The Perks Of Being "The Quiet Kid" Today we talk about The Perks Of Being "The Quiet Kid". This video is inspired by The perks of being black: • The Perks of Being Black Burdie: / @burdieofficial
I was the stereotypical quiet kid in high school and in college, I’m the quietest one in my friend group. There were times where people asked if there was something wrong with me because they’ll be running their mouth and I’ll just be staring at them, and I’ll have to explain that I don’t talk much. Whenever I don’t say anything, that’s because there’s nothing to be said, not because there’s something wrong with me.
@jencIaire
Жыл бұрын
one time in 6th grade a kid asked me if i was depressed just cuz i didn't talk much
@WizardSkull16
Жыл бұрын
i got 2 girls tryna bother me rn because i shut up now this is a lil impressive since i got adhd but one asked if i have "medicine" in my backpack im broke off my ass im not old enough to have a job yet
@spinoah8439
Жыл бұрын
Relatable
@shift_del3te249
Жыл бұрын
"There's nothing to be said" well put.
@That_Russel_Pup
Жыл бұрын
I had to be held with *social workers, SOCIAL WORKERS* bc I don’t talk much. Like bro it’s my freshman year and I just moved here. Wtf am I supposed to do, just walk it off and be “normal”???? 💀
@DeadChan67
Жыл бұрын
As a quite kid, I can confirm that this entire video was extremely relatable.
@Lp-army1
Жыл бұрын
As a quite kid too, I'm quite a kid
@chezabryr
Жыл бұрын
quiet*
@DeadChan67
Жыл бұрын
@@Lp-army1 ah yes, quite the kid
@EthanTheReaper
Жыл бұрын
@@DeadChan67yes, we shall bully the person who corrected you and then lie about it by saying we never bullied him.
@anomalousanimates
Жыл бұрын
as a quite kid, i'm quite a quiet and shy kid
@yellowlad5968
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid, the thing that always bugged me is when people ask "why don't you never talk?" Or "why are you so quiet?" Not only do I have poor social skills but I also just don't like being around people. Another thing that bugged me is when teachers force you to choose a partner for some assignments and this happened offen in my school and i absolutely HATED it. Im usually chill with everyone I meet but damn it's just awkward when it happens. Shucks, there was this one kid in my high school that hated me simply because I was quiet. Like dude i know im not much of a social butterfly, but there's no need to be a dick about it.
@suvuno
Жыл бұрын
couldve js talk with the teachers or counselor and say you rather not be partnered on,
@AlessandroDiGaudio
Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah partner work as a quiet kid sucks
@ElemonAdventures
Жыл бұрын
Those were the worst. I could never talk to people. They usually let me work alone though. I wish it was like that for every school for everyone. And the people who say "why are you so quiet" are the worst. It's like a stab in the confidence.
@hainleysimpson1507
Жыл бұрын
@@suvuno Teacher does not care abd it must be group work.
@suvuno
Жыл бұрын
@@hainleysimpson1507 keyword “or counselor” they cant force a student to do something they’re uncomfortable. if you took your time to speak up with the counselor by yourself or with parents then you can do single work on projects or with people you’re comfortable with.
@_RandomPerson_
Жыл бұрын
I was a quiet kid at high school. I got made fun of quite a bit behind my back by many people, sometimes in earshot. Most of the time it was the "cool kids" and the troublemakers. One time in school when I tried to stand up for myself, the game of telephone began. Starting from "this guy is pissed." to "he has a weapon, he said we were going to pay." I was so chill that the teachers and the COPS were on my side of the argument. One of the kids was later found with drugs after a search. (He was a sophomore, I was a senior.)
@NickyNoob-so9tw
10 ай бұрын
Revenge is bitter sweet
@ltsKenzie
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid, there is another perk that is quite useful. When your classmates talk shit about eachother, they don't really mind you joining in the conversation since they know that you won't tell anyone about all the gossip. With that perk, you can learn literally everything; who likes/hates who, what people think about eachother in reality, and listening to normal conversations with two people that you know they don't like to stay with.
@delzq
Жыл бұрын
you also just hear about almost every, and not even intentionally
@Fiore_The_Demon_Child
Жыл бұрын
YES! I crave knowledge, and I love that I basically know every significant relationship because I just spawn in.
@rizzllerr
9 ай бұрын
Bro I don't give a shit about what Stacey thinks of Jessica, that shits a snooze fest
@ltsKenzie
9 ай бұрын
@@rizzllerr 💀
@massshooters_arepussies
Жыл бұрын
I’m a quiet kid and honestly my biggest fear is dying in a shooting, especially since I go to a public school in a pretty large city. Most of the time, the quiet kids are actually the ones who are the most scared of school shootings. That’s why we stay quiet, so we have no enemies. You can’t hate someone if you don’t know anything about them
@Fartfunnyhaha
Жыл бұрын
Very true
@GabeLuikart
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@oostrich
Жыл бұрын
same man
@docere_xeno
Жыл бұрын
Self preservation
@walterwhiteunofficial
Жыл бұрын
Not me I’m not shy or anything I am just a smart person who uses quiet kid strats and I have common sense so it makes school way less obnoxious also if I was in a school shooting I’m probably going to be dead so I’ll be throwing stuff at the attacker and people would probably start following me and then move the hell outta there
@sarvukruv2137
Жыл бұрын
The one downside to being quiet is that it makes you a target to bullies occasionally, but that’s not even much of a downside if you know how to stand up for yourself. If they get too cocky, you shove em back and they don’t even see it coming.
@Bona-Petite19
Жыл бұрын
or you just don't care either
@filmbricks-stopmotion
Жыл бұрын
I never got bullied as i quiet kid, but people tried to rizz me up alot 💀
@cohengamertv6548
Жыл бұрын
*gun*
@TaygenXD
Жыл бұрын
@@cohengamertv6548*gun?*
@Knosek
Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy i live in a country where teachers actually do something about bullies, not like US
@RaeSoCool
Жыл бұрын
another quiet kid here, and I'm just gonna say that if i get to know someone well enough, i am probably going to talk my ass off about my current obsession. but honestly this video is one of the most relatable i have seen in a while and just made me realize how much i can get away with
@brightsquid1645
Жыл бұрын
Same 😂
@umuaishaahmed1386
Жыл бұрын
Ok
@somedudenameddes0121
Жыл бұрын
Same, mine being cars
@Eliashistory
Жыл бұрын
same here,but i talk about swords and historical stuff.
@provoscarf6466
Жыл бұрын
I didn’t know people do the same thing, mine is large astral bodies. Planets, stars and whatnot
@CrushCade
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid myself, I can promise you that no chicks care if you are "cool and mysterious." That's something chicks are only into in anime and stuff. Even if they are into you, they usually wont say nothing. Have some courage, be respectful, make the first move, there is literally nothing to lose. You got this bro.
@crimsontheworld772
9 ай бұрын
It really depends on the type of girl. But they're pretty rare to encounter.
@EZD6
8 ай бұрын
Bruh I see this all the time where people wanna be quiet because they’re “mysterious”. I’ve been quiet for 3 years and no girl has actually approached me ONCE. I doubt that kind of thing actually even exists lmao, and even if it does, it’s probably not gonna be a good relationship
@crimsontheworld772
7 ай бұрын
@EZD6 It does exist. It definitely does. But it won't be to the degree in anime where the quiet or rude ones are the most liked by girls. If the relationship does happen, either the girl will humble the guy and change his ways, or the guy will stay the same and sadly being quiet is looked down upon since you need some sort of social skills to get a living.
@taykashi
6 ай бұрын
Yeah I was wondering why i was seen as weird for being quiet, what do i do then?
@CrushCade
6 ай бұрын
@@taykashi focus on trying to just talk to girls you like or even ones that you dont like. At the end of the day there are plenty of cool girls who make great friends so if things don't work out you can make a friend out of it. Also girls will obviously have friends too which could get you an "in." But yeah honestly just do your best to talk, even if it's casual.
@eclip32
11 ай бұрын
As a quiet kid, there's one perk you forgot to mention. You are less likely to get called by the teacher for questions cause the teacher knows you are pretty chill and probably listens to the subject (where you probably don't).
@eunjibbxz7908
10 ай бұрын
Yuhh
@OvercookedSP
10 ай бұрын
REALLL
@majorfender6054
10 ай бұрын
am i doing something wrong? I still get called on alot even though I always stay silent cause idk wtf happening why is there alphabet in math
@eclip32
10 ай бұрын
@@majorfender6054 guess I'm the lucky one
@OntrixGR
10 ай бұрын
That never works
@Rashadplayz21
Жыл бұрын
As a kid that was quite shy when he was younger, I can confirm that this is Wurdie is speaking facts 💯💯
@ajilal-jarba3830
Жыл бұрын
True
@user-69420__
Жыл бұрын
@@SpicyInkfyi, that had nothing to do with the comment you replied to.
@Rashadplayz21
Жыл бұрын
@@SpicyInk I’m not fatherless 😡😭
@Чаты
Жыл бұрын
honestly i’m super quiet and lonely person as well even online (no friends online) ;-;
@SpicyInk
Жыл бұрын
@@Rashadplayz21 Average "As a ______ I can confirm that ______ is speaking facts"
@nd7082
Жыл бұрын
Finally, someone who doesn't stereotype the quiet kids.
@PresidentRobotnik
4 ай бұрын
🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫
@Lambdrx
3 ай бұрын
@@PresidentRobotnikAs a quiet kid, i can confirm that I have an entire gun stores worth in my backpack
@Nosmelc
Ай бұрын
@@Lambdrxbro is not a queit kid
@thenightmarefox
Жыл бұрын
Growing up as a kid with autism, I was super obnoxious about what I liked. In like 1st to 6th grade I would constantly not shut up about my favorite things like, Mario, video games, movies I loved, or what not. So it made sense that I had no friends, got bullied constantly, and beat up. But then going through high school I just told myself " You don't need any friends, you don't need to blabber on about everything in your life, just go to school and shut the hell up." And what do ya know high school went pretty well for me. Sure I didn't have friends but at least I ain't start no bullshit drama with anyone. I was just the kid who exists in the background, and no one acknowledges.
@Yoshi14838
Жыл бұрын
That’s literally me except I don’t have autism
@stockimageguy8941
11 ай бұрын
Words words words
@Chrissyboy14
10 ай бұрын
This is me when i was in high school & i only had one friend
@colinbrn
8 ай бұрын
Same but high school sucked
@WarterHat6232
3 ай бұрын
Same but I was relatively liked
@wastedbase6421
Жыл бұрын
as a quiet kid i love being able yo throw a few words into a conversation if i want to, and be able to leave things whenever i want to. the freedom to stay to myself in school is so nice, especially when most of the stuff people talk about is just gossip
@kdd9887
Жыл бұрын
I was a quiet kid in middle school, mainly because I went to a private school and had a low friend selection. And everyone else was either annoying, dumb or were constantly arguing or acting like toddlers.
@Dakonit
Жыл бұрын
Same
@samszczepanski2281
Жыл бұрын
Yep. I was also one of the smartest people in my class so people tended to ignore me... except for projects
@Dakonit
Жыл бұрын
@@samszczepanski2281 yeah I got in the top 10% if the us in reading score
@samszczepanski2281
Жыл бұрын
@@Dakonit wow, nice! I don't know if I'm that smart, though I did get top score on my high school entrance exam
@Dakonit
Жыл бұрын
@@samszczepanski2281 nice job
@TheOscar401
Жыл бұрын
Another perk is that you can eavesdrop a lot easier since people don’t tend to notice you there That and when you actually do have something to say, people will listen
@Quick15
Жыл бұрын
Both very true. Especially the first one. I listen to everything going on around me. I have no idea how some people can tune it out. The lunchroom is especially interesting.
@Yoshi14838
Жыл бұрын
That’s straight fax
@socialistrepublicofvietnam1500
11 ай бұрын
The second one doesn't really apply to me But the first one is straight fax, no machine
@rubymakesmusic
Жыл бұрын
As a certified quiet kid (unless I’m off my meds) I try to be as unknown as possible. Also hiding my face, and as much Info as I can. I agree with everything stated here. Thank you for educating people on what are lives are like.
@dontcallmebones.
Жыл бұрын
pov you forget your vyvanse 😢
@CarloStrecke
22 күн бұрын
Wdym by off your meds?
@butcheredalive
Жыл бұрын
The best combo ever is being hard to read while also being able to read everyone in the room. Very useful skill to have as a quiet kid in case you need to make a silent getaway before some shit goes down
@LiamNewton-sx1nr
Жыл бұрын
My dog just passed away and I was devastated, but when I found your video you have made me a lot happier. Thank you wurdie.
@xxxbenxx1720
Жыл бұрын
My condolences for your loss 😔
@eshk7281
Жыл бұрын
RIP
@insertusernamehere8125
Жыл бұрын
RIP Doggo
@Xakilz
Жыл бұрын
🚬
@f.b.iagent2134
Жыл бұрын
RIP, my doggo also just passed away aswell, she was 17, same age as me. I fell you bro😭
@The_Jayden00
Жыл бұрын
being quiet keeps you out of trouble
@Rashadplayz21
Жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@jencIaire
Жыл бұрын
fr bro. although, doesn't stop gossip and shit-talking from others (in my experience)
@insertusernamehere8125
Жыл бұрын
It doesn't only get you out of trouble, it stops you from getting INTO it in the first place!
@Mejustme101
Жыл бұрын
Because being quiet makes yoy invisible allowing me to Despawn and spawn in whenever I say sometging
@Halloweenhunter
Жыл бұрын
Fr but if u screw with us we snap sometimes
@InfernalManThing
Жыл бұрын
i had just realised these perks, coming into high school. it works really well. relatable asf. i could literally despawn and spawn and no-one would realise. overall, great vid
@Yoshi14838
Жыл бұрын
Same
@definitely.robin08
11 ай бұрын
I am a quiet kid, introvert, loner. I’ve faced those jokes about the “school shootings” and stuff it gets annoying fast. But you’re right I can just chill get good grades go home and do whatever cause I already completed my homework at school 🤷♀️
@Nosmelc
Ай бұрын
Same but not the jokes
@jairgilmore7747
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid, (and still is), I can confirm that all of this is 100 true. We don’t beef with anyone, we don’t even try that hard to rizz, and we don’t talk a lot.
@Yoshi14838
Жыл бұрын
Fax
@mushroomish_handle
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid with some of these quirks, I see this as a absolute win.
@iamconfusion1791
Жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna' lie, I came into this video like "We have perks? Why wasn't I told of this sooner!" But, yeah, there are some pretty great points. I did get bullied in school, but come to think of it, it was rarely because I was quiet. A lot of people just kind of left me alone, or knew I wasn't up to any shenanigans because of my demeanor. I'd probably be a pretty good spy or secret agent because literally no one knows I'm there. I could be somewhere and be asked when I arrived because no one saw me come in, and I'm just like "I've been here for the past 4 hours".
@Quick15
Жыл бұрын
It helps if you dont stomp around as well. I've overheard many conversations by just walking up and leaving. Although one time two kids were talking behind me and I was half paying attention when one of them said "Remember that time when you peed on my floor?" And I straight turned around and stared at them. Awkward moment, achieved.
@Notchjrgaming1269
Жыл бұрын
I agree many talk without even knowing I am there I have had classmates that when they got up literally freaking out I sat behind them in class because I didn't talk
@summitshortss
Жыл бұрын
being the quiet kid is underrated fr
@D3X101
Жыл бұрын
Fr
@Yoshi14838
Жыл бұрын
Fr its underrated asf
@OvercookedSP
10 ай бұрын
Fr
@Itsjms2006
10 ай бұрын
Fr
@HelloThere553-
10 ай бұрын
Fr
@veneno_224
Жыл бұрын
I am glad that I ain't the only quiet kid in this world. Love and respect to all of you out there🙂
@andy_bg234
Жыл бұрын
Well, honestly I can name myself a quiet kid. I found this video as a HUGE motivation to not give up. Thanks for the good vid! ❤
@tabu0386
Жыл бұрын
As a girl, I can confirm that a lot of girls prefer guys who are quiet guys. There is a lot less drama with quiet guys as opposed to the loud ones!
@RANDOM-BEYS.
Жыл бұрын
Bet
@Mejustme101
Жыл бұрын
damn really
@ad1kher0gaming71
Жыл бұрын
Yeah of course cuz they're easier to manipulate by women. Of course youd prefer a quiet guy
@thaicat8181
Жыл бұрын
As a guy who's been quiet since middle school, this probably only applies if you are attractive. Most of the time people just ignore me, occasionally laughing when they walk past me
@changedmynamee
Жыл бұрын
@@ad1kher0gaming71okay incel lmfao
@landonlawson2676
Жыл бұрын
I'm an extrovert. One drawback to that is that when I feel like being quiet on occasion, people always assume something is up. Apparently, I'm not allowed to keep to myself unless something is wrong or I'm plotting something.
@cewla3348
11 ай бұрын
@@saldro i mean, i'm ISTP-T, but also act extroverted - but the test probably based it off 'after a long and stressful week, a party is what you need' and i was like 'bitch i need food'
@Drain.X
Жыл бұрын
i was the quiet kid but not really by choice i developed a social anxiety-based communication disorder when i was really young because people kinda hated me and whenever i talked i'd repeatedly be shut down or bullied, and i'd get accused of doing things wrong by teachers who were really stupid (still had some great teachers tho!) Example: in kindergarten it was clean up time and i told one of the new kids that we had to clean up since we were gonna have snacks or a lesson or smth and when he didn't listen I started putting away the toys he wasn't touching (to his side and behind him) pretty exaggeratedly thinking he didn't understand me or smth so i'd show him what i was talking about. He ended up grabbing the toys from me and muttered something about 'revenge', and at that point i decided i was gonna dip out, like okay if u wanna get in trouble then fine by me (i obviously didn't say that out loud), during the next playtime the next day, i was keeping my head to the ground, playing with some of the hot wheels and keeping the side of my head to the ground as i rolled it back an forth as a kid does. The kid who got mad at me brought a large toy car (like maybe the size of 3 oreo family packs stacked on top of each other) from home that day and i kid you not he full-on chucked-rolled it at my face and gave me a bloody nose. After, i went and made a pillow fort with couch cushions (idk why we had them, but they were just kinda there in the play area) and cried to myself as i covered my nose in pain, trying not to let it drip all over the place. That wasn't the part that got me, because that kind of stuff happened even more than the kind i'm about to tell you. After a bit, the teacher removes the ceiling to my fort and she looks really mad, then kinda brings me over to the place where the teachers usually stay as they watch the kids (obviously not well if they missed him assaulting me with a toy jeep) and the other teacher is just standing there with his arms crossed, watching me approach. Then for the next couple of minutes, i stood there crying as they yelled at me about how wrong it was for me to take the toys the boy was playing with and that I should be 'using my words', and only after the scolding did they give me a napkin to clean up my nose. While they were yelling i tried explaining what actually happened but they kept invalidating me, probably having heard the boy's story first and believing him for no reason i can think of other than the slum-ish suburb i lived in up until the 4th grade hated indians for some reason, but i'm not gonna get into why they did because it's kinda political and it seems like that area's a lot better now, but basically we were viewed as bottom feeders (even though my family lived in the nice duplex side of town instead of the apartment side). But yeah when i explained the situation to my mom when she picked me up she was livid. but anyway i even though it's not really easy for me to talk with others and attend social events, i love being able to connect with others! though i will agree these advantages to being silent are very nice/useful lol whoever reads this, thanks a lot! This felt really nice to write
@Drain.X
Жыл бұрын
@@budget2447 that's okay lol mostly felt like writing it down for fun
@modder853
Жыл бұрын
@@budget2447i bet someone did
@siladex-gaming
Жыл бұрын
@@budget2447i did
@Littlekidzinmybasement
Жыл бұрын
Interesting story dude! I can kinda relate with how negative childhood events shaped my social behavior as well. I’m glad your handling your life socially a little better.👍
@FreddyFen
Жыл бұрын
i did@@budget2447
@Mejustme101
Жыл бұрын
As a kind, humble quiet kid, I can confirm that I can relate
@isaiahbrathwaite521
9 ай бұрын
It definitely helps you reflect your actions.
@everyonelovesbabanushki
11 ай бұрын
This video is for the mid-level quiet kids. If you are a real quiet kid, never talking to anybody then it's a whole different story. It's good to go out and explore, and there is a lot to learn from awkwardness and embarrassment
@TotPocket
Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, the despawning thing is hilarious 😂 If i dont say anything to my co-workers as i leave for the day, then they wouldn't even notice that I'm gone. Its a blessing and a curse imo
@GiggyWiggy2086
Жыл бұрын
My family cares about me; thats all I need
@Y_u_dum
Жыл бұрын
I always hated when people always tried to force me into drama when I literally never spoke a single word to people. People were always so scared when I grabbed my backpack fast, must've been the constant mocking from them 😂.
@vwoomy
Жыл бұрын
omg facts. after covid, i stopped talking to all my friends. one year later, i got put into a class with someone i hadn't talked to since pre-covid. one day she randomly decided to spill the tea to ME about all the drama going on in her French class. i just sat and stared and awkwardly laughed (at the worst times possible). idk why she expected me to care when we hadn't talked in almost 2 years and she's talking about people i don't know lmao
@Toad1488
Жыл бұрын
Lol
@ignoreme4627
Жыл бұрын
“Holy shit he has a gun!”
@Rando1481
Жыл бұрын
@@vwoomyyour probably somone who doesn’t care about anyone
@thegoodboy4699
11 ай бұрын
quiet kid more like quite the shit (you have in youre backpack)
@AzariahRyan789
Жыл бұрын
Ive been known as the quiet kid throughout my life. It has its perks. I didnt really get into too much beef after middle school and there are some people I can vibe with without too many hefty arguements geared towards me.
@SpiralDirt
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid, what i like to do to my teachers is, i make them respect me to the point where they say on the report card "he is so awesome to have in class" after that, i know i can get away with ANYTHING with that teacher because they trust me, and also when people talk shit about me, for some reason they think im deaf or something and i just chime in like "bro i can hear you"
@Rando1481
Жыл бұрын
Nah they just happy your not talking
@kevincoley7886
11 ай бұрын
I'll admit I have tried coming out of my comfort zone a little but sometimes I wish I never got out of my comfort zone sometimes
@mental-pineapple4283
Жыл бұрын
I'm not the quiet kid by choice, i'm incredibly socially awkward and always on the verge of a panic attack at school but what i do love about it is that everyone talks and gossips around you, like i've heard the craziest shit that out there
@Shimase24
Жыл бұрын
I've been the quiet kid for pretty much my entire school life. (There where days last year where i would not say a single word at all) and this video was the perfect description of myself as the quiet kid. Now i feel a little more confident for rhis year. Thx
@Nataliatg89PW
Жыл бұрын
I'm a quiet person, and teachers see me as a good student just because of that, so, i can get away with stuff💀
@lop90ful1
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet Kid i can confirm that you WILL have beef with multiple people because they will hate you for staying quiet and will want you to slip up
@Spiderboy-de1pg
2 ай бұрын
I don't about that never happened to me and i'm quiet maybe you just encountered some easily mad students tbh
@lorietherizzler
9 ай бұрын
my perks of being the quiet kid: people will have no shame talking about whatever infront of you,they could shit talk somebody infront to you without a care and think you won't tell anyone
@edex59
Жыл бұрын
Because this video is listing the pros, I’m gonna come in and list some cons just to balance it out. -people will either, A: try to make you loud, or B: try to embarrass you. I kid you not there is a group of those “popular boba girl” stereotypes in my class that pretend that I’m in a relationship with one of them. Not in a million years. I guess the looks could be a B, but that doesn’t make up for the lack of being a good person. I literally said “No” and they didn’t give a cent and a half about my opinion they just ignored that and suddenly I’m engaged??? Anyways, being quiet is just a small indication that you wanna be left alone, and because the *ssholes of this world know this, they will try and do the exact opposite. One way to counter most scenarios is to act as civil as possible. They’ll understand that you aren’t worth their time and leave. What they want is your rage, so don’t give them that. -it’s really hard to make friends and keep them. To be a good friend, you gotta contribute to the connection. Play with them, hangout with them, stuff like that. But doing so is really hard while trying to keep a low profile. In order to get your friend’s attention (so you can play with them), you gotta speak. But people can and will notice that you can speak, which is not what you want to happen as a quiet kid because of the whole “low profile” thing. I can be pulled off, it just requires some hard effort. -ok this one isn’t really a con, but I’m gonna list it here anyways. Sub category-ing yourself. Are you the quiet gamer who only ever talks about their favourite game(s)? Or are you more into drawing and somehow have the talent to win on America’s got talent without even needing a sad backstory? There are many different sub categories to pick from as a quiet kid, as many activities can be done alone without much talking required. Personally, I’m either the “quiet nerd gamer trio” or just the nerdy gamer, but you can be who you want to. Well, that wraps it up!
@average-pizza
Жыл бұрын
for the “popular boba girl” just be the stereotypical quiet kid instead of the usual one y'know sometimes you have to be heavy weapons guy
@edex59
Жыл бұрын
@@average-pizza y’know I *have* thought about it before… you might be on to something.
@Spectrolm60
Жыл бұрын
Why do they do this?? A girl in my class acted like she was in a relationship with me last year???
@dave2051
Жыл бұрын
A con of being a quiet kid in gen z is being called an NPC
@andrewlee9839
Жыл бұрын
@@dave2051I was about to make a comment about this. During my Freshman year, even though I tried to avoid drama, I either accidentally just piss the fuck off out of the older kids or the older kids try to make me say something like verbally talking shit about me, putting themselves shoulder to shoulder with me, and I do try to ignore them, but at this point they probably think I’m an NPC that’s just there to make fun of.
@KoryuSchrade
Жыл бұрын
Pro Tip: Tell the truth up until one point where its absolutely needed to lie. I did this once before, i told the truth about a bunch of shit and took the punishment.. Then when it was severe i lied, and he believed me because i have a history of telling the truth
@Acnaibkc0913
7 ай бұрын
Smart 🤓 very smart 😎
@mememan3918
Жыл бұрын
I am a quiet kid, and Wurdie/Burdie is speaking facts, and I don’t get how it can be difficult to be quiet, I speak when I have to.
@OctopusOnionOars
Жыл бұрын
Well I am too and I'm also an introvert. I just embrace and love solitude cuz it relaxes me and being encouraged to focus on my personal things and activities and I just hate the trait of a person where they become so annoying or trying to humiliate or disturb me
@knowname_ly
10 ай бұрын
My best perk is I get to listen to every single conversation in the class
@isaiahbrathwaite521
18 күн бұрын
Lucky dude, Lucky.
@blackworld0462
11 ай бұрын
As a former quiet kid , now that i achieved confidence im choosing to go back to being quiet cause it got many advantages , im going to be quiet on purpose , it takes confidence to be silent , its kinda complex then it sound but heres the thing : ppl who often talk too much will feel awkward and insecure if they dont talk , and it will take them confidence and courage to actually shut up , while theres two types of quite kids 1. Shy quite kid 2. Confident Quite kid , unfortinatly i was 1 and then it took alot until i turned it into a confident person who just extroverted , now that i achieved confidence i want to turn into number 2 (Confident Quite kid) it takes confidence but once u achieve it , its rlly cool
@worldtravels7187
10 ай бұрын
ahh im an extrovert and frr its genuinely so dull when i just don't talk. Though when i don't really need to say anything in a conversation i can just despawn. like im probably 30% introvert
@iamthatcool
Жыл бұрын
For the mysterious perk, you gotta be careful. Some people can get a little too curious and will do anything to get someting out of you, even if it means becoming a menace. And if you're really unlucky, they can use it against you and expect some sort of rivalry. Happened to me once, and yes, it was political.
@LeaveMeAlone3omgIgotloggedouta
Жыл бұрын
NOT POLITICAL BEEF! Like them finding out something they don’t like about you is already bad enough. But to have it be POLITIC related is just a whole new level of awfulness!😭✋
@xyphyrlmontederamos7358
11 ай бұрын
Its only for the attractive ones tho
@thedraftingax5963
Жыл бұрын
I was a quiet kid ever since I was born, especially as a baby. Now as an adult, I’m still quiet and I still am, and I always will.
@felixcatux
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid Id love to say that ive stayed out of beef but some assholes at school genuinely go out of their way to spread rumors about me and make my life as miserable as possible, so ion even got that advantage
@aurisfpv3201
Жыл бұрын
as a quiet kid myself, i can relate and confirm that wurdie is speaking straight facts
@gabriellaAW
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid, I confirm And something I learnt 3rd day back to school when teachers were doing social contracts I learnt that I handle conflict a lot better than the rest of my classmates and that they think that I should replace the principal… And I mean started a student council…. Well I hate after school activities cause they after school but I can work with it, I’d at least consider it… it would be a lot much easier though if it were just assigned based on staff’s popular vote As for rizz… I got game, i flip my personality like a switch, quiet one moment and talking my friend’s ear off the next
@cewla3348
11 ай бұрын
as a loud 'kid', i handle conflict better (but that's just the overly logical thinking) than most and i ACTIVELY AVOID HAVING RIZZ. why would i want a relationship when i'm aromantic and asexual?
@ibrahimkayode8624
Жыл бұрын
If u ever change schools, the quiet kid phase is straight up inevitable and I'm speaking from experience
@ZYXVQK0
Жыл бұрын
Quiet kids don't deserve the reputation they get chain
@realmiti6950
Жыл бұрын
Quiet kids don't deserve the reputation they get
@O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O_O
Жыл бұрын
Quiet kids don’t deserve the reputation they get chain
@amyosborne1329
Жыл бұрын
Dude you can't be sayin that when your profile is a gorrila tag character with a gun
@cha0ticClipzz
Жыл бұрын
shut up with the chains omfg
@EyeBall-ux6qm
Жыл бұрын
@amyosborne1329 facts
@gifigi600
Жыл бұрын
I gotta be honest sometimes you don't become the quiet kid on purpose, like you got bullied at school (let's take my example of just being frail and sensitive), so you naturally develop a mechanism to, you know, be quiet, so every stays away from you, because there's nothing to gain from you because you don't really talk, but when you do talk, it's the most interesting tea or solution EVER, because when you don't talk, you THINK, and THINK is very important in school. It gives you clout in school with the teachers, they say you are smart, nice, gentle etc etc and tbh I was friends with the teachers not with classmates, because my classmates were incredibly annoying >.> And you know what? That's fine! Not everyone gets to be lucky with their classmates. And you know, if you are friends with the teachers, they can protect you from bullies or give you a chance to better your grade, because you had that "good boy" badge. This may be a bit more of a "teacher's pet" example, but I was still considered a quiet kid
@socialistrepublicofvietnam1500
11 ай бұрын
Can confirm, you just get quieter when you are bullied a lot Also, THE TEACHERS ACTUALLY LIKED YOU AND DIDN'T BULLY YOU TOO?????
@SnakeEyesdiceroll
Жыл бұрын
During the time in 6th Grade in my lifetime, I was an extremely quiet person & I had no idea why I was. I just felt as if socialising was just too much work to do since I had really poor social skills. I would very often lay think people easily knew my motives so I thought people were trying to be nice to me but they pretended that they even cared. I took a diagnosis with my mom who is a psychiatrist & she ran a diagnosis on me & said the reason why I have these social problems is because I have Asperger’s Syndrome which I was diagnosed with at the age of 12. Believing that people know your motives is a MASSIVE autistic trait & I now know why I never socialise I am only good at socialising online somehow through typing.
@henryporter6285
11 ай бұрын
Disadvantages of being the quiet kid, People take advantage of you. If people dont see you have beef or fight anyone else, they would generally assume you to be calm and they could tease you. They also always ask for things because they dont think you will say no. At least according to my experiences.
@Apple46849
7 ай бұрын
The second thing you said is true, people always ask me things
@OtzuZarkie
6 ай бұрын
Being quiet doesn't mean being submissive. Had people ask me for things i didn't agree for, gave them a solid ''no''. Gotta stand your needs, it's your life after all. But it's understandable why they'd think the opposite, we chill af.
@OctoLink1266
Жыл бұрын
I'm a quiet kid, especially now since i'm in a brand new school for my senior year. I have friends from sophomore and still talk to them, but i moved away from where those friends live and went to home-school for junior year, which I believe further hampered my social abilities. I hope that MAYBE I can make one friend, but it's gonna be an uphill battle for sure.
@Future_FriendRBLX
Жыл бұрын
You don’t have any idea how much you have revealed to me that I haven’t known yet. Being a quiet kid REALLY is a good thing, and I’m glad to be the quiet person.
@vividwizard6166
Жыл бұрын
I was once doing a group activity and no one would listen to my input so I literally just left and no one noticed. I was quiet, which is why no one took me seriously. I watched them take like 15 minutes to figure out what I figured out immediately, and it worked. Congratulations dumbasses!
@evsstuff
Жыл бұрын
YOU ARE AMAZING FOR PUTTING THE ETERNA FOREST THEME IN THE VIDEO
@purplecouch4767
Жыл бұрын
Someone once called me a serial killer. I don’t think they were trying to be mean but it was annoying. Like no dude I just have social anxiety and depression. I’m more likely to kill myself than anyone else. Also I’ve always been quiet but my big problems didn’t start until homeschool at age 11 with Lyme disease, asthma, allergies, isolation, no friends, questioning everything about myself, wishing I was “normal”, wondering if I’ll ever find love, divorced parents, dying grandparents, Ect. That’s just the summarized version. Oh this isn’t a fun comment lol. I guess I was venting a little.
@dianaxrose9
Жыл бұрын
*virtual hug*
@Yoshi14838
Жыл бұрын
I got called that as well cuz in grade 5 and 6 I was always talking about violence and death and stuff like that
@infinitedeath1384
10 ай бұрын
Hey man, live your life to the fullest, you deserve it. Please don't ever hurt yourself, even if life sucks right now, it can get better later. If you're not here, you won't meet new people who you will mean something to, or be able to experience the joy life has to offer. Don't give up man.
@yoshiethan2000
5 ай бұрын
I get called a serial killer a lot because I'm quiet and my eye contact (even if I'm not giving eye contact) is sharp Play along with it as a joke and it goes away somehow
@User-xh5zu
Жыл бұрын
Im a quite kid as well Honestly it's a W life and everybody has some level of respect for me just because of how quite i am
@gaelsanma9105
Жыл бұрын
IM ON THAT EXTREME LONELINESS AND DEPRESSION GRINDSET💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥
@NicholasWilson-b2b
10 ай бұрын
Im a quiet kid, i mostly talk to Jesus🥰😇😊
@Thatone_fan905
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid I can say I used to have no beef with people but when I started to be less of a quiet kid and talk more I ended up having beef with teobpeople so I became quiet again and was on good terms with everyone again
@danieljones4918
11 ай бұрын
I'm a quiet person and I can say it's a great feeling when everything goes down hill and everyone blaming each other for it but you. The crimes I committed the genocide, the inhuman things, and no one suspected a thing of me. ( didn't actually committed crimes)
@Nahnbie2223
Жыл бұрын
You can get away with a lot of things when you're the quiet kid, like one time I got away with showing my middle finger to a guy who was annoying me in class and the teacher didn't believe him he told her
@RedHeatEnt.
Жыл бұрын
Same, i was a quiet kid too. And yes, I also wasn't THAT kind of quiet kid.
@philosopherkingzant2037
Жыл бұрын
"Avoiding the political debator" World peace achieved, even if it's only for 1 [quiet] person
@lbrett7054
9 ай бұрын
I was an extremely quiet kid. I'm fairly autistic and when I was in primary school I just behaved how my brain worked and everyone just accepted me for who I am, but when high school rolled around everything changed; I was bullied for not acting like someone that age should; because I didn't know how, they overwhelmed me for kicks, made fun of my autism and took advantage of it. I eventually got the hang of being "normal" and it blew over but it really broke me, it shattered my social confidence (not just in school but everywhere) and I became petrified of the idea of people thinking negatively of me and making fun of me. I became a extremely quiet and reserved person who always flew below the radar and honestly just made an effort to not exist. Even to this day my voice is extremely croaky due to how little I've used it in the last few years. I've gotten better with social skills since then but I'm just naturally a quiet kid now.
@killz.-
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet girl, I have had around 5 people who've had crushes on me in highschool and I was COMPLETELY socially isolated for two years (like fr- was online school, barricading my door, u get it) and, for the weenie wielders out there, 3 of those people were bi girls Ya'll got this (helps when you get excited about topics you rlly like apparently??? according to my ex gf anyway-)
@cewla3348
11 ай бұрын
as an aro/ace person trying to avoid shipping, thanks for the tips on avoiding it!
@killz.-
11 ай бұрын
@@cewla3348 LMAO YW
@majorfender6054
10 ай бұрын
🤤
@LooneyChannel
Жыл бұрын
0:12 BLUE BIRD IN DA WURDIE CHANNEL‼️‼️
@RobloxBigFan710
Жыл бұрын
Your right xD
@LukazMartinez
18 күн бұрын
YOOOOOOOOOO
@gabrielchahan7046
Жыл бұрын
as a quiet kid,I can confirm that some quiet kids are just opps,and some are very chill.
@iceandalmondhasfun
Жыл бұрын
Growing up i wasnt a quiet kid But now i am a quiet kid and its honestly great
@jamesonshekmeister
3 ай бұрын
Having these perks is always appreciated. Few words are needed to stay awesome.
@Ye3qForYe3q
Жыл бұрын
I can confirm this bc it’s so relatable, as a quiet kid I wonder what it whould be like not being the quiet kid
@EperkeDashh
Жыл бұрын
Honestly as a quiet person, i just love that i dont keep up with all the shit that happens. I can actually focus on things that matter to me, rather than thinking about why some random dude ive never talked to broke up with their girlfriend
@yugoslavball1945
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid myself, I find this video relatable
@owlox278
Жыл бұрын
As a quiet kid in class, i have this weird charisma that make people respect me for doing absolutely nothing and just being myself, and i also gain the title "lord" both middle and high school lmaoo
@steamu680
Жыл бұрын
Same
@ViaEia678_
5 ай бұрын
Gawd damn- I felt this SO MUCH-
@Siooc
Жыл бұрын
Dude being “known” as the quiet kid comes with so many benefits that it’s actually like a superpower. Like I don’t have to put in much effort in convos, when I say something people listen more, and avoid conflicts and drama it’s like having ghost in cod
@Totally_Not_Dan
Жыл бұрын
There are two types of quiet kids: Shy quiet kid: *People think they're weird *No confidence *Pulls 0 bitches Confident quiet kid: *He chill with everybody *Respected by everyone *Pulls bitches (W rizz)
@InfernalManThing
Жыл бұрын
im literally both
@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986
Жыл бұрын
And what exactly is the difference how does someone display confidence without saying much
@InfernalManThing
Жыл бұрын
im not bothered to pull girls.
@Quick15
Жыл бұрын
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 Just posture and such can really change how people think of you. Even if they dont notice it it still plays a part in their subconscience.
@randominternetuser1966
Жыл бұрын
I'm the shy quiet kid
@ordinaryguy696
Жыл бұрын
As a kid who is introverted and shy, I see this as a win
@cheekibreekigopnik5898
Жыл бұрын
Same lol
@yharon_spade
Жыл бұрын
@@cheekibreekigopnik5898 like 80 percent of people are introverted.
@TitanBolt99
Ай бұрын
@@yharon_spade That's not true at all. Most people are Extroverted.
@magm4a
Жыл бұрын
i was a quiet kid, then i became a bit less introverted which is good but im definitely going to go for being a quiet kid next year, i guess i'll just stick to my friends, since they're all i need
@ragerjnbthe8thsaiyan
Жыл бұрын
It’s not just a turn on switch whenever you want to be quiet or not you got to actually have it in you..
@magm4a
Жыл бұрын
@@ragerjnbthe8thsaiyan as i said i was a quiet kid, which is why i have alot of typical quiet kid traits, i dont talk alot and stuff, but i get what you're saying
@Chris_NotfaOf1983
4 ай бұрын
4:42 so true, me chilling in class saying stuff about "classmates' directly to them and them saying it to the teacher who doesn't believe them, such a good feeling, so smug
@BlackHoleQueen
Жыл бұрын
I tried to be the quiet kid and still got into beer and people still hated me :( oh yeah, I was called a teachers pet for LISTENING AND BEHAVING!
@KevoIogy
Жыл бұрын
Disadvantages of being the quiet kid: - Teacher calls on you even when you're not raising your hand since you never answer any questions
@insertusernamehere8125
Жыл бұрын
That used to happen to me a couple of years ago ALOT
@KevoIogy
Жыл бұрын
@@insertusernamehere8125 Same lol
@Halloweenhunter
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for clarifying that not every quiet kid has a strap in their backpack. The only reason that I am quite kid is because I’m trying to get the hell to school and back as quick as possible School.
@KidnamedArlo
5 ай бұрын
5:01 nahh I’m still the quiet kids in 7th grade 😂
@isaiahbrathwaite521
18 күн бұрын
Same man, It’s never been easy in my case and I graduated 2 years ago, but if you play your cards just (somethings) may go your way. Eventually 😊✅
@FarmerTrio725
17 күн бұрын
I’m in 11th and still the quiet kid
@HelloIAmNextToYou
Жыл бұрын
Being the quiet kid is awesome because most of the time your alone from people. And I love that
@andreaslindgren6865
3 ай бұрын
As a quiet kid myself, most of these I can agree with. I haven't spoken to a girl in a while and somehow people think I got game, apperenlt I do...
@101kickart
Жыл бұрын
5:11 BLUD REALLY WATCHED THE HAMZA VIDEOS LMFAO
@hoods-s
Жыл бұрын
I was the quiet kid in freshman year but not like the weird ones
@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T
Жыл бұрын
I always used that awkward conversation dip. I call it getting ghost. I use to do this tactic whenever my mom got drunk and annoying going through redundant cycles of some of wall argument that pissed me off so when ever my cousin was around or her boyfriend we where all living together at the time I would wave em over to get in the conversation as soon as my mom was locked on either of them I would be ghost. They would start getting mad cause my drunk mom they would look back like where did John go. A good key phrase to get out of any conversation is I gotta go take a ish or a piss. Just walk away but you could say I'll be right back but you don't have to most of the time just dip get ghost.
@Quick15
Жыл бұрын
I've overheard many conversations by just walking up and leaving. Although one time two kids were talking behind me and I was half paying attention when one of them said "Remember that time when you peed on my floor?" And I straight turned around and stared at them. Awkward moment, achieved. I could have decided to leave. But I decided to have some funsies instead.
@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T
Жыл бұрын
@@Quick15 what kind of stare did you give them for it to be awkward? and awkward to them i pressume cause you said you had fun with it. any time any people would joke about something i did i would always say something funny about it to justify my action for doing it to avoid any awkwardness or embarrassment. like if he said that to me if i remember peeing on his floor i would say obviously dont remember i was drunk as hell that night. so that would turn around the joke on me and put me in a good light cause for some reason people getting hammered is a cool thing. but if you didnt drink though...i would say yeah i had to go bad that day couldnt make it in time that sucked cause your mom walked in watched me clean it up embarrassed as hell in front of your mom and how akward that was. and say yeah my bad for that making it sound like it happens to the best of us an unfortunate accident and making any embarrassment or awkwardness about it focused on someone else that would make that situation funny for all who was involved including yourself and everybody laughing. best advice. i have. you know what im talking about right?
@Quick15
Жыл бұрын
@@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T I have no idea what was going on honestly. They were freshmen so I'd hope theyre not getting hammered.
@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T
Жыл бұрын
@@Quick15 oh so you didn't piss on his floor he was just making it up? Yeah I didn't start drinking till I was 15 in 10 th grade. 9th grade was just purely grass.. and occasional cigarettes unfortunately
@Quick15
Жыл бұрын
@@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T No it was two other people talking loudly in the lunch line. I was the person in front who heard this very random conversation. Based on the people I have no doubt it actually happened. Whether substances were involved i have no idea. I'd say about equal chances yes and no.
@Lars_Cobbaut
Жыл бұрын
People in school always say i am the nerd because i am quiet and pay attention in class
@TB_Corey
9 ай бұрын
Being quiet has its own benefit, and i’m that quiet in the class where i’m considered “invisible”
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