As a single divorced woman , I’m so sorry to see the pain in your face and hear it in your voice . I wish you and your family all the best . If I could do it all over again , I would have fought for my marriage because the carnage is not worth it . Seek counseling even though you are now single and make sure the kids mental health is taken care of as well . When all the dust settles, the kids are the ones who get the short end of the the Divorce stick and continue to suffer way after both adults involved have moved on . I pray for the best God has for you and your family 🙏🏽
@brigey
Жыл бұрын
Wow, what a shock. When I met Kwame at Melcom a few years ago, he proudly showed me your picture and he was beaming from ear to ear. I was so surprised and happy to meet the husband of natural ghana girl. Though I'm really sad to hear this news, I will be praying for the both of you 🙏
@kwadwoefah2014
Жыл бұрын
If there is no 3rd person involved, NEVER SAY NEVER....allow the storm to settle down and let's see what the future holds. I pray love wins.
@ahnamohr5966
Жыл бұрын
A lot of us have been in your shoes, you’ll get thru this ❤ Be strong!
@MoniqueTchimanga
Жыл бұрын
This is truly sad, 👑Dela. There is no need to feel embarrassed. I love your honesty in dealing with your audience. Thank you for sharing your story with us. A separation is painful and can happen to the best of us. You are a strong woman who has inspired and is inspiring many. Many of us are really wishing you well, that’s why you will make it through. My prayers are with you and your beautiful family. May the Most High God guide your path, give you more strength and inner peace. 🤍
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@irenedenchi7564
Жыл бұрын
I've been there and it is difficult at first but as you stated, people DO change! I've witnessed it first-hand and was in disbelief for the longest time that the person I thought I knew would treat me this way. (I'm not making an assumption about your situation here. I'm just telling my story). However, once the shock gradually wore off, the most important lesson I learned was realizing that I had to continue putting one foot in front of the other and keep it moving because the world was not going to stop turning while I licked my proverbial wounds; it certainly would not wait until I caught up. No! Time is the most expensive and irreplaceable commodity we have and can never be recouped once it's spent. I never anticipated becoming a single parent but stuff happens and I know everything happens for a reason and I'm all the better for it. Twenty-six years later, I'm still standing and my son has grown into a fine young man! If you're a praying girl like myself, I'd suggest reaching out to Our Heavenly Father. He will never leave you nor forsake you and He'll climb this mountain WITH you. I wish you all the best. This too shall pass.🙏💌
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@shani4470
Жыл бұрын
Needed this comment! Amen. So sorry to hear about the loss of the marriage NGG but put God and yourself first.
@awuah
Жыл бұрын
wow! I would never have guessed that in a million years. You guys had so much chemistry
@edmcgeman5084
Жыл бұрын
Same exact sentiment. Lost faith in humanity
@kofig5519
Жыл бұрын
Yeah. My cynical self would really want to doubt this.
@AfroMillennialMomma
Жыл бұрын
I noticed the change in the videos but I would've never guessed. Sorry for the loss of you guys marriage and I pray that the entire family is able to adjust. Give your self time to mourn. You are still a family unit, just redefined. Try not to feel guilty about your new life path. I'm praying for God's best for you both and the kids. ❤️
@jackiebritton7871
Жыл бұрын
I don't know you personally, but I love you, my sister. Kwame and the children are also in my prayers. Love you, Dela!
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@jackiebritton7871
Жыл бұрын
@@moretodela You're welcome, Dela.
@MsEast8
Жыл бұрын
You have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. It takes such strength to leave a relationship, when you believe it's not working for you. You have to do the right and best thing for YOU. You've got this, you will thrive. Sending you a huge hug.
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@AyiviTV
Жыл бұрын
Hi Dela, excellent delivery...a class act under difficult circumstances. I respect your decisions. Thanks for sharing and abundant blessings to you all🙏🏾
@delia8892
3 ай бұрын
Well said and Amen!
@samuelasare2457
Жыл бұрын
Wow I can't believe it. Am I dreaming? All I can say is, if there's no abusive in your relationship, am sure you can work it out. It's lovely seeing you guys together with the children. Please try your best to solve this situation if he's also willing to try 🙏🏽. THE DEVIL IS A LIER!!!!!. please am hoping to hear a reunion 🙏🏾
@lanaosei9181
Жыл бұрын
This is so sad . Feel like crying. You two were just adorable together. Hope love will find a way to bring you two together 💖💖
@MrLionLC
Жыл бұрын
love???? more like common sense, and duty to family, n raising the children to give them the best chance to succeed at life
@lyslr5401
Жыл бұрын
Your transparency and vulnerability is truly inspiring as well as your strength. I have no doubt that from here on out the rest of your life’s journey will be amazing for both you and your kids. Things happen the way they do for a reason. Sending you hugs and well wishes.
@user-vg5rw8jq8t
Жыл бұрын
Praying for you both and the children🙏🏻
@princesslivingfree
Жыл бұрын
This was one I definitely did not see coming. (Well, that is, until the Usher videos lol.) All the laughs and jokes made it look like you and Kwame were the best of friends. And maybe that's it. Some people are better off as friends. It's a good reminder that KZitem is just a glimpse into people's lives, not the whole story. My sincere prayers and love to all of you 💕
@ronaldhaynes2648
Жыл бұрын
Realtytv is hell on a marriage. My wife was ask to be part of real house wife of Atlanta they filmed in our salon. And we decline. It is hard living your life in the spot light. Then other people see what they think you have and want it lol
@princesslivingfree
Жыл бұрын
@@ronaldhaynes2648 That does seem to be true about the impact of reality TV. I just can't believe it for these two.
@eileenwatt8283
Жыл бұрын
@@ronaldhaynes2648good for you. Those franchise needs to be cancelled now. The women are leaving a bad legacy for their future generation to see. Those shows break up friendships and relationships.
@tamathamaroney8060
Жыл бұрын
You are resilient and he’s resilient as well. I’ve learned in 53 years of life that in time our needs change. If we are not aware that we need to sit down and explain to one another that our needs have changed then that’s how division happens in relationships both intimate and platonic relationships. Only time will heal the hurt both of you are experiencing or will experience. Many blessings to you as a woman willing to share such sensitive part of your life with such a cruel world. Maybe I will contact you to have a sit down when I return to Ghana. God bless you
@l.e.sparklesfkaelliesparkl5875
Жыл бұрын
😩Praying for the best outcome for the entire family- esp the Kiddos🙏
@Mrsmcovington007
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for you and your family. Don't be embarrassed. Everything is working out for your good.
@aadwoaaa
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear about that. Sending you much love. Stay strong ❤
@emmelda
Жыл бұрын
Never in a million years…I am shocked. I had to pause the video and get myself together for hours before I continued. I am very sorry and I have been married for over 12 years so I totally understand you. I also know that whatever the reason was, it didn’t happened once. It was repeatedly going on for so long and so y’all decided to go separately. 5 kids are involved so that’s the hardest part. I am very sorry. I love and look up to you dearly. You will be alright. Just be strong for yourself and the kids. 💔🤦♀️🤧
@dotty65
Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this Dela. Ive been through this and know how hard it is. Be strong, big hugs to you ❤
@BeautifulTree
Жыл бұрын
Praying for you both during this difficult time 🙏🏾
@user-gc5dx8fj5u
Жыл бұрын
Just woke up on this bright and sunny Autumn Sunday morning, only to hear this devastating news. I'm so heartbroken😢😢!! You, your entire family and this KZitem channel have been a breath of fresh air for many of us these last few years. I'm just numb and speechless!! Lots of us have warmed to your great personality and been so inspired by your wonderful journey to Ghana and I for one can only say thank you for sharing it with us and for being such a great role model and inspiration, especially for some of us seeking to embark on a similar journey to relocate to Ghana. Take heart, Dela. Life is full of ups and downs and the most important part of that rollercoaster journey is how we handle or manage the latter. I hope and pray you heal and find personal happiness again. And please, please continue to be a part of our lives.
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
I will absolutely be here 🙏🏾
@lennieadi
Жыл бұрын
Hi D. I’m soo sorry for your breakup. I knew about the split but wasn’t going to ask as I also knew you’d share in your own time when you were ready. I shed a tear as it’s must me hard for you and I know about hurt. I’ve been here for nearly 3 years so I feel I got to know you like a friend. Be strong and sending prayers and best wishes for for future for both of you. Have you guys sat with the elders and pastor and counselor to try work through the issues. Forgiveness is also good for the soul especially when you love someone. Trust me I’ve been there. It’s hard and of course I can’t forget the past but the love I have for my wife is very strong so I can’t see myself being with anyone else. Please consider my thoughts and seek counsel. Bless you moving forward 🙏🏾🥲💪🏾🇬🇧🇯🇲
@jackiebritton7871
Жыл бұрын
This is a lovely and thoughtful message. All the best to you and your family. Peace and blessings!
@lennieadi
Жыл бұрын
@@jackiebritton7871 thank you. Same to you. ❤️
@207purple
Жыл бұрын
I am in shock! I have been following you for so many years and this was the last thing i could ever imagine will come from you. All the best to you and the family.
@Crob100
Жыл бұрын
My Dear Dela, This is not embarrassing....it happens. Time heals all wounds. You will make it through.
@quacyagbeke5149
Жыл бұрын
Time heals. Try to be friends because you have children together. You may find the good in you both. Praying for both of you. God will find a way.
@maxwellyao7696
Жыл бұрын
Stay strong Dela!!! I pray for strength and God willing, you will find your feet in whatever you do! Blessings 😊
@Uncle-Basil
Жыл бұрын
I'm am so sorry Dela, I was hoping my gut feeling was wrong...I've been praying for your family for a while now and I will continue. This seriously breaks my heart... 🙏🏽
@GhanaDreams4life
Жыл бұрын
Hmmm G P... I'm trying to stay silent 🤫..
@RoseTheAfropean
Жыл бұрын
Wow, I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m sending you lots of love, strength and courage. You don’t owe anybody any explanation but we are grateful that you wanted to share this with us. Marriage is hard, I have a feeling that marriage in Ghana is even harder for returnees… a lot of cultural differences and pressure from outside. Take the time for you and use this time to reflect. I pray that you all find a mutual understanding for the sake of the kids. Co-parenting or as a married couple again. Good luck and don’t get sucked into anything that’s not for you. ❤
@kwesifelixboafo619
Жыл бұрын
Humans are growing growing more difficult to love. Selfishness, greed and pride. The world would've been a better place if we all remain good people to each other.
@marylou7105
Жыл бұрын
You shouldn't feel embarrassed. Divorce happens. I am praying for you and your children. You will make it through this.
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@adomaadjei584
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your truth, Dela. Stay strong my friend. Best of luck to both of you!!!
@elizabethfrimpong5928
Жыл бұрын
Wow this is indeed a shock for myself and many others. Stay strong❤, sending peace to you and your family 🙏🏽
@stepbystepquickbookstutorial
Жыл бұрын
Sad to know you had to experience this but as you say life happens! Cry if you must, then get back up, brush yourself off, and move right on along. You gon' be alright 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 You got this! The Most High got you!
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Jennifer_Appiah
Жыл бұрын
Many blessings to you beautiful! Sending you so much love! A wonderful new chapter awaits you. Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together. ❤🙏🏾
@ArabaWaters
Жыл бұрын
Wow this is so hard. Especially sharing with the whole world. Brighter days are ahead sis 🎉
@stanleyglover5534
Жыл бұрын
@Dela , many thanks for sharing your current situation with us. I never read into it, some partners have managed to stay away from what their partners do on social media and l always thought Kwame was just the type. It takes some bravery to do what you did and wish well . Nobody here can decide what is best for you, only you can decide that. Wish well for the future . ❤
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@NanaAshanti
Жыл бұрын
You are super classy. You are going to do great all by yourself, sis. You got this!
@jaycassa
Жыл бұрын
Our prayers are with you both 🙏🏾
@wabz.z
Жыл бұрын
My heart extends to you! Thank you for graciously sharing what you most certainly didn’t have to. Def appreciate your realness and cheers to new beginnings 🥂♥️🙏🏽
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@stephendelvaille4233
Жыл бұрын
My wife and I are devastated to hear this sad news. I feel for you both; above all, keep it civil for the children. I saw true love in your relationship, but with time I see hope.
@kojokhura3508
Жыл бұрын
You are just breaking through another cocoon in your life, and becoming a bigger, brighter, and more beautiful butterfly💗 Fly Higher!!! 🦋
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@kojokhura3508
Жыл бұрын
@@moretodela 💗☺️ I am also a life coach if ever you need one.
@GladysGrace001
Жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best Dela as you transition into a new chapter of your life. It is certainly not going to be easy because these type of events never is. Trust you will have ups and downs but I know you’ll come out stronger in due time. I respect your space and decision to do what’s best for you and your children. I hope the community you’ve provided here on your platform will continue to cover you with good vibes. Stay blessed.
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@trey7752
Жыл бұрын
Dela, I knew something was missing from your videos months ago when I never heard you saying his name or him speaking in the background. You both are friends in my head I enjoy watching kawmae still have love for you both. This is not the end of the world. Its a new beginning for both of you and will not be easy, at the end of the day just contain a level of respect towards each other and it will be fine, projects can put strains on realationship, in addition to managing young children, financial stability and sustainability and work. Dela keep smiling and put your best foot forward your a mature woman a mother to 3 beautiful children and a business women we are here to support you one of your biggest fan.
@goodallknight7847
Жыл бұрын
There’s a lot that I could say, but I will limit my comment to telling you that you are an absolute TREASURE, Sis. New chapters are simply a part of life. I’m sending healing energy with love, light and best wishes to you, Kwame and the children, as you begin your new journeys. 🙏🏾❤️🖤💚💛🙏🏾
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, appreciate it
@bash2268
Жыл бұрын
The new Ghana CASSAVA treating her so lush
@claudiavoorhoeve3258
Жыл бұрын
@@bash2268 hmmmm why sa Y so
@rhogan7312
Жыл бұрын
May God give you peace that passes all understanding, calm to weather the storms and wisdom to guide you through trials. We will be praying for you and your family from the 🇺🇸 ❤🙏🏿
@nanaakua990
Жыл бұрын
Oh dear!!! My heart aches for you both. Y'all seem like the perfect couple. Am gonna join other Ghanaians and hope that you guys work things out and come back together. I can feel the hurt in your voice
@ladyf5217
Жыл бұрын
Sorry for this. I hope you continue to grow and be great ❤
@Vimac08
Жыл бұрын
Wow so sorry Dela. Wishing you all the best 🙏🏾
@speaker_vibes
Жыл бұрын
Blessings 🙏🏿 I wondered where he was. I figured he was working on houses or in the UK. Stay strong. Blessings to you and your family. I hope things work out for the best.
@parchmentfannyclump9472
Жыл бұрын
It’s never easy to go on after a breakup, but in time, you will realize that there will be calm after the storm. Allow the kids to talk about their feelings, and please, seek therapy if you need it.
@pharoahmonk50
Жыл бұрын
I love you, my Sister. By hearing this news, my heart is torn into pieces. When trying times occur in people's lives that I care for, I go to God in prayer. Heavenly Father, bring healing to this situation. I pray for reconciliation and restoration of Kwame and Dela's relationship. Father take Kwame and Dela back to the spring of their lives together. In the interim Heavenly Father, please strengthen, comfort and keep Dela. Don't ever leave Dela, Father. Bless their children, Father. Re-unite them Father, through the miracle of Jesus' blood. Thank you Heavenly Father, that my petition is ALREADY GRANTED! IN JESUS HOLY NAME, AMEN!
@junonzephyr3713
Жыл бұрын
Hi Dela, I'm so shocked and surprised about that news. As you mentioned people change. As a woman who has been been through a similar situation its not easy. Its going to be hard emotionally no matter how strong you are because you're human. As a woman of a certain age I would like to tell you how much I appreciate your honesty and your transparency. No matter what happened please don't blame yourself for it. Try not to blame your spouse either. I know that may be very hard. Only remember that it was a season. It's was a mission. You need to be strong for yourself first. Then you can be strong for the children. The kids need both parents regardless of what's going on. I'm saying that from personal experience. Even though I'm a health care professional I had to get professional support. I would you to know that I'm going to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Feel free to contact me. I'm sorry about what you're going through but keep in mind that you're not alone. You're beautiful. You're smart. You're resilient. You're going to be alright. Take it from me. You just can't roll over and play dead. You can't let it happen. You'll not let it happen. There must be a reason for that video to show up on my feed. I'm not fake. I'm real. I appreciate you and your family. Be strong. Be safe. God bless you. Watching you from New York States
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much. I appreciate your very kind words a lot.
@truezladye1893
Жыл бұрын
@@moretodela Take time to heal Spiritually, mentally and physically. God bless 🙏🏼
@amenuvevedelalorm2412
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling your truth. You have really helped me a lot by doing this. Sometimes, we fear more of what people will say, than what is best for us. May God guide you and your children.
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@akedareyes5014
Жыл бұрын
A Warm Hug For You And The Children! You And Kwame individually have our Love, Respect and Support.
@bernardm470
Жыл бұрын
All I can say is wow! Praying for you all. Be strong!
@getzT
Жыл бұрын
You will get through this chapter by God's grace. Life happens, remember as women we keep rising . Keep your mental health a priority. In marriage ether we grow together or we grow apart either of those are fine. Life is meant to be lived not endured. Peace
@charlesgeorge1808
Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness. This is really a sad news. I still can't believe it. I wish both of you and the children all the best.
@ylstaggs
Жыл бұрын
I’m very sorry to hear that Dela, Satan comes to kill, steal, and destroy and that’s what he does in the household! Dela keep moving forward, you be ok, not matter what, I’m still moving to Africa, I will be in Ghana December!❤️🙏🏽
@billyboss6465
Жыл бұрын
This has nothing to do with Satan, people do have different personalities and sometimes when two personalities cannot come to a compromise, there are going to be issues in the relationship which sometimes going your separate ways is the best option, for the sake of peace of mind for each one and have nothing to do with Satan, after all marriage is not life imprisonment, Africans should learn to accept and take accountability instead of blaming Satan for everything that don't go the way they want it even though they make decisions without consulting satan but if their decisions fails then it's Satan's fault.
@kwamenyame1277
Жыл бұрын
Came here from your recent video. I’m heartbroken, but you guys know your story and chose your paths… it shall be well!
@bigzonva8839
Жыл бұрын
I got a vibe when you were looking for USHER (gently smiling) in your video.
@ourfamilytree5931
7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this Dela. Trust me God will give you someone who you appreciate and cherish you. It is difficult when kids are involved. It is well. I have been there and still going through the healing process. I am a single mother of 4 after being separated from a 20 year marriage. The emotional scars. But hey you got this. Sometimes God removes people from our lives for our own good. I am still trying to pick up the pieces of my life. Went back to school and soon to graduate as a Social Worker. You are a strong woman. Please be strong for yourself and the kids. I will keep you guys in my prayers. Let God’s will be done.
@trevorprime2274
Жыл бұрын
Sorry, Dela. Tell Kwame we'll miss him. I hope the two of you remain good friends.
@mavisarhin8254
Жыл бұрын
What a shock, OMG, what really happens? tears are running my cheeks!😭😢😩🇧🇴🇬🇧
@AkuaOkodie
Жыл бұрын
More strength to you queen, so long as there is life there is hope. This is an event not the end of your life. Focus on your healing and creating a beautiful life for you and your children.❣❣❣
@daisylanham2353
Жыл бұрын
Keep looking up, getting up and going up.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@nanaagyemang8189
Жыл бұрын
My prayers are with you both and the kids.
@lorettadavis6944
Жыл бұрын
Life happens, just know we are here for you. Stay strong for your kids.
@doreenasante7729
Жыл бұрын
Dela,my heart ♥ is broken for the both of you.I pray that God will bring about reconciliation in the future. I never saw a more connected and loving couple like you and kwame. Sending my love to your family
@oforil39
Жыл бұрын
I pray for your strength. I too had same situation, two children, I tried but for the better of good I had parted ways. So difficult. All will be well Dela, with time gets better, you'll be fine. Understand what your going through. It's been many years now for me both my children have grown into wonderful men. God bless x
@nekalynch8101
Жыл бұрын
You all have our support. I am praying for the family. 💗
@donnaking4567
Жыл бұрын
I really hate this happened but life goes on. Thank you for allowing your viewers into your life ❤ even farther. I know life happens but I will truly miss Kwame's little antics and laughter when he would say something really silly to you. We love you Dela and we all will continue to pray that you and your children are blessed and all goes well.🌺🌺🌺💜
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@mamsybaby7994
Жыл бұрын
Awww so sorry 😢Your chemistry was amazing, be strong your beautiful ❤
@keepitreal888-gnc
Жыл бұрын
My dear sister, it's sad to hear about the breakup of your marriage. There is song that says, "Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot cure..." Life is unpredictable, and unpleasant things happen to all of us. So, cry when you feel like crying, and laugh when you feel like laughing. May God heal and comfort you and your family!
@jackiebritton7871
Жыл бұрын
Hi Dela, I wondered about your family but I never asked. Thank you for sharing with us. I will be praying for you and your family. My heart goes out to you as you transition and navigates through your new normal. I know you are going through a lot but do check on the children because they don't always share their feeling for fear that one parent or the other will be hurt. I will certainly be praying for you and your family.
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@SammyNdlovu1212
Жыл бұрын
Africans will tell you to work things out even when your mental health dips! Life goes on Dela, lm sorry for this experience but all things happen for a reason! Take care of yourself and the kids ❤️
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, thank you
@shirleymyahs_dghtr8182
Жыл бұрын
Ahh Dela, Life! So so sorry to hear this news. I really hope & pray that you both can work it out & get back together as a couple & family🙏🏼🙏🏼 I noticed the changes a while back. No ring. No mention of hubby. And you were not truly yourself, a little distracted, not focused. But you don't need to air everything my dear. Take a breather, time to think, unwind, build your content away from the noise. Now you can use this & make lemonade, as it were. New topic: Interview women/men who are divorced and totally starting over from different angles. You will be ok. I hope you will depend more & more on the Most High. He helped me through my divorce, He can certainly help you. Stay well🙏🏼🕊🌹💝
@doreenayi3751
Жыл бұрын
Oh della, words can’t even begin to describe how upset and heartbroken I am for you and your family. I’ve been watching your videos for years when you lived in your old rental house before you moved into your current place. I am shocked, if there were ever to people who I could say looked perfect together although I know there’s no such thing as perfect. I thought it was used to, you just seemed like soulmate. I can’t Believe that this has happened to such an amazing couple. I know it’s a cliche but maybe time is a healer and you too need some time apart or a break from each other and things could change I hope it’s not final. Either way I wish you all the best, you are a strong woman and I am sure you will get through this, and you will deal with life and be happy in the next phase of your life.
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@rosalinddavis-guterson3273
Жыл бұрын
Please Know that You Are Everything. And be gentle with yourself. This kind of Life change will take time. I hope you have the Love, loyalty and support of your family and Dear friends. Not all the people closest to you will be able show up..but know it's not because of You. It's a defining moment, and it's on them, how they choose or not, to be there for you and your children. God Has Bigger Plans for You and your family. Trust that You will get through this painful time. And while I don't personally know you, from what I see in you, You are Strong and very Capable Woman, who Already Knows Who She Is. LOVE
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@faithmaburutse3046
6 ай бұрын
Ooooh Dela… I recall meeting you years ago when I divorced and lived in Ghana… you were so kind and so sweet when my world fell apart… keep shining your light ❤️❤️
@moretodela
6 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@completewoman7844
Жыл бұрын
Sending strength and love sis.
@eazy007gh
Жыл бұрын
Whatever the mess, we made it and we can solve it.... The chemistry and banter between you two, gave some of us arguments in our relationships 😂 , so I see no reason for not giving it a 2nd chance!
@AfroMillennialMomma
Жыл бұрын
Im guessing if both parties wanted to try again they'd still be together
@yvonne237
Жыл бұрын
Wow!, is all that I can say. I wouldn't never guess this. It is true that one can never know for sure what goes on between a man and a woman behind closed doors. May God grant you all the peace and strength to endure and overcome one of the most traumatic changes in your lives.
@halcyonbrighterdays
Жыл бұрын
I knew something was wrong - Now you look very warm and bright, some marriage have to end, especially when there are toxic for the kids. Go forward and do great things for you and your kids. Trust me the kids will tell you two months from that they are so happy. Blessings
@halcyonbrighterdays
Жыл бұрын
My grandmother always tell me people come into your life for a reason -season or lifetime. Food for thought!
@sadiqraji5376
Жыл бұрын
As long as you are at peace, that's all that matters. Nutifafa all the way!!!
@Luv2TravelWithWave
Жыл бұрын
You are such a strong woman. Life happens and we heal. And move forward. Sending my love.
@insidehildaslife6329
Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that! It’s not easy, but we pray for the best. God’s plan is the best.
@ZAFLOVE
Жыл бұрын
This hit me really hard wattttt. Praying for ya all.
@born-victor
Жыл бұрын
Dearest Dela, This is perhaps going to be a long comment. So pls bear with me. Firstly, so sorry to hear that your marriage has broken up. It must be terribly hard and painful, and it must be painful all the more reading all the comments, msgs, attending to calls etc that come your way after people watch this video. BUT... In a marriage or any romantic relationship, the natural expectation or assumption is that two individuals have to come together. Forever. However, going by human evolution, that's perhaps the most unnatural thing people are expected to do. Individuals must have the choice to part their ways (ideally mutually) as much as they may have had the choice to be in a union in the first place. Time is the ONLY healer. Every other mode follows. I can promise you that only time will heal your pain, dejection, rejection, anger, resentment and every odd emotion that you may be feeling during this period. It is going to be hard and painful every moment and the natural instinct might push you to reconcile or maybe give it another shot. However, if you know it in your gut that the path that both of you have chosen to walk on (that is to walk apart) is your path, then stay put. With time, both of you will forgive yourselves, be friends and be in each other's good and bad times simply because you have children together for life. That again will only come with time, and nothing else. Do not try to do anything (loving, hating, forgiving, forgetting, getting into another relationship right away etc etc) that doesn't come to you naturally. I am sure you are better than what you were on the day you found out about your marriage falling apart. Likewise, you will be better in 4 months, and far more better in 8 months, so on and so forth. You will be stronger, more independent, more resolute and emerge as a more dignified lady by the end of the process. Until then, I wish you God's grace, strength to heal, loads of worldly successes. Take care of your health and your food habits in the times to come (trust me about that!). Pray if you believe or don't believe in God. Pray and meditate because for some reason, it heals you miraculously and brings peace to you... Good things await to arrive your way. I watch ALL your videos and promise to be a part of your journey to growth and success. Wishing you the best. Much love from India dear sister! 😘🤗❤
@yvettewells1243
Жыл бұрын
Very well said...Amen to that. Della hang in there, I know God is always in control. In all things give God the glory because He knows what's good for you. I love your honesty and naturalness. Don't let anyone take that away from you. Lots of hugs from me to you.
@gracioustiwaa2730
Жыл бұрын
We never know what’s ahead of our marriage.. some of us have been there.. is not easy but stay strong
@AH-qd7bt
Жыл бұрын
Oh God Almighty if it is going to be good for both parties and children 🙏 to come back together pls God make it possible 🙏. People sometimes bounce back 🙏. Am still hopeful oh my God
@JC-ty3zq
Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this,but I guessed it.WISHING you the BEST in your LIFE
@bedinabebe4521
Жыл бұрын
Yes this is a bit of a shock for me considering your background. I figured that while youve gone into real estate, perhaps Kwame moved on to building other houses. Have you both asked yourselves if the rift can be reconciled? Have you gotten intervention from wise caring family and or friends who clearly want the best for you (no jealous or negative types)? Sending best wishes & positive energies of support, healing & optimal transition.💞
@moretodela
Жыл бұрын
It’s the end of the road unfortunately
@appias95
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear your news. You seem to have fought hard. I can only imagine what you have had to endure till this time. Be encouraged that many people have gone through this before. Others were able to build a better life than before. Others were broken and never picked up again. You have the power and the choice and God’s help to set your direction. We are behind you and will always appreciate who you are and your great work here! Xxxxxx ❤
@ebenezeragyebiah7744
Жыл бұрын
Finally Dela, God will help you and Kwame to overcome every challenge and settle differences for the betterment of the entire family. IJN AMEN
@cindyrichards9471
Жыл бұрын
My family wishes you and your children all the very best for the future. We trust that you have a supportive team around you. We will support your channel even more now. Stay Blessed.
@Thekwane12
Жыл бұрын
BIG hug! That’s all - be kind to yourself in this difficult time.
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