Who am I? What matters to me? What do I value? See yourself without judgment. Know yourself. Accept yourself. Appreciate yourself. Honor yourself.
@rapethriver11
3 жыл бұрын
And show yourself
@mars1783
3 жыл бұрын
Amen, Queen!!! Love ya Ladies in our
@shariangreen2205
2 жыл бұрын
YES!!!
@AnniesLocs
7 жыл бұрын
As women sometimes we neglect ourselves trying to ensure those around us are loved. then we blame those for not returning the same love back to us. What I have realised about myself from this powerful video was that I was the one not returning the love back to myself, I was my first neglector.
@jmmartin65
5 жыл бұрын
YES! it is sad and it REALLY hurts ... learning this is my hardest lesson!
@nataliezuniga943
5 жыл бұрын
Hard to admit thank you for expressing that
@LRamey
4 жыл бұрын
Organic Locs very powerful observation 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕
@Queen-dg2ff
4 жыл бұрын
Yes ,very true. We expect from people what we actually need from ourselves.That what makes us a needy persons 😕I’ll have a pen and a paper and start to write down 😋👍🏻
@priyankachowdary3395
4 жыл бұрын
I wish you lots and lots of love! I hope you see miracles happen to you and may you receive opportunities that helps you become the best, I mean the best version of yourself! ♥️♥️😄 Wishing you a very very very good day Organic Locs
@fayetaylor1998
7 жыл бұрын
This right here-------------> How you treat yourself trains others how their going to treat you.
@Shawnmyrelle
7 жыл бұрын
F. L. Taylor that's not at all what she said.
@fayetaylor1998
7 жыл бұрын
I understand what she's saying. She's talking about the relationships we have with ourselves. And learning who "we" are. The relationships we involve ourselves in Is a reflection of the relationship we're having with ourselves. But she also mentions how people are trained to treat you based on how you treat yourself. Listen to the video at 11:42. Have a peaceful day!
@Shawnmyrelle
7 жыл бұрын
F. L. Taylor I heard her saying that we all have a dark side that we don't want others to see- and when we see characteristics of this dark side in others, we deal with them in judgmental and spiteful manner. This is light being shed on our dark side. Then she gave her solution to how to accept this in others by embracing ourselves without judgement and not being critical. I think that's the part at 11:42 where she put it all in one phrase, but without listening to the whole video, that phrase can be taken many different ways. I was wrong for denying your experience and what you heard. I still have to work on me more.
@shontabennett2842
4 жыл бұрын
@@Shawnmyrelle powerful!!!
@MP-vf8qz
4 жыл бұрын
My favorite part as well. I need to be better to myself.
@amaliathatgirl9248
7 жыл бұрын
Excellent. I been neglecting myself to make other people happy for years now.
@genesiasheree
7 жыл бұрын
Amalia A me too and that has to stop.
@mshill2406
7 жыл бұрын
Amalia A I think a lot of people have that same issue. You are not alone but just realize your life is your own.
@amaliathatgirl9248
7 жыл бұрын
Genesia Bush yes hun
@amaliathatgirl9248
7 жыл бұрын
Ms Hill your right, thank you.
@princesscrystalisnice5417
7 жыл бұрын
Amalia A Its makes you feel miserable when you neglect yourself for others who don't know how to treat you right. It's very important to know yourself worth .
@kimturner1963
3 жыл бұрын
Until we realize the power our thoughts and beliefs hold, we remain victims of our circumstances.
@AahyiSam
7 жыл бұрын
I was connecting with men who show up, start off so well, and then become inconsistent. My aha was that I never show up for myself 100% consistently. For my kids, yes, my job, friends, clients yes. But I rarely finish up little things I state just for me....Eshe kpupo, Iya mi.
@arielsavon
4 жыл бұрын
Ai Sam OMG yes! After I watching the video and reading your comment that’s my truth too. I’ve been trying to figure out why guys always seem wonderful from the start and then transform into the opposite of what you want. And now your needs aren’t being met. I got a lot to talk about with myself tonight 😩
@mars1783
3 жыл бұрын
Me too.... womp womp.... they can sometimes be wimp wimpers.... instead of women whisperers..... well, I mean.... AND FOLLOW THROUGH, WITH CONSISTENT NATURE rather than the "show her off" or not NATURE, baby backlash over Kanye West n I.... take a cold shower, apologize to ur mom's n send a great day message or flowers, to your wives n not just ur girlfriends.... I have experienced some trauma, HAhaha..... NOT SORRY LONG WINDED N WINDING UP to concur with my future Clients!!! God bless you
@danya8292
7 жыл бұрын
Shining the light on our shadow...Whew! Every Relationship that you've had in your life is a reflection of the relationship that you have with yourself! Preach Iyanla!
@ericajohnson5219
7 жыл бұрын
I had to listen to this 3 times so that I can understand what she was really saying. I have some work to do! Thank you Ms. Iyanla!
@cedricjennings8360
7 жыл бұрын
Powerful! What's amazing is that many people don't realize these points until much later in life, after experiencing hurt after hurt. I'm so glad I have and am learning this earlier on in life.
@_heyimbritt
7 жыл бұрын
This was so deep. I'm on a journey of shedding weight and finding who I am in the process. I will definitely be doing this. Thanks so much for sharing
@monalisasmiles1978
7 жыл бұрын
Brittany Barnett Great Job on both accomplishments. Your journey sounds like mines.
@ndjubilant8391
7 жыл бұрын
I am glad you call it a journey of shedding weight. So am I, one day at a time, on a journey to shed weight.
@Wednesday3665
7 жыл бұрын
Dear Soul Sisters Tv good luck love ❤️
@GinAkiraKun
2 жыл бұрын
Just seeing this comment 5 years later. I hope you found yourself, found your worth, and if you didn't shed that weight, I hope you found a way to accept and love yourself the way you are! All my love to you!
@misskhan1629
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Iyanla x I grew up with absent parents, moving from foster home to sleeping on friends sofas. I am now a university graduate with a career I love ... but still, I have a lot of anchors that need freeing and many bridges that need crossing (not burning)..... I thought I knew myself, until I saw your videos and was able to pick up on key points which I could relate to that can take me away from the false image that I carry around of myself in my mind.... I am ready to start this journey at 25..... You have freed me a little of the self doubt and self hatred I have.... rather to accept it and explore it ..... I owe you my gratitude x
@princesscrystalisnice5417
7 жыл бұрын
Miss Khan Awwwwww all things are possible with God. Know your self worth don't try to please people to be accepted and in the end you might end up neglecting yourself. Keep good dear
@michelehaney5860
6 жыл бұрын
Miss Khan I'm so proud of you!
@alinaarachnaphobic
5 жыл бұрын
💙💙THANK YOU FOR YOUR STRENGTH AND LIGHT💙💙💙
@cynthiamichelelowe
5 жыл бұрын
I am a foster parent my daughter, she came into my life at 9. She was severely abused in every way possible in her younger life. When I expressed a desire to adopt her she refused saying that she wanted a family with a mom and a dad. At the time I was unmarried so I did not proceed. She was later adopted by a white family (that detail is important later). She went off to her new life to live happily ever after. Well it was just more of the same she was sexually abused by the "father" emotionally, & verbally abused by the "mother" and took on the role of and indentured servent. Finally at 13 she reported what was going on and the police called me. I asked if she could come back to my home. She lived here until she graduated from high school. There were then and now MANY problems I took her to thereopy but once grown she wouldn't go. Now she is 26 and a mess. My question to you is how do you handle the aftermath of foster care, and all that comes with it? How can I help her?
@wandadacounselor3047
5 жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL lady. I wish you all the best🙏🏾💞
@DAJackson
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you I have my pen and paper to do this. I am the hardest person to myself. I am trying to learn to love me first. it begins today.
@shannellemorel1859
5 жыл бұрын
How did this go
@englishcarmouche278
7 жыл бұрын
All this time I've been robing myself from getting to know me but giving all I thought was me to others. It's so unfortunate because now I am in the biggest hurricane of my life. I'm ready to meet me... ☺
@shaqj.8197
4 жыл бұрын
English Carmouche ❤️❤️❤️
@kathlenegosselin4742
2 жыл бұрын
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@margiedaniels489
7 жыл бұрын
this is on time!!!! I hope you are working on a book about the SELF!!!
@tamotiafranks1922
7 жыл бұрын
THIS!!!! Spoke to me on so many levels. Almost everything she addressed, I was having issues with from my lack of belief in myself to berating myself for not being further in life financially, emotionally, mentally than I am. I am so OK with it now for I know that things are moving as I have been on this personal growth journey. Baby steps girlfriend. I'm still making moves. Thanks so much Iyanla!!!
@LynisaStark
4 жыл бұрын
I felt like she was talking to me personally. Such a great communicator and wholesome spirit!
@solinspired4428
7 жыл бұрын
Iya, I wish you were my godmother, I know I would truly heal the wounds I still fight. I constantly do self reflection and I'm hard on myself. "Do I love myself?" I try everyday and it's a struggle.
@sekayiperkins7448
7 жыл бұрын
You have answered a life long question. People for years have said love yourself without definition or explanation or instruction. I m an empty nester in a resting phase with a lot of time on my hands. I know I need to work on myself but I didn't know how until now. I have my homework. I will do my work. THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH.
@nikitanewberry
7 жыл бұрын
I'm on a full journey to finding the relationship I'm having with myself...I'm learning to love me more each second...minute...hour...etc...I needed to hear this...Namaste...Blessings...
@MelanatedGoddess09
3 жыл бұрын
It’s been 3 years. Any update?
@michelec3741
2 жыл бұрын
Iyanla’s explanation of how people mirror us is the best that I have ever heard. I think it might have sunk in this time! Thank you Iyanla for sharing your wisdom, and the comments are very helpful, too.
@djchonny
7 жыл бұрын
11:41 eye opening, needed these series so much. Thank YOU!
@kayalex83
7 жыл бұрын
Yes, that was speaking to me .
@brentduanefoster
7 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@phylliscasey5626
7 жыл бұрын
I'm still suffering with a broken heart from my cheating boy friend. My heart still hurt. Thank God for this beautiful woman's wisdom.
@EyesLikeBlues1
7 жыл бұрын
She means that our fellow human beings reflect our flaws, imperfections or adversity and it annoys us. Yes, I've known that for long. All the same, thank you so much for being such a helper. You are building me up a lot.
@healingypsy
7 жыл бұрын
Thats awesome Iyanla. Perhaps the best way to bring the right person into my life is to really know myself and love myself (not judge). Thank you Iyanla. xx
@KatieAJ
6 жыл бұрын
Wow...the way you speak...is so comforting and brings healing. What a gift you have
@Camille_111_44
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! The Universe is always on time!!
@christinac9389
7 жыл бұрын
Always can count on you to keep me grounded. Only person I've ever idolized. You've helped me through some pretty rough times! Your wisdom is greatly appreciated!
@shernellwillingham2451
7 жыл бұрын
I adore you and the time you take to share your wisdom! Life changing 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽 Thank you!
@francinelittle7260
7 жыл бұрын
That was on point!! Thanks for the encouraging words.
@ohsnapitspat6270
7 жыл бұрын
the words you speak is a direct reflection of who you are!
@Chideezy
7 жыл бұрын
I love your delivery Iyanla! It's so loving, nurturing and healing. I love you! Your messages are always right on time!
@floraazevedo349
Жыл бұрын
You are my fairy godmother and helping me through a tough time of finding myself again after years of moulding myself to other people. In reality as you’ve said people are a reflection of you and how you see yourself. I need to remind me that I am the prize and I am worth of prosperity and happiness. Thank you so much for yiur beautiful insights.
@Tiffany_Channell
7 жыл бұрын
I definitely needed to hear this. Thank you for your inspiration and motivation. Better days are ahead for me!!
@DanyaSteele
7 жыл бұрын
So beautiful and right on-point, Iyanla! Per usual. Love this series. :) Thank you for sharing and showing up! 💜
@DCKA05
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! i needed this. Blessings to you! ❤
@missproverbs3148
7 жыл бұрын
This is Deep👏🏾 Thank Yooh❤️
@tajaforrester7407
7 жыл бұрын
I often tell myself if I didn't had my son at an early age, I would've had my degree and I would've been in the career that I've set out to be in. This message opened my eyes. Thank you, these are more than words of inspiration it's like a blessing to hear them.
@ebony_avae
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, this was much needed.
@maguiedossantos2925
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, it helped me in so many ways
@FergieFlavor
7 жыл бұрын
That was a POWERFUL message!!!!!!!! Soul Stirring!!
@shellyortiz1977
6 жыл бұрын
I can get enough of her wisdom she truly makes me reflect about my relationship that i have for my self wish is pretty bad but i will work on that to make it better
@lynsaymabe2814
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Iyanla! I was so looking forward today's episode and my expectactions have been fulfilled! You always got the right word for each life's situation! Already looking forward next week's topic!
@francisperez8165
7 жыл бұрын
the more episodes l see the more inspired l feel
@noamaxim
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Thank u.
@babymoon555
5 жыл бұрын
"Brooklyn crazy" lol I love it. And I love and appreciate your content beyond measure, Iyanla :)
@listminusv
7 жыл бұрын
DEEPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP! thank you sooooooooooo much!!!!! soo soo much! Keeping you in my prayers!
@billiebillie678
7 жыл бұрын
This was excellent! Thank you Ms. Iyanla!
@elzanyrichter2757
3 жыл бұрын
wow...I really needed to hear that..it really opened my eyes..thank you
@SJawaher
7 жыл бұрын
oh lord ! am gettin' chillzzzz, thank u for sharing this Dear Iyanla, i am honoured to confess that i am having a good and beautiful relatinship with me , it s been a long road, but i feel the connection...
@SoufulRon
6 жыл бұрын
Hi Queen J Jay I'm happy for you. How did you end up feeling the connection?
@onwana1234
7 жыл бұрын
You look great Mama...
@LINDISIMAHeredia
5 жыл бұрын
Always such great advice. Thank you, Miss Iyanla!
@latoyafleming2992
6 жыл бұрын
Wow... I guess this is what Paul felt like once he wasn't Saul anymore. Thank you. I had a serious epiphany at 7:22 - 7:52. I really appreciate this at age 19. You got yourself a new subscriber. God bless. Thank you so much.
@pathall9757
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, been doing some soul searching myself, on self-care so this helps me a lot ❤
@Transformational_change
3 жыл бұрын
Adding this to my personal work. Thank you so much. You are such a blessing as always💗🔥🙏🌈
@stefaniecurry5804
3 жыл бұрын
This is so GOOD! I NEEDED it!! ❤️ 💕 ❤️
@346rrr
7 жыл бұрын
Wow, what an eye opener. This is deep. I needed this. Thank you Iyanla. Truly inspiring.
@jrbon4619
7 жыл бұрын
I needed to watch is today. Thank you!
@milenacwiklinska7292
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for that. Essential learning. I am so grateful to be able to receive this guidance and to grow. ❤️🙏🏼
@audreymoses7243
7 жыл бұрын
She is right on point. and straight to the heart.. love it!!!
@antonzanker
7 жыл бұрын
What a great teaching! Thank you so much!
@luigitanynano
7 жыл бұрын
Love it! just what I needed today! thanks!
@brentduanefoster
7 жыл бұрын
On point and on time, as usual, Miss Iyanla.
@Silkyslim48
6 жыл бұрын
I love this video Iyanla oh my goodness this video stepped on my toes. I gotta do this for my self. Thank you!
@piyushbafna345
7 жыл бұрын
This is really so powerful and insightful!!!! Thank u so much.
@rolandataylor2307
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed this today.
@missbemi3614
7 жыл бұрын
This bring tears to my eyes- thank you, Iyanla🌹😊
@mamaluvscrafts5443
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom and encouragement...I'm just beginning my journey to find my authentic self and you have inspired me to see it through.
@NaturalBeautiMe
7 жыл бұрын
GREAT VID IYANLA!!!! These are things that I have said to myself and I have learnt to accept me and I feel so much better
@Courtn2ee
7 жыл бұрын
I almost cried, this was amazing !!
@NeleKirsipuu
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Iyanla!
@frankie5862
3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today!! I’m going through a tough time at the moment, and I’m lashing out at people who might need it, but as you say, I know that I see things in them that bring out the worst in me!! Thanks for having a talk with me, and letting me see that I’m trying to understand how I can go forward in life, and be at peace with myself & my life. I know it’s part of my life lessons and I’ll be back to listen to more of your wise words! 💕😊
@DammitRaqueL
7 жыл бұрын
well that was deep lol, wasnt ready for that. what i needed to hear, this is a great chanel. thank you iyanla!
@Kingofmyworld87
7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful, Iyanla. Thank You
@yolireals4992
7 жыл бұрын
God bless you! This was one of the first episodes that i watched since subscribing to your channel. I'm so glad I did because I so needed to hear this message today. You were definitely speaking to me today, and i took everything in. I felt it in my heart, mind, and soul. You are so blessed, we need beautiful strong black women like you around to help encourage us when we're down. I thank you so much, and you now have a faithful listener.
@tastyblackberry6845
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!
@deslynneroberts1543
7 жыл бұрын
So timely. Thank you Iyanla
@SHicks-lg8hy
7 жыл бұрын
💖Thank You For This Word Of Light, Truth And Love💖
@pranjalitare
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the garland of these wise & loving words! I am ready to start this journey of a wonderful & healthy relationship with myself at 30!!
@Abydosienne
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. I needed it.
@letitiaferguson9117
6 жыл бұрын
Omg I just love how you get to the core of oneself(myself). Thank you God for showing me when I didn't want to look and work on.Iyanla let he continue to use you. Love you!
@mrs.greene2495
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you this helped my whole life!! No longer will I forget about ME!! Thank you Ms. Vanzant!! 🤗
@assuuwa3384
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this teaching! God bless you and your mission.
@donnahine9683
2 жыл бұрын
That was awesome. I never knew how to do this. Thank you!
@aliyahmisri
3 жыл бұрын
Every word of what you said is gold. Throughout the videos, I took my journal and pen and write down and do some homework- ended up with 4 pages of writing. Thank you so much Iyanla!
@soul2soul504
7 жыл бұрын
I needed this!
@denisemalcolm4617
7 жыл бұрын
Really needed this really spoke to me.
@kynsley1890
7 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this! 😊
@maxtheknife
7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this series!!!
@cprime4097
6 жыл бұрын
Iyanla I love you so much! I just began the journey of self love and watching your videos has brought me to tears more than once. Your knowledge is invaluable and has helped wake me up out of a deep depression. You've done for me what therapists failed to do. I thank God for bringing you into my life!
@nokuthulakumalo9665
3 жыл бұрын
Wow👏🏽that was excellent, Thank you Iyanla may God bless you, truly appreciate your unselfishness in sharing your wisdom🙏🏽
@shannonholbrook1406
7 жыл бұрын
So timely and lovingly presented! Thank you so much. I sorta miss the original theme song it was heartfelt cheesy goodness!
@leefaulmann9259
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ms Vanzant 🙏. Peace be with you xx
@djuanjones7854
4 жыл бұрын
I was so down and out 😭 but this really did uplift my spirit. Thank you Ms. Inyanla.
@ayeshajamal762
3 жыл бұрын
Light bulb moment for me. When I always put others first ofcourse they will always put me second! That is what I have taught them (people pleasing). Up until this moment I was seeking external acceptance because I didn't realise I needed to accept myself for who I am instead I did what most of us do, I searched for it outside of me. No wonder I never got it :) it's not for anyone else to give me. Thank you for these lovely chats Iyanla 🥰 love and light 🌹
@saminabukhari7336
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, aunty thank you... just what I needed to hear this eve, blessings I trust you are well ♡
@josheniajohnson252
Жыл бұрын
I so love this and very much needed. I will carry this moment out forever. Thank you for giving your life so others may have life.
@nestagassama6744
7 жыл бұрын
My life is changing ! feeling so blessed to have the opportunity to hear your message. God bless you Iyanla Vanzant
@jaystan233
5 жыл бұрын
its 2019.Still Grateful Ms Iyanla💟
@greyarea7313
6 жыл бұрын
What you said in a matter of seconds open up the flood gates of redirecting my thoughts about ME and not this world! Thank you so much!!
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