If you feel Lighter, Easier, Better without them...let it go and dont look back.
@MentalHealness
7 ай бұрын
🙌🏾
@MONEYAINTATHANG100
7 ай бұрын
str@ightalk & Company 💯
@FindYourFree
7 ай бұрын
periodttt
@shawnharris8855
7 ай бұрын
What if you are not? He is working on himself and I am working on myself. I think we will end up back together at some point? (physically separated by states) I read my journals from the past and I feel sorry for the girl (ME) who wrote the words on those pages. , but I can see now what part I played with no boundaries and shutting down.
@tammygarrett8427
7 ай бұрын
@@shawnharris8855 Good luck I hope it works out for you
@brandiphillips5775
8 ай бұрын
I’m 70 days no-contact. I’ve gotten a decent job, my own place, and an healthier than I’ve been since we married 11 years ago.
@bluuberry5639
8 ай бұрын
I so love this for you! Congratulations
@kiramitchell8898
7 ай бұрын
So happy for you! Manifesting this for myself. 24 days for me 💪
@prettypeyalimon6097
7 ай бұрын
Wow, ❤😢 Amazing Amazing.. if you can do it, surely I can too 😢 I’m done
@JojominoKamanga
7 ай бұрын
Wooooow
@SeancyBillups
7 ай бұрын
6 months NC 🎉
@avarzamca4738
8 ай бұрын
So funny, because while in the relationship and it's you that is trying to keep communication they don't want to, but when they are cut off they don't like it 🙄
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
🥹🥹
@LDTwin92
8 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯
8 ай бұрын
Better them than me
@IsabellaPiesch
8 ай бұрын
No matter what you do it is always wrong. You can´t please a narcissist. Just move on and live a happy life (without the narcissist).
8 ай бұрын
Easier said than done. Fact is. We got no other choice
@motowngirl5891
Ай бұрын
NEVER EXPLAIN anything to them, SILENCE IS GOLDEN
@MelissaGtafkam17
8 ай бұрын
My favorite is “I just wanted to make sure you were OK”. Why? If I wasn’t, we both know you wouldn’t do anything about it
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@pazyamor1313
7 ай бұрын
That part!! 💯💯 Exactly its always about them!!
@UberAwesomeDewd
7 ай бұрын
I feel like I was the narcissist in my recent relationship because I did ask them if they were okay because there was an ice storm in our area and they dropped everything to leave with only a few dollars in their bank account and wanted to know if they need grocery money
@obish4476
7 ай бұрын
the guy that abused me sent me this exact sentiment through email. it was the only way he could reach out lol
@tutiism
7 ай бұрын
It's amazing how they all are similar. She literally texted me less than a week ago asking if I was okay because she had a nightmare and wanted to check on me...geez!
@ardoniaamand6196
8 ай бұрын
No contact after 20 years. It’s like a death. The grief and mourning is hell! BUT stick with it! It gets 100% better. Stay the course! Get your life back! It does get so much better and opportunities open up that you couldn’t even see before.
@IsabellaPiesch
8 ай бұрын
To stay in that realtionship would be death in fact. Narcissists never change their path ... I am glad that I am out of this hell. I am much better now (really I am). Better alone than with such a person.
@joannasummer
8 ай бұрын
You are so right 💜
@jasminecampbell9105
8 ай бұрын
Hang in there. I overstand, if you really love a person you go through the 5 stages of grief. I'm 3 months NC and living my Best Life. They are parasitic energy and attention vampires. 😢
@gigicooper1759
8 ай бұрын
I was married 18 years, it is a death...two years no contact, the only regret I have is not having left sooner. I had no idea what I was dealing with. I'm sure your story is similiar. I wish you peace/healing in your journey. It is truly time for you - Best Gigi
@IsabellaPiesch
8 ай бұрын
@@gigicooper1759 I wish you all the best too. For me it were 19 years... All in all it was also a learning experience for me. But yes it was a hell of a ride.
No contact since 19 days exactly. I cant believe i could do it. I feel relaxed, happy and a lot more productive than i usually was
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
stay strong
@IAm_Meeh
8 ай бұрын
Stay strong 🎉😊 .. i would say, look at narc videos when u start feeling comfortable just to remind yourself why you are going with no contact ... and remember your sanity is at stake ... best wishes for you❤
@BillClinton228
7 ай бұрын
Be careful working for a narc boss... they can be quiet vicious when you leave them and will even try to prevent you from getting another job. Sure, you can sue them I guess but do you have the time and money if you dont have a job?
@anniewrites404
7 ай бұрын
@@IAm_Meeh 💛🧡❤thank you
@cherrydeleon9646
7 ай бұрын
Thank you BRO' they are all over on Social Media. Sheep in wolves clothing. Greetings from Jamaica 👌 🇯🇲
@OneWisdomj25
8 ай бұрын
This sounds like serious spiritual warfare. When you said they love “access to you” it gave me chills.
@TiffanyParson-mw3yz
8 ай бұрын
Bc it it!
@BrittneySharde15
8 ай бұрын
I AGREE IT IS!!!! 🙏🏿@@TiffanyParson-mw3yz
@35Zeuss
8 ай бұрын
Someone said they're like dark warriors walking the earth... deep. Messed up and cunning, their smart so be on your ques
@35Zeuss
8 ай бұрын
@@Xenlacasa45 lol, they aren't easy
@Xenlacasa45
8 ай бұрын
@@35Zeuss I ended up having to change my phone number yesterday after 7 years with the same number. They refuse to behave my narc ended up blowing up my text messages and texted my normal number again, I also had my phone on call forwarding and they pointed that out too “you changed your voicemail” like damn have someone respect for yourself and phuckoff lmfao
@boondock2969
2 ай бұрын
I battled my narcissist ex husband for 8 1/2 years in court over our son that he didn’t even want, it was a power game to him. So abusive. I never gave up. He finally stopped.. had another kid and gave that baby our son’s name (I named our son while pregnant while living in a shelter when he abandoned me while pregnant) as a petty slap back to say he replaced him. Luckily we haven’t heard from him since. Trust me when I say that no tactic is beneath them.
@MentalHealness
2 ай бұрын
stay safe
@PrettyLola-mm4ux
19 күн бұрын
Wow he is BIG petty! I went thru something similar - years of family court just for and play name games with his replacement - he went from wanting full custody to never speaking to our child again
@billionaire2370
8 ай бұрын
It's the "ik you hate me." Like, no, YOU hate me, I'm not concerned with you.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
🙏🏽
@lemondropzs
6 ай бұрын
that part
@SirenDarko
5 ай бұрын
Yes! He’s constantly telling me that I hate him when all I have shown him is love!
@briizyfbaby16
2 ай бұрын
I just got that text last night 😂
@OneWhoKnowz
Ай бұрын
They telling u how they really feel
@rebekahhawkins1318
Ай бұрын
I got the: “I guess I’m destined to be alone.” YES! You run everyone off
@thehipsenior
8 ай бұрын
When I ended it, I told him don't reach out asking if I'm ok, don't drive by my house, if we run into each other in public - it's not a sign of destiny. It'd just be an unfortunate event.
@Angola88
8 ай бұрын
😁😁😁😁
@ladyllf48
3 ай бұрын
I should have use those words, 😂😂😂
@PurelyTactical
Ай бұрын
That’s good 😂😂😂👌🏾
@Akasanaesp
Ай бұрын
Yea you betcha they'll hoover with new accounts and get someone else to check up on you. But stay vigilant and stay peaceful.
@reflectionofvenus
7 ай бұрын
as soon as u said the “please at least let me know you’re safe” i started dying laughing bc thats his go to line every single timeee
@thebestindewest
6 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@Free-Indeed
8 ай бұрын
9 months no contact!!! Had to change a phone number I had over 20 years. It’s worth it!🙏🏾
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
🙏
@SabrinaBridges-si6tb
8 ай бұрын
7 months and still he will not stop. He has access to my phone . He is disrespectful.
@fjustice8544
8 ай бұрын
@@SabrinaBridges-si6tb Report him if you have too for your own safety keep a log but please maintain no contact. I wish you a brighter happier new start ahead 🙏🏼
@Xenlacasa45
8 ай бұрын
Just changed my phone number today after 7 years with the same number. Even the day I gave my narc my cell number I said “oh boy here we go” and my gut instinct wasn’t wrong at all!
@Byebandit50
7 ай бұрын
Same!
@kaykekev
8 ай бұрын
No contact in your 70s means blocking them from your cell phone because we don't have the energy for multiple social media channels 😂😂😂😂😂
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
😆
@endureascension6574
8 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯
@sharonwentz3244
8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@pazyamor1313
7 ай бұрын
😂😂
@friendly0
8 ай бұрын
You're helping millions of people Lee, you're one of the good ones, we appreciate the hell out of you!
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
8 ай бұрын
He's good. Goes off course sometimes but that's usually when he brings in the funny stuff!
@itachi65ful
8 ай бұрын
Easy there don't go stroking his ego. To you he is but to his victims he not.
8 ай бұрын
Victims of what crime?
@itachi65ful
8 ай бұрын
@ he's a Narcissist. Are you not aware of what that means?
@danieb4273
8 ай бұрын
The saddest thing is these people are real. That these are real relationships people are having. The fact this even exists is just so sad 😢.
@FIREDEATHDAN
7 ай бұрын
It hurts more when your own mom is the narcissist 😢
@Divinecoachingenterprises
7 ай бұрын
And Father
@beautifalleuniq7926
7 ай бұрын
That part!
@terencejulius5352
7 ай бұрын
My mom is the poster child for toxicity and narcissism
@cwarpaint2763
7 ай бұрын
Yes. The effect is so deep.
@francinenazaruddin
7 ай бұрын
Truth! Me too. How is your no contact going?
@Annie-ol3jx
8 ай бұрын
I've been no contact for 5 years now and it's the best time to ALLOW YOUR HEALING TO TAKE PLACE! GET RID OF ALL TOXICITY FROM YOUR LIFE,NEVER RETURN!! NEVER LOOK BACK, THEY ARE NO CONTACT FOR A REASON! LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH ❤
@IsabellaPiesch
8 ай бұрын
💯
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
‼️💯
@Shontise_Shonie
8 ай бұрын
AMEN!!!!
@Annie-ol3jx
8 ай бұрын
@@Shontise_Shonie ❤️
@valeriewilliams9488
7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@MsFox2u
8 ай бұрын
I blocked my ex-narc while we were still together and told him that I was. I started with Facebook and Twitter, and after he moved out, I blocked him from calling/texting/emailing me. It'll be 3 years no contact in April 2024.💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
💪🏽
@user-ow6ci4uq5u
7 ай бұрын
I did the same thing. I will never again. He wasted so much of my time. 28 years. I'm so glad he's gone. My house is so peaceful.
@SharonNed-x3r
5 ай бұрын
Yes sir, he can roll around in his dog house, keep on dreaming. Sucker!!!😅
@gigicooper1759
8 ай бұрын
I cannot stress how important it is to go NO CONTACT! Two years soon! Therapy helped but honestly, Lee has helped the most. He confirmed everything that seemed inconceivable to me. Yes it hurts, yes you will and must grieve, yes you should go to therapy. I have peace, I do not miss his lousy toxic ass. NO CONTACT is for you, it is the fast forward to healing. And for god's sake, don't jump back into the dating pool...you'll pick another one. Note I said YOU! Learn how to set boundaries. Know your self worth. Healing takes time. Love yourself.
@kellithomas9080
8 ай бұрын
No contact is so underrated I swear!! But it helps sooo much! You will cry and feel like you are dying! But that is the breaking of the trauma bond and addiction to the person. I can’t completely go no contact because we have a 7 year old but the contact is VERY limited. I only respond to what I need to and only reach out when absolutely necessary. I am not mad or sad, really, just done and want him to stay away from me. It’s like once you clear from the fog, you start to see things for what they are. Like, I was really crying and wanting to be with a whole clown?! Very flawed, low character, lustful, porn addicted, lying, cheating, portrays to be a Man of God! I could go on and on but nah I’m good! I just can’t believe how fake he is. I will never and I mean NEVER allow any tears to fall down my face for him ever again!! Ugh
@vickiaveyard4897
8 ай бұрын
Amen to that 🙌🏼 never jump straight back in. My DV counsellor told me that. And my therapist. The former said you are bound to pick the same one again. It’s a really important message. Heal first. Because you are mostly likely to not recognise bad behaviour. The time spent alone was priceless. The peace when it happens is priceless 🥰
@LethalWeapon73
8 ай бұрын
Yes, date yourself, treat yourself and focus on your dreams and goals.
@littlepip4014
8 ай бұрын
Yup! I’m going to be celibate for a year while in therapy, my self worth is so low after 7 years of abuse. I’d probably just cry if someone treated me with basic human decency so I absolutely cannot get in another relationship because I know I’d be an easy target.
@littlepip4014
8 ай бұрын
@@kellithomas9080I broke the trauma bond in the relationship. I had wanted to leave for years but even thinking about it really felt like dying!!! He did everything you mentioned yours did too! It’s crazy how many narcs are porn addicts.
@ladycancer9330
8 ай бұрын
Was in a relationship for 6 years. Saw them recently at a function. I totally ignored him. My friend told me he kept staring at me with a strange look on his face. I just enjoyed myself and kept it moving.
@mightymom1691
8 ай бұрын
Day 9 no contact ! So proud of myself becsuse I’ve tried about 20 + times before and failed every time after about 3-4 days! No no no .. this time around is different ! I Going to make it!!! Getting easier every day! Your videos sure do help! Thank you!!
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
you’re welcome. stay strong and protect your peace
@hallepetta2124
8 ай бұрын
@mightymom1691 you can do it! That’s literally double your past progress! That’s monumental! Keep it up it will get easier I promise. Keep doubling that number! You’re so strong for it!
@Minecraftpe5
8 ай бұрын
Hey, Just a little update. Did you make it? Are you still in no contact?
@StormyMonday0896
7 ай бұрын
I am coming up on the one year anniversary. Feels so freeing to be out from under the oppression
@deehyatt5173
7 ай бұрын
I’m trying starting tomorrow- when he gets his shit out of my house -wish me luck I desperately need it 😢😢
@NBA.Ka5hMeRe
8 ай бұрын
I laughed so hard at this. It's so crazy but they really do act like "i just wanna know you're safe"... dude, i was safe b4 u & I'll be safe after. Lol! I'm not safe with you! 😂 Lee, u are hilarious acting like that, it's so real though. Smh
@lynetteewell2410
7 ай бұрын
I agree and yes Lee is hilarious. It’s so good to be able to LAUGH!
@ShirleyMostert
5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
@shandawilliams4069
4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Hella funny
@alexsmith8420
8 ай бұрын
The only way to Break a narcissist is to become a narcissist to them 🥴
@Ultra_Ultraline_27
8 ай бұрын
Exactly, mirror them
@libra44
8 ай бұрын
Yeah this works too... 💯
@michellebrown6580
8 ай бұрын
Being a narcissist to them.. this made me laugh so hard!! Thank you 😂😂😂
@loudmouthentertainment1277
8 ай бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂
@i76sin2
7 ай бұрын
Ive been called a narcissist or sociopath my whole lite I think my last girl was a narc fr
@lisasmith8856
8 ай бұрын
I just went no contact with my husband of 4 years. After cheating and name calling and blaming me for everything wrong in the relationship. I finally left have gone no contact for almost a week. His mistress came to the house and threatened to unalive me. I caught him talking to her multiple occasions and he promised to stop. He didn't. Then he started accessing me of cheating. I was so tired of defending myself for things I haven't done. In between the maltreatment and cheating I woke up one day and decided I was tired. He got really angry and cursed me out via text when I told him I wasn't coming back. He said he would throw away my clothes. I told him go ahead. I wasn't coming back. I know he will probably hoover me or try to but thanks to videos like this I am preparing myself. Thank u Lee
@galaxyqueen8835
8 ай бұрын
You did the right thing to leave. I’m sure he’s going crazy wondering what went wrong. I hope women will see through him and never ever give him a chance. He doesn’t deserve any good feminine energy.
@bongdubie6997
5 ай бұрын
Don’t go back alone to get your stuff or he might love bomb you into staying!
@cassandrajenkins-kx1dp
Ай бұрын
Please just start over this sounds horrible u r worth more than that
@John-sweeney333
7 ай бұрын
My situation with a narcissist ended when I pulled the plug and she didn’t see it coming.Blocked her on every viable means of communication and contact,even got a new phone number.My advice would be to pull a complete Stone Cold Steve Austin on this pathetic excuse of a human being, let them sway in the breeze.It’s been a year since my departure from the worst experience of my life.Stay strong everyone and regain yourself!😊
@renelledavis5876
8 ай бұрын
I don't have to block a person to go no contact.... I see the messages and calls but I don't respond.
@marinaavant
7 ай бұрын
That would trigger me, you are so strong , good job❤
@deehyatt5173
7 ай бұрын
I wish I could 😢!! One day I’ll get the strength - I always have some smart a££ comment 😂
@shayemoore
7 ай бұрын
Same here. I didn't block the person who keeps texting me. I just ignore him cause I love watching him seethe 😆
@yxung_nif0628
7 ай бұрын
Same here❤️
@Harp17
6 ай бұрын
Right. I unblocked them
@MorningDove
8 ай бұрын
Get rid of love letter, photos,gifts of any kind, jewellery, pieces of their clothing, furniture they gave you ... evvverything!! All these things trigger us and should definitely be thrown. It works!!!
@michellebrown6580
8 ай бұрын
Yes I just got rid of every piece of clothes, perfume, shoes!!
@QDub814
7 ай бұрын
It’s the pictures that pop up in my memory 😩
@FJBravo381
6 ай бұрын
True this! You can literally feel the dark vibes leaving… anything attached to them, get rid of. 💯🙏🏼
@kaylaaicher3902
5 ай бұрын
yes it works!!
@FJBravo381
5 ай бұрын
I did & it may be painful at the moment, you’ll thank yourself later. Don’t forget to lay low on social media, they surely will be trashing you up there & in person in your town & state. BLOCK THE NARC & ANYONE WHO SIDED WITH HIM, ALLLLL OF HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS, MUTAL ACQUAINTANCES, YOUR FRIENDS WHO HES PLAYING YOU AGAINST, INCLUDING YOUR OWN FAMILY. Do not look back. It’s hard but I have faith in every victim and plead the blood of Jesus over all unsuspecting victims of these evil flesh sacks 🙏🏼
@alisachaise3
8 ай бұрын
Again acceptance is were it makes it easy. Once you accept it for what it is, it’s easy. Accept you don’t want disrespect in your life and they’ll not change and you good 👌
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
💯
@Indigenious.Kopper.Goddess
8 ай бұрын
Big Facts when I accepted it I healed quickly. No Contact is my Power trust.
@stephaniemarshall6788
6 ай бұрын
I am taking your advice and choosing my life. I chose life, please Lord help me to help him Leave my home. Please Abba Father, I do not understand all of it. I do understand how crazy and crappy my life has been for ten years
@lemondropzs
6 ай бұрын
100% you're not even upset you low key are just intrigued to be witnessing the psychosis before your eyes. It makes it more fun to document it too and see how everything you know is validated (not that it needed to be). One thing you can bet on is that they are painstakingly predictable.
@elonpham1988
8 ай бұрын
We normal people can't satisfy the narcs. They are not from this earth.
@lindabaker4894
8 ай бұрын
I'm 3 months into total no contact. I will be alone for Christmas but he always caused drama and ruined the holidays anyway. I'm so stress free now. I dreamed about him last night and Lee, I jumped on this video first thing. Your encouragement and insight is so helpful
@IsabellaPiesch
8 ай бұрын
Merry X-mas!
@vvbanx5760
8 ай бұрын
Me and the narc had an argument on Christmas, at this place. I left....for the last time. I spent Christmas alone. I cried a couple of times, but also felt so much peace. I knew then that it was near the end. I remembered that my bday was ruined but his, *I* made special. A normal human would have, at least, offered to make up a special day that they ruined. NOPE. So, after Christmas, I said, no more. I have to be done with this. I pray your 2024 is so blessed, peaceful, and prosperous. 💚
@user-rw4xc6be9h
8 ай бұрын
Yup they will ruin events and the truth is going no contact with a Narcissist is like the feeling of hitting the number ❤
@navimarlow
8 ай бұрын
He always talking about I’m going to call you mom and dad. Little do he know my mom a NARC, she don’t give 2 fuksss
@ikeidaSomone
7 ай бұрын
I felt that part about “ruined the holidays anyway”. For me it was vacations and holidays 🤦🏽 I’m so happy I went no contact.
@SereneHorror
8 ай бұрын
The difference between "no contact" and "the silent treatment" isn't talked about enough and alot of people are misinformed
@BrittneySharde15
8 ай бұрын
Facts!
@corneliabaker587
8 ай бұрын
7 Years No Contact PEACE PEACE PEACE 💯
@comfortzone5618
2 ай бұрын
That’s amazing!
@BanksNotTyra
7 ай бұрын
Just learned this No Contact It was hard at first but the disrespect got worse so I had to Stand On Business and cut off all communication
@gracegarce8026
8 ай бұрын
It's been 90 days now since I went no contact with my toxic covert narcissist friend. Truly liberating and makes my personal growth progress way better.
@eve5568
8 ай бұрын
Bro… I know you were serious but I am here cracking up because that is exactly how they sound .😂 thank you for this
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
😅😅 you got it
@jasminerodgers9553
7 ай бұрын
That part made me feeling better
@GodHelpMe369
7 ай бұрын
4-part PRAYER: 1) There are 6 things Jesus has shown me I MUST do... - I have to make amends to my sister - I have to use my voice (radically honestly) - I have to write the book - I have to continuously surrender to God, more and more - I have to completely let go of Bryan... - I MUST DANCE! I pray I accomplish all of the above in this blessed New Year of 2024. I pray I don't have to do it alone. I pray Jesus and the angels assist me and guide me, and help me through all of it... So that it all feels joyful and easy! 2) I'm desperately lonely and alone. I pray for true love (with my twin flame). And a tribe of real friends. 3) I pray to be healed on every level, in every way: - emotionally - spiritually - mentally - physically - generationally 4) I pray for YOU! Yes you. You who are reading this. May you be blessed. For on the deepest levels... Crazy as it may sound... We are each other!
@Aaashnative8
7 ай бұрын
I love this
@stephaniemarshall6788
6 ай бұрын
Awww thank you, truly needed that, so does he. Sending you love and prayers back, Praying this demon back to HELL WHERE IT BELONGS!
@halllcrystal
7 күн бұрын
Amen🧡🌻
@AnastasiaLimanto-io2kw
8 ай бұрын
My narcissist ex was so mad after I exposed him to his mistress, he texted me saying, “I think we shouldn’t talk anymore even as friends.” I gave his text a thumb up. It was always him anyway whom contacted me first even after I said I didn’t want to be friends with him and talk to him anymore. Long story short, he texted me 2 days later acting like nothing happened, like he never said “we shouldn’t talk anymore” 🙄. What a shameless creature! That was when I finally blocked him for good. It’s been 1 year since I went no contact with him. I’m so proud of myself! 😁 Of course he tried to hoover me. Didn’t work on me! Good riddance!
@kellithomas9080
8 ай бұрын
Omg I am sooo proud of you!!!
@AnastasiaLimanto-io2kw
8 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@gemmahayward9027
7 ай бұрын
Well done! I always find this so interesting. I had an ex I would chase and chase anytime he'd break up with me (control related if i was seeing my friends). By the last time I was mentally checked out and he sent so much vitriol, I responded 'bye'. A few months later I started dating someone else and he messaged like 'oh you moved on quickly'
@AnastasiaLimanto-io2kw
7 ай бұрын
@gemmahayward9027 yap, the same with my narcissist ex. Before I divorced him, he broke up with me twice for no reason (or it seemed that way at the time). One day out of the blue he said, “I don’t think I want to be married anymore.” I have pride. As hurt as I was, I would never beg for anybody to be with me. I simply agreed. Of course he never filed the divorce even though I already signed the paper. Then he found out that I was going out with a guy, & he texted, “I couldn’t believe you were going for a date. You hurt my feeling.” Later on I found out that he’d been cheating on me, & that was his real reason for wanting to divorce me. What an a$$hole! I processed the divorce a few days after I found out his cheating, stealing, using me for money & much more. He was the one who was begging me to stay. Not a chance!
@AnastasiaLimanto-io2kw
7 ай бұрын
@gemmahayward9027 yap, the same with my narcissist ex. Before I divorced him, he broke up with me twice for no reason (or it seemed that way at the time). One day out of the blue he said, “I don’t think I want to be married anymore.” I have pride. As hurt as I was, I would never beg for anybody to be with me. I simply agreed. Of course he never filed the divorce even though I already signed the paper. Then he found out that I was going out with a guy, & he texted, “I couldn’t believe you were going for a date. You hurt my feeling.” Later on I found out that he’d been cheating on me, & that was his real reason for wanting to divorce me. What an a$$hole! I processed the divorce a few days after I found out his cheating, stealing, using me for money & much more. He was the one who was begging me to stay. Not a chance!
@mickeymaliyah774
8 ай бұрын
I swear I’ve never laughed through something as much as I watch your videos lol 😂 they heal me fr lol and teach me
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
😆 happy to help
@t.e.8084
8 ай бұрын
Went no contact with my toxic sister for 8 years now. Best years. No put downs, sarcastic remarks, lies etc. We were never close. No don't miss her.
@treshasstarr1513
8 ай бұрын
I went no contact with my father, he’s going crazy, smear campaigns, telling ppl I’m doing a s@x change that I’m a wh@re that I’m crazy that I’m this and that….when anyone calls me with this foolishness I just hang up on them Kmt I’m not playing games with anyone anymore
@sandradee1579
8 ай бұрын
I've gone NC with mine for the same reasons 6 mos, 1 yr & 4 yrs. I never missed her ever & very peaceful time for me. Her pattern was to seek me out cards, gifts in the mail & texts. I didn't respond, however each time I only did for our parents sake & within months she returned to her same behavior? I should've known better & now I do it's been 3 mos NC. History will repeat itself. I'm done.
@loveofmylife1578
8 ай бұрын
That hit home when Lee said you have to be ok with it being your last time to talk to that person. I went no contact not ready to do so and it set him aflame. I didn’t do it to hurt him but help me and when I did he continued to show his true dusty, ugly, unkempt spirit. You are not about to hinder my growth nor diminish my worth. How are you mad at me and you said I didn’t know how to treat a man😂😂😂😂😂. Bless your heart little one.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😅
@kellithomas9080
8 ай бұрын
Yea they want you to be stuck! I heard that before too! “You don’t love me how I need to be loved” boy bye! Go get some healing! Nobody is putting up with lying, cheating, manipulating, gaslighting, and all the many toxic things, forever!
@loveofmylife1578
8 ай бұрын
@@kellithomas9080 yes, yes, and yes. I want to whip my own arse sometimes for staying knowing damn well I had zero business with that lad.
@stephaniemarshall6788
6 ай бұрын
Bwhahahaahaha!! I get to pull a card soon too. He told me that he left me years ago, DID I REMEMBER😢😢😂😂😂😂 SO WHEN HE CALLS WHINNING, I WILL TELL HIM, YOU LEFT ME YEARS AGOO! REMEMBER!???? 🤣🤣🤣💪💪💪💪
@IAm_Meeh
8 ай бұрын
It's crazy that they threaten to harm themselves but make you feel like harming yourself 🤔 ... i pray for anyone going thru this , i hope you all make it out in one peace and remember to always put self first 🙏 ❤️
@siklysarkastik04
7 ай бұрын
same to you 💕
@stephaniemarshall6788
6 ай бұрын
Prayers for you too. It's tough stuff, So hard.
@TheQuadbleech
8 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Lee. I just left an physically and more abusive relation with a narc and your videos have helped give me the strength and understanding to fully end this and release him. He's in therapy but it was to keep me, not to help himself. Your videos remind me that no matter how much I believe him when he says things, I can now read behind the lines.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
take care of yourself
@inesvazquez5564
8 ай бұрын
Exactly!! I got the “checking on your well-being” message many times before blocking. Always a few days after saying the most hurtful and meanest things!!
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
‼️
@elgatoman4666
7 ай бұрын
I knew someone and I used to text them to check on their well being. I wasn’t a narcissist just concerned for them. Anyways when she got a new boyfriend she ghosted me for 8 months. She’s no longer with that guy and she’s homeless and wants me to help her, no way. Our relationship was always one sided, she was always the taker and never the giver.
@JemLifeMinistries
7 ай бұрын
Your sense of humor is so great lee. I love it.
@kinGsaL1515
5 күн бұрын
I recently found this channel and I am loving it. Best narc channel out there. I hope this can help give me the discipline I need to finally go NO CONTACT forever. Not 6 months, not 1 year, but for life.
@happycamper6214
Ай бұрын
Omg I love the humour in your videos...walking down the street laughing😅
@Alexistxsj
7 ай бұрын
SO ACCURATE With the “you’re safe” part 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MentalHealness
7 ай бұрын
😂🥺🫣
@SabellaSummers
8 ай бұрын
“At least let me know you're safe” Yep he tried that line, the suicide threat, and contacting everyone I knew and then the threats came.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
😞
@rosameijering5161
8 ай бұрын
Especislly when you give them a good reputation because they know you don’t talk bad about people
@mdriggins832
8 ай бұрын
You sometimes have to give closure instead of get closure
@deec1601
5 ай бұрын
I couldn't stop laughing at the part where you're riding off into the sunset LOL - So funny! 🤣
@kimberlybolton1375
8 ай бұрын
YES my favorite, I have been no contact since September and have never felt better; it was hard in the beginning but thanks to you Lee, Im winning this battle and refusing to deal with this anymore
@Unique__Queen__
8 ай бұрын
Day 1 for me… I know it won’t be easy, but I have to. I realized how mentally drained I’ve become, I can’t I allowed this to go on so long. I love your video, you made me laugh 🫶🏽 Thank you for sharing!
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾
@elizabethanne5121
8 ай бұрын
You got this 💪❤ I'm on day 6 and it's hard but Lee's videos are helping.
@Unique__Queen__
8 ай бұрын
@@elizabethanne5121 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@marcrose3403
7 ай бұрын
I hope you kept moving on. Don’t ever look back
@Unique__Queen__
7 ай бұрын
@@marcrose3403 I did!!! I feel so much better 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@natural_free_spirit
7 ай бұрын
As traumatized as I am after 3 years. I am cracking up at Lee’s description of what the narcissist is going through. 😂😂
@MentalHealness
7 ай бұрын
😅
@kianadouglas
8 ай бұрын
Whenever I'm being dragged back in, your videos reaffirm that I'm not a bad person for standing up for and protecting myself. Thank you. I hope it is some solace to the pain that you have gone through due to your narcissism and since recognizing your narcissism that because you are willing to accept yourself, love yourself, and strive towards treating others more healthily that many others gain the strength to stop letting others abuse them.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
have to protect your peace
@SelenaHughes
7 ай бұрын
So much peace when you let go of narcissistic people!
@MentalHealness
7 ай бұрын
🙏🏽👏🏽
@982Chloe
8 ай бұрын
30 days no contact. Lawyer helped me get a restraining order. He almost killed me and our baby (I’m pregnant) when I found him with a 16 ye mentally challenged child. I tried calling cops and he was so mad that he wanted to murder me. Thank God I was able to escape with no shoe, eye swollen shut, hair was ripped of, busted lip, almost broke my hand, leg has barely hanging on, but I did it. We are worth it. Evil people exist. We had been together for 21 yrs.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
please be safe and protect your peace
@kirstysmiley6107
7 ай бұрын
Did you get u a strap to protect yourself ?
@982Chloe
7 ай бұрын
@@kirstysmiley6107 soon I will start taking classes. I need to get new glasses because he punched me so hard I see white orbs and lights in my eyes. Def will get pepper spray or bear spray.
@DanaMitchell-k9w
7 ай бұрын
I really appreciate this channel! I just realized I was in a narcissistic relationship. I am going no contact because I have to get my peace back!!
@MentalHealness
7 ай бұрын
thanks for being here
@brittanywatson1052
7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 the accuracy on the pitiful begging
@MentalHealness
6 ай бұрын
😂
@aikramdesigns
8 ай бұрын
I pray for myself that I make it out of this hell of a relationship for 8/9 years. Children are involved which make it hard, but this is EXACTLY how he act & acted. I ignored the red flags…people told me to stop making excuses for him. Smh thank you so much! You help me realize a lot that I was love blinded by.
@Heaux722
Ай бұрын
Ayyyy the Subaru into the oak tree in the front yard SENT ME oh god the “offing themselves “ god I have to laugh at the shit now @ how LOW they will go 😂 “hey my exs mom who’s hates me just tell them to contact me “ I FELT that 😂😱
@bjb0808
8 ай бұрын
So funny. Yeah, not really no contact here, but not reaching out either. No longer wasting my time with creeps and energy suckers. Finally doing the things I want to do without a thought for them.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
💪🏽🙏🏽
@KalebCope
8 ай бұрын
Nobody likes no contact out of nowhere, not just narcs, since it essentially feels like abandonment that ALL humans fear.
@faye_bulous
7 ай бұрын
5:08 😂😂 the narc’s melt down so funny but so real! 7:44 “Timmy bark” 🐶
@stormi9951
8 ай бұрын
Timmy bark!! 🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭Lee you gone quit it I swear you on point! ☝🏽all this is true af!
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Mbuyie.98
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@hughesnum3
2 ай бұрын
“The dog misses you!” 😂
@aldi.4761
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@JulieMorales-kp4yc
8 ай бұрын
You're definitely my favorite self aware narcissist. Not to mention your hilarious 😂😂❤ Good work Lee!! Keep exposing!!!
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽😂
@spider-man2604
8 ай бұрын
I’ve heard all these things before. It really is relatable. I did start worrying about him. I just got so tired of his crap. Thanks Lee
@brookescott9598
9 күн бұрын
"I, I, I, wanna drive my car into a bridge abutment." and more. Exactly, as you say, "Please, let me know you're safe." "I miss the dog. I love that little dog." Holding on to No Contact here. Peace and safety have reduced my cortisol level. Weight is pouring off me. After 12 months of No Contact I can finally sleep, after 30 years. You are correct, once again. I lied to myself believing his lies. So, I stayed 52 years!
@darlenehart7770
7 ай бұрын
The narcissist I know is happy to disappear, they believe they’re hurting you.
@thmeka9772
7 ай бұрын
They’re doing it because they know it bothers you, that’s all. It’s all an act. Think back, I’m sure at some point you’ve mentioned , you don’t like it when they disappear and now…… you have Houdini!! 😂😂
@politicalfactsandopinions.9250
7 ай бұрын
If you were really into them then they are hurting you, for me I was really into the women and I felt as if I thought in my head I was like how could I get women that looks like that? I wasn’t even that confident in myself or my ability to attract a women that looks like her. I do study forensic psychology and am about to start school for being a PI (Private Investigator) So I knew that right away when she always wanted to be on the phone on FaceTime even when I’m at work that there’s something off about that.
@politicalfactsandopinions.9250
7 ай бұрын
Narcissist requires excessive attention and admiration, and the moment you don’t give it to them they throw a fit.
@BaileyMyLife-203
7 ай бұрын
The horse and buggy was so hilarious. A friend of mine watched this video and sent it to me and this is what she said to me. Since you dont have a horse or buggy, "RUN FORREST RUN" !!!!!!
@MentalHealness
7 ай бұрын
😂😂
@HelenMitchell1984
8 ай бұрын
Ahhh this made me laugh so much I was giggling and to be honest I think we all need that. Love it.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
🙏
@jaulloa21
4 ай бұрын
Some narcissist prepare for no contact. It’s a possibility, so they keep supply’s as much as possible. Replacing you was already done from the beginning.
@carlagarner5422
8 ай бұрын
It is not easy, you are correct!!! It takes a lot of self control and mental growth.
@QueenBee-fg1iz
8 ай бұрын
My no contact muscle 💪🏻 is strong now after sticking to no contact for 18 months with my ex. I finally went no contact 10 months ago with his adult children and his parents. It was hard, but necessary for my peace and healing.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
@Skyviking
8 ай бұрын
Remaining no contact!!!Stay strong over the holidays!!!! Break from the addiction of narcissism. The drama is unreal. Stay safe with the stalkers everyone.
@moniqueboatfield107
8 ай бұрын
I love how you educate and still got jokes, lol!
@michellebrown6580
8 ай бұрын
No contact for one month!! I’m so proud of how far I’ve come because In the past he would return, he would love bomb, call crying those fake tears, telling me he’s lonely... I’m sleeping so much better and less anxiety!! It’s funny how he protected me from others but I really needed protection from HIM!! He has no access to me or my family!! He is DEAD to US!! So thankful for your videos and the fact I’m aware of what happened to me!! Spiritual warfare at its highest!!
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
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@jessicaayala6803
7 ай бұрын
I just broke up with my partner. And it’s crazy soon I get on KZitem I see this video. I’m praying for myself.
@DarleneGonzales79
8 ай бұрын
So glad I found your channel. It’s so helpful especially when we can understand the mind of the narcissist. I love the humor too!
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
🙌🏾 Thank you
@Victoria33912
7 ай бұрын
“I know you don’t want to talk to me, but I want to talk to you” says it all to me.
@MentalHealness
7 ай бұрын
😮💨😮💨
@tiffanyharhut420x
7 ай бұрын
OMFG. I literally laughed out freaking loud when you said about the 15th fake phone number I've created 😂😂😂😂 that's his go to. I definitely have well over 30/40 contact numbers for the father of my children. It's not funny, it's sad. They don't even realize all the collateral damage they've created. What your doing here lee is amazing. Even for people suffering with narcissism could really really benefit from your videos. I would LOVE to have a conversation with you!! Thank you so much for all your dedication and time❤
@sperry4161
Ай бұрын
I LOVE your content Lee! I recently came across your channel. I’m going to book some sessions with you here soon. Next paycheck. I was in a relationship with someone who tried to kill me in an attempted murder/suicide and now is now facing attempted murder charges. Your content is SO SPOT ON!!!!! You are most definitely my favorite self-aware narcissist 😂😂😂
@MentalHealness
Ай бұрын
appreciate you being here 💯‼️
@franknhonest
8 ай бұрын
I got discarded nearly 4 months ago, then a hoover a few days ago with a Christmas present. I'm staying no contact. 🙂
@fjustice8544
8 ай бұрын
Im in the no contact phase. I really respect your self awareness and helping others. Thank you for making me laugh today after a horrible week 🙂 Blessings and support from the UK 🙏🏼
@Cy-bz9jh
8 ай бұрын
Here's the difference ~~ A) When a friend of mine ghosted me, I was super SAD. It was painful. But they must have felt they had a reason and I would never know it. I wish only good things for her and I hope she's living her best life. B) When *I* ghosted and went no contact with a narcissist, he lost his mind and was furious, scary, started carrying a gun and a bug out bag (I found out before I ghosted all mutual acquaintances). 4 years later, he still does drive by's on my house. I am moving soon and leaving no forwarding address. I just got a different car and keep it hidden in the garage. My life is SO much better but it took a long time to become "me" again. (I think that's why my friend ghosted me back when - I wasn't me) Sometimes I'm pretty sure I saved my own life and I know I saved my sanity.
@Xenlacasa45
8 ай бұрын
Why are they so obsessive ? I have friends that no longer speak to me or we went our own way type of thing and we all just move on but with a narc they act entitled to you like they MUST have access to you like it’s a challenge
@liamcraddock9539
8 ай бұрын
Idk if my (no longer) friend is a narcissist but he was the one who ignored/ cut me off (although he desperately tried to make out I was the one wanting to end our friendship) after an argument where he started threatening me and screaming and driving fast all whilst turning, smirking at me and saying "have I scared you?". Each time I'd lie and say "no" in a really bored tone and I'd see the frustration poorly masked with another smug smirk. Idk if he was a narcissist but he had a habbit of throwing screaming tantrums when he didn't get what he wanted or he'd drive dangerously on purpose with the person in the car and gaslight them by saying they're dangerous if they try to stop him. Not to mention the many holes in his bedroom wall... I'd been there whilst he'd scream and punch holes in his wall after a girl he liked ever said "no" to him... Did I mention he's a grown adult, 22 years old as well? 🤦♂️
@Xenlacasa45
8 ай бұрын
@@liamcraddock9539 they love scaring and intimidating it’s all about dominance for them they are tyrants without actual power and they live in this perpetual frustration
@JDda3
5 ай бұрын
“Sometimes they get married to their toxic partner in crime” wow… you nailed it
@BanksNotTyra
7 ай бұрын
MY LIFE RIGHT NOW 😩😩😩 when you said reaching out to family and friends….that whole speech
@taramiller8772
7 ай бұрын
Thank you, been healing and this really made me feel stronger than ever. Leaving that situation saved my life.
@MPR2007
8 ай бұрын
Dont care what the narcissist think if we already equip with narcissim /knowledge about it. All we need is ourselves /our well being full stop.
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
🏃🏼♂️🎯
@marisaempress5493
8 ай бұрын
I’m so thankful for the work you do it’s helped me and so many others. Many blessings to you
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
thanks for being here
@steviejblue
8 ай бұрын
No contact for 9 months and counting with not just one but two abusive narcissists in my family. Every day its getting better and i feel so much better, all i wish is that i had of done it alot sooner, years sooner. Either way i feel proud of myself for taking that step finally and truly feel that as hard as it is at first, believe me, its worth it! I moved to another state - they dont know where i am - with my husband and son who witnessed and were horrified by some of the behavior towards me and we are sooo much better off. Its NEVER too late, take that step and do it!
@ConStins70
8 ай бұрын
Same here...two family narcs. Mother and sister. Mother died, fled from sister...she even killed my little dog! Family narcs the worst!!!
@lynnrodriguez1484
3 ай бұрын
Everything you're saying is so true he's come crying before with snot and all but I found his phone and found there's still other supply I left them a message from his phone, but, I'm so devastated it's been since Wednesday I try not to call and leave hateful messages but today is a new day and I will try harder i told him i don't even want to be his friend we met 44+ years ago and stood friends still friends with his family though 😢💔
@bettycarmella1127
8 ай бұрын
I’ve been no contact for a year🎉🎊 the first few months were hardest but the freedom now is well worth it❤️ He’s still doing crazy stalker stuff, but never hovered🙌🏽
@monicamontanez1536
5 ай бұрын
Three weeks no contact. I BLOCKED HIM FROM CALLING ME. AND IM ENJOYING MY STRESS FREE NEW LIFE...🤩
@Toritime905
8 ай бұрын
It’s been about a month since I started no contact. This man keeps calling and texting me from different numbers every week saying “I’m sorry, I miss you, just talk to me”. And I just block them and keep moving on cause my life is so much better without him. Life is good and stress free
@MentalHealness
8 ай бұрын
🙏🏽
@ShalomShock
8 ай бұрын
You gotta go no contact and then get closure for yourself. Move on to peace, healing, and happiness, and get out of the toxic cycle that they will keep you looped into if you don't move around.
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