Anyone that can lie, betray and cheat on their wife and children is not a person you want to be in love with.
@StephanieLynCoaching
6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@FreakyGremlinDK
5 жыл бұрын
That counts for anyone who cheats on their SO, be it woman or man who does it, mind you.
@jbilotta
5 жыл бұрын
Sian Megginson - or even be friends with. I have a friend, more of an acquaintance that is cheating on his wife. Unless they are separated, the wife must be in deep denial. This ‘friend’ has a townhouse that he and the mistress live in. The mistress is completely unaware that he’s married. This guy is not good looking, a very average guitarist & a complete foul person. I don’t want anything to do with low class, dishonorable people, even at arms length.
@Philanazoie
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
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5 жыл бұрын
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@patmanchester8045
5 жыл бұрын
If your partner is cheating on you, they will be cheating on the next one, too.
@Lina126y
4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know - my Narc said he would love her now and forever
@patmanchester8045
4 жыл бұрын
@@Lina126y If this person really is not a narc and just fell out of love with you and moved on to someone else ( and this has not happened before), as painful, confusing and angree making as it is,,,they may not well have a problem. BUT I think that true narcs have one of several agendas ( disagree with me, this is only my opinion from my experience) They met the person, usually before you think your marriage fell apart and they honestly are deluding themselves into this belief because of the following. Or they say things because it is an excuse to leave and hurt you. Once they have used up what they want from that new love ( in my narcs case, it was money...with me, too) they will move on. He has gotten involved with older or widows in poor health who do with large life insurance payouts. the invest the money; I did this. Spend like crazy, he looks for this, new cars, trips, expensive tennis lessons etc, Or who gift some of the money to others not always in the family. Older, ill health, poor money management skills, and in need of a guardian are his targets any more.
@caycic1
4 жыл бұрын
Not at all
@karenpino9924
4 жыл бұрын
Once a cheater always a cheater. My ex blames everyone and will never take responsibility for his actions
@razasyeda6054
4 жыл бұрын
@@Lina126y normal people don't function that way. They left like their partner didn't mean anything, and cheating is a choice! if they were normal, they wouldve ended the relationship mutually. They wouldn't go on months grooming the other person.
@KatherineGrey-pz9on
Жыл бұрын
The only way to take control from a narcissist is to get yourself from their domain first. You wont be able to figure out anything until and unless you are out of the hellish world. I will tell you one of my favourite stories. Once a King was too disturbed by everything that was happening around him. He felt as if no one was loyal to him and he was always afraid of his kingdom being attacked by perpetrators. He lost his sleep and his life had become hell. So he thought of taking a brief sojourn in the countryside. He passed through lush green fields and picturesque landscapes. The silent breeze that brushed through his hair filled his heart with joy. That is when he saw a farmer who was putting fence around his farmland. But his farmland had weeds all over and they hardly had any crops. This intrigued the King. He asked the farmer as to why was he putting a fence around the farm when the farm itself was covered with weeds. To this the farmer said that the farm was his own so he could get rid of the weeds whenever he liked. But he cant stop the stray dogs from running over his fields and destroying them. That is why he was putting the fence. To stop the stray dogs from venturing into the field. Once he was very assured about the security of his fields he can work on clearing the weeds and planting crops. On hearing this the King somewhat got the answer which he had been searching for. The human mind is also like the field. You cant control assholes from fiddling with your mind or saying bullshit. But you can definitely put a fence ( figuratively) so that these assholes cant influence you. And until and unless you dont put a fence you can never work on yourself. Once you have distanced yourself from toxic people then you can work on the healing process. Same is the case with narcs. Narcs are these stray dogs who suck your energy emotionally. They play mind games for fun because their mind wants melodrama. They hurt the very people who love them. So total isolation from these narcs is absolutely essential for the well being of your Mind. Once you are out of their mind games you can take decisions rationally. Narcs try to drain you emotionally. So everytime you respond to their low vibrations you tend to come to their level. But when you react confidently without panicking and without responding to their negative vibrations that is when you Win. When someone realises that you arent being influenced or being manipulated by their actions they will get tired of it. And after cutting them off completely from your lives you should work on your healing process. Work on clearing your mental clutter and keep yourself preoccupied. Read books and most importantly try to find your Purpose in life. When you find your Purpose you will be able to bear any pain in this World. Most importantly help others in need. When you find someone else who is stuck with a narc help them to get out of that. I feel this is the way to take control from a narcissist. P.S: I hardly find people around me who know about emotional abuse. But I think everyone should read and know about it. In today’s mean world you will find a lot of people who try to influence you or demoralise you using the sweetest of words. Its about identifying these covert manipulators and distancing yourself from them. I have immense respect for people who have survived narcissistic partners. They happen to be the most strongheaded and emotionally stable people you can come across. I learn a lot of things from them. Truly the broken will always be the most beautiful. Additionally, Here's a clue for anyone of you that think your spouse might be cheating, but you think they are just too clever to be caught, your feelings of being cheated on are not facts and your intuitions are bullshit unless you find out for sure. So before you bring your sickness and blame into the relationship get some fucking proof and some mental help consult a private investigator today Metaspyhub@gmail. com for the purpose know where you stand in your relationship...
@Lnealon
Жыл бұрын
Wow..great insight! I've been married toy man since 1997 and lived with him 10yrs before...I only just found out he is a covert narc from his mistress a year ago! I feel just defeated..
@bradmcewen
6 жыл бұрын
If someone tells you there,s no such thing as emotional abuse, it's either gaslighting or playing you for a reaction. Either way, run don't walk.
@victoriahills3547
6 жыл бұрын
There is also lots of information in the world we live and ignorance is a choice... There is plenty of help and abuse never feels right.
@aquarius9055
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!...
@bradmcewen
3 жыл бұрын
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@Mari-tn6fn
6 жыл бұрын
You said it, these people are not equipped to have a deep emotional connection. They deflect and gaslight and will never truly take authentic responsibility for their actions. It's all a game to them.
@suzanne4396
3 жыл бұрын
I so wanted him to treat her the way he treats Me... Like an Object. Like a piece of meat. Never wanting to get to know Me... For 6 years. I realize now he probably treats us both the same. Ignores us til he needs something.
@reneef.874
3 жыл бұрын
This entire video is spot on. I'm dealing with this now. I'm divorcing a man who didn't value commitment and doesn't want the responsibilities of marriage. He cheated multiple times, the first time, I found out very shortly after giving birth. Now, he's in love with a different affair partner and both of them knew he was married. He even confessed that he developed a habit [of cheating]. Since he got caught the first time, the narcissism really revealed itself. He became mean to me, and always would try to find a way to blame me for his cheating instead of taking accountability for his fk ups as a grown man. Each time I expressed my feelings, he definitely used deflection & gaslighting. There's no way in hell I will ever take this man back. He's insecure, doesn't love himself, hates responsibilities, and just wants to lay around doing nothing like a child, and always need constant validation from the world. Run away from ppl like this. He said being with the other woman makes him happy, so I'm letting him go, so he can continue to live in his false sense of reality. I need an actual man who knows how to be a man.
@g0d5m15t4k3
2 жыл бұрын
As "the other woman", I can say how easy it is to fall for the "oh poor me, my wife is terrible" lie. The other woman falls for the sob story and for the attention. The narc makes the other woman feel special and different. At some point the other woman will understand exactly why the narc's wife might be acting the way he says she is. Seriously, there's been a point where I've been like "dang I can see why she doesn't want to sleep with you anymore. You're insanely invalidating!" that's when the narc either dumps the other woman, finds an excuse to fight with her, or she actually grows enough self respect to leave him.
@g0d5m15t4k3
2 жыл бұрын
I obviously can only speak from my own experience. But what has happened for me is just buying the story, feeling special, and then eventually feeling empathy for the wife who is being cheated on. Hell, in my case, it was me who cared to get STI tested and insist on condoms before sleeping with the married narc. Even at the onset, I respected the wife more than he did.
@the-chipette
2 жыл бұрын
I agree. The host sounds super jaded and bitter.
@Lnealon
Жыл бұрын
Please stop showing interest in married men...that's where it starts, it will grow..
@hilaryglasser2475
Жыл бұрын
Hopefully, you'll get away from him and find love
@yasminel1989
Жыл бұрын
I hope you do some soul-searching and reflect on what made you OK with having an affair with a married man, even if his wife supposedly neglected him. Although I fully believe that 99 % of the responsibility lies on the married partner, I still think that there are some character defects common among women who willingly choose to be the other woman, such as low self-esteem (which is why they enjoy the illusion of power that comes with feeling more desired in comparison to the wife), a lack of healthy boundaries, sometimes a sense of desperation, impulsivity, a pattern of unhealthy and unstable relationships with men, emotional immaturity, naivete when it comes to people's (especially narcissistic men's) true motives, codependent or even covertly narcissistic tendencies, etc.. Yes, the narcissist is clearly the main problem and I'm not trying to blame the people who get manipulated, but the primary reason why the other women are able to get manipulated in the first place is likely because of previously mentioned character defects. If you worked on your self-esteem, you would've likely realized that a man who wants to cheat on his wife with you is probably not a decent, trustworthy person worth getting involved with, and you would've refrained from ever engaging with such a person in the first place.
@besidesbeauty6218
Жыл бұрын
He did me a big big favor. Free from the abuse 🙏🏾 Cheating is not a mistake. He knew exactly what he was doing and felt no remorse. When a person cheats, they’re saying I don’t give a s*** about you.
@keshahudson910
5 жыл бұрын
I just broke up with my 2nd narcissist he had me fooled big time. He flew under my narc radar. I can’t stop crying I can’t believe I’m going through this again. This is heartbreaking
@1blkbeauty79
4 жыл бұрын
I'm so edgy about meeting anyone else because I don't want to go through what I went through before. I don't trust myself because how could I have missed those red flags.😢
@keshahudson910
4 жыл бұрын
1blkbeauty79 totally understandable. Don’t give up! I actually met someone and we’re now married. I promise things will get better
@malindaallen718
3 жыл бұрын
You are better prepared to avoid narcs in the future
@missindie4199
3 жыл бұрын
Me too💔💔💔💔
@missindie4199
3 жыл бұрын
@@1blkbeauty79 me too I'm so afraid at the moment
@icgreener
4 жыл бұрын
When I became suspicious of him cheating... I ended it because I felt like he was enjoying duping me, I wanted to take the fun out of it...she can have that pile o 💩 I focus on myself now, Thank You 🙏🏼
@sophialewis5474
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I felt the same. That was his style....duping me was where the thrill was. I am out too
@80sbaby90
4 жыл бұрын
😂
@razasyeda6054
4 жыл бұрын
When I called out my ex narc fiancé for cheating, he denied it but wanted me to share screenshots of my conversation with her and actually said “I’m enjoying this”. He discarded me two weeks later after devaluing me and married her 3 weeks later :)
@juliequigley637
4 жыл бұрын
Alleluia!! So happy to hear. We all have to remember men are basically little kids trapped in a man’s body they want instant gratification and they want their cake and eat it too.
@Skhayism
3 жыл бұрын
@@victoriadorgu3207 hi. Can you help me. I live in South Africa. How can I call?
@rachelb4235
4 жыл бұрын
I'm thankful for 2 things. 1) he treated me so poorly that I finally left him and 2) that I found out he was cheating for over half of our relationship so I will never take him back ever. I was jealous of her for maybe a day but I really just feel sorry for her. She's stuck with him...for now at least. What a living hell that must be.
@rhondacooper7957
4 жыл бұрын
With my ex narcissists I ignored the red flags, and I got hurt in the end. Now I'm please to have moved on with my life. 🙂🙂
@Patricia-cp2zg
3 жыл бұрын
Same here! I send you a big hug!
@ataerabella
3 жыл бұрын
How did you move on?
@samuellaw9967
2 жыл бұрын
same here :(
@juliabevan8098
Жыл бұрын
Same here - I always felt he'd cheat on me and he did in the end. I wish I listened to my gut!!
@preciousjewellss1672
6 жыл бұрын
It's a blessing in disguise...
@NarcSurvivor
6 жыл бұрын
That's right precious jewells. Narcs have nothing to offer you. All they have to give is endless abuse and manipulation. I learned that the hard way.
@khadley7332
5 жыл бұрын
precious jewellss I hope so
@corinnarobets3960
4 жыл бұрын
Yess true with my partner cheating he saids im pardoned i know he's freind told me😥😥😥😥😢😢😢
@maxreviews3418
4 жыл бұрын
Thats what my boss said kinda funny
@maxreviews3418
4 жыл бұрын
Ive thought i was gonna kill my self but its not worth it
@savagemiss5081
5 жыл бұрын
Do you happen to know my ex? Cos you described him to a T - he literally was leading a double life for 9 months and carrying on an affair with his colleague, and would come home to me every night. The more of these videos I watch and the more I've reflected, he is most definitely has narcissistic personality disorder. I'm ever so blessed he left me NOW than waste more of my time.
@drleo6409
Жыл бұрын
They say it is a blessing when they leave you rather than you leave them . The one they left for has pure misery waiting for them . Just don’t take him back after their honeymoon.
@ashishprabhune4059
3 жыл бұрын
Cheating is the most disrespectful thing one human being can do to another If you aren’t happy in a relationship, end it before starting another one.
@kmrood
3 жыл бұрын
It really is that simple. I have said that so many times!
@barbaraannhenderson9049
3 жыл бұрын
Or some one might get killed.
@xoxo-vp7ww
3 жыл бұрын
And insult to injury, she’s so much like me. Idk what to think about that.
@marysarianides8150
2 жыл бұрын
Right I was thinking that today. End the previous relationship, then start another.
@nancyweinreich2146
Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@johnyun3243
5 жыл бұрын
That is the reason why most marriages starting from an affair end in divorce. I read about 95% of marriages starting from an affair end in a divorce.
@hanamimi5300
3 жыл бұрын
Amen !!! I hope my ex will divorce that trash he cheated on me with 👏🏼
@marqann
3 жыл бұрын
I don't think that number is true, judging from people I kno, but I do think, there's a very strong moral about making people stay in their marriages even when bad.. maybee christian beliefs or what ever.. but someone cheating again and again is not worth any grief, just move on
@jamesrobinson9916
2 жыл бұрын
The stats are around 75% will divorce in 5 years or less if it started in an affair.
@nancycamacho5566
4 жыл бұрын
I needed this ♥️ I just recently found out my husband had been cheating on me our whole marriage. I’m feeling at my lowest and I feel so broken.
@melodyivy9024
4 жыл бұрын
Stay strong 🙏🏼
@soyicasweet99
4 жыл бұрын
Nancy Camacho sane here. We deserve better. I left
@Anita90605
4 жыл бұрын
Happiness awaits you!
@danifaith6379
4 жыл бұрын
been there....
@catz8XinTheHat
4 жыл бұрын
Not married but partner off 10 years had a different woman every month. Now hes with my mate round the corner. I struggle with accepting this
@hopesignin8393
3 жыл бұрын
It took me 7 months to realise my ex leaving me was absolutely him doing me a favour. I would never have left him, but now that he's gone it's left the door open for someone sooooo much better to enter. I see now how little he gave me in our marriage. He was always a priority for me, I was always way down on his list. This is not the path I was expecting to be on, but now that the dust has settled a little, I'm excited for my future!
@beencouraged4163
3 жыл бұрын
Happy for you!
@CarolDudeck-bl7kz
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely what is “WRONG” with these women that hook up with married men!🤢
@terrymertens5160
Жыл бұрын
The married man is responsible, emotional immature as she says
@bitspieces5668
5 жыл бұрын
This video was a breakthrough for me - he left me after almost 8 years together after a 9 month affair with a colleague (she's the new supply) I was struggling to understand how he was able to live a double life for the entire time. This video articulated all the answers I was looking for. I don't care whether he does it again or not, it won't be with me in the picture and that's all that matters. Thanks so much for posting this (love your other videos too!)
@kellyblake50
6 жыл бұрын
My narc cheated and had a child. I wasn’t aware he was a narc at the time and thought they were happy until I went into his phone. The whole relationship was a disaster. He told her to hide the pregnancy, he asked her for a loan and even told her to correct her personal hygiene. I stopped obsessing and found it amusing because they deserved each other. Unfortunately I still live with my narc, we have children, but I avoid and ignore him as much as possible. He constantly tries to sleep with me even though he sleeps with everyone. I can’t wait to move out!
@NarcSurvivor
6 жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as a healthy genuinely happy relationship with a narcissistic person. Any relationship that this narcissist has, family or friends, there is always going to be stuff that you're not aware of. There is no happiness with a narc because they are emotionally very unhealthy people. They give the illusion on the outside that everything is great, but believe me, there are a lot of things you do not know.
@kellyblake50
6 жыл бұрын
Narc Survivor I don’t even know him. After 6 years I found out that he uses a false identity! He’s a lost soul, literally.
@NarcSurvivor
6 жыл бұрын
Only speak to him as needed. Start to plan your escape from this person. Avoid any intimacy during this time as this will only suck you back into his web of manipulation. You deserve so much better than this seriously. But the narc has conditioned you to believe that you deserve to be cheated on, lied to and abused. The truth is you deserve more than this abusive narc.
@kellyblake50
6 жыл бұрын
Narc Survivor thank you so much ❤️
@sharesebora7038
4 жыл бұрын
U have to leave no matter what the kids deserves more and so do you... don’t wait trust me it gets worst. He will always cheat on you it’s always going to be another girl
@crystaljean522
6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! I've left the narc but I still needed to hear this. It takes a long time to get past them while they are out romancing everyone without a care for you at all. I'm actually at a point where I feel sorry for the other women, as they are getting involved with a very sick individual, I know that I'm fortunate to be out of that oppressive hell! Thanks so much, keep up the great work!💖
@NarcSurvivor
6 жыл бұрын
I know it's hard to think that this narcissistic ex is out there grooming/conditioning their next victim. But this is not our responsibility now. If you have an opportunity to make them aware of what they did to you, go for it. You could be saving a life. As many of the victims end up suicidal, I know I did.
@sandradibiaso7316
5 жыл бұрын
Do not feel bad for the other woman because she knew he was in a relationship so she is just as toxic as he is.
@Michelle-rk2jy
3 жыл бұрын
Same 🙌🏼
@beautifulsoul2222
2 жыл бұрын
@@sandradibiaso7316 true
@vanessarenae5169
Жыл бұрын
Never feel sorry for Other woman. Most of the time she knows exactly what she's doing.
@simbasara88
5 жыл бұрын
I agree with this and it's helped me get some closure. In my situation I was the other woman and had no idea about it until i became suspicious that he was cheating on me and found out the truth. He was engaged to someone he was with for 7 years. She bought it because they lived quite far away from eachother. What's worse is that his family and friends knew but said nothing to me or her. We both left him after this betrayal but by then I had invested so much of myself aswell that it took a lot of time and counselling to overcome the breakup. He was a narcissist and now he's all alone.
@malindaallen718
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, their friends and family deceive you, and often enable the cheating. I had to leave all in-laws and even my step-children behind because they all were liars. You WILL get over it and make a good life.
@sidgrover8628
Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your ordeal but if he hasn’t changed it’s just a matter of time before he finds another victim or two …my wife is a total narcissist and we’re in the middle of a divorce with 2 young children involved 😢yes it hurts but I’m learning so very much about people from these videos
@simbasara88
Жыл бұрын
@@sidgrover8628 I'm sorry your going through it too 😔
@srosechampion
Жыл бұрын
Similar situation for me too… it’s rough
@surita4376
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💚 I’m going through this and was at such a low point with anxiety today and I watched your video and it helped me shift my perspective
@nightowl6705
5 жыл бұрын
Surita I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through. I understand what you’re going through. I suffered from anxiety that I couldn’t even do grocery shopping for 2 years. Just know, you’re more than enough. Just remember to breath and know you’ll be ok. I hope you are surrounded by genuine loving, understanding people who will help you get through this. The time will come when you will truly smile again. I wish you well. 🙏
@hollirutledge609
4 жыл бұрын
PJ Me too!!!!
@surita4376
4 жыл бұрын
Madam Butterfly thank you 💛
@climbingdragon946
2 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@janetswain2354
Жыл бұрын
One of their favorite things to do is hide out in the bathroom with their phone, texting with other gals but claim they're playing a game on their phone. So freaking juvenile for someone in their 70's don't you think.🧐
@carolb3869
6 жыл бұрын
Shame on them period. Now time to leave completely - you deserve a trillion times better period. 💙
@CAVFIFTEEN
3 жыл бұрын
Agree with most of the video. The only part I disagree with is the notion of cheating once as “a mistake”. I firmly believe it doesn’t matter how or who with it happened. If it happens, it’s because the person doesn’t love or respect their partner. I also believe that the person being cheated with is at just as much fault as the one who is cheating. If you don’t know then they took advantage of you too and you’re also a victim in this. But if you know and go through with it, you’re quite literally part of the problem
@redkalsam
3 жыл бұрын
This happens to men also! This video made me feel better. Thank you!
@sidgrover8628
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely true I’m going thru it now
@demigim9317
3 жыл бұрын
Narcissist's cheating is the next level of cheating They will actually give you hints that they are cheating just to mess up with you!
@beachgirl445
3 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize this until now but you are right, he did do that. Im so disgusted
@judeaberdeen6848
3 жыл бұрын
I feel this but as a guy. She had a a second profile set up and was in a secret second relationship near the end of our 6 years.
@Daisylilly_
3 жыл бұрын
Why do you think they do this ?
@erics3886
3 жыл бұрын
@@Daisylilly_ because I their sick way of thinking. Bringing you pain and agony brings them joy. They really enjoy seeing others sad and hurt especially if they cause the sadness.
@Daisylilly_
3 жыл бұрын
@@erics3886 wow very evil 👹🦹♀️
@laurienelson836
6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely the best explanation that I've heard. It gives me some peace and understanding.
@toveirenestrand3547
3 жыл бұрын
The narcissists lack the ability 'to have deep emotional connections', they are not 'equipped to have such', and that underlines the fact that 'they are not anything to have'. Some say 'they have a hole in their hearts'. And others say that 'they are wrongfully put together', or that 'they are not connected right'... :)
@Vego_NightOwl
4 жыл бұрын
Was with someone for 12yrs, been cheating on me for 6. This has really helped. Known this person since high school and now we’re both in our thirties. I felt so hurt and disgusted and just so shocked that it had been going on this long. Yes I felt worthless and betrayed but it all makes sense now after listening to these videos.
@WRD_Y
3 жыл бұрын
My ex husband denied he cheated even though I'd SEEN his emails! Still denies to this day and trying to worm his way back. Jog on dude we done 🤣
@freechick4484
3 жыл бұрын
How do you not let him back? My husband just did this and I’m so sad
@shavelleservice3916
2 жыл бұрын
It amazes me how they are caught and still lie lol. Your a smart and strong one. Many are not strong enough to leave. They still settle for the abuse.
@JessicaEscalante-ou5rf
6 ай бұрын
My ex denied it too 😂
@lasilveira805
6 жыл бұрын
Omg. My bf did this exact thing to me it lasted for almost a year, back and forth drama. The other women loved it and she also played games with me. I even told her he was with me and was a narcissist but she continued to be with him. He even left me and our kids to be with her. I wish I hadn't took him back. Worst mistake ever, nothing changed, he is still abusive and cheats. He just thinks I dont know and I'm stupid. I like to gather info in my head before I leave him.
@antoinettegorman8833
6 жыл бұрын
Hi you are a gorgeous looking girl. Work on getting away from him. Or he will drive you insane. He is playing one against the other this is what they're favourite game is .record the abuse unknown to him. X
@lasilveira805
6 жыл бұрын
darnell anderson Thank you. Everything you said is so true. He did discard her only because he probably got sick of her supply or she wasn't falling for his bullshit anymore. Either way she is a narcissist herself to play her shit evil games with me and spite me and our kids. Karma is a bitch and so am I, but I will show him his fate. I tried to leave me recently but he won't let me go, told me some manipulative story about how I can't leave him cause i love him so much😂 made me laugh inside. I have no love for him anymore, I love him as the father to my kids, he ruined my soul love I had for him. It's just a matter of time before I leave him he no longer serves me anymore. Tired of his games, tired of his emotional abuse, physical abuse, and his rage. No person should or deserves to be treated like this. It is only after this affair I see the real him. I don't know who he is anymore. Wish me luck and thank you so much for your support.
@lasilveira805
6 жыл бұрын
Antoinette Gorman Thank you so much. I will leave him sooner than later, he just is good at manipulating me and my kids. He thinks I need him cause he makes a lot of money and i don't. It gets old after awhile and I'm tired of his games and lies. He lies straight to my face, even when I have proof. Thank you for your support 😊 and take care!!
@antoinettegorman8833
6 жыл бұрын
La Silveira he knows this because it's financial abuse as well .you need to get a plan and an support system going for yourself and kids. He is a bully boy. Don't let this creature steal you and your kids souls. That God created in you. Pray to god he will help. Surviving to thriving is a great source of help .also assc direct. And self haven. Good luck I'll say a prayer for you. Xx
@lasilveira805
6 жыл бұрын
Antoinette Gorman Thank you so much. I subscribe to their channels as well, really love the support I get from you all 😘🙏❤ God Bless you as well and I'll pray for us all.
@FaZeShinobi
3 жыл бұрын
I had one who couldn't admit it even though it was clear. No remorse, no apology no guilty at all. Denial denial denial......
@geraldinelastein8913
5 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I need. Thank you Stephanie. My ex husband soon to be, just admit everything that he is spending vacation to the other woman, where it’s their 3rd time vacation together. The last 2 vacation he got away because I didn’t discover yet.. They have been together for 3 years now, how amazing is that. But anyway, the other woman thinks he won a lottery for having my husband. I would say Im still bitter, but this video that you have made, gave me light where path should I go, thank you❤️
@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
5 жыл бұрын
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@747Antman
3 жыл бұрын
After you find out how awful they are, it’s usual to feel confused and bitter. Give yourself time and know you will be stronger and more aware of your wants and needs. I found talking therapy very useful.
@SharonNailedIt
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this. I recently found out what a Narcissist was and that I was a Empath so I working on getting away from my husband now. I'm working on my healing and we are getting papers together to get a divorce
@Bailey_G
6 жыл бұрын
Oh...my...God!! ... How glad I am that I hit on your channel!! Every vowel & consonant resonates! Thank you!!
@katiebean1113
2 жыл бұрын
I just found out the man I was dating is married. I am disgusted and heart broken. I hate that he involved me in hurting his family and his wife. He manipulated me for months, having me think we were in an exclusive committed relationship. I am in shock. I don’t know how to recover from this betrayal and process this information
@jilllansu4344
2 жыл бұрын
I think it's important to remember that a faithful woman is not an equal to her unfaithful husband. The other woman is an equal to the unfaithful man. They are on the same level as each other. Feel good about living your life with honesty and integrity. Let those who don't value those traits find their equal.
@ajj19
6 жыл бұрын
You always help when my mind starts to slip a little! 😘
@susansheehan7965
2 жыл бұрын
I was cheated on by my alcoholic narcissist ex husband with a woman who was 14 years younger than he was. I thought your message was right on the money! I suffered with shame and hurt and humiliation for years about this.Affairs are so hurtful to the other person. I thank you for sharing this 💝!
@SexyTatum66
3 жыл бұрын
Omg!! You nailed it on every detail in my marriage I now completely understand what kind of relationship I had with this man. Thank you for shading a light now I can see
@wizmanballin8498
6 жыл бұрын
Another really good vid and so much of it touches so close to home. I tell you...years after my situation, it's a HUGE relief to know that what happened wasn't about me so much as it was about her not really loving me to start with. But I'm finally at a point when I can deal with what happened and ready to move on. Not ready for a relationship just yet because what I always "think" I want isn't really what I need. I'm learning as I go along. lol...willing to be much more patient moving forward. And the freedom is awesome!
@melissabowmandoeverythingy6004
4 жыл бұрын
Stephanie, thank you so much for this video! I’m at about a year and a half in of focusing on my own self improvement and self love. But I still need to be reminded of these things to keep me growing and healing from my terrible past ❤️ I loved this, it’s completely on point to what happened to my marriage.
@rdbluvjones3267
4 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this after 8.5 years, although I’ve cried every day the past month. I’ve been trying to understand how we got here. I asked him to leave after finding out about his cheating and shortly thereafter him & his new person are on vacation posted on FB. I’m devastated all over. We’ve been a part 2 months.
@malindaallen718
3 жыл бұрын
You WILL get over the lying cheating scumbag. Divorce him and go "no contact".
@onafa
Жыл бұрын
Going through this too. Almost 9 yrs and he left me for the other woman. Sending love to you and all of us who are trying to heal and rebuild from this horrible situation. 😢
@sandradibiaso7316
5 жыл бұрын
Picture the guy who cheated on you as the ugliest guy you ever dated or married. He probably was and you were like me co-dependent and just needing love and attention from a man. Karma is coming for him! He will reap what he sowed for cheating on you.
@mydawgzz
3 жыл бұрын
"A quick fix to avoid your life" 100% true.
@SuperBrilliantbrunet
Жыл бұрын
Wow! Stephanie hit this right on!!
@Jennsrusticwings
Жыл бұрын
I had an affair. My marriage was so shallow I couldn't take it anymore. He didn't care about my feelings, no empathy. I was told to be happy with four walls. My affair was the opposite of all of this information. It was deep conversation, intimate relating, Disagreements that were talked about and resolved. Respectful communication. I will say my biggest regret was not leaving my marriage before engaging in this new relationship. It was this affair that really opened my eyes to just how toxic my marriage was.
@kelvins9823
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephanie excellent insight. You will be my mentor concerning knowing women. Lord bless you and your family and please stay safe in Jesus Christ amen.
@apope06
3 жыл бұрын
Leaving someone for someone else is more noble than cheating during a relationship. Even if they make a mistake and want to come back it is a better person than cheating.
@jenniferakes8224
3 жыл бұрын
If he cheats with you he will cheat on you. Old saying my Grandmother told me when I was much younger. A lot of women thing they can fix what is wrong with him. And a lot of men think that women will always be the person they see in front of them in the beginning of a relationship. These two things are not true. You cannot turn a sows ear into a silk purse and people change over time. They get jaded or pushed to far. They get beaten down by things in their life and their perspective and how they react to things change. A good healthy relationship is based on truth and honesty and if you wouldn't do it in front of them don't do it behind their back. If you are in a committed relationship and you have agreed that you and them are the only people in that relationship and one steps outside those agreed upon boundaries. That person wants their cake and eat it to. Don't settle for bad behavior or someone unwilling to accept responsibility for their own actions. If he / she says I did this because you weren't doing this or that. Instead of saying it was a moment of weakness and will never happen again and they follow through with those actions not just words and it doesn't happen again then move forward. That is an adult we all make mistakes, we all fight those urges but an adult says you know what my relationship is more important than that momentary urge. I don't want to hurt the person who trust me and who knows me and who makes me a priority in their lives. A healthy adult doesn't risk losing what they have in order to chase something they don't. And that person who is cheating with them isn't a mentally healthy person either. So instead of beating yourself up for someone else's actions. Take a step back figure out what you want to do from here and take action.
@razasyeda6054
4 жыл бұрын
Best way to move on is to see what they did to you at the end of the day, is that kind of a person you want to be with? you will physically shudder!
@alannamcqueen5360
6 жыл бұрын
This was so so helpful. Describes the situation of my break up perfectly and makes me have faith that it wasnt all my fault. thank you!!!
@dannguyen4656
6 жыл бұрын
Stephanie,my name is Dan i have been watching many and many of your video's i wanna thank you your an amazing woman and have helped me through some of the most unimaginable pain that has been inflicted on me by narcissistic abuse. I'm not going to go into details about my situation because it is absolutely heartbreaking. Again I want to thank you for being an amazing person.
@StephanieLynCoaching
6 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that you have had to go through this experience! I am so very happy that the video have helped you. Sending you healing vibes!
@dannguyen4656
6 жыл бұрын
@@StephanieLynCoaching unfortunately I have to co-parent with this person, thank's again God bless you😇 wish you were around to talk with more..
@diamondinthesky723
4 жыл бұрын
You explain things so beautifully! Thank you for your Wisdom.
@skyhawk409
Жыл бұрын
Wow! your explanation was amazing deep words of real love and trust verses people we don't need in our lives. your an inspiration thank you.
@climbingdragon946
2 жыл бұрын
This video has been so helpful. I have been struggling and in pain but this really helped shed some light
@nayanaramesh1252
4 жыл бұрын
Live life on own terms, keep the narcs out of life. There are better things to do in life. Stay closer to God and be blessed.
@annanannerz5431
2 жыл бұрын
Test Men with boundaries and see if the respect for your boundaries are there. If not, runnnnnnn
@fishergirlfishergirl
4 жыл бұрын
You are the most beautiful soul on youtube thank you for your amazing personality and gifts💜
@malaysak
5 ай бұрын
Omg everything u said in this video, I'm going through everything u said right now. The more I find out the more make me sick in my stomach.
@mel1874
4 жыл бұрын
Came across this today when I really needed it. ❤️ Helped me understand my situation more.
@susielee8101
5 жыл бұрын
I have all kinds of clues my partner is seeing someone on the side but no matter how I wanted him to come clean and deal with the cheating in a civilized way he just chose to ignore me and not bother giving me any answers to his behavior in questions. He kept denying he is cheating even after I presented him all the out of ordinary behaviors I noticed about him. Is it an ego thing that some men can't admit to his cheating or is this a way for them to prevent a break up?
@airaormond1017
5 жыл бұрын
I told my fiance if he really wanted out all he had to do was admit he cared for and wanted someone else. He is silent. He wants his cake and eat it too. Or he doesn't care about her at the end of the day. Still wants to get married. So confusing.
@malindaallen718
3 жыл бұрын
You don't need proof and you don't need him to admit it. What you need is to DUMP HIM and go NO CONTACT and move on.
@malindaallen718
3 жыл бұрын
@@airaormond1017 DO NOT MARRY HIM! RUN! He will wreck your life.
@petergriffinmk2884
3 жыл бұрын
@@airaormond1017 Omg thats what they do, they try to confuse you!! Im going through something similar rn and all I can say is RUNNN!! Theyre doing that to keep you around bc theyre bored and lonely and enjoy the attention. Its for their own ego.
@brightpage1020
2 жыл бұрын
This is some of your best work, Pretty Lady! Thank you! They’re not able or equipped to have deep connections, soulful ones. Period. Almost makes you feel sorry for them… until you remember the pain they cause without feeling themselves. Dho!
@ChristineDAngel
6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video. I can relate to this in so many ways. Thanks Stephanie!
@jennymcilwain8771
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Listening to you give me peace and makes me think I am not the crazy one here. I am dealing with all this problem right now
@90charim
3 жыл бұрын
May I ask why women can be so against each other!? In this case I was considered the other woman along with others and he was married! Well I called his wife to tell her etc but it was like she turnt all her anger on me when I really wanted her to know and be concerned about her health bcuz we had unprotected sex n he was doing so with others but it seemed she may have gotten these calls before and that she really didn’t want to know. Is this really the case that some of these wives doesn’t want to know the truth about their partner and stay in a illusion!? Like they can still be controlled by the narc even if they have all the proof he has been cheating or living a double life!?
@lucindatanksley5370
7 ай бұрын
I am so grateful for this video. You calmed me down❤ I needed this very much!!!😊
@youngtoyko7535
3 жыл бұрын
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@sharonada774
3 жыл бұрын
I did that and it works
@neontiler7185
3 жыл бұрын
they did it for me as well
@biancaswart1101
2 жыл бұрын
When he started with the discard, I did a 180 on him. From the obedient and loyal friend to someone who won't take his shit. I won't say this is the proper thing to do, however, it stopped him for a sec in his tracks, because it was unexpected that I would spent some quality time with a 'normal' man, rather than with him. Lol. The response I got was one of intense hoovering tactics, so I told him; in a nice way. 'You already have your supply'/supplies if I may add. Cause it's true.. I left and never contacted him again. I don't do fake. I only knew him for 4 months and I am not downplaying any situation where someone is being cheated on. It's gross and disrespectful. I just decided I don't want to be treated like that.
@jessebodley4893
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, This video explains a lot. The narc that was in my life put me on a pedestal the whole 4 year relationship. She let me fall in love with her family and I was the daddy to her daughter she never had. I never saw my marriage proposal rejection coming on our Alaskan Cruise vacation. I was lead on for 8 months afterward. She never had the courage to call it a break up while continuing an affair with a co worker. To this day her social media status is in a relationship with me . Your video helps give some closure to a extremely painful experience.
@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
5 жыл бұрын
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@Lnealon
Жыл бұрын
This was so incredibly helpful for me.This situation started for me 1 year ago. It was my first experience with an affair betrayal and never thought it would happen to our marriage. Thank you..I lost 20 pds and became numb with pain..even now I break out into tears with pain. Getting therr..
@andriakay891
4 жыл бұрын
I'm so thankful for this video. This is exactly what I'm going through. I've been dumped twice by the same guy for two different woman. Same situations where he pulls out and he's played me because hes bored since we were together for 3 years and our honey moon is over.. and I've also been the side chick who was having an emotional and sexual affair with a man thinking I could change him and he truly was going to change for me where in reality he was just using me for the sex and I was avoiding my pain from the other guy and getting high. Thanks again for this video. So much clarity and nailed everything that's been going on for me. Pray that I heal from this narcassim and can attract better people, especially men in my life.
@agathangenzirabona8339
6 жыл бұрын
Well spoken
@katelongfellow8644
3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed tonight! Thank you so much ❤️ it’s been a rough 2 years for me 💔
@michellewarren386
4 жыл бұрын
Sloppy seconds love that lol 😂
@rosebeard2866
4 жыл бұрын
Tried to keep him in check and would even say things to him but he would deny everything they are not worth wasting another day on once you have learned who they really are you have to drop em like a hot potatoes and move forward and never look back
@saradellabella8175
6 жыл бұрын
Please call them what the courts call them.... Abusers. Even though they all have narcissistic tendencies they have not been diagnosed (nor will they ever be). Just saying this incase anyone is going to court with an abuser, only call them abusers and allow the judge or a professional to call them a narcissist.
@Healingandchoices
6 жыл бұрын
Sara Dellabella the courts here they dont seem to recognize what they are at all. The manner of them dealing with outsiders is very different. They turn things on the scapegoat. If you are in court with them then you are the scapegoat. They are very effective at this. Just so glad that long long part of my life is complete now. Wishing us all healing Healthforthesoul.youngevity.com
@saradellabella8175
6 жыл бұрын
Robin Hollis-Oestereich that’s exactly what they do. It’s extremely twisted. The best you can do is never ever call them a narcissist, unless you are professionally credentialed to diagnose a disorder. Abusers are the best manipulators that haunt this earth and scathe their disgusting selves amongst us. Only a very very well trained lawyer who’s aware of domestic violence will be able to see it and an even better attorney will prove it
@DC-wx2iz
Жыл бұрын
I have been diagnosed with stage 3 esophageal cancer. Did a few months of chemotherapy and radiation, then eventually major surgery. I beat that cancer. But going into surgery recovery and remission. I am currently diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer and also found a tumor in my right lung. So, my wife of 12 plus years decides to leave me a week before I was diagnosed with liver cancer. During that first week, she was out on a date with another guy with no wedding ring on. She was trying to hide behind the menu's from my auntie, who was having dinner at the same restaurant. She told me she has not gone anywhere, done anything, not seeing anyone, not touching anyone, or being touched, not nothing happen. The timeline does not make sense, met him in October of last year but only started to talking in January. I got my surgery in November...now I'm going through this chemotherapy again and eventually radiation to surgery then deal with the tumor in my chest right after. So I'm dealing with all this. Oh and we have a daughter together who she is lying to her about this guy. Why...why...why am I broken but she is on cloud nine. I'm literally suffering and she is not worried about me (her actually husband). Ignoring everything about me and not showing no remorse, feelings, emotions, nothing but a complete fucking stranger and our marriage was a complete lie and waste of time especially for me. On borrowed time. It hurts...it hurts....it really hurts.😢😢😢😢😢😢
@gandalfdegrey
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I’m from Malaysia. Recently got cheated by my ex gf and she’s everything you described. It has been really difficult for me and your videos always lift me up from this dark place that I’m in. You’re an angel Stephanie 😇
@nightowl6705
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephanie for making sense. There’s things you have touched in this video that I have wondered for so long which you have answered. I have a question, how do you get a closure in this kind of situation when your husband leaves you without a word and suddenly disappears from a 22 years marriage? How do you get closure without having to confront him and it might even take years before you get a chance to do this? I am now beginning to be at peace with this as I have accepted many things and learnt to distinguish the lies from the truth. The truth was that he was the problem. I guess this is my closure, but I would like to hear your thoughts on this.
@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
5 жыл бұрын
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@christina230827
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephanie this video is exactly what I needed in this process of focusing on me and my future. Everyday is a new challenge!
@HibaHajaj
6 жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship with a man for a year. I felt in my gut that something wasn't right so I left in the nicest way possible, and after I left him I found out he was married. Him and his wife started stalking/hacking/threatening me consistently for years. The strange thing is that she knew all along that he was with me.
@midnightrunner0478
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos. They are very helpful in my recovery. I was married for nine years. She got more and more abusive each year. I thought I was a terrible husband and tried my best to make her happy but I couldn’t. I helped her finish her bachelors degree while I was finishing mine and working full time and taking care of our son when I was home while she worked part time. One year after we both finish and are making more money then ever she leaves me for a maintenance man at her work. She always told me that she wouldn’t have married me if I didn’t have a degree or a house. This guy never went to college and doesn’t make half of what I make and doesn’t have a house. He was married as well and his ex and son live in a mobile home on his parents property. He is 15 years older then her and 50 pounds overweight. I’m convinced that she is a narcissist and I’m thankful she is gone but I can’t figure out why she is now married to this guy. I know your not a mind reader but do you have any thoughts? Everything I listen to and read says that the narcissist will get a new supply but I have no idea what that could be. Thanks again.
@NarcSurvivor
6 жыл бұрын
If she has cheated on you, she is most likely a narcissist. Cheaters lack empathy and consideration for their partners. A narcissist will always cheat on you eventually.
@karagraham9764
5 жыл бұрын
Soccer Moon Narcissists go for people they can feel superior to
@rebeccas4335
5 жыл бұрын
I am so glad I came across your video, and it's verified everything I have been going through. I've been married for 32 years going through divorce narcissist husband wanted other woman in wife at same time.he kept making excuses all the time saying they were friends but they were caught she is married as well! Unfortunately unfaithful husband has son living with him which is following the same path.
@elliegoetze9401
4 жыл бұрын
I’m upset that you painted out the “other woman” to be an antagonist. The other woman, yes, can be a jealous drama loving seductress. Yet they can also be a victim to the manipulation of the narcissist.
@simplengbuhay2736
3 жыл бұрын
u make big difference someone's lives by this video.thanknyou very much.GODBLESS
@n.p.r.2973
3 жыл бұрын
Should I tell her husband that my husband and his wife have an affair going on at work? We went to their wedding a few months ago and I just found out they’re sleeping together and I don’t know how long this has been going on... should I tell him?
@trandall1142
3 жыл бұрын
I would. Or threaten her to tell her husband.
@HondaWill
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, tell all
@CarolDudeck-bl7kz
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Stephanie
@onafa
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. This resonates so much as my husband left me for the other woman that he had an affair with. Still trying to process everything now and it sucks. So so painful. :/ I’m having a hard time coming to term with the fact that this woman is capable to knowingly and actively engaged in the affair, considering she is also a therapist (not ours). 😢
@krisbenishek7456
5 жыл бұрын
Stephanie I can tell that you are still hurt from his cheating on you and you are making all "other women" bad, but that is not always the case. The narcissist spins a very believable tale about the unhappy and ending commitment he has been in for years and then love bombs you, talking about being soul mates, etc. Many lonely and kind women are susceptible to his lies.
@courtneybromley3469
4 жыл бұрын
Kris Benishek still? Character is through actions. I think both parties are at fault if they are aware the other person is in a committed relationship!
@mllekamell
4 жыл бұрын
Kris Benishek that is what I thought, too, when listening to the devaluation of the ‚other‘ woman. Thanks for the comment
@g0d5m15t4k3
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment.
@g0d5m15t4k3
2 жыл бұрын
Seriously, the other woman can be a victim here too. Even when she knows he's married. She buys the sob story, thinks she's helping, is made to feel special. The other woman is a selective target of the narc. He chooses women who are vulnerable. She has low self esteem, is probably a helper, an understanding listener, she believes in the good of people even ones who've done bad in the past. He chooses her because he knows he can manipulate her and she will stay quiet out of shame. Source: I've been that other woman. Other "other women" out there, I encourage you to be strong and self reliant. Hold up your boundaries. You're worth a real relationship. Don't try to change or fix those emotionally unavailable people out there. It's not your job and you deserve better. I have felt the loneliness of being with a narc cheater and its 1000x worse than just regular loneliness.
@maxzechmann2649
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video, nice way of explaining it so one feels like it has built confidence rather than have negative emotions about the situation.
@jenniferparks5901
3 жыл бұрын
So I would like to follow up on this in regards to many of the "other women" who have gotten involved with a narcissist. These women are typically not everything that you displayed in your video. These are successful women, intelligent women,they are sometimes a little more confident than the woman the narcissist is with, which is why they seek after them for the next source of supply. Understand most of these women do not at all set out to hurt the girlfriend or the wife. They are victims of a narcissist too. They are lied to, gas lit and charmed and hardly told the truth in the beginning. These women fell in love and fell into cognitive dissonance the same way the girfriend or wife did. The wife or girlfriend chose this man the same way and was given the same things. She probably saw the same red flags and was gas lit not to see them. I have been on both ends of narcissistic abuse and I think we do a diservice to the abuse by not recognizing the majority of other women in regards to a narcissist are also victims and do not set out or purposely want to hurt anyone. They are pitted against the other woman too. This is not saying there aren't women that love drama or seek unavailable men, but in regards to narcissistic men...the other woman is typically a woman also of substance. Someone the narcissist deems as a challenge to also take down. If anything, shunning her is also abusive and just another part of what the narcissist enjoys and wants the world to do.
@feliciapudelski8985
2 жыл бұрын
Married people are off limits. Period.
@jenniferparks5901
2 жыл бұрын
@@feliciapudelski8985 people lie about their marital status often ...also human nature, deception, mental health, well...it's just not that cut and dry. Marriage is not seen in the same value by everyone hence why people who are married will still cheat. It's their responsibility to honor their own commitment, no one else's. As much as people would love to blame those outside of relationships, it's not on them to be accountable for the agreement in which others made and or the decision to break.
@kristenepic6071
10 ай бұрын
As the other woman, his marriage was hidden. The amount of lying that was done to take away choice and boundaries is insane. NARCISSIST
@donnaholton1981
3 жыл бұрын
I was married for 22 years my narcissist was having an affair for about a year prior to us divorcing, his side piece sold two of her houses moved in with him and then he kicked her out I absolutely love it they both deserve each other.
@julikam6312
6 жыл бұрын
Dear Stephanie, thank you so much for your videos. I literally watched them all during the last week and they gave me so much to learn, and also relief, validation and a lot of hope. I have been through this too, and my ex partner of 6 years still contacts me from fake accounts, emails and so on til this day even though I went no contact 2 years (!) ago ... but you are right, you come to a point where you see everything as it is and I can finally see him clear now. He is a poor person, trying to control others without respecting their boundaries and feelings. I'm not super happy in my life, but content with myself, have a great job, home and friends at my own mental freedom and that is the best thing. Wish you the best, go on like this
@StephanieLynCoaching
6 жыл бұрын
Same to you! It is emotionally exhausting dealing with these types of people. The controlling ways and abusive is a lot for anyone to deal with.
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