Remember toxic or narcissis, theirs power in just walking away and going no contact,it means you're not going to put up with their bs, and stand your ground and once you stand your ground you will feel proud of yourself.
@malcolmwhite72
3 жыл бұрын
The No-Contract Rule: The Eight Most Effective Ways To Move On From An Ex: 1. The no-contract rule will not help you get your ex back. 2. It will suck. 3. Your silence speaks so much louder than any words could. 4. You will develop important emotional skills. 5. You will rediscover forgotten sources of happiness. 6. You'll be able to define your non-negotiable values. 7. No contact will bring you back to reality. 8. No contact will make you stronger and faster.
@rizwanqamar1974
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Great advice. I've done No-Contact , a complete cut off from my ex-family. I disappeared as though I never existed. It took me 22 years to take this decision. And you know what? I attracted completed strangers into my life afterwards. They value me, support me and respect me for the person I am. And not for my money, or outlook. When you take a leap, the net shows.
@alejandrofrade325
3 жыл бұрын
I think another aspect to no contact is related to friends in common. One of my best friends and his girlfriend introduced me to my now ex. After she braked up with me, I notice those friends treating me like a sad puppy, and gossiping to my ex about me. So I not only applied no contact with my ex, but with them and it has helped a lot. It's in times of hardships that you can see you genuinely cares for you and who only cares about gossip and shallow things.
@lovely-eh1bc
3 жыл бұрын
They have lots of supply's, they don't care about about no contract
@eleawood4083
3 жыл бұрын
Awww so ridiculous . Please brush up on your studies . Oh yes they do
@Adam-xs3ng
3 жыл бұрын
Harder in marriage with children but the rule still applies, otherwise you will never resolve. Also cut all toxic people from your life.
@catlady6938
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I needed to hear this today.
@jessicas.geiger3032
Жыл бұрын
4 months no contact.
@danaaya1856
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks SG, helpful as always. But how do you know when to give someone a second chance? When do you give someone the benefit of the doubt?
@garycordle5295
3 жыл бұрын
Depends on what they have done ✅ if their toxic or manipulation I myself wouldn't, but that's just me.
@igetbored4160
3 жыл бұрын
My ex boyfriend dumped on the 25th and i went no contact. 2 weeks later he sexted me and my dumb ass engaged. I've restarted no contact and am hoping to get to a full 30 days.
@almalopez5676
3 жыл бұрын
Well we got in a little dumb argument and the next day I wanted to talk about it but he never replied 😏 after no response for 3 days i sent a break up message, still no response its been 2 weeks of no contact. Im guessing he ghosted me 😟 this time IM DONE!
@thankyou1741
3 жыл бұрын
Should I walk away from my sibling? I have one little brother and I love him and he is keeping me connected to the rest of the family that’s scapegoats me and it’s destroying me. I feel like it’s life or death! Like I have to stay and be the living sacrifice or leave and escape but my brother will suffer. I’m 23 he is 16 what should I do? When I leave the scapegoat him. What do I do? How can I live with myself knowing I left my innocent 16 year old brother alone to be abused. He sees me like his mum sometimes so I don’t want him to feel abandoned. I’m not sure what to do
@Adam-xs3ng
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know your circumstances or the type of abuse you are getting. No abuse is acceptable in a loving family, physical abuse is a definite no, you should call the authorities on that. Please define Scape-goating in your situation. If it were me I would make sure they have no excuse to criticise me or my brother, live your best life. Then you know their words are unjust and have no meaning. Stay for your brother, stay strong together have each others backs, when he is 18 you can both leave together. If the abuse is serious get help from the authorities. Stay strong and safe. Please I am not qualified or have the understanding of your situation so please get professional help from a councillor to help you through this situation.
@susannconnelly7826
3 жыл бұрын
What are your thoughts of NO contact on both sides, however they don’t block one another?
@alejandrofrade325
3 жыл бұрын
Dont worry about what that person does, you can only control what you do. Be strong, breath and just focus on today.
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