This was me 23 plus years ago. After dating for a year and planning a traditional wedding and being married for 30 days. Yes I said 30 days her last words were she was better off without me. At that point I packed my bags and left. I tried once to work it out. When that failed I went no contact. I was done. A couple weeks went by and she contacted me and wanted to be friends , I said no and moved on. Now I’ve been married 20 years with 3 children. When your significant other makes you feel useless, worthless, and not loved just leave and don’t look back
@tomallen8296
Жыл бұрын
Thank you and you are so right.
@efthimios
Жыл бұрын
Wife never admitted wrong, never apologized for anything, eventually had affair and said she didn’t do anything wrong
@sanharipasard4253
Жыл бұрын
Same happened to me....and she blamed me emotional abandonment 🤷♀️
@redrose-gd8fu
Жыл бұрын
@@sanharipasard4253 Women ☕
@antbo5735
Жыл бұрын
Narcissist is always the theme.
@veritevraie4433
Жыл бұрын
I just walked away but I confess it’s a bit hard. But I’m conscious I’m doing what I have to do.
@shelleysincik403
Ай бұрын
Omg thanyou x i’ve had a toxic mother-in-law who got into her sons head x I put up with so much from the colour of address that are used to like to wear to being overweight only stone overweight I couldn’t do anything right and he wasn’t strong enough to stand up to his mother toxic shame it is an understatement thank you for recognising this I hadn’t actually seen it x thank you so much this video has been incredible and the lightning x pain is so bad x
@SCGSHOW
Ай бұрын
Im so sorry to hear this 🙏🏻
@preemopoblete719
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I just did this recently. It was a hard thing to do.
@assplundah
Жыл бұрын
This is so, SO true SCG! Thanks for the reminder mate.
@SCGSHOW
Жыл бұрын
Any time!
@jakesavicky6709
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! You addressed all of my concerns and calmed me down.
@pedrocruz4828
9 ай бұрын
I walked away after 23 year marriage I cut my losses and moved on it was hard in the beginning but 2 years later it I don’t regret it best move yet
@SCGSHOW
9 ай бұрын
Thats amazing!! Well done!
@carlislejackman2977
2 жыл бұрын
As u dont stand for foolishness from women it is always b the man fault
@phillmill4348
Жыл бұрын
You should make a video about the people 'sheeps' who think you're not smart
@petervue335
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@ahmedkotby3778
Жыл бұрын
Do you believe its necessary to tell a potential partner to give you a call if you change your mind after you walk away from them after they tried to friendzone you?
@MRindependentTHINK
6 ай бұрын
No. She must experience the fear of loss. By telling her to give you a call you subconsciously communicating that you'll Always be there for her and she can come and go as she pleases
@samuelwebster2769
Жыл бұрын
I walked away i dated her but it was the first time in many years I'd dated.. I didn't call her out for her tests.. We kissed on date two and three.. But after that I was friend zoned.. I so enjoyed spending time with her.. But one emotional night out I told her after 4 months of her saying she needs time.. I can't wait.. I'm turning 50 this year and she was the first lady to actually kiss me sensually.. I have minimal cerable palsy and have had a severe learning disability.. So it's been tough finding love.. But this last experience was exciting at first but became very frustrating.. I realize she lost attraction when I wasn't man enough.. She hasn't reached out in the two months since I've gone no contact.. She did start seeing another guy two weeks after me.. But I see she's deleted the pics she posted of them together on Facebook so maybe that guy didn't measure up either..
@hp2546
Жыл бұрын
That is like her breaking up with you. I mean you 2 were intimate with each other. Your romantic relationship with her was temporary which does make her your ex-girlfriend. That term friendzoned don't exist on that relationship because you already have a past history dating her. Difference is, she ended that relationship with you which then makes her your ex.
@samuelwebster2769
Жыл бұрын
Hey@@hp2546 we never slept together doesn't that mean rather dating over a relationship? She has a high power position in a oil drilling company as a manager to many men.. She's definitely feminine but can be tough if needed... I guess her working with tough dudes daily and then I came along and showed a lack of confidence she noticed it straight up.. I'm working on my purpose which is photography which I started in 2018 and that going from strength to strength.. Has helped me in the last two month as I've been gifted some very special gear from my mentor.. She hasn't blocked me or anything so communication can be restored.. As a guy who cares about my friends and family this has been a very tough no contact for me..
@samuelwebster2769
Жыл бұрын
@@hp2546 also the night I basically walked away i told her I can't be friends if she can't commit.. I did struggle to let go didn't really message to ask how she was just sent her funny videos till the 14th when it ended in a respectful way.. This last week I've wanted to reach out so bad.. But I am confused as to how she'll respond.. Look there were red flags she tested me on.. When we social together she'd had out her business cards to guys.. I should of said that's not cool in my presence.. Anyways, it was my first sort of relationship in many years.. So I really wasn't practiced.. I've learnt some tough painful lessons..
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