Exactly. She must respect the man and he must be responsible and competent at life. Man-children aren’t fit for marriage. This is ultimately the problem of far too many breakups. Women need and desire mature and competent men. If you’re still getting financial assistance from daddy at 50 to support your family…. Zero respect . I see this in far too many.
@SanityMustPrevail
29 күн бұрын
@@jp5419🤡💩💯. Do you know everyone circumstance? Illness, bad luck, socioeconomic environment your country is based on. 🤫
@YeshuaLoves_You
28 күн бұрын
@@jp5419 "man-children" aptly stated. Holy God please get through to all boys, youth and men😢🙏
@mvphung007
2 ай бұрын
💯 giving her what she wants is not leading. Give her what she needs...your leadership.
@tarynthewriter3583
2 ай бұрын
And a woman who is capable isn't lost so it isn't so much that it's 'leadership' so much as "decisiveness." Have the ability to make sound decisions and have a world view with integrity to back them up!
@MeandmySara
Ай бұрын
This idea has been used for centuries to dominate, control and destroy the lives of women. "I know what's best for her, and I don't care what she says she wants / needs - I know what she needs."
@marleneschoenfeld4939
Ай бұрын
And while fighting my arm banged against furniture and I really hurt myself
@marleneschoenfeld4939
Ай бұрын
Don't marry someone who hates you -- is that all you can say? I can't get meds - after that I am still in the wrong???? after he made me a victim?
@marleneschoenfeld4939
Ай бұрын
After he wouldn't leave he insisted to sleep on my mattress and I woke up to him performing a sexual act and I knew I'm as good as dead
@DannySmith862
3 ай бұрын
If you approach marriage as a power negotiation, don't be surprised when it plays out as a power struggle.
@nildaluzrodriguez
3 ай бұрын
Right. Competition
@irreplacable1988
2 ай бұрын
But it’s the truth for heterosexual young couples In old age the power balances out 🤷🏽♀️
@DannySmith862
2 ай бұрын
@@irreplacable1988 How does it balance out in old age?
@leeolie3728
2 ай бұрын
Every relationship has hierarchy. Power is not a bad thing in the right hands. The problem is society is convincing all that men in power are all inherently wicked, so they can only be good with a female lording over every move.
@alexleggett6270
2 ай бұрын
@@leeolie3728I agree with this. Seems men are expected to be more and more responsible but retain less and less authority. Feminism teaches women to be strong and independent. Strong independent women obviously don't want a toxic authoritarian man. But unfortunately they also reject the healthy stoic masculine leader as well. They can't seem to tell the difference or want to acknowledge there is a difference.
@loumonte658
2 ай бұрын
Once you're married it's about the government.
@silverback7783
2 ай бұрын
😅😂
@MynaaStudio
2 ай бұрын
😂
@PROBERevealer
Ай бұрын
😁😁😂👍🏽 Sadly true if you let it be
@jillianminton8506
Ай бұрын
Yup it’s an artificial program that is falling apart and men can’t handle being alone
@auagstacking4189
Ай бұрын
@@jillianminton8506 Women too. Let’s not be disingenuous now
@LarryPanozzo
2 ай бұрын
“The only way to maintain respect is through modesty.” 👍🏼
@olgabushak2942
2 ай бұрын
Can you tell me more by what that means to you?
@LarryPanozzo
2 ай бұрын
@@olgabushak2942 It’s being free of arrogance and egotism, so you don’t assume others are wrong, or inferior to you, or are less deserving of respect and all other important things than you.
@olgabushak2942
2 ай бұрын
❤️
@4theloveoffashion959
2 ай бұрын
@@olgabushak2942it means that until you intentionally pick the right circle (friends, family, and spouse) you will ALWAYS be surrounded by HATERS that tell you, you need to be humble and modest. The part that they don’t tell you is that no matter how much you try to be modest if you are shining in life, you will always create the same level of attack against you. 💯
@en.4392
Ай бұрын
@@4theloveoffashion959this part!!!!
@dont.ripfuller6587
2 ай бұрын
Theo Von has a bit where he speaks on loneliness: it's not about you not having anyone- it's about no one having YOU. As a man, we instinctively desire to be needed, to have all our skills and knowledge be of benefit to someone else. Our brains are literally designed as solution machines, and we all know what we can do for ourselves. We need to serve others in a meaningful way.
@Mrsgmuller73
2 ай бұрын
But can't you serve without being needed only for your abilities? I mean, everyone can do the dishes, and if you'd do, it would still be serving. Actually, I think this point of view of basing human relationships on how useful you can be very problematic. Maybe that's why men have a higher chance of leaving their partners when they're ill than the other way around. I myself prefer to be with someone who doesn't need me, but still wants me there, simply bc they love me.
@rofishy2
2 ай бұрын
@@Mrsgmuller73but then why do women refuse to love?
@Mrsgmuller73
2 ай бұрын
@rofishy2 I can't speak for every woman, but I have loved in the past, and I love now. I have loved a man who I didn't need, I just enjoyed his company. I have resented a man I needed and a man I didn't need. I have loved a man I needed. The problem is wanting to reach a perfect formula that will guarantee you love. That's not how it works.
@seanpeavideo
2 ай бұрын
@@Mrsgmuller73I believe this is indictive of the huge issue modern male female interaction has. Is men project their view and experience of the world onto women and expect them to be of the male mindset. And women do exactly the same. Instead of ACCEPTING the nature of the being as your counterpoint. Thusly equalizing the relationship. You cannot tell the buyers of your product(which is you) what they should want. They tell u what they are willing to buy. Can you provide it?
@Mrsgmuller73
2 ай бұрын
@seanpeavideo I have no problems not telling the buyers what they want to buy. I have a problem with those who think there's only one kind of product to purchase/ they are the only one making the product. The truth is there's hundreds of brands of the product (following the analogy), and there are niches that will buy each one of these brands. And even if you make the "best" product, there are consumers who won't like it. And even if you buy this so-called "best" product, there's always a chance it won't fit you, or you won't like it, or that it will be defective. The author of this post is considering there's only one kind of product to offer and gets confused why ppl aren't buying it. He's failed to see that there are other similar products that satisfy customers' needs as well.
@annaburns2865
2 ай бұрын
You should only marry someone who needs you. And who you need. We all need to be needed.
@tensevo
2 ай бұрын
mans job is to give generously, woman job is to receive gratefully, end of story
@matthewhunter6421
2 ай бұрын
Wow, just like that you've summer up all about men and women Ina simplistic statement, which is the end of the story lol. How dumb
@Pain-95
2 ай бұрын
🤣
@demarcus4664
2 ай бұрын
This sounds like a comment from a woman
@Blueblackngold
2 ай бұрын
100% nonsense
@edgarmendoza2204
2 ай бұрын
Man's role is to provide necessities as a normal habit. You need something, you get it.
@charlesdavid-p1y
2 ай бұрын
As I watch this enthralling video, it resurrects the painful memories of my recent breakup-a relationship of five years that ended just three months ago. The woman who meant everything to me decided to leave, plunging me into a vortex of heartache. Despite my desperate attempts to reconcile, I find myself trapped in a cycle of frustration and longing, unable to envision a life without her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I find solace in expressing my lingering affection for her here.
@SusanVivian-g3l
2 ай бұрын
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@charlesdavid-p1y
2 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@SusanVivian-g3l
2 ай бұрын
Her name is Suzanne Ann walters, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@SusanVivian-g3l
2 ай бұрын
I'm grateful for this valuable information; I've just taken a moment to find her online. Very impressive!
@charlesdavid-p1y
2 ай бұрын
I'm grateful for this valuable information; I've just taken a moment to find her online. Very impressive!
@briceparlant9304
2 ай бұрын
This man just debunked our whole western society, equality and feminism in just 10minutes, love it!!
@YeshuaLoves_You
Ай бұрын
Amen, I'm a woman and I agree
@carlies.1920
Ай бұрын
The western mind is a false to destroy the family unit. The man is the head and provider and protector. The woman is the helper.
@ZenPepperClub
Ай бұрын
Baruch hashem
@Lazy-bliss
Ай бұрын
Men should start behaving like man. Women will become feminine
@justone3243
22 күн бұрын
But what he doesn't understand is that not all man are equal. So the principles he is teaching don't work for everybody. It's not as easy as he says
@aliactsc
3 ай бұрын
I'm a Christian man, and I can say without a doubt that Rabbi Manis Friedman is purely wise. You can't make this wisdom up -- it can only come at old age. Thank you for freely and calmly sharing your wisdom to us, Rabbi.
@Kel_DelaFe
2 ай бұрын
Facts
@MrBluemanworld
2 ай бұрын
I find infinite more wisdom in Christianity. You must be reading the wrong people.
@JustMe-999a
2 ай бұрын
Someone can tell you, then you can learn the same thing at any age.
@geraldmay9408
2 ай бұрын
Jews are the Elder Brothers of Christians. They gave us the Torah and Old Testament. We share the same source of Wisdom. -Shalom!
@btf1287
2 ай бұрын
@@geraldmay9408 get real. Inform yourself how priests are treated in Israel.
@Herbs-4-life
3 ай бұрын
I feel maintaining respect is about seeing the best in each other. In difficulty do not assume the worst. I try to see my mates perspective in a positive light and if i cannot do that I think of 5 things I am grateful for that he brings into my life. I must admit I really appreciate how much he really is a man. He is willing to be kind and thoughtful and still plan and take charge. He asks me what I want and is not afraid to offer help. I do make an effort to ask him to do the things that I really want. He likes fixing things and putting things together. I could do it but I like that he would rather do it so I receive it and I let him know that I appreciate his contributions. I thank God every day he is in my life. I feel I make his life better and he makes my life better. Respect is important to him and it is important to me that he can see I respect him. He is truly a blessing.
@balthazar8269
2 ай бұрын
Keep reminding him of what you’ve put on here
@sajithjames4692
2 ай бұрын
You're a blessing to him
@DelaronZarath
2 ай бұрын
I'm not a religious person, but every time I listen to one of your videos, my perspective on the world and relationships completely shifts. So many connections are made, and I learn things I was never taught when I was younger. It's truly a pleasure. Thank you!
@DJV94022
Ай бұрын
God Jesuscrist is not religion its freedom and relationship
@lillyvalley415
Ай бұрын
That makes you religious…
@SanityMustPrevail
29 күн бұрын
@@lillyvalley415no spiritual. Big difference. That existed before mainstream religion.
@SanityMustPrevail
29 күн бұрын
@@DJV94022 your talking about spirituality not religion.
@JAYJAY8625
2 ай бұрын
As a man its important to give to someone who will appreciate....
@machteldpeeters2282
2 ай бұрын
Nope...you missed the whole idea...you don t give in the expectations to be appreciated
@StopBeingVictimsItsNotGodly
Ай бұрын
This notion turns you into a yes man which women cannot stand!! You need to be respected. Lead with what is needed and not want, if she wants something do not give it if she walks away let her. Women respect men like these. You're giving so she can show you gratitude, if she'd entitled and don't care about you, she will never be grateful
Ай бұрын
@@machteldpeeters2282 No, he didn’t miss the point, a man who marries a woman and does things for her and she doesn’t appreciate it, is a fool. Man needs to marry a woman who appreciates him, otherwise he will slowly lose his soul.
@jinkazama2555
29 күн бұрын
@@machteldpeeters2282 cool, give to a women who doesnt appreciate it then, loser
@SanityMustPrevail
29 күн бұрын
@@machteldpeeters2282 when you give someone who needs you, they appreciate you. It goes hand in hand.
@MrMusicboy91
2 ай бұрын
As men we must both lead and simultaneously protect. Take charge of yourself, your manhood, your family unit, your household and your life! Assert yourself be the man your oats call you to be. We aren’t perfect but we can try to become as close to it as we can through living our roles appropriately. Wear the pants for a woman who rules you will despise you! This rabbi has truly earned his title! What a great teacher
@Owl-yc2yu
Ай бұрын
I keep hearing all these responsibilities that a man must take up and I do agree. Yet, 95% of the relationships and marriages I see do not have any semblance of properness from the man nor woman.
@gonnacry4513
Ай бұрын
@@Owl-yc2yuThat is why I say let the system burn to the ground. It has been damaged beyond repair. The only possible option is a huge disaster or calamity which will reset things. We have to stop playing this rigged game where no one wins
@Himmiefan
5 күн бұрын
A good man seeks to support, protect, and provide (which these days, is emotional protection since women can get their own physical things and money). An emotionally healthy man knows that it is not his place to rule over his women and that only weak, little men want to do that.
@MrMusicboy91
3 күн бұрын
@@Owl-yc2yu then you must change you associations and relationships as they are bad modeling for you. that is not the world at large
@epiclifeat4084
2 ай бұрын
10:00 "what do you want?" Thank you, Rabbi. I see a lot of men, including myself, losing their masculinity chasing women's validation and forgetting their inner voice.
@bellastone-le9eb
22 күн бұрын
As a Christian woman who grew up in a secular world, for the most part, I was considered the independent woman who had it all. I believed, or made myself believe that I was fine without a man. Now in my older year I am much more wiser and humble about these things. I can honestly tell you, I see so many reasons to need a man in my life. I would love to enjoy the companionship, reading scripture together, helping him in his career, helping each other in life, and the close connection and bond of a partner. So yes, Rabbi, this is a good message to share! Most certainly. Blessings to you.
@lawrenceatteh3442
19 күн бұрын
Do you have such a man in your life at the moment?
@em7937
13 күн бұрын
@@bellastone-le9eb what about your career? Wouln't it be wise that you have one and that man would support you in it as well? Or is all about his success, build him up and you end up one of those used women that have nowhere to go when the husband brings home his mistress....
@CryptoKernels
12 күн бұрын
You only feel that way now because you're older and the men that you want no longer want you. On top of that you're now competing with younger, more attractive women who can bear children. Don't worry, there are millions more women now just like you!
@CryptoKernels
12 күн бұрын
@@em7937You're not very bright at all
@em7937
12 күн бұрын
@@CryptoKernels says who, based on what? 😂😂😂 I just spoke of a realiry that happens to majority of women are dumb enough to give yo their life to build a man. By your comment, you are one of those frustrated red pill incels that keep preachin how women compete for men, yet men are the ones not being able to date or find a partner for years. So my friend...women don't compete for men, hence you are single af! All those dreams that young women want you...and yet can't get a date, with young or older woman😂😂😂 so much competition for you guys! Women chose better...they chose cats.😂😂😂
@OxenteGente
Ай бұрын
" if you have a life that she approves of and likes than she joins you in your life" 👏👏🙌
@em7937
29 күн бұрын
And most men have a life that women should run from: porn addicts, sick minds, no real growth. But some women still fall for the romantic BS...if they would look at the lives men live, they would stay far, far away from them!
@em7937
22 күн бұрын
@@OxenteGente if women would really look into men and the lives they live, no woman would marry. Most men lives are filled with corn addiction, games and no vision or structure. She has nothing to join...
@jackdeniston6150
2 ай бұрын
Being needed also requires the acknowledgement of carrying that burden. When I carry you, and you dismiss this carrying, I will no longer carry you.
@karamlevi
2 ай бұрын
He’s not addressing the hyper feminism and its saturating presence that is taught to men and women in the West. It’s in little girls cartoons, in ever level of schooling, ect ect.
@breakingthemasks
2 ай бұрын
Agreed
@smokingcrab2290
2 ай бұрын
This is how my wife is Bites the hand that feeds
@Discovering_world-jj1yj
Ай бұрын
If someone does not want your gift, there are two options - either you’re giving to a wrong person who simply does not have the same values as you do, either your “gift” is worthless. Easy.
@ExpectantHarvest
3 ай бұрын
🤗It's just I was raised by a very angry woman. I then went out into the world as a giver - raising these two kids by myself, etc. This is not who was Created to be. 🥰Now, I am 50 years old, the kids grown now, and I am learning day by day to be softer and to RECEIVE and this is who I am. It all began with RECEIVING the love of the Father - we love Him b/c He first loved us. 😇I was not able to RECEIVE at all before - not even the love of my own children - so if anyone wanted to GIVE to me - I would reject it and stay alone - I am glad to understand now - may more and more Revelation Knowledge come to me as I am able to RECEIVE more EACH day - even though I am under the blessing of Abraham, I could not walk in my own inheritance b/c I did not know it and I could not RECEIVE God's many blessings each day. 🙏🙏
@anisjt
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this❤️ blessings unto you!
@ivanarredondo8481
2 ай бұрын
that's a lot of work you did, God bless you!!
@michaelbrown-bs4iv
3 ай бұрын
thank you for your common sense and clarity. my wife and i do not understand how couples enter into marriage and maintain "seperate" lives (bank accounts, friends, and even faiths) expecting the marriage to be happy, fulfilling, and lasting.
@Foxie770
3 ай бұрын
You don’t. That is living with a roommate, not marriage!
@Jenny-e4v
3 ай бұрын
Because, although u are married, u may not always be married. There is no guarantee that your partner will love u forever. He may decide to leave. I have heard stories of one spouse taking all the money from the joint account.
@josephdilorenzo5314
3 ай бұрын
Great teaching!
@TGP109
2 ай бұрын
@@Jenny-e4v Yes, and fights over money are one of the biggest reasons for divorce. Sometimes it's better to keep separate accounts.
@terrijamison9154
2 ай бұрын
Being "unequally yoked" is a terrible thing 😑
@akai.christo
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Rabbi Friedman!!💪🔯🙏❤☀🎶
@natureasitis3082
3 ай бұрын
Finally! I found sanity Clarity And wisdom.
@legendyosemite
2 ай бұрын
I’m not religious but as I woman I can confirm that this it is such a turn off when a man doesn’t take charge 💯
@jmso8096
2 ай бұрын
You can confirm that you, personally, are turned off by not "taking charge" but what do you mean by "taking charge"? Do you confuse confidence with arrogance? Do you dislike living with the consequences of your decisions, and so dislike making decisions? I'm genuinely curious.
@karamlevi
2 ай бұрын
She’s pretending to know things. If she really knew things she would NEVER complain nor let her girls complain about “controlling” guys. Most modern men are trained to never take control and this lady is that ignorant to never speak up when women shame other men for taking control. The gals want a leader, and don’t want to be a follower. Basic American new style-
@lhughes6656
2 ай бұрын
@@jmso8096maybe I can help elaborate a bit. Confidence is good, arrogance is annoying and unnecessary. Women are perfectly capable of making all the important decisions in a relationship, but to do so is exhausting for her. It's not about not being able to live with the consequences of a decision, we do that all day everyday without a spouse. The issue is that women were not created to lead a relationship, we were created to help. I once heard someone say "weight is meant for shoulders not for hips" and I agree with this statement. All it means for a man to "take charge" is that he's capable of leading the relationship through making important decisions with strength and isn't afraid to do so. And that comes from a place of confidence in God and in himself. It doesn't mean he arrogantly says "my way or the highway" it means he consults God, consults his wife and has earned her trust in a way that allows him to lead her and make difficult decisions for her and the family when necessary. It also means that he can make ANY decision when necessary, including making plans for their future. But if the man is constantly only trying to please his wife to the point he's so scared of making the wrong move that he shrinks back and lets her decide everything at all times, for a woman that's exhausting for her and shows a lack of self-confidence in the man. If he can't stand up to his woman, he can't stand up FOR his woman and is therefore a pushover and is no longer safe. And pushovers are unattractive, male or female. Everyone appreciates confidence, but no one respects a "yes-man" or someone who cowers every time he has to decide something, agreeing to everything. At that point the woman becomes the head of the man because the man put her there and this defies God's natural order. This is why relationships like this typically end in resentment for the woman and emasculation for the man because he never learned to lead and she never began to follow. The natural order is reversed and this is not a healthy way to conduct a relationship.
@Pain-95
2 ай бұрын
To avoid accountability a woman must not take charge😂
@kwilder7378
2 ай бұрын
A woman who is not religious is such as big turn off.. I can confirm stay away from women who doesn't have faith within her heart...
@Mythoughtonpoliticaltopics
3 ай бұрын
I love this rabbi. He speaks sound doctrine. ❤❤❤❤❤
@bbenezra1169
Ай бұрын
Thank you Rabbi Manis you are such an inspiration to the world. May H’Shem bless you and shine his face upon you.
@MLP8044
Ай бұрын
Its an honor and a privlage to listen to you, sir!
@VenusFire314
2 ай бұрын
If women and men would respect what each other brings to the relationship then things would be great but if one contribution is used as a manipulative tool to blackmail the other,it will always end disastrous.
@lynncarter4964
Ай бұрын
Young women today don't want to need a man, and even if they don't need him, they need to give the impression that they do, WITHOUT BEING NEEDY IN THE WRONG WAY. John Gray is my favourite author on what men need from women and what women need from men. My own rendition of what is healthiest for a marriage is for women to LET MEN DO THINGS FOR THEM. Even if you don't need the thing he's offering, SAY YES, and say thank you, I really appreciate this, it helps me a lot. Men get depressed if they are not of service to a woman often. Often. If he has stopped offering things to you, then start asking for things with a happy attitude, and when he finally does the thing, APPRECIATE HIM. He will then want to do more for you. Never nag. Just keep asking with absolutely no negativity at all.
@lillyvalley415
Ай бұрын
I hope all young women disregard this. You don’t have to do anything. Learn to love God and learn to receive his love. The rest will set itself in motion. The minute you start doing all this you’re no longer abiding in grace now you’ve subjected yourself to laws, laws of how to please a man. Which is impossible. A man can only please himself. Focus on God and the good works of your faith. Leave people pleasing, it never works.
@em7937
29 күн бұрын
Young women today saw theor mothers and grandmothers being gr...ed, abused financiallyz, physically, emotionally. And if men get depressed because they want to be of help, how about theh start helping with what is indeed needed: cook a meal, run the vaccum, clean a bathroom. That os very much needed and it would be of great help to take some of theoad off her. Please spare me the BS withen getting into depression because they are not needed. They get depressed because they can't control and absue a woman. There is plenty of responsabilities around the house, that require a lot of time and energ...yet men refuse to help with that. Stop teaching men this BS....women had enough of being blamed for not putting up with crap!
@Himmiefan
5 күн бұрын
@@lillyvalley415 Yeah, John Gray is all about men can merely exist and women must change and adapt to men. I disregard anything he says.
@halo_1232
7 күн бұрын
yea she needs you.... to pay her bills, mow her lawn, get her groceries... so in the end she could take half your stuff or more.
@jacksmith4438
3 ай бұрын
Please post part 2 about how to maintain respect after the other person becomes predictable!
@calmchill7583
3 ай бұрын
Introduce a “Random Act of Respect” day Designate one day a week when you both try to show extra respect for each other. This could include writing a love note, bringing flowers or simply thanking them for everything they do. Remember why you fell in love Cultivate common interests Laugh together remember that predictability is often a sign of stability and security in a relationship. Instead of fighting it, embrace it and be thankful that you have someone who is always there for you, no matter what
@jacksmith4438
3 ай бұрын
@@calmchill7583 thank you so much for your reply. Such valuable wisdom!
@garyfrancis6193
3 ай бұрын
I knew you were going to say that.
@ZenPepperClub
Ай бұрын
This is where you start to get kinky and add some sex toys
@em7937
22 күн бұрын
@@jacksmith4438 respect is not most with predictibility. You behave worthy of respect, even if predictable, respect only grows. You probably talk about something else
@ram47863
2 ай бұрын
You can't give your wife a man roles lol That's why your wife don't need you, because she already the man she needs in the relationship Woman need is different than man Don't follow modern dating advice from feminist or even from redpill, both will make your marriage end in the future Listen those older people who already have long lasting marriage
@joantaylor468
2 ай бұрын
Father Abraham & Sarah had separate tents! This helps to maintain unpredictability. Today we'd say they each had their space & she still was a mystery to him therefore the romance was always there.
@YellowToucan
2 ай бұрын
I'd change the word 'unpredictability' to 'desire'. I'm sure Sarah never left her tent without first being presentable to the world, meaning, Abraham rarely saw Sarah in those 'human moments', e.g. not at her best, before/after bodily functions, etc. etc. Familiarity breeds contempt is so true.
@Meadowflames
Ай бұрын
But Abraham took her everywhere … to Egypt , any journey he took- he did not leave her behind and go do “his own thing”. He made sure she felt included, loved, and appreciated.
@projectaletheia8707
3 ай бұрын
This man gets it. Wise words.
@AyaEgbuho
3 ай бұрын
Wow. This was deep. You had me at the first sentence. ❤ Thank you for sharing.
@OxenteGente
Ай бұрын
There is so much knowledge in the Hebrew Culture
@mestawetendaylalu2977
3 ай бұрын
God gave us the rule of marriage we can follow as a woman (wife) & as a man (Husband) responsibilities of marriage life, in a way that doesn't hurt both parties when they live together. The secret of marriages is very huge. We need to understand about marriage responsibilities before marriage. Otherwise, it will be fragile after honeymoon.
@TheSeth256
2 ай бұрын
This makes perfect sense, and it's a tragedy that the modern civilisation tries to teach the exact opposite approach, resulting in chaos and broken homes.
@toledogold
2 ай бұрын
Thank you. I was with a man who was like this, happy to be reactive but not proactive or willing to genuinely include me in his life. Awful, sad & complicated. It’s nice for me to watch this and see that my instincts are correct and how I can have more confidence in myself and not step into masculine energy when he doesn’t know what to do. If he doesn’t know what to do, let that be apparent and ok and awkward. I don’t have to fill that vacuum. The willingness to do gives the ability to do.
@SimonBoafo
2 ай бұрын
That is what an equality mindset brings along. You will be tempted to ask her for what she wants all the time and that will bring about contempt for you at the end. That's what thinking we are equal does to us.
@em7937
22 күн бұрын
@@SimonBoafo thinking equal does not do that. Looking at your partner as equal, not superior or inferior should bring about the level ground where you start the communication and agree on things. And from there u deal with that specific person. She is your equal but her love language might ve quality time, so that is her need, not a want!Another woman might nit care about quality time but acts of service...so the need is what the perdon needs, not what you decide for her/him that she/he needs
@gx3079
13 күн бұрын
@@em7937hope you don’t learn the hard way.
@poface2
2 ай бұрын
Big dose of hard cold facts here. Absolutely true. I WISH i understood this earlier in my life, so any young bloods in the comments, please heed this man's words. Great video.
@VAmissaAnima
Ай бұрын
Don‘t Make Children, If She Doesn’t Need You !!!
@Issie995
2 ай бұрын
As a woman he is saying the truth 💯
@themoneyman1752
Ай бұрын
You know Andrew Tate says the same thing but when he says it he’s the Devil 🤷🏾♂️
@CaptainSurfy
Ай бұрын
@@themoneyman1752exactly!!
@alexvig2369
Ай бұрын
If you marry her because she "needs" you, once she won't need you anymore she'll leave. This video is mostly good, but I don't agree with this one thing.
@mirabelleerdbeer1127
3 ай бұрын
😊 endlich ein Mann, der es versteht. 😊danke!
@sheriwilliams8942
25 күн бұрын
Everybody needs somebody and we all need Help at sometime in our Lives.. ✝️
@carloscabrera1912
Ай бұрын
As the Rabi says, women don't know what they want until it shows up, if it ever does. Never try to ask a woman what she wants as she does not know it. It does not matter how long she talks about it. THEY DON'T KNOW. They expect you to know and they get dissapointed and despice you if you don't. It is the magical thinking that almost every young woman does. If you fail to provide an experience that is not magical, they'll reject you. This is due to the wsy little girls are brought up in the West, with a parent that GIVES them everything and asks for nothing. They grow up thinking they deserve everything and when the tree grows bent, you cannot straighten it without breaking. In my opinion, Rabbi forgets this element in the equation: EDUCATION.
@MeandmySara
Ай бұрын
Spoken like a true misogynist. "She doesn't know what she needs, I don't care what she says she needs, I always know better, I don't need to listen to her at all". Been used for centuries to abuse and control women. And this idea that every western woman's life is just a picnic is nonsense, but of course you believe this.
@onwrdandupwrd5303
2 ай бұрын
if you squint, he looks like Trump with a beard in the thumbnail
@garyfrancis6193
3 ай бұрын
Marriage is vitally important to the divorce courts.
@silverback7783
2 ай бұрын
😂😅
@DrTHasanJohnson
Ай бұрын
I like what he’s saying but I wished he’d explain more. For example, when he critiques the request for a “peaceful home” by suggesting one doesn’t have structure in the home. A few examples of what he deems to be structure would’ve been edifying at that moment.
@heymanhaha
2 ай бұрын
This is the best pick up advice ive ever heard
@FernGray
Ай бұрын
So wise .. I try to not have regrets in life but I do wish that I had more spiritual guidance on relationships and marriage when I was younger. Thank you so much for sharing! 🙏
@AshleyVailuu
3 ай бұрын
The vocabulary on the bottom left is a nice touch!
@markaurelius61
3 ай бұрын
Ah, thanks for mentioning that. I missed the last one tznius for modesty
@ladyjackrabbit
22 күн бұрын
"it's not saying women are weak, you have to be their boss, it's saying the woman will accept you if you can be the boss. If not, she doesn't need you."
@testpm-il7qq
Ай бұрын
I’m not Jewish but the Rabbi is cooking!
@glenmccarthy8482
28 күн бұрын
You would have to be a masochist to get married in the era of the internet enabled smart phone.
@annabelle1471
3 ай бұрын
you make good points to think on but I wonder about a woman with everything(job, house etc)- what’s your opinion about what she would need from a man? bc in my opinion it’s companionship so I think it fits your point, just differently
@stephanie7572
3 ай бұрын
Emotional support: "How was your day?"
@margarettabone9713
2 ай бұрын
Just because you have one house does not mean you don’t need a second one that you share with your husband 🙌🏼 You just make money out of yours by renting it out, quit your job and dedicate your time to stay healthy and sane for your family, be the best wife and mother you can be, with no job stress 🎉😊
@nightwishisthegreatestband6355
Ай бұрын
Lmao! That's just dumb@@margarettabone9713
@RasKalevthesouljourner
2 ай бұрын
Hey, you must be European. Nice hat.
@ELXABER
3 ай бұрын
Men and women almost speak different languages. You never do anything equates to you never taking initiative, or when women complain about something, men assume they want whatever broken fixed when in fact they just want to vent and be heard.
@Asme1111-t8h
3 ай бұрын
I can't disagree.
@ELXABER
3 ай бұрын
@@Asme1111-t8h It's not a dig, just a fact. Men and women think very differently, one is more logical and uses more technically descriptive words, while the other more emotional and uses an emotional expression instead of a technical breakdown. If you recognize it, whichever you are when dealing with the opposite, it helps with communication. I never understood women don't want something fixed when they complained till years after my wife and I were married. She got tired of it, knew how logical/technical I was, and simply explained it since "You're not listening" didn't equate to me, I think I replied "I am listening, this is how you fix ...." - problem solved, I quit doing it. 🤷♂
@smokingcrab2290
2 ай бұрын
Not true. Vvomen don't know what they ant and they literally make up reasons to be resentful because they're miserable with themselves
@SR-mv2mf
16 күн бұрын
Where are all these elders when we need them. I felt so lost as a young woman. All the silly media, movies, music and books did nothing for me in the department of romance and relationships. Just got used and never got the love or nurturing I wanted.
@tinacherry2295
Ай бұрын
Its not that she needs to follow, she needs someone who has their own thoughts and opinions. And stands on them. She doesn't need someone to "follow". Men and women can have and be equal. Its called being partners. Its respecting each others thoughts and opinions, honestly listening to each other, coming to conclusions by hearing each other. And figuring out what works best for them.
@LisaMarie-eh7up
Ай бұрын
I totally agree. No one in a relationship should “need” the other person; you should be capable of taking care of yourself and be happy on your own. A partner adds to that happiness. I believe people like this man are trying to help but the “a husband and a wife each have separate rolls” type of thinking is beginning-level spirituality. Everything you need and want in life is first found within, then you can share that life with someone else who has achieved the same thing. Thanks for reading.
@SicxestFox600
23 күн бұрын
@@LisaMarie-eh7up so if you gonna build with a person in a relationship have kids and everything shouldn't you realize that you need that person.....
@MBAYoungboy
23 күн бұрын
partners are for businesses not relationships. The man leads.
@LisaMarie-eh7up
23 күн бұрын
@@SicxestFox600 Hi Lacynthia, these are two different definitions of “need”. I think (tell me if I’m wrong) that you mean physically it’s difficult to do everything but that’s not what I understand in this video. He’s saying that men have this desire to be needed; it’s part of their makeup as a man. I disagree. I believe that if you have a desire to be needed, then you’ll never be happy long term with someone. What happens if they need you only sometimes? What if in one instance the women does do something on her own and in that moment the man feels like “she doesn’t need me.”? Can you see how this could end up in the man getting mad at the woman and how she may not have any idea what’s going on? Become whole within and these problems won’t happen.
@LisaMarie-eh7up
23 күн бұрын
@@MBAYoungboy Hi! You may find a woman one day that has a need to be subservient and if that works for both of you then that’s fine. But to give that as advice for everyone, that’s not ok. A truly advanced spiritual person sees everyone as having their own path in life. And I would add that a truly advanced man would listen to his partner and let them lead in situations where they realize that their partner knows more or is better at something. This leads to things being better for everyone involved. Thanks for reading.
@Nerotique
2 ай бұрын
Women regard men as human doings, not human beings. It's that simple.
@smoothvelvetsinger
Ай бұрын
I often look to Rabbi Friedman for wisdom
@luciatat4084
Ай бұрын
I know it’s true becouse in my parent’s marriage my mother is the boss and my father does everything she says and they are both miserable. She doesn’t respect him and treats him like an incapable person or a child under her authority even though he has been the provider always in their marriage, materialistically speaking. It hurts to see how he is being treated by her all the time but I cannot do anything, this is their agreement. He accepts the disrespect, she doesn’t understand she needs to respect her husband and let him be the husband, they have done this for 39 years. I don’t know if a marriage can change and become healthy after being sick for so long. They will never get divorced, I know it, but it’s also sad to see their misery.
@MichaelRe-c7q
2 ай бұрын
This is absolutely true. I have seen so many men I know either in miserable marriages or divorced due to a "strong woman" that doesn't feel like she needs anyone
@LisaCulton
2 ай бұрын
The men need to be stronger and stop being takers/ receivers.
@Golf2foto
2 ай бұрын
Most likely the man was weak and the woman couldn’t settle into her divine feminine role.
@smokingcrab2290
2 ай бұрын
@LisaCulton, vvomen don't give anything
@LisaCulton
2 ай бұрын
@@smokingcrab2290 They're not supposed to give. Women are made to receive.
@carloscabrera1912
Ай бұрын
@@LisaCultonThat's a very simplistic way of putting it, very convenient for the selfish ones. And yet, Women GIVE birth. It is the Supreme give, but most women in the West have decided that they are not willing to do that. It is then when they turn into takers.
@seleneirissummers
18 күн бұрын
Im only here because i want and need a Jewish husband. Peace. ❤
@Trysaratop
Ай бұрын
As a woman listening to all my friends the majority of our problems in the relationship is men just want sex never intimacy like cuddling and hand holding and men expect you to clean everything, cook everything, do all care of animals or children and still want you to provide some income. When you start feeling overwhelmed and treated like a maid you just figure out it’s better to be alone. Even if you provide major income in household you need to help with chores at home. You would have to without your partner there and still would be working. It’s ok to help with one load of dishes and take the trash out.
@MeandmySara
Ай бұрын
I'm a woman in my twenties and... yes, 100% this is how my friends and I also experience men. And when you bring it up with men, they all say 'well you just pick bad ones,' but then when you decide 'ok, I will only be with a man who treats me well,' you're told your standards are too high / you don't deserve that / men like that don't exist... So what is the point? Feels pretty hopeless at this point. What even is the point of a man? If you are an educated woman with friends and a meaningful, decently paid work and a rich inner life... what is the point, can someone tell me?
@PsalmNinety1
Ай бұрын
@MeandmySara pray to God and seek God first,he will provide you a husband that's if your ready in gods timing
@MeandmySara
Ай бұрын
@@PsalmNinety1 I feel like you didn't read what I wrote, because your reply was quite irrelevant to it. Not that it's any of your business but I do pray regularly. Your advice was unsolicited and unhelpful.
@PsalmNinety1
Ай бұрын
@MeandmySara I know women who went celibate for 5 years and God blessed them with a husband so im just speaking from experience, hopefully that helps but sorry 😞 just tryna give some wisdom 🙏
@MeandmySara
Ай бұрын
@@PsalmNinety1 Where it wasn't asked. And I am celibate. Again, not that it's any of your business.
@UmamiPapi
18 күн бұрын
God has blessed you with wisdom in your age. Thanks for sharing.
@Kelley369
2 ай бұрын
For years I kept telling my partner look, I don’t need you, I want you. I’m here by choice. I thought that was more powerful. It might have been for a giver, but if a man is a reciever it will not be reciprocated well. Now I understand I was needing him to step up and be a man, to which he choose being a child. I did need a man but not the material things he provided.
@kresovk5
2 ай бұрын
What was it that then that you needed? Material goods were and, to a certain point, still are the most basic need.
@zeehuss7275
2 ай бұрын
@@kresovk5correct
@Kelley369
2 ай бұрын
@@kresovk5 materials mean nothing, I could have loved him In a tent if it meant I would have received the love I desired. Love respect and kindness. Those are needs. God provides the rest.
@kresovk5
2 ай бұрын
@K.L.Kelley Yeah, everyone loves to express themselves in extremes they would never stoop down to in actuality. Besides, even for the general answer, "receiving love I needed" is still incredibly vague, as that is the end goal, not the method.
@Kelley369
2 ай бұрын
@@kresovk5 okay so to simplify or in your case expand: attunement, affection, gratitude, respect, honor, faithfulness. That is what I required. Basic human needs consist of significance, love and connection, certainty, growth, contribution and uncertainty. You can determine your own needs by self reflection and examination. Those are needs. Materialism isn’t a need. And God provides those things. You aren’t in control of anything.
@martinelias3606
2 ай бұрын
Interesting idea, no one have ever mentioned this, no one! No one I ever came across at least online. By this standard it is basically like newton's laws of motion lol, it is so true and powerful formula to see how manly a man is and how feminine the women is. That explains why male teachers vs female teachers are very different in how they feel rewarded female teachers prefer their students to love them over educating them while male teachere are more likely to feel more rewarded once they see thier students achieve in life even if it means not having a close relationship. I heard something similar from a Christian educator in the past.
@sobeautifulsrilanka
2 ай бұрын
Major problem with this theory is that once she doesn’t need you, she’s going to discard you.
@FarTooPrecious
2 ай бұрын
Not necessarily true. Anyone can potentially discard anyone for any other reason. If she has an ounce of a heart she will remember the man who loved her and was there for her when she had those needs. If she has an once of wisdom she will recognise that he helped to get her to where she is. If she is a selfish fool she will discard him when she has her needs met.
@jeffreyscottking
2 ай бұрын
facts. dont be too rich either, shell be gone tomorrow.
@losfromla1480
Ай бұрын
@@FarTooPreciousthat's not how women think. For them it's: "what have you done for me lately?". With lately being today. Women don't generally exhibit reciprocity, certainly they don't accumulate it over time.
@em7937
29 күн бұрын
@@losfromla1480.lol. are you talking about men? Because that is what men do. They don't satisfy any of the woman's needs....yet they want all their needa satisfied! You have neen brainwashed. And before yoi start....oaying some billd is not satisfying a woman's needs!
@frussonj
4 күн бұрын
Bingo... she will take her cash and prizes with no repercussions. Wake up gents...the game is rigged against you.
@Southernman469
2 ай бұрын
I must be from another planet as this is NOT how my marriage worked or anyone I know-how their marriage works. The woman will glady tell you what to do as if you’re a child for the entirety of the relationship. Also you cannot lead someone who does NOT want to be led. Also women will use the physical relationship as a weapon to manipulate and coerce the man into what she wants. Also the statement “life is not about you” is certainly appropriate for marriage but if its not about BOTH -meaning only one is the center the focus its doomed. ITS ABOUT BOTH. Both have to sacrifice for the other. It is about both and the fact that the creator said that the two will become one flesh should be plain enough to understand its about BOTH. You should marry whom your heart and soul tell you to marry after praying to the Lord God about it. Lastly it wasn’t the woman who God made first then looked around and said “ its not good that she is alone “ NO - man was made first and God said “ its not good that he should be alone”. Woman was made for man to complete him and before you @ me about how we are complete in God and only Him then why was perfect unfallen Adam who was in the presence of GOD ALMIGHTY not satisfied and needed a mate ? And the creator is the one who said its not good not Adam. This man may be wise but in regards to male /female relationships-think for yourself
@Allthequeenzhorses
3 ай бұрын
Most men run from women who are in need of anything….
@user-jn6jm4bb6f
3 ай бұрын
They run from a woman who is needy, not a woman who needs
@NightinGal89
3 ай бұрын
There's no difference
@Asme1111-t8h
3 ай бұрын
@@NightinGal89 Yes there is. The difference is this: if a man doesn't do for me something I can't already do for myself he's not a man I can respect or desire. It might be he grows and catches food. It might be he knows how to maintain a house physically. It might be he knows how to manage and invest money so it grows. It doesn't matter what it is. It matters that he adds something to our lives.
@user-jn6jm4bb6f
3 ай бұрын
@@NightinGal89 There is a HUGE difference between a person in need and a person who is needy, the difference is the "OTHERS" or in other words: "what will others say". For a person who needs something, the "what will others say" do not exist. A person who has a need to fulfill, will ask for help from those related to him, in order to fulfill the need. Once the need is fulfilled, he stops and can now help others. if there is a need to fill, it is filled according to the ability, the amount needed and according to the manner, a lion eats meat, an elephant eats grass and also an ant. On the other hand, a needy person uses need, to impress. And in order to impress, everyone related to is used as a means to achieve the goal. An unattainable goal, because it is in an inner layer, therefore this need will never be fulfilled and as a result, the person will never stop use people as a means and never be able to help others who are not directly related to the goal of impressing the "others".
@CareBlair222
2 ай бұрын
@NightinGal89 we all need something. We are human. But that need shouldn't dictate our behavior as being needy. Being needy is a symptoms of unresolved trauma. Needing things is a basic human desire.
@kuntu1943
Ай бұрын
Unless she needs you? She will leave when she doesn't. Being a leader doesn't mean you're the best at everything and one doesn't submit to leadership because the leader is better than them. The greatest and the best of us have shortcomings. At the same time we encourage men to strive to be better knowing full well there will always be room for improvement.
@mike-we8pb
3 ай бұрын
How many Rabbi's get divorced by their wife?
@King.Peanut
Ай бұрын
So we men are only suppose to be needed and not loved?
@IperfectedCloning
3 ай бұрын
Faithful marriage is sacred till death. death and birth are facts. Resurrection is true by G and or cloning. I perfected cloning. Please help me to legalize it
@IperfectedCloning
3 ай бұрын
Cheers
@successartistry3023
2 ай бұрын
Rabbi is dropping some Red Pill truths
@squaretriangle9208
2 ай бұрын
The story about the couple that came to marriage counseling made me😂😂😂😂😂 and it is so common today
@shodapad07
2 ай бұрын
Modesty brings Respect. Thank youvsir.
@StanDaMan4487
2 ай бұрын
If a waman NEEDS you, she just need your money. If she WANTS you, she is in lust and loves you.
@MSSHARIII
Ай бұрын
THIS MAN SIMPLY GETS IT‼️💯💯 🥹🥹🥹
@jennajewert
3 ай бұрын
Lots of wisdom here 🙌
@28KKaann
Ай бұрын
Divorce attorneys enter3d the chat.
@markrcca5329
2 ай бұрын
isn't it better for husband and and wife to both give and receive? The husband provides some things to the wife that she values, and wife provides other things to the husband that he values. Then each have pleasure in both giving and receiving. Perhaps it wasn't the rabbis intention, but it sounded a bit like he was describing a purely one-way street kind of marriage - the husband only gives but receives nothing, while the wife only receives and gives nothing in return. Why would a man want a wife like that? Perhaps the rabbi was using a hyperbola to make a point..
@annee5582
2 ай бұрын
You have to be in a relationship for a very long time in order to understand what he’s talking about. When he says a man is a man and a woman is a woman, he’s not talking about status or equality. Example, if man were to act like the woman in the relationship, (ultimate receiver) that brings an imbalance. That being said, if you are the man acting like the woman (receiver) and you enjoyed or preferred it then your supposed to be the woman🤔. it’s too complicated when you’re trying to play both, it’s seen in society today as praiseworthy, but it is an imbalance when talking about a marriage that is between a man and a woman. He says it all, in a marriage. It’s not about you anymore.
@markrcca5329
2 ай бұрын
@@annee5582 I don't get it. What's an ultimate receiver? Someone who doesn't do anything in a marriage? I'm pretty sure most women contribute a great deal when they're wives. The ones who do absolutely nothing at all are known as trophy wives or gold-diggers, but even then, they provide a certain companionship to the man.
@smokingcrab2290
2 ай бұрын
His interpretation of Genesis is wrong. It means the woman will desire to seize control and take the man's role and fight him for it, but at the end of the day he will win and rule over her no matter what she does, because she can't rob him of his divine role.
@kunle9
Ай бұрын
I agree. from childhood, girls try to compete with boys. It doesn't end with adulthood or marriage.
@szszszsz95395
2 ай бұрын
This is a good talk about what men need to be. Can you please do a talk about what women need to be?
@sweetyjones1756
2 ай бұрын
Amen to that
@zeehuss7275
2 ай бұрын
Why would he be saying about what women need to be, lol, you people are rediculous. he better say about men coz he's a man and he's wise. I've seen manny religious men talking about how women should be and they always recieve a backlash
@vasudevsarvam6912
2 ай бұрын
@@zeehuss7275 Yeah narcissist group is always right and can't do no mistakes.
@breakingthemasks
2 ай бұрын
I would watch that for sure
@reneekatz
Ай бұрын
Ignore these mama's basement dwellers, I want to see this video as well.
@SheilaGibson-s9h
28 күн бұрын
Also pay his bills he takes care of the car or also waxes it himself and washes. It knows how to cut the grass over snow and knows how to paint and Hammer and all sorts of things without your help. Only thing he didn't do was plant flowers but if you gave him a flower he would take it. That kind of guy. That was my father. That's who I'm looking for😊
@bragiodinsen4604
Күн бұрын
cut grass over snow?
@magiccarpet9172
2 ай бұрын
Translate: women want men to be masculine, strong, and possess leadership qualities.
@smokingcrab2290
2 ай бұрын
Yet the women are always fighting for dominance and redefining what masculine is. They're judge, jury, and executioner and they move the goalpost constantly
@lauranell2978
3 ай бұрын
It is beyond logic and nature , but also explains the theory !
@motherpandayourconfusedmom
7 күн бұрын
Several times I thought I wasn't going to agree with second statements but was pleasantly surprised 🤦🏻♀️🙏🤗
@sajithjames4692
2 ай бұрын
She doesnt need me, and this really has led to a lot of pain.
@em7937
29 күн бұрын
Well do you help her with ehat is needed? Clean the housez cook a meal, change the bed. She does very much need you....but I am.sure you expect her to do everything. In that case, how can she need you....if you don't help with the real needs??
@DanielShumway-s8n
8 күн бұрын
I wish I watched this video 25 years ago then, she wouldn't have divorced me, remarried and died early.😢 I didn't take initiative to plan things for us and I never argued, and wondered why she was so disrespectful because I was always kind and I felt hurt and frustrated by not understanding why she wasn't happy. I should have been Captain Dan! Not some spineless workhorse drone always agreeing to disagree. I'm just like my Dad but worse, and I should have been acting, not reacting, just emotionally discouraged and not doing much extra to make life better without being asked. Now I'm almost 52 years old and and alone and wish I could go back in time. Well this video helped me realize I've learned a lesson. It may be too late for me to start over but, maybe I can teach my son some wisdom if he ever talks to me again. MAYBE I'll get out there and make a better life for myself now I've recently stopped trying to drink myself to death and clean now. I want to start a career now my broken leg is almost healed and when I'm financially in my feet I've might be open to dating again and not make the same mistakes again. I'm not Jewish but raised Christian and trying to be a better one. Thank you for this video, I have tears in my eyes while writing this. BETTER LATE THAN NEVER! 😮
@saraeisenbach8466
2 ай бұрын
I broke off an engagement 21 yrs ago because he was very controlling and jealous. Ended up giving up on dating then I met this interesting man who was not for me but was really charming. Got married really fast because it was an arranged marriage. He abused me physically and mentally for years. I had no idea he was bipolar until a few yrs ago. I'm so miserable in this relationship of constant love you hate you relationship 💔. I stay in this marriage for the kids. I think I'm stupid for hurting myself.
@moikressly
Ай бұрын
Maybe the controlling and jealous guy was better and u should have worked things out with him.
@lucasrodrigues9766
Ай бұрын
This is why it's important to not skip steps in the relationship. Getting married fast is a mistake.
@CarlosGaviriaM
Ай бұрын
@@moikressly”controlling”
@BeautifulOnes876
Ай бұрын
Judaism, Christianity, and Islam are ALL Abrahamic religions, under the SAME God. The same wisdom, the same messengers (prophets). I wish more people knew and understood this.
@mikahakk1
2 ай бұрын
Receiving and giving are the flip side of the same coin. To say a man only gives, misses the point completely.
@Golf2foto
2 ай бұрын
What I wanted to comment. I noticed how I cook just to make hime happy and as a thank you. I truly appreciate his leadership.
@whatiftherewerejust100peop8
2 ай бұрын
Not true. Depending on someone isn’t healthy. We stay with those we want to stay with the we happy. If we stay cause we have no choice cause need them and depend on them, that’s like easily turns to personal hell. Desperate to leave but unable. Not good.
@DrKaii
2 ай бұрын
Need and depend are different words and if you listen closely he is not talking about dependance.
@stefaniepjatene
3 ай бұрын
This is clarifying and true in so many ways
@kieshame888
2 ай бұрын
Interesting! I've always been in a position to take care of myself, bc of that, guys I dated did the bare minimum. My vulnerability was taken for a joke! I can't engage with anyone too long who does not allow me to be the woman God created me to be. I'm a nurturer, a mother, and an awesome supporter. That does not mean I don't NEED him. Men tend to get intimated easily.
@TRUTHandLIGHT4809
23 күн бұрын
They are not intimidated. You have been taught to think that. They think you don't need them. You don't let them think otherwise
@BirdieHillFarm
3 ай бұрын
Can someone interpret the last Hebrew Word used in the video? I don't know how to spell it and I am not Jewish or familiar with the term. Please and thank you. The word rhymes with "sneeze" and is the Rabbi said you need it to keep respect in the marriage.
@amandamclaughlin3436
3 ай бұрын
Tznius means modesty
@BirdieHillFarm
3 ай бұрын
@@amandamclaughlin3436 thank you so much
@cynthiaalsup3585
3 ай бұрын
@@amandamclaughlin3436so modesty will save a marriage,? I don't get it.
@amandamclaughlin3436
2 ай бұрын
@@cynthiaalsup3585 modesty isn’t just what you wear but how you act in judaism.
@cynthiaalsup3585
2 ай бұрын
@@amandamclaughlin3436 but how then will it save a marriage?
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