Sending love. My Dad passed in 2019 and my Mum in March this year. It was her time. I miss her every day, and it hurts so much because she deserved so much more than the death she had. It was her time, but I didn't want her to go. She was the best Mum ever. Fact.
@Jack_Warner
Күн бұрын
Death has never bothered me, we're all going to die at some point. But I'm 100% sure the soul leaves the body. I could write more, but it will take too long, and YT will delete it. I had a very wise experience when my Mum died, and nothing that happened in the next few days was a coincidence.
@sandh9179
18 сағат бұрын
❤I'm so sorry x
@fatwalletboy2
Күн бұрын
Thats hard mate. Hope everything comes good. Its your channel and you can talk about anything.
@picking4profit
Күн бұрын
sorry to hear about your mum. I lost my mum 3 years ago, and it is hard on loved ones especially spouses. My dad still talks about mum all the time and finds it a bit lonely at times despite the fact me and my sister visit regularly and I phone him every night. Your dad will learn to do all the bits your mum did. Sending my best wishes to you all
@Thisisntporn
Күн бұрын
Sorry to hear that
@mcgovernproductions
Күн бұрын
I feel for you mate. My mum is in her final stages of dementia. Bedbound. No communication. Completely disabled. Not sure she knows who me and my siblings are anymore. My father is with her every single day at her care home to ensure she is not alone, but he is also not well himself as being diagnosed with cancer. Its upsetting. Their both 76 years of age. Im 54 and my siblings are 44 and 47 and we all worry what the future holds. Me and my father went out tonight for a pint as he was feeling a little bit better today. We were talking about life. On about work, having fun, enjoying ourselves and all the nice things that life should be about. Life is short. Its not all about work. I know money helps but family, health and friends are what matters. You come in this world with nothing and you leave the same way. If any youngsters are reading this please go out in this world and enjoy yourselves every single day whilst you are still young. Don`t moan, crack on. Make the most of your youth. It disappears quickly. When you reach your 50s you will be looking after your loved ones and your life may be on hold.
@a.ashley5292
10 сағат бұрын
Some videos say intravenous vitamin C treatments in high dosages might cure some cancers, but I don't know if it'll help with your dad's situation, just passing some info along.
@aculeus1971
Күн бұрын
This was really hard to watch. I’ve got parents at 77 and 80, and my mum recently had a fall and ended up being kept in … I’m 140 miles away , which is not ideal . Since retiring , my dad’s mental health has not been good and, like you, I think he will ‘cave in’ when something major happens to my mum … You certainly don’t need this on top of the job-related upheaval… Sending best wishes to you and your family.
@GazBobArt
Күн бұрын
I don't care what anyone says, life just gets worse the older we get.
@crackhead4540
14 сағат бұрын
I REJECT THIS ASSERTION IN THE NAME OF THE FATHER!!!
@aerial558
Күн бұрын
Very hard for you my deepest sympathy.
@brandyman32
Күн бұрын
God Bless to your mum, you and your dad, sending prayers 🙏🙏
@WatcherOfYT
Күн бұрын
Close to my heart from recent events with my own parents. Look after everyone but also yourself, never forget you.
@ilad31
Күн бұрын
I am really sorry to hear this news. I pray for your mother and your family. With all the other challenges in your life this must be very difficult. Our prayers are with you and your family.🙏🏻
@Bean-js9bc
Күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing. As sobering as your update is, you seem to be handling things as well as can be with your philosophical approach to life. Moving through middle age can be mentally challenging, as we often face the triple whammy of aging parents, childcare and work stress. I wish you and your family well as you navigate the next few weeks and months.
@Jack_Warner
Күн бұрын
My Mum had Parkinsons, and she was always falling over. I was relieved when she actually went, because her life was a complete misery. Edit: When I die, I've given strict instructions that there is to be no funeral, nothing. The State has to pay to get rid of my body. No one is to pay a penny for my disposal. It will be my final middle finger salute to the government.
@TheMindfulman1
Күн бұрын
Nobody gives you a handbook on how to cope in these difficult times. My mum about 2 years ago got rushed into hospital with sepsis. My dad has dementia and she is his carer. So it all got a bit tricky ! I remember feeling exhausted by the situation as we didn’t get treated well by the nhs.( I should say she is doing well now , so appreciate every day !) So I hope you manage to give yourself time, and manage to look after yourself. I think if making this video helps cope, then great, it’s appreciated being honest. Sometimes it can feel like the world moves on regardless, and you’re trying to deal with a difficult situation.
@omarthearab81
Күн бұрын
So sorry to hear this 💜
@stephenwilshaw6329
Күн бұрын
Sorry to hear this but from what you've said you're coping extremely well.
@keziasarah
Күн бұрын
Lost my mom to the Big C aged 64, had 9/11 and mom saying goodbye a month later, pretty shxt year that was. Think about her every day. All the best, its tough, my father carried on 20+ yrs and still with us, but its not the same. Mom goes, it creates a vacuum and the family splits...
@LouisHuttley
Күн бұрын
I lost my mum this year and turned it around doing my access course in business management. And hoping to do business management with marketing. Also doing my driving lessons all self funded by myself. It is horrible my couldn't recognise my face. And I did eulogy this year. I'm only 26. I really I enjoy your content that is what your mum would want.keep up the good work mate you got this.
@dazza4345
Күн бұрын
Were going something similiar with my Mam.I worry for my Dad.She has been declining quickly for the last 18 months.I dont want go into details .I hope the best for and offer much support to you and your family.I think you are brave for making the video.I think your employment struggles pale in comparison with such life issues. 🙏
@michaelkeeley5396
Күн бұрын
I think you are doing good work. I've watched a number of your recordings and you are covering topics which need to be seen. I myself am experiencing some of the same issues you speak about. Bereavement, career challenges and the trauma around these issues. I have been through my fair share of traumatic experiences in recent years and can see the value your stories bring to men of a certain age and life stage. Keep up the good work.
@stephenwilshaw6329
Күн бұрын
Keep doing your videos and it's your channel so the content is entirely your choice. It is good for your mental health in my opinion.
@tancreddehauteville764
Күн бұрын
I lost my father when I was 30 and my mother when I was 39. They were 75 and 78 when they passed, so not hugely old, but such is life - cancer can hit at any age. Nothing I can say will console you, but death is a part of human life and we all have to accept that all of us will face the end at some point. Passing at 94 is an achievement in itself, so I imagine you knew this was coming. You are right in focusing on your dad once the inevitable happens, but make sure you don't forget about your own mental and physical health - YOU are important to your wife and children and YOU must always come first.
@Hiram8866
Күн бұрын
As we get older we see our loved ones getting frail. This is extremely upsetting and unsettling. I send you my best wishes.
@smcgregor100
Күн бұрын
God bless your very brave to put this online, My thoughts are with you and your family
@justsayin397
Күн бұрын
Thank you for your honesty . It must be hard dealing with it all this as an only child. 94 is a great age though isn’t it? I hope your Mum is peaceful and comfortable and that your poor Dad will cope. They are very lucky to have you! . Look after yourself though because it’s a very stressful situation and you need to be the strong one. It’s a tricky time enough with work and mid life etc and honestly so please take care of yourself too ❤
@mikeypeers
Күн бұрын
Wishing You and your family all the best in these hard times for you all Kindest Regards Mikey P
@XP1972-h8x
Күн бұрын
Hello 👋 sorry to hear this bad news, I lost my partner of 23yrs in April 2023 and am heartbroken to this day.. Its unfortunate that we lose the people we love and appreciate that we are not here forever, I hope you find comfort after her passing! Best wishes!!
@JamesKerr-z4o
Күн бұрын
So sorry to hear this, why do think anyone would object to you be completely honest? We have all either all been there or going to be there.
@Digitiser
23 сағат бұрын
So sorry to hear this. Sending you strength. I lost my dad a couple of years back, and been caring for my mum ever since. It has been beyond hard - and just another challenge we needed to deal with these past two years. She's been in and out of hospital since the spring following a fall, and is also slipping away from us. Just letting you know that you're also not alone in dealing with all this. When it rains, eh...?
@FBICPS
Күн бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Try and keep the chin up 🙏
@richardb5730
17 сағат бұрын
Sending my love. Lost my Dad in 2020 at the beginning of the pandemic, just after he had been ill in hospital for a few months. I know what you are going through.
@sandh9179
18 сағат бұрын
I feel for you..I'm losing mine too, to a progressive desease, my father just same as yours is in denial thinking it's "just the flu'. It's the hardest thing trying to accept the reality..I'm already grieving my mum because I lost the person she was so long ago..sending loads of love to you and your dad x❤
@lewishorsewell8852
15 сағат бұрын
Sorry about this mate. Best of luck. Im 47 my mother has gone. It was her time. Stay strong.
@vickyisrani2633
14 сағат бұрын
take care sir, thinking about you and parents, old age is bad i wish nobody gets it reminds me of my parents how they dealt with 08 years ago :c
@janebass3372
21 сағат бұрын
So very sorry to hear about your Mum. Having elderly parents myself I can understand how hard it must be. Hope your Dad is bearing up. I am also an only child actually and as my parents get older I do worry about them. Sending my very best wishes, Jane
@babygirlj8577
12 сағат бұрын
Sorry to hear this, I think your Dad knows, but it's his way of coupling with the situation and showing her that he's not giving up on her as long as she's here.
@wendyparry437
22 сағат бұрын
So sorry to hear your news . I know exactly what you are going through mate .. sending love to your family . I had a particularly rough time about 8 yrs ago when my brother comitted s...... and the year after my poor old mum at 83 yrs old was diagnosed with cancer .. the timing was cruel for my family . WE treasure our parents and feel there loss all the more , but we are lucky to have had them in the first place . Keep on with the channel when possible as all your subscribers will be listening out for you .
@michaelkeeley5396
Күн бұрын
Just letting you know, your not alone. My father died suddenly at 94 and I cared for my mother for over a year until she died at 96. It was a slow decline and is always very sad to let go. Be happy that they live into there 90's. Sharing your story is helpful to many of your viewers. Good luck with your work.
@Filmmaker809
17 сағат бұрын
Sorry to hear mate. I know what you are going through, I lost both my Dad and stepdad, both that I loved.
@jonathanbowles2577
Күн бұрын
Thank you so much for talking to me and other people. i Listened and I Understand what you were meaning. I have been there Myself, when I lost my Mum and my Eldest Brother shortly after each other Passed. I won't say, I know how you feel, because i do not, but I am here for You if You want somebody to Support You and who is a very Good and Compassionate Listener my Friend. It is not just the Passing of your Loved one, it is all of the Afterwards with the Funeral, the Wake and then the Realisation of that they Will not be there anymore by your side. There will be Times, when say like, you go out for a Coffee or say a meal, and You are going there on Your own, all of a sudden. I still have days, that I really miss my Mum and my Eldest Brother. Mum had a Double Stroke and my Brother was diagnosed with Stage 4 Cancer. Mum, Passed away in 2017 and my Eldest Brother Passed away in 2019. I am now the Last survivng Family Member. I also Live on my own. I have very Good Supportive Friends that Live near me. Thank you for Listening. Look after Yourself. Jonathan/ Peterborough. 🙏🙏🙏
@workinprogresssince1974
21 сағат бұрын
Sorry to hear about this. I think about this sort of scenario quite often as I have parents who are older. We've had long discussions about what may happen and what my role will be in that. It's scary but at least it's planned and my parents aren't afraid to discuss these things and face the reality. It's very hard to navigate but it takes the edge of it from a practical perspective. I hope things go relatively smoothly for you all.
@vdyson9655
Күн бұрын
My heart is with you, pal! Difficult conversations are part of life. Appreciate your honesty.
@Harry-dh2pm
Күн бұрын
Sorry to hear man. My nan is in the exact same situation at the moment. In hospital, the 3rd time in a few months. Each time is closer to death. There's a horribly peaceful sense of acceptance. I'm not as upset as I would think. She's 93, it's just her time. Good luck with your dad.
@eugeniucozac5563
13 сағат бұрын
Mate I am in the same situation, but I am only 38 and my mom is in a bad health situation I feel your pain, this is something that you do not want to agree with. And my dad passed away 8 years ago.
@christinalovesvintage3079
22 сағат бұрын
So sorry to hear what you and your family are going through. I lost both my parents many years ago, Ive always found it hard to talk about so thank you for sharing your thoughts on this difficult subject.
@johnworf
17 сағат бұрын
Sorry to hear about your mum - I've already lost both parents 10+ years ago and i'm only in my 50's
@davidking6666
Күн бұрын
So sorry dude, Rudyard Kipling once said It’s a lie that god can be everywhere because of that he gave us mothers. Really hope you can work through this difficult time, a day I am very much dreading. Thoughts to your family brother, stay strong.
@bengeorgeschannel6568
Күн бұрын
All the best to you and your family. I know how things are for you, and appreciate your honest view of the situation.
@mouradkhelil82
Күн бұрын
From France : Mes pensées et toute ma sympathie. Courage! (my thoughts et all my sympathy).
@TheChodax
Күн бұрын
Lost my mum suddenly to a fall, coming up two years next month. I still struggle with it every day. I feel tor you fella.
@cm5720
Күн бұрын
I'm truly sorry to hear this. I know it's a very difficult time, but it sounds like you've found some peace in knowing it's her time. Thoughts are with you and the family.
@zeldacarr6320
Күн бұрын
I am very sorry to hear about your mother, I lost my father 2 days after a fall. I hope that her passing is peaceful. She’s a good age and sounds as if she’s had a good life. It’s hard and painful supporting a grieving parent.
@dianaray1470
Күн бұрын
🙏 prayers your way. I understand exactly what you’re saying mate.
@Taylor47
Күн бұрын
Sorry to hear about your mother. I went through the same with my father, just to prepare yourself: just before the end, she will suddenly get better, will eat and talk and hopes will be high but then the end will come soon after.
@LeeEvans147
Күн бұрын
Big hugs go out to you mate, and to your mum. Everyone watching your posts are thinking about you ❤ your Dad has incredible love around him
@raymondbyczko
Күн бұрын
Support from here. It is not easy. Many close relatives are gone at this point, crossed over via the River Styx. Still I miss their spirits and recognize how well they supported me, and I mention them often in my prayers, although I am just about an atheist. You are not alone!
@Connections-d2o
Күн бұрын
Please spend time with mum. My mum.and dad both had a stroke at home lucky I there and thry both died in hospital and I was with them good care lucky no nursing home and hospital good care. I had to look after my dad when my mum died as he depressed it was my responsibility and I helped him pension, shopping, meals, etc Please support your dad my irish mum use to say. ' I can't live forever' she was relaxed. Please help your dad he is your dad
@johnclarke4082
Күн бұрын
Prayers for you FTG - in an extremely similar situation to you at present - taking a sabatical from work - faith above all and family first - hope it gives you some comfort to know others walking the same path as you at this point in time.
@SonistheFatherofMan
Күн бұрын
B"H I feel for you brother. I lost mine 10 years ago. It is so hard to experience and understand the loss of one's mother. When you lose your mom you really know what it is to be alone. Thankfully, I have two sons. I do not know what I would be without them. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. G-d bless you.
@LynMitchell-q8x
Күн бұрын
So sorry for what you are going through - the universe works for the best and later on you will look back and know even tho you lost your job it actually enabled you at the right time to be available for your dad and mum when they need you the most and if you were working it might have been all too much - all the best !
@juliet7703
Күн бұрын
I m sorry to hear this. Will be thinking of you . Take care of yourself 🙏🏾
@chrish215
Күн бұрын
Sorry to hear. Luckily the NHS still functions.
@NicholasRichmond-dn8qh
Күн бұрын
This is a very sad time for you wish you all the best whatever the future holds for your family
@myownperson8145
Күн бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. Unfortunately we all have to go through this. Please ensure that you take care of yourself as well.
@OghamTheBold
Күн бұрын
My brother has one of them iron fire pits and someone called the brigade on us 🤣 They agreed it was the safest blaze in England
@kneel1
Күн бұрын
interesting timing, this. Was thinking lots about my mum tonight, I miss her dearly (since 2019). I wish you the best m8 and do whatever you can to spend time w her 💜🙏
@djmarcos69
18 сағат бұрын
You certainly have a have a lot going on at the moment. Take care.
@buffplums
Күн бұрын
Mate I am so sorry to hear this. thoughts with you buddy and sending love and kindness to you all bud.
@rulebritannia1553
Күн бұрын
Thoughts and prayers from Australia
@jamessmith1652
Күн бұрын
Sorry to hear. Sending my best wishes.
@lorrainebyrne2536
Күн бұрын
So sorry to hear about your mum.
@williamtell6750
Күн бұрын
I am sorry to hear it.
@Fer-vq6ru
22 сағат бұрын
So sorry
@erik_LION-y3s
Күн бұрын
🙏
@henrytudor7058
Күн бұрын
❤
@whichypoohs
10 сағат бұрын
My mummy passed last Wednesday. Broken and empty.
@animal79thecat
15 сағат бұрын
Happens to us all,unless we happen to peg before them
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