Just wanted to comment on this because it is your most recent video. I ended up getting a job because of your advice from your first vid on datacenters and start in a month. Thanks so much mate
@Retro-Japan
20 күн бұрын
Amazing news!
@mikawa9229
22 күн бұрын
Hi. I'm Japanese. I hear many such comments from foreigners who have immigrated to this country. It is difficult to fit in with Japanese people and they feel alienated. It is difficult to make Japanese friends. This is my personal opinion, but to begin with, Japan is a country suited for “people who love solitude”. In fact, even Japanese people do not have many friends. Rather than inviting a lot of friends to a party, the value system is that it is better to have just one friend with whom you are comfortable. There is also a saying that describes the general Japanese value system: Even within a close circle, there is courtesy. A simple explanation is this. You have the right to freely decide how to spend your vacation this weekend. Others should not infringe on that. You may want to read a book quietly or go to a café. You may intend to enjoy cycling, or go hiking. You have the right to enjoy your hobbies without anyone else interrupting your time. That is why we Japanese are very cautious about taking other people's time. Weekday evenings and holidays are important time. We don't invite you because we respect your life. (We are taught by our teachers many times since elementary school that we should not take other people's time, its very rude. The same reason why Japanese are so strict about time) I want to go out to eat or have fun with my Japanese colleagues, but they don't invite me:( If this is the case, it is possible that they aren't avoiding you, but respecting your rights. If you feel that such a way of spending holidays is ideal for you after reading my writing, I think you are suited for Japan.
@Saltkoenigin
20 күн бұрын
this explaination u gave in ur comment can be explained by the history of ur country. I'm talking about when ur country developed a culture Nara Period, Heian Period and mby the Kokufū Culture explains alot for why that is. Also the whole Shōen structure throughout Heian, Kamakura Period. I know later Periods and Eras may have a higher effect on the current Japan, yet as those times were how the culture really started not being a copy of Tang and Song China is why I think that is. As respect as a key factor of ur culture it all makes sense. Oh I wrote alot again,sorry 😅
@adalbert9451
12 күн бұрын
Thank you for the interesting comment. Do you also know why time is valued so much in Japan?
@yurii_chynchyk
Күн бұрын
That was a great, valuable comment! ありがとうございます、みかわさん!
@itsRightThereMan
14 сағат бұрын
"We don't invite you because we respect your life"は完璧ですよね、ありがとうございます。
@mirikaku5811
Ай бұрын
It’s true. If you’re not happy or satisfied, you’re not happy nor satisfied wherever you live. Because life is what you make it. It’s not the place. If you decide to be happy and choose where you are, whether Japan or elsewhere, you’ll find a way to be happy. Japan is not bad at all if you decide to make it a great journey. Good food, infrastructure, safe, convenience, clean, kind people…rest is up to YOU!
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Wise words!
@deusvult1268
Ай бұрын
Look, good food, convenience, good transport, nothing being stolen and not being harmed don't make you happy, but by god they do make it easier. The country makes a huge difference. Some places make ir way easier to socialize than others, some more reasy to save money, etc.
@MaciejLorentz
Ай бұрын
Total BS what if you’re in Ukraine or Palestine and get your legs blown off? Is that just you being a baby if you’re sad? Of course not. Japan has hikomori or hermits who don’t see other people for years at a time or leave the house. The culture creates them so for already antisocial people or lonely people Japan can be a horrible place to live.
@AegisEdge
Ай бұрын
except for me where as I grew up in Japan so when I go live there it will be better.
@deusvult1268
Ай бұрын
@@AegisEdge Not necessarily. But would be nice of course.
@starfox300
Ай бұрын
I lived in Japan for 1.5 years and didn't really have a lot of problems, but I went to a lot of events, bars, clubs and just befriended a lot of people
@southcoastinventors6583
Ай бұрын
Having a social life requires effort just like everywhere else same reason most people can't learn Japanese
@missplainjane3905
Ай бұрын
@@southcoastinventors6583 Effort ?
@PdxEmo03
21 күн бұрын
I'm currently a college student in Oregon. I'm working at a community college to learn Japanese. I am transferring to a university upon graduation where I'll continue learning Japanese, as well as mangaka. It is very slow, but I am working to start a career in mangaka. Obviously, it's not an easy career, but it's definitely my passion. Eventually, I want to move to Japan and go to an art school there, currently I'm looking at Kyoto Seika.
@shimokitazawa1217
Ай бұрын
Permanence paradox is real. I've been living here for nine years, and every somewhat big life choice still comes with a subconscious tag of "but you're not gonna live here forever".
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Yeah it’s a tough one for sure!
@LettersfromJapan
Ай бұрын
There's a third category of jobs that is slowly becoming more common, which is remote work (usually working for your home country while living in Japan). This is what I do now. It's by far the best option.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
How does this work with visas and tax etc?
@nctrn07
Ай бұрын
Do you do that under the digital nomad visa?
@Snakebloke
Ай бұрын
Oh that sounds dreamy. I was looking at remote jobs based out of Singapore even.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
I’m not sure what OP is referring to here but if you stay in Japan longer than a few months you are considered a tax resident, you can’t legally work in Japan without a work visa which requires company sponsorship, I’m not sure what foreign companies would even be able to navigate the Japanese system to do this if they’re not in Japan. You need a residency permit to do anything like get an apartment, health insurance, a bank account, or basically anything. In my case I work remotely here but I am employed by the Japanese subsidiary of an American company. When employees of company in America or other countries come here to work for even just a few weeks or month, they need to get a working visa which the company arranges with the Japanese subsidiary. So I think this option is possible in particular circumstances but it’s not just as simple as being a remote worker in your own country then moving to Japan as that is almost certainly illegal so I would be interested to hear if there’s any way around this.
@LettersfromJapan
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan I have a permanent resident visa, so I can live here and work for any company I want, regardless of whether they're in Japan or overseas. the bad news is... even though I'm paid by a foreign company, I have to pay regular taxes in Japan, just like if I was working for a Japanese employer.
@jgerman5544
Ай бұрын
I have heard this statement more than a few times on similar videos. "Even if you've lived here for a long time and are fluent in Japanese, you'll still be treated (or feel like) an outsider." Japan is arguably the most homogeneous society on earth. It seems obvious that a westerner would experience that. For me, that's the fun part. Being different, in a country like Japan is a great thing, in my opinion. In Japan, I like being around people who are considerate and self-conscious. And it seems, Japanese people have something to learn from me, a westerner who has done things in life. I find Japanese people to be much more respectful in everyday life than Americans. I love that part, the most. Living in any foreign country is challenging, especially if you're not fluent in the language. It boils down to your mindset. Are you ready for a major life challenge or not?
@kevinreily2529
27 күн бұрын
I live in Thailand and I've been to Japan many times. Thailand is very social, especially Bangkok, and Thai people are quite friendly & curious, if you can speak a bit of Thai. In Japan they are introverted, but very kind and polite. Social rules apply in Thailand too, but in Japan it seems they have hundreds of social rules.
@MasaTenorPianist
21 күн бұрын
@@kevinreily2529 Sorry but true, friend
@bk10200
13 күн бұрын
I guess you have not lived in other countries. Being treated like a foreigner is also common in many countries.
@user-kd4cw8uj9l
5 күн бұрын
I love you whoever you are. This is precisely what every foreigner needs to hear. Exactly! I would say the whole reason to move to another country, especially Japan, would be for the experience, the chance of personal and professional growth, the memories, and if you have the right mindset. Personally I have yet to have the opportunity to live there, but the country seems to have a lot to offer if you approach with the correct mindset.
@jgerman5544
Күн бұрын
@@user-kd4cw8uj9l Thanks. That's very kind. I've spent good amount of time living abroad. I don't think my country is the best nor do I expect things to be done the way I'm used to. We are all students of life. Embrace it and explore.
@TomHeyda
11 күн бұрын
7:35 the fact that you're tlaking about feeling as an isolated outsider sometimes while at the same a local child sparks a conversation means there's still hope.
@cigpope
Ай бұрын
I'm moving to Yokohama in a couple of months, and this video helped me solidify my feelings. I've done a good job researching the actual quality of life in Japan (I think), and I think that having healthy expectations and confidence in myself will play huge roles in keeping me sane in Japan.
@thelittlenay2487
Ай бұрын
That was a really relaxing video to watch and interesting points. That kid was funny too!
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Yeah I wanted his bubble blower!
@spinrushrc
Ай бұрын
You are spot on about the relationships segment. I reached out to as many people as I could about my hobby which is RC Racing. I’ve lived in Japan now for almost 30 years. I’ve known that there is so much more to discover once you establish yourself and find what you want to do in your free time. However, without knowing anyone most people may be scared to go out on their own. I’ve been fortunate enough to meet other foreigners who enjoy the same hobbies and I made sure to pay it forward by creating my own Facebook group and other groups letting people know about how they can truly enjoy life here. On a different note, I discovered that the Japanese wives who are married to some of my friends were extremely appreciative that their significant others have positive ways to enjoy living in Japan without falling into the pits of nightlife and partying. So get out there. Play golf, find arts and crafts that you are interested in, and if you are like me, get into R/C. These things definitely help.
@Skapo
Ай бұрын
I appreciate your balanced approach to talking about this stuff. Probably one of the better single video explanations I have seen on the subject.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks I appreciate that a lot 🤝
@ThatGaijinFella
Ай бұрын
You make some very solid points in this one mate! I'm in my 25th year in Japan - can't believe the time has gone by so bloomin' fast!! Here for life now, but I do miss the UK.
@savejeff15
Ай бұрын
Out of curiosity, what part of the UK? As a German we have a certain opinion of the English (especially in the last few years)
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
I miss the UK very much too but maybe I’m seeing it through rose tinted lenses, whenever I turn on the news and see all those riots now it grounds me a bit haha. But the British countryside always has my heart!
@ThatGaijinFella
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan I hear that! I really miss Yorkshire, Lancashire, the Lakes and North Wales. But seeing the news on KZitem - as I said in my vid yesterday, better off staying here!
@ThatGaijinFella
Ай бұрын
@@savejeff15 - although born in London, I grew up in North Yorkshire and North Wales. Parts of the UK I don't even recognise anymore!
@mirikaku5811
Ай бұрын
UK is not what it used to be..and I’m not even British. Sad with immigration policies gone wrong. Same with where I grew up, Sweden, don’t recognize the beautiful childhood country I grew up in. Especially in the big cities..culture and traditions are important to each region that should be respected even if you bring people from other nations..this is what failed. 😞
@Gobledeegook_JP
Ай бұрын
This is what I experience outside Japan like an identical tiwns. I used to work in the UK, and you can't get a job there if you're not a native English speaker, and there are always visa issues as well. You also can't open a bank account or get a credit card. Maybe key to working outside world is to learn the language. And this is something you may experience where ever you go.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Very true!
@kojamaru5430
Ай бұрын
Thank you for living in Japan. The countryside is better than the city, right? Recently, riots in the UK have been in the news, and I understand how the British feel. There are always some crazy people, whether they are Japanese or foreigners, but when it comes to illegal immigrants committing crimes, it’s natural to feel anger toward those who come from outside. Japan is a country of forests, with the third-highest ratio of forest area to land area in the world. Let's work together to protect this peace and rich nature.
@nippolitica
Ай бұрын
The story was false, and the attacker was a native-born UK citizen. The anti-immigrant rioters were far-right ultranationalists. I don't find their anger to be natural. I find their hate to be very small minded and harmful, and something I have never understood or felt. I feel the same about the far-right neo-imperialists in Japan or the alt-right in the US. Immigrants overwhelmingly commit fewer crimes than native-born citizens in every country. Because most immigrants fear retaliation and deportation. Also statistics often wrongly include immigration law violations as crimes--which are violations citizens cannot, by definition, commit, because they are citizens and not bound by such laws. "Lies, damn lies, and statistics" as the saying goes.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
I do much prefer the countryside! It’s nice to live close to the city too as well. And yes, it’s a shame what is happening in the UK right now. Most of the rioters are just out looking for an excuse to smash things up.
@random_579
Ай бұрын
個人的には都会と田舎の中間をオススメします。 田舎すぎると現代人には大変だと思います。
@ls.c.5682
Ай бұрын
@@nippolitica Exactly this, thank you! I was so scared that one of my friends or my (Japanese) wife would be assaulted by one of my so-called fellow countrymen last week. I feel that perhaps the outstanding counter-protests and feelings of love that came with that aren't being covered internationally as much as the initial violence committed by the rioters
@ls.c.5682
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan I saw some guy got sent down for stealing £15k worth of vapes from a looted shop, which proves your point.
@area_d
Ай бұрын
There are an increasing number of foreigners freeloading into Japan's medical system, consuming the country's financial resources. Foreigners living in Japan must pay health insurance premiums。
@ExpertContrarian
28 күн бұрын
You can afford it
@area_d
28 күн бұрын
@@ExpertContrarian Look it up in Japanese. You'll find that the rate of non-payment among foreigners is very high in every municipality. You'll see that there are many foreigners who take advantage of the situation and don't pay their monthly health insurance premiums, but only pay for medical expenses. In the end, many foreigners receive treatment but don't pay and flee to their home countries.
@ExpertContrarian
28 күн бұрын
@@area_d not my problem
@Aeris_InJapan
24 күн бұрын
What fucking non sense are you talking about. Japan goes to the dark age in 1 month if the world get to have O market with it. Remember that hard dpsht
@cristiankahn2315
21 күн бұрын
How much are the premiums ?
@dragonofparadise
Ай бұрын
As for medical it sounds like heaven. In the US medical care is trash and your forced to see a new doctor every time you get a new job or whenever your employer changes your coverage without warning. You will probably go bankrupt if you get sick and you must do you best to delay doctor visits. Japan's system sounds absolutely amazing!
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Right - I think compared to the US system it’s far better. European systems probably are on par or potentially a bit better depending on the country.
@JapanSnowPhotographer
Ай бұрын
I am very lucky with my work life balance here. Been here nearly 10 years now and have worked a mixture of jobs with nothing really secure but that has been my choice as I love living in Japan for the nature. Definitely it can be challenging sometimes but I couldn’t never imagine me living in my home country
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! Right, there’s good and bad points of living here just like anywhere else in the world but I feel the good points far outweigh the negatives. People’s own experience vastly differ too depending on their own situations with work and living.
@JapanSnowPhotographer
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan yep exactly! Sometimes when I get tired and need a break I just go for a wee holiday over to South East Asia and then it refreshes me when I come back to Japan and realize how good it is.
@triplepancakeattack5053
Ай бұрын
Im moving to Japan in September for a year! I lived in Osaka for 2 months last year for a study abroad and it felt alienating at first (it was also the first time i felt homesick) I always appreciate the perspectives that foreigners living there have given in the videos ive seen
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for giving it a watch! Best of luck on your move 🤝
@LaJuan.FTB1
Ай бұрын
Bro i hope you blow up! massively enjoyed this as a person that moved here under the same circumstances as you. Didnt really connect with the foreigners initially and had to make my own happiness. Your film style is also interesting. I'd love to connect man. But if not good luck !
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the comment I appreciate it! Would be happy to connect 🤝
@LetsHaveFunJeremiah_LHFJRandom
21 күн бұрын
Japan looks much Better than the U.S. in many ways imo.
@lukestertubeplayz
2 күн бұрын
For me Japan is a place I would want to raise kids because of the culture, focus on education and etc
@massimilianolodde8749
Ай бұрын
Great video man, I watched a lot of videos about this topic, and yours kinda covers perfectly all the points in both an objective and personal way. Good job
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching mate glad you found it interesting! 🤝
@dr_zircon6814
Ай бұрын
amazing video man, been waiting for your next video and here it is. your style allows people to see what Japan is really like without the screen in front, definitely moving later on when I get some more money and get a job set up. keep up the amazing content man, amazing quality.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for tuning in again mate it’s much appreciated 🤝
@MichaelLia
20 күн бұрын
This video has very valuable information and the only thing I could think about was that you sound just like Malfoy lol. nice video
@Retro-Japan
20 күн бұрын
POTTAH!
@chesmac
Ай бұрын
This stuff is great! I’ve been living in Japan for a while now and I really enjoy watching contents like this. ❤
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@amykpop1
21 күн бұрын
Dude, if you can manage to make weekly video's your channel will really lift-off! There's just something so calming and unique about your format!
@Retro-Japan
21 күн бұрын
Thanks! I’m aiming for a video every other week right now as it balances well with my work schedule. I’ll potentially increase that later on if possible
@theoriginalfat
Ай бұрын
What a great video, super mature content (in a good way)... I hear you regarding not getting nice stuff because of the possibility or going back to your country, greetings from Costa Rica
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the comment and for tuning in again mate 🤝 🇨🇷
@light535
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the insights! Very interesting video as always.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for tuning in again, have a great day ✌️
@zenakuTenshi
Ай бұрын
That permanence paradox is literally me! I've been living in Kyushu for 3 years as an ALT and have barely furnished my apartment because it's always been my goal to move to Tokyo or Osaka for another, better job 🤡 I think when it finally does happen I'll be happy that I didn't buy lots of furniture, but living without it now in the present is frustrating 😂
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Yeah honestly I’m better with it now but I still struggle quite a lot. in hindsight though I regret not buying a lot of things earlier. I wanted to expand this whole section a bit actually maybe I’ll talk about it another time….but it’s not just purchasing material things but more so making big life decisions too. I have friends looking to buy houses or get married. I couldn’t make such decisions because it would cement ny position I’m here in Japan when I still want to know I have the option to easily leave someday!
@zenakuTenshi
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan yeah I think decisions like those would be difficult to make since you want to return to the UK eventually!
@savejeff15
Ай бұрын
Great video. I know currently you have pretty small numbers but keep at it and you will be discovered more and more im sure of it.
@savejeff15
Ай бұрын
Also farn that Chris broad style content to the max. You have the editing/filming skills
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
I guess it’s a compliment to be compared to him, we went to the same school so maybe we both got influenced by the same film studies teacher haha Although I’m not sure I’d want to end up with a viewership like his that seems stressful 😅
@savejeff15
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan no way? What a coincidence. But yeah a couple of million followers must be a bit scary
@johnnydoe3603
Ай бұрын
I was wondering about the Healthcare System in Japan. This Video addressed it Comprehensively. Thanks. 😊
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching mate ✌️
@dragonofparadise
Ай бұрын
Homes are very cheap there and buying my very own home is a big pull for me moving there, plus the business opportunities from many market ineffiences and the amazing Healthcare are reasons as well.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Housing is super affordable here. My friend just got a loan at 0.2% and the house and land totals around $300,000 for a fully detached 4 bedroom house that you can customise to your liking.
@diddne
29 күн бұрын
I don't think you feel it so much now because of the weak yen, but I think land prices will go up more and more as development progresses in the future!
@char680
Ай бұрын
Dude you're so good at explaining your experience and you know what's the best part? You're cute as shit too
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
It must be the camera it’s all smoke and mirrors 👀 thanks for watching ✌️
@ShowaEraGaijin
11 күн бұрын
As a long term resident of Japan one thing I try to get other foreigners to accept is the fact that they are the one who decided to be here. They have the choice to leave any time they feel like it. (A choice the Japanese around you don't reallly have) By choosing to stay you have to accept Japan as it is, not how you wish it would be. This may sound harsh but many years ago after I had been here a few years I went through that understanding and found that it took a weight off my shoulders.
@ohwenchildress732
Ай бұрын
im still looking for a job. I've applied to 2 data center trainee jobs but got rejected. I'm not gonna stop because its always been my dream and to me the American dream of getting a job and working till 70 to buy a house and die isn't appealing. i would rather be rich in experiences and memories
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Persistence is definitely key, don’t give up! If you can also look at alternative ways to move to Japan first before moving into IT that’s also another option!
@ohwenchildress732
Ай бұрын
@Retro-Japan do you think realistically I have a chance? I don't speak Japanese
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
@@ohwenchildress732 the only time you don’t is when you limit yourself. I don’t think it’s easy for sure but also I don’t know anyone that I worked with that had an easy path to get where they are. I for sure didn’t have good Japanese when I got my first proper job here and many others I know were the same.
@ohwenchildress732
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan thanks man, I'm for sure going to keep trying. Your Chanel gave me the push I needed to trying following my dream
@akuma_artz3481
Күн бұрын
I think Personally finding Friends can depend on being in Cities or not. I was Travelling Japan for a Year but also lived a somewhat normal life for many months in Akiyas or with Japanese Families. My experience of Camping for over 3 Months through Kyushu and spending 2 months on a pilgrimage around Shikoku. I think in the Countryside it is far far easier to make Japanese friends. Or I was lucky. Becaus in Cities I myself feel like an Anomaly. If i do something wrong like standing on the wrong side of the escalator because im deep in thought i feel super dumb. But in the Countryside my experience is that most people think its interesting. Some told me that they havent seen foreigners in their lives before and thought it was cool that I was there. I had a lot of luck being right in time for local festivals as well. I think thats where the Japanese Person is most approachable. And with local I mean festivals like a Sakura Festival in a small town near Nagato. There were 100 people tops and by the end of the day i was friends with a Hotel Owner, his Kids and multiple people at food stands. At this point i couldnt even speak basic Japanese i was just stumbling words and not understanding much. But my goal is for sure to live in the Countryside becuase in my Opinion it is far more beautiful. Tokyo and Hakata and Kyoto are nice. But my favourite places were small places like Aso in Kumamoto or Saijo in Ehime. So when it comes to Friends i think the cities do contribute to the diffirence between Foreigners and Locals. But in small towns and in the Countryside. I have found that people do enjoy Foreign Company and are more willing to invite them into local activities.
@kingofbel6499
8 күн бұрын
I plan to live in Japan one day so the information in this video really helps, specially the health part, which was easily my biggest worry. I am not the most sociable guy, and sadly my japanese is still pretty basic, so my only real fear is getting seriously sick there and getting no help. Though I definitely do want to make friends there, hopefully at least one person who can speak english and lives near me. lol Other than that, I feel like Japan is probably great to live as long as you have money enough. It's always been a dream of mine to live there and I can't wait until I have enough income so I can move there and live comfortably.
@Drnikora
Ай бұрын
If your health problem is simple and can be prescribed a medicine, it works great. But if your problem is complicated or you have medicine allergies etc, it can be hell.
@miguelcalderon7356
Ай бұрын
Hi my dreams is to move to japan and I want to study in a Japanese university i choose to study abroad what i like about japan is the food the culture the anime the manga everything I like about japan i'm tired of living in puerto rico born and raised in puerto rico everything is not good
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
That sounds like a great dream, I hope it works out for you! Thanks for watching ✌️
@antoninb.6735
7 күн бұрын
Speaking to anyone thinking about moving overseas or to Japan. You should come and live in Japan (and any other country btw) because you love the country as a whole (culture, peoples, environment) and not because that is currently fashionable/trendy or a "possible job opportunity". You should be interested and invested in that country. And strive to learn the language. If you just cherry pick what you like and overly focus on that, while trying to ignore the rest, you'll only end up frustrated. And you'll never be happy where you live because you'll never connect and fit in. Know your "why" and look at what things are and not at what you want them to be.
@lmzette
Ай бұрын
what you said about the permanence paradox is so true! I m struggling with it right now since I just moved to Japan. I thought I was the only one.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
I will say it definitely doesn’t get easier unless you just accept the fact that you may have to sell all the things you buy and ultimately that’s not really a big deal. It’s far better to be comfortable now than to have constant dissatisfaction over not owning such items. I bought a cheap sofa in my old apartment and it was so painful to sit on that I’d just sit on the floor
@lmzette
Ай бұрын
thank you for your reply! I totally agree with you! sorry to hear that the sofa was not good :'( I was also tempted to buy a very cheap one but in the end I invested a bit more for my comfort. Do you know maybe where Japanese people sell their stuff usually?
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
@@lmzette the biggest app for personal selling is Merucari. Since it’s Japan you can almost be certain second hand good will be of good quality. I use it a lot myself for buying and selling things actually. It’s basically Japan’s eBay without the risk of being scammed haha
@lmzette
10 күн бұрын
Sounds good! I will try it, thank you!! 😊
@xdiepx
Ай бұрын
Enjoyed your video man hope more is coming
@fancyhandle
Күн бұрын
Good video! Keep making them!
@Retro-Japan
Күн бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@HiroshiJPNL
Ай бұрын
I love your vids bro 🙏 i am also think about moving to Japan also And this typ of movie help me alot ! Thanks alot for this bro 🙏✌️
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@Wish7s
Ай бұрын
I lived in Japan for 2 years and came already knowing the language to the point where it was never an issue (I grinded like crazy during quarantine) and to be honest making Japanese friends doesn't get much easier even if you're super fluent in the language. Obviously a lot of this varies depending on the type of person you are but even though I tried really hard to make Japanese friends nothing ever clicked. It all felt too surface level and robotic which was a very big shock to me coming from a western country where my friends are like brothers to me.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Yeah it can be very challenging and one thing that people often don’t realise is that Japanese people usually will take a lot longer to show you their true self. It can often take months of hanging out with someone because they start to come out of their shell with you whereas back in my own country people tend to be very open from get go. Also another issue I have is that Japanese people plan things very far in advance which doesn’t work well with many foreigners who are a bit more spontaneous with their planning. When I try to organise to meet my Japanese friends they always want several months warning in advance 😅
@Gjg-8ffhj6_ngkjvxd
15 күн бұрын
I am Japanese, but even for Japanese people, it is difficult to make deep friends as an adult. I found some very accurate comments from other people, so I will quote them here. I think Japan is a culture that loves solitude. It is considered rude to intrude too much into other people's private lives. Especially in modern times, young people tend to value this idea more than older people, and tend to value their own private time and enjoy hobbies. Also, modern young people are afraid of conflict and discord, so they choose inoffensive words and try not to interfere too much in their friends' lives so as not to offend others. For this reason, especially young people try to keep moderate relationships with their friends and not to take away their friends' private time. I am currently studying abroad in the UK, and I am a little wary of trivial conversations such as "How was your weekend?", but I think it is also a wonderful culture. I am sorry that you were hurt by life in Japan. Thank you for trying to adapt to life in Japan. I just wanted to convey that superficial relationships are part of modern Japanese culture and are not your problem.
@LnSyy
Ай бұрын
great informative vid man💜
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@sumiben5211
Ай бұрын
One thing, even if you speak fluent Japanese it is still challenging to make friends and form deep connections with Japanese people. After 8 years, I have given up on finding Japanese friends or a Japanese partner (I am a lesbian so it is a bit more challenging)
@simonsmatthew
19 күн бұрын
A sensible and interesting discussion on living in Japan, and I think abroad as an expat in general. It seems that so many English and Americans want to leave their countries and live somewhere else in a way I have not seen before. I lived in Kyoto from 1998 to 2004. I did my PHD out there. I can't say it was easy, but that was more about me to be very honest than Japan. (The Japanese I think were quite incredible putting up with myself and I cringe when I remember how I behaved!) I went back to Kyoto for 18 months almost 10 years later, and loved it. A big reason for that I think though was that I had a lovely apartment in the best part of Kyoto had a lot of time and money and I was off skiing etc etc. So yes it will depend on your situation. Japanese friends? I found I always had a lot. But I think I was lucky that way (I was heavily involved in music and met a lot of people through this activity.) Japanese language: the secret is just enjoy it. Just enjoy learning more and being able to use what you have learned. Half full- not half empty. More advice : go for a 100 per cent score on Level 3 before worrying about Level 2 (or just don't worry about these tests at all - but do work through a good textbook.) This a much better investment: once you have really nailed the foundations, it is very easy to improve. Now I would love to go back to Japan again and live for 5-6 years, or maybe even longer. I miss it a lot.
@toothbrushmints5446
29 күн бұрын
Japanese society is very hard on people with mid-level jobs and below... If the quality requirement is 50, then you're always expected to deliver 60, even 70 because the competition is tough for that level of jobs On the other hand, for high-level / high-skilled jobs,, If the quality requirement is 90, it's okay to occasionally deliver 85,, or even 80 since there is only few in the market that can deliver 90 anyway...
@RegretfulRoar
17 күн бұрын
Bro, the quality of your videos is just awesome. I love your videos ❤❤
@Retro-Japan
17 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching mate very kind of you to say ✌️
@gregz85
Ай бұрын
I'd sell my cars, my house my everything to be given the opportunity to live there. Alas my skills are not needed, and I suck at Japanese. I'll just keep on visiting for as long as I can. Be on the ground in Osaka on Saturday!
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
I think English teaching works out for those who want to give living in Japan a try as it doesn’t require any skill except being able to speak English. It’s not for everyone but even just a short 6 months - 1 year stint can be a life changing experience
@gregz85
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan I looked into teaching English 20 years ago. Requirements were pretty lean back then. Now I'm sure I don't fit the bill anymore. I also don't think I could take the pay cut that it would be for short term stay. But if I could do what I do in the US for work, it would be an easy choice. Not much need for an American Electrician/Engineer in Japan as the rules and regulations are very different, but then math is math and the science of it all is the same.
@ashkumar6048
Ай бұрын
Man, not gonna lie. I watch a lot of Japan content, I live in Japan, speak some Japanese, etc. Your video got recommended to me but with the channel name as it is, I really excepted to watch it and go , "Another weeb living having his Japan dream broken is going to shed 'wisdom' like he's the main protagonist" But in all honesty, I'm glad KZitem recommended me this video. Everything you said is quite on point and you express points in a thoughtful manner. So I subbed and looking forward to your other content.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Haha yeah I have been thinking of changing my channel name for the last couple of months now but just haven’t decided on anything yet.
@JohnDoctor-h4s
Ай бұрын
I don't speak the language and i'm surprised it's difficult to work, get medical care or make friends... How surprising ! As a foreigner living in Japan and facing the same gruesome task of dealing with language barrier (although translation apps have dramatically made things easier), I'm still baffled at the sense of entitlement of many foreigners living in Japan. You want to come and stay there for a while ? Get a grip and adapt to the country, including learning japanese. If you're not ready to commit the time and effort for that, better not to come I guess...
@SanderStreams
Ай бұрын
Great video! Currently live in the Netherlands but the environment is something I want to get out of. When I visited Japan it was beautiful and the people were so kind. So I decided to take Japanese classes and will do for atleast a year to atleast communicate somewhat. Begin 2026 I will stay a year to see whether it is the place for me to stay. Are there also certain platforms you can use to connect to other (foreigners) to get friendships going?
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
I think quite a few people use meetup once they get here as it allows them to go to events and make friends there. There’s a lot of events where you have to go by yourself. I think there’s likely Facebook groups and other groups on other social media apps too.
@TreadwithEd
Ай бұрын
really good video mate - I feel like I can relate a bit to the Permanence Paradox in the flat I live in in England haha. I'm sure it's way more amplified for you in Japan
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Yeah or maybe it’s just an excuse for being stingy perhaps we get it from our dads haha
@TreadwithEd
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan haha now that’s a good point 😂
@ShinseiUK
14 күн бұрын
Right now I am job hunting on a recently acquired N3 JLPT level and my hopes are not high. I have been here the same time as you too and my Japanese proficiency level just has not gone up much since coming here. But here's to finding something that I can work with!
@slayer8426
Ай бұрын
Really good video mate, im heading over in September for a year and thinking that if i like it enough snd can actually handle the language side of it, then ill stay for awhile.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching mate. It’s definitely possible to live here without Japanese but learning the language unlocks a completely different side of life here so my advice is just spend as much time as you can now studying!
@Snakebloke
Ай бұрын
My wife is Japanese, and she wants to move back; but, looking at CyberSecurity jobs in Japan is a bit disheartening...might end up applying for a Data Centre job after all, as they're one of the few jobs I can find that don't require Japanese language skills. (I'm still studying for JLPT N5 - so, a long way to go)
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Data Center jobs can be pretty interesting and there’s plenty of opportunities to get involved in projects. The main thing is that you get to network with other teams and moving internally to other teams is always an option. An old colleague of mine did that and now he’s in cyber security here
@Snakebloke
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan Well that's very encouraging. You and your Argentinian friend you interviewed the other day, made the job sound very satisfying to be honest, and given that there are a couple of large data centres out in Chiba Prefecture, that'd suit me down to the ground. Thank you for taking the time to let me know. It's really appreciated!
@cv5420
24 күн бұрын
Video is well done and the first time I've come across your channel. One of the few videos I didn't catch any hiccups with the realties of living in Japan as a foreigner. I'm an American living here for the past 5 years. Working on the legal side for a major Japanese telecom company. The medical and personal relationships segments really stood out as I've experienced each in similar detail. On the medical side, I decided to go with doctors who are western educated as I've been misdiagnosed a few times and also told "It's just stress. Take these pills". No testing or anything. Personal relationships, I've also ended up with mostly foreign friends for the same reasons you mentioned. Btw, the big park area you're at...is that Rinkai Park in Urayasu?
@Retro-Japan
24 күн бұрын
It’s interesting to hear that many foreigners kind of have the same experiences though! The Japanese medical system especially gets me you’re right the goal is basically to get you prescribed something. The last part is in Kasai rinkai yes nice spot!
@JackBlack-ii1ip
4 күн бұрын
"I'd never live here if I were Japanese." Many a true word spoken in jest.
@Yuma700_0
Ай бұрын
Really nice video mate. Most people come to Japan thinking it will, “be like anime” or be the best place they have ever imagined to live in. However the honeymoon phase will quickly dye out. And they will eventually want to go back to their native country.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching 🤝
@benjaminharopolous1416
5 күн бұрын
I hate my medical system and am a lonely outsider in my own country. Japan here I come!
@jaybrown5661
Ай бұрын
Great video man from a guy who use to work with you. Dude you know you need to interview me that would go viral
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Crack on buddy if you’re up for it I’ll hit you up haha
@esfandiyar2350
Ай бұрын
Very insightful
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@esfandiyar2350
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan Thanks for posting 🥺
@hamzabm7814
Ай бұрын
very well explained
@01Grimjoe
Ай бұрын
Life and work is all about the proverbial "carrot and stick", also 100% agree if you are lonely heading to a place that struggles with this problem as a nation might not be the best answer.
@milchschnitte2848
Ай бұрын
Hi, thanks a lot for your video, very insightful! In case you're planning a follow-up video, I'd be very interested in how the job finding and application process looks like. I suppose the safest bet would be to get in touch while at home and move there once the job offer is signed? How do job visas work? Thanks.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! Good questions, maybe I’ll do a Q&A at some point to cover any questions like these! Safest bet may be to get a job while at home, but it might not be the easiest one considering any jobs you apply to you will likely be competing with those who are already living in Japan
@zadokallenpiano
Ай бұрын
thank you for the honesty of your testimony I'm going to university to study Japanese language and culture, with the aim of learning the language so I can go and live there However, I'm careful to look at the downside of life in Japan so as not to get my hopes up too high, so thank you for your honest portrayal of life there
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching 🤝
@limci9282
Ай бұрын
In addition to the extremely valuable information provided in the video, the quality of the video itself really stood out to me. May I ask what camera + lens you used?
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Using the lumix s5iix and this video was shot with 50mm 1.8 lumix glass
@slothsarecool
Ай бұрын
I did the same thing in the UK 😅 didn’t really buy anything for 4 years
@cicikus437
17 күн бұрын
As a Turk from Türkiye, I can't live over there. All the conveniences I get here are too damn good to give up. Medical treatment here is unmatched, the people are the nicest (as long as you are not talking to non Turks) and the aggressive politics where fights happen inside the parliament. But the countryside of Japan, man I yearn for that.
@flightevolution8132
Ай бұрын
Great video. A cool place to visit but I don't think I'd like to live there long term. Cheers
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching 🤝
@BaldeWorlde
Ай бұрын
Bang on about the healthcare! British NHS has insane wait times but at least they make sure to solve your issue. In Japan, I went countless times to the hospital/doctor and it seemed like their answer to everything was medication after about 30 seconds of talking to me 😆Still, at least you can see someone on the day!
@dragonofparadise
Ай бұрын
In regards to the employment you missed the 3rd option that I am taking. Start a business and get the business manager visa.
@user-tj9kw2lc7w
Ай бұрын
I am a Japanese English learner, and I won't say where it is, but we live in the same city! I'm surprised that my apartment is shown in the video because our city is rather minor.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
What a coincidence! It’s a nice city though. I recently moved here
@bjni
Ай бұрын
people here in edogawa get free biannual checkup too whether you are employed or not.
@brenton6379
12 күн бұрын
thanks for this video! what camera are you using?
@AuthorLanaPage
Ай бұрын
Hi there, this video was very insightful. I'm visiting Japan soon for the first time. Would you say that the job market is the hardest thing about living there? If a person is able to draw income from self-employment or other avenues outside of Japan, would that be best?
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Good question - I would say your job really plays a large part in your life here (as it does anywhere in the world). I’m lucky enough to be working remotely but I know others who have long commutes and lots of overtime. I wouldn’t say it’s the most challenging part of living here though, if I could pinpoint any single thing it would be the language/culture barrier. Not speaking Japanese really will make so many aspects of life here extremely challenging but fortunately it’s within each persons power to learn Japanese if they desire to live here.
@She-Jinping
Ай бұрын
Great Video. I gave an interview last month but it didn't go as I had planned. The Job was Devops based Role main skill was Kubernetes. I am currently working in India with close to 2.5 years of experience in Cloud Infra(OnPremises & AWS) and Kubernetes. What about this type of Job roles in Japan? Tbf I do have networking skills and server building skills as most of my work is Building on Premises Servers (my employer has their own DataCentre/DC) and then turning it over to customer for their use. I wanna move to Japan so bad but there's basically no opportunity without visiting Japan in person or learning the language.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Data center jobs sound like they would be a good fit with your experience! There are other cloud support roles here but they may or may not require Japanese ability. I think if you’re applying from overseas it’s challenging because your competing with people who are already in Japan and many companies prefer this as it’s much easier to employ somewhere who is set up here than to risk bringing someone over who may not even like living here. Sometimes, doing what you can to get a visa to get here first will make job hunting much easier.
@She-Jinping
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan Hey btw you should link your LinkedIn in KZitem or put the link in the description. Because I'd Like to send you a connect request.
@zenrac9182
15 күн бұрын
Damn, I have the same paradox but at home!
@noseboop4354
Ай бұрын
Is your foreigner job stat based on western foreigners? Because the overwhelming majority of foreigners are from asian countries such as China, Korea, the Philippines and Vietnam, very few of them could teach English. They tend to work in warehouses, factories, farms, IT and convenience stores.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Sorry I should have clarified it was mainly regarding English speaking jobs that foreigners take. You’re right though, most foreign workers here are from other Asian countries. They tend to actually have a pretty high level of Japanese though and many of those jobs they work in like factories of convenience stores usually require Japanese ability.
@markholland6657
15 күн бұрын
would love to visit there but not sure I'd want to live there... have heard many reports/stories that its not so welcoming to foreigners on a long term basis!!
@Retro-Japan
14 күн бұрын
I think it is but also it’s important to be aware you need to adjust yourself to the local culture and customs
@MurtadhaJlil
Ай бұрын
Is it hard to find free WiFi in Japan?
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
No it’s available in most places except the countryside
@MurtadhaJlil
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan is there any specific app I need download it android?
@Mefistosteles484
28 күн бұрын
3:50. Beautiful skyline. Where is this?
@Retro-Japan
27 күн бұрын
Absolutely nowhere special at all 😅 it’s out in a very small city in Chiba
@Mefistosteles484
27 күн бұрын
@@Retro-Japan I like it anyway.
@EdenDGarden
22 күн бұрын
Your intro got me. +1 sub
@Dolphin_Nicholas
Ай бұрын
Thank you 👍 definitely struggling with the job Market. Hope I land something soon.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Persistence is definitely key. I hope it works out for you mate 🤝
@KoKousei2023
24 күн бұрын
The view is so amazing, where did you shoot it from
@Retro-Japan
24 күн бұрын
Thanks you! Various locations actually. Last part is Kansai rinkai park!
@janvanspauwen7792
23 күн бұрын
If you already know that Japanese who have been abroad for a certain period of time (several years) have a huge difficulty to be accepted again. They call it reintegration. There are unversitarian studies on this subject. Then, what do you expect from the attitude of Japan towards foreigners?
@sososo28
Ай бұрын
ちなみに1つ言えることは日本人同士でも他人は他人。話すことも触れることもない。
@geoleo2597
14 күн бұрын
Very good points you raise. It is a totally different culture there. It’s even different from most other Asian cultures for that matter. Permanence Paradox. I’ve even done the opposite. Purchasing items where I currently live yet knowing or thinking that I’m moving away. 🤔 Japan has always been a conformist society. That’s why many Japanese that do not fit the typical narrative are sometimes outcasts. So being a foreigner even more so excludes them. However the Japanese are also very polite and respectful. So while a foreigner may not always be accepted wholly they will still be treated with respect
@YutaBLv
Ай бұрын
How do people still have an issue with a language barrier when AI exists
@user-vg2mm8jv2j
Ай бұрын
AI voice translation will likely become widespread faster than Japanese people can learn English.
@chiku-wa
23 күн бұрын
Japanese society is like a "Philharmonic" symphony orchestra with a long history. By suppressing "individuality" and valuing "harmony," we have maintained a safe and orderly society, but there are many detailed rules and manners that must be followed, making it one of the most difficult countries for foreigners to live in. It will definitely be a struggle. (Google Translate)
@eloiseprays
Ай бұрын
Family GPs are a thing of the past in the uk, you get what your given! Do children get free medical care?
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Is that so? I left Japan when I was 21 so I actually had to ask around (I actually made a Reddit post on it 😂) to see what the current state of health care is like in the UK now since my experiences were largely based on my childhood and teenage years. Most people agree the quality is good but the issues largely are the wait times.
@eloiseprays
Ай бұрын
@@Retro-Japan oh it's definitely got worse, even the once so quiet towns now feel overpopulated. And if you need to book an appointment for a certain reason I.e blood test, your looking at waiting months! So pharmacists are allowed to diagnose now for strep ect (you're probably not aware of that). Medical healthcare is free for children though which is always a plus ♥
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
@@eloiseprays that’s interesting to hear but it’s also a shame it has gone this way. Hopefully better funding will improve things but I don’t imagine it will take effect anytime soon. While I have hit and miss experiences here, I at least know if I felt a doctor wasn’t good I can easily get a second opinion very easily.
@KanemiX3
Ай бұрын
Pace your sentences my man, otherwise good reflective video. Many westerners move Japan with a go big or go home attitude, and an American like entrepreneurship mentality of making it BIG, end up hating Japan when they realize it doesn't work the same way as their home country.... it be like that, either they find a new happiness or be stuck with the same mentality no mater where they go. The same thing happened in Vietnam and Thailand.
@Retro-Japan
Ай бұрын
Good advice. I think Japan is not the country you want to come for if you’re looking to get rich (not to say that isn’t impossible). Being flexible and adaptive to the culture is super important otherwise resisting it will lead to frustration and dissatisfaction
@epat9397
28 күн бұрын
Always seems to be young and privileged people that have those initial issues since they are used to living off of their parents money. They get to take these long holidays they usually don't pay for.
@user-fc5rj6be1d
9 күн бұрын
Hello I'm British and 12 I am learning Japanese a little because I want to live there when I'm older if any one nose the ansewr to this question how long will it take for me to speak fluently in Japanese and read it and wirt it and understand what they say to me thanks
@Retro-Japan
8 күн бұрын
It can take different amounts of time depending on how much you study but generally native level fluency can take 5-10 years but you can definitely get to a high conversational level in less time than that
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