Your comments about body confidence struck a chord. I’m 60 next year and have felt that I’m becoming more invisible over the past few years. I’m not ready to be old, still feel 17 inside. You are a strong woman, Jane, dress for you and wear what makes your heart sing
@thecornishknitter
Ай бұрын
Thank you. I am fighting that feeling of getting older all the time and like you feel young inside so can totally empathise with you ☺️
@paperandtwine
Ай бұрын
@@thecornishknitter 🤗
@Ceylon.55
3 ай бұрын
Lovely to see you again Jane and i must say i totally can relate to everything you said. I am 68 and a petite lady who has always enjoyed fashion and i have a strong dress sense. I realise that now i dress much more age appropriate, but still enjoy looking nice and neat. You are right in that inside you still feel much younger. I run and keep fit and try to look after myself. I lost my dearly loved husband from cancer 18 months ago and am learning to live a different life. Don't let anybody upset you, it is very thoughtless of young people to comment on how people look. My daughter was born in Cornwall and we lived there for many years. I am determined to visit again and will come into your lovely yarn store. Thank you for a lovely podcast x
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your lovely comments and so sorry for your loss. That must be so hard. Do come back and visit. We will give you such a welcome return home 🥰
@juliemccullagh3962
3 ай бұрын
Hi Jane, I once heard someone say ‘Other people’s opinion of me are none of my business’. This works wonders for me and makes me smile every time….very freeing! Please don’t allow these rude people to get you down. You are a lovely lady and always look fabulous. Great episode 💕💕
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
What a great saying! Thank you I will remember that one now ☺️
@lydiaporter2281
3 ай бұрын
Its a pact .😅❤X
@snowbirdtbd3688
2 ай бұрын
Be yourself. Don't let others determine your style. I have my own style and it is purely for comfort. I am in my late 60's. My blue jeans aren't frayed or ripped. I don't look look like I have been poured into too tight leggings and body rolls showing. When people point their finger at others, they need to look at the three fingers pointing back at themselves. Chin up. I can honestly say I am not judging you on appearance. I watch for the knitting and crafting content and the joy it brings to me.
@thecornishknitter
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. What a lovely comment 🫶
@lindapilla541
8 күн бұрын
I really enjoyed your discussion about which projects to finish and which to “frog.” Life is too short to work on projects that don’t bring us joy. Thanks very much!
@thecornishknitter
2 күн бұрын
So true! Thank you ☺️
@Balder24975
3 ай бұрын
We’ve all been there- us older women being shushed or invisible or pushed into a box or treated as not worth investing in. Whereas older men are usually treated with respect from the outset, we have to earn it all of our lives. It’s horrible and probably linked to how we were brought up and how we are all bombarded by youth and perfection being the yardstick everyone is measured by. Thanks for addressing this. Your knitting is beautiful and so are you!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. It was ever thus wasn’t it. It doesn’t feel like we have shifted the dial much in how women and men are treated and viewed as we get older 🙄
@lydiaporter2281
3 ай бұрын
Hi Jane I so understand how you feel.You know I notice how much older I look when I go to my hairdresser,I'm 67 .I look in the salon mirror and I feel so old and not at all what I'm feeling inside ,the two just dont marry up, if you know what I mean .The last time made me quite depressed tbh.Keep doing what you luv and take no notice of offhand remarks and I'll stop looking in mirrors ha ha .xx
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Oh goodness. I dread a hairdresser session. Glad I need glasses and the mirror looks all blurry to me 😂🤣 let’s form a pact. You don’t look in the mirror at the hairdressers and I will smile and ignore the nasty comments 😜
@valeriethomas7562
3 ай бұрын
Im so sorry you experienced that Jane. I'm 63 and also experienced a sense of being invisible now that I'm older. I have to admit it angers me when I hear some think they have every right to judge another...and what is also so comical is that 'They' will also age. Anyway you look lovely
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. ☺️ I agree they will hopefully get to our age and let’s hope things will have improved!
@marilynwheatley2363
3 ай бұрын
Oh Jane. What a hoot your Spanx story was. I laughed so hard because I remember wearing those for my daughter’s wedding and being SO uncomfortable! I can certainly identify with ALL your comments on aging and I’m much older than you. Get ready- more is coming. By the time you reach my age you’ve completely faded into the woodwork. I find it rather amusing. I just frogged several projects that had been on long vacations around my house! It was so cathartic. I felt like I had a new lease on life. I love your podcast and always look forward to a new one. Thank you.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Yep they are garments of torture and I have given up trying to squeeze into them anymore after that experience. From your comment I am sure you never fade into the woodwork 🥰
@maggiewarrington2319
3 ай бұрын
Lovely to see you, I totally agree with your thoughts. I’m 71 and coming to terms with being older I think, not easy at all! I’m so looking forward to joining the flock, I only have one friend who knits near me and no local knitting community to join. So this very exciting! Much love xx
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Yay. Thank you. ☺️ it’s not easy getting older but I am learning ☺️
@carolnewey6452
Ай бұрын
I totally get the elderly parents thing. My dad passed away earlier this year at 90 and I still have a difficult time. I am always worrying about my Mom. I now understand what they went through when their parents died. I am with you on aging and how to modify modern designs to fit our personalities and body shape.
@thecornishknitter
28 күн бұрын
Thank you. I am trying to enjoy mine whilst I still can. So sorry for your loss 🥰
@user-gk2tp7lz5v
3 ай бұрын
What a lovely podcast, I can relate to big girl pants too and aging and sometimes being invisible too, I am 63! It’s a pity you overheard the comments as it’s hard not to listen, but we can’t change other people’s opinions. You always seem to make lovely choices of your clothes and colours too that suit you. I am envious of your summer knits you wear as I have yet to make mine! I hope in sharing your thoughts you realise we can all relate to this too x
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I know that many of you relate to my experiences and it’s lovely to be able to share them so we can all support each other 🥰
@margaretgerth1067
3 ай бұрын
Hi Jane, you are one of my favourite podcasters. I love your knitting content but also identify so well with your outlook on life as we age. I’m 73 but don’t feel even close to that and I remember my Mum saying the same thing. She lived to 93. It’s amazing how we brush off compliments but take a criticism so to heart and dwell on it. When I was still in my early 60’s a young clerk in a department store called me “dear”. I am 5’10” and dress smartly and I worried about it all day! I lost my lovely husband when we were 58 so I know growing older is a real privilege. I’m going to,look into your new group as it sounds perfect. Love your scenes of Cornwall as I have mentioned before. Born in Surrey, England and came to Canada when I was 14. I’ve been back but never to Cornwall. Soon, I hope. Thanks for being “you”. 💞 Margaret in Surrey, British Columbia.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Hi Margaret. Do come back soon and thank you for your lovely comments and for sharing your story. I am sorry that you were widowed so young. The word ‘dear’ is so patronising isn’t it? II would have felt that too 🥰
@NYGram119
3 ай бұрын
Im turning 60 this year, and although never bothered by age before, I find myself thinking more about this one. BUT then I tell myself that at 60, I have the blessing of watching my two children making their way in the world, having fun with my three little grands, celebrating 37 years of marriage, and wisdom that only comes with years. I'm striving to be thankful, and I hope you will, too. You're beautiful, Jane, and are giving us all so much❤!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I found turning 60 a reflective time, especially as a I lost a dear friend suddenly literally a few weeks before and we were the same age. It made me thankful for everything I have and determined to make the most of life whilst I still can ☺️
@1karenoliver
3 ай бұрын
I'm 61 and proud! I wear lots of bright colours and knit in bright colours and wear exactly what I want (within reason). We are creatives, and therefore have our own unique styles which reflect that and if people don't see that or "get" that then that's up to them and doesn't affect me. I feel quite sorry for people who don't knit 🤣
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Absolutely love your attitude. I need some more to rub off on me but I am getting there ☺️
@janetredinnick9715
Ай бұрын
I loved this podcast! I was ahead of you most of the time 😂 I’m 66 and have a treatable but incurable cancer and that gives you a whole different outlook on life! I don’t care what people think or say, but I don’t keep my thoughts on anything said to myself 😂🤣
@thecornishknitter
Ай бұрын
Sorry to hear about your treatment and condition. Good on you. And thank you for reminding me that what others think is irrelevant it’s how it makes US feel that’s important 🥰
@evelynszpyrka2550
2 ай бұрын
Hi Jane, some people are just rude. Nothing is private anymore since 9/11. With that said, don’t be embarrassed, I would’ve taking it from the guards and slap their hands. lol 😝 love your knits ❤ and podcast! I’m embracing my age 60! Love it
@thecornishknitter
2 ай бұрын
Thank you. Go girl 😉
@PawfectPastimesAmo
3 ай бұрын
I hope your mum is recovering well. In this day and age of ‘be kind’ and anything goes, it’s very rude of anyone to comment let alone where you can hear. One day they will learn gaining age is a privilege and not a given right.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
So true. Thank you mum is ok now but we will keep an eye on her for more episodes. ☺️
@pamroebuck4764
3 ай бұрын
Totally with you on getting a little older and I certainly feel invisible. You always make fab choices in what you wear when podcasting and what right does anyone have to judge you anyway. I hate the fact that our bodies change so much after menapause ☹. It's good to share r we feel.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I wasn’t anticipating such a change would happen and we have to learn to adapt to it but I must admit I often struggle to do it 🙄
@sylvieboulanger8155
3 ай бұрын
I'm 70 and never cared about other people's opinions. However I must say, that, like you, I'm always surprised when I see myself in the mirror or in photographs.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Haha. Good for you and just don’t look in the mirror anymore then we can think that we look like we feel inside 🥰
@christinepatmore9060
3 ай бұрын
You cant please all the people! Be your beautiful self... Wear what you love that makes you feel good,make up,knitwear,clothes,whatever Dont let other people affect how you feel about you Do what brings you joy xxx😊
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. Usually I am fine and just ignore it but it got to me that day. I gave myself a good talking too later 🥰
@joscott5729
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Jane for a lovely podcast. Regarding your train trip. I imagine because you wore something bright you were noticed and some people don’t like it as they probably don’t like to stand out as they don’t have the confidence themselves. The fact you were the topic of conversation shows you weren’t invisible which is a good thing, so continue to wear bright clothes with confidence. I am 52 menopausal and love clothes and will always wear what I like. X
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
You go girl. Keep that confidence high. Thank you for reminding me that it I was at least noticeable 🥰 a great way to look at it
@suehillman7189
3 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this vlog, thankyou. Your story about your spanks was hilarious. I’m soon coming down for my annual holiday in Cornwall, but this year as it’s my 60th year I’m spoiling myself with 3 weeks. I normally visit Falmouth several times whilst I’m down. But I have never spotted your shop. I only found your you tube Chanel at the beginning of the year. I will definitely come along and say hello. In the meantime thankyou for the great vlog.
@suehillman7189
3 ай бұрын
Next Friday, the 24th. Excited.xx
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Please do! And let me know when you are around so that I can say hi in person ☺️
@nancymorgan5505
3 ай бұрын
I can relate being 69 and I have learned not to worry about what other people think. I dress comfortably for myself. 😊
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Good for you Nancy. I am usually pretty resilient but it caught me at an unguarded moment I think 🤔
@ivyshawl-song1994
3 ай бұрын
Loved your chat about body confidence and the feeling of being invisible. I'm right there with you! I would love to hear more about how you modify a pattern you love to fit your own body or style.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I will talk about that soon 😍
@kspiceknits
2 ай бұрын
So excited to have discovered your lovely podcast. Loved your Spanx story and we share the same pattern interests including the Garden Cardigan (I knit two in a row), many Ranunculus, and have had my eye on the Polina pullover for a long while. Thank you so much, looking forward to your next episode!
@thecornishknitter
2 ай бұрын
Yay, thank you! ☺️
@seamancarol5407
3 ай бұрын
So lovely to see you and listen to you this morning. It was just what I needed to remind myself that us ladies of a certain age are amazing and have so much to offer. Being part of this wonderful community has definitely helped me reinvent myself. Thank you for sharing your struggles, they resonate and help me try and not dwell on the opinions of others. Love your humour, your work to bring people together and last but not least your beautiful yarn, knitting and crochet. Have a lovely day you amazing human xx
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you lovely. 🥰 I just try to be honest about my life. Both the good and the bad and I am glad it resonates with people. ☺️
@lynnechinnock4020
3 ай бұрын
Oh Jane, my heart went out to you ❤️ the world is such a cruel place, I’m 69 & a retired nurse, I worked within the NHS for 44 years I loved my job, I’ve been retired for a few years & I, like you feel invisible somedays, but please believe in your self, you are beautiful, you are loved, just learn to love yourself. On a slightly different note, the story of the knickers had me in stitches 😂literally! Big hugs xxx
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I am usually able to shrug it off but for some reason that day I couldn’t. We need to be proud of our age don’t we and all that life experience! ☺️
@EileenK64
3 ай бұрын
Love your podcast. I’ll be 60 in September and I don’t feel that old AT ALL! (Not that 60 is old I think it’s young 😃) Beautiful blue sweater!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. Thankfully 60 is no longer ‘old’. We are in our prime 😜☺️
@marinalenzi3150
3 ай бұрын
I just discovered your channel and it’s been such a joy! I adore your insights about knitting and life.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!☺️
@tinawalker4237
Ай бұрын
You're right , why do we care. I think it's human nature to care about what is said about you. I can understand how hurt you were. Awful that you heard the comment. You are always looking wonderful. I think you are a lovely caring person. Sadly those younger people who commented I would think are not nice people, perhaps as they age they will feel differently. Keep being you, you touch many people. 😊
@thecornishknitter
Ай бұрын
Thank you for such lovely comments 🥰
@ansomemaid
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Jane for all the knitting content, but also for your thoughts on ageing. I'm about your age and sometimes feel that the world isn't particularly kind to women as they get older. It's lovely to follow someone who I can relate to and who makes the kind of clothes and I would feel happy knitting for myself.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I agree I think women can have a hard time as we get older. 🥰
@nancylorenzutti3453
3 ай бұрын
Hello!! I had to stop the video to comment on what you were saying about people making you feel bad , of course we are affected by cruel comments or negative comments, but I have learned to value myself no matter what, we all have to keep reinventing ourselves ! I’m 71, I love my family and my hobbies, but I’m a bit of a recluse by choice cause when I was in a very difficult time people just avoid you, they don’t want anything bad to rub off on them, there are what I call exceptional people, no malice , no bragging , no agenda, but they are rare, believe me, I promised a cat I had and when I put him to sleep I promised him I wouldn’t let anyone do that to me, I e make me feel unimportant, sorry for the rant, I love the yarn !!!!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I am so glad you are in a better and more confident place. I surround myself only with people I trust and know an authentic so I don’t have many close friends but they are the best. ☺️
@georginabird9354
3 ай бұрын
I’m now 70 so can relate to your comments , and I’m certainly not ready to give life up just yet , I’m absolutely loving your podcasts , love the sock , will the pattern be available to us that don’t belong to the sock club , I would love to knit that for my son , who loves his hand knitted socks , I’m really keen to try the amble yarn , is this really good for all socks knitting , and I totally agree ,I don’t like this patron idea or buy me a Kofe , but certainly interested in becoming a flocker , and also thinking of joining the sock club , but money dictates what I can or can not do xx and I’m sure you will know what I mean x x x ❤
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your lovely comments. Yes Amble is great for all socks. It is so soft and squishy. I can provide the Gansey Sock Box and pattern but it isn’t available generally at the moment. Maybe in a few months time. 🥰
@jilliankonig2759
Ай бұрын
In reference to your age comments, I think young people have become to making anonymous comments about others, but are now saying those thoughts aloud and have forgotten civility (if they ever possessed it). Their own insecurity and focus on appearances has been amplified by social media. They think it's important. I look back and remember spending way too much time making sure that my shoes and accessories went together, and my clothing was just so. I can honestly say that at 69 I no longer care about self-appointed "influencers". I don't understand why anybody cares what some 20-year-old thinks is the latest great thing. I rarely look in a mirror, unless I'm getting something out of my eye. It does no good to focus on being self-critical. It is much more important to enjoy this phase of my life, despite being a 24-7 caregiver to my disabled spouse. Knitting is my escape, and I enjoy the creative outlet.
@epiphany8276
3 ай бұрын
Full circle back to M&S knickers here! Invisible when with my daughter and visible when with my mum who has sadly just passed at 94. At a recent family do I was happy to be told I looked 10years younger than my 70 years! Thanks for a thoughtful podcast. Jane.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
I am sure you do look 10 years younger 🥰 I love a pair of M&S big girl pants too 😜
@deedeadman3657
2 ай бұрын
Thank you Jane. Remain a strong woman and shake off those feelings. Your business ethics in terms of supporting other business women is admiral. The knicker conversation made me smile. We had to do P.E. in our school uniform knickers if we forgot our kit. I doubt schools can even do that now!
@thecornishknitter
2 ай бұрын
Oh I remember that too 🥹 thank you ☺️
@sharons5723
3 ай бұрын
Great episode. Love the gansey socks and would love to purchase the pattern.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I will let you know when we release it 😊
@user-pf8uh8lo6e
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing Jane. I could totally relate to what you said. I am 66 years old and still working because I want to and because it gives me purpose. I lost my husband when I was 63 which really changed whatever future we had envisaged. I’m still smiling and moving forward, but adjusting to my new normal can feel very isolating.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you and so sorry to hear about your loss. That must have been devastating. Keep smiling and enjoying life. We have so much still to give 🥰
@monicamarshall8273
3 ай бұрын
I used to be so bad at worrying what others think and trying to avoid drawing attention to myself. Spent a lot of my childhood/teen years being bullied at school etc. and consequently went out of my way to avoid bright colours and only wear baggy clothes etc. Looking back now, obviously I would have just stuck out like a sore thumb 😅. Finally at a point where I can just be me and ignore other people's opinions and it's so freeing. I still find it upsetting that some people decide to express their opinions about how others look, and I feel a bubble of anger on your behalf hearing this as I know how it can impact someone's confidence. I've finally realised, we can't please everyone so I'm just gonna do what I can to please myself and just be myself. Just remember, you are a wonderful, fabulous person and just be you ❤
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. It is great to hear how you have learned to be self confident and not pay attention to your inner childhood experiences. I am with you on finding out as I get older that we can’t please everyone, or be liked by everyone, and that is liberating 🥰
@MayMcLeod-tv3tt
2 ай бұрын
Great episode! Love your outlook 😊
@shelleycollett322
3 ай бұрын
Love your podcast, your knitting, your travels and your thoughtful comments. At 63 I can relate to the ‘oh you knit’ comments & the invisibleness we sometimes experience. As they say, we have to smile, ignore & find our own tribe who we connect with. Comments are still a bit deflating though!The spanx story is brilliant - brought back some uncomfortable 😂memories! Your audience appreciates the effort that you put into your podcasts.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻 I truly hate Spanx and I hope younger women of today don’t feel the pressure to wear them. Us more ‘mature’ ladies have learned the hard way 🤣
@MrsKWheatley
2 ай бұрын
I am approaching 60 and am always on the look-out for people whose style I admire and can emulate. You definitely fall into the category of someone whose style I admire. I know that negative comments can upset us disproportionately - and I hope that my positive comment can go some way to counteracting the little know-it-alls on the train. If they are lucky, they will dress in as individual and as stylish a way as you (dare I say, us?) when they are no longer the age that the media champions. Chin up, Jane - you're bloody brilliant xx
@thecornishknitter
2 ай бұрын
Aw thank you so much 🥰
@nixkbing1192
3 ай бұрын
Jane, you are very visible to people who are able to look closely. Thank you for another varied episode!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Oh thank you! What a lovely comment 🥰
@bredawhelton9589
20 күн бұрын
I love your knits .. so Inspiring x
@thecornishknitter
19 күн бұрын
Thank you ☺️
@jillfoster6369
3 ай бұрын
Hi Jane, I would have spoken to these people and asked them “if they were talking about me”. I was just thinking how good you looked and then you told us this story. You wear what you like and what makes you feel good. Does not matter what anyone else thinks. It’s all about what you feel. ( whoever you are). As for the knickers - look at the M&S high leg, high waist lace & silk knickers. £12 a pair but fabulous and worth every penny. Just bought a red pair to match all the others I have. Great vlog so thank you. Go and walk tall now and know you nail it ⭐️👏
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. M&S here I come! X 🥰
@lindaturner2980
3 ай бұрын
Jane you are gorgeous, inside and out! As I’ve got older I’ve become comfortable in my skin and really don’t care what anyone thinks about me - that’s their stuff, not mine. No-one is entitled to judge another - although we all do it (but not necessarily out loud!) Young people naturally tend to have a rather limited perspective on life whereas older people can be critical of the young - that’s how it goes! BUT it’s our choice how we respond emotionally and whether or not we let other people’s comments affect us. Rejoice and be happy with who you are - you are unique - and special to so many people, family, friends and your on-line community and we love you for who you are. Enjoyed the podcast and the trip to St Michael’s Mount. Love & gratitude, Linda x💕🧶🧦🐑💕
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Linda for your lovely comments and advice. I am usually pretty resilient but that day it just got to me which it shouldn’t have done ☺️
@Meredith36
3 ай бұрын
I want to tell you you’re a blessing for the community you’ve created and are creating, as well as your honesty. Lol, I’m in my 30s and own a whole thing of spanks and shape-wear- your story was hilarious. I’m sorry you had to experience that nonsense with those young people- people are fools at times. They'll be rethinking things if they are lucky enough to grow older. Take up space and embrace yourself! Happy knitting and crocheting 💚🧶💚
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🤗 that was definitely the last time I tried to squeeze myself into those Spanx 😜
@maureencandlish8292
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for another great podcast I love it when my notifications say you’ve got a new one out. A funny story I have happened a few year ago when a young mam with two small children was trying to persuade her children to give up their seat on the bus for me. The oldest one was happy to do that but the younger girl didn’t want to. Anyway the older one started saying to her sister that she had to get up for very very old people because they will die soon, haha, I’m 70 next month but inside don’t feel it. I met a woman I know recently who is in her mid eighties and I commented on how lovely her coat was and how she suited the colour. I seen her again the next day and she said she hadn’t stopped thinking about my compliment to her and how it made her day. It just shows how one comment can drag your mood down when another can do wonders for your day. Anyway I’m rabbiting on, will go and check out your community post. Loved the St Michaels mount video. Take care and see you soon x
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for such a fabulous story. Haha that made me chuckle 🤭 I always try to compliment people if I can as I know how it can make us feel. Sometimes people are taken completely by surprise when I do as they are so not used to people saying nice things to them. 🥰
@thebooknitter
3 ай бұрын
Please Jane frog what does not.give you joy. Deciding to frog is also so liberating and then reporposing the yarn is the best you can do. I do agree that age for many seems to be stopping wearing bright colors or things you would love to make for yourself because what other think. I admire those that still would make that decision and I aspire to be like that too
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Me too. I am working on it. Frogging was wonderful once I had done it I felt much lighter 😊
@marniewilliams8523
3 ай бұрын
Hi Jane, love to watch your podcast and love all your knits as I have knit quite a few of the same. As for the very rude younger people on your train journey let's hope no one makes disparaging comments about them. Getting older is a privilege not a given. I had breast cancer 12 years ago and that definitely makes you realise what's important and what's not and their comments are definitely not important. I'm 59 next birthday and I'm loving being older far more than when I was in my 20's/30's, mind you that might be because our first grandchildren was born 5 weeks ago. Please don't let nasty people bring you down. Looking forward to your next episode xx
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you and congratulations on becoming a grandma/nan. What a lovely reason to knit too! 🥰
@karenwhite2601
3 ай бұрын
Unfortunately there are some unkind people (and not just youngsters) who think they have the right to criticise others. I would have been affected by the comments too as I've never had much self confidence and do take others opinions to heart. However as I get older (I will be 66 next Sunday) I am trying to be less sensitive. I do wear what I like and what makes me feel good which includes colourful garments. That is progress as for years I would only wear black as I didn't want to be noticed. If I ever get to Cornwall again I will pop into the store to see you. I always look forward to, and enjoy watching your podcasts.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. You are always welcome here 🤗 as we age we do tend to shrug off some of our inhibitions it was on that day I was affected by it. Heyho I gave myself a good talking too later ☺️
@knitsbystephanie_
3 ай бұрын
Thank you another wonderful episode! A few years ago when I was in my late 20’s I lived in a house, my housemate commented on what I was wearing (was about to go out) and how maybe I should reconsider it as the clothes were a bit “young” for me (I’m sure she was well meaning). I replied that I didn’t appreciate her comment and I would wear what I wanted, and she never commented again 😊 I also get your thoughts about people’s stereotypes about knitters; a couple of years when I told some people in my family that I had started to knit, I was asked “but isn’t knitting just for old ladies” (I’m currently 32 years old). I was shocked how some people can be so ageist and sexist! I love your focus on inclusivity and building a community and I can’t wait to join The Cornish Knitter’s Flock 🥰 I’ve got a few knitting friends where I live, but I’m looking forward to connecting with even more people and get inspired and just be a part of a wonderful community.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ☺️ . I am glad you want to become a ‘flocker’ too 😜
@suebrown436
3 ай бұрын
Such a lovely episode Jane. Your story about the interview and the Spanks being found in your handbag was just so funny, and so easy to imagine and sympathise with your embarrassment! A lot of what you said about the age thing resonated with me - I am older than you but feel exactly the same way. I love to knit the latest designs by women far younger than me, and I know I'm not going to look anywhere near as good as they do, but it gives me a lift to wear something I've made myself, in beautiful yarn, that is just that little bit different. We must learn not to take other people's comments to heart, hard though that may be. Thoroughly enjoyed the walk across to St Michael's Mount with you!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. Yep I accept they will Look different wt but that’s what’s make them unique as they are different on many bodies! Never ever wearing those Spanx again. It cured me of my vanity 🤣
@elizabethparkes683
3 ай бұрын
Hi jane please don’t let other people’s opinion put you on a downer about what you wear or look. You are a positive lady and a pleasure to watch. Young people forget that they will be our age one day and my not have the vitality you have. I love a pair of belly warms now
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Haha me too. Comfort over fashion any day. 😜
@christinehoag7585
3 ай бұрын
First of all you are beautiful and you need to own that!!! Second I’m sorry for thoughtless words that caused you distress. I love your content and that you make those of us “of a certain age” as well as others feel so very welcome. Keep being you because you do it so well!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! 🥰
@dorothyrainey1141
3 ай бұрын
You would think that when you reach an age that others' opinions shouldn't matter at all! We have been programed to believe that! Time to change the mindset! Spanx is the modern term for a girdle!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. Definitely time to change how we are perceived by society 🥰
@jacquipiper4641
3 ай бұрын
Don’t let others determine who you are I’m 83 and I love bright colours and wear what I love. Luckily I live in the tropics and bright colours are on everyone. I find our community is very accepting of everyone.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🥰
@debbiehoskins3171
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Jane for another great podcast as always I enjoyed the knitting content, the chatter and your visit to St Micheal’s Mount looked stunning I felt like was there with you. Understandably you were upset by the cruel comments made to you I think most of us have been through the same and felt as you did. Glad you are able to put it behind you. Love the blue cardigan you’re knitting the colour looks great on you. X
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. ST Michaels was lovely at this time of year. ☺️
@cathrineghent9826
3 ай бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed your podcast Jane. Can relate to everything you mentioned, I am a few years older than you. I have always admired your energy and enthusiasm for everything. I have chosen to retire this month after a long working life and I am dreading it because I am on my own now after my husband died very suddenly 2 years ago so not how our retirement was planned for sure. Getting better at not caring what other people think but not easy after a lifetime of worrying. I totally get what you say about being a knitter, none of my friends are knitters or my family and even my sister made a comment the other day ‘I’m not ready to sit and knit yet’ I let it go, as unless you are a knitter/crafter I don’t think you get it do you. I have put my name down on the waiting list to become a flocker and must say although I am feeling quite nervous about it as never done anything like it before, also quite excited too. Take care 😊
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Hi Catherine. Thank you so much for sharing your story and thoughts and sorry for your loss. Hopefully by joining in with the community you will be able to find like minded people and be inspired by some of the things that are knitting. I like am having to learn to ignore what others think but reading some of the comments from others has given me the confidence to try harder. ☺️
@maryp1224
2 ай бұрын
Thank you Jane for a great podcast. I can relate to what age my mind is compared to the mirror! and the knickers story had me laughing! your thoughts/teachings are always such an inspiration to me. And than you for your travel videos....this one was so beautiful.
@thecornishknitter
2 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! 🤗
@carotrike
3 ай бұрын
Hope your Mum is ok, I have heard that the COVID jab can cause irregular heartbeat and it sounds as though that is a thing for her. Please wish her well from me. As a person of 66 I si agree with you about how we feel! Isn't it hard not to be effected by the thoughts about how we look, isn't it? It's like when a nasty customer walks into your shop, it can have a major bearing on your day! Never mind about someone offering you a seat! I have never minded about that, they are just being courteous! It's like when a man holds a door open for me, or even a small child, it just reminds me that there are still some good humans in the world who value me! And I think you look lovely in what you wear on camera😍
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Aw thank you. Mum is ok thanks and after some investigation I think you are right about side effects of this vaccine. She has had a few episodes before but this really knocked her. Hopefully we can get to the bottom of it but I appreciate your thoughts ☺️
@ruthmcniff4765
3 ай бұрын
I watched your podcast earlier today and I keep thinking about your experience while traveling. Unfortunately, maybe 🤔 with social media, people are forgetting that we’re all humans and have feelings. I cannot understand why people think it is okay to write unkind comments and in your experience actually voice unkind thoughts aloud. I’m 69 and I too notice that others see me differently now. I think it’s important that I try to stay true to my own values. I think to check my appearance before I leave the house to see if one or to changes might look a little nicer- perhaps earrings or a fresh top. I am retired so my home uniform is very casual 😀. Thanks for getting us thinking 💭!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
You are so right Ruth. I feel that people who comment behind a screen have got quite personal and viscous at times. I bet you look amazing every time you step out the door ☺️
@FayGavigan-sr5dy
3 ай бұрын
Lovely to have you back again. Please do not listen to rude uncaring people. You always look so elegant. You do you, wear what you want and only listen to people whose opinion matters to you. As I get older I think to hell with appropriate x
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Fay. I am trying to get there but just sometimes I let people influence how I feel. I am trying to just be me 🥰
@FayGavigan-sr5dy
3 ай бұрын
And just you us more than good enough x
@Mynextknit
3 ай бұрын
I love your videos, thank you so much for all the work you put into them and for taking us around Cornwall. I was watching a tv show that was filmed in Cornwall this week and it was so fun to see places you have taken us in another show. I’m sorry someone was not as happy with your outfit as you were, my grandmother always said to “consider the source” I can’t imagine anyone who makes comments about the appearance of others is very confident about themselves. You are very much seen by me and appreciated. ❤
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you I appreciate your kind words. I am so glad you enjoy my little jaunts around Cornwall. Because I know how much people enjoy them it makes me get off my butt and go and visit all these places ☺️
@Mynextknit
3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you do!
@christinebrown6154
3 ай бұрын
Another lovely inspiring podcast. I have watched you since you started & really relate to what you knit & what you say. So refreshing to hear you being honest about body confidence. Thank you Jane from a lovely sunny warm Glasgow 🏴
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I am so glad you got some sun too ☺️
@tracycharalambous5223
3 ай бұрын
Another lovely podcast Jane. Glad you made those decisions about your Wips. Personally I think you look great. Negative comments about appearance says more about the lack of confidence in the person making the comments & it's usually an attempt to fit in with their mates. Don't let it burst your bubble. Looking forward to new kits coming to the shop. X
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I gave myself a stern talking to that evening 😉🥰
@tracycharalambous5223
3 ай бұрын
@@thecornishknitter 😉
@healthpowerbites9618
3 ай бұрын
Hi Joanne you are a beautiful woman inside and out. I had the pleasure of meeting you, albeit briefly, when we came to Polzeath, Cornwall for our holiday - we came over to Falmouth specially to visit your yarn shop after seeing you on KZitem. Pease do not pay any attention to people's unkind opinions - worth noting that in some - in fact most - no ALL situations where poeple make unkind remarks about others is really because they are not happy WITHIN and WITH themselves. Not nice to be at the receiving end believe me I know, but please don't let it affect you - you have this choice even if they chose to be unkind. Unfortunately the world is full of ugly stuff but thank God we have the beautiful gift of loving all things knitting as an antidote to it all. You keep going and doing what you do (and wearing what you want - your knits are beautiful!) BTW getting older is I a gift too - Those younger people hopefully will get to experience it!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
So so true and thank you for such lovely comments and for sharing your thoughts. 🥰
@anneb.8633
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for a wonderful episode. Growing older…❤❤❤
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@RuthStevens-ks9we
3 ай бұрын
Hi Jane, just enjoyed your latest episode 18, so agree with all you.say especially about age and knitting . I am older but still like all new young designers & patterns
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Yay. There are so many of us out there 🥰
@OllieandMay
3 ай бұрын
It was lovely to see you pop up on my KZitem feed Jane, always enjoy your podcast, had a chuckle about the Spanks! Not sure I would have been Impressed of overhearing someone on the Tube commenting on my dress, I’ve been on the London tube many times in the colder months and everyone wears Black!! I’m sure I would have given them the Death Stare at least! I’m turning 69 this month and I Certainly don’t feel my age, whatever that is? I dress to what make me feels comfortable,if I see a garment I like I buy it I don’t think wether it’s age appropriate, to an extent. Twin set and pearls are no longer a thing, well not here in Australia, I have sewing friends that are in there 80’s who dress more modern than myself! So I say dress what makes you feel good and try not to take it too personally, if that happens again give them the Dirty Look! 😂 Love the idea of the Flock Club I will check it out… I’ve started crocheting small Hexies for a blanket using scrap yarn, I follow Sandra from Cherry Heart designs.. always love the out and about walks at the end. Take Care and Thanks xx❤
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I just need to like myself more I guess at times but I am usually better and don’t let things affect me so much. I will practice my death stare 😉 I enjoy a bit of crochet now and again and also follow that channel. It’s great 😊
@OllieandMay
3 ай бұрын
@@thecornishknitter❤
@Pinguinpullover
3 ай бұрын
Perfect timing, so happy to see you Jane :) I just sat down with my knitting and a glas of something nice and thought I´d see what´s new.. and there you are. Marvellous. I love your videos, you are always a pleasure to watch and listen to. So, now I´ll see what´s new with you All the best, Pinguinpullover / Su
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
That sounds like the perfect way to spend the evening (knitting, wine and a podcast) enjoy 🥰
@LindaNixon-ws4ge
3 ай бұрын
Always enjoy your podcasts.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Yay, thank you! ☺️
@Nicole-we4re
3 ай бұрын
Love your chats and knitting . Can totally relate to becoming invisible as a person once you reach a certain age especially if you decide to age naturally ie grey lol. But mostly able to ignore negative comments but as you say occasionally make us doubt ourselves. My motto just do what makes you happy it’s their problem not yours❤
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Absolutely!! Thank you ☺️
@francescaquinn4129
3 ай бұрын
Don't let people pop your bubble! Dress how you want and be YOU! Age disgracefully if it makes you happy! Everyone if they are lucky get older (and be grateful for it!) Confidence is attractive, SO HEAD UP AND TELL THEM TO KEEP THEIR OPINIONS TO THEMSELVES OR TALK QUIETER!
@francescaquinn4129
3 ай бұрын
And have you seen the state of some of them?!😂their opinions are hard to fathom with when you see where they are coming from🤯🫣
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Haha love your confidence. Usually I can shrug it off but it probably caught me at a vulnerable moment and I allowed it to affect me all day. Unfortunately I think many of us take comments to heart but would like to be more resilient. I totally agree. Getting older is a privilege we should be grateful for. I just need to follow your lead more ☺️
@francescaquinn4129
3 ай бұрын
@@thecornishknitter I'm so sorry they made you feel like that, you are amazing and kind and all the lovely things most knitters are. Try and remember that x Teenagers! Honestly! I have two and quite often they talk nonsense 😂 (happily, mine are sensitive enough not to speak like that about anyone ☺️)
@lynnmcentire4014
3 ай бұрын
I’m sorry that you had that experience. I will admit thinking the same thing but I would never hurt someone by saying it out loud.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. We all form judgements in pour heads don’t we but I agree let’s keep them to ourselves. 🥰
@janemellowes674
3 ай бұрын
Hooray, I need an excuse to sit down….have been in the garden all day planting things 😊
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Perfect! 😉
@LindaNixon-ws4ge
3 ай бұрын
I’m working the GARDEN CARDIGAN with silky wool
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Oo would love to see how that is turning out ☺️
@marywalton6900
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the podcast especially the updates on your WiPs decisions. Can you buy the gansey sock pattern anywhere? Loved it.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. The Gansey Sock pattern will go up for sale in a couple of months time. We design exclusively for Sock Club and then release them at a later date. I am glad you liked it ☺️
@valeriecarroll6811
3 ай бұрын
Oh Jane I watched your podcast twice it resonated with me so much. I will be 70 in November and have campaigned actively my whole life for social equality so I’m no shrinking violet. A few years ago I noticed people talking over me and not listening to me. I foolishly thought that they must be hard of hearing. Don’t let the comments of other people take your joy. Isn’t it so disappointing that it was other women who did this🙁. On a better note where can I find information about joining your community. I’ve looked on your Instagram page and can’t find any ‘live’ post. Xx
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Totally agree. We women should support each other 🥰 I have put a link in my notes to the flock but go to my website www.stitchesandcream.co.uk and click on the ‘Cornish Knitter’ tab you can sign up there. If not email me on jane@stitchesandcream.co.uk and I will add you ☺️
@patsyvincent9483
3 ай бұрын
I enjoyed your podcast.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! ☺️
@LulubelleH
3 ай бұрын
Your story of the unkind comments - I bet there were many other people who saw you that day and thought you looked fantastic. Really. I always (inwardly) cheer when I see stylish, colourfully-, and interestingly-dressed older people. Never join the beige brigade! I don't subscribe to arbitrary restrictions that limit who people are and what they do. Why be bland when you can follow and indulge your curiosity and what fascinates you? I love your podcast. x x
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Oh thank you! ☺️ I do try to embrace colour as I agree the world is too beige sometimes. I just wish that people would be kinder to us more mature ladies sometimes as hopefully one day they will be there and my hope is that they will find the world a bit kinder x ☺️
@wendyosullivan232
2 ай бұрын
Hi Jane love your podcast, sorry about your experience on the train, the young are so rude thease days probably because of all the rules and parents arent allowed to scold if thats the right word like we were hope you know what im trying to say they are not taught right or wrong so they know that they can get away with anything that they do.
@thecornishknitter
2 ай бұрын
Certainly society is changing. I think they forget they will hopefully get old one day 🙄☺️
@amycole8974
3 ай бұрын
A while back someone criticized me on something, I just turn and said " really, sorry you feel like that" she turned away looking very sheepish. Here's another one for, when my daughter was young she said to me one day, Wendy, who is a girl in her class, said, I don't like you. I said to my daughter, I hope you said, well that's your fault not mine.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Well said! I think social media has allowed people to be so much more critical and judgemental too. And they can hide behind their screens so can be quite viscous. I love your advice to your daughter. I hope she did what you suggested ☺️
@francescaquinn4129
3 ай бұрын
What a wise woman you are 💖
@barbararamsbottom113
3 ай бұрын
Hi Jane. Your knickers episode made me laugh out loud. I had a similar experience a few years ago. I was in Rome and went to see the Vatican. As it was very hot I had put a spare pair of knickers in, just in case I was a bit sweaty and damp. I had a light backpack which had to go through a security scanner. Next thing I knew I was surrounded by Vatican guards, muttering KNIFE. Of course, my bag had to be emptied in front of all the curious tourists. I just wanted to earth to swallow me up when they pulled out my knickers (M & S big pants). My darling husband thought it was hilarious. The knife they had seen on the scanner was actually a big thick zip on my bag
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
🤣😂🤣 oh my at least mine wasn’t in a place of worship 😂 I wonder what they thought. My husband would have walked away and left me in disgust. Thank you for a good laugh x
@michellechappell6243
2 ай бұрын
Love the garden cardigan i will order same wool from your shop how many balls did it take i am a uk 12
@thecornishknitter
2 ай бұрын
Thank you. I used 8x50g balls 😊
@valeriecarroll6811
3 ай бұрын
By the way….I’m 😊delighted you ditched the spanks 🤣
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Me too!! 😜
@Fionadilston
3 ай бұрын
Check out Iris Apfel and how she dressed ....
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you I will ☺️
@suemayo6825
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for a great video, again. I’ve been to your website and registered interest in the Cornish Flock, but just received an email to say you’ll be in touch. Is that correct, as I’d hate to miss out on the sign up info. Take care x
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Hi Sue. That’s fine I received your email and you will get more info very soon ☺️ thank you ☺️
@suemayo6825
3 ай бұрын
@@thecornishknitter great, thanks Jane. Now to save so I can join in :) x
@Pinguinpullover
3 ай бұрын
About strangers commenting on anyone´s looks: Just ignore them. Whatever feeling of superiorty they might have today, time will take care of it. And some day, if they are lucky, someone will comment on their outfit and it will not make them feel bad for the rest of the day. I am 62, and about two years ago decided that I was never ever going to wear uncomfortable clothes again. Since then I have been getting confused looks, hideous comments and praise - all for the very same, self-made skirt and blouse outfit. People are funny. So, let them talk. YOU need to feel good. It´s your life, your body, your happiness. I love my very comfortable dresses, skirts, shirts, trousers und knitwear. And I am proud of what i made. And plaese, don´t even think about the tweed and pearls. That´s not you. Maybe one day it will be and you will wear it with as much grace and confidence as you are now wearing the Ranunculus. Thank you for this wonderful, honest video and the lovely trip I so do envy you for living in Cornwall, Germany is nice too, but you really hit the jackpot. Have a great weekend, Su
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
You go girl. Totally admire your approach. Twin sets and pearls are a long way off (if ever!) for me. I just need to grow a thicker skin sometimes 😉
@suzannejones5992
3 ай бұрын
Someone said to me God is merciful as we get older he takes our sight so that is harder to see ourselves.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
I don’t have that excuse. I have had to wear glasses since I was 3 🤓 even had those awful NHs glasses and an eye patch as I had a lazy eye. Oh the shame 😳
@carolrogerson8287
3 ай бұрын
I believe that aging is a privilege and to be celebrated…..I am horrified at all the anti aging products pushed on women and the fetishisation of youth….a woman happy in her own skin is beautiful whatever age or size she is….aging is a natural process and not something to be hidden away or scorned…its just ridiculous! Wear what you love! Make what you love! you are beautiful and hold a unique place in the world! ❤
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Aw thank you. I agree I am happy to age appropriately but some seem to think that once we get to a certain age we have nothing to offer. But we do! All the experience and knowledge is so valuable isn’t it! 🥰
@alisonhughes2164
3 ай бұрын
An interesting episode. But I feel you need to rethink your feelings about people standing up for you on the train. My friends and I - who are 10 - 20 years ahead of you were just saying how grateful we are these days. If some-one stands up for you they have not only seen you but valued you enough to give up a precious seat for you!
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Really good point it’s not them as I appreciate the sentiment and offer but it’s me that is surprised as I never feel old enough to need it 😜😌
@judithtaylor6916
3 ай бұрын
Young people today wear very boring mute colours. Grey, beige. Feel the same way I look in the mirror and sometimes feel down with the increasing wrinkles. But hey, we have got there to whatever age we are. They havent. As hubby says. I have had 2 children with 4 miscarriages, a hysterectomy. Dont be ashamed of your body.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
So true! Thank you for sharing and I agree I do think we should be proud of our bodies and how they reflect our experiences of life. That day I just let it get to me and I know so many women feel the same way. 🥰
@juliamorrisey5541
3 ай бұрын
I think that it is easy for young people to be critical. That 'mean girl's tendency may take longer to out grow. I am 71 and was talking to my brother about those days when I could not comprehend being this old. Funny how our perceptions change as we age and accumulate more life experiences. I know I look older than I feel but I don't care what people I don't know think. I am sorry that thoughtless girls who have no manners, made you feel badly and sabotaged your joy in the day.
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
Thank you. Partly I was annoyed with myself for letting it affect my day but there are times when it hits home. I am usually pretty resilient 😉☺️
@sheonaghgall5010
2 ай бұрын
Frustrated that you are not showing pictures in THIS video.
@thecornishknitter
Ай бұрын
Sorry but they were all in the previous video
@virginiaanderson8875
3 ай бұрын
What kind of group? Were they just chatting or pin pointing out what you were wearing? How rude. Embrace your age. We aren’t kids any more but have to have the self confidence to be who we are……….
@thecornishknitter
3 ай бұрын
I agree and usually I would ignore it but let it get to me that day and it hit me thinking about how judgements from others impact us sometimes. I say be kind to everyone ☺️
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