Sounds like there will be leins against the property for the medical care. You should have a title company do a search and see whos owed and how much. Chances are the state medicare will be owed more than its worth.Good luck 🤞
@jannwebb
Жыл бұрын
Oh my, the plot does thicken! Dang it! Getting him to sign off just might be insurmountable. You just can’t convince some old people that their invest his now nil. Good luck. I will never forget how you helped me at a Van Build and wish I had some dough to share. My advice is to visit the old guy daily and just kill him with kindness. You might win him over. But, if he has any heirs you need to deal with them, too…
@nancyraeevans3764
Жыл бұрын
Hey Jamie, as a former mortgage originator who also dabbled in creative real estate, make sure the real estate taxes are up to date before paying the mortgage company. In many states, a tax lien can take first position on front of the mortgage company/ bank.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Good stuff, Nancy.🙏
@deeterry580
Жыл бұрын
Good luck Jamie. I hope everything works out good for you. Your a good man and have helped many people, now its your turn to have something done for you.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Dee!
@Captain-Max
Жыл бұрын
Jamie, my friend. I really hate to say this, but you're putting yourself in a position that any. Financial expert would likely say, RUN, and don't stop. Why not let it go back to the bank? It serves no purpose in high dollar Maryland. You are definitely on a slippery slope. Rest assured any money you put into it is likely gone. I just don't see the logic. Good luck.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Oh, captain Max, lol. And I’ll have a nightmare driving East, right? Look at the bright side, baby! I’ll share how it all shakes out!
@Captain-Max
Жыл бұрын
Granted you came out OK going east... but the bus didn't make the trip. Now if you give the place a quick and not to particular clean up and immediately put it on the market you might do OK. But the family entanglement is something I wouldn't touch with a 10' pole. Speaking from experience, it never goes right. I've flipped 2 houses and doubled my money but 2 car sales involving family went sour in a hurry.
@passin.timeintx8571
Жыл бұрын
Checking in. 👍
@MacBravo
Жыл бұрын
Jamie, Jamie, he's our man. If he can't do it, no one can. 😂
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Good Lord..😄
@Tatiacha
Жыл бұрын
If he is actually on hospice now they won't even let him come home without family to care for him because the hospice group only comes in 2-3 days a week to help with bathing and check his condition and such, the family does all the care and medications and all that. It is common though for those in hospice in a care center to not be told that they can't go home because they get so upset and since they know they don't have a lot of time left they will let them think things are getting set up for that to happen. With you mom in assisted living you may want to check if he a living will situation with her making decisions. Complicated situations for sure and more so if he has kids that will inherit his half of the house.
@Chrispbacon99
Жыл бұрын
And remember, if the state or any financial institution thinks you are taking advantage of a senior citizen, you can get in big trouble. He has to be of sound mind to sign off.
@Chrispbacon99
Жыл бұрын
I know you know this. Just wanted to put it out there
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Great tip!
@timhardman4764
Жыл бұрын
True and this might make it an easy case for his relatives/heirs to go after you after his death and after you have fixed the place up. Lot's of risks in this situation.
@leann4925
Жыл бұрын
Jamie you have done some remarkable things in the past so I know you will handle this. I have faith in you to do so.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Leann!
@AlejoHausner
Жыл бұрын
If your mother or stepfather are currently receiving services from medicaid, at the time of either of their deaths, their heirs could receive a bill from medicaid. Here’s a video from someone this happened to. He was expecting to inherit his mother’s house but his mother was receiving in-home care from medicaid and they wanted a piece of her house after her death: kzitem.info/news/bejne/t26m0JtjhIyoeYY
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks and keep the tips coming!
@mikolj6649
Жыл бұрын
Jaime your doing fine. A day at a time. I've been watching you for years. Suggestion: clear all the bushes touching the home away from the stucco. I wish you great luck and pray for you. Michael from Ft. Worth, Texas Howdy!
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Michael. I feel that everything will be fine as well. I appreciate the support. I just got used tools for that today. Lol
@Badgeweefixstuff
Жыл бұрын
Jamie buddy get in that pro master and run. Even go fund me can’t get you out of this. No no no RUN
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Great hearing from you Badge!
@tomrut3653
Жыл бұрын
Some states will register a car in both names but only one has to sign the title, can be listed an John AND Marry (both have to sign) of John OR Marry (only one has to sign) or something like that.
@kele1264
Жыл бұрын
Jamie, you need to find out more about the title of the house. Namely: are your mom and her husband joint tenants, or joint tenants with right of survivorship. This is an extremely important distinction. Don't assume you know how it works. Get the facts straight from the deed. You need to know now, before you do any more major work on the place. When you know the exact wording, please say so, or email me. I'm not an attorney. But I can alert you as to the wording of the degree of ownership, which will shine some light on your options, give you some important things to discuss with your mom and an attorney.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Ke Le. That is advice I will take.
@richardstoc
Жыл бұрын
Just tell old Dave to keep the Govment from getting the house he needs to put you on the deed just a little convincing but it may come to seeking power of attorney. a paralegal could help advise , they do have ombudsmen at the care facility to witness paper work etc. keep things all clear , blessings.
@georgiacorey954
Жыл бұрын
Jaime, you are a good man. You said the husband is in nursing home in Hospice. Its been my experience that people in Hospice are on a count down to their last days. If he passes away & has kids they could potentially be partial heirs to the Estate, whats left of it. The more signatures you can get done now, the easier it will be for you. If it was me, a retired Realtor, i would write up an agreement that says he has a place to live & what you will provide should he be able to come back to the house, in return for him signing over the Vet & House now so u can sell the Vet to finish fixing the house. Ive worked with grumpy old men before. Hes going to need to see it to believe what you have accomplished, maybe pictures will work. You & your Moms other option may be to salvage & sell what u can, then cut ur losses & walk away from this project. The Mortgage company is giving u a time break, to sell it "as is" or make payments. Banks never loose. They will have u removed & sell the house, if u cant get the grouch to cooperate. So don't get too comfortable. Keep ur stuff ready to roll out, or the bank will keep ur stuff too. I bet u already knew this. I just had to share in case u did not.
@timhardman4764
Жыл бұрын
All great points. I truly hope this works out but the odds are truly stacked against him. I'm also not sure airing this situation in public is in his best interest in the long run if everything get's contested. Tough situation with few choices/options. He was dealt a losing hand but is doing his best to play it out. I admire his positive attitude and hope this ends well for him.
@kristylynn1329
Жыл бұрын
Hey Jamie 👋 Good to see your smiling face 🙂 You helped me and so many others! How can we best support you now?
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Kristy! Many others have asked me the same question and it has my wheels turning about setting up an Amazon wish list. I really appreciate the offer and I remember you from the last Van Build! I got to get out here and get on this yard today, but I’ll look into setting something up. Hope you’re doing awesome!
@nilasink3270
Жыл бұрын
Several comments have the right kind of info for situations like this.
@Kralphrn
Жыл бұрын
I love your videos , but I never get any! will start liking all the time
@BJHart9
Жыл бұрын
Jamie you always are riding the lightning ⚡️ 🤘🏽
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
You called it, BJ! I suppose I've never really looked at it like that, but it's true. Lookin' swole in that pic. I'm right behind you brother.
@Done975
Жыл бұрын
You have a little gazebo! Love it! Always so happy to see you Jamie! Looks like you are handling things really well. I know it’s stressful but look at everything you’ve overcome!
@caravandanadventures
Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed the report. South Georgia.
@darryldrax606
Жыл бұрын
Continued prayers Jamie 🙏
@marilouanderson9361
Жыл бұрын
Best of luck to you Jamie. You have such a good heart. Blessings to you.
@BevDessert
Жыл бұрын
GOOD LUCK. It's hard when they are on hospice to make such decisions. They think your trying to take everything from them one day and happy your helpng the next. Be patient and get legal assistance. Protect yourself too. You have a good heart ❤
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Nana. My sister looks after them from her close by house and said the same thing.
@kenhurley4441
Жыл бұрын
Jamie, life in one adventure one day at a time!
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Hey Ken.
@michaelblasi9412
Жыл бұрын
Good luck man we will be watching...
@mamawanderlust6000
Жыл бұрын
You got this Jamie! I've seen what you are capable of!
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for pullin' for me moma!
@corneliusbrosnan7556
Жыл бұрын
Always good to hear from you.
@bostonterriermomakasandy9722
Жыл бұрын
Jamie you’re getting yourself into a can of worms with a stepfather situation. You’re gonna lose a whole lot money if you’re not really careful, you need an attorney ASAP. All of the work that you’re doing there could be for not and the proceeds of a sale of anything half of which would go to her husband.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the heads up, Sandy. I’ll take all the advice I can get. Do me a favor and subscribe if you haven’t already and follow along and together we’ll see how this all shakes out!🙏👊😉
@davidmurling4252
Жыл бұрын
You are a good man and a good son. Best of luck in all your upcoming endeavors.
@shellyscott4822
Жыл бұрын
A lot on your plate good luck!!❤
@deborahbrogi7728
Жыл бұрын
Trust in the universe you are a good person
@southernrebel159
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video update brother, I'm glad things are going well so far. With your experience on bus and van conversions, have you thought about maybe doing that? Yes, I do understand you need a job to get money to purchase the vans. But, that is an option that you could do on your spare time when you're not working.... Anywho, take care brother and may Father YHVH God bless you, you're mother and the rest.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, SR! I’m considering all my options at this point! Always great seeing you in the comments.
@joyce7892
Жыл бұрын
Well done. The social workers at his facility need to be straight with him. Surely he knows about the foreclosure. He sounds selfish and doesn't care really about your mother, only his interests. There are elder services that may be able to help with the legalities of it all. They've seen these kinds of things in the past. Your mother may be able to put you and your sister on the bank accounts and mortgage. Check with them as to how to proceed. Check state and local folks for elder information. Good for you to take a detour and care for Mom as she did when you were children. She raised good children and is lucky to have you and your sister.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words, Joyce. That is great advice.
@gbmoves7902
Жыл бұрын
Good to hear from you. It isn't my business but I was curious about the house. Jamie you know you'll get this taken care of.
@michaeltichonuk2176
Жыл бұрын
,those burls should be good for one payment ...
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
I wish! Wait, maybe I should do some research before I take a chainsaw to anything, lol
@michaeltichonuk2176
Жыл бұрын
@enigmaticnomadics I harvested burl outta Chattahoochee NF and sold it for 600 bucks. Yeah, I'd seriously research it. 😁. I didn't look close enough to determine if it's a hardwood. Oak? I dunno. Chestnut your in big BIG bucks. (Most of those protected and even harder to find. I wouldn't kill a Chestnut for a burl but it's gotta come down...I've seen burl for sale in rough cut at Woodcraft vendors.
@pre1980cars
Жыл бұрын
Good luck with your plans, i think it will workout for you.
@ldygzlle1291
Жыл бұрын
I never thought you’d get housed before me. I met you in flagstaff in 2016. You invited me to your camp to watch a video about Mexico. I was happily living the married life with a home in Tennessee. 3 years after I met you I lost my love to cancer. And the house right after. I’m looking for a new place to land almost every day. Luckily I have a small stash and I’m planning on paying cash. But nothing on the market right now. I have to admit it’s strange seeing you fixing up a house in Maryland. Ain’t life funny?
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Indeed, and I can guess which video. Were you in a Mercedes van with slick looking exterior cameras, custom stainless steel sink and a really smart guy that we talked about missing 411 with? Did you and he set out shoes and neatly folded clothes by the campfire one morning?
@ldygzlle1291
Жыл бұрын
Nope...this is me
@ldygzlle1291
Жыл бұрын
kzitem.info/news/bejne/moxs06aNgZdmZH4
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
@@ldygzlle1291 Wait! The dirt bike guy that commercially caulked concrete, sidewalks etc?
@billbradley2480
Жыл бұрын
Just wait a while. Hospice is where people go to die.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
I think he’s being dramatic, he had a stroke, not cancer. He’s an interesting guy.😄
@Wayman_Simmang
Жыл бұрын
Good success to you! It is hard situation for sure.. Keep us posted.. God bless you and your family!
@AlejoHausner
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like he is not objecting to you living in the house. If this were me, I would get a small job, enough to get that August mortgage payment and carry the expenses for a while. That would take the time pressure off and give you time to think. I don’t think you are going to get this guy off the deed even though the house would be foreclosed anyway. At most you may be able to turn it into a rental but he may even have to agree to this so you need sone legal advice!
@njanderson4342
Жыл бұрын
You're gonna DO IT!
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Hey nj!
@RVRebelGirl
Жыл бұрын
wishing ya the best
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you Rebel Girl.
@mariemorrissey9378
Жыл бұрын
Best Wishes as always! "Tordon rtu" after you cut a sprout spray /pour tordon on it so it will kill the root.
@hcying9728
Жыл бұрын
Be positive be strong
@kathrynarnold1966
Жыл бұрын
Do you have a Patreon? Not a lot of cash wiggle room here but if there's a low tier to see lens clips I'd love to have access to quick updates you don't have to labor over to get out.
@jasonwitters7860
Жыл бұрын
Great video.
@TheDanVan
Жыл бұрын
Wowsers, yes the plot thickens. Wish you all the best.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Dan! Looks like you’re having a blast these days on your Facebook account!
@zeldasimpson8959
Жыл бұрын
You can do it… you will do it! However it all works out..,adjust and carry on!
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Zelda!
@anthonymarino4260
Жыл бұрын
every thing will work out TRUST GOD
@TinksTravelingFarm
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad your safe and with family!!
@barackmycat9448
Жыл бұрын
Too bad it is so complicated. Good luck.
@beepseatsfindingfoodtreasu8756
Жыл бұрын
Actually you don't want any English ivy on the house. It will destroy it. Good luck getting everything straightened out. I know you are on it. But well wishes do help 👍
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tip. I was removing it from the roof last night. I’ll go ahead and finish the job.👊👍🏼🙏
@jenniferm761
Жыл бұрын
Jamie, I know this is off topic, but whatever happened to Lee Blake (????) If he is still around, maybe you can join him in Gerdigan Gear; get your Mom situated with your sister; and like Badge said "Run". You can send your Mom and sister $$ once you are working again .... preferably at something you love. Cut your losses; get your Mom situated; and get outta there. Aija is homesteading at her place in Arizona. Maybe you and Becca can basecamp with her for awhile. Back East is not a good place to be for what's coming.
@galebeattie2333
Жыл бұрын
Jamie nothing brings out the worst in families than crap like this. You'll need all the luck u can get.
@Chefsantatravels
Жыл бұрын
Jamie I have no inkling that you won't get it all done and right. And as far as Dave it'll work out you're a good man buddy, stay safe stay strong stay healthy God bless and enjoy life👍✌✌🎅🚌🌻
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, buddy. good luck with your endeavors as well getting out West.
@georgiacorey954
Жыл бұрын
I get it u are trying to help ur Mom. U are an awesome son. But u need the husband to sign over the Vet & Quitclaim the house to you or & Mom? Mom is ok with Sis. If the grouch will not sign, runnnnn! Praying for you Jaime.
@clarkleakins879
Жыл бұрын
Yes, i am just seeing this episode from a few months ago. Hopefully you have wrangled through/out the legal business with this family estate. The other posts able the legal jungle are true. Especially with the 2 family situation. Surely you intentions are true. Unfortunately, we know that everyone has their own direction and expectations regarding money. Dont invest too much of your self and soul and money into a situation that will never legally recognize you. Get a job there in town to cover your daily expenses. And great legal counsel, which will require money. Only after that, plot a course of property details. Sage advice: Sometimes there is nothing you can do if people wont listen. Sometimes you just have to put your tools down and move out in your own direction.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
All of that was sage advice, Clark. A nice reminder. Thank you.
@joe7004
Жыл бұрын
😎🫤 wow, Jamie, you got your hands full, I think you’ll get the job OK there’s lots of them around these days. I think you can get the house in order overtime and make the mortgage far as your stepdad is concerned that might be a different story I think that might be the fly in the ointment right there, but I wish you well buddy I admire your grit I’ll keep watch👍👋✌️
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Joe.🙏👊
@Jeanny346
Жыл бұрын
Hope you get It done!
@createlovehappy
Жыл бұрын
Worst house on the best block sounds like a great recipe. If you can fix it up, the value will be great. Best of luck to you.
@playhooky
Жыл бұрын
Jamie - would "he" Dave already have a person appointed as his durable power of attorney??? If so, they could sign the title & deed for him if they feel it's in his best interests. ***One other thing is you & they can do is a new will or trust or deed with 'remainder interest' which is a legal way of avoiding probate & dealing with the 5 year look back period for a state to recover assets if your mom &/or Dave have been on Medicaid. You'll certainly need to spend a few hundred on an attorney to do this all kosher; I'm going through this with my mom & her house right now. Also your situation is possibly more complicated because you've mentioned that you mom 's house was about to be foreclosed on - so it still has a mortgage & that effects what you can do probably. Also just fyi I have been getting the notifications. Wishing you the best.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Amazing info here. Thank you and good luck with your situation too!👊🙏👍🏼
@3generations393
Жыл бұрын
You can do this Jaime & what an awesome investment 👍🙏🙏💞
@carltonbirds
Жыл бұрын
Yes you can, good luck.
@stanleythomas8457
Жыл бұрын
ugh...this is above my pay grade but I'll learn as you go
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
I'll be fine Stanley.
@jamestryon4738
Жыл бұрын
Time for a little payback from all the people you have helped. Don't be afraid and put it out there. Just saying.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
👊🙏
@dawnbest7709
Жыл бұрын
Good luck with all you need to do.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Dawn.
@74ventura11
Жыл бұрын
Job! Ha Ha HA
@dindog22
Жыл бұрын
what ever happened to that property in North Carolina?
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Sadly, Steve passed.
@timhardman4764
Жыл бұрын
@@enigmaticnomadics I was wondering the same but I thought it was in Georgia where you did all the clearing work and hung out there for quite awhile....but I thought you owned it.
@tankful7892
Жыл бұрын
Goodluck Jamie
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Tankmiester!
@davidowen888
Жыл бұрын
Hopefully Dave comes around 🤞☮️
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
🤞
@P-Bear1632
Жыл бұрын
Hearts with you ❤
@joeiorio162
Жыл бұрын
Hello Jamie, how much your mom own that house I might pay that one and get partner with you
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the offer, Joe. This will be a solo mission.
@wc3443
Жыл бұрын
❤🙏
@norm7298
Жыл бұрын
don't fertilize the grass it's just a make work project for yourself, round up and green spray paint 👍
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
lol, We'll see, Norm.
@TedMcCaleb
Жыл бұрын
Jamie, you may just have to get a real job
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Crazier things have happened, Ted. It'll just have to be one that doesn't have old man whitey bearing down.
@bearmcquade2846
Жыл бұрын
I No Nothing !
@creativeartist2
Жыл бұрын
We went throught the same thing with three different family members and its hard. We took one step at a time and made it through the long road. We will be praying for you and your family. Thanks for checking in. Cheers Jamie, is your ebay listings easy to get to so we can see what you are selling? 🙏🙋♀
@johnnylightning1491
Жыл бұрын
Good luck Jamie. As always if you need anything let me know, you've got my number. Keep the good stuff coming buddy.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thank brother
@lmlowe9100
Жыл бұрын
Sending you good vibes to accomplish what needs to be.
@enigmaticnomadics
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, LM.
@glenn65
Жыл бұрын
Ohh dang Jamie. You have helped so many people, time to help you! What's your crowdfunding adress ? No bs, set it up, asap! How is your mom doing? 🙏 ( do you have a post-adress, to send her a card?). Never , ever , give up mate. 🫂👍👏🙏
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