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@gauravpanwar7098
Жыл бұрын
@@taasmr4203 agree
@chrisc4507
Жыл бұрын
You said men are single because men are bitter towards women because of reactions towards bad viral women which YOU contribute for money lmaooo
@timvanover8741
Жыл бұрын
@taasmr4203 bro this video is for men.. I highly doubt many women are listening to this. Plus us men do the same thing but with toxic narcissistic attractive women.
@karmenchong4054
Жыл бұрын
@@taasmr4203the 😮jijuhj it j
@tampabaycenter4926
Жыл бұрын
Discuss where Courtney? Link please 🙏
@Bombadil-ez9ns
Жыл бұрын
Whatever reasons other men have, I just want a woman who, coming home to her is better than coming home to silence and solitude. Until I find that, I will be happy to stay single.
@GameMusingsWithRaziel
Жыл бұрын
that doesnt exist brother lol
@bobbylee8730
Жыл бұрын
You're totally right
@dgwaters
Жыл бұрын
I’m with you there! I’m 49 and honestly it’s just my mom and me. My aunt and uncle move down south several years ago and my brother and his wife moved over seas in 2016. Not to sound grim, but when my mom is gone it’s just going to be me and I really don’t want to come home to an empty house. I’ve never really had luck with women so that makes it worse.
@Bombadil-ez9ns
Жыл бұрын
@@dgwaters Maybe get a dog? Always happy to see you.
@your_royal_highness
Жыл бұрын
Good luck with that. That is why my gf and I don’t live together.
@heftex8339
Жыл бұрын
“Being alone for a while is dangerous. It’s addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore.” Tom Hardy
@frankwhite6013
Жыл бұрын
Wow Iv been thinking about that lately. Being on your own gets better the longer your on your own 😂
@HuCuRuS
Жыл бұрын
Nah. I've been alone for 19 years and i'm about to commit suicide.
@TheJotaroKujo
Жыл бұрын
Oh you think loneliness is your ally? You merely adopted loneliness. I was born in it, molded by it. I didn't have anyone until I was already a man
@BANETheWalker
Жыл бұрын
@@TheJotaroKujoBANE supremecy
@hamilton9651
Жыл бұрын
I think humans in general adapt to the situations we find ourselves in. I was shy, socially awkward, and fearful to approach women in college, and they also saw my defects. So I never dated until my 30s, and by then I was only drawn to toxic women who destroyed me emotionally. I was sexually frustrated for decades, but all anyone ever told me was I needed God not a relationship. While I understand that from a theological perspective as being correct the lack of compassion and empathy was overwhelming. I no longer care to try anymore, and my genitourinary system no longer functions (which helps me). I am trying to repair my relationship with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! But the pain is real and I am struggling not to withdraw emotionally from everyone!
@phil7574
Жыл бұрын
I busted my ass from 18 to 32 to "make it" and now I'm expected to take the same women/type of woman seriously who wouldn't give me the time of day 5 or 10 years ago? Yeah, no thanks!
@zipperpig
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think that realization is the worst. I think men do NEED women... but typically when they're trying to build themselves up. That kind of support can be invaluable... And I think most men that had that support are willing to share their successes with that woman that got them through the dark times (I suppose, in that way, many women need men). But if they weren't there for you, I have a hard time with that. Kind of the same with old friends. I make new friends from time to time, and they're fine... but the guys that have been with me for decades hold a really special place in my heart. I'll go to mat for them, but not necessarily "the fun new person" I just met a year or two ago.
@cleanslate2247
Жыл бұрын
Do what I did and just have fun with them, just don't commit. The most sex and fun and good food happens when the woman is trying to get you to commit. Just date one after the other and enjoy different women. Yeah they get mad when you break up with them but so what.
@GearGolemTMF
Жыл бұрын
I agree with this sentiment. I didn't go from an overnight Walmart stocker to a senior analyst to suddenly become appealing to someone that didn't know I existed. I can self reflect however and think about and see the growth over said journey. I am a much better, more appealing man than I was in 2014. But the first sentiment still stands.
@THX5000
Жыл бұрын
If she didn't want you in her PRIME... Do not deal with her in her DECLINE.
@jacobtani9785
Жыл бұрын
@@cleanslate2247so basically act like a modern woman, yeah that’s not good advice, especially from a man.
@davidw.5185
Жыл бұрын
My middle son just turned 19 and has no interest in dating. He has watched his father and most of the older men he knows get drug through a divorce. He sees the young women on social media and observed their behavior. He watched his sister divorce a young man after one year. The list goes on and on. I can hardly blame his hesitation. The culture is a shit show.
@Swearengen1980
Жыл бұрын
And I'm sure your attitude about being drug through divorce and things he's heard you say, intentionally or not, had no impact on it at all.....
@davidw.5185
Жыл бұрын
@Swearengen1980 Most of the men they know have been taken to divorce by women they know. Are you saying there is no risk or that a 19 year old male can't see the risk in this "Me Too" "Believe all Women" culture. Are you this naive? Or just desperately simping for the liberal ladies who make up the majority of females? 🙄
@Superlegofighter101
Жыл бұрын
@@Swearengen1980what? he literally says that, u really thought u said something but nah you good
@Swearengen1980
Жыл бұрын
@@Superlegofighter101 You understood my point as well you display the proper use of grammar.
@zerpblerd5966
Жыл бұрын
society is the show culture is vapid and lack of good culture is what informs the society wtach older movies!
@daviddyer3076
Жыл бұрын
There are MANY married men who are absolutely miserable..staying only because of children or not wanting to lose everything they have worked for.
@flyingsolotiltheend3058
Жыл бұрын
My hat goes off to those men because I could not do it.
@johndummy3370
10 ай бұрын
Smart men don't marry.
@corruptslut
8 ай бұрын
@@johndummy3370that’s how you cope
@bigbelly69-c4x
12 күн бұрын
I'm divorced and happily remarried but never had kids because I saw what a burden they were.
@GuitarHeroPhenomSux
Жыл бұрын
After some bad experiences, I find it difficult to trust anyone. My last girlfriend told me she loved and cared about me deeply throughout the day for over a year, then straight up dumped me out of nowhere with a lousy scrambled explanation, then ghosted me. She literally cried in my arms days before telling me how thankful she is for having me and all the great memories we've made and will continue to make. I treated her like gold. Never argued, cursed, raised my voice, cheated, manipulated, assaulted, begged or forced intimacy. I bought her gifts, paid for 90% of dates, praised her, and complimented her constantly. What hurt me the most, and how I know it really is over is that she didn't even bother checking on me on the anniversary of my mother's death, and she knows that I struggle with alcohol addiction. It amazes me how someone can literally go from lovey dovey texts/calls throughout the day for a year to complete silence like turning off a light.
@GermanGuy007
Жыл бұрын
That’s toxic female nature, and I don’t like it either!
@brianwaller7383
Жыл бұрын
I can bet dollars to donuts that she dumped you for a guy that made more money or is more physically attractive that’s hypergamy
@robbsclassics
Жыл бұрын
I had this experience. I thought it was a great relationship, but was broke up with the woman saying this, "There's no issue with you or our relationship, but it just doesn't feel right." So I can have my feelings disregarded because a woman is just questioning her feelings? It's going on 10 years I've been single. I've tried to have girlfriends, but it's just not worth playing with my emotions.
@brianwaller7383
Жыл бұрын
@@robbsclassics women did this to themselves. They have nobody to blame but themselves. But like always they refuse to accept accountability
@robbsclassics
Жыл бұрын
@@brianwaller7383 And when you prove them wrong, they just stare at you and throw out an insult or ghost you. But God forbid a man does that to them...
@danielrobey1759
Жыл бұрын
I’ve found even in my 50’s that many women still have the accountability of a child. You can talk about self improvement or shyness or whatever else you want but the fact of the matter is modern women have changed, they expect us to work 5x harder than our grandfathers did to get a woman that is 1/10th the caliber of woman our grandmothers were. And most of us simply said “no thanks”.
@mmanewz3018
3 ай бұрын
Wow, I really miss the MGTOW subreddit. It was interesting to read about others' experiences with women (minus the misogyny part some would display)
@hugostiglitz8465
2 ай бұрын
I'm in my 50s as well and you hit the nail on the head. The man is also unappreciated as I went through this twice with girls I've dated.
@Jason-wg3ld
Жыл бұрын
4 years ago I came home from work to find that my fiance and daughter had moved out. It was like getting hit by a bus. 3 weeks later my daughter came over for Father's day and told me she didn't want to live with her mom and her new boyfriend. I then got custody of my daughter, focused on work and I became a supervisor for a great company. In those 4 years I didn't date, I didn't do much besides work and raise my daughter. When 2023 came around I told myself I didn't want to be alone, but I didn't want to be in another toxic relationship. I joined some dating apps and realized that dating and women in general were not the same as 20 years ago. So I had a few terrible dates and was starting to wonder if I was just going to have to accept I'll be single for the rest of my life. Then I got a message from a lady who seemed to have her shit together and was "normal"! I was concerned at first because I'm in Wisconsin and she's in Illinois. After the first date, I knew she was different...in a good way! We've now been together for 4 months and the 40 minute drive is well worth it! She met my oldest daughter and granddaughter last weekend and they gave their approval! This 4th of July she will be meeting my youngest daughter! I'm nervous about it, but my daughter is the one pushing to meet her! She said she wants to meet the lady who's making me a better person and a better dad. Bottom line...don't give up! Yes I was hurt by women in the past, but I do not judge other women by what my ex did. Time heals and gives you the opportunity to make yourself a better person. Don't give up just because you've had bad experiences. Learn from it. Courtney, your an amazing woman and give great advice to people who need it. Thanks for all you do!😉
@drbeaverhausen
Жыл бұрын
I was married for 17 years, and have been divorced for over 10. I know that it's more a situation that I haven't met my someone yet, vs I'm going to be single forever. Reading your story cements that thought for me. Thank you.
@suleiman1520
Жыл бұрын
Congrats my friend! Glad you found a better woman!
@michaelsix9684
Жыл бұрын
glad you landed a winner, it's rare, believe me -- at 67 I quit 20 yrs. ago, now almost a millionaire, yeah it's lonely at times, but I don't regret having a peaceful, drama free life, dating is risky today for men esp. if you're a target for golddiggers or scammers, I handled divorce cases as a paralegal, that really was an education in female behavior, the best women I met for marriage or LTR were over 40 yrs. ago, I wasn't ready then, now it's too late -- case closed
@jonprince3237
Жыл бұрын
Good luck to you both, wishing you a long and happy time together!
@taylorjlee
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@MrTonycoughlan
Жыл бұрын
Honestly, the reason is we’re scared. Scared to lose confidence, scared to be falsely accused of things, scared of trying to be nice and we get called out for being “creepy” for trying to ask someone out.
@bobpierce115
Жыл бұрын
Agree with all your points, Tony. Also society and the media have made sex all about the woman's orgasm and nothing else. I'm "supposed to know everything" and "do everything" to that end or be judged swiftly and harshly. This is a big reason massage parlors are thriving like never before for average income men, and escorts for rich/wealthy men.
@fjockey1
Жыл бұрын
They love that word "creepy," don't they? Of course, the current occupant of the White House use to take his cloths off and jump into the shower with his 13-year-old-daughter, but that didn't stop these stupid feminist clucks from voting for him. Total hypocrites!
@matthewnikitas8905
Жыл бұрын
I think fear is a large aspect of it. Fear of not just rejection but having your reputation totally ruined over something that is false. Fear of not being good enough no matter how hard you try. Etc
@bobpierce115
Жыл бұрын
This is true, so why even bother? I addressed this in my comments and yours are a good addition to mine. @@matthewnikitas8905
@m_jay5
Жыл бұрын
@MrTonycoughlan NAILED IT!
@deldriankeetonjr6360
Жыл бұрын
I've been single throughout my 20s, have negative experiences with toxic women, focusing on myself and more introverted/lack of social skills. My generation messed up the dating game, women shaming men for being who they are, wearing 304 badge and acting like men. All of that is why I'm single
@corygall2340
Жыл бұрын
Actually our generation didnt ruin anything bro, the system became more corrupt ruining the boomers, which ruined the millennials along with the streamlining of the internet which ruined generation z worse and so on and so forth, stop blaming the people nobody wants to live this way its the system thats corrupt until all the cattle realizes this it will continue then yes if everybody thought for themselves they would have no body to blame.
@corygall2340
Жыл бұрын
Also do your thoughts even belong to you? Lol
@hamilton9651
Жыл бұрын
@@gracie_5That's BS!
@magallanesagustin4952
10 ай бұрын
@@gracie_5 you also say that to female victims of domestic abuse?
@kyber452
6 ай бұрын
@@magallanesagustin4952 How DARE you refer to them as "females"!
@briar35981
Жыл бұрын
I've been divorced for 29 years. Haven't dated much since then. I was MGTOW before it even had a name. Nothing wrong with going at life alone. You are 100% in charge of your own happiness. No more placing emotions and trust in a person that lives by emotions, feelings, and hormones. All these can change daily. Stay strong and on your purpose. Remember ever woman wants a good man until, that man requires her to be a better woman.
@daviddyer3076
Жыл бұрын
Totally agree!!
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
MGTOW is pure cringe as all hell, thanks to my interests (and using youtube to basically reorient myself on modern dating, this was not a fruitful endeavor) I've had the same toxic shit ran across my screen again as the same dumb shit I saw 10 years ago only now I know what mgtow actually stands for, and I still think it's stupid. Basically anything you try and make into a movement or idpol is stupid and cringe in my book. It always is, and it always attracts the worst sort of clowns and toxic narcissists into it. The only primary thing I've even changed my mind on in the last 15 years is I am a lot more cynical about love and relationships, and I now also agree that tattoos are a really bad red flag but I'm getting used to seeing so many people have them. So I can't just judge someone based on if they did a tattoo or not, it's just in that particular instance I didn't know how good I had it until I started dealing with intoxicated relationships and tattoos. I don't like admitting it because I still mostly think well of these people, it's just that those relationships were a shitshow and it's changed my mind into thinking if a woman has tattoos it's a bad sign. I'm way more leery of people now and fundamentally less willing to waste my life just "giving somebody a chance." If you're white the answer is no. You got three and a half decades worth of chances from me, you're done. I will not settle for anything less than at least being annoyed and disappointed in another language.
@davidschnase4027
Жыл бұрын
Good advice and saying
@kamrudkd
Жыл бұрын
Bs...humans needle an validation....important part of being human. You are talking bull shi*😊
@brownpunk1794
Жыл бұрын
What a quote...bang on❤
@Sir_Viver
Жыл бұрын
It is women who give men a negative impression of women...no matter what the venue is through which they learn it.
@qb4428
Жыл бұрын
Watching millions of men get systemically tortured by women in court left me with a bad impression of women. Whatever Courtney says, that is 100 percent women's fault.
@kongvolmerii2683
Жыл бұрын
dont wast time on her answer about discuss above. She did the same to me on another video, and when I wrote back, she deleated it. Courtney is the most false
@Sir_Viver
Жыл бұрын
@@kongvolmerii2683 That's a bot, it's not Courtney.
@qb4428
Жыл бұрын
@@kongvolmerii2683 Dude, it's a bot. You can tell since it has no check mark.
@jonprince3237
Жыл бұрын
No, it's individuals who give you a negative impression of a whole gender. Whether men or women, people aren't all the same, and it's neither healthy nor mature to assume they are based on very limited personal experience.
@keithnmoore2
Жыл бұрын
I simply enjoy being single, mainly because of the freedom to do what I want and when I want. I can go to the restaurants, movies, hobbies, activities, and travel destinations I want without criticisms or distractions. Kind of nice. 😊
@stevemorano9317
Жыл бұрын
I agree it’s great to be single, I’m just really uncertain we were designed this way. I think the world in 2023 is a new way of living, perhaps the court system s & pressure on men is far too much nowadays. There’s nothing romantic about the reality of today.
@Danny328DT
Жыл бұрын
As long as you got some guys to hang out with, your family to visit, then staying single is the best thing for most men in this current modern generation. Once modern women finally get it, then I'm sure the world will go back to normal. Until then, let the women vent and sort out their issues. No hate against women, but they need to learn the hard way.
@VariableReciprocity
Жыл бұрын
I’ve found that being a man who’s “made it” in life that being single is easier. The main problem I run into with dating is this simple question. Does she actually like me or is she just trying to get me to be a provider for her?
@marksavage1744
Жыл бұрын
Your simple question has a simple answer........ she's looking for a provider. It'll vary from woman to woman like blatant golddigger to a lovey-dovey wolf-in-sheep's-clothing and everything in between. Understand Briffault's Law and the term HYPERGAMY and you'll see this is how women are wired on a primal level. Briffaut's Law and hypergamy were terms used regularly during the early days of MGTOW and the internet. The content was much deeper back then, but the premise hasn't changed. Feminism, etc didn't help women....It EXPLAINED them. All of this has pretty much nuked the nuclear family and absolutely NONE of it came about by accident or chance. Welcome to the New World Order.
@jahudini
Жыл бұрын
It all equate to the same thing. If you are self made and married, provider is the word, if you are not married and self made and planning to marry, provider is also the word.
@naylorbroughton1159
Жыл бұрын
Went to the gym, tried to be better, to be noticed. Took all the dating coach advice, went out, I even lived in San Francisco....my own place. Had hobbies, college education....not super high income but above average. I speak a foreign language. Basic fashion sense. Yes, I bathe......and in the end....I turned 40. Still deemed by women as "a great guy but..." and dating sites I got no replies. Also witnessed first hand a gazillion times the gal choosing the drug dealer, the thug, the cheater, the first class a-hole. They went by looks only. Hopeless for most men and at 40....was entering middle age. It was just time to end the pain. Hit the shower and get on. If women just told men "we want only hot men" it would end the confusion, and women would lose the right to complain. No, they will never do that. They will still peddle the sisterhood lie that "they like men who are confident, friendly and thoughtful, and looks never never matter to them"
@lockyp204
Жыл бұрын
Yep, it’s the truth.
@FromInfinityTV
Жыл бұрын
Wrong dating pool. Go somewhere in the world where you are appreciated.
@naylorbroughton1159
Жыл бұрын
@@FromInfinityTV lol
@flaboy2013
Жыл бұрын
@@FromInfinityTV Yeah just pick up and move, great advice.
@michaelschwing
Жыл бұрын
I’m a 27 year old mechanical engineer. Very physically fit. Outgoing, friendly personality. Great job making 6 figures. My life has been very "together" for years now. I’ve cold approached/asked out easily at least 50 girls this year in every type of setting from the gym to church to grocery stores and coffee shops to bars and have gotten nothing but ghosting or already in relationships. It’s tough out there man. Not really sure what more I can do…
@charliechristmas5147
Жыл бұрын
Just rent them for the night. It’s cheaper in the long run, as you don’t have to remember birthdays, anniversaries or Christmas. As Terence Popp would say….‘winning’ !!😂
@neondystopian
Жыл бұрын
Do you have your passport?
@dave87gn
Жыл бұрын
unfortunately, women don't want a good guy making 6 figures..they want the toxic asshole who treats them like garbage and cheats
@28yearsoldd
Жыл бұрын
@@dave87gn True. I have a friend he is extrovert, not goodlooking, dont have a money, toxic all time, abuser like bullying others and women love him...
@28yearsoldd
Жыл бұрын
@@charliechristmas5147 Worse idea...
@dobermanownerforlife3902
Жыл бұрын
We have more realistic things to do than trying to satisfy a creature that cannot be satisfied.
@daviddyer3076
Жыл бұрын
Truth bomb!!
@Tony-lk6sn
Жыл бұрын
The real question for men is, is she going an asset or a liability to your life?
@sergiogonzalesYT
Жыл бұрын
True words!
@lockyp204
Жыл бұрын
This
@Cleffa168
Жыл бұрын
3 minutes into this video, men are single because men have to improve on this and that and have to get therapy. Uhh if I want to do those things I am doing it for myself definitely not on creatures that can't be satisfied anyway.
@IamdeaththedestroyerofWorlds
Жыл бұрын
Men are exhausted of the worst of female behaviour as they have no recourse against it.
@Jumpyman_thegamerYT
Жыл бұрын
Absolute facts
@lookfeelbehealthy6320
Жыл бұрын
This is definitely true over the past year especially.
@stevec3526
Жыл бұрын
This is why I married a foreign national. I gave up on American women decades ago.
@IamdeaththedestroyerofWorlds
Жыл бұрын
@@stevec3526 which nationality did you marry
@stevec3526
Жыл бұрын
@@IamdeaththedestroyerofWorlds My wife is Japanese. I know guys who have married Thais, Vietnamese, Chinese, Korean, and Singaporean women. My sister-in-law is Polish.
@WtfReal
Жыл бұрын
“ I’m an independent woman, I don’t need a man” “relationships should be 50/50” but asks for a man that is miles above her. Men are sick of it
@MH-zg5yw
Жыл бұрын
Hit a point where I just said "enough". I always treated women with respect and kindness. I was always insulted and put down for it. Women I have dated going back to the 90s have insulted me for being polite, courteous and kind. I have been called "gay", "weak" and told "you are not a man" I am done.
@noahfor911truthnow
Жыл бұрын
I had a girl staring at me at the gym. Her head was turned ninety degrees staring for five seconds. She did it three times so I asked her name and she Ran Away! I got 12 matches on tinder and everyone ghosted me after a few days of great convo. I give up.
@jst102295
Жыл бұрын
Hahahaha bro you just summed up modern dating in your single paragraph alone.
@banginbadger75
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like they're all too scared to talk to you in person because you're good looking.
@MikeyP109
Жыл бұрын
Maybe she was looking at the clock behind you.
@davethibeault2484
Жыл бұрын
Take the lead and set up the date soon. Why are you having a few days of great convo? They’ll either agree to the date or they’ll flake out and disappear, but at least you’ll know early in the interaction if they’re worth your time.
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
@@banginbadger75 Oh right women do that edit actually wait what the fuck Hey how do you even tell the difference if people are scared to talk to you because you're "creepy" scared to talk to you because you're unapproachable or scared to talk because you're really good looking? Is there a, like look to the eye or something? ...I sadly need to know this and I don't
@sumairshirazi
Жыл бұрын
men are staying single cause we don't need to be involved in drama , not get shamed and focus on our lives. and also the fact that feminism had empowered women that they can do anything that men can.
@fireofhislove3395
Жыл бұрын
Children blame women for their own stupidity.
@SirRobbins
Жыл бұрын
@@fireofhislove3395 considering the fact that soccer moms are the reason for gen z being so messed up, it's not surprising.
@MikeyP109
Жыл бұрын
You might want to read over your comment.
@cobrakaiisback4709
Жыл бұрын
@@chrisc4507because women want bad boys then r shocked at the results
@greglavers
Жыл бұрын
There is a ton of red pill videos of on the street comments from women stating they don't need men anymore. So the interviewer says so who turns your power back on in the middle of the night after a storm pushes through? Women? Who do you call when there is an intruder in your house? Women? Who created the job that you have that gave you this independent lifestyle? Women?
@kevinb8881
Жыл бұрын
Courtney, there's nothing far more worse than a man dealing with a woman who's a major delusional head case!!!🙄😂
@gary6449
Жыл бұрын
Been there - Done that..
@universal3024
Жыл бұрын
Like my ex single mom. biggest mistake of my life
@matthewcrowell7004
Жыл бұрын
We’re all delusional. Perspective is the only difference between delusional and reality.
@ExploreXplore394
Жыл бұрын
@@matthewcrowell7004 Good luck with that, with a little sarcasm from a slightly bitter man, which helps me keep sane.
@workingmoodleclass5925
Жыл бұрын
precisely. Excellent point. One gets tired of guessing and trying to be nice and no matter what, you are always wrong.
@highlyvolatile8988
Жыл бұрын
33, and single for 10 years. I still have no interest in a relationship. I can spend time on my hobbies, and push my career further. I’ve got enough money for a house, and I’m continuing to save. Highly recommend it to other men!
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
Жыл бұрын
My take is simply that solitude is addicting. I just come home to peace and do what I want. My dating experience has been pretty bad, and I've decided to take some me time. I don't know if I will be dating again. I turn 38 in a couple of weeks, and I really don't want to bother anymore. I'd rather be financially free and alone than take the risk of marriage. I wish the women well in life, but social media has changed relationships permanently. There is no going back.
@flyingsolotiltheend3058
Жыл бұрын
Save yourself and keep the peace, harmony, and calmness. Don't let a woman or anybody take that away from you.
@610kclaf
Жыл бұрын
i was born way too early
@StrumVogel
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been married twice for a total of 10 years. Now, I’m at that age where my peace and personal development is worth more than company.
@richardw3347
Жыл бұрын
@@chrisc4507 why is it pathetic, growing and evolving is one of the best things. and in that better options will usually come.
@smashing-3291
Жыл бұрын
@@chrisc4507do you want him to be miserable, just like yourself?
@lookfeelbehealthy6320
Жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@StrumVogel
Жыл бұрын
@@chrisc4507 - either you elaborate, or you’re an idiot troll.
@universal3024
Жыл бұрын
Notice she’s never once mentioned that most women reject most men most of the time. And that most women reject men 10 out of 10 times, even when men are doing everything right. She leaves it out conveniently and that’s because women aren’t suppose to hold eachother accountable no matter how at odds they are with eachother because the sisterhood must be protected, even from the truth, harsh or not, at all costs ..
@coolnut99
Жыл бұрын
It's because they all need a SKINCARE ROUTINE! BROUGHT TO YOU BY TIEGE HANLEY! BUY BUY BUY!!!!! :D
@Bombadil-ez9ns
Жыл бұрын
Tiege Hanley. It's what plants crave.
@ChiefWombatCuddler
Жыл бұрын
She's done videos on this, however I have noticed she likes to do videos that pander to both demographics. It seems she wants to bridge the divide, but such a thing is not possible without dismantling the current cultural zeitgeist that celebrates high body counts, late age of birth, no fault divorce, and women having unrealistic expectations.
@leroyrussell8766
Жыл бұрын
Being ran-through isn't something limited to a few women who went viral. The reality is that the vast majority of women are ran-through. Second is marriage. It's a one-sided contract. The government actually has an incentive for relationships to fail. Thus the no-fault divorce. The government takes 15% of child support. That's a huge amount of money. Call it a Bachelor Tax, if you wish. But here is the reality...the man can literally do everything right, but she meets a new Mr. Excitement. You come home and find her getting railed. Relationship over. But, even though she is the one who was wrong, she leaves with the kids and half of everything. The man may even need to couch surf to keep from being homeless. I work with the homeless for out Church. Most of the homeless are older men...30+. Most absolutely destroyed by divorce. Self deletion is also mostly men, for this same reason. Now, tell me why a sane man would ever get married? No matter how you want to explain it, the man is literally gambling with his future. There are NO safety nets for men who get married. A man's safety net comes from NOT getting married.
@sonofthesOUth77
Жыл бұрын
She advocates for men to a point. And that point is to actually call women out for bad behavior and challenge them to do better. She won’t do it.
@conservativesniperhunter7439
Жыл бұрын
Being a heterosexual single male at 57 years of age who never dated in my life I have come to the conclusion that females are just not worth it for me. I speak for myself.
@SirRobbins
Жыл бұрын
as a 33 going on 34 male, they are not worth it from my perspective either. The rewards are not worth the risk. Sex overrated, kids are lots of trouble, etc... the court system does no favors for men either in a large variety of situations you will more than likely encounter at some point
@MatthewCoast
Жыл бұрын
Just sounds like you've never had a good woman in your life.
@Dangleesak69
Жыл бұрын
You’ll save yourself lots of money my guy lmao
@syndicatedsatellite7288
Жыл бұрын
Best way to avoid prison...
@trnovsky33
Жыл бұрын
@@MatthewCoast if you look on this from objective viw he hi right
@Gh0stGaminginc
Жыл бұрын
I'm single because I'm invisible to women and always have been. I've always been a loner and not particularly attractive. I don't have the best social skills being autistic and it used to really bother me but lately, I've become more comfortable in my skin and just accepted those are the cards I've drawn. I'm content with work, hobbies and my pets. Tbh, looking how shockingly toxic the dating scene is now, I'm glad to not partake in it. I don't need someone else's baggage, trauma and drama in my life.
@ZenPepperClub
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you've got things worked out and you're a tough person that's better than most of us however keep your heart open because for the future you never know😊
@MarkTopma
3 ай бұрын
40 year old single man right here, after being dumped, cheated on, took adventage of three times in a row "because i was too nice" I just love my freedom and financial security right now, no more dating, no more games, no more heartbreak. Earning more than enough money right now "80k a year" I can spend my money the way i want it without anyone telling me what to do. i absolutely love traveling to northern Europe Norway / Sweden / Finland etc. I just love my single life. Bought my dream car, an American muscle 1970 Chevrolet Monte Carlo big block 454 a few weeks ago. Enjoying it so much!!! I couldnt have done that when i was with my exes...too much drama. No more women for me single life rules!!
@jacobtani9785
Жыл бұрын
Im a mixture of all these reasons. I’ve had all negative experiences with women as I’ve been rejected by every single one. I’m in my early 20s and come to realize that focusing on yourself is the best thing to do as a single person in 2023. My generation is the reason why dating is going downhill and hookup culture is rising. I’ve met many different types of women and only a COUPLE were down-to-earth while the rest all had some negative aspects about them that would scare most men away. Plus they LOVE money and wealth so if a man does not have that right now (including myself), u are SOL majority of the time. It’s sad most women don’t want to help and support u through your toughest times and rather just wait at the finish line for u, if u even make it…
@taylorjlee
Жыл бұрын
Some men are this way too sadly :( I didn’t make it to the finish line and he didn’t wait for me
@Bennysol
Жыл бұрын
Last girl after the 3rd time she looked at me I approached. We talked for about 5 mins and then her boyfriend walked in. Other people at the bar noticed and were quietly laughing at me. I just closed my tab and left. I'm 31 now and haven't even looked at a girl in nearly a year. Had 3 relationships in my 20's when my energy and attitude was very high. I was always looking to grow and improve. I remodeled a kitchen for a girls mom and she later dumped me to go back to her druggie burn out ex. Another girl I was with I updated all the galvanized water lines at her house to copper for higher pressure and cleaner water. She was living with her mom as well. She ended up having a threesome with 2 other guys. Now I'm just a one night stand guy when the opportunity arises. I also made up a fake name for myself. I don't even tell girls my real name anymore. It's not worth the time or effort
@DuckFanDane
Жыл бұрын
@@taylorjlee well you’re a woman you have a different job and your job isn’t to make a bunch of money and do the masculine burden of performance needs to be the loving wife and girlfriend and that feminine person and it’s probably because you weren’t that and you were probably more like a dude because you sound kind of masculine
@davidschnase4027
Жыл бұрын
@@taylorjleeat’s not true that’s why you see young women being wife’s up by billionaires and older wealthy men as well as the waitress, stay at home moms ect you heard the phrase what’s mine is mine , what’s yours is mine, what’s ours is mine ? That was not thought of by a man. Men are looked at as an atm while women are looked at as a mother, stay at home mom home maker , ect her money career does not matter to men nor does her money , it won’t be shared in the first place it’s hers, just look at the amount of stay at home mothers vs stay at home fathers there has ever been very small percentage. Women want money security safety men want beauty feminine fit motherly for offspring not a masculine boss , we have that at work.
@ImAgentK
Жыл бұрын
@@taylorjleeYou could've went with him instead of skipping out the race.
@rodneychadwick8644
Жыл бұрын
I'm not bitter towards females, I'm being a better person for myself. I'm being a better dad. Some females have an unrealistic outlook on men. I could go deeper, but I won't.
@THX5000
Жыл бұрын
Bro, all you need to do is make $300,000 per year, and be 6'5", buy her a Pagani BC, and accept her bodycount of 90+.... Sounds like you are just an incel 😅
@puremaledark8305
Жыл бұрын
They have completely unrealistic expectations. Period.
@puremaledark8305
Жыл бұрын
Ill add to that actually. A girl i dated couldnt even manage to get me a 60 dollar video game for my birthday….. you know what she wanted for her birthday? Wait for it….. A trip to spain.
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
This is what pissed me off so much, there's this huge group of toxic, entitled assholes out there, and yet majority of what they are saying is literally what all men are actually saying, so since some people don't want to hear this uncomfortable truth they try and pin it all on either these guys that are bitter, guys that got hurt, or "introverts." I swear to fucking God it's like the modern woman just cannot possibly process or comprehend that we're not interested and we're done looking. I think that this is so crushing to their ego and self image that they'd rather do anything in order to try and avoid it. Like I don't know sometimes to feel a sense of awe and admiration for a person's can-do attitude despite being so unattractive, vs. a girl that sincerely doesn't know she's unattractive so she's actually being choosy and entitled because her friends gas her up. "Is the problem me? No of course not, that's just crazy. Clearly the problem is every man on earth hates women and they all are assholes and are scared of women. Yeah. They don't like women. That's why." Yeah they hate women, that's why they're all getting married in Thailand. That's why all the couples I see lately are interracial. That's why Karen was a meme all pandemic long. You know, this is the one time this channel truly felt outrageous and out of touch. No, we like women. We just don't want to deal with a certain kind of women, and those women all seem to think they piss courvoisier and shit gold, they legitimately think that because they can bottle a fart and sell it that they're all that, and that's the problem. This is why you should be happy about simps being ragged on, it's because the people simps damage the most are actually women. They're not your friends. They're enabling you to rationalize all the worse traits that will leave you single, used, heartbroken, and giving up on anything but dying alone. And it is sad man, I'd much rather women and men get their shit together and make a functional society, but it is clear to me that white girls just never are gonna do that until the girls that are just being born now start watching the 35 yo women of today all end up in nursing homes alone and look on in shocked horror swearing to never be like you people. Like that's actually what is happening right now. The first gen of these girls is women like pearl who do not want to be like these repellent Karens. They actually like the company of men and want to land a good husband, they want a real life, they don't want to be instagram hookers taking selfies around the world some guy they're having sex with is showing them. These people literally don't understand that they have a problem. They're still at the full on denial stage. They're going to end up reaching a point of anger soon where they start really attacking foreign born girls as the true reality starts setting in. Some of these tiktok videos you can see they're beginning to pick up on it "am I really that awful to be around?" YES. Yes you guys are. I literally can't have five freaking minutes of conversation with some people without being interrupted, harangued, talked over, bossiness, being argumentative, gaslighting me, being mean spirited, being self centered, victim blaming and above all being entitled while deflecting any blame and responsibility. They are this way not just because of any one factor but because they've been raised this way for decades by successive barriers to happiness from feminism to their dysfunctional boomer parents to their shitty high school friends with their toxic tiktok girl advice to the horrendous culture to seeing boys that are legitimately as bad from birth and made even worse the minute they started dating the wrong kind of women (and no I don't even mean badgirls, I mean bad women). So as a result of that they have generations of trauma and lying bullshit to unpack which it never even occurred to these people to question. Go and see what Viet girls are doing. Go and see what Syrian and Iranian girls is doing. Go and see how Ugandan women get husbands. Your guys' problem is you literally think you already have it all figured out and that you can just sit there and tell men what they want and what is wrong with them for not wanting you, and act like this is all men, and act like those men feel that way about all women, when the simple fact of you not even listening to us speaks volumes about why we don't want to marry you. You don't even listen. Ffs a prostitute is a better listener, and she's actually good at what she does and doesn't lie there like a dead fish wondering what's on The View. But so many of these women are never going to do any of this, they're going to keep seeing themselves as the hottest shit ever, keep calling themselves baddies, keep having their ego inflated by the legions of swipes on tinder they themselves wouldn't even date (and guys who won't marry them anyway), keep feeling like everything that happened last 100 years is endless progress, feel like they do not have to listen to anybody ever, and above all truly and sincerely believe they did everything right because they think they did what society tells them. It's unbelievably sad what you sit there and think about things sober.
@GIR177
Жыл бұрын
@@pandemicneetbux2110So you type up a rambling Iliad of a comment dripping with resentment and indignation about how you supposedly don't care about women anymore? Get real. You can only attract what you are. Birds of a feather and all that. No matter how good you think you are at hiding your spite, women of merit will sense it and steer clear. Fix your attitude or buy a dog and die alone are your two options.
@ajtaylor8750
Жыл бұрын
Love the new background set-up Courtney! In today's dating market there are a lot more benefits of being single than being in a relationship and while a relationship can indeed be a beautiful thing I don't blame a lot of guys who make the choice to ride solo. My philosophy is just to stay single until you've gained a sense of identity and focus and find someone who you think is a solid match.
@CourtneyRyan
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Aaron 😊
@chrisc4507
Жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyanyou never get tired of making the same video of incel bait? Specially the first reason which YOU contribute lmao
@WhyTho4494
Жыл бұрын
Simp
@hinkhall5291
Жыл бұрын
She also left out that over played background music why is a good move. She needs a music guy for her videos.
@ccastaneda669
Жыл бұрын
Very well said, no one could have said it anymore perfectly.
@noelgibson5956
Жыл бұрын
People ask me why I'm single. My answer:- nobody wants me.
@sethbrolsma516
Жыл бұрын
Good on you for getting the Tiege Hanley sponsorship! It really does work!
@TheFockerizer
Жыл бұрын
Courtney you should interviewed actual MGTOW men in the similar manner you did with women and their ideal partner/ income
@Andrew--S
Жыл бұрын
That would be hilarious
@TheRustyNailx
Жыл бұрын
Might as well give INCEL a go, too. In general, she should start interviewing men to get their take on things
@dangerjunky
Жыл бұрын
I'm 44 and have my life together.. fit, making six figures, good looking (former model), etc. The main reason I'm single is the lack of appealing options. Here in my area of the country (Cincinnati OH), the quality women tend to get married early. It's hard to find attractive, feminine, mentally stable women. The majority of single women over 30 around here are overweight, have children in tow, and are just generally unattractive. Add how they usually have an over-inflated sense of their value on the dating market. Often times they have money problems, and issues with mental health. Tack on the trends of facial piercings, and tattoos. At this point, I am content just focusing on my hobbies and my career.
@dobermanownerforlife3902
Жыл бұрын
44, Findlay OH. In shape, not 6 figures. Not a model, but i did used to have a uniform. My life is good. Just thinking about dating means an interruption to my peace and quiet. Even thinking about the effort is just a turn off in itself. There just doesnt seem to be any tangible gain to having a woman around.
@Jon0387
Жыл бұрын
I know what you mean, I haven’t met any single women in many, many years that would be worth my time, they all have the issues you mentioned.
@divebomb99
Жыл бұрын
Same age here. Same exact scenario on the east coast regarding women. Not sure which there is more of- tattoos or mental/emotional instability. Both repulsive.
@hotpockets69
Жыл бұрын
So basically you kept hoe-ing around for too long and everyone with sense that was around you moved on to a guy that was actually worth dating and marrying. Better luck next time Chad.
@dangerjunky
Жыл бұрын
@@hotpockets69 LOL I have no regrets. Yes, I definitely had my fun and enjoyed myself. While at the same time serving my country, finishing a Masters Degree, building a successful career, and building a successful side business. Tell me you're a jealous loser without telling me you're a jealous loser! Best of luck to you 👊
@cleanslate2247
Жыл бұрын
You hit it right on the head. You never get back what you put into a relationship. Especially the longer the relationship goes, the less you get back. The most fun and effort by the women happens in the first 6 months. I got really good at dating and was having a blast. Then I got married....... Big mistake.
@dobermanownerforlife3902
Жыл бұрын
Wedding cake is poison..
@ccastaneda669
Жыл бұрын
I was touched by your comment. Many people have been in the same situation. The only comment or advice I can give is talk to your partner, sincerely and calmly, and hopefully, they will get the message. Best a luck to you in yours.👋✝️
@Khan-rz8qi
Жыл бұрын
The problem here is that men don’t understand that women view relationships with us as a means to an end. Before a woman starts a relationship with a man she thinks to herself “How can this man upgrade my life from where I currently am?” “How can this man take me from point A to point B?” Women view relationships more pragmatically than we do, men are the TRUE romantics people. Men enter relationships to give, women enter relationships to consume. I’ve also realized, that dating is way easier for me now as a man who’s now older and the wealthiest I’ve ever been. So now it’s like, why exactly should I be exclusive with women anymore? What’s the incentive? If anything, I feel like getting in any sort of relationships would make me spend more money, and get laid less lol.💯
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
@@ccastaneda669 Shit like this is a pretty good reason why functionally secular materialism is a dead end. I just got done thinking a lot about this and my overall antipathy toward white Republicans and white liberals in America at this point, and I am just now realizing how much my past is filled with a forgotten and defeated people. So much of the people I know are also saying they are not having children, and are therefore not terribly interested in doing things "for the planet" and say such gems as "I don't give a shit about climate change because I'll be dead by then and I'm not planning on having any kids." Meanwhile these very same people are making the solipsistic, nihilistic arguments like "everything is a spectrum, everyone is right from their own perspective" and basically just not willing to make any kind of definitive statement about anything, neither morally nor factually, for fear of being disagreeable and upsetting someone, and this has gotten the same in afflicting the churches as well. I am directly putting these churches on blast for supporting the lying serial adulterer, not just the homosexual friendly "we have gay ministers" I mean the for-profit megachurches ran by cuckolds like Falwell Jr. and acting as boosters for godless men. I'm pretty much convinced white people are a dead end in America and I'm exfiltrating myself from them. These are not a people that can be saved. My heart definitely goes out to these young black men saying things like "how can you save a community that's in love with its own dysfunction? You can't" yeah well, the same problem in white communities, how can you even so much as have a discussion with a group of people that don't believe in the CONCEPT of truth anymore? Which is all rooted in the worship of money and the narcissism of this society, such that now you have men just abandoning their women and turning such a sacred act as marriage from the literal bedrock of all society and support net for children into first a contractual obligation for sex, and finally abandoning marriage altogether for "dating." You are a nation of whores, you Americans. I don't even mean the sex workers--they at least make an actual "honest" living, even the tricks. They do the same as all of you they're just much more honest with themselves about the nature of their work and the relationship between capital and labour. This is a sick society that I am convinced it cannot be salvaged anymore. All the rest of us are picking up stakes and pulling out. We need to begin relocating to green zones which should ideally be as much away from the most intense storms, droughts, and wildfires so that those of us interested in the survivors can lay out a path for our future children.
@SLRModShop
Жыл бұрын
My life experience is laughing real hard at your comment. You guys need to slow down the intake of incel videos, your vision of life is becoming even more cartoonish by the day...
@cfiperry1382
Жыл бұрын
Courtney, Good video. I was married once. A complete disaster! I ended up raising my daughter as a single dad. I enjoy the company of women, but they are just too complicated to deal with. Being single…. I’m “free” to do whatever I want, when I want, without having to be accountable to anybody but me. That is a peaceful feeling!
@flyingsolotiltheend3058
Жыл бұрын
STG that is the most honest statement I have ever heard.
@MultiTexMex
Жыл бұрын
As a point of clarification, a relationship is where both parties work in unison and harmony towards some goal. How modern women define “relationships” amounts to me putting in 80% of the work trying to keep her amused and entertained, while she just brings herself cause she’s a queen 👸👑
@M.C.ThomasReviews
Жыл бұрын
The unwillingness to commit can go both ways. I’ve been on dates with women who will occasionally keep in touch, but become flaky when I try to make concrete plans. It seems like they don’t want to outright reject me, but still keep me around in case they can’t find anyone better. I’ve learned not to tolerate this, and it’s been a great lesson on having more self-respect and waiting for someone who is all-in and willing to commit.
@-Skratch-
Жыл бұрын
Had a girl do this to me for about 2.5 years, long time, I know lol. I cut it off spring 2022 and I have been so much better since then. I hardly even try to talk to her anymore, she still continues try, though. I'll entertain it if I have the time, but usually I leave her messages as "read."
@jtgmail459
Жыл бұрын
WOMEN ARE FLAKY.......THEY ARE VERY TRICKY IN DISGUISING IT.......
@H2o.001
Жыл бұрын
After my divorce 10 years ago I'm kind of enjoying the peace and quiet.
@gumnaamaadmi007
Жыл бұрын
Being with someone who makes you wish that you were alone instead, is a really bad thing to go through. It happened to me years ago and required me to seek therapy. Since then I have given women a wide berth. Nothing is more important than piece of mind.
@Yanusun
Жыл бұрын
Lately, I feel like I'm single just because I'm not absolutely perfect. I find that women today, more so than I've ever seen before, are all about their own demands. They talk about their prerequisites and not their perks. Whenever I'm on a first date, I feel like I'm walking on broken glass wondering which of the 50 items on her secret must-haves checklist I'm not checking off.
@elipeterson2482
5 ай бұрын
I could not have said that any better myself.
@lucas82
10 ай бұрын
Have you seen the average woman in 2023? You can't unsee that!
@josephstevens9888
Жыл бұрын
It is tough to be in the dating market these days. It seems like so many girls out these have such unrealistic standards for what they're looking for in a man. Plus, I don't need the stress and drama some girls like to bring to a relationship. I'm not giving up hope however, I focus on being the best version of myself, and I will find someone who truly appreciates me. Until then, I don't mind being single.
@CarbideSC
Жыл бұрын
The unrealistic standards come from little things they like from each guy they have banged. It literally creates a superman in their head.
@Bennysol
Жыл бұрын
All they know is what millionaire men post on their Instagram
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
@@Bennysol Social media is pretty much a redflag to me. Like I didn't even realize how good I had it that a lot of people around me weren't super into it then. Now that instagram, tinder, onlyfans, tiktok and the other trash took off on top of twitter, fb, reddit, the other garbage, I basically don't even see social media girls as viable partners and this is mostly what white women are. The overwhelming, vast majority of white girls are wasting their time dicking around on social media. They don't even have hobbies or anything and they just regurgitate the latest crap that spreads like a virus or chainmail across their network. Ever since touchphones became a thing everyone's been going down hill. It's not even what it is now, but the nature of it, like I can't see myself accepting a girl who's doing onlyfans and tinder. Yes, onlyfans and tinder are the same category to me. You might want to think about what that actually says about your tinder account and the gross way men on there are viewing you, and why there's men that don't have tinders. Hint it's not just because they think they can't find a woman, it's because those guys aren't interested in hookups. Like I found out the weirdest shit in last few months, from the "dating rotations" thing to the fact apparently I swear to fucking god, I shit you not, there are women out there that are seriously doing porn right now and trying to argue "yeah but my future boyfriend should be fine with it because I'm doing it for money." It's like, here's a whole generation of people so soulless they honestly believe "it's for money" excuses every bad behavior, because modern American society's sole virture is acquiring currency. Because of this vice being called "virtue" I've just started writing off whole blocks of society as bad sectors. They're unrecoverable to me now. A person who thinks Trump won the election, there's 22 genders, worships the American dollar like God, and doesn't believe in objective facts or objective morals, they cannot be reasoned with, and you cannot have a real discussion with any of them. Given I am unable to have an hours long phone conversation with these girls the way I used to with my girlfriends, means they are undateable. The fact so many girls have taken to texting means there's really no point to being in a relationship with them aside from casual sex and hookups, because they basically don't have any capacity to operate in a relationship as a human being anymore, and only are down with texting and banging. It's sad but these people trapped in this horrible culture really don't understand how it actually looks for someone from the outside looking in, and it's made me incredibly leery of even dealing with women at all who may have attached themself to this pernicious series of modalities. And basically, men are just tired and fedup with you all at this point, so if you don't feel like dating an incredibly naive 21 yo young buck who hasn't wisened up yet, well good luck with that.
@brocklanders3616
Жыл бұрын
This! Most single women by age 30 have at least 20 bodies on their record, most have more. None of the guys had every feature that she was looking for. John- 6'2, William made six figures, Dan had a really big D, Chad looked like a model etc... This is how most women categorize men throughout their 20s, until the wall makes contact around 30. Now she's bitter and angry she never met her unicorn and is reduced to having to settle for the unattractive beta male provider or remain alone with litter full of cats.
@troybrewer2576
Жыл бұрын
53 no kids...never married...only 1 "serious" relationship...I LOVE my freedom and prefer my flexible lifestyle...I answer to no one...come and go as I please and do whatever I feel like doing...its a priceless life IMO...
@michaelrodriguez3329
Жыл бұрын
💯
@Splodge542
Жыл бұрын
You didn't mention babies. Babies are a big risk for men now even if they love women. No matter what mummy does, daddy has to pay. Very risky. No deal.
@adrianace1725
Жыл бұрын
38M and always been single. Made peace with being alone and found acceptance. Nowadays I focus on myself, work, hobbies and interests. Life is liberating and refreshing without expectations and social constructs. Happily single! 😎
@ItApproaches
Жыл бұрын
It's not that guys "struggle" with social skills, it's we aren't attention whores like women are. We aren't desperate for people's attention. "Strong social skills" is actually the bad thing, because it means you NEED attention, you can't function well when alone.
@canman87
Жыл бұрын
I know plenty of people in general that have terrible social skills, so I would say that it's a separate issue than what you're discussing. I do agree with you that most women tend to seek out attention and validation from people substantially more than most men do. Frankly, I couldn't give much less of a shit what random people think of me, but it seems to be considerably more important to most women that they are perceived as good-looking or whatever; the constant need for this reassurance is taxing for the rest of us, for sure.
@Subsistence69
Жыл бұрын
What you’re talking about here sounds more like attention addiction rather than social skills. Social skills just means you can communicate clearly and easily and understand queues like when a conversation is over, if you’re talking too much, etc. Women are literally addicted to attention though which is why so many are posting thirst traps on insta and have tinder accounts just to receive hundreds of messages but never respond to any
@ItApproaches
Жыл бұрын
@@Subsistence69 Fair enough. As an extreme introvert, I CAN communicate and have conversations with people. but I really don't like doing it. It's just mentally draining and I don't need to have conversations with people to be calm. I do better alone. Doesn't mean I lack social skills, I don't need people's attention to satisfy some egotistical part of myself lol.
@Subsistence69
Жыл бұрын
@@ItApproaches understandable. Im more of an introverted extrovert. I dont just strike up conversations with strangers for fun unless Im out at the bars or a party or something but I do value my quiet alone time which then just makes going out even better when I do. I find Ill be more enthusiastic to see and talk to people when Ive had proper breaks in between
@ItApproaches
Жыл бұрын
@@Subsistence69 Introverted...extrovert...that's a paradox. That cancels itself out lol. May as well just say you are neither introvert nor extrovert. More of a drifter between the two.
@Harikejn
Жыл бұрын
Important things: 0:31 First Thing - Negative Feelings Towards Women; 1:54 so true who is capable in ruining things; 2:22 Second Thing - Focusing On Improving Themselves; 4:56 Third Thing - Prioritizing Their Career; 6:14 advice to balance between work, and our personal life; 6:24 Fourth Thing - Not Looking For Commitment; 7:53 Fifth Thing - Introverted / Social Skills; 8:15 Explanation of introvert; 8:45 Explanation of shyness; 9:31 Explanation of lacking social skills; and 10:09 to summarize all the told here. I can agree with interlocutors that your new background set-up is excellent. I might add that you should put a bookshelf, or bookshelves as well there. That way you can recommend interesting books that can help either men, and women 😉🙃🙂🤓😎. What you have told there Courtney I can agree, cause some of these things are so true. Also some of the things that you have told can also apply to women as well. I like improving myself, at least cause of me to do not enter in deep problems, and not make them as well. When I was listening to you I have remembered few quotes that I have saw them (and few of them I have mentioned). And they go like this (you can correct me if I'm wrong): 1. Robin Williams once told this: " It's not the worst thing when you are being alone in life. The worst thing is to be in a company that makes you feel lonely." 2. Vladeta Jerotić once told this: "Those people who love solitude are those people who have paid dearly for someone's presence in society." 3. Vladeta Jerotić once told this: "It is a great skill to be able to talk to a person." 4. One quote goes like this: "No one is too busy, you're just not their priority." We have to work on ourselves (men and women), and on this path we will meet our soulmate (you may never know what will happen, and that is one major big truth, believe it or not, dear people).
@Hez-r7h
Жыл бұрын
How do you know about Vladeta Jerotić?
@Harikejn
Жыл бұрын
@@Hez-r7h Glad that you're asking. I know about him, cause I'm from Balkan. And he was also born in Balkan (correct me if I'm wrong). And where are you from?
@tdrive398
Жыл бұрын
How could she "conveniently" forget the most blatant/obvious reasons men are avoiding womyn? 1. Many are not desirable. Many *choose* to not be fit, feminine, friendly, or LOYAL. Instead, they choose to be masculine and constantly dump on men. 2. Many are 304s. No decent man wants a 304. 3. Womyn file for dee-vorce 85% of the time, often for "no-fault" reasons (this jumps to 95% if she has a worthless college degree). They're home-wreckers who break their vows. 4. The courts are stacked against men when the wife breaks her vows and wrecks their home. These are all VERY pertinent... yet *somehow* don't make the "Top Reasons" list. Go figure...
@adrianrice6396
Жыл бұрын
💯
@dontworryaboutit993
Жыл бұрын
Dude, any of this couldn't be more truer (or true-er) idk
@theguynextdoor4978
Жыл бұрын
I'm currently single due to the dating dynamics these days. The beautiful women who are what I am looking for have criteria they are unwilling to lower in terms of height, wealth and non-approval of average men. If she cannot appreciate what I am offering her, I'd rather be single until I find the right type of woman. I got a bit above average income, average looking, 5'7, normal bodily shape.. and women need to start accepting average men without seeing it as "settling". 80% are average, and the average is what these women should go for. Instead of saying "I only want men in the club 5% who will never ever ever settle for me".
@neboyshanicolich761
Жыл бұрын
Obese women probably don't want Ya...and here You talking about beautiful Women...at 5'7" on top of that.Get real buddy...Girls can see Your desperation and lack of attention from other Girls.Try to go for ugly Women and see where You stand.
@MarylandGuy-ey3st
Жыл бұрын
I’m 5’7 and currently single too. It’s natural selection. It is what it is. Focus on getting your money and assets up
@theguynextdoor4978
Жыл бұрын
@@Sergio-dh5qh Yeah sure. just give me the magic pill, and I'll be 6'3 tomorrow!
@brocklanders3616
Жыл бұрын
I feel your pain in a different way. Let me explain, I'm 6'1, good build, handsome face etc... Physically most people look at me and think, he's got it all figured out. Wrong! Work a dead end job in my mid 30s, and little hope to make the infamous six figures quota most women are looking for now. It's like having a corvette exterior, and under the hood it's a cavalier motor. It's extremely embarrassing with no quick fix available. Good looks are nice to have, but with my job title. The best I can get are single mothers and land whales.
@lockyp204
Жыл бұрын
Ultimately they can go for whoever they want. The trouble is they never own the consequences or accept they’re shopping out of their league
@brandonbennett4615
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been single for ten years. At the age 33 I’ve realize that I find love great and if I don’t that’s great as well. We must heal ourselves before we give ourselves to someone. Working on your foundation is key part in a man’s development.
@humanengineer812
Жыл бұрын
Love is a lie they use to manipulate
@konstantinrebrov675
Жыл бұрын
I have also been single for ten years.
@Vocalence
Жыл бұрын
This is the most mature and self-aware comment I’ve seen so far!!! Thank you for this comment. Wishing you luck on life’s journey, however that unfolds for you! Great love in your life or not, with this mindset, you will live it happily. EVERYONE should, great love in Their life or not!
@firstlast8258
Жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself
@brandonbennett4615
Жыл бұрын
@@firstlast8258 Talk to me, is did something that I said resonated with you? Let’s talk about it.
@stevenfeven8524
Жыл бұрын
Shyness is a huge obstacle to meeting new people, especially when you're an introvert. But finding common interests - eg, sports, walking, theatre and spending time in those things can help.
@grand73am
Жыл бұрын
"A lot of the reason guys give up on dating is because they don’t have a huge social circle that have women in it." This is a great point, that someone wrote below, that should've been mentioned in this video. She mentioned shyness, introversion, and lack of social skills, that might keep a guy from meeting women, but it's not the same thing as just not being where you can meet women. You need opportunity. And that comes from "proximity" and "repeated, unplanned interactions". I used to have a job that was perfect for that...where I worked with women and met new ones daily. And I took advantage of that situation...had a good time. And I had some friends that had game nights that I participated in, so that was a bit of a social circle to be around women, and had some fun there too. But later I became self-employed, working at home, and my "group" split up, so I no longer have the proximity and interactions I used to have. It was part of my previous situation, so I didn't have to work at it. But when you have to find a new way to put yourself in a situation where you can repeatedly meet women, in a friendly setting, it takes a lot of spending time in places you wouldn't normally hang out, not to mention expense. There are videos on places and ways to meet women, getting involved in various activities, and some of those ideas may work. I may try some of them. Although many of them seem like something I wouldn't want to do long enough to meet somebody. At least in my experience, beyond school age of course....work and friends have been most successful for me. And without those options, it's hard to be in a good situation to do it. You obviously have to put yourself out there to make something happen, and maybe join something.
@rforget23
Жыл бұрын
Honestly as a 29 year old dude, the biggest reason why I've stayed away from dating is because I still live at home. Breakups/life happen and I know the right people would be able to look past my current situation/see how I'm trying really hard to work towards a better future. I've worked on my overall appearance/confidence quite a bit, but the living at home aspect is a mental block I just can't get past. Any advice?
@hareeba5879
Жыл бұрын
The right girl won't mind your living arrangements.
@kevliao
Жыл бұрын
Like the other responder here said, the right girl won't mind - she would have enough character and judgment to see where you are and the potential you have in the future. But be prepared, the majority of women out there won't give you the time or the day if you're living at home. I met my wife when I was still living at home, FWIW.
@Anti-Villain-Wolf
Жыл бұрын
If you have a plan to get your own place and everything, and are taking the steps towards that, it won't be much of an issue. You got this man.
@hareeba5879
Жыл бұрын
@@kevliao Correct. But the majority of women are rubbish.
@celestialspartan1176
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been a federal worker for almost 3 years now, and my advice is to save, save, SAVE!! Since you still live with your family, use that to your advantage by getting advice from them on how to budget your expenses, and get rid of any necessary debt you have, like a car loan, in order to get some weight off your shoulders. That’s what I did, and now I’ve been on my own since last year because my family’s the GOAT!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
@lawrence31415
Жыл бұрын
Wow, a new background! Happy Early 4th of July, folks!
@CourtneyRyan
Жыл бұрын
Enjoy your weekend!
@DanTaurusAtheist56
Жыл бұрын
I'm from the UK happy 4th of July
@triplehsheartattack8515
Жыл бұрын
I love my country I cant wait for her birthday
@christopher7824
Жыл бұрын
Many men don't try because they are afraid of getting humiliated or used to pay for somebody else's kid.
@krowman8458
Жыл бұрын
I'm single because I got an injury which put me on disability. As you've mentioned on your channel several times, social status is a big thing women look for in a man. Being on disability has now made me feel not worthy on the inside, so even though I'm tall, in shape and get called attractive often, my limited income and limited abilities keep me from having the confidence to talk to women who smile and give me advances in public.. :/
@partridc00
Жыл бұрын
Would love Courtney to offer suggestions for men with health issues and disabilities
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
"on the inside" "my limited ability" "from having the confidence" "to talk" Don't try and blame that shit on your disability bro, you made a conscious choice somewhere down the line and I think you're trying not to bruise your ego. People get so wrapped up in trying to avoid "psychological injury" they make excuses for their refusal to have questions answered about themselves they may not yet feel ready having answered.
@partridc00
Жыл бұрын
@@pandemicneetbux2110 I might have said the same things in the past, until it happened to me. Nobody ever thinks it will happen to them. It's sad that there is so little solidarity among men. This is why we don't open up to anyone; you get some rant about how your problems are self-inflicted and you need to stop being a little bitch. Have a bit of empathy, dude. Men are hurting. Some more than others. We're not going to get anywhere with attitudes like yours.
@krowman8458
Жыл бұрын
@@pandemicneetbux2110 Then why was life amazing before my injury if its all just ego problems? I dated all the time before this and was very outgoing
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
@krowman8458 I can only respond to what I see here, based on what you said I'd intuit whatever your injury and physical problems were/are that it made you self conscious about yourself as a result it damaged your confidence and bruised your ego enough it impacted your overall behavior and presentation. Like, you can be a strong armed dude in a wheelchair, a woman in a wheelchair can have dating problems but still find someone, my point being even with as shitty as many modern girls are, I think you are not realizing how much what's going on with you impacted your self concept and how much that's modifying your behavior and presentation. Like you straight up just said "keep me from having the confidence to talk to women." That's not a women problem at that point, that's a you problem. I'm saying maybe you just flat out don't want to approach them because you're afraid of the response, and it's wrapped in self image. You're letting your SSDI checks change the way you view yourself and it changes your behavior.
@jrjosee
Жыл бұрын
My ex did EVERYTHING in the beginning just for me to give her a chance. I met her at her worst, a lost and lonely woman who disrespected her body and her sexuality. Not a woman anybody would take seriously. So I didn't... until she started treating me with care and love. Swearing she'll change her ways. Begging for a chance. To begin with, I was naive and never should've trusted her, due to how I met her. But I thought people could change and she seemed to really desire me. So I finally gaver her a chance...2 years and a half of abuse from her part. No accountability, disrespectful "jokes" of sexual nature, not to mention, accusing me of infidelity (which I never did)... by then I was already in love, so I endured it. She accused me and abused me of everything. I was an alcoholic and she used this to her advantage. Even though I treated her with love. She could careless. In the end, it was me who was begging for a chance and that was completely in love and it was her who felt nothing at all and could care less about my life. All of this because she grew resentment over non-existent things going in her imagination. So yes. I'm staying single. I wasted years of my life. Doing everything right for a POS that at times had the nerve to tell me to go kill myself, when I was drunken out of my mind. The reason I was drinking that much was because of her abuse too. In the end, she took no accountability, she never repented for the pain she put me through, never did she feel bad about her actions. She somehow managed to turn things around and put the blame on me. She gave birth to a deep hatred that ai have developed towards women. And they themselves have shown NOTHING in their defence. Just reading your comments and knowing social media, has convinced me that women are EVIL. And I will have to live with this hatred forever. Not worth the risk, time or suffering.
@jrjosee
Жыл бұрын
And that's just the tip of the iceberg. There were occassions in which I wanted to actually TALK like adults and fix our issues once and for all. But she ignored me as if I didn't even exist. I begged and broke down just to have her acknowledge me, fuck, all I wanted to do was to talk about our differences and come to an agreement. Well, that night I ended up seated at her bed all night. She was sleeping besides me with no care on the world. I spent the night just staring at the wall in the dark in complete shock, for I had broke down into insanity. She never asked for fogiveness or cared... The thing is, after this, when we argued she brought the "You don't ever know how to speak like grown adults to fix our issues!" card. !?!?!?!?
@chitownbob9714
Жыл бұрын
I Highly suggest you do some research on Narcisistic Personality Disorder (aka NPD). Sounds like you were love bombed, abused, then discarded... But you may see her as you read about it. Then try searching quora for same. Be advised that "narcisist" is the latest insult women use for hookups that refuse to become boyfriends... Or for boyfriends who refuse to change some defining feature about themself that the woman formerly found attractive (or lied that she did). There are real cases of narcistic abuse, but I question those whose SOs are always narcisists (it means the are attracted to narcisists, or they are lying).
@KitawariTsutano
Жыл бұрын
I dealt with a similar situation brother though it was my second attempt after 6-7 years of my heart being non-existent and buried under solar systems worth of ice. She worked real hard for a year and a half to prove to me she was different, mind you it not like I didn't to around in those years but it was more so to scratch and occasionally hormonal itch so to speak. Unfortunately she was my second and last attempt. Once she managed to win me over the abuse set in record pace. Unfortunately for both of us it was short lived. Her in the fact she broke it of with no real reason. Me in the fact that I hit a point of mental shutdown that was outright terrifying 😅. Tldr I did a lot for her got burned and became even more emotionless and distant than before she struck me. She wanted to try to be friends after the fact i.e maintain a connection and I simply sad in an empty voice no I'm good. She cried notice I didn't even twitch, looked at me and said I had the soulless eyes of a monster. I looked back and said your point? For her try and gaslight me into believing I was crazy. She wasn't affecting me in the slightest. She then asked if I even cared for the time we did have, I sighed and told her I did but she was my second and last mistake I won't be doing this ever again. Years later she's a single mom of two and I'm doing pretty well and don't even screw around anymore just not worth the trouble. So chin up my man no reason to hate em all it's a numbers game a fair bit are messed up but now you know what your dealing with. Either way find better things to do. But then again I've always been a strange consort and who knows just be very selective and never go all in
@jrjosee
Жыл бұрын
@@KitawariTsutano Bro it's indpiring how you manage to regain composure and not fall in her trap once again. I used to have that same 'coldness' and emotional non-existence before I met her. Honestly, that might attract crazy women. I've been in your position, where she came back and asked for a chance, but I stupidly let her come back many many times until she didn't, so I pursued her instead and received nothing but cruelty, just pure inhumane cruelty for the sake of seeing me down. But I will, rise back. You have reminded me what it's like to not give a fuck. To be cold and emotionally smart. Thanks dude! Also, may I ask what kind of abuse you went through and how much time into the relationship passed by before she decided to show her real self?
@jrjosee
Жыл бұрын
@@KitawariTsutano The fact she tried to gaslight enrages me too, just pure narccissim and evilness. Good on you man!
@markmcvey9347
Жыл бұрын
At this point in my life, 53, been there, done that enough with relationships. Too much manipulation and change agent activity after honeymoon stages. It is so awesome to just think about what is now important to myself.
@Kashban
Жыл бұрын
54, same.
@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121
Жыл бұрын
I've found that being single allows me to focus more on self improvement. When in a relationship, it's viewed as selfish to focus on myself. Which, yeah, I suppose that makes sense. But if I stop focusing on myself I become unattractive. Just feels like it's a lot harder to keep yourself appealing once they have you. Also, in 100% of my relationships, she went from really cool to slightly less cool every time we secured milestones. It was like every sign of a deeper commitment allowed her to unhinge herself a little more.
@jamest2861
Жыл бұрын
As Bill Mahr (life long bachelor)once said. Shake that "family tree". The shit don't fall far from the bat.
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
What the fuck? Self improvement is literally synonymous with relationships to me. Like in the sense that being in a relationship, you want to for example not get fat, because your partner, you want to not get fired, because your partner, you want to not have that extra drink, because partner, don't smoke, partner. Idk the concept of someone actually getting on your case for like working out or getting an education is bizarre to me and in either case you ignore those people.
@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121
Жыл бұрын
@pandemicneetbux2110 I dunno what to tell you, man. I'm finding lots of toxic women that seem to equate working on oneself with selfishness. Looks like 31 people have had similar experiences. And we're commenting on a video talking about why men are getting away from dating. Seems like SOMETHING is amiss in the world of relationships and the picture perfect way we like to envision them. I feel like if any of us had the answers, we would probably be sharing them instead of looking for them on videos like this one
@kamrudkd
Жыл бұрын
If you masturba ** to porn what type of self improvement is that?
@FromInfinityTV
Жыл бұрын
Typical. But she could be mirroring you too. If she knows you will dump her and move on will keep her at her best behavior.
@MC-or2tb
Жыл бұрын
Not single, but only because I got myself a passport. Get a passport.
@Patsworldbaby
Жыл бұрын
I agree. It has saved my life.
@marcusfossa6695
Жыл бұрын
The fundamental misunderstanding that modern men suffer from is that they think money doesn't buy happiness. It does.
@goblackninja5497
9 ай бұрын
I can't tell you how many times I came home from a stressful day at work to a more stressful evening at home. My kids are grown, I am divorced living in an empty house, and for the first time in a very long time, I am at peace. Dating was so full of manipulation, deception, and having all the work for a relationship put on me only to find it was expected and I was the bad guy when I couldn't do it all the time. I had expected dating and marriage to be a partnership. There is just too much entitlement now. I'm happier, living in a better home, and financially better off on my own-- even with alimony.
@olivernewcombe466
Жыл бұрын
I don't mind being single but having a girlfriend who likes me for me would be fun
@guidofarage7457
Жыл бұрын
They never do like “you for you.” They like how you make them feel. And you are totally replaceable, particularly if you hit bad financial luck or other hard times.
@michaelrodriguez3329
Жыл бұрын
Many men are going to to Columbia these days. Women there are more feminine
@MarylandGuy-ey3st
Жыл бұрын
I’m 41 and currently single, never married. Just haven’t found the one yet. There are pros and cons to being single. Being I’m 5’7 and was consistently rated a 3/10 on Photofeeler, women aren’t exactly throwing themselves at me, despite a hamster wheel of self-improvement. I’m just focusing on getting my money up, stacking precious metals, crypto, etc.
@Banokleez
Жыл бұрын
Yeah ngl, I'm 32 and I'm pretty much burnt out on dealing with "dating". I don't need to babysit, there's work to be done. I was lucky to grow up with an amazing mother, aunts and grandmothers and the modern woman can't hold a candle to the past generations imho. I've lived with a girlfriend, dated a single mother, played step-dad, have had numerous dates and girlfriends and I have no issues with social situations or any anxiety talking to women. My advice is based off of my life, mistakes and my experience --- to young men out there, trade in the video games for weight training, get a job using a skillset to sustain your living and use your free time to work on making your dreams a reality. Find one woman that respects and appreciates you and your work ethic and returns it in kind. You are valuable to the world and your gifts/talents are needed. Don't waste your life chasing after baddies. You'll see later on how most of them end up and you'll be thankful you spent your life focusing on your skillset, dreams and productivity. You will be a more put together person, have your affairs in order and then YOU get to choose where your life goes and who you share it with.
@firstlast8258
Жыл бұрын
Just be rich bro 🤪
@GCP25
Жыл бұрын
I honestly don’t blame men for staying single until they find the right one. The decision on choosing the right life partner is more important than ppl think
@Strider9655
Жыл бұрын
It's not what my ex did that put me off women, it's the fact that despite knowing what she was doing to damage the relationship, all of her friends and colleagues supported her delusions and now i've gone from owning my own home, to barely paying my mortgage, I've got to move house, my son doesn't live with me anymore, I left all my friends in another town/city. Her friends have not only given her bad advice, which caused me a lot of hurt, but they've destroyed a family, destroyed everything i'd worked for. The problem is, women support each other even if they're wrong, and they translate the mans actions or words according to a twisted world view, the classic "if he wanted to, he would" being one of those. Ultimately it's a no win situation, because you can meet the perfect woman, but her friends will have the most influence in your relationship.
@ADifferentVibe
Жыл бұрын
For dating when looking for a partner: are you gonna be more of a solution or a problem to me? Because that's what it ultimately down to happening. If dating to find a partner or dealing with bad women makes me tired or frustrated, it's simply not worth it. Period. I rather work on my dreams and enjoying my peace with family/friends. Traveling is fun too. Women, if you want to find a marriage partner, be worthy of the man's time.
@cp368productions2
Жыл бұрын
A male who has been soured on females because of poor treatment or trauma is not likely to change with self reflection or therapy. Both my doctor and counselor have come to the conclusion that I will never heal as long as every female I meet is a toxic person. After attempting to have positive interactions with girls my age and being mistreated yet again which just made my PTSD and fear of females worse I have just plain stopped interacting with females in person and never will again. One more terrifying interaction will without a doubt kill me.
@jack3493
Жыл бұрын
I’m right there with you. It makes me feel better knowing that women are the problem and not me. I hope you know that’s true. Women absolutely suck
@Danny328DT
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you had to go through that pain. Some people might say that's karma to meet multiple toxic people consecutively after healing, but tbh it seems very common. I get nervous even thinking about it. I'd probably attempt it, but if I have even an ounce of bad mental health I've never dealt with before in a relationship, I'm not taking my chances on damaging it. I see this as a valuable lesson for guys to never push your sanity any further. You'll go insane.
@partridc00
Жыл бұрын
Seems you are the perfect candidate for embracing the decline. Go for younger girls; with no intention of long term commitment. Hire an escort to get the physical release. Move to a different country where you may be valued more. Be more selfish. Experiment with drugs to get at least short bursts of happiness. These things are a logical response to an illogical dating market. If enough men check out, eventually it might reset. Unfortunately not in our dating years, but for future generations coming up. Having so many single and unhappy young men is a big problem for the stability of a society. At some point, governments might sit up and take notice. Men can't be discarded forever. My favourite quote about this is: "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth" - African proverb. Men have been neglected for too long. Something has to change or break.
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
People say they have PTSD for every damn thing, look I'm sorry but I don't have much patience for that shit either. I've known people from adoptive homes and broken families, talked to people fleeing war zones and crime, brothers or fathers dying of suicide, heroin addicts and sexual abuse survivors, you know what they all had in common? Not a single damn one of these women ever uttered to me "I been through a lot." They're all strong, survivors, and I respect them for that. I respect their inner strength. In some cases it was partly why I found them so attractive. So I have to (callously) ask, is this actual PTSD, or is this basically just a woman being a bitch? Because I don't care if you're sensitive it's true, you have to man the fuck up and no you don't have any choice. If you keep seeking out bad women, that's a you problem. Like I already personally know I am drawn to some not so nice traits, I just don't care at this time, it'd take way too long and too much effort to change my wiring atm. I don't know why people are so soft these days. After all the damn people I've known from serious trauma who made something of themself I just can't take people seriously anymore, and I really grown to despise these enabling female therapists that keep trying to do some fucked up Munchausen or something effect to weak males in a vulnerable state and then turning them perpetually fragile, maybe because she's milking money from you I don't know. But one thing if I had a son and found out he was seeing a therapist, I'd be tempted to pressure him to stop. I have seen people get worse and worse from therapy.
@williamparker4698
Жыл бұрын
I agree, fear of commitment, fear of rejection, past experience, I want to build myself first but feel like never good enough
@stevedonaldson9587
Жыл бұрын
Never give up. Married 35 yrs she past two yrs ago. She was my best friend. Rejection makes you stronger. You seem strong. You will know when the right one comes along.
@tomcoop9750
Жыл бұрын
I recently ended a five year relationship. I want someone who takes care of their body and doesn’t let themselves go after I’ve committed. It’s harsh but it’s true. 🤷🏻♂️
@Robert-b4h4w
Жыл бұрын
I think it’s difficult for men to commit to a relationship once you’ve found your peace. It’s hard to justify taking on someone else’s drama. Especially with there being little benefit in doing so.
@LatimusChadimus
Жыл бұрын
Well I've been staying single the last two years because it's a lot more fun, as well as it's a lot more productive to get to know women over a longer time period without the obligations the stress and the drama. I've been balancing three women lately and I have others that are interested but since women wear the representative mask a lot longer than some men might, it is important to take your time and to take notes of their character as to not be fooled by the representative
@LatimusChadimus
Жыл бұрын
Seemingly a woman can learn what a man is made of within 1 to 3 months but for men to fully see what women are made of it could take over 18 months because of this representative mask women wear because when they really don't have value or much to offer, or they know you have other options, they will try to pose as the best option even if they know they aren't
@pandemicneetbux2110
Жыл бұрын
What is "I've been single for two years" "I been balancing three women" even supposed to mean? God, you all really are just a complete loss. After scouring these videos I've been coming to the conclusion it's not just hookup culture, it's literally dating culture as a whole I should've written completely off and I should not so much as entertain anything outside a religious community, period. If they're part of secular culture, it's bound to be people who ultimately don't share any of my values or beliefs and who are basically still part of hookup culture they just don't want to admit they're being sluts. Yeah, I mean this for guys, too. But then I need to remember a lot of you are like 22 years old and on intoxicants.
@ryan_danger
Жыл бұрын
I used to be a lot more displeased with being single than I have felt lately. Now, in between having a job I really enjoy and practicing mindfulness in physical exercise like yoga, I feel like I am enough for myself and I'm okay with taking time to really start dating
@exothermal.sprocket
Жыл бұрын
The gurus of Yoga never meant for Yoga to be exercise, but an aligning of one's mind/soul to key principles of the religion. Next time you go to pose, consider whether you even like Hinduism or believe in its theological implications.
@ryan_danger
Жыл бұрын
@@exothermal.sprocket You sound fun at parties
@exothermal.sprocket
Жыл бұрын
@@ryan_danger Do I need to do the work to demonstrate to you that I tell the truth and reality of this issue? Who started Yoga, and why, and what does it mean, and how come it exploded in the USA just a couple decades ago whereas before it was an Eastern religious practice?
@ryan_danger
Жыл бұрын
@@exothermal.sprocket I am allowed to enjoy something regardless of its context and I don't need you telling me how I should feel about anything. See ya later
@exothermal.sprocket
Жыл бұрын
@@ryan_danger I would hope you are mature enough to take any intelligent conversation about something involving life as a potential to learn. Have a nice evening.
@shahidmufti795
Жыл бұрын
Listen, it's not all 100% mens' fault here.....As I've said earlier, most women aren't worth the time or money or both. It doesn't matter how much money I have, how fit I am, how well I dress, or how accomplished my career is, if a woman is not into you, she's not into you....period.....and it's very frustrating when you see an attractive woman, and you try to strike up a convo with her, and she walks by you, doesn't look your direction, and acts like you're a ghost....why go through this garbage over and over and over and over again?......
@henryross9234
10 ай бұрын
Being single is more easier. You can be just you and it's great
@oscarordiano2112
Жыл бұрын
Great vid. Luv the wooden shutter panels in the background. I need something like that for my music room… great motivation vid. Thanks for the random emotional support on KZitem.
@thelordoftheriffs6467
Жыл бұрын
There is no higher calling for me than to be a married father. I’m not trying to be so bitter but when I see how divorce rates are higher than they’ve ever been, child birth rates are the lowest they’ve ever been and how women have become so picky and unreasonable, it’s really hard for me to be optimistic. I’ve been trying so hard to work on myself and be a better man but people (especially women) pay me no mind. It’s very difficult for me being so traditionally conservative while also surrounded by people who don’t share similar beliefs and values. It’s like I’m completely invisible. Maybe marriage and children is just not in the cards for me?
@qb4428
Жыл бұрын
Bro, getting married is the dumbest decision a man can make. Don't do it.
@Danny328DT
Жыл бұрын
@@qb4428Do you think it's morally okay to stay in a relationship with someone for more than 10 years until you marry? Personally I'd argue it makes sense to build up your money, but then I realize how much money is lost if you marry and divorce lol.
@partridc00
Жыл бұрын
Don't let perfection be the enemy of good. Life is messy and rarely goes to plan. Remember you don't actually need to be married to have a child. It is also one of my deepest hopes that I can have children, but I might have to take a nontraditional route since finding a partner has been fruitless. It is a noble goal to want children, and we need more fathers like you. Ask yourself how flexible your plans really are, and take a path you never considered before.
@qb4428
Жыл бұрын
@@Danny328DT I know plenty of people who have had whole damn families without ever getting married, and they are still together. It's perfectly fine.
@Danny328DT
Жыл бұрын
@@qb4428 Wait, so what is the purpose of marriage if it offers no benefits?
@squarewheel142
Жыл бұрын
Relationships with women more often than not are a pita, and I have heard more than one guy say "women are mean", my relationship with a girl I thought was the "right one" ended after 10 yrs and one child even though we agreed to stay together. I was 42 then, I'm now 64 and only dated once since that relationship ended and decided it just wasn't worth the trouble. It seems like It's a lot worse "out there" nowadays.
@jorgeguzman3838
Жыл бұрын
I'm still currently single, I gave up on the dating apps and I'm progressively working on myself. I'm an introvert and I'm working on building my confidence. Facing my fears by going out more but my social skills are abysmal. More specifically with women. I don't know how to talk to women at all. It's like a different language.
@williamquigley852
Жыл бұрын
Its fine for young men to date, but they should not commit to one woman and certainly not marry. Most women are massively indebted. Credit cards, student loans, plastic surgery loans, car loans. Legally those loans can become marital liabilities after a few years of marriage. That means once you divorce, and most people will divorce, you will be required to assume a portion or all of her debts.
@humanengineer812
Жыл бұрын
Even blame mens view on female nature rather than female nature
@Fridgidice
Жыл бұрын
Fatigue/Trauma is valid too
@philippegauthier9692
Жыл бұрын
i'm single , i think i got 2 match on tinder this year . i did not get any respond from message i don't think i'm negative toward women , i just don't feel like i'm the kind of men they want . it call being realistic !
@dn4740
Жыл бұрын
It’s way simpler:1. Most women find most men unattractive. 2. There aren’t many attractive females that aren’t hoes on the dating market. Done.
@MasterTSayge
3 ай бұрын
I haven't been on a date since 2008 and NEVER looked back. My life has been nothing but peace and I don't want that destroyed. #mgtow 4 life! 🎉
@coolnut99
Жыл бұрын
Courtney, remember that group panel you had with several women who had insanely unrealistic demands, e.g. a a salary of a quarter million dollars annually minimum, among many other demands, with NO negotiation whatsoever -- and offer very little to the table? There's your answer.
@hotpockets69
Жыл бұрын
The internet isn't real life though. Just go outside and you'll realize that.
@corndogS29
Жыл бұрын
“Just go outside bro”
@timhill356
Жыл бұрын
Ever wonder why male dating coaches never quit, but female coaches are quitting in frustration? I'm big on dating, but I feel sorry for men that are in competition with women's fantasies and insecurities. Real safety and security is a myth to most men, so till women find ways to stand with all men insecurities intentionally rains on couples till they split.
@coolnut99
Жыл бұрын
@@hotpockets69 I did. All the reasonable women are already taken.
@hotpockets69
Жыл бұрын
@@coolnut99 there's 400 million people in America. If you can't find someone, it's because no one actually wants you.
@douglasalan5783
Жыл бұрын
Speaking as a divorced introvert, I can say that I am much happier being alone. My social skills are fine, thank you. 4:55 I enjoy having meaningful, stimulating conversations with neighbors and strangers alike. Being a “dog person” (former dog owner, current dog care provider), I find it easy to connect with other dog owners. It’s good for my morale and business. And, as a resident of NYC’s Upper West Side, there’s no shortage of people to meet. It would take someone very compatible for me to get into a relationship. As for marriage, I say, “Been there, done that.”
@jkb2016
Жыл бұрын
One minute in, can confirm everything. Benn single for almost 40 years, and most of the time it bothered me. It was a core reason for my chronic depression. Only last year I realised that I'm actually happy and free and don't have to make compromises. Actually not a bad replacement for the occasional loneliness.
@steveroberts728
Жыл бұрын
I’m not surprised that this video blames “men” for the reason more men are single nowadays without looking at the outrageous demands women make and the appalling behavior modern women display.
@VidyaBros1
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm one of them. Never had a girlfriend, never was in a relationship, never will.
@Call_me_The_Breeze
Жыл бұрын
I am old lol, At 65 years old, I watched the Woman's Liberation Movement in the 60's. Here we are 60 years later and our children in grade school are not sure witch restroom to use. Black Family's (and White) has been decimated by our governments handouts. Everything happens for a reason. This has all been Engineered for a reason. We have lost our Christian Values.
@9StickNate
Жыл бұрын
I was in a 9 year relationship that ended last year. On top of that, I was living in Germany for the past 5 years. I returned to The States recently. I‘m going through a reverse culture shock; especially with women. I feel like I’m in the movie Idiocracy! It seems like women are all the same, 2“ eyelashes, tons of makeup, bridesmaids hairstyles and children out of wedlock/single mothers. Everyone talks like a teenage valley-Girl. I don’t see the point in getting married; it’s not a good business venture for a man.
@ryanposthumus2689
Жыл бұрын
Honestly the reason I'm still single is that while women are interested in me and express this interest, they are not usually the caliber or type of women I am looking for and out of respect for them as well as understanding the value of my own time, I choose not to pursue a relationship unless I am genuinely interested, regardless of their interest. I think that second piece is the most important as I used to seek validation and become emotionally invested in whomever showed interest in me first, partially out of a fear of loneliness, before I realized that... I liked the way they made me feel as opposed to liking the person who they were. It's a tricky situation but the main reason I have become selective in my dating preferences.
@SuperJimmie21
Жыл бұрын
Nah, women aren't inherently evil, it's just their nature. Just focus on yourself and pay for it if you feel the urge. No cohabitation as well!
@denisships2861
Жыл бұрын
I love the change of background! Cool and empowering message.
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