it affects my mental and emotional health. I’m done maintaining all of these things that aren’t important to me or my family! I have been making big strides this year in letting things go and it feels so good. I’ve been noticing how much easier it is to keep my home tidy, even with 3 kids. With each cleared space my heart is happier and lighter. We let the piano go this week- the piano that was beautiful and looked lovely in our living room but that nobody played. It made me incredibly happy !
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! ❤️
@silverstrands3362
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, I agree with other viewers, is so refreshing to watch a real person with genuine advice. Keep up the great inspiring work.
@anabel1208
2 жыл бұрын
It’s so emotional. Mostly for me it’s about the fact that I feel like a failure every time I try to declutter, clean and organize and I don’t get it done. My husband gets bad anxiety when he comes home and the house is not picked up. He steps in and cleans but I still feel like a failure.
@momof2momof2
3 жыл бұрын
Yesterday I decluttered the corner cupboard in my kitchen where I keep my teas and water bottles/cups/straws. I am donating a kitchen size trash bag of all of the extra containers, and got rid of several boxes of teas that one way or another got in there. Those corner cupboards hold a lot. But now I only have in there what we really want and need. My very last area to declutter in my entire home is the bottom corner kitchen cupboard, the one many of us have that has turned into an abyss. I know what is in there, but I need to figure out the best way to utilize the space, such as putting lesser used but needed items in the way back, possibly on a tray or bin for easier access. tfs 🥰💐🌞🌵🌷🏜️💗🥰💐🌞🌵🌷🏜️💗
@maryannt7335
3 жыл бұрын
I have recently found your channel and need it so much. With the pandemic I also had a water break in the house. Since I have moved back in I am having a hard time unpacking and organize my rooms. This is the best video to help me. I will keep watching. Thanks for the guidance. 🙏😊🥳
@adricjones5605
3 жыл бұрын
New subscriber. Thank you for your excellent content. I also do the kitchen AM& PM. In addition to that, I make my bed. The rest of the day is ‘gravy’😊 What gets done, gets done👍🏼
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
I love referring to it as gravy - so true!
@sharisimonehampton5434
Жыл бұрын
Thanks. You have been motivating to me. And I am starting now, at 10:51pm. Lol...until midnight. I want to and I have enough energy. Thanks so 10:41 much
@divenursok
3 жыл бұрын
My husband seems to come right behind me and muss things up. 😡 clutter and cleanliness don’t matter to him. He sleeps in a loft and leaves all of his stuff on the first floor, mostly on a pass through bar into the kitchen. I’ve pretty much given up.
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry. ❤️
@leonorgalizzi976
Жыл бұрын
Thanks! Great video!
@DC-ym8km
6 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you! Eye opening, will try this method.
@prettyinpink2102
18 күн бұрын
I’m a new subscriber. Thank you for this video
@sibongilethwala7080
3 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed the stats and that you write out and summarise everything for us. Great video
@hope46sf
3 жыл бұрын
Your posts are a bright spot and so encouraging to me!!
@oldvillagefarm1348
Жыл бұрын
Great advice! Thanks!
@mahaswetamukherjee06
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful video
@wildminders2233
3 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video with a fabulous message 🤗 Thank you so much 💐
@405OKCShiningOn
3 жыл бұрын
I love your channel. Im working on the life editing to give to others I'm trying to reduce their and my attachment troubles. the inner enivo, outer enviro are the same. also with standing workstations space is good.
@kyliewilson2911
3 жыл бұрын
This is my life cycle
@rajeshwarihemmadi3229
3 жыл бұрын
Each word So so very true
@howbethdoesit5695
3 жыл бұрын
Nice video Rachel.
@Scottishgirl754
3 жыл бұрын
Be your future friend I totally agree do after dinner. I was so bad for sitting down then by time daughter bedded I'm too tired for anything else
@coeja73
3 жыл бұрын
You know what I am appreciating about you...did I tell you this already? It's that your house is OLD. My house is OLD. It has got cracks on the walls, old moulding, etc. Usually these cleaning vids are women who live in homes that are less than 20 years old. Cleaning a hundred year old house and cleaning a 2- decade old house is VERY DIFFERENT.
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! When I first started, I was told that people wouldn't follow me without a trendy home. It is different! But I have to tell you - I would love to have a home that's only 20 years old! 😂 It was such a romanized idea, moving into an old house and fixing it up. I suppose all houses are going to have issues... but this is a doozy. LOL
@kayebarker8556
Жыл бұрын
I have no idea where to start???
@shellylen
Жыл бұрын
Address the issue of other people coming behind me messing up daily!???
@manyhats3846
3 жыл бұрын
i have my apartment small locker to declutter because i still have asmall to medium load to sort and bring out of a friends basementto go into my small apartment aaaaah sounds simple but ive been so immobilized knowing its mostly emo stuff left so i keep stalling waiting to get magically strong im psyching myself up for close to a year going over and over in mind im on the latter part of decluttering sorry to keep rambling
@vee5315
Жыл бұрын
How I can get the exact Morning-Evening Routine lost you showed in this video? I clicked the link that popped up but it took me to a whole series of lists .. I would love to have just the 1 pdf you showed.
@thecaptainsnark
2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if women feel worse by a mess than men because women are the ones held most responsible for keeping the home clean. Even in a relationship with completely equal responsibilities there's still a heavy expectation on women to be able to do what's needed to keep a home and family healthy and happy.
@ilovelisting5928
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Just started watching your channel and have watched quite a few videos but this is the one was emotional through. Have been drawn to minimalism for years and purge things regularly, love to have only what can be put away out of sight, very little “landing” spots, and very sparse decorations. Met my husband 5 years ago and I will just say we are on opposite ends on the spectrum on this. I don’t want to be overbearing or push him too hard. I’m in the midst of like a manic cleaning organizing/rearranging the whole house. There is so much to get rid of but am getting a lot of resistance so I am just organizing which feels overwhelming and a bit futile. I want to help him not be so frustrated every time he has to look for things and get off the stuff shuffle merry go round so that things have homes. Do I leave him to it and designate certain areas as clutter free zones or organize for him or leave him to it and just keep up certain areas and my own things de cluttered?
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
Having designated spaces has been helpful for others who have faced this, that way the person who likes more items feels like they have some control, and the person that likes fewer items can as well. I would recommend that the common areas are the ones that you manage, because everyone spends time there, and his spaces can have doors so you can close them and not have to look. The bedroom can be a little more challenging, but spend some time talking with each other, about what makes you both feel calm/peaceful/stressed/etc. so you can come to a solution where both people feel comfortable in their home. ❤️
@foreststream818
3 жыл бұрын
I do not know if you are prepping, but I had a big shock this morning: One of my black Big Berkey filters came off its plastic end cap and I am dismayed to see a ring of translucent caulking-type of glue was holding it in place! Does this make our filtered water toxic?!? Thought you and your viewers should be alerted so that you can check this out for yourselves!
@renel7303
3 жыл бұрын
Contact Berkey. At what they charge you should be able to ask. There are lots of food safe adhesives. This more than likely is safe but I would think they need to repair it for you with an appropriate adhesive.
@j.c.3386
3 жыл бұрын
I see your round griddle on many videos, what is it called please?
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
It’s a crepe griddle. 😊
@jaymefunny7424
2 жыл бұрын
Men arent uaually as afected by the mess because theyre statistically not the ones burdeded with cleaning it up. 😂😭
@Kiki-wi7px
3 жыл бұрын
How can People LOSE Their Key's ? ? ? Women: Keep them in your Purse. Men: Keep them In Your Pocket.
@mariadionisiodionisio3062
Жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
@Kian32582
3 жыл бұрын
Hey if your reading this, please know that things might be bad and getting worse but I promise you all that things WILL get better if you just keep going and try look at the good things in life. It's very unfair on people like us to go through this and we shouldn't but we are all in this together. Thank you for reading this and have an amazing day ❤❤❤
@annyarman2134
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your encouragement! You described me exactly! I'm right smack in the middle of this. I'm trying to get rid of the clutter and have 1 room done, but I have soooooo much more. My depression and anxiety did get worse as my house got worse and I even felt it happening, but I still let it go. I'm thankful that you are posting videos to encourage me to get my house decluttered.
@Nyx773
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you the video. My favorite parts that I want/need to remember: 7:35 "Anything worth doing is worth doing partially." "Any step forward, no matter how small, is still a step forward." 7:52 "When the dishes are done, life doesn't seem quite as overwhelming." "Seeing the evidence that you accomplished something gives a great boost to your self-confidence." 8:25 "It doesn't matter if it's going slowly. It's still progress"
@brandywiNe001
3 жыл бұрын
Everything you said in this video is spot on!! I am experiencing all of this right now 😫 I'm so overwhelmed and don't know where to start 😫🥺😔
@sunflowersprout2241
3 жыл бұрын
Rachel, you are wonderful. Thank you for all your content, it's always practical, real, and heartfelt. I've been especially enjoying your videos lately. Have you filmed a video about your story? What got you started towards minimalism? I know you touch on this a lot (including in this video) and call yourself a recovering messy. But a story video about your journey would inspire so many! Let me know the link if you already have such a video. If not, it's a request!!!! Thank you and God bless you and your family.
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. 😊 I'll have to make that video.
@rachelhanenburg3341
3 жыл бұрын
Your “before” photos help me feel like you know what worked, not just for you, but for you when your house looked like mine. ❤️
@homemakingwithdenise
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Rachel, I enjoyed your “scientific” approach to this topic. It was very interesting and how I like to approach things. The paralysis and anxiety of too much stuff. I get it. I’m working at reducing my stuff. BTW…I sent you a DM about this Thursday’s show. Please take a look and respond so I know how to plan. Denise
@francoisefenner1551
3 жыл бұрын
So true. Anything is better than nothing. Thank you.
@TheGenflute
3 жыл бұрын
Rachel, this is possibly my favorite video of yours so far. It's just so supportive, backed up by research, and with some simple, small ways to get started. Perfect! 💕 Thank you for this!
@wendyhummel9600
3 жыл бұрын
You are always so encouraging!
@kimberlyeakin761
3 жыл бұрын
I am always happy to see your new videos post! I feel like you are my friend offering love and encouragement as I continue to gain control of our home. My family and I are starting to see and feel the benefits. I was always mostly tidy and organized, but spent so much time managing my stuff that I missed out on better things and became completely overwhelmed. I have been able to slowly let go of things that I really don’t need in this season of life. Just 2 daunting areas left. Our bedroom and the walk up attic (very anxious about these as there are a LOT of sentimental items in both areas.) Thank you again for the work that you do to help us gain control. On a side note I would LOVE to hear more about your tattoos. They are very unique and eye catching! Do you mind to share their significance? ❤️
@Nourishingminimalism
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Kimberly! My arm tattoo: I have a line for each of my children. The black lines are my living children (6), with their first initial on the inner part of my arm and the white lines are miscarriages (4), with a heart on the inner part of my arm. 🥰
@cherylbooth5649
3 жыл бұрын
I suffer from anxiety and depression but I don't let my house end up like the rubbish tip I keep it clean and very tidy my son's say I am ocd but cleaning my house even though I have the two conditions make me feel alot better about myself ..
@cherylbooth5649
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou 💕
@judyblueyes1275
3 жыл бұрын
The ironic thing about clutter is that it usually starts out with incredibly good intentions by going "therapy retail" shopping...it does feel sooo good to go out and shop and find great deals and get out of your depression for a short time....but eventually it more often than not(for me)leads to more depression plus guilt on top of that because I have spent money on unnecessary items that were not really needed not to mention nowhere to put it!! Dollar Tree is my number one bad habit....I love to watch the haul channels and it's a challenge to find the wishlist items everyone is hunting for....where do they put everything??Lol....like you said,It doesn't happen overnight,but thank you for the encouragement to try to start living clutter free!!✌️💜☮️💜
@prettyinpink2102
18 күн бұрын
I can relate to you ❤
@JenisTreasureNook
3 жыл бұрын
I’m a new subscriber (last week). I suffer from depression and anxiety as well as a few health issues and my home has become such a mess so full of clutter. I am working on my bedroom and though it’s going to take longer than I wanted it to it’s getting there. Thank you for your tips and your encouragement
@wendy8561
3 жыл бұрын
Definitely need this I have tubs of clean clothes and boxes and don't know what to do with all the full bins please help me start one day one box at a time God bless you 💜💜💜 New subscriber
@MelindaPlainandSimple
3 жыл бұрын
Great video, Rachel! So gentle and caring. Nourishing and nurturing minimalism.
@GradKat
3 жыл бұрын
I’m amazed at the before photos of your house, as compared to the way it is now. You really are a shining example to us all! I do suffer periodically from depression and I once read that, if you feel exhausted and overwhelmed, just tidy one drawer (any drawer!). This certainly worked for me, and continues to help me if I’m going through a bad patch.
@louhale22
3 жыл бұрын
My soul needed this this morning. We have a very busy schedule and I never feel like we have time to get our house back in order. I NEED to purge some things!
@lindawarner7046
3 жыл бұрын
Positive self talk, so important. Another great video. Thanks!
@sdlorah6450
3 жыл бұрын
"When the dishes are done, the rest of life doesn't seem as daunting." (Nourishing Minimalism)
@apmatthews6267
3 жыл бұрын
Rachel, thank you for being so open and honest. I really appreciated this video. Thank you!
@annarussell3751
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You convinced me to throw away an old water filtration pitcher with a broken lid and donate a knife set that was a gift that I felt obligated to keep.
@ekokusumo4583
3 жыл бұрын
Clean after usage, and return to its place. It makes us feel good. Every time.
@Kate98755
3 жыл бұрын
i really appreciate your approach to decluttering. I agree with self care too, and appreciate your encouragement to tune into ourselves, and being kind to our future self.
@LorreneRomanic
3 жыл бұрын
A little progress is still progress. 🥰
@spa-dasoaps6436
3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. Everything is so relatable!! I'm in process now of getting rid of one category at a time. Toys are a huge category I've held onto and I'm getting rid of the last of the toys tomorrow. Clutter has stolen my life taking so much focus and stressing. I felt relieved to hear you say it is a very emotional process when letting go. But I'm finally ready
@dreamweaver3761
3 жыл бұрын
I REALLY needed this!! I've watched a ton of decluttering/minimalism videos but you put a little of a different spin on yours and I really enjoy them. Your way doesn't seem so overwhelming!
@rrmerlan
3 жыл бұрын
You give us so much hope, thank you
@lyriclovercrafts
3 жыл бұрын
This is the best video…thank you so much!
@1wholovestrees
3 жыл бұрын
We cannot acquire enough coordinated baskets, boxes and bins to put things in to give us the calm environment we long for." Thank you for explaining why I still feel weird when I buy these.
@janecoder1
3 жыл бұрын
My cortisol levels are so high I can see the mess through closet and cabinet doors. All this is causing me contraindications.
@celesteg1088
3 жыл бұрын
You are terrific! Thank you!
@Shiryone
3 жыл бұрын
I've seen the KZitems based on this book. Absolutely fascinating information.
@Gabrielle499
3 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel by some miracle. ✨🙌 Thank you so much!
@patwarburtonr7488
3 жыл бұрын
We are living in a fallen world. What are your idols. Your mobile phone, ipad and games console. We need to seek God instead. Come to Jesus while there is still time. He will never give up on you. He loves you. 🙏 🙏
@moniqueloomis9772
9 ай бұрын
If he's never going to give up on us, why did you say, seek him while you still can? The Psalms say that not even death can separate us from his love.
@patwarburtonr7488
9 ай бұрын
@@moniqueloomis9772 When we get to the end times it may well be too late to repent. We will go into spiritual warfare with the beast causing havoc on the earth. Read Revelations in the bible.
@bonniewoodard2771
3 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU !! one small step every day ... I can do this ... thank you !! Love from here xo xo
@dollygresh4415
3 жыл бұрын
Great talk. Thank you
@janieclaypool9842
3 жыл бұрын
I am sooooo grateful for you and your videos. You have helped me start decluttering so much better than hoarding videos ever did (they were just depressing).
@ELCinWYO
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing those pictures! This is my fight too!
@mariaw2997
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Rachel. Thankyou so much, this makes so much sense. Plus you've been there that really helps . What you say is so true of all my guilt thing going on. Mine I relized my self was saving rubbish which really was fit for the bin or recycling but I felt so bad in it going to land fill I thought I could save the planet by myself by finding a use for it...but guess what I never do any of it as iv got no energy for it or I'm too low. My realization of this over recent time has helped me. Listening to you has been brilliant as your explaining me there all over . Bless you thanks again 🙏😇
@vintagegirl2739
3 жыл бұрын
Love this, you are such an inspiration. Thank you for sharing what you've learned. I cleaned up my kitchen last night, put several things away that l have been keeping out. Took a nicnak off my stove & threw it away. It felt good. 😊💕
@FAMEBangBang
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 4 this!🙏🏼🥰 TRULY!
@marshabrubaker185
3 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed today. I did a major declutter last Fall, getting rid of excess furniture, books, knickknacks, etc. One of the tough things left is two boxes of sentimental items. The other tough item is 4 tote bags of mostly junk mail. I'm not 100% sure what is in the tote bags. Everyday, I tell myself to just grab a handful of stuff from the tote bags & deal with it, but there is so much it is overwhelming.
@renel7303
3 жыл бұрын
Do like you said. Get a small pretty tray or shallow box, doesn't need to be fancy. Decide how many times per week you will work on it and put it on your calendar. On those days grab a small handful, put them in your box and set a timer for 10 or 15 minutes. If you've made it through all of your stack you can grab a few more. If not you stop. You start taking little bites out of it. It takes longer to avoid junk mail than it does to quickly sort out and dispose of it. Having a letter opener speeds things up in case there are envelopes you need to check. Good luck!
@marshabrubaker185
3 жыл бұрын
@@renel7303 Thank you! I will start small, do a bit at a time and take the papers to the recycling center.
@renel7303
3 жыл бұрын
@@marshabrubaker185 you're welcome. If you can put 3 of the bags of junk mail out of sight. Not buried, lol, but where you don't see them daily so they won't mock you. By making the task seem smaller it's more approachable. Also if there is stuff that should be shredded check to see if your city or a business has free shredding. My city does a quarterly "Shredfest". It's drive through, no contact, free and up to 6 bankers boxes per person.
@marshabrubaker185
3 жыл бұрын
@@renel7303 Good suggestions, Rene L. I've had the tote bags in the living room in sight all the time with the thought it will motivate me. It hasn't. I just found out from a friend that the UPS Store does shredding, but I'm not sure if there is a limit. Thanks again for your ideas.
@renel7303
3 жыл бұрын
@@marshabrubaker185 UPS stores charge typically $1 per pound. That's pretty standard. You'd probably want to go through removing all the envelopes and things without your personal information. The police sponsor our local free shredding events as ID theft protection. You might check with them to see if something is available locally. Some of the office supply stores shred and sometimes have coupons or specials where you can get up to 5 pounds free. You can also get a decent shredder for $20 to $30 on sale.
@cynicallyyours61
3 жыл бұрын
Organising is just adding to the clutter, it's just better hidden
@firstgodthenlife2273
3 жыл бұрын
That part about getting rid of stuff is so hard.. what if I need it/want it in the future? We have so many board games that we rarely use.. and I'm starting to figure out which ones we actually like and which to get rid of/sell.. super hard but really good.
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