பெற்றோர்களால் நிச்சயக்கப்பட்ட திருமணம் அல்லது காதல் திருமணம் எதுவாயினும் தம்பதியருக்கிடையே புரிதல் இல்லையென்றால் திருமண வாழ்க்கை கசப்பாகிவிடும்
@happymoodchannel640
4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@sivasham
4 жыл бұрын
Yes. Correct
@niasentalks8168
4 жыл бұрын
@@sivasham Mm ama
@niasentalks8168
4 жыл бұрын
@@happymoodchannel640 Mm ama
@happymoodchannel640
4 жыл бұрын
Enna painr Thu roomp kasta erku
@fhprem7138
3 жыл бұрын
இவுங்க பேச்சு மட்டும் கொஞ்சம் கேட்டுட்டு விடவே முடியல... முழுதாய் கேக்க வைச்சிடுறாங்க... Wonderful speaker 😊👌
@srinivasaperumal5463
2 жыл бұрын
Very useful
@kavithapandian33
4 жыл бұрын
Well said mam....neraiya girls parents kaaga than yellathaium sacrifice pannitu vaaluranga...avangalukunu oru own opinion kuda Ilama erukanga....mrg ku apuram full control lum husband Kita poiduthu....adutha jenmathula ponna matum porakka kudathu kandippa.........girls avanga life avanga nenacha maari avangalala vazhave mudila........
@yasothaperumal6194
3 жыл бұрын
Yen mudiyadhu. madam solldra Mari namba economically oruthara depand panni irukaradhunala dhan nambala onnum seyya mudiyala.. namaku nu oru vela irundha nambalum sambadhicha namba yaraiyum nambi iruka vendiya avasiyam kedaiyadhu namaku edhu pudikidho adhu seyyalam dhairiyama edhayum sadhikalam.
@sathyapriya2412
3 жыл бұрын
ama😭
@jayasuriya70689
3 жыл бұрын
Enakum ipd tha nadanthathu Kavitha 😭 avanga amma black mail panni ennayum avalayum pirichitanga 😭😭😭😭😭 vera vazhi ilama avalum avanga amma kaga naama pirinjidalamnu sonna 😭😭😭😭 1 year aachi avaluku marriage um aaiduchi but ipo varaikum ennala avala maraka mudila thaanga mudila 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@JAI----
3 жыл бұрын
Boys mattum epdi...😒
@prasannavenkkatesh1192
3 жыл бұрын
Ungala yaru parents kaga sacrifice panna sonnadhu
@shirinriswana1189
6 жыл бұрын
Problem is the society n relatives.. Need solutions to such issues..
@@rramya3964 u r correct. Avanga avanga life Avangaley than valanum. Society criticism kuduthutey irupanga 19 Vayasu aanaley Kilavi mari feel panna vachuruvanga
@bhuvibhuvi3768
4 жыл бұрын
Definitely , all parents are fearing about society n relatives ... They are not gng to live our life ..
@naveeng5108
3 жыл бұрын
No marriage no tension..chilll guys ❤
@user-iw6jl1dp6e
3 жыл бұрын
Ya booy
@naveeng5108
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-iw6jl1dp6e 😂
@கார்த்தீமோகன்தமிழன்
3 жыл бұрын
எப்பவுமே தனி மரம்✋
@naveeng5108
3 жыл бұрын
@NAVEEN KUMAR.M 😂
@devika3225
3 жыл бұрын
Pasanga ipdithan pesuvinga...girls than antha kastatha anupavikanum...girls fate...
@Rajkumar786-t4n
5 жыл бұрын
இந்த videoவை 7 வருடங்கள் முன்பு போடக்கூடாத
@nambiyurnandha6432
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@kavyakumar39
4 жыл бұрын
😀😀😀😀😀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
@emptypot3442
4 жыл бұрын
Haaaaaa.....😂🤣
@beinggalien
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂😂
@carolinerajkumar
4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha🤣🤣😂😝
@udhayamk8500
6 жыл бұрын
அருமையான பேச்சு உங்கள் பேச்சு உங்கள் சேவை தொடர வாழ்த்துக்கள் சகோதரி..
@gayathirigayu8499
5 жыл бұрын
Wow wow super
@srinivasaperumal5463
2 жыл бұрын
Very nice
@sunithamathavan3787
6 жыл бұрын
What she says is absolutely right...even to choose a shirt also we are thinking much what about a person that gonna be with us lifelong...if we get a wrong partner it will directly give huge impact towards our life...we are responsible 100% to choose wisely the right partner not our parents...even the parents choose also we must get to know the person deeply for some duration before commit...thank god i decide my own desicion in choosing life partner...and parents support it...even its right or gonna be wrong in future i still will be happy coz the desicion is mine...😊
@manikanta3876
5 жыл бұрын
Then let's love.... Before marriage and then marry... Are u ready sunitha
@carolinerajkumar
4 жыл бұрын
Well said😊👍
@sunithamathavan3787
4 жыл бұрын
Life is Divine thanks for agreeing with my statement but why U need to live together and knowing someone deeply than only u want to enter into marriage...knowing and loving someone doesn’t mean require u to live together and have sex and finally u decide that person is good in this and that...what I agree with her is that u doesn’t require someone else to choose for u and u can do it yourself but that doesn’t mean u need to live together... I just checked I have written this message 2 years back and in my marriage for 3 years with my husband which is love marriage too but we never done living relationship all sort before marriage but compromise and understanding is there...maybe my husband and mine life journey might be different and our perception might be different too from other couple...some as u said has all this sexual issues and they unable to compromise all sort...but what if our parents choose someone who we might have no clue at all...some arrange marriage turns beautiful too because they are compatible and able to compromise ❤️
@sunithamathavan3787
4 жыл бұрын
Mani Kanta I already love my husband a lot and marry him...He eager to reply your comment too🤣
@NAVINKUMAR-bb1lf
2 жыл бұрын
@@sunithamathavan3787 🤣🤣
@kiranmorais8951
6 жыл бұрын
Love marriage oh arranged marriage oh, ethuva irunthalum, Vazhkai ah rasika theriyathavanuku epovume naragam thaan, Its not about how we get married, Its all about how we live ,
*The best way merriage pannidu love pannunga life azhaga irukkum ... Enakku arrange marriage dhan but my Hubby ma ah naa rombavum naa Love pannuren ❤😊😊*
@govindarajangopu6145
6 жыл бұрын
Silambu Arasan super bro.
@sathyathiyagarajan2046
6 жыл бұрын
Silambu Arasan love marriage ku aprm paiyan maara matan nu ena guarantee iruku
@govindarajangopu6145
6 жыл бұрын
No gurantee...
@sathyathiyagarajan2046
6 жыл бұрын
sai mahes exactly
@srivanket
6 жыл бұрын
bro atha yep d chose panrathulathaan kulapamea iruku.ungaluku amaijathumaari yellaarukum amaiyum nu solla mudiyaathu
@tk967
3 жыл бұрын
எனக்கும் இது மாறிநடந்தது திருமணம் செய்து வைத்தார்கள் ஆனால் அந்தப் பையன் என்னுடன் உடலுறவு மட்டும் வைத்துக் கொண்டு மனைவியாகவே மதிக்கவில்லை.வேறொரு பெண்ணுடன் தொடர்பு வைத்திருந்தான். அதை அறிந்து நான் கேட்ட பொழுது எனக்கு கல்யாணத்தில் விருப்பமில்லை கட்டாயப் படுத்தி தான் கல்யாணம் பண்ணி வைத்தார்கள். எனக்கு அந்த பொண்ணு தான் வேணும். நீ வேண்டாம்னு சொல்லிட்டு போயிட்டான். கடைசியில் பாதிக்கப்பட்டு நின்றவ நான் மட்டுமே.
@joshanneme9381
6 жыл бұрын
Significant topic. Marriage shud happen as a result of mutual love . If it is arranged based on many other factors eventually problems arise. It is not wise to expect that familiarity wud create 'love' later in such relationships. Times have changed and hence we need to rethink for the betterment of social life.
@samzero00james
6 жыл бұрын
Joshanne Me exactly. arranged marriage only seems a joke to me. people very easily say that the couple can fall in love after marriage which seems very impractical. It's better to live a life with the person you loved rather than creating artificial love and feeling obliged to show affection after getting arranged marriage.
@apsthulasik5904
6 жыл бұрын
Katti kududha podhum ..... parents???? We have to face the problem
@mobileman6393
6 жыл бұрын
Apsthulasi K 👍
@sivalr7639
6 жыл бұрын
true.... it is happening to me.... I'm fighting
@santhanalakshmism22
5 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@priyariya7250
5 жыл бұрын
Full fighting in my marriage life
@saibaba2107
5 жыл бұрын
Yes🙄 I face the problems
@sheikbabu7864
3 жыл бұрын
Arrange marriage is legal punishment 😭😭😭
@floralistamehendijewels2878
2 жыл бұрын
Damn fact 💯😔
@kannan14374
2 жыл бұрын
Correct 💯🥳
@kannathasankannathasan7230
2 жыл бұрын
No. wrong
@balachandranpriya8553
Жыл бұрын
💯Correct...
@UENShehanazbegamjaffar
Жыл бұрын
Don't feel Anna pray to Allah God will soon remove negativities in your life
@samzero00james
6 жыл бұрын
arranged marriage only seems a joke to me and most of the western countries. people very wrongly assume that the couple can fall in love after marriage which seems very impractical. It's better to live a hard life with the person you loved with all your heart rather than creating/expressing artificial love and feeling obliged to show affection after getting arranged marriage. there are so many aspects that are going to contradict
@l.baskaran7294
5 жыл бұрын
TRUE.
@kishorerocky6099
2 жыл бұрын
Castism..
@mariasvasaba1261
Жыл бұрын
Can you please explain why divorce rate is high in western and European nations? Why there are broken families, single parents? Live in relationships are today's trend. Many married couples are preferring child adoption than to have their own children. So dating and love marriages are not the solutions. Ego centric and self centric nature of couples are the main reasons for unhappy relationships.
@gangaiahchaluvaiah4839
Жыл бұрын
@@mariasvasaba1261 I fully agree. You're absolutely right. No one is perfect. Passion and empathy for each other would go a long way.
@arsh.2150
Жыл бұрын
@@mariasvasaba1261 western countries live their life. They don't think about the society. They don't care about what others say. In India, people don't divorce because they think that the society wouldn't respect them. They care about what others think. If you divorce in India there's gonna be a lot people ( including your family if they care about what the society thinks) that is going to speak Ill of you. They are afraid of the society. That's the harsh truth.
@sobanasobi4309
5 жыл бұрын
நிறைய பொண்ணுங்க வாழ்க்கை இன்னிக்கு இப்படி தான் போய்ட்டு இருக்கு
@happymoodchannel640
4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@happymoodchannel640
4 жыл бұрын
Enna paint Thu தேரில
@thirupathi1062
4 жыл бұрын
Oru husband sports manna irutu wife accept panukuragalanu first paruga boys romba katavuga mathri comment potukuga best husbands du irukaga worst husbands du irukaga in this world la
@Sobana.v
3 жыл бұрын
Unga name
@anbusanbu383
3 жыл бұрын
@@happymoodchannel640 feel panathinga lemon vechi name eluthi 21 days pooja room la panunga sari aakitum
@amyrani7960
5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you sister, in my own choice, if something happens I can take responsibility for it, but others messing up my life, I can't accept it
@ishubabu5940
6 жыл бұрын
U r right bt it happens not only in arranged marriage even in luv marriage..only thing should stay between them is luv..luv has trillions of power to make both of them to stay together whatever struggles nd fights come between them..It was my own experience..
@fst9045
5 жыл бұрын
Love before marriage is the True love. Love after marriage is not love but its a duty.
@kabinyayu1138
3 жыл бұрын
True
@shivasakthivel6318
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@prabu7965
6 жыл бұрын
Not only arrange maarraige kirtanya even love marraige also lik this bcos aftr marraige mind changing...........
@monishav1680
6 жыл бұрын
yes
@prabu7965
6 жыл бұрын
girubhakar T ya but understanding b/w couples gives happy life else not
@pakathuveetuponnu7477
5 жыл бұрын
True true true
@keerthiumnaanum348
5 жыл бұрын
mam phone number mam
@gayathrinirmal1231
5 жыл бұрын
Correct
@litzlitz8685
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with your speech completely ma’am...what you told was right ..even me and my husband took two years to know about each and we loved each other and now we are happily married and it’s been one year...my parents had that trust in me and they were confident about my decision ...as you told initially for society pressure they want to do a marriage the way how you told but I explained the same way how you told ..,I told it’s my life whom I have to be with that person for longer time so let me think and take the decision...luckily my parents understood and gave me the liberty to choose my life partner.. Now I am happily married☺️☺️☺️
@gangaiahchaluvaiah4839
Жыл бұрын
Majority of people suppress the reality and truth. This is the biggest hurdle. Thanks for the awakening video
@thewierd_thewonderful996
6 жыл бұрын
Love marriage also may not always lead to success. It all depends on how the chemistry works. And how much you love the other person. If you really love someone you will let them pursue their dreams..you won't stop your life partners from achieving / chasing their dreams.
@satishr7442
3 жыл бұрын
Abba atleast one sensible comment ... nalla eru atha 🤣
@RG-sl6ix
2 жыл бұрын
Love is one of the factor. Never, the only factor. For a happy marriage life, personality of a person matters. How they are molded by their family and community. A person who loves a women may not be a good gentleman, or necessary mentally healthy and sexually healthy too
@charlesveron3460
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly that chemistry will not be with everyone.
@56_prakruthis9
2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@venmaninandhan3888
4 жыл бұрын
Mam it's really true.... Ella parents mey avinga decide panuravana katikanum nenaikuranga... Ipo love panna kuda lot of expectations vaikuranga.... Ithu neraiya peruku oru advice ah iruku.... Superb mam
@202.sherleyvanishas7
3 жыл бұрын
Better understanding is best couples ❤️❤️the person who waits for u till end ...it means true love .. ❤️ never giveup..till end
@Superstar-uh4tx
4 жыл бұрын
This is the best advice I have herd rather than just getting married for society it is best to know you first want to get married and whether that person chosen is a suitable partner.
Most problem arises because of relatives and surrounding people and parents too sometimes making mistakes.
@Priyanga.V
5 жыл бұрын
Break the rules be self confidence Me also arrange mrg ,avaruku self ah decision eduka therinjaalum old fashioned tradition nu chuma chuma edhukeduthaalum kora solite irupaanga Periyavangamundai vakara koodathu Elaarum saaptadhukaprom than saapdanum Morning noon night nu thani thaniya samaikanum Aama veetuku poga kudathu Na ena saapten ngratha kuda amma kita sola kudathu saapten nu matum thaan solanumam ena saaptenu sola kudaatham intha maari pala thala vali Mrg ku aprom ipdi thaan irukanum coz ne enga veetuku vaala vantha ponu vaala vantha ponu nu kadupethvaanga Edho nan matum thaan vaal porana ena Then breakup 1yr after irukura periyavanga elaam senthu hus ku advice pani now be happy always
@Bkniwin
Жыл бұрын
Mam neenga correct ah sonninka 💯 True 👍
@dharani8
3 жыл бұрын
Mam absolutely correct mam arrange marriage parvalainu patha Ippo periya problem aa athuthan mam irukku parents namma children oda future epdi irukum nu lam pakarathu illa avan enna solluvan Ivan enna solluvan nu ponnungaloda future aa spoil pandrathe intha parents than 100%
@shanthalakshmi2082
7 ай бұрын
Keertana, I appreciate your thoughts on this subject. I agree parents should come out of the auto pilot mode. Sons/daughter welfare is important than the society view
@regimolsameeer5500
3 жыл бұрын
I am from Kerala residing in Dubai....we face the same issue in Kerala....atleast people like you are trying to bring some change in this society but it will take time....also if you can please provide subtitles for your videos....🤗🤗
@punithadivya5489
3 жыл бұрын
Innaiku neraya ponnunga life ippadi taun mam iruku...unga speech la neraya Kettu irukan .. really superb mam ...luv u mam 😘 seriously Ninga pesuna Ella speechum 💯 unma
@ssbskujnsgvs12
2 жыл бұрын
Ponnunga yokkiyama
@selvarajselladurai4635
5 жыл бұрын
Good thoughts madam. All the arranged marriages in India is not lived happily. What actually is happening in majority of the families is what exactly that husband said. Women just live for societies expectations and go through life and not living a satisfactory self-fulfilled life.
@pavithrachitra3080
6 жыл бұрын
Be brave sis to face any problem at the same time self respect is more important than anything, sis u gave a nice suggestion .
நீங்கள் செல்வது எல்லாம் உண்மை என் வாழ்க்கையில் சந்தோஷம் என்ற ஒரு வரி கூட இல்லை 😥 30 வயசு ஆச்சு
@deepa8964
4 жыл бұрын
Nowadays Marriage is a pure Business,it don't require true love,mutual understanding & respect ,all their needs are only money...Need to change this marriage system ..
@veeramuthudotnetveera
6 жыл бұрын
Compare to men and women,women need to think more about marriage.whether its love marriage or arrange marriage... Thank u mam..
@rolemodel6092
6 жыл бұрын
Nowadays parents support for problems. They don't know to find solution for problems .If some girl or boy didn't like a proposal, parents force them to marry them.Its really wrong.you are killing your daughter/son's life.give them time to take decision.
@unknownfriend4178
6 жыл бұрын
😊your right
@சங்கிமங்கி-வ3த
5 жыл бұрын
@@Hannah-hg7xr how's the situation now? I'm scared because my parents are talking about marriage!
@varunramachandran7879
4 жыл бұрын
So true... Please marry only if you like otherwise don't... Coz you will have to live not your family.
@muthuchelvam6751
4 жыл бұрын
@@varunramachandran7879 absolutely my friend in our society if one doesn't marry they are judging him as a loser which is completely dumb because every body is not suited for spare parents have to understand this
@sureshmusic3813
4 жыл бұрын
செமையான அட்வைஸ் சூப்பரா எடுத்துச் சொல்லி இருக்கீங்க இது நிறைய பேருக்கு புரிஞ்சு திருந்தி வாழனும்
Psychological issues for intimacy, can happen in arranged and love marriage. It looks like in India divorce takes a long time, that has to be addressed. Simple mutual divorce should not take more than 3 months. cannot conceive or cannot penetrate should come under same category for quick divorce.
@santhanalakshmism22
5 жыл бұрын
Excellent ..we girls have to speak out ..kanavane kankanda theivam avanga dream kaga tha na iruka apdi ellam iruka mudiyathu ..should be an independent girl or women ..we also have dreams ..since bcaz we give birth doesn't mean our life gets over there..atleast now women are changing everywhere..Let us be a changer
@brightytamil1426
6 жыл бұрын
mam ur my...inspiration in my life... thank you soo much for every messages...
@sureshthangam1042
6 жыл бұрын
superb mam ... yen life ithu marithaan irukku. ...
@PrabuPrabu-nz5gp
5 жыл бұрын
Love 100% unmaiyaga irukunum purinjnadakanum
@TAMILANGURU
5 жыл бұрын
Vaipilla Raja
@abinayad5822
3 ай бұрын
Currently my situations are very bad mam..enaku marriage veanu sonna..ana avanga force and blockmail panni engagement fix pannaga....namba lofe ulla ella decision-making nambala eduka mudiyathu...ennaku appa kidaiyathu so..yen life ulla ella decision ellam relative tha edupaga..en school,college eduvumay unaku pudichi irukanu keatka kuda mataga..but life partner vishyathal naa tha decide pannanum ninacha..aduvum nadakala...ithu varaikum enlife one day kuda pudicha mathiri valthadhu kuda kidaiyathu..ipa forced panni engaged panni vachitaga..pudikalana vidamal force pannraga...ipa ellarum happy ahh irukaga.. 😢
@sampreetaroshaan9349
6 жыл бұрын
The problem doesn't rely on the type of marriage..either arranged or love .whatever it may be.the partner whom we choose is important.dont live up for the society..live for urself.god has given this beautiful life only for urself.when someone expects you to sacrifice and if they want to live happily by the sacrifices u have made it is an utter selfishness..dont ever fall for that.always be responsible for yourself take a wise decision and be independent.our career and studies are not only for our fame or earnings..it also helps us to be mature..if we fall for the society's selfishness..it is our foolishness..don't moan at the end..
@codelyokofan1092
3 жыл бұрын
Talk about men's issues too, how men are objectified as just money providers, "Man cant be without a job and should earn more", child custody is always given to the women, divorce property split (portion of wealth being given to women is legal but dowry is illegal), etc.
@accdept3095
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god. Exactly my story. I keep quite for 16 years now. Pls girls don't wait anymore...parents are our first enemy.
@subham99vlog
3 жыл бұрын
Now u realised after 16 years ?? I don't know why indians give more over exaggerated respect to their parents even when they r totally wrong!!
@arunachalampappu
2 жыл бұрын
Sex is not the only important thing in marriage. Marriage is not license to have sex.
@awshaswasthik8562
6 жыл бұрын
marriage life is a big problem adhum pudikadha oru marriage life is very very big problem
@admkgokul
4 жыл бұрын
Enku councling Pana mudiuma Mam plz...I'm 18 age old
@kowsalyaashok6249
5 жыл бұрын
it is based on how we understand each other....my lover too say like dis ...dont talk with boys....then he will understand ma situation...bcoz am CA..students
@baskarss6663
2 жыл бұрын
நல்ல காணெளி...இருவர் கருத்தையும் கேட்டு விட்டு உங்கள் முடிவை சொல்லுங்கள்..
@mirrortoworries5423
3 жыл бұрын
Sathiyama sollaren akka.... Before marriage parents are saying as after marriage everything will be okay,, after marriage,,, let's 2 to 3 yr might go , everything will be okay,,, but they will never think about that girls mindset akka..... Ipo yellaram marriage ye force panni dha cheiyaranga... They need to complete their responsibility... After that marriage,, whether the girl is happy or not? It's not important for them,,,, but girls need to be adjust for everything, y they will saying the girls to adjust?Why the parents can't adjust for that girls???
@daamodharjn2836
2 жыл бұрын
Very informative speech.I thank Keerthanya for giving this informative speech.
@sasikalavelusamy
3 жыл бұрын
problem is not about the type of marriage.either it is arranged or loved, prblm is between two peoples.. this type of conflict araise in love mariage couples also
@suryasureshporpatakurichi27
Жыл бұрын
0:10 சூப்பர்
@Jayakrishna.j
6 жыл бұрын
Ethuku marriage......
@doxyshiva
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@siva8155
4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@prachi7365
2 жыл бұрын
Hats off mam. Evlo sonalum parents girls ah dha adjust pana solranga before marriage laye ipdi mudiyadhunu open ah girls aala pesamudiyaradhila andha freedom illaye mam. Yosika matranga parents friends ah irukalam just sec la girls adutha katathuku ponum nu solradhu bull shit
@elascreations8425
3 жыл бұрын
Enakum arrange marriage than.. but en parents lam after engagement kuda engala pesa kudathunu than sonanga... Ithuku ellathukum reason un educated ah iruka Namma parents um than reason ... Avanga society kaga mattum than paarkurangalea thavira Namma situation la irunthu paarka maatranga 🙄
@gerfingr9706
2 жыл бұрын
Nan engagement munnadi pesunom everything is alright...but engagement date ka 5 days munnadi enaku venam nu sollitu ponaga...ethuku nu teriyala....ipo romba deppress a iruku ..parents pesa koodathu nu solrathu ipo kadupa irukum but namma nallathuku tan
@priyankamarimuthu2267
4 жыл бұрын
Andha video va first enoda amma Ku tha kattanum....tq mam😑😳
@megalamani4135
6 жыл бұрын
correctaa solluringaa madam....
@xxxyogic
3 жыл бұрын
I did not understand Tamil language, but I enjoyed watching her. She is very pretty, beautiful, nice figure, single, intelligent, very high values, full of character, etc. She should be cloned, so that India gets a high quality population instead of quantity population.
@kirubhanadhini4445
4 жыл бұрын
உண்மை. பயன்னுள்ள தகவல்
@dazzlingdd3089
5 жыл бұрын
Mam can v go for medical checkup before marriage.......In some cases they may feel bad if v ask lik dat......then wt can b done mam......
@NandhaKumarrocks
6 жыл бұрын
it have lot of dependency issues. not easy to cut off.
We cannot change other's life. Read more philosophical books. One day you too will get realisation. Till Karma works, it is very very difficult to tread the path.
@sairamsathya3563
4 жыл бұрын
@@kssps2009 mmm
@smcreation7762
3 жыл бұрын
பெற்றோர்கள் கடமை முடிஞ்சுருச்சுனு கல்யாணம் பன்ணி வய்க்காம தயவு செஞ்சு அந்த பெண் காலம்முழுக்க அந்த வாழ்கயோட தான் அனுபவிக்கனும் அதுவும் கயில பிள்ளைங்கனு ஆன பின்ன பெண்களே வேர வழியில்லாம அந்த வாழ்க்கை யே கதிணு கடசி வரைக்கும் வாழவேண்டியதா இருக்கு.
@joyanitha1132
6 жыл бұрын
Yes mam I also havng ths same problem.
@youtu547
4 жыл бұрын
Understanding is very important...
@michaelann9024
6 жыл бұрын
not only arrange marriage....love marriage also same...
@starhero7219
4 жыл бұрын
How to contact you personaly ka.. Pls reply
@dubsmashrajatanikattukujja1049
6 жыл бұрын
Keep it up akka ana youngster's middle cls Pasanga face pandra problems ah face pani Happy ah valrathu epadi nu solunga akka bcoz nan romba adi patutan life la konjam solunga akka
@abhiramits8579
3 жыл бұрын
Mam naa oru malayali thaaaa. ungalude speech enakku romba helpfulla erukku. Intha kalathileyum jadhakam paathu marriege panni vekkaruthu romba kashtamthaa...aana intha prachanam athikama face pannaruthu girls thaaa..
@shrivishnuthavaraja7227
5 жыл бұрын
YES...CORRECT...FIRST THEY NEED TO TALK INDIVIDUALLY BEFORE MARRIAGE WITH THEIR FAMILY TOO.......SECRETLY....BUT DONT DISCLOSE ANYTHING TO OTHERS....THEIR PERSONAL THINGS...ONLY WITHIN FAMILY ....IF U DISCLOSE ALL INFORMATION TO ALL PEOPLE...THAT IS NOT LIFE....LIFE IS SOMETHING TO HIDE AND SOMETHING TO DISCLOSE...FINALLY WE CANT JUDGE ANYBODY....
@MrSrimagesh
5 жыл бұрын
Mam ,This is very true....Don't waste time by thinking about others.
@lalithasundhar4952
4 жыл бұрын
Parents ellarum kekura 1st question,"un life ah spoil paniduvoma"nu stupid ah conversation panranga.. Are all selfish bzc they are search bridal groom.. But women are find out life partner..
@SAN-xk8le
4 жыл бұрын
Super thank you so much
@sangeethashalu9902
4 жыл бұрын
The only way happy life is not to get married and earn money own and be independent
@mumbaifoodcourt986
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@shathiyavathisuganthi8913
3 жыл бұрын
Nala paiyan kidaicha love pamdrathala thapu ilala mam?
@rajeshselvam3933
4 жыл бұрын
God's creation, each one have there individual attitude and behaviour.. it's foolish to think arrange marriage or love marriage should live life long with understanding.
@mohamedabrar1790
3 жыл бұрын
Dress example very super mam 👌 Life is not casual...
@balachandranpriya8553
Жыл бұрын
Ennaku22 age aguthu but marriage aagi 5 months tha Ana yen husband inna varaikum oru naal kuda na solluratha kekkala ..And Na avangala nambitha marriage panni vanthen 😭Ana eppo vanthu amma thangachi pudicha nalatha marriage panne eppo pudigala nu solluranga😭yen life eppo ?mark achu ...I Am 3 months pregnant but intha situation la kuda na vena nu sollum pathu na enna panrathu😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@suryaj9474
6 жыл бұрын
5:40 it's true !
@reshmiravichandran9608
2 жыл бұрын
How to find a right life partner mam.
@Davey1022
5 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY the same happened with me . Three months and the marriage ended .
@icethequeen6252
3 жыл бұрын
Y
@mmkmohan5723
Жыл бұрын
அருமை.
@Madhra2k24
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, It took ten years to commit myself 👍...I made all the analysis to choose...I know what works for me 🙏
@karthickg5702
6 жыл бұрын
Good Message, understanding before marriage s must, parents please give independence to ur child to thier partner
@66balajee
6 жыл бұрын
I don't think that she is an effective marriage Councillor. She has not talked to the husband but has talked only to the women. This is not the way to break a marriage if the women is earning well. People can take this as a verdict and then break the marriage giving the women to fend for herself with a child while the husband enjoys another one !
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