Control for the FA isn’t about power and being in charge, but about establishing safety for themselves because they believe relationships and people are unpredictable, untrustworthy, and unsafe. Here’s ways they often attempt to control⤵️
❤️🩹 Treat others as though they are incapable
❤️🩹Overplan & lack flexibility
❤️🩹Silent treatment & guilt tripping
❤️🩹Ultimatums and threats
❤️🩹Requesting every detail
❤️🩹Not showing vulnerability or letting down their guard
❤️🩹Hyperindependence
❤️🩹I told you so
❤️🩹 Unrealistic expectations
❤️🩹Managing the actions and choices of others
If you are an FA you can heal and learn better ways of showing up for your partner!
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