So basically what she is saying is don't get married.
@Stoiclady777
Ай бұрын
Sometimes it's the other way around and the womens sex drive increases and the mans decreases. If you truly love the person though you find ways to compensate without jeopardizing your marriage for your own selfish reasons.
@alexanderczimback2439
Ай бұрын
@@Stoiclady777 There’s always a way, if you truly care for your spouse. I think women in their 50s are spectacular, and men get lazy.
@Stoiclady777
Ай бұрын
@@alexanderczimback2439 I totally agree!
@jackdeniston6150
Ай бұрын
The mans decreases with YOU. 20 yo rejuvenates men like nothing else. And it is NOT about how hot they are
@terencemedina6080
Ай бұрын
@@Stoiclady777 women have the pocket rocket to help, what does a man have,? penis pump? That's not my bag baby
@ez-g3090
Ай бұрын
Yeah like a side chick or threesomes.
@user-qy5ue5ih7y
17 күн бұрын
Well, isn't that convenient? She loses her sexual desire for her husband and doesn't care about his feelings or needs, but he still has to provide for her and the family, whether he feels like it or not. So, in essence, she has no responsibility to her husband's needs, and he still needs to go down on that sinking ship. Stay in a sexless marriage and know what it truly means to be lonely or divorce her, and be financially ruined and lose your kids. I'll just say this, there are no guarantees in love or marriage, and over fifty percent of married men can attest to that, myself included.
@chrisbrimhall1613
15 күн бұрын
Funny, I’m 64 and sex IS NOT THE PRIORITY anymore…..life experiences, hanging with friends, hanging with my grown kids, traveling…..been married for over forty years and have no desire to have an affair….so not a exact science
@FredA-d9w
2 күн бұрын
Your machine might be slow from the beginning buddy😂
@dinavienna
Күн бұрын
I think she’s talking more about 40 somethings - the classical „midlife crises“, children being small to teenage years. what you describe is absolutely normal for successful long time relationships and the plus 60 age group .. often there’s spikes of the relationship being spiced up and that’s great but otherwise every age has their beautiful prioririties .. a satisfied old age with someone who’s shared ones life is what most people strive for and what makes humans happiest
@akferren1
11 күн бұрын
If you arent having sex and there’s no physical touch or intimacy you’re roommates
@iulian6h
Ай бұрын
If there is NO attraction...there is NO good relationship. If the man ends up Asking the woman for sex, OBVIOUSLY the relationship is no longer charming. If only You have initiatives and She has no initiatives There is no point in being with Her anymore. A good relationship doesn't just mean sex, it matters a lot what personality you have, mentality, openness, initiatives, communication, passions, how you see life, etc.
@user-qk4xd7re2j
23 күн бұрын
You might be too young to understand this. The notion that if a woman is attracted to a man she will offer sex without the man asking, is not true as woman ages. That's her point as well.
@c.san.8751
22 күн бұрын
You definitely do not understand what she is saying. Tells me you lack experience in relationship. Long term relationship usually connotes a commitment.
@xaviererickson3351
28 күн бұрын
Just keep getting them young like Leo
@beyonder1768
19 күн бұрын
This doesn't work. You missed the most important part she said: "When women get more connected to you, their sex drive decreases" - I have NO idea why this is and it makes no sense, but it's more or less true.
@tangobear3536
13 күн бұрын
There are many ways for spouses to satisfy each other, not just intercourse. Have a conversation(s) about it, see if there is a willingness to think outside the box. State what you need. People will work together if they value the relationship. If not willing to work on it, then you can explore other options or ending the relationship.
@user-zs2zq5lt2o
Ай бұрын
You have a wonderful way of putting it forward. Thank you
@lsporter88
Ай бұрын
She makes a great point. Great video.
@fionnmcnessa
Ай бұрын
She hasn't a clue I was a sex addicted untill I hit my 40's now it isn't the first thing in my mind in fact I have no interest in women even when they smile or start to talk to me I am just not allowed that interested so my sex drive had definitely decreased
@westaussieeggs8867
16 күн бұрын
there is also the aspect that when a man ages, he needs more stimulats to keep "it" up. He still wants/craves sex but with an ageing wife he cannot perform as well. It is just the physiology of ageing, Therefore he looks for a younger sex partner or looks for stimulation in internet porn. My husband told me he was no longer atracted to me after I had kids, fine I did not desire the whole act but needed the closeness of it and I was happy when he got his satisfaction even though I knew that in his head he was with a sexy, young woman, not this ageing substitute. Mariage is more than sex, it is commitment to the person and the family you create. I just cannot understand this obsesion with sex, it is as though people do not understand that it leads to babies and responsibilities.
@joelyehnert9823
11 күн бұрын
It is important for a man because we still have the hormone Testosterone being shot into our bloodstream every eleven minutes. Testosterone not only gives us our strength but makes us want to have sex.
@sereneaspirations7019
11 күн бұрын
The real reason is no real purpose in life. When you have a meeting and to raise a family and to be part of a community together makes a heck of a difference. Another point no matter how old children are they always want to come home to Mom and Dad if the relationship has always been nice not perfect just nice
@alanbooth9217
17 күн бұрын
so transactional thinking here sadly- is that what relationships reduce to- if you do that for me ill do that for you -so depressing if this is the ground of it all
@BookTrailers-hn4js
Ай бұрын
If he’s cuddly, gentle, smell good, clean, mouthwash a lot, and if he’s funny and affectionate, chances are she’ll crave him. He won’t have to do anything.
@shaneconnor5701
Ай бұрын
What is she bringing to that table
@amylozano573
Күн бұрын
She is bringing the same thing hopefully. She is attractive and tries to remain attractive.
@BernhardJohanRiemann
Ай бұрын
sorry this is definetly for some cases but she genralizes too often...
@aseed89
Ай бұрын
Life is based on generalities? Most things are made for right handed people, why? Because most people are right handed. Of course there are left handed people just like there are people who don't fit what she's talking about here but those are the minority, not the majority.
@saelaird
17 күн бұрын
I just cheat.
@tedj432
7 күн бұрын
She does too.
@Michael-yu4rp
Ай бұрын
As a man, in my opinion, sex drive changes as you get older, it has for me anyway
@marianna2721
Ай бұрын
Im 50 and my drives pretty good yet. 😊
@jaddyrose9318
16 күн бұрын
She just gave us the answer. “The more connected we are to you the less we desire you” wonder why she always lights up at a new boy. Give your gf mystery and dont ever commit until kids are necessary
@davidgolf3245
13 күн бұрын
If she is single in the video, can you ask her if I can take her to dinner, breakfast or lunch. I find her to be very attractive and I love her accent. If I need to fill out an application, I am totally game. Appreciate the insights, but when you get right down to it, both sexes are completely opposite and that's why it's difficult to find "the one". I have a dog, best relationship ever!!!
@DeuceBiggerHo
17 күн бұрын
Oh that explains it! Thanks Sadia😘
@TilemaxosPappas
17 күн бұрын
BJ saves everything 😂
@reneejohnson7711
Ай бұрын
This so true
@user-zi5hq8fj1b
Ай бұрын
As I try to make my way to the ordinary world I will learn to survive
@TMontana333
17 күн бұрын
Yep. Exactly.
@lars1480
Ай бұрын
That don’t add up with women cheat more Then men - not that we know this fore sure 😊
@user-hv3ln3rk8i
22 күн бұрын
women in what age?
@williamtomkiel8215
17 күн бұрын
def not going to show this to my 97 y.o. gf of 23 years. there are some compromises, however, but the right attitude for the win. .
@martinmorris1197
Ай бұрын
A lot of younger women tattoed up, piercing as 50 plus man I am scared to approach. I do not know woman have mental issues, molested, rebeilling society gangs, partner in jail. I prefer the older woman to approach first. We may flirt if both dating but know consequences want to do have sex long term.
@sessi47freed
Ай бұрын
Every man experience any women differently and vice versa.
@FredA-d9w
2 күн бұрын
I found few side chics and happy with them. Don’t bother to ask wifey any more as she never had interest in physical intimacy . She is happy with the big house and Lexus I provide her😀
@GodHelpMe369
Ай бұрын
Duality is what you experience when you believe your thoughts about your experiences. Nonduality is what you experience when you focus on your sensory input without paying attention to your mind’s interpretation of that input... Most people have already experienced "no separate self", and it just wasn’t that big of a deal... If you’ve ever “lost yourself” in a book or a movie, or been “in the flow”, where it seemed like your body was on autopilot and was just doing its thing with no “you” controlling anything, then guess what... That was the experience of no separate self! Congratulations! Once you’ve recognized the illusion it becomes easier and easier to see through. You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean within a drop! Every family has a person who breaks the chains of poverty and trauma... I AM that person! The only thing I'm giving up on in my life: is the need for specific conditions to be met, in order for me to be RADICALLY HONEST. RADICAL HONESTY is my modus operandi. JOY IS MY PURPOSE. YESHUA IS MY GUIDING LIGHT. When there’s a disagreement, when I need to say YES or when I need to say NO, when I need to state my needs, and ask for them to be met... When I need to create boundaries... There's a possibility and a probability, that someone will inevitably, most likely, be disappointed in me... So I engage in every encounter, interaction, and relationship... In a way that ensures, that the person disappointed in me... NEVER ends up being me! I aim to never repress, never suppress. I aim to never lose parts of myself. Radical honesty only: 100% of the time. Always, all ways. 1. Decide who you want to be and BE THAT 2. Set FIRM AND CLEAR boundaries 3. Cut out ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that doesn't serve your health and your wealth 4. Take action everyday toward your ideal life/reality 5. Gratitude 6. Master your mind/emotions (do not be a slave to these)! YOU ARE THEIR MASTER! 7. Keep your promises. Treat yourself like the Queen that you are. 8. Learn (and ultimately master) new HEALTHY skills 9. UNDERSTAND: not every man is built to see your value. They are not all capable nor able. 10. Be confident and authentic 11. Create peace around you, and within you 12. NEVER EVER accept anything/anyone that disrespects you and your boundaries 13. Be open to correction and growth and evolution 14. Be the woman God wants you to be and has created you to be A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, EVER, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. I don’t play any of these childish abusive controlling mind-games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen that I AM. Because I am a beautiful and kind and sexy and wise and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period. Whenever you are alone, remind yourself that GOD has sent everyone else away, so that there is only you and him... Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you. YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE IN ECSTATIC MOTION, BABY! Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes... For those who love with their heart and soul there is no such thing as separation. You have to keep breaking your own heart until it opens (It is only then, that GOD can truly totally completely fully enter)! Our greatest strength lies in the gentleness and tenderness of our heart. --- Rumi You are constantly being re-born, re-created, re-generated, every moment. No belief is contained, held, or stored anywhere. It might cause a cascade that brings a symptom, breathing patterns, somewhere in the body, but the concepts, thoughts, and stories are constantly being re-created. You are generating it ALL, and this is unconscious. You can change in an instant!!! Every morning you wake up, your life story is re-constructed. Do I have to wake up believing reality is the way I believed it was yesterday? When breathing is restricted, get curious about what is holding it back, when it is open get curious about why that is... YOU are the Artist! Awareness of something alone IS enough, it untangles itself, the knots let go of you. Choose Freedom, take responsibility for your own suffering. I plead the blood of Yeshua over you, right here right now, wherever you are. God, send your Holy Spirit on the one who writes this, and on the ones who read this... Give them peace and joy and bliss and health and wealth and love. Repent and allow Abba to hold you in His arms. Cry to Him about your pain, He loves you. He won't mind. He'll show you a way out. God bless you. NO WEAPONS FORMED AGAINST ME SHALL PROSPER NO WEAPONS FORMED AGAINST MY FAMILY SHALL PROSPER I AM RIGHT HERE EXACTLY WHERE I AM SUPPOSED TO BE
@decencywarrior9598
10 күн бұрын
As a human I once pointed out to my spouse -how much we work and spend time indulging in everything else 24/7 -except each other -really what is 15 or 20 minutes in a day . Oh and for the women -orgasms keep you young simple fact of life.
@catherinegreen3095
10 күн бұрын
This is a lie. My ex was NEVER on my level of sex drive. I down degraded when I picked him over someone else because I saw other qualities. My sex drive is still the same when I was in my twenties. What are you talking about?! Not every woman is the same. Please stop generalizing all women the same. It's so not true.
@im_095
19 күн бұрын
Hmmm I wonder how the conversation would go if men said as we get older, we just can't be bothered to provide as much as we used to 🤷🏻
@alexanderczimback2439
Ай бұрын
This is not really true. My sex drive has slowed down a little bit. My wife still enjoys sex as well, just a little less, like me. There are so many reasons, such as bad health, over weight, and lack of communication with your spouse. Exercise and healthy lifestyle ( diet) will help. Many ex couples just don’t like their spouse and either leave ( mostly) or cheat ( gutless) No one answer. I do know that the woman tend to put the blame on the man, also not true. A little romance guys, it works wonders.
@vinceocratic
16 күн бұрын
3x a week is nothing. My wife and I have been going strong and consistent at twice a day for years and we haven’t slowed down an inch.
@The12Believe
Ай бұрын
Aaaaw, I don't think SO!!? Women out here dating younger men. Girl Bye!! I'm one of them! 😂✌️👋
@terencemedina6080
Ай бұрын
So in other words a man doesn't cheat he needs more women 🙊🙉🙈
@LoveAndLoyalty9884
Ай бұрын
VERY YES..IF YOU CAN NO LONGER MEET HIS NEEDS
@ArathiJNair
7 күн бұрын
BUT MEN DENYY ITTT !!!!!
@sb853547
5 күн бұрын
No it's not true for all women
@davidowens8536
10 күн бұрын
Stating the bloody obvious ffs !
@charlesdial7152
Ай бұрын
Shit I see why they don't say nothing is because she will lose it 💯 and we don't want to go through the BS, men y'all have gotta be better with controlling ur wife and girlfriend and set some boundaries, y'all might can be ok. I'm going through something similar, and I'm getting a divorce from her of 24yrs of marriage and 3 kids 💔❤️🩹 I come to realize that I had alot to do with the situation between her and I. The dating thing is trash and I don't know what to say, let the girls say it and we are pervert. Stop putting on clothes that shows me and the world that my boo is got damn freak..smh, last thing; never trust a woman 100% because mine did it after all this time that went by. 💔 🤧
@bcthomps
Ай бұрын
WOW… one of the few videos where she doesn’t sound like a clown…
@vinipcplayer
Ай бұрын
But she said that whamen cheat more than men...
@sararouhi3942
Ай бұрын
I believe other factors has more weight that this... I think one the main reasons would be as time passes you will be more enlightened by ur differences (cause not even twins are completely similar) so if by the time marriage didn't take place, as a female I know we reach to a limit and be fed up.. then with a simple problem we call everything off and move on.
@CA1567-v8p
16 күн бұрын
Roommate with an old women, with no sex drive and share the same bed with her marriage sounds fun as you age
@davidhenningson4782
Ай бұрын
When this happened to me (wife started losing interest in $ex... mid 40s)... I used an analogy. I told her... if your partner (that you love) needs something from you, that doesn't do much for you either way anymore (but either way you don't mind doing it)... why not just help your partner out? I used an example... say she decided one day, that she never wants to clean another toilet again... but I don't mind doing the work (though I'm not enthusiastic about it either)... why wouldn't I just step up and offer to clean the toilets from then on? She smiled and told me we "have a deal!" I can have more $ex... but now have to clean all the toilets from now on😂
@airescrudup6531
11 күн бұрын
She can’t speak for no Man reason is the women start being lazy and not doing the things she used to do and talking back.
@JoseBoy-ve5kb
Ай бұрын
First time I don’t agree with her! Sex is overrated and not that important for long lasting relationships as is spiritual connection, trust and understanding.
@josephmanno4514
17 күн бұрын
In other words, you were never any good at it.
@jamesgill6213
17 күн бұрын
rubbish
@gwynnielsen5081
Ай бұрын
If a man wants to cheat on his wife, all he has to do is become an actor and "cheat" with beautiful women legitimately on stage or in film :). There are ways around breaking up.
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