As someone who wants to be childfree. Trying to find a partner can be very tough.
@sayanmondal3496
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I wonder when I share my thought in this regard how she act.
@adwaitvedant3297
Жыл бұрын
We should build a community or matrimonial for those who don't want kids.
@sayanmondal3496
Жыл бұрын
@@adwaitvedant3297 yes we need this kind of matrimonial site
@anewlife5846
Жыл бұрын
The best is to stay single like Ratan Tata, Lata Mangeshkar, Abdul Kalam, Vajpayee, Mamta Banerjee, Mayawati, Jayalalithaa, Ekta Kapoor etc.
@Live_and_Let_Live6270
Жыл бұрын
There was a subreddit. It's called childfree India. I hope it still exists.
@user-pb1rk3zu4v
7 ай бұрын
Definitely should create matrimonial site for childfree by choice people
@joymajumdar1504
2 жыл бұрын
Me and my wife have decided to stay child free.
@doloresvangaal2248
Жыл бұрын
Good decision. 😉
@religionofpeace782
Жыл бұрын
You deserve an award and reservations from the government. IMO everyone who chooses to be childfree deserves some reservations
@sonireddy6696
Жыл бұрын
Good decision every man should be like you you are a hero
@joymajumdar1504
Жыл бұрын
@@sonireddy6696 thanks
@subhyatra123
Жыл бұрын
Indian government should give you padambhushan for your selflessness.
@AuthorBooksReader
Жыл бұрын
Not having a kid is the greatest devotion you can give to the planet.!!!!
@religionofpeace782
Ай бұрын
And to that kid as well!
@dr.Curiouss
Жыл бұрын
In India, many people have or want to have children just because everyone around them has children or their parents or relatives force them to have children. When parents can't guarantee their child's happiness in this world after being born what's the point of having a child? Why do parents want to see their precious children suffer?
@shashankganesha5620
Жыл бұрын
kids are a the greatest thing that can happen to you... its a shame you will never understand that.
@Roopa_Roohika6796
Жыл бұрын
Yes. 👍No need to make an innocent life suffer in this cruel worst hopeless world filled with worst people(devils)
@Kalinga_yodha
Жыл бұрын
@@shashankganesha5620 bro these are called "Anti-natalist" and again this nonsense has come from West and Indians love following west blindly.
@Crownking999
Жыл бұрын
@@Roopa_Roohika6796 True
@Crownking999
Жыл бұрын
@@shashankganesha5620 It's a crime bringing new lives to suffer in this world
@Salvation252
Жыл бұрын
I wish my parents never gave birth to me
@nwatson2773
Жыл бұрын
Same
@JenniferRusso5
Жыл бұрын
Same.
@Crownking999
Жыл бұрын
Same
@ankanaghosh5163
Жыл бұрын
same
@ranadanial7165
Жыл бұрын
Same
@rajibdeka2207
4 ай бұрын
My life was painful, full of suffering. I don't want any one to experience that.🙏
@Daksh-s2b
4 ай бұрын
Ki hoisil tumar jibonot ?
@aglimmer8699
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I felt so happy after seeing the video. Quite relatable
@Jitendra_Rawat
Жыл бұрын
I am an antinatalist also. 👍
@Crownking999
Жыл бұрын
Same
@theunknownbachatero8899
Жыл бұрын
I'm just like the very first woman in this video. I would make funny faces at kids, high five them, behave like a clown & make them laugh but, at the end of the day, I'm contented living a life without having my own.
@clemensquinones4863
Жыл бұрын
It's different when you take full ownership of raising/caring/playing, vs spending few minutes playing with kids.
@anuraag7075
Жыл бұрын
"Suffering and misery r the unavoidable parts of life" stated by Buddhism a long time ago... And not bringing another soul here is the wisest thing indeed... But it's human nature, misery loves company & that's why this gigantic population...
@clemensquinones4863
Жыл бұрын
True, bringing up somebody to life, yet not providing all their human needs (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual) is unfair to them. It's truly noble to provide all the needs of your kids, or not have kids at all if you think you don't have the commitment to do so.
@Crownking999
Жыл бұрын
True bro
@mshah1193
10 ай бұрын
@@clemensquinones4863: The need of a kid is not wanting to die because death is painful. Parents cannot avoid this. For every child that is created, he is born to die. He is born to get old and decay.
@himanik2118
Ай бұрын
perfectly said!!! I am going to use this one!
@Nareshrb97
Ай бұрын
@@mshah1193 you speaked my mind
@dipak4022
2 жыл бұрын
1:20 as a gay man it is very relatable. We want that our marriage should be recognised and we adopt children. But....as we are gay couple society would mistreat our child, bully him/her by asking "whose your mom? You have two dads etc." And may threat them also. Nah! For our parental desire we can't risk a child's life.
@dikshasuman
Жыл бұрын
You are a real man
@dikshasuman
Жыл бұрын
Otherwise people are always like " hm apne baccha ko strong bnayenge , ab chahe uske liye use kuch bhi sehna padhe"
@dipak4022
Жыл бұрын
@@dikshasuman thanks bro🙃🙃. Btw! Your name reminds me my painful 12th board exam as I was also PCB student.
@shashankganesha5620
Жыл бұрын
ever looked up the rate of sexual abuse of children in the LGBTQ community? stop blaming everyone else for your problems.
@AshutoshKumar-bd7hf
6 ай бұрын
Being a gay man.... I can validate its true.
@sarojsaharan9670
Жыл бұрын
So hard to find a partner in india who don't want children and right for you. It's like a battlefield and end look's like staying single 😂
@logan13b
8 ай бұрын
Yes its like a double edged sword if we select a wrong partner and things dont go as we thought before getting engaged. Really tough to find a good pair
@sarojsaharan9670
8 ай бұрын
@@logan13b so true
@Hrudayagalavishaya
8 ай бұрын
married couples jinhone bachcha paida Kiya hai wo bhi kaha se khush hai😂😂 wo bhi tho suffer kar rahe hai..
@anamikaks1976
6 ай бұрын
Yes I have been trying to find one and is not successful yet. What should I do
@sarojsaharan9670
6 ай бұрын
@@Hrudayagalavishaya there is a child free in india community on reddit, insta and telegram. try finding there. i have seen some guy's post there. didn't find someone suitable to me but may be you will find. good luck girl
@reginageorgetownuni
Жыл бұрын
As a gen z, i have the faith that my generation will be open minded to be child free
@winstonjen5360
Жыл бұрын
Good for them. The world is already terribly overpopulated.
@clemensquinones4863
Жыл бұрын
Usually, it's the women who carry the burden of raising kids (from pregnancy, to cooking for & feeding the kids, tutoring & disciplining them, etc, etc). And many of these women are also working to help husbands in livelihood! In short, many women/ mothers are unequally yoked to martyrdom. Most women today see this vast difference in physical, emotional & mental burden. Can't blame modern women not wanting to have kids.
@shashankganesha5620
Жыл бұрын
having kids = martyrdom... what a horrible way to look at loving children.
@universehasourback
Жыл бұрын
True, it's not a good situation for a woman to do it all, help husband financially, rear kids .. they are superwomans who do that, but many of them become bitter also afterwards, just cuz they have to juggle it all, and then they bring up bitter children like me in this world. 😅 , sad frustrated women being up sad children
@radhikamanchanda5669
Жыл бұрын
I really want to appreciate the speakers and the makers of this video. Finally some Indians talking about going childfree by choice. Loved the fact that there are both men and women talking about the idea. ❤️❤️
@PeriwinkleB
Жыл бұрын
I’m not Indian but my friends and extended family is and alot of them are shamed because it goes against the expectations set by their “cultural must haves.” I will be showing them this video since I believe it will bring them comfort knowing there’s others out there like them 😊
@FloppityFlopFlop777
Жыл бұрын
The Bible says it's better not to marry, and thus better not to have kids.
@avagrego3195
4 ай бұрын
remaining childless is a word wide trend in modern countries, nothing wrong with not having children
@wheatstonebridge
Жыл бұрын
I think people should be asking themselves... are you sure you're prepared to raise a child in this kind of a world? And raise them well?
@sceneryjay8791
Жыл бұрын
This was nice to watch and listen to, it's always nice to see childfree people all over this world since we share this in common and I'm very happy and glad that they're speaking up 👍🏻🥰 I wish them all the best
@rimlinahazarika4515
Жыл бұрын
Great to hear from these people. Very relatable.
@ranjitharanju2642
Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful video, got inspired. These kind of videos are needed more and more, its just creating awareness, thank 👍👌🥳
@RAnkitGusain
2 жыл бұрын
Even I also feel like that I don't want kids in the future and I don't have intrest in marrige because as far I have seen most of married couple these days fall a part after sometime after marriage and even in my family also my father always used to scold me for small things when I hit puberty and my mother and father always fight and even my father was fed up of the life he was going and later he was gone in depression and later he died that was the worst thing for our family since I have seen my father like this I am just really don't want to end up like him since it always scares me that my life can become like hell and I can also face the same thing in future.
@divyanshshukla8009
10 ай бұрын
I am an Indian and I don't want kids. Ever
@Ugotthis772
Жыл бұрын
ohooooooo, thank god i was no the only one thinking about it. It feels really relaxing when you see some crowd on the spot where you are heading to.
@Broody-cq2yl
6 ай бұрын
We as a couple had decided long back not to have children. Have met so many people who are not happy with the parental life. In india a lot of couples have kids because of societal expectations, or one of the partners wanting child and forcing other one to go with it leading to unhappy parenting. Dont forget the increasing cost of living and unsafe living conditions of the modern world. We both earn well and pamper ourselves with the money which would otherwise have gone towards ridiculous education costs of today. Period
@Kritiical
Жыл бұрын
I don't want kids but then my bf wants kids, atleast 1 & he thinks eventually my mind will change & I'll stop thinking like this.. He always takes this thing lightly.. I have always clearly said & discussed with him but he just doesn't get it & we broke up because of this.. & I think I'll never get marry to anybody ever because I don't want kids.😔 I want a partner just like me😊
@Dwindledoodoo
5 ай бұрын
No girl. I understand why you feel that way. I too have been in that place. But trust me, there are many men too who do not want to have children. Because we are not the majority people, it might be difficult to find, but trust me, there is an increasing trend. I am sure you will find one who does not want to have kids.
@Kritiical
5 ай бұрын
@@Dwindledoodoo Yeah I hope there is someone for me..
@Ashwath-k8m
Ай бұрын
sorry for asking pls....what is your age?
@Kritiical
Ай бұрын
@@Ashwath-k8m 24
@RaviPatel-br1bk
Ай бұрын
You’re not alone. I’m a 22 year old Indian male living in the U.S. and I’m like 80% sure I don’t want kids. And that number’s been increasing for the past like 3 years. I’m more worried about finding an Indian girl who doesn’t want kids because I always thought girls were more wanting to have kids than guys are.
@Cent-130
6 ай бұрын
Child free is wise decision in India
@lisujo5638
Жыл бұрын
It's each person's personal choice. Respect their choice.
@religionofpeace782
Жыл бұрын
No it's not a personal choice. It's not a personal choice because it involves a third person, the child. Does the child not have a say in its birth? When did it give it's consent to be born? Who gave us the right to assume that the child wants to be born? And if we assume that it wants to be born, how did we assume that he will want to continue his life? What provisions do we have for him in case he grows up and doesn't want to continue anymore? Have we legalised the euthanasia yet? Then what right do we have to give birth?
@mshah1193
10 ай бұрын
@@religionofpeace782: Only those who exist have a say. A child does not exist before birth.
@2000PechiKrishnanTN
7 ай бұрын
Now marriages r decided by wealth. Nearly 40 only getting wedlock. So i agree DINK.
@mskl2021
Ай бұрын
At 2:00 minutes is so factual!
@AT-vq6nu
2 жыл бұрын
I think is the greatest thing Indians can do especially for Muslims.
@pastelmoon9118
Жыл бұрын
" what I want to be is the cool hip aunt " LOVE IT
@agustinbernal9706
Жыл бұрын
All my love, respect and admiration to Indian people who decide not to have children. If humanity ever have a chance to survive climate change, it would be thanks to those who decide not to reproduce. Saludos desde Mexico ❤
@Dwindledoodoo
5 ай бұрын
Child free by choice. Many people are choosing to be child free and it is nice to see. Actually there is a great chance of finding a partner who also wants to be child free because many people around us are choosing to be child free.
@himanik2118
Ай бұрын
Love these people!!
@RanjithRoyalVEVO
Жыл бұрын
Anti Natalists are the true freedom fighters of the world...we are witnessing lot of parents and children are suffering all over the world 😢..its a brutal hidden truth.
@mshah1193
10 ай бұрын
The first form of slavery is procreation. The first form of slavery is created by the parents.
@universehasourback
Жыл бұрын
For old age there are socities which work like apartment with old age services. So u get the best of both world, u have your own house and a community who will take care of you. Obviously you pay maintenance charges for such apartments, but then by not having kids i am sure you have saved enough.
@devashrijoshi9079
Ай бұрын
I don't wanna have kids because of the educational gap here. Me & brother due to financial restrains had to study from a government school meanwhile all of the kids around me were into good private/convent schools that taught them something. In my school tho they had atleast teachers that were teaching unlike rural government schools with empty classrooms. But my experience overall was not great. The amount of stares I used to get from other kid's parents whenever I mentioned my school was so confusing & baffling to me. Not only they underestimated me, half the time they didn't gave me even a chance to compete. All of these kid's parents taking pride that their kid studies in an english medium school whilst having no idea that their kids have absolute 0 english speaking skills. They were also baffled when I spoke a little english. That's how unequal this country is. All comes down to income in the end. Which is why I dont wanna have kids. Welp not until Ik I can provide my kids with a better life.
@skullcandy9641
6 ай бұрын
NO HIPPOCRISSY IN TELLING I SUPPORT CHILD RIGHTS AND ALSO SAYING I WANT OT BE CHILD FREE AND HAVE NO CHILDREN IN MY HOUSEHOLD!
@skullcandy9641
6 ай бұрын
WISH I CAN FIND THE RIGHT PERSON WHO WANTS TO BE CHILDFREE... THERE ARE MANY BUT IN INDIA WE ARE OBLIGATED BECAUSE WE OWE IT TO OUR PARENTS
@eels3658
Жыл бұрын
Great video, I’d date the cartoonist if he’s single lolol, although I do live in Sweden. 😂 It’s so hard to find childfree men to date.
@Secularismkasecurityguard
Жыл бұрын
1:53 so true
@AnkitGusain-cu8si
Жыл бұрын
I don't think it's easy to have kids these days and even getting married in india it's a big problem shadi karne ko log yaha career option se relate karte hai I think it's should be choice whether we don't know ki humari married life utni achi Hogi bhi ki nahi .
@chatwithme2367
Жыл бұрын
2:17👌🔥
@Happy-dh7xe
9 ай бұрын
I am glad that there are so many people who think like me😍
@CharlieWilliamsUK
Жыл бұрын
This is amazing. Thanks for sharing
@ingeborgpadgett7079
9 ай бұрын
I congratulate on everybody that does not want children 👍💗
@alihassanrajpoot-09
25 күн бұрын
Good
@Happysoul_3
8 ай бұрын
It feels like people who are in creative fields and kinda travellers and have so much aspirations have this idea. I am not generalising in any way its just my observation.
@ingeborgpadgett7079
8 ай бұрын
Maybe now there is hope for India
@shrikaroy5639
2 ай бұрын
Child free thinking partner ko search karna mushkil hai.milta Nahi.
@SR-mv2mf
3 ай бұрын
I love sleeping 😂
@GarudAtma
Жыл бұрын
Don't worry all poor are still there. Muslims poor don't go less than 5-8 and other poor communities don't go less than 2. That's different in that they can't even eat without govt support, and forget about feeding kids. Aside from feeding, there is schooling also sky high expensive. Then again sky-high universities and colleges. And they are all worth not a penny. Because you can't monetize the majority of the education. Then property prices are insane. Wages are still low. Jobs are nowhere. Rat-race, cut-throat competition. Govt didn't stop those between 1980-2000 from breeding like pigs. But there is no law protecting those poor kids. Who is stopping those who are mentally ill socially ill and economically ill. No one. They pop out kids to feel good and save their face in society. Then ask the 17-year-old that we have fed you- send you to the school, now treat us like god for this bare minimum. There is no law punishing those who throw their kids on the streets and orphanages. When youths are in bad conditions then who cares about kids
@anujdimple
22 күн бұрын
Shi h...waise bhi population kafi h.....kaash 50% female aisi soch rkhe....jobs hi jobs hogi........train . m reservation mil jayegj
@premvvarghese
Ай бұрын
Even though I respect people’s individual choices about kids, I can for sure say that child free people are missing on a kind of happiness that nothing else in this world can offer. Ya they have freedom, less stress etc but the joy and love that your child can give you is one of the most delightful experiences in life. No career, No world trips, No partner can replace that
@Nareshrb97
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@saviourawudzi5244
7 ай бұрын
This is cool
@harakatidi8722
9 ай бұрын
You don't want to be a parent in Gaza right now so yes it's not fair for kids to bring them in this world
@sarojsaharan9670
8 ай бұрын
I think We should make a WhatsApp group for single people searching for partners. if anyone knows such group do let me know
@anamikaks1976
6 ай бұрын
I am from kerala. Need a partner who should be an anti natalist
@RAJSHARMA-ft6ww
Жыл бұрын
I lso don't want to have kids. But only concerned about when I'll get old, who will look after me n my Wife. Can anyone suggest me if I choose a childfree life, what to do in old age when I will be helpless? Who will take care of me?? Any suggestions??
@supremetandel2444
Жыл бұрын
So selfish you are
@strm3197
Жыл бұрын
Bro what is your age
@RAJSHARMA-ft6ww
Жыл бұрын
@@strm319726. Y?
@strm3197
Жыл бұрын
@@RAJSHARMA-ft6ww i am 26 too.. koi mili like minded ladki? Mujhe ek mili thi like minded lekin toxic
@RAJSHARMA-ft6ww
Жыл бұрын
@@strm3197 Yes. Mili. N we love each other very much.
@theone-nm2xu
Жыл бұрын
Well done
@Daksh-s2b
4 ай бұрын
Anti Natalist should be encourages because indias population is exploding
@Govind98998
10 ай бұрын
I think women is more happy with dink no 9 months problem
@sameerhinduja7357
Жыл бұрын
Only the lady in yellow at 4:20 gave the most sensible answer
@ss-ib8gm
Жыл бұрын
we will be overrun by jhadi
@abcdabcdoops
11 ай бұрын
Education and exposure are the key. Surprising people still believe in Ram Allah Yesu Yesu and all the rest of the imaginary cartoons in this day and age :D No jehad hindutva crusaders then
@Good-Life15
6 ай бұрын
Who gives a fuck man jindagi jandddd hai India me Muslim Christian hindu nahi fark padta being born in this shithole fuck this country life is hard here shant se soooooo bhi nahi sakte
@Upload-video-terserah-gue
8 ай бұрын
Gg , childfree.
@riscnx
8 ай бұрын
Meanwhile I wish to have 5-6kids. And no I am not backward villager, I am 30% IT paying urban middle class.
@jonashuovila9287
Жыл бұрын
All of them had bad reasons not to get kids and then they will be crying later when society collapses cause there are no new kids and nobody to work and take care of them...
@mshah1193
10 ай бұрын
So for your selfish reasons, you want to bring in slavery? You want to enslave a human to work for you and take care of you??
@Beanhill_94
7 ай бұрын
Their reasons don’t have to be justified to you or anyone else. I don’t want to do it is good enough for an adult to decide this.
@jonashuovila9287
7 ай бұрын
@@Beanhill_94 Yeah maybe in your delusional dream world. xD
@Beanhill_94
7 ай бұрын
@@jonashuovila9287 you seem to be having too many emotions about something that doesn’t concern you by people who are strangers. Are you ok?
@jonashuovila9287
7 ай бұрын
@@Beanhill_94 It concerns everybody, but sure keep living in denial. xD
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