they literally made a pay to win game from a dating app EA would be proud
@ekx5120
3 жыл бұрын
I believe this is more like "pay to pay", or "pay and we'll tell you you've won", paying on Tinder doesn't even guarantee you "winning" anything
@rykehuss3435
3 жыл бұрын
@@ekx5120 Yeah. Ugly guys wont get matches except from bots, even if they pay for Tinder Ultra-Diamond or whatever
@georgecarlinsdad7685
3 жыл бұрын
More like pay for possibility of winning.Selling dreams...They never run out of supply.Its great.
@kugelblitzingularity304
3 жыл бұрын
Ironically, we wouldnt date anyone who spends their money on 'superlikes', like that's something we can all agree on.
@sheban1874
3 жыл бұрын
@@kugelblitzingularity304 good point
@dpardo29
2 жыл бұрын
As a 30 yo male on tinder, this whole experience has really put me in a bad mental place but what else do you expect when you're an undesirable, sad and lonely product
@StarboyXL9
2 жыл бұрын
Get off the apps and find something constructive you enjoy doing to occupy your mind and time. And when you get success and the women inevitably come sniffing around looking for your resources and to choose you as their personal jester/nanny you tell them to get lost, because they weren't there when you had nothing and nobody.
@firebolt100
Жыл бұрын
@@StarboyXL9 Unironically great advice, but also hilariously petty 🤣
@khalidalali186
Жыл бұрын
Touché
@TheSpearkan
Жыл бұрын
@@StarboyXL9 It's good advice but also generalised. For all we know the commenter might actually be in a fulfilling job and good hobbies but still isn't attracting anyone even with effort. The world is an unfair place. You can do everything right and still fail.
@DavidHernandez-dk1zs
Жыл бұрын
@be bd I think the difference is in the discrepancy of what we determine as a positive impact. Even the most beautiful women nowadays don't have much to bring to a relationship other than their good looks and ability to make children, yet the man not only is expected to bring their good looks too, but also be a good husband and father, make a good salary, and all the other stuff, you know what I'm talking about. Men also have a much broader scope of what they find attractive compared to how narrow women's options are on what they find attractive. Most woman won't even consider a man if he is not a certain height.
@innertuition7363
2 жыл бұрын
as a man from uk i sussed and also found out 2 companies more or less own all dating apps.. i also figured out they use our pics on different sites when we are not on them.. i also sussed the algorithms match us with people that dont match us, i also found it sends us chat requests when the other person didnt even ask to chat... its all to keep you on a swiping, taking up your time, sometimes money.. more divide and isolate everybody from each other.. its like callin facebook social media, when in fact its anti social media... get out of the matrix shit..
@Edward543212011
Жыл бұрын
Fantastic comment.
@PawDK88
3 жыл бұрын
you look weird with blonde hair... i liked you better as a pirate Stede!
@OrdinaryThings
3 жыл бұрын
Lockdown does things to a pirate
@johndthackray
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, anime Stede looks nicer than he did in the manga.
@jameskilgour387
3 жыл бұрын
it's weirder to see his lips move to be honest. I was hoping for the sound to be projected from a shoddily animated cardboard cut out
@TABandiTA
3 жыл бұрын
I love it!
@siva6137
3 жыл бұрын
@@OrdinaryThings No, OC's out of his mind, you look so hot right now!
@KaeYoss
3 жыл бұрын
"It forces a quick decision" because choosing sexual partners benefits from reckless split-second decisions and is unnecessarily stifled by prudence and looking for warning signs.
@SrMadru
3 жыл бұрын
For desperate men yes,and guess who tinder wants using their app
@KoreaMojo
3 жыл бұрын
Well you know that's not the way we're implicitly told to act. That might actually make people happier, or at least leave them in peace. Happy don't consume enough.
@Gnefitisis
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Sex doesn't care. This isn't about matchmaking, just fucking.
@catslovestuff
2 жыл бұрын
I love how putting all the capital letters in the video title spells TEET
@spiegel3269
3 жыл бұрын
"Featuring an office bound hottie going on a European plowfest." LOL That really made me laugh.
@lv2366
2 жыл бұрын
I have very mixed feelings about the app (as a young bi woman). Made close friends and had lots of fun dates through it. Raised my confidence quite a lot. A lot of people don't actually care to message back, sometimes it's too much swiping. My experiences have been overwhelmingly positive bc I came with the right intentions and bc of the demographic I correspond to. My main problem is sometimes I start building too many expectations or think it will solve my problems which it won't. Difficult to build long-lasting things, but not impossible. Chatting online first makes me feel safer and lessens anxiety. It's much harder to have dates with women rather than men, probably bc theyre more picky, less desperate and less proactive. Idk
@ilijajankovic
3 жыл бұрын
"Especially Grindr... for some reason." I died of laughter
@Durmomo0
2 жыл бұрын
deleted all the apps, never looked back.
@atraxian5881
3 жыл бұрын
I wonder how Tinder is doing in countries that have legalized prostitution.
@cantflyforshit
3 жыл бұрын
that's... actually something I want to find out. I hope there are stats for this XD
@violenceisfun991
3 жыл бұрын
Here in the UK its popular among young people. I know like 3 girls who use it and theres always thousands of guys on there
@violenceisfun991
3 жыл бұрын
But prostitution isn't my thing, that'd mean spending money AND having my skin touched; i don't like either of those things
@hangukhiphop
3 жыл бұрын
surprisingly, the male to female ratios near the beginning of the video were higher in the European countries than in the US! Weird huh!
@violenceisfun991
3 жыл бұрын
@@hangukhiphop Yeah I'm that geezer Up all night snorting lines off the freezer Eating MDMA just like malteasers Snorting up speed and raping school teachers
@pickledpigknuckles6945
2 жыл бұрын
I have never used tinder not even once.
@jamesnesran2348
2 жыл бұрын
it actively hides your profile unless you pay. get the hell off tinder
@caterinadelgalles8783
2 жыл бұрын
I have never even looked at it online.
@asianpower3000
Жыл бұрын
Tinder use to have a pretty cool feature that was kinda secret, for some reason, where you would be anonymously connected to someone for a quick chat. Afterwards the two people would get a chance to match or not, if so you would get to see their profile.
@Kevin-jb2pv
3 жыл бұрын
No, guys, it's great that one company controls 90% of all matchmaking services. It's not like they're financially motivated to not find you a partner that would permanently remove you from their target market.
@Rooftopaccessorizer
3 жыл бұрын
Yet again the values of capitalism shoot the consumer in the face
@thewanderingbee3865
2 жыл бұрын
Right!? And they hit every demographic. While people are segregating themselves these companies are profiting
@stevencraeynest7729
2 жыл бұрын
@genuine guy what are you even talking about? "have the courage to go up and talk to someone in person" I have no problem asking a girl out, but how many single women do you meet a year? Me, not a lot, so if I don't go to a dating app, finding someone is pretty much impossible. I do completely agree with you on everything else though, but I just don't see much alternative to dating apps
@PenguinLord10
2 жыл бұрын
@genuine guy Sorry, I can't take anything you're saying seriously. Have you actually read what you're writing? You sound like a walking, talking, encyclopedia entry for "incel".
@chainsofgames
2 жыл бұрын
@genuine guy You’ve been single for years but you think you can tell people they’re going to be unhappy in relationships over something as silly as using an app.
@cashnelson2306
3 жыл бұрын
I literally never knew tinder made sounds lol, my phone has been muted for 10 years
@SEELE-ONE
3 жыл бұрын
*Mute off* The other devices: he can talk! He can talk! The cell: I can siiiing🎶
@RichardPetron
3 жыл бұрын
Same lmao
@KevinScandinavia
3 жыл бұрын
@@SEELE-ONE Ooh! Help me Dr. iPhone!
@ghostridersinthesky21
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder works for guys who are either unbelievably gorgeous AND can work a camera, or for guys who have incredibly low standards for females and wouldnt mind dating overweight ones. Anyone else who gets some matches but they are mostly with overweight people? Or just me?
@alanherrera5421
3 жыл бұрын
same lol
@Marshmellow3971
2 жыл бұрын
Tinder actually sounds like something out of Black Mirror. A massive corporation has put dating behind a pay wall, and is actively profiting off of people’s loneliness, destroying average looking people’s self esteem and unjustly inflating the egos of attractive people.
@dusanradojkovic8190
Жыл бұрын
It's not that simple. Even some conventionally nicer looking guys get bullshit on these apps. It's all dependent on the algorithm and your photos. A lot of times it doesn't even make sense. For instance, with me, I've gotten some photos that get decent to good scores on Photofeeler (with lots of Yes's for Attractiveness, even by higher standards women), but still my match rate has never really changed. I occasionally get some quite attractive women, but the match rate's never gotten better. It's just quite rigged against you, for the large part. If you're going to virtually never show someone's profile on the card deck because it apparently didn't immediately pop off, what hope do they ever have of getting further unless they maybe fully reset their account with professional photos from a photographer who charges $2000? Ridiculous.
@himynameis3664
Жыл бұрын
Women's expectations have gone crazy as a result of this too. Every man needs to be over 6 ft and earn a small fortune. Even very average women expect this. The double standards are ridiculous. A woman can turn you down over your height, a quality you can't control. But you're a misogynist if you ask their weight? Something they can 100% control
@DavidePassarello
10 ай бұрын
@@himynameis3664see that’s the problem right there. There is a 9 to 1 ratio plus you get picky? Some meat on those bones never hurt anybody if sex is all you’re looking for.
@arthas640
10 ай бұрын
@@himynameis3664 reminds me of a study once done where men rating the appearances of pictures of men were all right about what you'd expect but with women rating men something like 80-90% were rated as "below average" meaning you've got to be more attractive then 4 out of 5 men just to at least be average.
@jackfrane5699
9 ай бұрын
I thought it couldn’t be as bad as a black mirror type social score episode but nope they have desirability ratings for everyone we’re just not allowed to see them
@simonaspalovis1204
3 жыл бұрын
When you think about it, why would Tinder want you to find a partner and make you finally delete the app? They'd just lose you as a customer and that's bad for business.
@cyrilbollen3036
3 жыл бұрын
Well... fuck.. you’re right, I wondered so often, why does the algorithm not show you the 4 likes (it says) it has?
@POTUSOA
3 жыл бұрын
So true. 👌🏼
@aidoll3692
3 жыл бұрын
It is a company after all. Money is always put before over wellbeing
@wojocolebuilds
3 жыл бұрын
that's why it's not worth taking seriously. do it for shits and giggles. if it works out every so often then congrats!
@9tailjeza
3 жыл бұрын
not necessarily, if you successfully get hot dates or hookups, you’d keep using
@danyosuna7276
3 жыл бұрын
Paying for tinder is like investing in lootboxes but the boxs have to like you back
@TheDarkestMarcus
3 жыл бұрын
Ouch.
@mammi7699
3 жыл бұрын
LOL and the ratio they like you back is hidden from you...
@Nphen
3 жыл бұрын
Such a good metaphor. Way underrated comment at 50 likes!
@unitynofear7758
3 жыл бұрын
And your lvl has to be high enough in various stats. APP, TXT, GAM, and sometimes FIN.
@danyosuna7276
3 жыл бұрын
@@unitynofear7758 whats that wtf
@kobraunit
4 жыл бұрын
I was watching this video and my brother heard the matching sound, and asked me wtf I’m doing on tinder to get so many matches.
@OrdinaryThings
4 жыл бұрын
lol that's amazing
@DsiakMondala
3 жыл бұрын
Postei o tamanho do *meninão*
@ellisjackson3355
3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@cavalierliberty6838
3 жыл бұрын
Wait, that is the sound of a tinder match?
@MisterPyOne
3 жыл бұрын
@@cavalierliberty6838 just now know it has a sound
@wyattkerper2024
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly online dating has been the worst thing that ever happened to my mental health and I can't tell if this makes me feel better or worse
@jimmys1558
6 ай бұрын
basicly this. got into a despression, was forced to try a psychologist (female), she said to me, 'maby you should try online dating'. well i ranted a bit to her after that why that was awful advice and never returned lmao.
@jckorn9148
3 жыл бұрын
I met my wife through a friend, like some psycho.
@RsRj-qd2cg
3 жыл бұрын
Best way to meet imo. I never used Tinder. I always go through friends.
@lukekneubuehl3109
3 жыл бұрын
Must be nice, most of the friends of friends have crippling self confidence or unresolved issues they won’t ever bother to fix as they don’t see it as one. It’s tough to find a level headed person who isn’t looking for a person to fix em
@jonplaud
3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, I met my fiancée through Facebook. That's like mass murderer status.
@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986
3 жыл бұрын
Imagine meeting people and seeing friends in 2020
@jonplaud
3 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanandrew2909 well, she told me she had strong feelings for me after our first date so yeah!
@Carvetorix
3 жыл бұрын
All those guys who showed up to the group date should of looked each other in the eyes, said fuck this and went and got a beer
@nigelwest5776
3 жыл бұрын
A lot of them did
@terrifictomm
3 жыл бұрын
Those that stayed are just tooooo thirsty!
@debasishraychawdhuri
3 жыл бұрын
I still don't understand why they started doing pushups. I guess they must be good at it, and I guess doing push-ups kills your brain cells.
@terrifictomm
3 жыл бұрын
@@debasishraychawdhuri As I’ve long suspected.
@bretroberts950
3 жыл бұрын
That would have been my reaction! I would have just turned to the guy next to me and said "Hey bro, wanna go grab a beer? I'll buy the first round."
@cassetterescue2692
3 жыл бұрын
when dating is behind a paywall, you know you've reached peak consoomerism
@steffidoc
3 жыл бұрын
It’s sad to think, that some people can’t “afford” to find a partner. On the other hand, money has always played a part in finding a partner. If you were a poor man a hundred years ago and wanted to marry, the girls’ parents would probably have disagreed.
@MrScrofulous
3 жыл бұрын
Dating has always been behind a paywall. My daughter will cost you 25 goats.
@yusafmalik5171
3 жыл бұрын
@@MrScrofulous you drive a hard bargain, how about two camels? And a free lambo from my collection 😂
@MrScrofulous
3 жыл бұрын
@@yusafmalik5171 Are they pretty camels ?
@RandomHandle837
3 жыл бұрын
@@MrScrofulous my camels are better than his I guarantee
@brendanressler4359
2 жыл бұрын
As a bisexual, I match with like 5% of the women I swipe on, but like 90% of the men
@colehartel7206
2 жыл бұрын
The men must be raising your secret desirability score if you're allowed to get as high as 5% success with women.
@bigdaddyslick4961
2 жыл бұрын
@@colehartel7206 that's actually a great point. If the algorithm doesn't discriminate between likes from men and women, then getting a million swipes from gay guys you have no intention of ever meeting would be a massive boost, boosting your score with women as well.
@falseprophet4927
Жыл бұрын
sounds kinda annoying. but least you can talk to some guys? longs as theyre not toxic.
@wesleyjones4036
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, the difference between grindr and tinder is night and day
@realworldmath4639
Жыл бұрын
Most women don't look for other women as long-term mates
@eetfuk4664
4 жыл бұрын
i knew dudes was outnumbering women on dating sites but holy shit
@jayeisenhardt1337
3 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised it's not as high as I thought. Still gonna be doing 99.9% of the work, but sometimes it's just easy.
@VeryProPlayerYesSir1122
3 жыл бұрын
@@jayeisenhardt1337 when dudes date, it's like applying for a high-paying job. when girls date, it's like shopping.
@davidgreen5994
3 жыл бұрын
@@jayeisenhardt1337 Is not all that complicated, if you don't have absurd standards for your level.
@Kaptnkey
3 жыл бұрын
@@davidgreen5994 well when it’s specifically based on your looks guys will definitely want the hottest girl, we all love batting out of our league and the “challenge”
@Kain652
3 жыл бұрын
@Kaptn Key: Speak for yourself. I would be content with a completely average or even below average woman who's either a virgin or just had one partner in the past. She just needs to have a good character. Sadly, that is impossible in this day and age.
@Quzix42
3 жыл бұрын
So basically, Tinder turned dating into the world's saddest gacha game.
@somechinesedude5466
3 жыл бұрын
At least gacha game lets you keep your catches Tinder though, your catch will catch you to prison, potentially
@BillClinton228
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know what gacha game is but I do know one thing... 84% of men don't stand a chance on these dating apps. OKCupid published a study on this a couple of years ago and they found that women saw 84% of men on these apps as "unattractive"... not average, not even above average, just straight up ugly. Think about that.
@IPODsify
3 жыл бұрын
You're guaranteed to get SOMETHING from gacha rolls
@jamesvanitas
3 жыл бұрын
@@IPODsify Depends on which one you play
@blacklightredlight2945
3 жыл бұрын
@@BillClinton228 I mean, most guys are ugly. But the real reason I don't swipe right on 90% of the profiles is that they don't fill out a bio, or the bio is passive aggressive and whiny. Or worse, they stole someone else's joke and put it in there.
@northcliffe4lyfe
3 жыл бұрын
One of the guys who invented an app for random hook-ups got done for sexual harassment? I am shocked
@markonaatanen7841
3 жыл бұрын
TWO guys...
@Aldo-lq8fd
3 жыл бұрын
I will agree that it's a peculiar case, but I don't think it's fair to jump to that conclusion. People wanna bang. Human nature. Sometimes they don't want the emotional aspect or the responsibility of a relationship. Is it really that bad of a thing? If both people are consenting and on the same page, I don't think there's a problem with hookups. Sexual harassment, on the other hand...
@dog_curry
3 жыл бұрын
@@Aldo-lq8fd you have no basis to say that sexual harassment is wrong either.
@devinnix9071
2 жыл бұрын
@@dog_curry you high?
@thewanderingbee3865
2 жыл бұрын
And this guy puts a hat on him when he said it..like was that supposed to make him look like a “G” for sexual harassment..I personally found that strange. Also, less men are getting matched because there are less women than men on the app🤦♀️ it’s not discrimination, it’s supply and demand. If you want to see real male discrimination go check out the modeling industry and the live streaming industry.
@mjasz4341
2 жыл бұрын
Uninstalled tinder and bumble a couple months ago and literally haven't been on a single date since, really is the only game in town. Even when you do "go out" and be in public like boomers suggest it's still impossible to meet new people because everyone in our generation is completely unapproachable, not necessarily through any fault of their own either but makes it impossible to meet new people any other way. Caveat: unless you're in college
@ajdegemma4409
2 жыл бұрын
Join a class for anything. Like pottery class.. You will meet bunch of people..
@technounionrepresentative4274
2 жыл бұрын
@@ajdegemma4409 oh. So pottery classes aren't ridiculously useless after all
@ajdegemma4409
2 жыл бұрын
@@technounionrepresentative4274 not at all, you will meet new circle of people, some of them might become your friends after that, some might be something more. Just be open, don't be a creep or something, if you meet a girl that you like, ask her to grab something to eat or coffee after break, all you have to be is friendly..
@stevencraeynest7729
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly And I totally wish I had done some college studies that isn't 99% men
@stevencraeynest7729
2 жыл бұрын
@@ajdegemma4409 uh, no, you'll meet about 10-20 old people, and about 3 women your age, of which 2 or all 3 are in a relationship. And that's per year. So not a great way, no
@Rob-go6hv
3 жыл бұрын
"If you've ever used Tinder, then this sound probably does something for you." 2 years, never heard the sound once.
@Albus_Rex
3 жыл бұрын
Many such cases...
@houghwhite411
3 жыл бұрын
You muted your phone
@melissa-5670
3 жыл бұрын
@@houghwhite411 good answer
@novacaesar9303
3 жыл бұрын
Oh honey no 😭😔
@KashNoK
3 жыл бұрын
feels bad man, hope it gets better!
@smiley_1000
3 жыл бұрын
Everybody Gangsta until Internet Historian Stock Photos start talking
@sirawesomenessi1796
3 жыл бұрын
It's weird seeing who's a stock photo or who's a KZitemr
@smiley_1000
3 жыл бұрын
@Gustavo M. No, I called Ordinary Things a Stock Photo.
@creeperizak8971
3 жыл бұрын
@Gustavo M. that guy was dubbed "hide the pain Harold" or something like that, right?
@PasserMontanus
3 жыл бұрын
Internet Historian himself uses 4chan jokes and image macroes.
@Th3Kingism
3 жыл бұрын
What if we're all just stock photos created by Internet Historian?
@tomoyboy
3 жыл бұрын
I got banned from Tinder for "being inactive" despite using it pretty regularly. I was deadass banned because no one liked me 🤣
@sawedoffshottyshane9637
3 жыл бұрын
That’s sick 😂
@mr.cauliflower3536
3 жыл бұрын
Oof
@mr.cauliflower3536
3 жыл бұрын
@ocelot. Well I'm laughing about bring loser too
@CookieKiLLerxD
3 жыл бұрын
This was a sign that you're to good for a dating app. I was never on one because I doubt I'd have a chance but this video is pretty much a wake-up call how garbage they really are.
@LaplacianFourier
3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@timjackson3954
2 жыл бұрын
You know, back in the day, before the internet, when the world was new and all, there was "Dateline Computer Dating". You filled out a questionnaire, mailed it in with a modest fee, and back came a printout of half a dozen names and addresses. The great thing about that was, you actually got dates. Even if most of them went nowhere, at least you got some social contact.
@koboldparty4708
Жыл бұрын
Wait, it actually gave you their physical street addresses? That seems...naive.
@timjackson3954
Жыл бұрын
@@koboldparty4708 Usually, yes. I think you could specify phone number only, if you wanted, but what else could you give? There was no internet or anything back then, and not everyone even had phones. They did have you fill in some sort of rudimentary psychological test questionnaire before accepting you. You introduced yourself to potential dates by letter or by phone call.
@weebsquit347
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder Minimum Required Specs: - Be male - Be female Tinder recommended specs: - Be female
@RedrumZombies
3 жыл бұрын
lol
@56ur4
3 жыл бұрын
Youre a man? Stop complaining when youre playing on last gen gender
@MegaRafaelloco
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder recommended specs: Be a female. Be a Gigachad (e.g. 6’2”+male with good facial physiognomy
@osl5686
3 жыл бұрын
I'm Bi Trans Psycho & Hot. I win.
@anthonypapiccio2045
3 жыл бұрын
@@56ur4 Only people who can't get laid normally have these views
@Emma-py2mu
3 жыл бұрын
My sister got a boyfriend on tinder last week. We found out he is married with a baby
@defaultuser6291
3 жыл бұрын
That guy won the game then!!
@MustacheDLuffy
3 жыл бұрын
Congrats lol
@GIboy1990
3 жыл бұрын
69 likes. Nice...
@persephone8960
3 жыл бұрын
Theres no one genuine on a dating app
@magnustruesdale6291
3 жыл бұрын
I thought marrying babies was illegal?
@plutodagon2385
3 жыл бұрын
If you want to keep your self esteem, sanity, money, and dignity, stay the fuck away from tinder or any other dating app.
@kerstinhoffmann2343
Жыл бұрын
I only have half of these two begin with
@sultanaljuhani1571
Жыл бұрын
@@kerstinhoffmann2343 hahaha too much honesty mi amigo
@Sir_Bucket
Жыл бұрын
Or you can just realise what it is, and still use it without paying
@yuriishynkarenko3325
Жыл бұрын
100% true
@beetle149
Жыл бұрын
Found the incel!
@igorlukyan206
3 жыл бұрын
I met my wife by walking up to her, like the insane lunatic donut that I am.
@persephone8960
3 жыл бұрын
I want my future husband to do that
@BruceLeroyUK
3 жыл бұрын
ilsa valencia ok
@Elder74
3 жыл бұрын
@@persephone8960 mr T is coming for you.
@persephone8960
3 жыл бұрын
@@Elder74 That's cat calling and illegal. This convo thread is a farce.
@Elder74
3 жыл бұрын
@@persephone8960 isn't cat calling something someone does in real life?
@shaan702
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder is pay to win?! I guess that doesn’t surprise me.
@exLightningg
3 жыл бұрын
Life is pay to win...
@enoholoman7518
3 жыл бұрын
just like normal dating lol
@igrnge2883
3 жыл бұрын
Nobody tell EA
@АлексейГриднев-и7р
3 жыл бұрын
No. More like you pay and you keep losing.
@alfatejpblind6498
3 жыл бұрын
It’s a casino preying on the deepest human instincts. The only way you could up this shit is a death lottery or something lmao
@glenndiddy
3 жыл бұрын
Wait tinder is supposed to be 0.06% match rate for men? That actually makes me feel good about myself
@house2869
3 жыл бұрын
Chances are rising
@artificerdrachen6908
3 жыл бұрын
@@house2869 You sure about that? The better the success rate, the less money tinder gets since those men won't be repeat customers.
@cameronspence4977
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I know right? I used to get like 4-12 ish matches a day, that was a couple years ago though now maybe its different
@M0viLover
3 жыл бұрын
It was 0.6 out of a 100 - so you added an extra 0. ("At best" - it would round up to ONE match per 100 / day.)
@cameronspence4977
3 жыл бұрын
@@loth4015 what is looksmax
@weareallbornmad410
2 жыл бұрын
Tinder's most recent attempt to guilt me back into their app: "Hope dies last. We still believe in your soul." Seriously?
@taoflo8015
2 жыл бұрын
I believe in u too
@weareallbornmad410
2 жыл бұрын
@@taoflo8015 Well that's sweet. Thank you :) I shall believe on you back
@taoflo8015
2 жыл бұрын
@@weareallbornmad410 respect my G
@dijital4801
Ай бұрын
Thats why they want you to sell it to them to access their next tier of subscription
@AlexParkYT
3 жыл бұрын
The future looks lonely and boring. No wonder everyone is depressed.
@lost4468yt
3 жыл бұрын
Don't use Tinder? No one is making you or even pressuring you to...
@billklatsch5058
3 жыл бұрын
@@lost4468yt Thousands and thousands of others will do and get potentially damaged by it because it changes the way people look at other people. It changes society, since the upcoming of "social media" the number of young people feeling lonely has exploded. Yes nobody was forced to use it but still only very very few people saw this coming and nobody cared about their opinion ironically because they were never on facebook...
@Nate-bn5kk
3 жыл бұрын
@@lost4468yt there is a certain level of media brainwashing, example: here on youtube, they bombard you with tictok ads. Most people have mindlessly downloaded that cancer and are scrolling through pointless videos right now...
@lost4468yt
3 жыл бұрын
@@billklatsch5058 "it changes the way people look at other people" - Do you have any evidence of this? Because I seriously doubt it changes how people look at other people outside of the app. >"It changes society, since the upcoming of "social media" the number of young people feeling lonely has exploded." Now you've moved from Tinder to social media in general, that's a huge jump to make. I wouldn't say Tinder reflects other social media sites in anyway at all. And also how do you know it's social media that is causing loneliness? How do you know it's not being caused by other sources? How do you know loneliness just isn't reported more due to it being more accepted? "Yes nobody was forced to use it but still only very very few people saw this coming and nobody cared about their opinion ironically because they were never on facebook... " Ok so what are you suggesting? We regulate social media because it makes some people feel lonely? Even if it does make people lonely, why does that call for regulating it? What sort of ridiculous over the top nanny state idea is that? If people are feeling lonely because of social media then that's a problem with them.
@nicholasbrassard3512
3 жыл бұрын
And it will only get worse in time
@theflyingdonkeypunch
3 жыл бұрын
As someone who never had a problem meeting women at uni, I thought using Tinder would be quite easy, and it turns out I never have any success. It's nice to see that although I'm not the most attractive man ever, at least I can cling onto the fact that the cards are stacked against me! But seriously, whenever you read articles about how much tinder sucks, it's always trendy, attractive, urban women moaning about the shit men they meet. It's never about the men who feel completely worthless and isolated by the experience of using the app. This video is what was needed
@mylesgray3470
3 жыл бұрын
Yep, and the reason women are so disappointed in the guys they meet is because they are all dating that top 10% guy (in terms of appearance) who has his calendar booked with planned 1 night stands while the average and just above average Joe’s are home alone swiping and hoping for a serious relationship.
@Thane3999
3 жыл бұрын
@@mylesgray3470 No, they are not. The article you are reffering to literally disproves this very statement, as women while being more attracted to 20% (because lets face it, only about third of straight guys are actually good looking), but commonly message guys that they rate average or bellow. Its so funny that straight men think that women only go for top of the cream, when literally every other group (straight women, gay people, lesbian, bisexuals etc.) think that straight women have no standarts, and would date a monkey if it listened to their stories after work.
@Thane3999
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe men should actually work on themselves. If you aint shit bro, nobody wants you.
@mylesgray3470
3 жыл бұрын
@@Thane3999 Dating apps are all about appearance. If a guy isn’t above average looking and above average height, it will literally take months to get a date. Women on the other hand can get a date hours, even if they are way bellow average in appearance. How is this possible? Because a minority of guys are going out with the majority of the girls. On average, 100% of women are mothers have a child and 50% of men are fathers. More math to consider.
@Guarrow
3 жыл бұрын
@@Thane3999 Too bad straight women and gay people aren't those who actually date straight women then Just talk to a guy who « listened to their stories after work » and he'll tell you about what we call « the friendzone » It's just too easy to say that « it's just that men aren't good enough », that's actually really, really stupid
@ohno3622
3 жыл бұрын
Used Tinder for a couple years. Couldn’t meet anyone that great. Went to church. Met my girlfriend (she played guitar and sung during mass). Lost my virginity. Realized I’m into BSDM. Life is good.
@MustacheDLuffy
3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@BogdanSerban
3 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah, good for you man!!
@Strawberriezrule13
3 жыл бұрын
That didn't go in the direction I expected. But good for you
@mdalabs
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds great man. In years of tinder I have never met anyone.
@stephenlee3406
3 жыл бұрын
You sir hit the jackpot. Hopefully one day I too will find a nice girl who can play guitar. I dream of a day I can go from a guitar solo to a guitar duet.
@rexaxis3450
Жыл бұрын
I met my wife of over ten years now on an MMO, I was paying to win before it was cool! But on a serious note, I think apps like this are poisoning the current generations, I met my wife and got to know her for almost two years before we even started dating, organically meeting people and connecting with them will lead to lasting and fulfilling relationships, I feel tinder dehumanizes the process of meeting and actually connecting to someone, which ofcourse it does, it's a marketing device foremost.
@victorkreig6089
Жыл бұрын
MMOs have made more happy marriages since I started playing them all the way back in 2002 than any dating app I have ever heard of
@cerealkiller7143
3 жыл бұрын
The pre-match messaging feature is a blessing in disguise. When a girl receives a message from someone she is not matched with, she knows this guy is a weirdo for buying "platinum tinder" and, hopefully, steers clear.
@Badbufon
3 жыл бұрын
idk, maybe it's just your name man
@fexbio
3 жыл бұрын
Some things are just logical when you stop to think about it, aren't they? In an app designed (at least in theory) to match people by mutual attraction, an unsolicited message from a non-match profile is the online equivalent to stalking. You might as well send her a dick pic.
@catscats4427
3 жыл бұрын
Yup, that's exactly what I did to each guy that sent me a swipe note 😬😂
@cerealkiller7143
3 жыл бұрын
@Donovan Piko You are raising an interesting point, however there is nothing to prevent a person from having contact with other people, including those of the opposite gender and that is coming from someone who has struggled to talk to girls, in the past. Social skills is something that you work on and develop throughout your life. If you are talking about dating/hookups culture, it is nothing of value and i find it damaging to the values a society should stand for.
@YoshiandSarah
3 жыл бұрын
@cereal killer hackers good movie
@spitboi7
3 жыл бұрын
Gonna be honest I always keep my phone muted and after 8 years I had no idea that there was a sound that tinder played when you matched....
@tomasgoes
3 жыл бұрын
Same to be honest.
@MustacheDLuffy
3 жыл бұрын
I had no idea either lol
@straef1042
3 жыл бұрын
Same xD
@BonktoHead
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@judithkimball2125
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder: “Where you’ll find the prime suspect to your own murder.”
@artificerdrachen6908
3 жыл бұрын
I thought about that too when some weird ass chick wanted to invite me over to watch a horror movie at her apartment, at 11pm, when we haven't even talked in person yet...
@Jonas-xl4wg
3 жыл бұрын
@@artificerdrachen6908 shit where do i find those chicks? sounds interesting lol
@artificerdrachen6908
3 жыл бұрын
@@Jonas-xl4wg They were probably a degenerate guy masquerading as a woman most likely.
@Jonas-xl4wg
3 жыл бұрын
@@artificerdrachen6908 nah bro it’s legit profiles
@Sarablueunicorn
3 жыл бұрын
@@Jonas-xl4wg And their male friends are playing with it.
@FrederickObando
3 жыл бұрын
So basically the male sex-drive being exploited to the absolute max. Awesome.
@checkillo
3 жыл бұрын
That Vietnamese Dong joke was exquisite.
@quang9317
3 жыл бұрын
As a Vietnamese, I can't even argue with that 🤣🤣🤣
@namlehai2737
2 жыл бұрын
:
@eCKsplorer
2 жыл бұрын
TRUTH
@TheCharlCoal
2 жыл бұрын
I would say it was from a Dolar compared to a Turkish Lira.No, seriously!
@danieleccleston7928
3 жыл бұрын
So basically Tinder system requirements: Be a woman
@FARTSMELLERX
3 жыл бұрын
Having a box is basically all you need, trust me.
@FARTSMELLERX
3 жыл бұрын
@Estrogen Fury oh
@Lukas-qm8sr
3 жыл бұрын
But don’t be a trans woman, or someone will report your profile and you will be banned
@thelord5895
3 жыл бұрын
@Estrogen Fury Don't know what Timder you've seen. No matter the shape of the girls body they get 100s of matches minimum.
@Albus_Rex
3 жыл бұрын
@Estrogen Fury From the perspective of supply and demand.
@ethansadhoursatpepes2882
3 жыл бұрын
isn't spending money on dating sites like buying winrar?
@new_donker7189
3 жыл бұрын
Nay. When you pay for WinRar you're supporting something that's actually useful.
@varkonyitibor4409
3 жыл бұрын
Nah Winrar will be loyal to you in your whole life
@carlitonoid1117
3 жыл бұрын
Even paying for porn is a better investment than Tinder at this point and that's a low fucking point
@ethansadhoursatpepes2882
3 жыл бұрын
@@carlitonoid1117 tinder aint that bad bro
@g0tst1ngs
3 жыл бұрын
Did you not watch the video? Anyone can benefit from the free version of winrar but not everyone can benefit from the free version of tinder. It's rigged so that you have to pay in order to have a successful experience, and even then it's not guaranteed.
@MetalMachine131
Жыл бұрын
No thanks, I'll just die alone.
@behindyou529
3 жыл бұрын
The only person i ever got to talk to on tinder was a girl who recognized me from highschool and just messaged me to make fun of my cuffed jeans before unmatching
@lagartijamuerta
3 жыл бұрын
that's so pathetic of her lol
@lmao2302
3 жыл бұрын
lmao
@SonNalrro
3 жыл бұрын
I had a girl I used to go to school with message me like “oooh you glowed up” and I’m like ok? are you gonna give up that box or not lol
@layla6774
3 жыл бұрын
@@SonNalrro bit sad that she complimented you and that's all you say
@SonNalrro
3 жыл бұрын
@@layla6774 i was jus kidding
@trumpetperson11
3 жыл бұрын
This is honestly, just really depressing.
@DanteLikesRock
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i wonder how the dating scenes gonna be 20-30 years from now...↘️
@gglreallysucks5512
3 жыл бұрын
Yup. Kill me
@christianmoore7109
3 жыл бұрын
just like using tinder as a guy.
@Brickinasock
3 жыл бұрын
I feel ya mon
@aSmallGreenDot
3 жыл бұрын
I don't even bother using it
@malachiroberts6198
3 жыл бұрын
That's why I use Grindr, men aren't discriminated against there.
@alexanderfretheim5720
3 жыл бұрын
I use Grindr to find materials for my artisanal sausage that I sell at the Farmers Market!
@diemony0
3 жыл бұрын
Well did you find your match already?
@GordonSlamsay
3 жыл бұрын
I use Grindr cause I'm a big fan of the "glizzy twist special" I get from there Darren! Why are you ghosting me?!
@flowerofash4439
3 жыл бұрын
@Jackerson Roze you can't hide your gayness
@mikitz
3 жыл бұрын
@Framework333 Looks like Tinder is 90% Grindr by volume.
@myotiswii
2 жыл бұрын
I am both open to guys and girls on tinder (as a guy). While I matched with 133 guys, I only got 1 Woman during that time. Yes, one. Its not like I look stereotypically gay either. Straight dating on tinder is a joke as a guy. And it makes sense. As a guy you swipe right most of them and girls can be extremely choosy and are very rare on the platform. The odds are just stacked against you.
@Winasaurus
Жыл бұрын
When you're a girl and know that basically every guy is swiping right on you, it's easy to be super picky. It's why a lot of women now have ridiculous dating standards and are struggling to find a guy to settle down with.
@kyleic6570
3 жыл бұрын
About 8% of those girls on Tinder in the UK are only on it to plug their IG handle 😂 Edit: Yeah I meant 80% but I think people knew what I meant lol
@PandemoniumMeltDown
3 жыл бұрын
lol, a public relation thing? Awesome!
@jamesnincross
3 жыл бұрын
Make that 50%
@obiwanfisher537
3 жыл бұрын
Make that 74%! Jesus. You go to tinder, you see a nice profile and it says "barely on here message me on IG". And the worst part about it is; it probably works... If I dont play tinder for some time I dont get any likes at all, but as a woman I bet she can just leave it running without ever popping in again. Tada, she grows her IG network with thirsty guys. (And women love thirsty guys because they give her all she needs)
@chrisGalvis
3 жыл бұрын
@@obiwanfisher537 lmao so true
@kyleic6570
3 жыл бұрын
@@obiwanfisher537 I asked a woman on there once if guys actually add her on IG and she said they do 😂🥴
@MrGnuh
3 жыл бұрын
it's absolutely disgusting how loneliness is turned into a business and those sick fuxx profit off of the lonely people who honestly and openly need presence and a sense of belonging in their lifes. the money religion just ruins everything...
@bathingtiger4925
3 жыл бұрын
Capitalism, get over it now
@tiddyfard4517
3 жыл бұрын
@@bathingtiger4925 you're right they should really regulate how profits are made on dating apps, great idea
@Peacht4n
3 жыл бұрын
Wait until you hear about what the porn industry does to men
@spencechan
3 жыл бұрын
There are multiple other ways to meet people (you realize that none of your ancestors had access to Tinder). Tinder is a shortcut, and you pay for the convenience.
@tiddyfard4517
3 жыл бұрын
@@spencechan I mean yeah it's true, but you heavily limiting your potential partners by only interacting with people you run into in real life.
@thalia5382
3 жыл бұрын
It’s the Gentleman Pirate 🏴☠️
@OrdinaryThings
3 жыл бұрын
yarrr
@phoebeaurum7113
3 жыл бұрын
Oh it is him! I didn't even know!
@hachipanki8634
3 жыл бұрын
This is him after the epic ending, now Stede Bonnet is a great KZitemr. Wait what's that? SteeeeeeEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE-
@Demadragon
3 жыл бұрын
Thank god you said it! I watched like 3 vids atm and thought to myself why the hell I know this guy if I never watched any of his vids.
@nanaa9074
3 жыл бұрын
Suck a fucking masterpiece
@dangeren904
2 жыл бұрын
Ohh and the worst thing that happened to me was when I matched with a girl. We talked for some days, and she said she was not where I was living, but kept talking with me. In the end I found out she was a scammer, but it was a well prepared scam. She sent me pictures and videos of herself, she sent me voicenotes responding to things we were talking about. I blocked her and reported the profile but I felt devastated that the only match was a lie.
@user-kp2hb5yr3g
4 жыл бұрын
why does this guy look like hes on a deepfake vid...anyone get that uncanny valley vibe lol. good vid
@OrdinaryThings
4 жыл бұрын
lol. thanks dude 🤖
@alexeysaranchev6118
3 жыл бұрын
I think it's due to his facial muscles moving too independent from each other, while very vigorously. I think the more pleasant word would be 'an expressive face'.
@jimmykeffer7401
3 жыл бұрын
I uh... don’t see it at all
@VanessaScrillions
3 жыл бұрын
because he has a green screen behind him perhaps? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@JimboRustles
3 жыл бұрын
His mouth movements remind me of the annoying orange
@Blucrunch
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I use Tinder, completely unsuccessfully I might add. But I have never placed so much as a penny in their system, and that's a great, feel-good reward in exchange for my only matches being bots! *cries in pandemic*
@BarryMikokinju
3 жыл бұрын
Read my thoughts my man
@IPODsify
3 жыл бұрын
My only matches were men, or didn't even reply
@nubreed13
3 жыл бұрын
There was a good year that the only matches I had were bots or foreign scammers. Its kind of rage inducing that match owns most of these apps
@michaelangst6078
3 жыл бұрын
@@nubreed13 Must suck being ugly and have literally nothing going on in your life
@SassyTheSasquatch96
3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelangst6078 hey thats not true, i have drugs, and a gpu.
@PhlyDaily
4 жыл бұрын
I love your channel dude! Thanks for the uploads :) Always watch when I'm on lunch
@konstantinriumin2657
4 жыл бұрын
The Evil Economics of War Thunder coming next
@AirShark95
4 жыл бұрын
Oh shit is Phly!
@TheIronArmenianakaGIHaigs
4 жыл бұрын
Fancy seeing you here :D
@OrdinaryThings
4 жыл бұрын
ah thanks dude, that means a lot!
@Travoid
4 жыл бұрын
Of all people, Phly shows up. You've got as good of taste as I'd have expected.
@HBickford96
3 жыл бұрын
I met my boyfriend for the “first time” twice. Once at college for one single day, then again a year later after we ended up working together. No clue how it happened, but damn I’m so happy.
@mushypork2132
2 жыл бұрын
that's the stalking game played right
@StarboyXL9
2 жыл бұрын
@@mushypork2132 kek
@mihawk508
3 жыл бұрын
Literally nothing has damaged my self esteem more than Tinder. I’ve literally gone weeks or months in between matches and even then it’s highly unlikely that I’ll even get past the initial greeting before I get unmatched or ignored.
@PlaceboEllie
3 жыл бұрын
@Some Weeb I'm a woman and this has been my experience sometimes, but also I don't think Reggie is a woman's name
@Jadecatz
3 жыл бұрын
Same !
@darkslayer1161
3 жыл бұрын
I hope you found someone. I happened to get lucky and now I'm engaged and looking at ties that will go with my wedding tux.
@Dan1elAndrade
2 жыл бұрын
@@PlaceboEllie really? I've noticed this sometimes in some people's bios. I wonder why it happens, I think some men simply swipe right with everyone as a prefilter.
@CamJames
2 жыл бұрын
@@Dan1elAndrade some do, but it's psychopath behavior
@leejk3926
3 жыл бұрын
Captain Bonnet I greatly enjoyed this video and subscribed
@OrdinaryThings
3 жыл бұрын
welcome aboard
@thesaddestdude3575
3 жыл бұрын
@@OrdinaryThings Another great video. Did you know that with Ordinary Things platinum you can meet hot pirates in your area?
@kerred
4 жыл бұрын
Boy i learned more about dating apps in this video than anything else in the past decade. In 2008 typed "video games" and "simpsons" on a dating site and bam: met my wife Married 11 years now.
@ellis7622
4 жыл бұрын
congrats bro, glad it worked out for you.
@OrdinaryThings
4 жыл бұрын
dupe man. that's sick. Bonding over the Simpsons is always a concrete start to any relationship imo
@KoreaMojo
3 жыл бұрын
Seems like you were looking for mutual personality attraction. You were destined for success from the start. Congratulations and wish you many more!
@BMoney8600
3 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome man!
@johnhein2539
3 жыл бұрын
@@KoreaMojo Well it was a bit of an oversimplification joke. 95% of western men can and HAVE written the exact same thing and it would be just as true.
@F3udF1st
3 жыл бұрын
I don't regret my decision to never try tinder.
@Aw3someOpZ
3 жыл бұрын
I’m not going back. Back in 2016 ish, I could get consistent matches with Jane does and I am your average joe. Nowadays, I kept seeing my matches well dry up. Idk what changed. It’s gotten bad to the point that I don’t even match with the ugly ones.
@matheustran8009
3 жыл бұрын
I already feel like shit, don’t need an app to remind me
@hendrikdependrik1891
3 жыл бұрын
I tried Tinder and was done with it after three swipes. It didn't help someone was sitting next to me asking why I swiped left or right for like each photo like some secret agent.
@rickcarti
3 жыл бұрын
@@hendrikdependrik1891 maybe you shouldn’t be on certain apps around certain people 😂
@justalostlocal
3 жыл бұрын
Same, asked my friends if I should try. They're like: Nope. If you're looking for long term relationships it will destroy your self esteem and spat on it too.
@Jeremy-ql1or
2 жыл бұрын
Without Tinder I never would have known that 5'10" qualified as a "midget". Here I was thinking I was average height for a man. Because of Tinder, I now know that I am not even considered a man.
@brandoncastellano1858
Жыл бұрын
I’m 5 4. How do you think I feel? Lol. “If you’re not 6 0 you’re not an option”
@khalidalali186
Жыл бұрын
Lol, you’re awesome dude.
@rubennazario5769
Жыл бұрын
Jesus, Jeremy TC is 5'10" and 60 y/o, do you think he lacks a plethora of women to date ?
@louisliu5638
Жыл бұрын
@@brandoncastellano1858 the mean average height of a Canadian male in 1980 was 5 foot 7 inches. Now add in all the new arrivals the last four decades, and it's probably dropped an inch or more. 6.0 is LESS than 2% of the population.
@sierraa.bryant9322
Жыл бұрын
@@brandoncastellano1858 Fucking. 4'10. Stop thinking that women judge men only based on height.
@Puzzl3man
3 жыл бұрын
Man, someone finally said it. Tinder is such a flippin' evil company, man, but their monopoly on the market will keep many men alone, and maybe sad about all that and stuff.
@ultraatari9298
3 жыл бұрын
They're all like that. Actually I'd say many are worse Like I can legitimately say Isis is better than OkCupid.
@Mr_Boifriend
3 жыл бұрын
@@ultraatari9298 ✨ yea Amman people go into ISIS cause their lonely and the organization gives them some sense of community. OKC and tinder just make you feel like shit... ✨
@stevenmcguinness4751
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe those Men should try going out and meeting Women the same way we have for the 200,000 years before Smart Phones
@roychen5235
3 жыл бұрын
@@stevenmcguinness4751 arranged marriages?
@janpavel1441
3 жыл бұрын
@@stevenmcguinness4751 yeah we should introduce sharia law everywhere that'd be terrific
@ender7278
3 жыл бұрын
"We get more dopamine anticipating reward than actually getting it." So that's why my cat purrs before I serve her food.
@patrickcummins79
3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I did heroin. I suddenly realized i didnt need heroin to feel content.
@hangukhiphop
3 жыл бұрын
Not if you have ADHD 😀
@Whitejesselink
Жыл бұрын
My cat likes to sit in the sink if it's dripping water and drink the drips. 🤦🏼♂️ She is honestly so hilarious I can't handle it. Little Tay in the way
@midge_gender_solek3314
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder is 49% fake bot pages, 49% OnlyFans now
@CarlosFlores-pl3lb
3 жыл бұрын
I'm cool with the onlyfans part. I'd much rather people have that money than the corporate shills behind the whole operation.
@grimmixofficial9892
3 жыл бұрын
So you're telling me there's a 2% chance...
@TheTuta69
3 жыл бұрын
@@CarlosFlores-pl3lb SIMP
@bigbay1159
3 жыл бұрын
@@grimmixofficial9892 You sir are the reason, you may be the 0.1% of that 2% margin that might get laid...what's the fun in life if you don't play on hard mode?
@Cervontais
3 жыл бұрын
@@grimmixofficial9892 oh yea Samsonite
@Praisethesunson
9 ай бұрын
Tinder for men. Sending out a billion messages in a bottle for *maybe* one match. Tinder for women. Trying to find a diamond by having to sift through a high pressure sewer line.
@edwardhoffenheim3249
4 жыл бұрын
These apps seem to be slowly dying. The ratings for them keep dropping everytime I look in the store. Their models don't seem sustainable because men might be wising up and leaving them and bots are taking over
@jeanpaulgartier3404
3 жыл бұрын
God knows they've got some wising up to do
@BarryMikokinju
3 жыл бұрын
My mind's telling me no BUT MY BODY
@calebbirkhimer5110
3 жыл бұрын
Half of swipes are now bots, onlyfans accounts, premium snaps, it’s a hell hole lol
@thedevicebook
3 жыл бұрын
Women are wising up & leaving the apps too. Ask yourself why is the ratio so different for men vs women in the apps? Because the dating apps have become such an unpleasant place for women. Men's main complaint is lack of replies or matches. Whereas women get comments & matches from men that threaten us. It's a bad experience for all genders, but don't pretend women have it easy.
@VonGoldfinger
3 жыл бұрын
If you have the money: bet against Match.com
@lumbacon2133
3 жыл бұрын
I knew that modern Tinder was always a bit fishy, but after seeing this video... It's pretty safe to say that people who run Tinder have no souls and are just evil
@vksasdgaming9472
3 жыл бұрын
Well, they don't use their own product so they can make it as shitty as they like.
@fclp67
2 жыл бұрын
That's every corporation
@biharek7595
2 жыл бұрын
@@fclp67 that's what I wanted to write - those corporations wouldn't be where they are if people who work there actually had souls
@pacotaco1246
2 жыл бұрын
They are capitalists so yeah theyre evil
@jessicest
2 жыл бұрын
i don't understand this take. given that straight men outnumber straight women on the app, what are tinder supposed to do beyond providing men with ways to improve their rankings? it doesn't seem to be a problem that tinder (or any other dating app) can actually address
@SenorTucano
3 жыл бұрын
I was working in the middle of the Aussie outback and Yalgoo, the closest town was so small it didn’t even have a petrol (gas) station. I got a Tinder notification that there were over 500 women that matched my profile in Yalgoo. Hmmmm seems legit!
@essr4580
3 жыл бұрын
The women are very shy and stealthy out in the outback
@swilson5320
3 жыл бұрын
As one of the 500 sexy female singles within a 2000 mile radius Yalgoo- I’m holding it against you for swiping right
@hendrikdependrik1891
3 жыл бұрын
Apparently there are aboriginals nearby.
@alexanderfretheim5720
3 жыл бұрын
You could be the king of your own Aborigine tribe! Go for it, they need their chieftain!
@Leto2ndAtreides
3 жыл бұрын
Desperation for any normal guy? lol
@vylbird8014
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder exploits the problem of loneliness, and particularly that loneliness that stems from lack of a romantic partner. It exacerbates the problem, in order to manipulate people into parting with their money. But it does not create the problem. There are a lot of people who are single (yes, mostly men) and have little prospect of finding a partner for one reason or another, and society judges them harshly for it - the 'adult virgin' is a stock character in comedy, always depicted as a man who failed at being a man. This horde of desperately lonely men are easily to exploit for profit, but also create fertile ground for anger and resentment. That's how we ended up with the incel subculture.
@Sluppie
3 жыл бұрын
There are more women in the world than men, so for every single hetero man there is at least one corresponding single hetero woman. Women just aren't using tinder to find dates.
@donaldbaird7849
3 жыл бұрын
@@Sluppie what? no, we have slightly more men in the world, it's a 1.018 male/female ratio
@KoreaMojo
3 жыл бұрын
It's also a toxicity that drives that culture. Most incels are brain-cels whether they acknowledge that or not. A minority are unfortunate looking men with extenuating circumstances but most have dsyfunctional personalities and are not treated. They use alloplastic defenses to blame individuals rather than an isolating, alienating system that breeds discontent with the natural means of meeting natural drives in a healthy. All to propagate conspicuous consumption that imbues people with the illusion of being or having traits of the things they consume, including other people. If you do not or cannot become x, then appear to be x by associating with x or consuming x. People don't know true intimacy from a young age with families too busy trying to survive and being raised by advertising that say you can furnished love through...objects. So there has been a break down of community, as flawed as it can be and a void where natural emotional needs lay wasted. Also the thing of being shamed for having and expressing these needs, especially as a man. Where you are told the only safe emotions are anger and impassiveness. It's a cluster f-word. Women are highly emotionally dysfunctional too but compared to the repressed and shamed average men, they feel healthy. And the weirdest thing of all, most parents have done a kinder job of raising their children than their parents and so forth but that break down of community has left us with little support to brace ourselves against. Real love is somewhat a risk but it's the only investment worth the gamble because the pay off is so rich even if not idealistic. Much better than spending your resources on a human slot machine or a human buffet. Instead we should be growing are gardens and sharing our shade, if you are alone your still self-fulfilling and productive in the long-term not just at a wasted urge. Then when you find someone to share this personal garden with, you actually can, because you have internal resources you've been cultivating instead of junk you've collected from impulsivity, performative interaction and simulated intimacy.
@toomanymarys7355
3 жыл бұрын
@@donaldbaird7849 there are only more men in the world because of those countries that murder massive numbers of girls before and shortly after birth.
@vylbird8014
3 жыл бұрын
@@toomanymarys7355 The global ratio is around 101:100 - it's very close to even. Some countries are significantly more skewed though.
@lucabrandalesi1265
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder super like is like sliding in the DM's of a girl, but pricey
@mdalabs
3 жыл бұрын
except you don't
@lucabrandalesi1265
3 жыл бұрын
@@mdalabs what
@popodood
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like the super like makes you look like you are trying too hard (the guy being the one that super liked) I gotten like 1 or 2 matches from super likes... 1 girl super liked me once. Lol
@lucabrandalesi1265
3 жыл бұрын
@famous austrian painter i like that sing
@TheBurgerkrieg
4 жыл бұрын
This has quickly become one of my favourite channels. The research you do and the way you present it are both excellent.
@OrdinaryThings
4 жыл бұрын
ah thanks for saying so man! that means a lot
@octopusmime
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. The channel is like having a Look Around You spinoff. Great humour.
@Moonlightkitteh101
2 жыл бұрын
It's no surprise that many men use tinder to blindly swap right on every single match, and then only consider profiles later. As a gal I never feel flattered getting a match knowing it's so mechanical.
@xXTheBl4ckC4tXx
2 жыл бұрын
Those men it also hurts the most, just imagine swiping right non stop and not getting matched. I would never dare to install that app. I look like a 6/10 that is not good enough. So I stay away.
@arthas640
9 ай бұрын
@@xXTheBl4ckC4tXx the part that really sucks is these dating apps have actually impacted peoples ideas of what "average" even is, which skews opinions of attractiveness. A study on dating apps found that 80% of men are rated as appearing "below average" compared to 40% of women, and the women polled only rated less than 5% of men as attractive. It's the same with other areas of social media, the fitness community online has been dealing with spiraling toxic attitudes about physical fitness and attractiveness since sites like Tik Tok and instagram make it so that tons of people are all competing for attention meaning only the top 0.1% get much attention. Thats why there's been skyrocketing numbers of premature deaths among body builders in the last few years, even among people who live at the gym they're finding it impossible to keep up since social media keeps shifting peoples perception of what "fit" actually looks like. Even professional bodybuilders are finding it hard to keep up and are needing to get more bulk AND lower body fat percentages at the same time. Just look up the top bodybuilders of the silver age of body building (basically the 40s, 50s, 60s, and early 70s) like Steve Reeves vs many body builders on social media today: before Schwarzenegger Reeves was the gold standard of body building and today he'd be luckily to win state level body building contests rather then Mr Universe and Mr Olympia
@ketsuekimiyagawa7162
3 жыл бұрын
Who else has NEVER heard that matching noise? I didn't even know that was a thing lol
@forrestperkins6237
3 жыл бұрын
Me neither, furry
@PandemoniumMeltDown
3 жыл бұрын
Everyone is it's own sexual orientation and finds trills wherever they do find them. And "Where does the newborn goes from here? The net is vast and infinite" Bong!
@theogeronimo7664
3 жыл бұрын
Me neither cat fur
@Jonas-xl4wg
3 жыл бұрын
heard it 8 times today and i’m a male.. no clue what happened struggled getting matched for a few weeks then boom
@crocussaffie2680
3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t intentionally click on this video. The cat knocked my tablet down,as I caught it,it started playing. Eye-opening and hilarious!
@Angelshavemanyeyes
3 жыл бұрын
the universe is funny
@seiyuokamihimura5082
3 жыл бұрын
Suspiiiiiciouuuuuusss! Lol.
@xhappyponyxwasmyoldname1395
3 жыл бұрын
I love when accidental clicks turn out good
@Jonathonson
3 жыл бұрын
Idk if I can believe that.
@mohandasjung
3 жыл бұрын
Your cat is trying to send a mensage...
@TehCoza
3 жыл бұрын
Atm tinder is a nightmare.. they made the passport feature free and 19 out 20 girls are about 5000 miles away
@Happy_Shopper
3 жыл бұрын
Was interested for a bit until you realise that there's literally no chance of ever matching with any of them
@Pileot
2 жыл бұрын
I met my partner on Facebook dating... Was basically the only option I could find that wasn't owned by match group and didn't ask for money to "improve my chances". Plus SO MANY FEWER BOTS. I was able to actually match with real people, went on a few dates, and ended up finding a partner and we've been happy together for the last couple years. As far as those other dating apps go, they are pretty much a scam and I encourage everyone I know who's dating to stop using them.
@Scotty_Bo0m
10 ай бұрын
FB dating hasnt been out that long soo imma call you a liar...
@Pileot
10 ай бұрын
@@Scotty_Bo0m Believe me or don't but I met my partner on Facebook Dating four years ago this December. Maybe it just wasn't available in your country? I know for a while it was exclusive to the phone app, that could be why you missed it. Either way, we are engaged now so what do I care if you think I'm lying lol. Stay frosty.
@mangolollipop_
3 жыл бұрын
I love how you said that men outnumber women in dating apps, especially Grindr. That made me chuckle
@animeuniverse5586
3 жыл бұрын
umm.. that chuckle sounded pretty scary sorry for my rudeness
@hossdelgado626
2 жыл бұрын
@@animeuniverse5586 wait.. what?
@ChristianF15cher
2 жыл бұрын
Grindr is fantastic if you like m3th and @ids.
@the_representative
2 жыл бұрын
@@ChristianF15cher thanks Satan for that info
@ChristianF15cher
2 жыл бұрын
@@the_representative you’re welcome. It comes from personal experience. Grindr is a fool’s errand for dating.
@garrylove8955
3 жыл бұрын
This guy looks like one of the rich folk from the hungergames and honestly he's pulling it off lmfao
@nsfeliz7825
3 жыл бұрын
Dave Stuart. eurythmics
@Ash-fm6ym
3 жыл бұрын
Not really, He looks like a fuckin clown lmao
@joepopplewell680
3 жыл бұрын
@@Ash-fm6ym Glass houses mate.
@guilhermeshiba3135
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ash-fm6ym i hope this isnt a picture if you
@guilhermeshiba3135
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ash-fm6ym i hope this isnt a picture of you
@Colzline
3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear all this, just another good reason to not use dating apps. But knowing all those apps are owned by the same company makes it even more obvious that anything Tinder does is just going to be used on the other platforms as well. Glad to know the only real option is to get out there and talk face to face.
@Brascobadboy
2 жыл бұрын
Just go to strip clubs
@mrdingles5107
2 жыл бұрын
But how else can I find true love 😢!?!? Apparently it's creepy just going up to girls even though they are single.
@Colzline
2 жыл бұрын
@@mrdingles5107 Hah, dude are you serious or are you joking? True love doesn't exist, that's a storybook myth that's been spoon fed to us since childhood. Humans aren't perfect which means love is flawed as well. And guys approaching girls isn't that creepy as long as you say what you intend to say and not indirectly beating around the bush because you're nervous.
@resonancetides7196
2 жыл бұрын
@@mrdingles5107 I understand you, my friend. But at least try it time to time. I'm sure, you can do this, king.👍
@sierraa.bryant9322
Жыл бұрын
@@mrdingles5107 Stop seeing us as "girls" and start seeing us as PEOPLE
@draconiusultamius
2 жыл бұрын
I used tinder once for two hours. Made a profile named "catfish" and set it to be a young female who will date just about anyone. Was literally just for the memes, and I swiped right for everyone xD
@Michael-McCollum
2 жыл бұрын
How’d it go?
@biharek7595
2 жыл бұрын
@@Michael-McCollum exactly, I'd like to know
@stivenBermeo
2 жыл бұрын
I mean, some ppl would like to know how the match sound goes, so thank you for your service
@transee7912
3 жыл бұрын
He look like a man, women and a teenager at same time
@colekade5948
3 жыл бұрын
ah yes, the three genders.
@essr4580
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly my type
@AUTvillacherboyAUT
3 жыл бұрын
looking for this
@SalmanM190
3 жыл бұрын
His beard irritates me, it really needs to get trimmed or get it fixed
@pacoramon9468
3 жыл бұрын
The lesbian style.
@PencilSticks
3 жыл бұрын
I was excited to go to college because it would be a level social playing field and therefore be easier for me to make friends and get a girlfriend. Then the pandemic happened and all of my classes are online. Apps like Tinder and Bumble are the only chance I have now, and they’re rigged just like you described. I don’t know what to do.
@jappamogo
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, feel the same way. I think working on ourselves is the best course of action for the time being while we wait for better days.
@ninjacell2999
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly there's not much you can do atm, but joining some kind of club or activity group is probably your best shout even if there isn't much for one to do atm
@YouzACoopa
3 жыл бұрын
have you tried spending all of your money on microtransactions?
@PencilSticks
3 жыл бұрын
@Gringo ???
@ghostridersinthesky21
3 жыл бұрын
Work on yourself and forget about the idea of dating for a while. Thats what I started doing since the transition to online learning. Dont bother with Tinder, itll suck all of your time and leave you unhappy. You are competing with 4 other men for every one woman on that app and chances are, they are better selfie takers than you because they have nothing but time.
@steammausss164
3 жыл бұрын
Pay to win Tinder: We create problems and then we sell the solution..
@yusafmalik5171
3 жыл бұрын
That's literally how most businesses operate XD
@Leto2ndAtreides
3 жыл бұрын
They're not really creating the problem. The problem is that far fewer women need this kind of app to get into a relationship. So Tinder has to try and manage the situation.
@KCFlyer2
Жыл бұрын
0:07 The comment about the western worlds favorite way to meet the prime suspect in their own murder got me to subscribe.
@stoborking
3 жыл бұрын
The most toxic and painful relationships/interactions I encounter were on tinder/bumble
@mariem264
3 жыл бұрын
You're not alone on this...
@MonoKrohm_2020
3 жыл бұрын
@@mariem264 same.
@pineapplepissant
3 жыл бұрын
My most toxic and 8 year waste of time was from POF
@100schlingensief6
2 жыл бұрын
that's rough buddy
@IntrovertedOreo
2 жыл бұрын
@@pineapplepissant Mine was OkCupid
@StephenJPilat
3 жыл бұрын
It's difficult to discuss the ethics of tinder as a male on the internet without it divulging into a big incel-ridden circle jerk of toxic masculinity, but he does a great job in my opinion. I got suckered into paying for tinder gold for MONTHS because my self image plummeted so low that I thought it was the only way to feel good about myself. Being on tinder made me pick myself apart and hate every aspect of myself on a nightly basis. This was really damaging to my psyche for a while, but I couldn't stop; I was addicted to tinder. I spent countless nights swiping non-stop and going to bed hating every fiber of my being after not getting a single match. Dating apps can be dangerous to those who aren't in the mental space to see that it's all a big scam. They profit off the insecurities of the lonely. There needs to be more research into the negative mental health effects of these dating apps.
@josron6088
2 жыл бұрын
Hope things get better for you. I really appreciate your honesty.
@christopherspencer2143
2 жыл бұрын
I just hope things are better for you and you got that shit out of your life. I can relate a bit myself.
@Dan1elAndrade
2 жыл бұрын
Love yourself king! Hope everything is going better now!
@sareklee1414
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you man. I played the online dating game for years with extremely minimal success. Not only did my bank account shrink, but it helped facilitate a spiraling depression as clearly no one thought I was "worth" paying attention to. I don't know the statistics, but I'm certain the points of this video applies to all dating apps. Hell I've tried them all. Just hoping to get lucky one day an meet someone in real life. As fat of a chance as that is.
@Azoonaloc13
2 жыл бұрын
its disgusting corporate greed whether you're a man or a woman. the algorithm artificially restricts your range (male or female) for no good reason and if you do get matches its almost always from the same pool of people. the app is designed to dehumanise and capitalise on human suffering and loneliness. hope you've gotten better.
@BrettSchulz42
3 жыл бұрын
I met my wife on tinder. Married this year. We both definitely did not see that coming from tinder but hey, crazy world we live in.
@SanamGoli
3 жыл бұрын
Met my husband on tinder. Three years later and we're expecting our second child ❤️
@rivermiller1973
3 жыл бұрын
Sure you did tinder CEO 😂
@unna_forte
3 жыл бұрын
I mean everything can happen, chance is always there.. But lets look at the chance and probability... The number say no.. I'd stick to that since Im not gonna try it. Good for you though
@poto1418
3 жыл бұрын
I met my boyfriend through tinder too, after this video, i guess we were pretty lucky 🤷🏻♀️
@PandemoniumMeltDown
3 жыл бұрын
Met my wife on... youtube!
@occamsrazor1285
3 жыл бұрын
Though I personally know people that have successful, long-term relationships that met on Tinder (no way in hell am I speculating on the specifics of said relationships though. Just take two facts at face value: they met as Tinder matches and they've been together for >5 years), they're also good looking people. So it is possible to find something serious there, I think there's a pretty high barrier to entry. I gave Tinder a shot after I found out how they met, and even got a couple of matches. But never met up with anyone from Tinder. They all ghosted after a few hours.
@fred6907
2 жыл бұрын
I'm one of those people who had long-term relationships through Tinder. But it's based on EXTREME luck. The amount of useless profiles and ghosting was mindblowing. NEVER again!
@thvtsydneylyf3th077
2 жыл бұрын
extreme rare cases.. they exist but they dont make the rule.. in general tinders full of scum
@enigmafiresup4658
Жыл бұрын
Don’t bother with dating apps as a male. You’re profile is just a toy to women who will move onto the next guy in 30 minutes
@occamsrazor1285
Жыл бұрын
@@enigmafiresup4658 Yeah, I long since accepted I'm on of the war causalities/predation causalities/disease causalities
@ChandlerWorthen
3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I used to use this shit 🤦🏼♂️.
@martinlutz5446
2 жыл бұрын
12:50 "Showing the Tinder experience in real life" Yes, hundreds upon hundreds of men, willing to go through insane bullshit for a date with a halfway decent looking woman they've never met, or even talked to, since they were texting with someone else entirely. And said woman shoving them around like pawns on a chess board to her hearts content. It really did show what Tinder is like in real life. But good on the guys that walked away after the reveal of the whole scheme.
@ghostie7028
2 жыл бұрын
The guys who participated in it are to blame. if you are that desperate for some vag you need help fr
@martinlutz5446
2 жыл бұрын
@@ghostie7028 sure, any sane man should have at least that little bit of self respect left. But the people who were behind this are to blame, they wanted to publicly humiliate others
@bookbm
2 жыл бұрын
Halfway decent is being generous
@linkster5564
3 жыл бұрын
Good to hear that farmers only is still sacred and safe from the match group.
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