The man made some good points. They might be tough to hear but it's reality. Why would a man who has no kids and can get women who also have no kids get with a woman who has this drama? Unless as he said nobody else wants him. And I know it's unfortunate because many of these single mothers are good people but ask yourself would you encourage your son to put himself in that situation especially if he's young, I wouldn't encourage my nephew to do that. Young ladies please be careful and stop having sex with men whom you don't know or who have bad character and who you are not married to.
@meatballmechanic
Жыл бұрын
KEEP PREACHING THE GOSPEL!! You know your relaying facts when people get butt hurt
@supremehealthtotalmindbody7360
2 жыл бұрын
70% of this problem can be solved if women and men stop having sex with people they don't know and are not married to. You can't go wrong if you follow what the Bible says and it said no fornication but people deviated from that instruction, got themselves in trouble and want to complain now.
@odadahokello.2930
9 ай бұрын
Spot on!
@chickynuggies2739
7 ай бұрын
Imagine marrying for sex then you realize the sex is trash or they’re not even into you enough to ever get wet or want to sleep with you, what happens next? Do you divorce first or go cheat with someone you’re sexually compatible with?
@juliusmcbean1611
Жыл бұрын
Single mom not looking for love. They looking for help 😂. Men create your own family and be proud. I’m from America 🇺🇸 and we facing single mothers crisis 😮
@Artburn360-Trojanhorse
Ай бұрын
Cool
@physician830
2 жыл бұрын
My advice to all men out Thea. Neva I repeat neva date a single mother
@kyokushabashine7193
2 жыл бұрын
I see many against his opinions buh he is right somehow . These facts remain , deep inside as a single mum she is praying to God silently to change the father of her children and build a bond with his children ,No one wants to grow up in a broken famliy. The society also makes hard for single moms to thrive . This whole thing,only God can settle it .He understands us better
@roninstormYT
2 жыл бұрын
one my cousins 2 off them one married off 5 kids she was happy and joyful too be around him after the wedding off my cousin she turned too bitter not spending money on my cousin . she wants too spend money on her not him or not on the kids . also she later divorced her thanks too our aunt from my dad side she a lwayer helped him . the same aunt help another console her nephew on my dads side he married a single mom off 1 child one she has one she was good too be around and then AFTER THE WEDDING AGAIN show her true color bitter depressed and yelling all the time wanted too put child support on his ass he later did not got childsupport did not lose his house or stuff cause off our aunt how helpped them they pretty much try too scam them too dry there money . boy they saved
@candacesmith5572
2 жыл бұрын
Ok I am done with this one. Once again all single Moms aren't having a revolving door with men. That's what I hear often. Or are you getting back with your ex. If I was interested in reconciling I wouldn't be wasting another guy's time. I might need to just assume single life is permanent. From what I've seen and experienced heal and grow my relationship/marriage with God/Jesus.👍
@omnipotentwiz5101
2 жыл бұрын
Please get married to Jesus. It would do men a lot of good. No real man deserves a used up good when there are millions of beautiful and available single ladies out there. The only reason men come to you is to pump and dump.
@francisthomas5563
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@wendylinemuvhevhi9622
5 ай бұрын
Wooow am glad there is a God who knows best there is still hope for a single mother in Jesus Christ humans are Wicked but God is merciful and he knows why am a single mother
@andrewmuigai6573
10 ай бұрын
Kikuyu men should not marry kikuyu single mums utajipata unalea watoto wa kabila zingine ni gutee
@gw7768
2 жыл бұрын
This is bs. A woman can be a single mom for many reasons, widowed, divorced, separated, never married, raped etc the problem is that we have a patriarchal society expecting accomodating answers. And, we are asking men....so are single dad's also looked at this way? No, they r seen as heroes and brave for daring to bring up kids alone. Ya right! Anyway, this fake person doesn't do the topic justice. Try Robert Burale. He has the authority, experience, maturity, growth for difficult topics
@laryclassics0189
2 жыл бұрын
He is taking about majority Single mothers are very toxic
@majixwahenga9874
2 жыл бұрын
Facts dont care about your feelings....patriarchy kosokoso
@charlesnewland7657
2 жыл бұрын
Single mothers are a bad deal they just are
@blasiomuhinda5913
2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately most women are single moms not because of the facts you stated, but poor choices. Statistics say so. Look at the US for instance. Most women getting babies with thugs and now raising the kids on their own. They sleep with IRRESPONSIBLE men expecting to make them responsible, and now the other normal upright men are supposed to accept this behavior???
@tajjayan1623
2 жыл бұрын
Why should a man have responsibility of another mans child and zero authority over the child ,for dating single dads ladies wont have the authority or responsibility
@sandranamono2647
2 жыл бұрын
Man full of wisdom.
@remnant.watchman
2 жыл бұрын
Nice but the volume is low.
@gloryyoung5944
2 жыл бұрын
As a single mom am so HEART BROKEN BY THIS MAN IN STUDIO...YAANI IT SO PAINFUL 💔...my baby daddy dumped when I got pregnant and said he wasn't ready yet while we were dating he always Kept saying that he wanted me to bear children when I got pregnant he denied the pregnancy later I realised he had 3 more children with different women and to make matter worse he would never date a woman with a child ....all children are boys and all looks like him...yaani you Host I don't like your view of life and what you trying to do to women I general...we MOTHERS ARE NOT THE SAME AND DEFINITELY HAVE DIFFERENT STORIES. ..
@laryclassics0189
2 жыл бұрын
Marry before you carry
@Ndondiafrika254
2 жыл бұрын
shida ni, huyo baba mtoto akirudi what guarantee does your new man have that you wont dump him and 'reconcile'
@omnipotentwiz5101
2 жыл бұрын
Look at your comment. You’re very bitter.This is exactly why we avoid you single moms. You are openly very bitter and vindictive.
@charlesnewland7657
2 жыл бұрын
Again a woman makes a bad choice but we men should just except it ???
@MyNicole59
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this but this is why you should marry before you have children. Get to know someone more
@misscamara12
2 жыл бұрын
Why can’t single mothers just marry single dads or divorced dads? They will match with men in a similar stage of life. It’s too much to expect some man who hasn’t fathered his own kids to invest his time and resources into another man’s kids. They need to date men 40+ who’ve already had their own kids. Also, they should also stay single for a few years (3-5 years) and focus on their kids before getting involved with the next man. Their main priority should be their kids not men.
@dekev7503
2 жыл бұрын
Because even single dad's don't want single moms. And since men, especially successful men that can support a family, are the ones that choose who to marry, and why will they choose single mothers over childless woman?
@misscamara12
2 жыл бұрын
@@dekev7503 Most single dads are broke and won’t be able to support more kids with a childless woman. I don’t think a childless woman should pair up with a single dad unless he’s VERY rich. Being a stepmom is a huge burden bc you’ll be expected to look after kids that are not yours and deal with their mom interfering. It’s only worth it if he’s wealthy enough to provide a lifestyle with nannies and housekeepers so you won’t have to take on the burden of his kids. However, the average single dad will be a liability for a childless woman.
@dekev7503
2 жыл бұрын
@@misscamara12 1st of all, women are not typically attracted to broke men, whether they have kids or not. Most single dads that have custody of their kids are sound financially. Otherwise the court typically wouldn't award them custody. If a man can support a family and is a single dad, it wouldn't be a problem for most women, in fact, it often seems like it would be a bonus. On many occasions I've heard women say that seeing the way a man handles his kids turns them on. Men on the otherhand are really turned of by a woman that has kids. They often look at them as promiscuous insufferable lacking in accountability. They will sleep with them ( because in his mind, if she has kids, then she's sexually open ) but the idea of officially committing to them and taking on the responsibility of another man's kid is utterly repulsive.
@misscamara12
2 жыл бұрын
@@dekev7503 I think a lot men men like to deceive themselves into thinking most women actually want to be stepmothers. We don’t. Some women may tolerate it to get the wife title but they don’t commonly treat those kids well. Typically men don’t have primary custody which is why some women may not mind bc she knows his kids may not be around much.
@dekev7503
2 жыл бұрын
@@misscamara12 no one says women want to be step mothers. Most women don't care or will overlook the fact that a man has children as long as he is rich enough to support a family. MOST MEN on the otherhand WILL Never overlook that the fact that a woman has kids no matter how rich ( women's money doesn't really mean much to most men anyway) or how much of a wife material she is.
@charlesnewland7657
2 жыл бұрын
Never date a single mother ever
@joanwandia9427
2 жыл бұрын
Hii ni ngombe mumeleta studio
@alliwishis_2
Жыл бұрын
I guess he is not really accommodating is he not
@ezrabasil654
Жыл бұрын
Reality is painful
@BituJuma
10 ай бұрын
Truth is bitter damn
@makanacarolyn2012
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I was in the studio for this conversation. I disagree with our guest today. Men have access to marriage and women have access to sex. So this notion that women solely and ultimately decide who to be with is not entirely true. Let both parties own their role in the breakdown of the relationship.
@trustself8476
2 жыл бұрын
😂
@simphiwesibusiso4474
2 жыл бұрын
Thought Kenya is better than South Africa but same problem bad western influence has really catch up our society
@charlesnewland7657
2 жыл бұрын
No child gets born with out the mother's say so so this man is right if she was a widowed ok but she just has kids no way
@yarnvinecrafts2368
2 жыл бұрын
Yaani uyu msee anasema ati men who are capable of being with single moms have got to be hump n dump, have deep seated issues na wenye physical disabilities ndio watu tu wako na potential ya kudate single moms??? Excuse me for what I'm about to say but most single moms wanajielewa because wanajua wao ndio baba na bado mama ya watoto wao na SI LAZIMA uolewe ndio mtoto akuwe morally upright as they grow. F*** his myopic opinions! Also, Switch tv 👎.You guys can do a better job on mirroring the society positively on this topic. We're in 2021 for fucks sake. Damn.
@omnipotentwiz5101
2 жыл бұрын
You’re an angry used up single mother. Who hurt you?
@davisnyansikera6760
2 жыл бұрын
This must be a single mum speaking..this gentleman is speaking the truth that we never want to listen to
@Kimutai831
2 жыл бұрын
Its the reality whether you accept or not
@hellespont1
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry but reality is bitter.. Nobody really cares about your feelings and lamentations. Nobody cares about your burdens just accept reality and adjust accordingly. Life is harsh for everyone...
@chickynuggies2739
7 ай бұрын
Who forced you to watch this? 😂 the bitterness in some single moms
@blessedmum7317
2 жыл бұрын
I disagree with Odada
@laryclassics0189
2 жыл бұрын
You can desagree with him but you can’t disagree with the reality
@oceandove
Жыл бұрын
@@laryclassics0189 the reality is there’s a lot of men who consider themselves a Christian, yet CHOOSE to judge, stereotype, and hate women who become single mothers, while completely disregarding the man’s involvement in the situation that left them as a single mother . Pity they are so deceived to actually believe they are a Godly man. Jesus forgives and restores to those who repent and turn to Him. Including single mothers.
@laryclassics0189
Жыл бұрын
@@oceandove reality doesn’t care about your religion, stupidity is where you use Christianity to win an argument And for your information women are more religious than men just from study statistics .Let’s argue with facts
@oceandove
Жыл бұрын
@@laryclassics0189 you’re the stupid one if you don’t believe God exists. There’s a fact right there. But that’s a whole other debate, you must not have noticed , this is a Christian show so why are you even here, since you’re not a believer? Here’s another one, just because some men choose to hate single mothers, doesnt mean all men do. There are tons of decent, secure men who fall in love with, cherish, and marry a single mother. They man up where the losers, abusers and deadbeat fathers of these children abandon ship, having had their fun and running away from the responsibilities of their actions, but of course , you don’t care to mention anything about their involvement in any of this. No matter what anyones spiritual beliefs, hating on anyone is morally wrong. Hating on single mothers is purely chauvinistic and just goes to show what an ass these men are.
@laryclassics0189
Жыл бұрын
@@oceandove Wow! A whole Christian using abusing language ,what a spiritual reply 🤣🤣anyway you’ve just confirmed my point
@mikebutler7121
2 жыл бұрын
Smh🤦stay single
@dolphineayoti5302
2 жыл бұрын
First of all single mums never made themselves to be single you men you are the corse you mean it's better to marry a lady who pretends to have no kids and yet amejazaa choo that's single mom's are the best always
@laryclassics0189
2 жыл бұрын
Never
@kimkeymoney478
2 ай бұрын
I dont mind one who aborted atleast she used her mind.No man wants to raise seeds that aint his.None.
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