Damon you are probably the only male on this planet I will ever say this to: START A PODCAST GIRL!
@damondominique
4 жыл бұрын
imma put these on spotify in the next week hopefully!
@Zyswest
4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique something to consider from a musician who cares: Spotify sucks; join the Bandcamp side
@Paulo-bh2rx
4 жыл бұрын
@@Zyswest why?
@carolinaalves2843
4 жыл бұрын
@@Paulo-bh2rx not a musician or a content creator but from my understanding spotify doesn't pay the artists or pays them a very very slim amount despite the amount of plays (not sure tho)
@damondominique
4 жыл бұрын
ALSO: YOU *ALL* DESERVE RED WINE TONIGHT.
@classicclaire5247
4 жыл бұрын
I'm under age but okay
@CecilysPerspective
4 жыл бұрын
Don't worry huney. bout to go get my helping in les marais ;) gotta celebrate it's friiiiiday
@janayanderson1229
4 жыл бұрын
It's a chardonnay kinda night! Trying to avoid those red wine headaches.
@CanalconCdeCami
4 жыл бұрын
I'm in Spain now and wine is not as good as French wine! But for real watching these videos makes me feel like I'm hanging out with y'all... We'll meet someday in Paris hopefully 🤣
@AxelStar
4 жыл бұрын
BET
@aimeegoodship9553
4 жыл бұрын
You're watching Call Me By Your Name. You get to the volleyball scene in the garden and you spot two characters chatting on a picnic blanket. You press pause, zoom in on them, and listen to the REAL TALK...
@chantellalexander933
4 жыл бұрын
I love this🥺
@7GeorgeB1
4 жыл бұрын
I just got butterflies omg
@ajayiayomide4401
4 жыл бұрын
This is the comment I didn’t know I was waiting for
@swimawaylittlefish1542
4 жыл бұрын
? (if it's tiring to explain it i don't want to bother you)
@aye2987
4 жыл бұрын
janet's babyshower because in call me by ur name in the volleyball scene towards the beginning of the movie there are 2 people sitting in the grass talking and they r just saying this is them
@damondominique
4 жыл бұрын
yo *WHAT* is so difficult to understand about just helping another h-u-m-a-n-b-e-i-n-g out? damn.
@chester14rw
4 жыл бұрын
so many different realities to understand. people don't wanna change their perspective and have dialogue. smhh
@johannawallin4167
4 жыл бұрын
Let’s just be kind, don’t overdue things, practise being genuine 💪
@kalliniki_
4 жыл бұрын
"its never a dialogue its always a critique" this. just this.
@mina-du6fi
4 жыл бұрын
i don’t blame people for not having the energy for a dialogue though
@purpleowl2075
4 жыл бұрын
@@mina-du6fi The pain of critique one day vs the pain of experiencing racism everyday doesn't compare though - to be an ally, you need to be comfortable with being uncomfortable so you grow and develop as an anti-racist
@aye2987
4 жыл бұрын
purple owl exactly
@soyboycowboy
4 жыл бұрын
@@purpleowl2075 mhm!!
@mattdoman2261
4 жыл бұрын
Would love to see discussion on being black or any minority in the USA vs France/Western Europe.
@pagethreemodel
4 жыл бұрын
There's a filmmaker called Cecile Emeke who did a series where she interviewed different groups of black people from Italy, France, UK and etc to talk about their experiences as black people growing up in those countries. I'm pretty sure the videos are still up on KZitem.
@pabloreguilon6068
4 жыл бұрын
@@pagethreemodel how is it called?
@pabloreguilon6068
4 жыл бұрын
@Naomi Madan ok thanks
@pagethreemodel
4 жыл бұрын
@@pabloreguilon6068 I didn't get the notification for your response. So sorry but I'm glad you got your answer!
@sofiatorresaranda8963
4 жыл бұрын
I recommend the TED talk by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie! She talks about the danger of having a single narrative. It pertains so much to the postcolonial society we live in today and it is SUPER eye-opening :)
@matthew5489
4 жыл бұрын
her book "half of a yellow sun" slaps like no other
@avocadoobrigado1448
4 жыл бұрын
that's literally my favorite ted talk of all time
@notWhiteFerrari
4 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking about this last night! This is so important to recognize in yourself and other people
@nicolasbuitrago6562
4 жыл бұрын
What's the TED talk called?
@margotbaumgartner266
4 жыл бұрын
This is a very good TED talk!!! My college professor had us watch it in my culture class
@renaribeiro
4 жыл бұрын
Damon you’re the friend everyone wishes they had. So open minded, loving, and respectful of every kind of human 💛 hope to see you and Jo together again!
@chester14rw
4 жыл бұрын
that last part! LMAO ... aanndddd we wanna see u back together w/ ur YT wife
@cherriesgirl
4 жыл бұрын
This got me thinking and let's all try to be that amazing friend or even just a respectful person *It takes a lot of understanding and time to have meaningful conversations trying to comprehend other realities but we can tryyy
@TCt83067695
4 жыл бұрын
I doubt they will. It seems to have been an acrimonious end of (business) relationship/friendship
@ThelifeofDrew
3 жыл бұрын
@@TCt83067695 based on what?
@TCt83067695
3 жыл бұрын
@@ThelifeofDrew just the fact they act like the other doesn't exist. Even Jo's BLM video was taking subtle shots at Damon. I might be reading too much into it but it seems like it really was a bad breakup.
@alexiabalan7216
4 жыл бұрын
I love the way Malika emphasises and understands individuality of people and their ways of communication, I felt my eyes open wider and it's only been 10 minutes.
@alexiabalan7216
4 жыл бұрын
correction *Malaika*
@abcxyz4653
4 жыл бұрын
I would have guessed malaika is 26-28. I don’t mean this as shade to younger people. she just seems mature
@LizzKillian
4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree.
@paigee4819
4 жыл бұрын
so true! I'm older then her, but I hope I can be as wise, fun, and well spoken as her when I grow up. She's also just so cool
@jadahp922
4 жыл бұрын
a lot of nonblack people have an issue saying BLACK and they will literally call a black french person african american which is really sad.Also, Im black american and dont like to be referred to as african american. i really like this red wine chat
@elizabethbread4021
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I had no idea this was such a huge issue, but this video opened my eyes and now I just have to say that I've grown up with people telling me it's okay to say black or african american and it doesn't really matter and just listening to Malaika and reading your comment on how it does matter blows my mind and I'm so glad I got to hear from you two. Also, I remember a couple times when a nonblack person would tell me I say Black because they prefer African American and they weren't even black and I was like ??? how do u know how they feel? anyhow thank you if you read this comment; have a nice day :)
@kenidiharrison1787
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I don’t like the term African American either
@jadahp922
4 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethbread4021 Yeah it really depends on your preference.
@potmki6601
4 жыл бұрын
10 (maybe even 5) years ago it was a slur, do you mean it is not now? Anyway, give me the ok word and I'll use it
@floorberendsen3567
4 жыл бұрын
Also in the Netherlands people are also scared to say it. They usually say the Dutch word ‘getint’ which means tinted instead of black and I’m not sure why
@annafre1789
4 жыл бұрын
I went to primary & secondary school in Britain and we were taught that "at the height of the British Empire we owned a third of the world's landmass" almost said with pride, absolutely disgusting considering the horrors of colonialisation, wars and human rights abuses that would have lead to that fact. And nobody gives a shit about how the USA gained independence honestly, that wasn't mentioned in school. Also in British school we were proudly taught that we were one of the first to abolish slavery - completely ignoring the fact that we were still financing the whole thing decades after!
@_lenny_____leonardo
4 жыл бұрын
I was definitely taught the "WE WON! USA!" version of the American Revolution. Being from Massachusetts, it was in my face all throughout grade school (yet, such a watered down version, I didn't learn until much later that a lot of the battles happened well outside of Massachusetts). Also, the fact that Americans call it "The Revolutionary War" points to how USA-centric our education and our thinking is. There have been many revolutions throughout history.
@moneyinvestingwithvandi7727
4 жыл бұрын
Damon always have the coolest of friends, I like her honesty and vibe
@lauranaut
4 жыл бұрын
I think one thing to keep in mind is that when she was presenting the Puerto Rican Day Parade example as the U.S. reminding Puerto Ricans they're not all the way American--uh, these events are community-led. When have white people ever led the charge to say, yes, let's celebrate this other community? They are not reminding us that we are separate from them; we are reminding them that we exist and we can celebrate our community's achievements, with or without them.
@fbspin
4 жыл бұрын
DAMON you have the most beautiful friends, inside and out 😭
@kizukeyos
4 жыл бұрын
About European countries not saying "X-European" like in the States: they do it for convience but they will call you an immigrant or "person of this origin" when you do something wrong and they will call you French eg. when you win the world cup or sum :')
@medsammy1237
4 жыл бұрын
Preach! These people over here really think that only American has these racist discriminatory beliefs.
@tididi5600
4 жыл бұрын
@caekeu Sadly true. The hypocrisy is unbelievable.
@kizukeyos
3 жыл бұрын
@Nicolas B. Henry Vas y ya pas a mentir comme ca ptdr
@TCt83067695
4 жыл бұрын
For such a young lady, her intellect is astounding. I am humbled by the way she articulates herself.
@rebeccabrodkey
4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree about feeling younger the older you get, I think it’s that you feel more secure in your age the older you are. Like physical aging also comes with added wisdom and experience that I wouldn’t trade to be 19 again
@kay2239
4 жыл бұрын
As a 19 Yr old I'm actually super afraid of like getting older aha help!
@rebeccabrodkey
4 жыл бұрын
Kayleigh Palmer don’t worry it makes sense once you get there 🤗
@sherey431
4 жыл бұрын
my older sister is 31yo and whenever I ask her how it feels like to be her age, she'd always say that she doesnt feel old at all and feels like 25 or 26yo.
@Lena-rk3ph
4 жыл бұрын
I recently turned 17 but I feel much older, so I think this is definitely a thing. Did you feel older when you were younger as well?
@des_antilles
4 жыл бұрын
I connect to the deleted scene about death. I've noticed that a lot of older people, at least in my life, believe that we're nearing the end of time. It makes me wonder if the "oppressors of the world" share a similar mentality which is why they exploit the natural and human resources of the earth because they think nothing matters
@denisdenchev413
4 жыл бұрын
Malaika's so intelligent and good looking omg. Does she speak Ukranian?
@danijeljovic4971
4 жыл бұрын
I know many people say this as a joke but I’ve never clicked on a video this fast after getting the notification
@denisdenchev413
4 жыл бұрын
I love your name 'je ne sais pas'
@danijeljovic4971
4 жыл бұрын
Denis Denchev Haha thanks. I have it for almost 2 years and this is the first time someone noticed what it's supposed to meanb
@denisdenchev413
4 жыл бұрын
@@danijeljovic4971 haha no way! I've never seen it written that way but I immediately knew what it was
@labcoatofpaint
4 жыл бұрын
Damon, can you turn these into podcasts as well? I feel like the uncut hehe version would be super cool to hear.
@Alex-od9fk
4 жыл бұрын
oh yes i think that’s a great idea
@howlette
4 жыл бұрын
As an American, I definitely agree that history is taught with bias toward ourselves. And war is very glorified, which was probably started with the Revolutionary War like you were saying. I hope as we move toward the future, we can add more perspectives (and dialogues!) into the conversation.
@patriciaWmonteiro
4 жыл бұрын
You guys are balanced and talk as if you could be right or wrong and that is how I talk to my friends. I’d dare say most people are like us, most people like us do not comment or post that much on twitter or instagram. I have a strange hope that most of us are balanced and able to have different opinions on different complex subjects
@dulcetghost
4 жыл бұрын
I love Malaika's thoughtfulness and honesty. People are so single-minded today and it was very refreshing to hear someone speak with an open mind and being considerate of multiple perspectives. Thank you.
@carolinashoemaker5938
4 жыл бұрын
There was a time when people from European descent were also called things like "italian american" "irish american" and so on and so on, the purpose of that was because back in the 19th century being "italian american" or "irish american" was considered a different race than white. Labeling people as "x-american" has always being an alienation strategy.
@paulinekeane3888
4 жыл бұрын
That last part you mentioned about subjective reality: I’m Irish and it is CRAZY to hear British people talking like they weren’t our brutal, violent, genocidal overlords for over 700 years lol. But on a real level I think that a huge part of opening up to people and being open-minded is acknowledging that what you perceive as reality might be a fantasy you’ve been taught for whatever reason and being ok with having that reality no longer work in your life.
@juliannanichols
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! I've gotten the "you talk white" all my life, and that has been primarily from other black women. However, I always asked "why is white right?" and no one ever had an answer for me. Thankfully, I had a mom that taught me what to do/say in those situations, but imagine how damaging that is to people who didn't have that growing up. Also, the conversation around African-American really made my head spin. I had thought about this topic a little when I was younger (why do I have to identify as A-A?), but I had never looked into why white people don't need a hyphen, or why can't I just be called American? Every time I think about it I feel like my thoughts are moving in a circular motion. I can't really make sense of it at all.
@sorchaoconnor3750
4 жыл бұрын
I feel like, just with the concept of white fragility and not knowing wether or not to speak up, there's probably a difference between speaking for the black community, and using your voice to amplify the many voices of the black community.
@apples.281
4 жыл бұрын
ahhh okay 1. damon i adore you 2. could you please have an asian-american guest on a red wine talk? i’d like to hear you two exchanging your experiences in america and france!! thank you for the amazing video, as always xoxo
@bettyreads222
4 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy how open and honest these conversations are.
@christyclarissemercier6359
4 жыл бұрын
We're being blessed with another red wine talk on this dayyyyyyyyyyyy
@gloriabloise1618
4 жыл бұрын
"the older I get, the younger I feel" UM YES SO FEEL THIS
@ThanhMaiOFFICIAL
4 жыл бұрын
Great to see you use your platform to raise awareness regarding social justice and equality. Real change happens when we unite and fight for a common cause. Let’s keep the momentum going 🙌💯
@nikkiu.2148
4 жыл бұрын
"It's never a dialogue, it's always a critique or an extremely aggressive debate." so very true
@wastedad7123
4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to say about the people feeling ownership about time, that people don't need to explain topics that you don't understand. Its not their job. So I get that some people thing that educating is important, sometimes you have to do that on you own or seek out the people who want to spend their time educating others.
@lifeofselma3843
4 жыл бұрын
6:29 "nobody calling you Norway-ish" IM DEADD 😂
@saguaro2231
4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most powerful conversations I've heard...from wonderfully creative individuals with meaningful, thoughtful ideas...for this I thank you....and am hopeful that like conversations are happening in many more places....& that I'm part of it too.
@polaolichwier4517
4 жыл бұрын
damon saying how malaika is only 19 and my 16 years old ass sitting here like: 👀 also such a great convo i loved every single second of it
@urfavoritesnack
4 жыл бұрын
You should tell us what they taught you in the French History class and their perspective because I NEED to know all the lies America’s History class is telling us.
@maryam-db3ny
4 жыл бұрын
Ikr!
@Coconutsky131
4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love Damon. His vibe and his aesthetic in his videos are so amazing and funky and the red wine talks just really help me unwind I feel like I’m chatting with friends. Makes me feel way less lonely this quarantine and I’m so glad he speaks up on important issues like BLM. Also I have notifications on but I didn’t get one for this video 🤔🤔🤔 Sus. Anyway! Great video as always.
@kaileebroadway7723
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I took a break from social media for two weeks now because it was overwhelming, every post was just ahhh, it was a lot of drama on social media so I was like too much noise. I did take off the black square eventually because I didn't think it was helpful.
@squirrel_friend9829
4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t even know u could divide a video up into sections with subtitles! Damon out here being innovative🤪
@john_barton_
4 жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you for being open-minded and unafraid to speak up, mess up, correct and continually learn more. It's very clear while watching this that you are approaching these conversations from a place of humility--not "everyone listen to me because I'm right" but rather a willingness to have conversations that aren't always easy or comfortable. That trait is extremely important and admirable. A few things I would say/add are these: Something I think about with white fragility is that rather than worrying so much about whether you're saying exactly the right thing or not, why don't you just stop talking and amplify the voice of someone else who has lived these experiences when you have not? I am learning more and more as a white person who has been studying anti-racism for a few years now is that what is more important than me trying to speak on *behalf* of people of color on these issues or use my privilege to "protect" or defend them in some fictitious way in these conversations is simply to pass the mic--people of color don't need me to be their mouthpiece. Of course I have a responsibility to use my white privilege to draw attention to these issues and to participate in these conversations, but that doesn't mean drawing attention to ME. How I want to use my privilege is not to use my seat at the table (the importance given to white voices which you address in this video) to speak as people of color's ambassador, but rather to make sure that THEY have a seat at the table and that they are listened to. I think a lot of times the best way I can do that is by giving up my seat for them--getting out of the way rather than trying to control how and when they are heard and inserting my own opinions and voice where they aren't needed. Another metaphor to think about this is that instead of sitting on a person of color's shoulders to make my voice heard on their behalf, why don't we just switch positions? By letting them shout from atop my shoulders, I can use my privilege to ELEVATE their voice; to give their voice a platform that would usually listen to mine first. I just say all this to say that I don't think we white people need to try to be the ones who always steer these conversations; I think our role is a supportive one, not the ones who should be in the spotlight. We should educate ourselves, make sure that due attention is put onto the issues which disproportionately affect people of color and then support people of color and stand with them as they use their voices without us getting in the way. White people are so used to being at the forefront of everything, but I don't think we need to be front and center in these conversations. I think our place is to make sure other white people aren't turning a blind eye, and then directing their attention to people who can educate them so much better than we can--elevating the best voices, which I don't think are ours.
@maria6451
4 жыл бұрын
And can u give me any examples of how u r priviled by being white?? and if u r going to include stats they please make sure they take socioeconomic bacmround into account.
@matcardoso
4 жыл бұрын
Talking about seeing others perspective considering their background and surroundings, social mídia takes that away, is like we are living in a single country in the same house with different families.
@cestlavie1324
4 жыл бұрын
Excellent conversation. Very serious content yet delivered in a very entertaining way!! Ya’ll really listened to each other..... you certainly practice what you preach!!! Thank you. Loved this!!!! Please discuss race in the USA 🇺🇸 -vs- race in Europe or France 🇫🇷 & maybe include 2-3 more people. BTW I’m 60 years young lol 😝 and my mother is French (white) and father is African American in their 80’s now. They are still married 65 years later living in the USA for most of their marriage. First 2 years they lived in France (Alsace Lorraine) or just la Lorraine now. My brother Alain 63, was born in France and their 3 daughters were all born in the USA. We are all New Yorkers now living in Arizona together 🌵🌞 I love, love your channel Damon Dominique!!🌈🥰♥️🇫🇷🇺🇸
@AnnaLitkovska
4 жыл бұрын
As Ukrainian I'm quite excited to find out Malaika has Ukrainian roots! Thank you guys for bringing these important topics to light. Quite refreshing to hear them from this angle
@tomaliekyte9896
4 жыл бұрын
Malaika is such a exceptional individual. Like she literally put into words things i couldn't say outright (bc of fear of not being "politically correct") for years with such ease and confidence. The things she said about the defensive nature of these difficult discussions concerning moral and systematic issues, perfectly encapsulates what the biggest struggles are in these types of fights.
@christinac4472
4 жыл бұрын
so many gems were dropped wow, these talks (and your vids in general) encourage me to be a better version of me - to be more educated, more open and more caring. much love from NY xx
@lostinoctober23
4 жыл бұрын
I literally love Red Wine Talks because I love questioning social issues and looking at things from different angles and perspectives, AHHH Damon keep doing what your doing boiiii !!
@hanasuckz
4 жыл бұрын
I agree so much with what you guys were saying. I believe that we experience and see situations based on how we are treated and what our environment looks like. I grew up in Jordan (Everyone in Jordan are literally either Jordanian or Palestinian and a *very* small percentage of other ethnic groups) up until I was 15, and it wasn't until I was living in Canada I realized that racism is very very real and not a thing of the past. I learned about racism in Jordan through films and google, not through school. My history classes consisted of what was going on in the Middle East and Europe, and barley touched on Canadian and American history. Even in Canada, racism and the treatment of indigenous people was brushed upon in a way that made it appear as though it's not an issue anymore which it definitely is. I always was passionate about Politics and history from a young age because I'm a Kurd, so I actively researched a lot about these things. Social media has definitely helped me a lot as well because you're hearing from the people themselves. Systemic racism is very real and I really hope we make changes there because that's honestly the only hope we have to fix things; it has to be from the very root.
@reece0
4 жыл бұрын
Damon Dominique I live and breathe for these videos thank you that is all.
@kayodeadetutu5009
4 жыл бұрын
Damon this might be a crazy idea but I am moving near Paris soon and I need someone to show me around and just get to know the town. Would you be down? I think that could be super fun! I am Ellie btw from Germany🌻
@AutumnRusso
4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS A CONVERSATION EVERYONE NEEDS TO HERE! 🖤
@cyn341
3 жыл бұрын
this is without a doubt my favorite RWT… I really enjoyed hearing Malaika’s point of view and hope you have her on again! Thank you for this series and for your amazing work Damon ❤️❤️
@dominiquemeeus2008
4 жыл бұрын
every word that @malaikanasimok is saying in this video is resonating with me so much. Really, this is the first time I've heard a black person talking about #BlackLivesMatter like this, like actually explaining what their/your thoughts are as a black person on how white people should react right now, other than the "it's not enough to not be racist, you have to be anti-racist". Like every time I hear that I'm like "yeah, I know, & I want to, but how do I do that right now?" Especially since I also don't live in the US, like, if I did, I would go out & protest & try to help people, but since I don't live anywhere where stuff like that happens (I mean protests and such, not racism, racism is everywhere), how do I be an ally without being a copout or something like that. I'm sorry, this is really becoming a rant, but just really thank you @damondominique for making this great video & especially @malaikanasimok for sharing your thoughts on this subject. This video made me feel a lot better (really sorry if that's sounds super "white girl offended on behalf of #BLM uh" but yeah. Thanks :)
@camiliau6881
4 жыл бұрын
You guys, I would love to hear you talk more about how films shape our percepsions, I think its a really deep thought to think about
@sangui2314
4 жыл бұрын
thanks so much for making this video! You and Malaika have talked about certain topics I haven't seen brought up as much. Love the wine talks
@SecretTwilightGirl
4 жыл бұрын
6 minutes in but it’s very funny Europeans sit here and say “We’re all X-nationality.” But then turn around and exclude “immigrants” (mostly from African countries that they colonized so their home country is basically unliveable from colonial exploitation) from being “ really” X-nationality. I know black ppl in France particularly are constantly questioned or assumed to not actually be French because there isn’t the same U.S. history of a melting pot but a particular entrenched national (ie: racial) identity. The U.S. does otherize groups with hyphenizing everyone but at least there’s been so much work done of being a “country of immigrants” (which is a problematic statement in itself considering not all of us came here willingly or are even accepted) and we have these categories. I’ve noticed a lot of European countries don’t even have these conversations about racism or xenophobia and or white exclusion because “We are all French/Danish/Swedish/etc.” It also forces marginalized groups to assimilate and abandon their cultural ties in pursuit of a “higher,” race-blind colonial-blind, culture-blind national identity. Which is a lie because even European national identities are burdened by the ghosts of white supremacy, colonialism, xenophobia, etc.
@warisdirie7976
4 жыл бұрын
@@BooksRebound Europeans can definately call themselves "French-Senegalese" or "Dutch-Morroccan" and so on... No one is forcing you to forget about your origins and its traditions... However it's logical to define yourself first by your nationality than your origins since you grew up here and you only know the country of your parents through their own vision of it, or the times you spent while on vacations there. It would be disrespectful to the locals of the country of your origin to act like you're fully from there when you don't know the reality of life 24/7 over there. While you know the reality of life in the country you grew up in and this country has shaped you counsciously and uncounsciously way more than the country of your parents (even if it has too but to a lesser extent since it's through your parents). Aknowledging you're more French for example doesn't mean you're ashamed of being Senegalese as well for example. French-Italians can decide to call themselves French-Italians or just French and no one bats an eye or think they're ashamed of their country of origins if they do so. White Americans don't call themselves "European-Americans" but just "Americans" even though they're not native from the land either. And most Europeans don't identify with the way White Americans are and think, so they wouldn't like if they started doing that. Plus Africans feel the same about African-Americans. Europe and Africa are two entire continents with a lot of diversity and different traditions to be generalized like that. And the term African-American could very well be used for a White Afrikaaner or a Tunisian/Algerian/Moroccan living in the US and they wouldn't be wrong. Let's not even forget the french caribbeans that were brought to those islands (Guadeloupe, Martinique...) as well as Americans but have no other nationality than French since they decided to stay part of France, so what other country should they claim ? Now racism exist in Europe, but it's different. I'm not saying it's better or worse, it's different in every country, and therefore shouldn't be observed through an American perspective. They all have a different history, mentality, there's a need of knowing the different types of racism and how it can be noticed and approached differently thoughout europeans countries (some were not colonizers or were even colonized) you need context before trying to dismantle it.
@warisdirie7976
4 жыл бұрын
And nowhere in the french Constitution does it talks about a "racial identity". Some racists might think so, but who cares about them, "French" was never a "race" or ethnicity to begin with.
@lauranaut
4 жыл бұрын
@@warisdirie7976 genuinely curious about what French history class looks like and whether this approach improves things. are French people of color and their achievements fully represented and integrated into lessons throughout schooling years?
@warisdirie7976
4 жыл бұрын
@@BooksRebound Yeah sorry my comment was mostly for the original comment. And well you can be seen as an "other" by some racists but France has had generations of immigrants as well so most of the time if you grew up in France and speak french with no accent you are seen as French. I think it's worse in some other countries in Europe which are not as used to diversity, even though France is not perfect.
@warisdirie7976
4 жыл бұрын
@@lauranaut Some are represented but not that much to be fair. We talk about colonialism of course, but briefly as we're aware it's not gloryfing. We mostly learn about WW1 and WW2. Most of the time the teachers are neutral, we don't glorify our achievements as much as the anglophone do, but we don't go into details about our negative actions as well. Depends on what kind of teachers we had, or schools we attended too I guess...
@lluviaproa-granillo781
4 жыл бұрын
Hello! I noticed a frequent use of saying that all “Americans” are treated differently and some unfairly. Even though I was born in “America,” being that I’m an indigenous person I still don’t identify w/ the identity of “American” because it was and is only truly reserved and created for white colonizers. The “American” identity is completely colonial. Also, the point about what you were saying, about not knowing what to say or “how to fit” as a white person into the conversation of race, I think it’s not really white folks job to fit or take up room in BIPOC spaces, but to just listen and reevaluate that race is a problem created by white people and y’all really need to start enacting change and conversation with one another about how sick this system of white supremacy is in all of its forms and inheritance. Other than that, I overall enjoy your channel and frequently wait for your red wine talk sessions because it’s like talking to my friends. In that we talk about how everything means anything or nothing and multiple truths exist but that we are unreliable narrators so in a way we also lie. Anyway, until next time!
@maria6451
4 жыл бұрын
American just bloody describes the country u were born in theres no need to be so anal about it. Almost every territory has been invaded, there have been empires all over the world that supressed minor cultures. Almost every country is a result of this and i dont see why cant we all just move past that and see that an american described someone born in the us the same way a slovakian describes someone born in slovakia for example.
@nabe___99
4 жыл бұрын
I don't know how that would work in the english language, but in portuguese we definitely have words to distinguish people from the USA and not call everyone just american.
@darukona7218
4 жыл бұрын
@@nabe___99 how do you call them then ?
@nabe___99
4 жыл бұрын
@@darukona7218 estatadunidense, it's literal translation would be united statian. We also use americano (american) sometimes, it just depends on the conversation we're having.
@TiffanieDavis
4 жыл бұрын
Loveeedd this chat - had a similar convo with my french friends about black people in the states being recognized as african american vs. here, they're not really being recognized as afro-french + totally agree with your thoughts on alll things social media w/black lives matter. great vid!!
@suzaney241
4 жыл бұрын
always w the best videos that talk about things that NO ONE EVER addresses .... thank youuuuuuuuuuu damon
@lanam5604
4 жыл бұрын
Damon cosplaying as a glossier employee
@barbiegirl1090
4 жыл бұрын
the content i needed. thank you so much! sending u both lots of love and an abundance of even more wisdom (as if ya need it)
@juliayellen6545
4 жыл бұрын
love the colors and the overall shot in general. so pretty. also love her outfit!!!!! and of course the red wine talk i love this
@summernide3193
3 жыл бұрын
Have to say thank you again,cause through all of your vedios I gradually conscious the beauty ,elegance,gentleness and harmlessness of a man as a gay.Sometimes I dislike some of the straight men,I feel they r aggressive ,kind of threatening.You showed me the perfection of a man.You also changed my ways of looking at gay.
@flo-floflo4151
4 жыл бұрын
The reason why we celebrate heritage months in the states in my perspective and what I've acknowledged is because throughout generations of immigrants we were told to adapt and to forget our own culture. They tell us to americanize and change our name so it can be more palatable for American tongues. They cannot pronounce our native names because they find too hard. Heritage months are a celebration that we are unapologetically proud of our culture and heritage. I'm American and Hispanic/Latino and when we celebrate our month we acknowledge our movement and history of our ancestors in America. Such as Dolores Huerta, Cesar Chavez, etc. Without it we lose ourselves and we won't hide in this country.
@AB-ts5xd
4 жыл бұрын
But what's the point in moving to a different country to celebrate your own culture? Why wouldn't you live in your own country if that's what you loved?
@flo-floflo4151
4 жыл бұрын
@@AB-ts5xd whats the point in moving to any country? Seems like you didn't read my post because I explained the reason why we celebrate our culture... let me elaborate New experiences, new opportunities, war at home country, all your family is dead so why not start fresh somewhere else. Just because you move somewhere doesn't mean you will forget who you are and your beginnings. When you're Irish, will I want to forget my language, food, religion, and culture just because I'm in a different country? Nope thats why we have parades to celebrate Irish heritage in Chicago. As many other cultures. Thats the point we go to Indian, Italian, Thailand restaurants because they preserved their food for others and themselves to enjoy. Without it we will all be eating hamburgers because we all know even hotdogs are German inspired. Not to mention the influence and contribution many immigrants made to American history,, science, music and many others, immigrants are part of america and add value, why not celebrate? Many of us are not color blind nor culture ignorant. I'll suggest to go to a parade and see the adversity many of these people had to face to leave everything they known to a foreign country were youre often hated just because you're a non-white immigrant.
@AB-ts5xd
4 жыл бұрын
@@flo-floflo4151 why would you leave everything you own to go to a racist country lol? That makes no sense.
@kamcacinos2304
4 жыл бұрын
I hate that names, especially last names and stuff have to be changed to make others comfortable. Like y’all be having these cool/beautiful names and the racism just comes over and screws it over🤦🏾♀️😤
@levisena8106
4 жыл бұрын
why did I learn more thing in 33:02 mins then 1 semester of history class. Thank you, please do more of these.
@kale9912
4 жыл бұрын
Tuning in with my grape juice lol. I've been waiting for this one!!
@user-cd6xy5vb9e
4 жыл бұрын
YASSSSSSS ( Though I still wait the wine talk with the queen purple palace ).
@damondominique
4 жыл бұрын
It’s comin this Friday!!
@ethanperkins2491
4 жыл бұрын
everything about this video was incredible and I love how well you guys were able to put everything in such a clear and human way. I also feel like it's necessary to say that that damon's outfit really do be poppin' off in this video too. I mean the pants - *chefs kiss*
@Victoria-dd5lu
3 жыл бұрын
ONE OF MY FAVORITE RED WINE TALKS HANDS DOWN
@itsalexandramartin
4 жыл бұрын
These red wine talks are the best!
@Shes.A.Sagittarius
4 жыл бұрын
Damon!! Holy crap! "you have the right to other people's time" is the EXACT reason Ive deactivated my social media platforms. Whenever I would skip a weekend of posts, people would legit ask me where have I been etc. I FEEL LIKE YOURE THE ONLY SOUL WHO KNOWS!!!
@rebeccamononen4132
4 жыл бұрын
I love the way that these videos either change my perspective on certain subjects or validate them. They're also very beautiful to watch...
@RosaDaniello
4 жыл бұрын
I loved this! I didn't even realize how long it was and by the end of it was still waiting for the next topic 😂
@Elizabeth-ld3jn
4 жыл бұрын
also, most film is made in hollywood (or at least the most mainstream type of cinema), so the rest of the world (i'm european) identifies what they see on the screen (which is most of the time not true) with what america really is, creating an illusion of what the us is. and while maybe americans can compartimentalise reality and film, people who have never experienced the whole of us culture firsthand (like me) can't know it not to be true. i've realised this more and more with everything that's going on right now. even though from the outside we know there are problems in the us (such as racism or social inequality), as outsiders we often don't realise the extent of these problems or how ingrained they are in us society. so i also think that social media kind of "equalises" all experiences, and has become a tool for seing other realities. sorry for my rambling, just some thoughts i got from this video. much love to everyone :)
@kiersten5437
4 жыл бұрын
(i'm american) i took a journalism class and we talked about the dominance of u.s. media throughout the rest of the world. i recognize other countries have made films but u.s. ones are highest-grossing and (if under that category) created by/featuring white people. and what you said with identifying american film with reality is the same for Americans whenever a foreign or non-white character is presented. plus americans are sooo warped up in ourselves and generally hate watching foreign films with subtitles or listening to foreign songs. it's really sad :(
@claudiabenedito2928
4 жыл бұрын
Malaika is so eloquent and has super interesting nuanced views, love to hear her talk!
@yuurmom7644
4 жыл бұрын
coming from an american who is constantly on social media it’s really interesting to see the point of view on this from non-american citizens (or from another country’s point of view, but obvi u guys don’t represent the whole country)!
@kaileebroadway7723
4 жыл бұрын
I grew up in D.C. in the inner city, not the nicest part and I didn't talk like everyone else, my voice did sound not like someone from the inner city of D.C. I had a friend who would used to ask me why I talk like I talk. I mean Idk, I cant change that. I was called a OERO so I understand where your coming from girl, it's annoying! Also totally agree about the Miley Cyrus, ever since she twerked it was in but when Black people do it, white people won't hop on it calling it ghetto and also Big lips! Black people have some big plump lips but when Kylie Jenner or whoever started with trying to make lips bigger, white people got hip on that too. As a lot of black communities would say " they want our culture and style but just not us."
@lemongacha
4 жыл бұрын
yo so glad for these different perspectives on issues!!! i was so eager to write someone off and not listen bc they weren’t willing to do “x” action to help “y” cause 👁 mind expanded eye opened
@Emanuil97
4 жыл бұрын
Is there a chance to get an episode like this one in French? 😁😁
@MadFlourish
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with a lot - but we have to acknowledge howww crazy it is to be required to have civil conversations with people who choose to invalidate your existence. It may be polarizing but some positions are dangerous and I think the quick shut-down of opinions is a response to headline culture.
@skznprcnk204
4 жыл бұрын
the concept of stories being told from many perspectives is fascinating. i recommend the book Sapiens by Harari, in which he digs into the stories being told. Everything is story, we just choose to believe it. Religion is a story, human rights are a story. some stories are better to believe and act to accordance with but still they are abstract reality. choose your stories well y'all
@hopeanne543
4 жыл бұрын
I just love every point Malaika makes in this
@summernide3193
3 жыл бұрын
I m a Chinese,for me understanding American English by listening is quite difficult.but after listening several of ur vedios,my listening is better.I could understand them in reality however it is quite difficult for me to understand by watching drama or vedios.I like that way because I think people r very important part in the world,of course it is very important to hear normalpeople's ideas and thoughts.
@itskylierae
8 ай бұрын
Wow she is so wise for her age. I strive to be that way. So emotionally intelligent
@mdiet5544
4 жыл бұрын
19?? holy damn, she is so well spoken, mature and intelligent. I‘m 18 and my goal is now to speak so articulately wow
@itsntok6071
4 жыл бұрын
for me, the black square silenced the ‘white noise’ and made a whole day of social media dedicated for black lives matter. it removed the feed and highlighted to stories which shared information
@km-hk6ee
4 жыл бұрын
I'm Canadian and something I've learned throughout school is the war of 1812, where the Americans invades what was then upper and lower Canada. In the war the Canadians push back the Americans, and burn down the White House. The Canadians kept Canada and we (the British) won but I've heard that Americans don't really learn or know much about this war? Like you guys said in the video it's interesting to hear over countries perspectives on history
@skyblue3263
4 жыл бұрын
That girl knows how to speak and think properly. Chapeau!
@jademoscato1771
4 жыл бұрын
good to know I'm not the only one who is 19 having a mini-crisis over turning 20 :)
@filmfauxtos
4 жыл бұрын
I'm super into the discussion at 31:39 where you talk about death being significant because of what happens afterwards (humanity continuing). it got me thinking how there are so many things that get their significance purely on what precedes or follows them, an example i discussed in a video i've made, discusses the significance of dessert coming after a meal
@_ritabarata
4 жыл бұрын
yessss, perspective and dialogue!! 💯💯💯💯
@mariaeduardaanjosmoura5420
4 жыл бұрын
Sup! So as a brazillian, what we are taught about the USA in school is pretty scarse but a lot on how the usa influenced our independence (basically they were allies of ours and they would help us fight the portuguese if they ever try to colonize us again) and how they were kind of the closest reflection of the enlightment movement that was happening in Paris. I honestly only heard about the revolutionary war that you guys are talking about in' Hamilton' lol. Plus our culture is really francophilic so we study europe as a continent primarily from the french perspective, and if you ever get to study about communication and media in brazil you will lear that our press is highly connected to the french press from its origens (amazing how we enherited the style of press but not the sense of democracy #forabolsonaro)
@yfreeman08
4 жыл бұрын
I so enjoyed the perspective that you both offered. This video has given me insight on matters that i had not considered. Thanks!
@auntiecodie
4 жыл бұрын
hell yes! i’ve been waiting on this video all week. 🥺😭
@ipsilonia
4 жыл бұрын
i almost came for malaika in the comments bc i didn't think she was militant enough about the black struggle, but i really appreciated how she calmly talked about thinking about other perspectives (i.e. how social media is hella tense/aggressive when people show solidarity "the wrong way"). all ima say is that strong/aggressive messages get seen n heard, in the same way riots yield stronger reactions than peaceful protests do.
@harvey8316
4 жыл бұрын
“our past is a story we tell ourselves” sounding a lot like the film ‘her’
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