@@robertbeier5521stop I can’t say nice without doing that click
@lordphantom8034
Ай бұрын
He cracked the code guys😂👏👏
@qwertybee69
8 ай бұрын
This man is saving relationships
@Dmv1260
Ай бұрын
Gf:Do i look good? Bf: for who?
@Sanncheztv
5 ай бұрын
" YOU LOOK GOOD " 👁👄👁
@greyfox4838
Жыл бұрын
This man saved my marriage, thank you Bob.
@birdbird25
11 ай бұрын
ACE ATTORNEY?????
@S-CB-SL-Animations
10 ай бұрын
@@birdbird25*_"HOLD IT!!!"_*
@Itz_areena
10 ай бұрын
Bob? I think its jack
@tnk4me4
Жыл бұрын
I'm actually putting this in a playlist under "actually good relationship advice"
@Sleepyhead_037
Жыл бұрын
Another important thing: Compliment each other!! Men don't receive compliments as much as women, so it'll likely make their day and put everyone in a good mood!
@igniusgaming2587
Жыл бұрын
When they ask how do I look just say you look like the person I fell in love with and it makes me fall in love all over again
@aidengaskell4499
8 ай бұрын
I'll remember this next time my girlfriend asks me when she visits me in the hospital at midnight. (I'm diagnosed with schizophrenia)
@scroxydrums
8 ай бұрын
the answer is emotions as always)
@jaredpeyton9881
11 ай бұрын
The way he looks at the camera like, "ARE Y'ALL TAKING NOTES!?" Kills me.
@BellaBunny-li1bh
10 ай бұрын
Same 🤣🤣🤣
@thatonedudewhodoesstuff334
10 ай бұрын
I was actually taking notes on my phone just in case 💀💀💀
@thatonedudewhodoesstuff334
10 ай бұрын
I get a gf
@tacklebox8020
9 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kainixfeather723
9 ай бұрын
Yhis😂😂😂😂
@lito-vostia
8 ай бұрын
"More passion, more passion. More energy, more energy. More footwork, more footwork."
@moneyyfrfr
7 ай бұрын
bro we were running around the whole gym in P.E and our coach turned this song or wtvr on 😂
@RighteousUncle
7 ай бұрын
Leads to more hip movement.
@rosallypaliling9476
7 ай бұрын
@@moneyyfrfr😭 loll
@mizzbarbiedoll8989
7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Folklorerepstan2013
7 ай бұрын
More energy, more energyahh
@vipbaepsae
9 ай бұрын
even better is if you just say it without her even asking, that is the REAL key to making her feel beautiful
@forapps9364
9 ай бұрын
Very, very true. Sometimes it's just am admiring look from him that will make you feel beautiful. Once, I caught my husband staring at me, without a word I felt beautiful.
@nonibandz
9 ай бұрын
Lol he only made her ask for the sake of the video I believe
@TheXiphosgaming
9 ай бұрын
He’s literally saying he does all the time and she doesn’t believe him. That’s the whole point of the video
@forapps9364
9 ай бұрын
@@TheXiphosgaming She doesn't believe him because is answer, while affirmative, is delivered with no excitement. When a woman comes to you and asks is my outfit ok, she's not really asking about that. It's more like 90% "Do you fined ME sexy or irresistible?! & 10% Is the outfit cute enough?" She's testing the waters for possible extra-curricular or post event activity! Get it?!
@tashaldriver2668
8 ай бұрын
@vipbaepsae, YES! That is it exactly.
@mariomcg
9 ай бұрын
When someone asks "Do I look good?", they're often not looking for a straight answer, but rather the reassurance of feeling seen and valued.
@26babil26
9 ай бұрын
yea cuz when someone says "yea you look good" and moves on it feels like they are trying to get rid of you? like they dont want to be with you. its passive aggressive behaviour unknowigly.
@danielkeizer4174
9 ай бұрын
Neediness woman be thy name ..
@26babil26
9 ай бұрын
@@danielkeizer4174 "mens loneliness epidemic is seriously hurting society 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡"
@petchai4814
9 ай бұрын
Thank you now she thinks I'm gay
@peterclarke7240
9 ай бұрын
She probably always did.
@p.a.w.sthetravelinggamer6750
8 ай бұрын
The fact that she knows what hes doing and STILL feels insanely appreciated shows this works lol
@haleysigl8533
8 ай бұрын
Honestly, it’s him putting in the effort to make sure she feels seen, heard, and just his desire to find a way to properly appreciate her and show his affection… him explaining the thought process to me makes it even better tbh
@Inception1338
8 ай бұрын
Look up subconscious. It cannot track where it's coming from. You need to be trained to resist stuff like that.
@aisatsen102
8 ай бұрын
he did it on HER and even I felt better lol, the good energy is contagious
@AdamWemlinger
8 ай бұрын
Psychology is real. Its principles work even when you're aware of it happening, and you have to make a conscious effort to resist.
@p.a.w.sthetravelinggamer6750
8 ай бұрын
@AdamWemlinger yeah, but no at the same time. Psychology is the study of repetition and prediction based on observation and assessing. It's essentially a pseudoscience that actually works. Edit: @oranjellofish idk why my response isn't here but basically in all other forms of sciences those repetitions work the same way everytime. But you can use psychology and the methods taught and they MAY work or not. That's why it's a pseudoscience. I didn't finish my statement last time. I'm gonna add this as an edit for my original statement so I know it's still here.
@hny633
8 ай бұрын
Bruhh the way he looked in the camera 😂😭
@giomartino6
Ай бұрын
"SEE...i cracked the code fellas" 😂
@hny633
Ай бұрын
@@giomartino6 😂😂
@evelynnvernaz
9 ай бұрын
The difference between saying "you look good" and " you look GOOD" 👌👌
The annoying part is the words are just the same, said the same way🤣🤣 women😫🤦🏾♂️
@sararobert9855
9 ай бұрын
Also, don't wait for her to ask to tell her she looks good. My hubby tells me that I look pretty at the most random times. Sometimes he will even sneak a picture or a few seconds of filming, and show me how he thinks I look cute. I usually just hate my body, but he slowly helps me build confidence and self love ♥️
@addiegraves3
9 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness that's so sweet❤ does he have a twin 😂😢
@austinbrown426
9 ай бұрын
Nice to meet you, I am the twin
@sararobert9855
9 ай бұрын
@@addiegraves3 sadly no, but he has a younger brother who is currently single 😏😉 How good is your french ? 😂
@AliceViperess
9 ай бұрын
Aww... he's a treasure 🥺
@davidgomez5116
9 ай бұрын
This can also backfire if you say it too much. All girls have insecurities just some way more than others
@noeticwolf73
Жыл бұрын
This man is a genius writing it down.
@shewanttheducky495
Жыл бұрын
I was like 666
@drippiemelo7321
Жыл бұрын
2 comments? I’ll change that.
@SarahWilk100
Жыл бұрын
@@drippiemelo73213 replies? I'll change that.
@Ejk2969
Жыл бұрын
NOPE, you are all wrong, that’s just a woman’s ploy……
@TheAnimatedOsprey
Жыл бұрын
Forget dj kaled
@kalina2443
8 ай бұрын
this shit WORKS I'm telling ya, been with my boyfriend for 10 years. Even when I get my nails done, he goes lemme see! And hypes them up it's so cute 🥰 Before anyone says anything about marriage, I know, I know. We get asked about it all the time. It's expensive, neither of us are going anywhere, we've talked about it lots already.
@harrybudgeiv349
Ай бұрын
No worries. My dad and step mom were together 12 years before getting married. Wanted to wait for the kids to get older, ya know?
@CatHarington
9 ай бұрын
The way he looks into the camera😂 "you see what i did there?"
@SQVM666
9 ай бұрын
That is not his girlfriend. They are cOnTeNt CrEaToRs, churning out fake shit.
@MaNNeRz91
Жыл бұрын
His eyes in this had me cracking up. He's found a new expression
@Baditow
Жыл бұрын
I think that expression is called surprised
@MaNNeRz91
Жыл бұрын
@@Baditow it was more like persuasive encouragement than surprised
@Tortilaro
Жыл бұрын
It's the "you see this, right?" Look
@that_auntceleste5848
Жыл бұрын
What cracked me up is that he was giving the camera that look instead of looking at her like he's supposed to be doing.
@MaNNeRz91
Жыл бұрын
I remember where I've seen it now 😂 Bo selecta did comedy skits of David Blaine. "Shazam 🤚"
@jrgenstacholsen6876
Жыл бұрын
A man of culture teaching younglings🤣🙌🏽
@christophezecheru5440
Жыл бұрын
How to be little bit*es.
@Angelina_Swiftie
Жыл бұрын
Fr 😂
@yourmom-nj5rb
Жыл бұрын
@@christophezecheru5440how to be respectful and make your wife happy☺️
@Magna_Carta5
Жыл бұрын
In my opinion, a “little b1tch” move is seeing something like this videos, and trying to say that a healthy relationship is somehow emasculating. “Fellas! Is it gay to **checks notes** love your wife?”
@christophezecheru5440
Жыл бұрын
@@Magna_Carta5 Yes. Exactly what a woman wants after she's been with 20-30 "toxic men" like me. A little chiuwawa that she can control and that adores her, because he isn't getting another. And you will still be back for that "toxic sex", cheating on that poor bastard. This is real life, not lala land.
@balqaasem
8 ай бұрын
“U luk guud” vs “YOU LOOK GOOOOD!”
@watntarnation8471
9 ай бұрын
He’s absolutely right. Whenever my fiancé puts on a new dress I take a picture of her with it on because she’s so dang stunning
@gyaradosparty2565
9 ай бұрын
That’s so sweet!! 🥲
@mewowow
9 ай бұрын
CRYINGGG that's so cute omg 🤧
@Skylar-c8r
9 ай бұрын
🖊 📃 got it
@bitfreedom
9 ай бұрын
Beta
@CherryStudios2
9 ай бұрын
Awww
@marvelgeek507
9 ай бұрын
Even if you say “you look good” in a chill tone as long as your facial expression is like a genuine smile or your actually looking and smiling as you say it then it’s acceptable to me
@nicoleross356
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, you look good with a smile is much better than "you look fine" and not the sexy fine. Just meh you looked fine. Lol God I hate that I'm trying to get an actual opinion on whether I look okay.
@bluefox8011
9 ай бұрын
I agree, I try so hard to stay in shape, and my man just says: " you look fine" at first but of course later in the store he will actually "check me out" and say, " damn, you look great" but it takes him close to an hour....lord.
@ambriaashley3383
9 ай бұрын
That’s usually true, but damn the “spin!” part & the extra enthusiasm would make me feel *great* about myself 😂
@arianastan13
9 ай бұрын
Yea but it wouldn’t boost my confidence any i would just find someone else to ask 😭
@rossdavis428
Жыл бұрын
So, in short: Emotionally engage in an endearing manner with your wife/husband on the topic at hand~
@heebbasalman5703
Жыл бұрын
Exactly haha
@amberburlet3601
Жыл бұрын
Wow! It's almost like interacting with another human being... who would've thought?
@gingechicken7394
Жыл бұрын
@@amberburlet3601some people dont think to spend more time on simple things. Our lives are run by clocks, we talk about how every second counts, so its not uncommon to not think about slowing down and taking a few more.
@allysaurus96
Жыл бұрын
@@gingechicken7394spittin facts
@brandylou9132
Жыл бұрын
yeh, imagine that LOL
@CanadianWaters
8 ай бұрын
When he goes yeah and she repeats it, then again in a higher pitch. The energy was the same as me says to my dog, who's a good girl twice
@ninjaturtlefan2003
Жыл бұрын
It’s not about the words, it’s about the emotion in your voice
@silverfoot6079
11 ай бұрын
Like talking to a dog or a baby
@aristo_art9305
11 ай бұрын
@@silverfoot6079or, talking to someone you just love overall?
@joevaldez4889
11 ай бұрын
@@aristo_art9305 yeah like a dog or a baby.
@olivebre4170
11 ай бұрын
@@joevaldez4889this is funny because men do this all the time were they try to use dogs to explain women but the genuinely aren't trying to be mean about it. Yet through too much history has comparisons to dog been a horrible things and still is so women don't get it.
@Art-enjoyer_Fern
11 ай бұрын
@@silverfoot6079jesus. This applies to you too dude, as if tone is not part of what you read to understand the meaning of conversations 💀
@ryanmolina4948
Жыл бұрын
Someone give him a Nobel peace prize for saving countless men’s lives
@rosssaccheus5294
Жыл бұрын
Why does it feel like your not joking?!😂😂
@just_HAZEN
11 ай бұрын
@@rosssaccheus5294cause he aint
@flipsideroot
11 ай бұрын
Most men still wouldnt do that
@ajstyles5704
10 ай бұрын
@@flipsiderootmy wife asked me, I think about 10 times earlier in getting to know part on dates, and I always gave the same answer, "do I look like I give a f**k?", eventually she stopped asking, and when she wears something that got my instant reaction, "beautiful", since that day she only targets to get that response, without asking. Honestly I can't remember the first time told her she looks beautiful.
@Sailorbyday
10 ай бұрын
@@rosssaccheus5294 Are you joking with that grammar? It's you're not your
@Miss.831
10 ай бұрын
It’s even better when they say it without you asking. Just randomly telling you that you look good or beautiful. ❤
@MisterJackson2U
9 ай бұрын
This is the way.
@ixion113
9 ай бұрын
those guys get friendzoned . don;t be a nice guy . Don;t take advice from a " fish " on how to catch a " fish " men .
@ixion113
9 ай бұрын
bro stop the Cap
@Miss.831
9 ай бұрын
@@ixion113 Actually they don’t. Maybe you just do. Men wanna group every girl into one category. Not all are like your experiences.
@rasbyy
9 ай бұрын
@@ixion113that saying makes 0 sense and proves the opposite. Also its not a good look to compare communicating like a normal person to catching a fish btw
@tracemarto1288
7 ай бұрын
Or or or. You say “it looks great! I like the way the jacket compliments the shoes” or something to show you actually look med and think it’s cool
@sophiemariefarr
Жыл бұрын
as a girl- the more specific the compliment, the better! saying her earrings are pretty, the jacket is super flattering, her skin looks glowey, etc. compliments like THAT make you sound super genuine ❤️
@Lainge
Жыл бұрын
and don't forget gay, they'll definitely make you sound gay
@fujitsu-no
Жыл бұрын
For me it's the emotion that I see in the people's faces. When they make that "woooow" expression, I just feel amazing just from that. And then if they notice the details especially, it's when my heart melts.
@ulrikanilsson6395
Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@Apple-Pie-
Жыл бұрын
@@Laingeand that made you sound sad :( Fellas is it gay to love your partner and hyper her up in a way that makes her feel nice?
@pipisugbo
Жыл бұрын
@@Apple-Pie-yah
@amazinglynn
9 ай бұрын
I showed my boyfriend this video and now he does it every time 😂 I don’t even get to ask “how do I look?” anymore he just walks up and goes “oooh do a lil spin for me” 😂
@liiduovekhe6274
9 ай бұрын
And you like it even though you know it's fake 😅
@-8_8-
9 ай бұрын
It's a shame that instead of learning to understand what he means you thought the answer was for him to change.
@amazinglynn
9 ай бұрын
@@-8_8- what are you talking about?
@ilse3887
9 ай бұрын
@@amazinglynn well...when a 2 or 3 year old is pottytraining...when he/ she goes on the potty...then you clap your hand together..and say in a high pitched tone.." GOOD GIRL"!!!! this the adult version
@amazinglynn
9 ай бұрын
@@ilse3887 hmmm maybe 🤷🏽♀️ but my boyfriend and I like to be goofy together, I think having fun with your partner is important in long and healthy relationships. He’s my best friend and I love being silly with him, especially since he’s pretty reserved with most other people it makes me feel extra special that I get to see that side of him 🥰 you don’t have to like what we do, you can be boring and lame with your own partner if you want
@mufasachainbreaker7757
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes when someone asks you something, they mean a literal question. Sometimes they are looking for attention, affection, and/or affirmation. If someone asks you how they look, a lot of the time it will be the latter.
@Edge_Walker
Жыл бұрын
Only time its the first thing if if you both just woke up and relize you are late for something so you both rush to get ready and ur partner- right before runing out of door looks at you hands up and says- do i look good? Which bassicaly is a question of- do i look presentable enough to not look like i just woke up or have shit stuck in my teeth or my breath doesent smell 😂👌
@xdani_thethinkingneko
Жыл бұрын
Yeah when I ask my boyfriend, I'm not asking him to hit me up, I'm asking if I literally don't look bad...lol since obvi some outfits don't look good on my short legs lol
@onyx_alagasia
Жыл бұрын
@OutAgainYTit means the second possibility. In this case, asking for validation.
@explodingmangos3416
Жыл бұрын
Idk about you, but I want their genuine reaction to be “omg you look great! Hold on let me see the back? Yeah you’re killin it”
@mufasachainbreaker7757
Жыл бұрын
@OutAgainYT When you have a group of options, like option 1 and option 2, the former represents the first option and the latter represents the last option. This can apply in a variety of sequences like the time the options were presented in or the numbering of the options.
@phoenixfreefall
8 ай бұрын
The key point here, is that we want to feel like you are really seeing all the things we're looking at when we critique our own appearance, that you're not dismissing the question without proper consideration. Well done!
@liamjanssens7014
Жыл бұрын
Write that down! WRITE THAT DOWN!
@scottwpilgrim
Жыл бұрын
I'M WRITING CAPTAIN BUT I NEED MORE NAPKINS AND THIS CRAYON IS TOO SHORT.
@victoriadelapaz7541
Жыл бұрын
@@scottwpilgrime too and keep the ship steady i’m losing my balance!. edit you should pin this comment
@BRIEDITSSS
Жыл бұрын
@@victoriadelapaz7541Got a spair paper here 🔖📝 take some 😊
@anasafro7822
Жыл бұрын
The comment I was looking for, in Spongebob's voice
@victoriadelapaz7541
Жыл бұрын
@@BRIEDITSSS yes yes very good now where is my crayon I keep losing it !
@presleypollone6458
Жыл бұрын
HE CRACKED THE CODE
@monkey_girl-xv2sq
Жыл бұрын
I love the way he looks back at the camera like “you better write this ish down 👀”😭
@mantisgaming
Жыл бұрын
I took it as "it doesn't matter what she looks like. This is what you say"
@MyGuy81
Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@meredithgrubb4497
Жыл бұрын
My husband will straight up tell me I look like shit so if he says I look good...I know he means it.
@candela__
Жыл бұрын
I like that, as long as it's not rude, honesty is the best and the thing that makes me in particular feel safe ❤ Edit: grammar, not a native English speaker
@Awesummzzz
Жыл бұрын
Honesty is the best policy
@grantchampaign
Жыл бұрын
@@Awesummzzzyou are a sexy frog, Pepe. the sexiest of frogs
@samuelpoulin8148
Жыл бұрын
I honestly prefer it that way. I'm just honest. If she want to be out like that Idc. If she ask me and I don't like it I will say it but it doesn't matter if she doesn't change. As long as she's happy.
@Nonymous215
Жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀
@AlLEMM
9 ай бұрын
Wow that even made ME smile. ITS SOUNDS LIKE HE CARES
@ChristopherCraven
8 ай бұрын
How does sounding like a Disney kids character feel more real? The exaggerations are taken to 11 and a half, it makes zero sense to me that the over the top response is taken as more genuine, than understanding that a standard response feels real.
@strawberryshortcake4345
8 ай бұрын
@@ChristopherCraven yes, actually looking at the person and saying "you look good" with a smile, should be sincere enough, or complimenting something specific, a certain part of the outfit for example or their hairs.
@Definitelyanormalhuman863
8 ай бұрын
@@ChristopherCravenit’s because when you exaggerate your response it takes effort, so whoever you’re responding too realises that if you didn’t mean it you wouldn’t be putting that much effort into your response
@IkoIkata
8 ай бұрын
@@Definitelyanormalhuman863bro these mental gymnastics cured my bone deformity, thank you
@DeathOfAKing
8 ай бұрын
I feel like this is partly the issue lol Women expect men to act way unrealistic, then act like it was how genuine reactions should be. Yes, let me act like a cartoon character, super real reaction xD
@dawn8293
9 ай бұрын
Another option: pick out 1-3 things about the outfit that you genuinely like. Bonus points is they are things the really likes about her look, or (depending on the girl), things she's self conscious of. Respond with enthusiasm and love. You got this!
@shivanshsaumya7356
9 ай бұрын
This is actually the secret spice. Well done
@UserLeoh
9 ай бұрын
My monotone voice always struggled with this cuz it always sounds so judge-y and serious 😭 But at least I’m honest (to a fault) so they know I mean it… I think?
@falsealaska
9 ай бұрын
Especially if it has pockets. The pockets will ALWAYS be a woman's favourite part, especially if it's a dress or skirt!
@dawn8293
9 ай бұрын
@@UserLeoh there are certainly people who have monotone voices, and also those who can't or don't manufacture enthusiasm like this. That isn't a fault. It's a different way of being a person. With communication and with surrounding yourself with people who get you or who are willing to learn, you can find your own ways of helping the people you care about feel loved, special, beautiful, and/or amazing. I don't know your situation, stop my advice here might be bad, but maybe noticing when you like how an outfit looks and mentioning it, instead of keeping it inside. Being honest to a fault can be frustrating to some people (like me... I'm a sensitive little bean), but other people find it really practical and helpful.
@johnkersten8930
10 ай бұрын
Doing this for years, works every time. Love to make my wife smile😊
@blahblah8037
9 ай бұрын
Yes. The spin thing is the real tip here. It makes them think you actually looked and judged.
@JetJockey87
9 ай бұрын
I also like to make your wife smile
@Kaleb_Sc
9 ай бұрын
Whoever’s reading this remember God loves you very much!!
@KayBX
9 ай бұрын
This is adorable ❤.
@BamassacreGaming
9 ай бұрын
@@Kaleb_ScScience loves you more
@autumnknights3584
9 ай бұрын
Also helps if you point out specific things that you like it shows that you cared enough to pay attention
@turtle3341
8 ай бұрын
exactly, this feedback also helps tailor things to different tastes later on
@nehalbino8650
8 ай бұрын
How would someone know when u cut ur hair tiny bit and there is no fucking difference I almost broke up well we are engaged rn but it's difficult to understand ( so my gf went to parlor came back home I told her you look absolutely gorgeous because ik she wanted tht to hear later on after 5 min what did I do can u spot the difference I was like uhhhh thn I saw she is holding her hair man I said u cut ur hair which was like little bit no difference if she changed her style I wud have known ) anyway ik why you guys do tht but pls don't give us heart attack we are simple creature when we say you look good you look good thts it like can't you take it as compliment
@turtle3341
8 ай бұрын
@@nehalbino8650 you are right, putting someone on the spot is generally bad what complimenting something specific does though, is make any compliment sound less shallow. but being forced to find that one thing as a "spot the difference" is not about paying attention or being present in the moment, it's about memorizing a person which is weird and creepy. not sure why people ask for that
@nehalbino8650
8 ай бұрын
@@turtle3341 well I do pay attention to her it's not weird tbh it's finding if she is comfortable at tht particular moment and stuff but I hate things like if u can't particularly find the difference and ask what changes do u see
@BbBbb-js1qd
8 ай бұрын
Stfu go make something msubs then you’ll be told you did good maybe
@danair5575
Жыл бұрын
dude ... the reason why she loved it isn't because of your compliments... you made her smile.. and that is the secret to a good marriage.
@Dwanski
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes things like a smile sounds too simple to be considered something meaningful! I used the "smile" to many people that had birthdays in the past with the explanation that we smile when we feel good! Life is a mix of emotions and I wish everybody to have more reasons to smile because that means that overall our life is good! If someone is crushed by life .. they don't smile, at least not for real and you can feel it when you look at their expression! They try to mimic a person that they want to be at least associated with. 😢
@Jtommy18
Жыл бұрын
It’s the combination of both. Honest enthusiasm for what she cares about(how do I look?) plus making her smile.
@justsayin9699
Жыл бұрын
My ex wife was only concerned about money no matter how many times I made her smile. So I guess it's not always the smiles.
@jazzycat2990
Жыл бұрын
@@justsayin9699 sorry bro
@danair5575
Жыл бұрын
@@justsayin9699 i was talking about a genuine smile. Also sorry about your experience.
@T_T-T_T
Жыл бұрын
So basically: give her your full attention and emotionally engage with her in the moment
@paulogaspar8295
Жыл бұрын
yeah dudes don't talk like this. Just because this is how girls talk to each other doesn't mean you are more emotionally engage. Women need to learn that how they do things doesn't dictate how humans should do things.
@vincenttavani6380
Жыл бұрын
@@paulogaspar8295I would suggest that learning how to speak someone else's language is exactly the sign of love that we're looking for - and that I hope you'd want to give, too, and not just demand from a partner
@daltonwatson6952
Жыл бұрын
@@vincenttavani6380 thats why @paulogaspar8295 gets more women than you bro.
@robertamoriano6447
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Exactly this! You'd think it was obvious, right? But no 😂
@yasqueen9376
Жыл бұрын
Me suddenly realizing this isn’t the norm… apparently I’m too lesbian to understand that
@StarkRavenMad88
9 ай бұрын
My childhood friends mom would enter the room and say, "I want compliments, I got a new outfit." And walk out then re-enter. Never failed she got all the hype. Love that she knew what she needed, asked for it boldly and had all the support to get it.
@drewshy8072
11 ай бұрын
The look the teacher gives to students that says "You better remember this because i dont want to teach forever."
@allegrac230
10 ай бұрын
😂😂❤
@Chantilly907
Ай бұрын
Because she asked, "Do I look good," but what she wants is to be truly Seen & Apreciated. ❤
@EndureTyrant
Жыл бұрын
It's all about paying attention. If you say it casually they don't feel like they're catching your eye, they don't feel noticed. You gotta stop what you're doing and make them feel like they are the only thing you see in that moment.
@SusieQ3
Жыл бұрын
It's amazing how 10 seconds of solid attention to your wife can make her feel good about not only herself, but confident in how you see her and are attracted to her.
@adolphgracius9996
Жыл бұрын
more like playing attention
@mar-tin702
Жыл бұрын
In both cases we just have to fake it,we fake the compliments you fake the orgasms
@TheAKD56
Жыл бұрын
you are kids
@DivineDissident
Жыл бұрын
umm no its about learning to communicate honestly in a way your partner understands, not faking anything@@mar-tin702
@jeremiahmanning4861
9 ай бұрын
bro looks like he didnt sleep for a week trying to think of that💀
@ignanthunter6050
8 ай бұрын
Bro really just learnt what enthusiasm is.
@speakingcolors
8 ай бұрын
In this precise case, the formula is "enthusiasm+taking the time to actually look and notice the details" instead of half assing it and doing it quick asf while barely looking.
@serenity6415
8 ай бұрын
This is similar to the other way around. Enthusiastic consent. Enough said. Let them know we really want them. Enthusiasm is the key. Edit: him. I should have used clearer language lol. Not them
@chumaifezue4896
8 ай бұрын
Basically yeah lol
@dragonberretta9239
8 ай бұрын
Nah cause as a guy if someone said that to me I'd take it as sarcasm so I'd never say it to someone🤷♂️
@dragonberretta9239
8 ай бұрын
Nah cause as a guy if someone said that to me I'd take it as sarcasm so I'd never say it to someone🤷♂️
@paulh.5846
8 ай бұрын
Pretending you're the gay best friend
@yugantbeniwal
8 ай бұрын
My friend actually wished me to be gay so that she could be friends with me while having another boyfriend. Twisted world huh
@stayedleopard4
10 ай бұрын
I hype up my gf whenever she asks haha, her adorable reaction is always the best
@Chloebucko711
9 ай бұрын
Love xx xx
@stayedleopard4
9 ай бұрын
@John_Onestrand that's facts, that's why you need to do them. Women love getting lied to
@Ayesha______
9 ай бұрын
@@John_Onestrandin islam, lying in complementing your wife is actually allowed even though lying is not allowed generally.
@jewels3211
9 ай бұрын
super cringe. Oh tee hee I'm so cute and perky....blehhhhhhhhhh hold the phoney sweet vain af act
@uninvincibleete
9 ай бұрын
also this is such a simple, SIMPLE, cost-free way to make your partner feel great. she asks in a moment of vulnerability and instead of getting the bare minimum she gets hyped up! she feels great about herself and she feels great about you for making her feel that way! what a wonderful gift to be able to give someone you love.
@nolanmellas1588
9 ай бұрын
Can I feel like that too😢(man)
@anthonyhayman4981
9 ай бұрын
Only women children and pets are loved unconditionally@@nolanmellas1588
@etherspin
9 ай бұрын
Alternative is. Compliment whenever you think something works. On the times it doesn't, your opinion can count. Don't pander to each other or we aren't encouraging mature relationship
@hudmo4193
9 ай бұрын
So then what do you do if you don’t like how she looks/she doesn’t look good?
@div2608
9 ай бұрын
@@hudmo4193let her know honestly without being mean
@krystalrose5874
9 ай бұрын
The pointed look at the camera was the cutest thing.😂
@mynameis.6808
8 ай бұрын
Every look cracks me up
@maniacb9171
9 ай бұрын
Not him checking up on us to see if we're taking noted 😂🧡🧡🧡
@darthmaul2005
9 ай бұрын
The “spin for me” is always the absolute best
@autumnblalock5644
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY 👏🏾 HYPE 👏🏾 US 👏🏾 UP😂😂😂
@ADMICKEY
Жыл бұрын
Interesting pfp
@nomore69420
Жыл бұрын
Yeah fuck that
@aengusdedanann181
Жыл бұрын
i love that the over hyped and manufactured second response is the one you love and not the honest first response.
@RJLiams
10 ай бұрын
Are you hyping up your man in the same way?
@kiwimiwi5452
9 ай бұрын
also, specific compliments. I always let two curls of hair frame my face and yesterday I received a compliment on my general looks, and then they went into detail about the curls and how they thought that it's pretty. Loved the validation!
@katie85705
9 ай бұрын
When my daughter is in school I sit by the does to my apartment complex when I wait for the bus and already every woman/girl that walks by I try to give a specific compliment such as "I love your hair, that color is so beautiful" or "them leggings are such a cool design". Every time I see a small extra bounce to their step as they walk away. I don't compliment men because anxiety towards the opposite gender but I do give them a smile and I say hi to them sometimes even throwing in a wave. Sometimes though even those simple gestures can have me explaining to them why I'm not looking to date them (it's happens about once a month).
@kiwimiwi5452
9 ай бұрын
@@katie85705 with men it's a difficult line honestly! I love complimenting them since they don't get that a lot and a lot of them remember a good compliment for a long time. But it's difficult to do without them clocking it as flirting, I really get what you mean. I think the once a month thing might even be a weekly one if more of them had the confidence to approach you're doing something amazing for the people around you
@chriswilson7211
9 ай бұрын
Awesome, except if we validate you, we're automatically "creepy", so...
@justme-qd6qb
8 ай бұрын
@@chriswilson7211then just compliment the bros man, I'm sure they'll appreciate it too
@refugeguy777
Ай бұрын
Every man in a happy marriage of longer than ten years knows: he didn't discover something new. He may have set himself up for trouble in a few years, though. If you do this every time she asks if she looks good, that will become your normal response. She'll get used to it, and you can then never be any less enthusiastic than this. If you ever are, she won't believe you. You've also not left yourself any realistic place to go up with your reaction to drive home that she looks really good on special occasions. If you make this your normal in your relationships, the only hope you have is that she becomes more secure in her looks and feels the need to ask less and less as time goes on. That keeps this from becoming your lowest acceptable reaction and preserves it as a special, "I'm serious, you look really good!" reaction.
@TheGreatnivlaC
Жыл бұрын
You actually know how much this means to the boys!!!! Thanks brodda
@dustinstanley9134
Жыл бұрын
The real secret here is she is compatible with him and they understand each other. He didnt jump on the first thing he saw he found the one.
@WhiteUnicorn82
Жыл бұрын
Sure, but I'm still not convinced that siblings ought to be going down that route.
@dustinstanley9134
Жыл бұрын
@@WhiteUnicorn82 what would convince you?
@dragzgaming
Жыл бұрын
Nah the man just gotta pretend to give a damn when something really isnt important
@worldtraveler84
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@alexfrank5331
Жыл бұрын
Dream on, buddy. If the popular opinion about relationship are correct, failure rate wouldn't be so high.
@rightisright912
Жыл бұрын
OMG! Jack gets to go to the head of the class! 😆
@mellaberry6353
5 ай бұрын
If they are asking if they look good, they need emotional reassurance. Saying a simple yes you look good feels dismissive even though its a yes. When you put clear effort into looking and appreciating, and then say yes, it feels like you participated more. Its more validating even if its slightly fake because you are showing you are putting in effort and giving attention which gives emotional reassurance.
@salvie777
10 ай бұрын
It’s all about taking a moment to hype up your love
@jpartieda
9 ай бұрын
Well said!!
@eliyoungberg2187
10 ай бұрын
Your face every time you looked back at the camera said “are you guys writing this down” 🤣
@katrinepedersen9660
9 ай бұрын
Adding just a smidge of interest, and like you're really looking at her first makes that "Yeah, you look good!" seem so much more genuine. You're not just answering on autopilot, you actually mean it
@commanderadrianable
8 ай бұрын
Yeah... keep those complements up for a month, and you will get the same result as the first "you look good" comment. Unsustainable 😂😂😂
@Eclipse0_0-
8 ай бұрын
She seemed so genuinely happy that was so sweet Edit: rip my notifications💀
@XRROW_
8 ай бұрын
Rip ur notifications? You only have 170 likes and 1 comment, which is me. Pull ur head out of ur own ass...
@79f250ranger
8 ай бұрын
I would be that happy if a girl even did the first one to me
@meghna132
8 ай бұрын
@@79f250rangeryeah when a girl gives another girl a compliment We always feel like oh really thanks And then the gurls would remember it for her entire life seriously
@79f250ranger
8 ай бұрын
@@meghna132 I’m not a girl
@Sk83rNinja
8 ай бұрын
@Weinerpoops I just died at the end of that conversation 😂
@grimm4010
9 ай бұрын
Ive done this with my girl, she was in good mood the entire day 😌
@juhishah2917
8 ай бұрын
Good job!
@Hondadctrider
Жыл бұрын
As a father,I do this with my 13 year old daughter, if she's wearing something that doesn't suit her then I tell her, so she trusts me when I tell her that she looks lovely in an outfit. Us fathers have to look out for our daughters more and check them when an outfit doesn't suit them.
@Damocles54
10 ай бұрын
YOU, SIR! Are doing it correctly. So keep, you know, doing that.
@Hondadctrider
10 ай бұрын
@@Damocles54 Thank you.
@astranix0198
10 ай бұрын
Check out your daughters 😏
@Curtis.Carpenter
10 ай бұрын
epic dad comment. Respect, your daughter i imagine will grow up with an amazing bs detector and ofcourse a unbeatable example of what a good man can and shoukd be. if only all fathers wanted and took it upon themselves to be so involved and supportive.. most are just..okay shes in high-school, my job is done, aftwr doing the same when she enters elementary school.. >< . kudos dad!! i can only hope that by the time im ready to have kids youve begun doing your TED talk Tour and you come to my city. 🤝🏼🙏🏼🙌🏻🙌🏻😅 youve got about 3 years, i believe in you!!! 👍🏻👏🏻
@Curtis.Carpenter
10 ай бұрын
@@astranix0198he said check them.... not check them out don't be a childish goof. totally just ruined an opportunity to grow a little, big up a quality father, and acknowledge his input. ....and instead went in hoping to come out of this with some creepy laughs..AT BEST. you gotta fix them priorities lil man... disappointing,honestly dude... and dont tell me "its just a joke dont trip out"..cus... no sh*t i was 13 once 13 aswell ... this is a mans daughter(s), hes on our team!!!! and if you were any kind of man ,comment section or not youd respect that.. this particular type of respect is a cardinal line we do not cross as men. one of VERY FEW, And as men the only way we can continue to qork as a team anytime necessary and bw self reliant is by holding each other true and accountable to those very few Half-dozen tenants that we hold each other accountable to. otherwise society falls apart.. to keep the peace You need to at some point realize thats a friendly your poking there. way to essentially sign yourself up for repeating this grade with regard to your emotional and social development.. maybe next year. you can resubmit for evaluation Nov/2024.
@0starrecruit
8 ай бұрын
Them: Do I look good💅 Me: no Dumbledore said calmly
@Clymenus
10 ай бұрын
Emotions are extremely contagious
@armale99
9 ай бұрын
its his inflection and enthusiasm that makes it genius.... awesome advice
@TheRealBucciMane
8 ай бұрын
I love you guys ❤ Good advice while being absolutely hilarious!
@kerriehew8664
Жыл бұрын
Not all guys are talkers like girls. His eyes tell me everything I need to know. ❤
@mr.grumps3544
Жыл бұрын
You've been groomed to accept his lack of interest😂 ALL guys are talkers when it's something to do with what interests them. You've been fooled
@kerriehew8664
Жыл бұрын
@@mr.grumps3544 ok thanks
@dandylion2837
Жыл бұрын
😍
@phoebescott6787
Жыл бұрын
@@mr.grumps3544no, it's an individual thing. some people are more expressive than others. some are more introverted some more extroverted. not all girls are talkers and not all boys aren't talkers
@Allexstrasza
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, I'm not as verbally communicative, a kiss like I really want her and "a look" is usually enough to make her know how much I want her.
@karihowell9559
8 ай бұрын
If my husband came at me with that type of energy I would assume he was lying 🤣😂
@MLTSP_tradcath
8 ай бұрын
Oh for sure😭😂😂
@michaelbosisto6259
8 ай бұрын
Or he was gonna ask for a new truck
@JennzOrs
8 ай бұрын
Same
@Jim-p4y
7 ай бұрын
So is he wrong?
@karihowell9559
7 ай бұрын
@@Jim-p4y for me and others like me, yes. That wouldn't work. For others it might be a good idea.
@caleightilson8030
Жыл бұрын
It's all about energy. If you seem enthusiastic and engaged, you got it. If you barely glance and say yeah its good. It feels like you didn't really look at all
@idk_something301
Жыл бұрын
My overall energy going out to people has always been calm and I dont scream, even if I try to seem energetic people just tall me I look unimpressed and surprised. So question, what if i cant?
@aengusdedanann181
Жыл бұрын
yeah but the second sounded fake and like an actor trying to play a part.
@John-lz2bs
8 ай бұрын
I accidentally paused the vid after he said "and i got it right here" .and i thought that was the joke for a second 😂
@quindelladodson5243
Жыл бұрын
I’m showing this to my boyfriend😭
@ArtOfShannonLee
Жыл бұрын
My partner (seemingly) legitimately reacts to me like this very often. They look at me adoringly and get taken aback by me when I dress up. It just takes really looking and being present in the moment. I feel pretty because they really express when they feel that I’m pretty. Funny thing is, I don’t really care if I’m not and I wouldn’t care if nobody thought I was cute. But they make me feel like I am and that’s just like the cherry on top of everything. Just an unexpected extra gift 🥰
@GHOSTJCJ
Жыл бұрын
You are blessed. Treasure your loved one, always. ☺
@yammmit
Жыл бұрын
ok, for one thing, you don’t know their gender? and for another, why have a mating partner? there is no need. there are ways now to artificially impregnate oneself
@thishandleistaken1011
Жыл бұрын
"THEY"?
@dumbcat588
Жыл бұрын
@thishandleistaken1011 "they" "partner" might be non-binary.
@symoneprice798
Жыл бұрын
You will would care f you weren’t getting that reaction.
@noitsalan
Жыл бұрын
You are so right. I’ve been married for 13 years and when I started doing that my life got so much better
@phoebescott6787
Жыл бұрын
this is like basic human interaction... his "you look good" and uninterested demeanor and immediately moving on would not make anyone think he is genuine. showing literally any engagement or interest is obviously how you make someone know you want to talk to them and are being honest lol
@MK-hw2ir
Жыл бұрын
@@phoebescott6787 no, this is how men talk. “You look good” means that you look good....... and that’s our genuine opinion about your look. We don’t need to give you the “oH mY gOd YoU LoOk GoOoOoOoOoD”!!!!! To genuinely mean that you look good
@rooky3526
Жыл бұрын
@@MK-hw2irThat's the issue though. Us men are matter of fact in these scenarios and we do mean it, but that thought isn't conveyed to our SO. So when you reply that you look good and your SO doesn't feel the it's genuine or being conveyed properly then it's all pointless. I'm with you really, but as much as us men have our quirks, so does women. Bottom line is, you just can't have it your way and chalk it up to men being men. You need to find common ground.
@coffinmyface4237
Жыл бұрын
@@phoebescott6787this is basdic when youve been raised with proper emotional development, men are emotionally neglected and objectified on a regular basis, most of us dont even realize that, and we usually mean exacly what we say, and dont see need in an emotional reflection of that.
@the_specialist2051
Жыл бұрын
Did she leave you?
@robert8
7 ай бұрын
No disrespect though, but it has to be vice versa or else its just superficial compliment.
@nelvilla86
Жыл бұрын
My fiancé has done this for years and I showed him this video and he felt so proud of himself 😂😂💜
@F00Lsmack
Жыл бұрын
Aren't you conditioned to expect it though by now? Don't to not believe him still?
@JediWebSurf
Жыл бұрын
Please respond for science.
@nelvilla86
Жыл бұрын
@@F00Lsmack surprisingly no- because the look in his eyes is so genuine as he eagerly scans me up and down like an athlete at bat ready to swing, it’s not passive it’s intentional.
@F00Lsmack
Жыл бұрын
@@nelvilla86 daaaw good for you :)
@RachelleJacobson2012
Жыл бұрын
So so so good. It makes me want to cry , happy tears. Because it’s so true! We need to hear the passion and excitement when you express love and adoration. She even knew what you were doing and it still made her heart sing. 🎉Good job 🎉 never stop and you will have an awesome long life together
@jaromino77
11 ай бұрын
Only thing is that the energy level should be matched
@angsta22
10 ай бұрын
omfg.. and people ask why i choose to be single... lol
@WhoKnows-sr9ty
10 ай бұрын
@@angsta22i dont think your single by choice 💀
@angsta22
10 ай бұрын
Your first 3 words are all you had to say... lol @@WhoKnows-sr9ty
@wispyshore4874
10 ай бұрын
or you can shut up and grow up by acting like an adult
@lucasvincent3021
10 ай бұрын
It’s the enthusiasm that’s gotta be it “You look good” doesn’t sound like you mean it but the second time he said “YOU LOOK GOOD “ like he’s actually in awe of her.
@fuzyfuzfuz2
9 ай бұрын
Exactly! Think of a sales pitch. If an advertisement was flat and uninteresting would you buy the product? We use this kind of enthusiasm in marketing all the time. So why not use it in our personal lives? ESPECIALLY if it works? And has been PROVEN to work?
@bean_ctm724
9 ай бұрын
I'm not an enthusiastic person. I feel like I would be fake if I was fake enthusiastic
@vp2885
9 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, It has nothing to do with your enthusiasm- it is something to hype the partner up 😂
@AmeliaAKAme
9 ай бұрын
also since he hyped her up 👍 take notes men
@The-One-and-Only100
7 ай бұрын
I tried telling myself in the mirror, and it didn't work now. I'm telling my imaginary girlfriend to see if it really works
@themindset3329
Жыл бұрын
I only do that when I mean it. If I don't like something I'll tell her and give her a suggestion. So far she agreed with me 100% of the times and she loves it
@RandomGuyOnYoutube601
Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@bookuroooverwatch161
Жыл бұрын
My brother in christ. I don't even know where to begin when suggesting something.
@TheLuyoka
Жыл бұрын
@@bookuroooverwatch161I'd say be honest if you want to make a suggestion but since you feel unsure and quite cant put your finger on it you feel stuck on the approach and how to formulate your thoughts. Something like that or similarly maybe? And opening up the opportunity if she wants to try out different things (changing one item / or accessories) or ask her to explain her own suggestions or why she likes her own outfit. Because you want to understand and learn more about womens fashion. So you can explore and try different options together. I think a lot of women appreciate the attempt and interest even if you dont have any knowledge. Just like when each partner shows interest for the others hobby even if it's not for them or have 0 idea. The good intent matters :) Plenty of different approaches about it. And if you're not into it or interested you could just state like "Oh honey, you know I have horrible advice for fashion. I'm happy when you're comfortable and happy with your outfit"
@themindset3329
Жыл бұрын
@@bookuroooverwatch161 well I've spent many years mainly among girls so I learned quite a bit about fashion, combining shapes, cuts, colours, patterns and so on, also about makeup, so I know a thing or two 😅 If that's not your case it's alright, you don't have to suggest anything. She'll appreciate your *honesty* as long as you are being supportive and not putting her down, maybe you can find alternatives together
@thenumber5bus
Жыл бұрын
I did that once and told my oh she looked like a cave woman. Didn't go down too well but was the truth
@MagnetMagicGirl
Жыл бұрын
The fact that it works while she's listening to you explain it just says everything! We love to feel appreciated!
@atharv2575
8 ай бұрын
Bro is a lifesaver 😭
@ln8396
8 ай бұрын
No you're just slow it's not that hard
@noelkorren2600
8 ай бұрын
Making someone feel nice is that hard to understand? Something is so wrong with some people I swear..
@Sk83rNinja
8 ай бұрын
@noelkorren2600 i thought the yeah you look good was supposed to make them feel nice
@Robot-Overlord
7 ай бұрын
Ive performed an optical patdown and determined she looks good.
@thebiblenook
Жыл бұрын
She’s a ✨Words of Affirmation✨ Queen❤️ you just found her love language.
@japhalpha
Жыл бұрын
More like tone, energy, and emphasis of affirmation.
@Mugthraka
Жыл бұрын
Also called Attention WHore...
@Durio_zibethinus
Жыл бұрын
@@japhalphahe passed a vibe check
@Hug0Pro
Жыл бұрын
"Love language" 🤮
@joeking6762
Жыл бұрын
@@Hug0Promine’s a woman who doesn’t speak about this garbage as well.
@sunset_veiws
10 ай бұрын
I felt the happiness through the screen even if it wasn’t directed at me lol
@therapy.with.eve.nikolova
9 ай бұрын
Riiiiight ?!! So good 🎉
@lawand0o0
Ай бұрын
This gives "your wife, turbo flex wife" type of energy
@Jtommy18
Жыл бұрын
I love it! Basically if you ACTUALLY CARE about what they’re asking you, and show honest enthusiasm in answering, they feel genuinely supported! You guys are awesome!
@adielwilson8749
Жыл бұрын
What if you're not an enthusiastic person though
@AnonD38
Жыл бұрын
No no it’s not about actually caring, it’s about convincing her that you’re actually caring. Though if you do actually care that’s even better, however just caring and not convincing her is bad.
@lyes6033
Жыл бұрын
or you can call it commiting more to the lie 😅
@HenkJanBakker
Жыл бұрын
@@adielwilson8749 Does not need to be enthusiastic. Just "check it out", nod, and smile. It's mainly to not do it on autopilot. "You always look good," is about the worst answer. Take it from there and you are golden.
@samilea2181
9 ай бұрын
You're a thousand percent correct! With a few of my ex's I had to ask that question get that response they wouldn't even friggin look SMH your response was perfect you took interest actually paid attention and made your wife feel amazing
@patriciaobrien6600
8 ай бұрын
I sent a video to my ex when I was taking a sexy dance class and he never even commented on it. When I asked if he got it he said, "oh, you sent it just so u would get a response?" Uhh, yes.
@patriciaobrien6600
8 ай бұрын
He was my BF at the time, lol
@vakejargas
9 ай бұрын
I needed this! I’ve been responding with “no” and it hasn’t been working out too well…
@mariaguild2024
9 ай бұрын
oh boy!!
@ricktaylor4real
9 ай бұрын
😂🤣😜 WELL PLAYED!!! 👍🏼☮️
@meta5291
9 ай бұрын
You do that after you get married 😅
@forapps9364
9 ай бұрын
Oh dude, yes please take this guy's advice. FYI - if she picked out the outfit, then she likes the outfit and is looking for validation. Unless something is really wrong like a zipper that's pulling apart or really bad muffin top, don't say no. Instead say something like you have a smoking hot body and that dress is cut wrong for you. Always blame the clothes, never her and only do this in an extreme situation where she might be disappointed in photgraphs or a social situation. Remember, 99.99% of the time you are going g to say you look hot or wow and really mean it. Wishing you the best.
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