I'm approaching 30 as a virgin and I have always felt a strong conviction about remaining a virgin. In Todays world, it's very easy for me to stay a virgin, because I've been an observer to the foolishness for so long.
@Musical-Wolf-Melody
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 26 and a virgin as well. I don't blame you .
@danait757
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 still a virgin, and you motivated me stay stay as one.
@nikkinanette8807
2 жыл бұрын
Keep it that way, ladies; I lost mine at 28 when I married.
@AboveRubiesTV
2 жыл бұрын
Sameeeee!!! ✨💕
@ShyBabyxoxo
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah keep it sis!!!! It’s so easy to weed out the foolishness when you aren’t having sex. You can also see who is willing to stick around for more than sex.
@kksal4375
2 жыл бұрын
You risk 3 things: 1. Getting pregnant when you're not ready 2. Sexually transmitted diseases which cannot be cured 3. Having soul ties with possibly hundreds of people ** In addition, you won't have the energy and focus to go after your dreams Thank you Tony
@ulricka2131
2 жыл бұрын
There is NOTHING casual about sex❗❗ some people call me religious and old school when I tell them. But 10 minutes of pleasure ain't worth so many demons and pain and consequences. WE KEEP OUR LEGS CLOSED❗ Thanks Tony for the message.
@j-tenn226
2 жыл бұрын
Locked like Ft. Knox. These ninjas just not worth it!
@tinicoleofficial
2 жыл бұрын
So true!
@tiffanylittle8225
2 жыл бұрын
Ok. Abstinence is alright with me because if the relationship doesn't workout my heart may be broken but I am glad I can walk away knowing the lid was still on cookie jar
@j-tenn226
2 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanylittle8225 same! Even when I did just have oral to a guy and even cuddled, I felt tied.
@queensun6059
Жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 ❤️love ft. knox😇
@susannahkathleendouglas1452
2 жыл бұрын
Outside of marriage sex has no benefits except tying you to physically, emotionally and spiritually to someone you are not committed to. This is a nugget right here!!! Selah!!!
@MzSam2U
2 жыл бұрын
No babies or disease but that addiction to a person is real and can have you messed up mentally and emotionally.
@aneshrathomas
2 жыл бұрын
The fact that people don’t believe in soul ties and unhealthy spiritual attachments is crazy to me . Sex most def not to be played with diseases and all . Thanks Tony for all your lessons they’ve taught me the importance of waiting and knowing my worth ☝🏾💯
@DsCompilations
2 жыл бұрын
ignorance; or some people may 100% know the dangers of it but they lack the self love & just want to "fit in"💔
@ieshjust16
2 жыл бұрын
They think soul ties is something made up to scare women from being "sexually free"
@Speakitministries
2 жыл бұрын
Ignorance is bliss for some. Some people just want to enjoy their ignorance.
@crystalcormier9376
2 жыл бұрын
@@ieshjust16 Soul ties is the worst thing a woman can do to herself. There easy to get into hard to get out of. But it can be done in Jesus name!!!! It kills me when men say it's just sex what's the big deal. That demonic spirit of lust sexual immortality is nothin to play with.
@shutit4024
2 жыл бұрын
@@Speakitministries yup I know a grown 50 something year old woman still picking the D over her kids smh 🤦🏽♀️
@proudblackwoman4824
2 жыл бұрын
Been celibate since December of 2020. Because of Tony Gaskins and his message. BEST DECISION I HAVE EVER MADE. No crying over a man, no man is controlling me, I ain’t runnin behind no man, my life has been PEACEFUL ever since I shut it down. And the way you learn to love yourself is priceless. Wish I had made this decision years ago but thankfully I got it now. God bless you and your family Tony. You’re changing lives over here. 🙌🏾
@mamat1213
2 жыл бұрын
Same! It's been amazing, prob since about Jan 2021 and life has been so chill, I'm beyond grateful for this msg which has totally shifted my mindset
@proudblackwoman4824
2 жыл бұрын
@@mamat1213 God got something special for women like us. I truly believe that. The world will have you thinking you “missin out” on something….. when in reality you’re DODGING heartache and pain. Wouldn’t trade it for the world. ❤️
@mamat1213
2 жыл бұрын
@@proudblackwoman4824 AMEN!!!! I wish I had figured this out years ago but I'm thankful for the freedom and protection in obedience now! I'm in my late 30s and could have gone my life in that mentality, chasing love, arguing over nothing, worrying about someone being faithful and hoping I get 'chosen' after giving my all 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Adulttvfree
2 жыл бұрын
I applaud you two ladies. Ashamed to say, I am and have been striving to get to and stay where you are now. Trying to break this/these cycles. Thank you for your testimonies, which along with this teaching of Mr Tony Gaskin, are very encouraging. Be blessed.
@proudblackwoman4824
2 жыл бұрын
@@Adulttvfree Love your honesty…. And don’t ever feel bad about that. We each learn on our OWN time. A lot of BW are not being taught how to date so we are just doing what we THINK is the right thing. I talk about this on my channel. Once you get the knowledge, apply it. It’s NEVER too late to change. Each one teach one. Then God will do the rest. ❤️
@AbianahAlmeida
2 жыл бұрын
I had a boyfriend who was a sex addict and completely depraved it completely ruined my relationship with my body and spirit I felt completely used and ruined. I felt worthless at just 19/20 years old. Don’t have sex before marriage it’s not worth it.
@Dedee1-love
5 күн бұрын
@@AbianahAlmeidaomg that happened to me too, my ex did the same thing
@officialwatchamber
2 жыл бұрын
I was JUST thinking about this this morning while doing laundry. I’m dating a guy and it’s going great. Of course I am attracted to him and the old me would have gotten weak and slipped up. But I know in my spirit that only time I will ever be completely comfortable having sex again is in the bounds of a marriage as a way to strengthen our bond and for sex to not be the FOUNDATION of it. It’s the confirmation for me 😩🙌🏼🔥
@alimo3011
2 жыл бұрын
Only a sucker would wife up a chick who give it up to everyone before him for free. And now he has to wait and put a ring too 🤦🏾♂️
@wshelby83
2 жыл бұрын
But suppose it’s not good. I’m just curious?
@dancormom
2 жыл бұрын
@@wshelby83 Then you teach each other what you like.
@dancormom
2 жыл бұрын
@@alimo3011 The suckas are out here with the std's, the babies they didn't plan for, the drama or the lack of self control.
@la6136
2 жыл бұрын
@@wshelby83 Whenever I have heard stories of people saying it’s bad after they get married it’s ALWAYS because they had other problems in the relationship before they got married. They will always admit that there were other red flags like they didn’t connect to each other emotionally, had bad communication, had an uneasy feeling before they got married, weren’t really in love but got married anyways, weren’t compatible in other areas, etc. Bad sex after they got married was just a byproduct of all their other issues. If you have real love and connection that’s not going to be a problem.
@zh1408
2 жыл бұрын
This society is sooo lost and sexually charged it’s sad. Pp don’t even care about diseases, let alone pregnancy. This is exactly why I’m single and off my bikeeeee ! Nothing but diseases, crazy ppl, and soul ties out there ! I’m good !
@ieshjust16
2 жыл бұрын
They don't care until it happens to them. Sometimes you feel you're above certain things but stds don't discriminate 😟
@tinicoleofficial
2 жыл бұрын
Then they think ab0rtion is ok if you get pregnant & don’t want the baby🤦🏾♀️
@trulyoptimistic3469
2 жыл бұрын
Tony is so right. I had relationships with men that were totally sex driven. They were very adamant that sex was a huge part of the relationship. I left all of them because they didn’t care to create love. They just wanted their needs met. It’s the single life for me. I am fine with being single for the rest of my life.
@patrinamuldrow3363
2 жыл бұрын
I realize that I married the same type of man twice except one was 26 the other was 57. They both were not about love just sex and grown boys that cheats multiple times. I have been attracting the same men for the most part been able to get my life back on track with God's help and will be seeking counseling please keep helping us with your videos Tony🙏♥️
@trulyoptimistic3469
2 жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf Yep and what about the Man of God that tries to say that having sex before marriage is ok? I have had my share of trifling nasty men.
@trulyoptimistic3469
2 жыл бұрын
@@patrinamuldrow3363 My ex went as far as sending me a picture of a half naked woman to make me jealous. He wanted to see if I would compete. I told him to never contact me again and blocked him. That was the ultimate disrespect.
@ieshjust16
2 жыл бұрын
@@annmorrow7112 glad you said it 😅 cuz people make it seem like if u get with an older man everything's peaches and creme lol
@OnikaStYorke-ts8qw
2 жыл бұрын
Ashley you are so right. These men cant exist in a relationship if sex isn't involved it's sad. They need Jesus yess
@Itchpls
2 жыл бұрын
I agree.. I rather have intimacy without sex.
@TMama_
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been Celibate DOUBLE DIGITS and as I mature even the more and is seasoned with salt, it’s all about my wellness, love, and care for self. ITS BIGGER THEN SEX. God I thank YOU.
@beeaboutabbabusiness8738
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Queen
@blaquediamond4u
2 жыл бұрын
💯🙏🏾
@CourtChanelle
2 жыл бұрын
Man this is gold! Sex really has no purpose and value adding properties outside of marriage. You only ended hurting yourself. It’s not worth it outside of marriage.
@ShaniceHoyle
2 жыл бұрын
Men who are not willing to wait have an issue within themselves. Once I became abstinent, I was told I am living with a set of rules. Following the Lord is Key.
@magdaleneacquah2746
2 жыл бұрын
On point on this ❤️
@tuanhannieturnbull8928
2 жыл бұрын
I used to think Sex is part of love-making. Until TG said, “Love-making is quality time spend getting to know each other.” Thank you for making so much meaningful sense!
@cardiac711
2 жыл бұрын
I thought my generation was nasty. I can't even process the nastiness nowadays. Young and old. There is no such thing as boundaries. It's like anything that's consensual seems to go. The lies they keep telling themselves, "we're having fun." 😏😒 If you say so. I pray they would leave the children and animals alone.
@beefaye6861
2 жыл бұрын
Right....yuck ...Glad Im abstinent......ooh weee 😵
@tinicoleofficial
2 жыл бұрын
Right!
@overcomerbtboj
2 жыл бұрын
You’re not exaggerating about the nastiness- my body is on lockdown until marriage -i’ve had so many people tell me how sorry they are they didn’t wait til marriage but no one tell me they were sorry they did wait
@ed000
2 жыл бұрын
As I am maturing, I have learnt there is more in life than sex.... You said what you said because,you spoke the truth!
@keason754
2 жыл бұрын
No relationship or sex for 5 years now... I can't say that I don't have an occasional desire, but I truly want something real. Thank you so much for the time that you take to make these videos. Keep em coming! 🙏💖👊
@truthspeaker1508
2 жыл бұрын
33 yo virgin here. For a while I was ashamed, felt like no one would want me. But after dating in the trash can last year, I’m thankful for the protection. It really will weed out who’s real and who is not.
@j-tenn226
Жыл бұрын
In the trash can 🤣🤣🤣
@TruthWillSetYouFree2023
Ай бұрын
You should feel priceless, if you are a Virgin. Why in the World would you feel Ashamed? You have beat the odds, and as long as you stay the course, you will continue to win!
@MissTracy-Ann
2 жыл бұрын
There is nothing "casual" about sex! 💯🚩🚩
@j-tenn226
2 жыл бұрын
How about people who have orgys and 3somes and one night stands? Do they get soul ties and feel something ( men and women)? I was always under the impression that men can have sex, wipe up, and move on without a second thought.
@j-tenn226
2 жыл бұрын
Answer me somebody.
@MissTracy-Ann
2 жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 Men get soul ties as well, they just handle it different.
@j-tenn226
2 жыл бұрын
@@MissTracy-Ann How?
@breannn
2 жыл бұрын
It's so hard trying to live a pure life, in such an impure world.
@jewellyphe
2 жыл бұрын
With JESUS all things are possible. HE will give you the strength and separate you from this corrupt world and its luster temptations. JESUS is for you, lean on HIM. 🙏🏾
@patwilson1257
2 жыл бұрын
The thing is, you have to think of it as “choosing” who your master is going to be. The god of this evil fallen would, or the God that is ALL POWERFUL, and can help you conquer every battle. We can do ALL things through CHRIST, that STRENGTHS us. I hope this helps. Be blessed and trust God to help you through.
@patwilson1257
2 жыл бұрын
Narrow is the straight gate, and W I D E is the gate that leads to destruction. We as children of God can’t be surprised, that this FALLEN WORLD calls right wrong and wrong right. These times we are living in were foretold in the WORD of God. That’s why Your ministry is so precious and so needed. May you be STRENGTHEN, and ENCOURAGED to continue fighting the GOOD fight. You’re helping people that WANT to be helped.
@idagray1746
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent point great wisdom ... you and I and each of us, must sincerely want the help / want to do the work to live a better life that is pleasing to God. It start with a prayer to ask God for his help and area where we need to change. Also we must read the Holy Bible daily in order to get the word inside of us. Sincerely written.
@patwilson1257
2 жыл бұрын
@@idagray1746 Agree 💯 percent
@KrystleLaughter
2 жыл бұрын
You said it, Tony: You have to be okay losing people". It was so hard to leave my ex because I had wrapped my identity up in being in a relationship. It was hard to let go because I didn't love myself. I have grown so much through watching your videos, going to therapy, and learning from my past mistakes. Now I help other women heal through my books, The Love Yourself series on Amazon, my online academy, and my KZitem channel. Thank you!
@KFontLab
Жыл бұрын
Choosing to do the right thing will always bring on rejection and it’s not easy. I have experienced it on different levels because how I am choosing to live my life. I don’t use the word celibate because that means you are making a vow to not get married or have Sex. I would like the option of getting married but I have been practicing abstinence for quite awhile now.
@helenlovell8587
2 жыл бұрын
Tony helped me to be celibate & it’s the best thing ever! We need to practise self discipline & not to give in to our flesh desires until marriage.🙏
@MsChristianr
2 жыл бұрын
Ive noticed the people who teach and dont promote self discipline, self control, values have more following and are praised by man. But the ones like Tony that are teaching how to really be pure in your inner self is called unrealistic. It's so sad today to want to strive to be the best you but to not scare people away because they believe you think you are better than everybody else😢
@IAmTheQueen87
2 жыл бұрын
This makes me feel stronger in my decision to leave an ex. We broke up for some time, less than a year, but instead of working on hisself they tried to replace me and had sex with another woman within a year. Like dude, I know you tryna make me jealous but do you not have any standards for your own self? It’s a complete turn off how many people are a victim to their addiction and you’re right, you gotta be ok with leaving because if he don’t even care about his own self and safety what makes you think he’d give a crap about you? That’s why I never understand how some women take men back after the man cheats while she’s pregnant. That’s like the ultimate betrayal
@christineporter9914
2 жыл бұрын
Bro Tony that's exactly what am doing is getting my life together. Because sex is serious and am not playing with it. Right on point message today. That 12 year relationship has truly opened my eyes and he didn't marry me I compromised alot in that situation. Nope, am good now.
@mrs.haynes-r5z
2 жыл бұрын
Been celibate 13 years and I dont plan on ending it till I'm with the love of my life and he treats me the way I deserve
@Dr.Elaine1
2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, let’s stop sleeping with a man who is not our husband. 👌🏾🙏🏾
@Sandrinarhonda
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@kiantedubois8605
2 жыл бұрын
With fasting and praying are these things broken....This confirms the necessity of fasting . It disciplines the body and humbles the soul... good message, it confirms what is happening
@coachshannonowens
2 жыл бұрын
Self control and being intimately acquainted with ourselves is something that’s so foreign to women nowadays. When we get to a place of knowing how to love ourselves, controlling our emotions, knowing our worth, and not needing this to come from without but from within… is when we truly become the women we are called to be. That’s what made me become a life coach. I’m tired too @tony of seeing us settle for less than we deserve so much. It’s time out for living below your purpose. Praying for my sistas to rise up and know their true worth!
@travelchannel304
2 жыл бұрын
What do you recommed, to read or view, for working with our emotions?
@beefaye6861
2 жыл бұрын
So TRUE.....Im not married....so S*x is not a part of my life....Im scared anyway.....its so dangerous out here.....Im not giving up JACK 👎
@beefaye6861
2 жыл бұрын
@@annmorrow7112 IKR....its like playn roulette.....a gamble ....I pass
@Sandrinarhonda
2 жыл бұрын
@@beefaye6861 amennnnn
@irlandaise5631
2 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean lol. im dead when I go to bed im studying , playing sport , walking a lot, reading, painting - Many of these men are empty, they cannot talk this is why they give power to this because they have nothing else going on and they arent smart!! you said it
@Clara-wo1hg
2 жыл бұрын
I've been celibate for about 15 yrs as I haven't been in a relationship. You speak the truth Tony I get my high from the love of my dogs that might sound odd but it's pure unconditional love 🐾
@MarloShaVonne
2 жыл бұрын
Your not Alone. The Best Peace of Mind.💯
@overcomerbtboj
2 жыл бұрын
For me it was my kitty cats but i get you- pure unconditional love from my fur babies
@annagrace1159
2 жыл бұрын
Grateful for this message...feel like I've been saying this for years...just not exactly living it due to living for other peoples standards. Setting, having and holding higher standards for my life and healthy living I am getting "accustomed" to living in peace.
@VintageAfro91
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message Tony. We need more people speaking truth to power about this. Sadly so many women and girls are taught that if you don’t sleep with a man you will always be single, which is a lie. Keep telling the truth.
@ckd0680
2 жыл бұрын
I'm celibate because of my recommitment to God. It's a blessing to see & hear this & know that there is a remnant! If God sends someone or not, I'M MORE THAN OKAY!
@francisbrown5974
2 жыл бұрын
Control you flesh. Don't let it control you.
@jayelynsworld9115
2 жыл бұрын
Because what is really the difference between boyfriend and husband when we treat them as equals
@virtuouswomanthelordfirst538
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this right here Tony! This society is so foul it doesn’t even make sense. Sex is meant to be done in order. Marriage is the best order as it limits infidelity, disease and much more.
@j-tenn226
2 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to watch this gem. This further suggests that I am making the right decision in being a virgin, no matter what a lustful directionless ninja says.
@Kareena1988
2 жыл бұрын
Congrats.
@Sandrinarhonda
2 жыл бұрын
Amen sis , I’m in the same boat
@cammyTalksLife
2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad You said it . I’ve been saying this for the longest time . People be looking at me like I’m crazy, because I’m single and I’m not dating. Been celibate for 3 years best decision I made. I ain’t got no drama , and no disease . In this time i’ m happier . I know myself and my self worth .
@tinicoleofficial
2 жыл бұрын
People will think you’re crazy if you’re not dating, in a relationship, & not sexually active😂 It’s crazy how programmed our society is
@deedee8316
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message! Self control is everything
@v1message
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony for chatting about this topic! It’s not the most popular discussion to have, but it’s necessary. Through discipline and help of God, I’ve able to remain sexually abstinent for 35 years. There are many layers to this. You’re right on it! S*x does not define us and Purity is not a “religious term or a culture” - it’s a lifestyle and can be practiced not only in the body, but the mind, and the heart. When we choose to be “active” outside boundaries marriage, it can cloud our thinking and decision making - our bodies are the last to follow…. it all starts in the mind and heart. The beautiful thing about purity is that it’s never to late… and it has relevance not matter your stage in life - whether an adolescent, single, married, or divorced… Thank you for being an advocate for truth!
@lilliestrauder259
2 жыл бұрын
Yes and Amen 🙌🏾
@BeBeautifullyYou
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Mr. Gaskins for this much needed but often overlooked but of information! You are so right! Women need to recognize when a man doesn’t have any control over his body like this, he’s a predator, especially if they have children! Because when you aren’t able to fulfill him, guess who he’s thinking about?! Abstinence is like a protector! It will help with your discernment!
@leegaleaglenombo9430
2 жыл бұрын
I, never, thought of this..
@pboles123
2 жыл бұрын
Best advice I have ever heard regarding “sex”! You could not have said it better! It was straight to the point, couldn’t have been misunderstood; you explained very well! Thanks for allowing God to use you. Blessings!
@tmj2016
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had heard this video when I was much younger 😪 we did not have cell phones, PCs or internet back then...smh. You have really blessed me and helped Mt to change my life. God bless you and your family.
@candracurryofficial
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve shared this message on my platforms today and paying homage to you because your message is so important. Also bc I have a heavy heart for those out here going thru the ebs and flows of being sexually active outside marriage. I know the direct impact it can have. I’ve been ghosted and played games with for many years before I set the standard to wait.I been doing the work being celibate for 2 years now and I will continue to serve my purpose in getting this message out, thank God for your work. God bless you and your family Tony Gaskins 🙏🏽
@keelycrawford8622
2 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly it Tony!! U sleeping with someone and they cheat, u are probable to have many folks involved that are contaminating u just from the one person cheating. Thank u so much for articulating this better than I could for my daughter (22ys old) to hear. Blessings to u and ur family🙏🏽❤️
@pamelaskrine9356
2 жыл бұрын
May God 🙏 richly reward you for putting the facts in front of so many who are using sex as physical recreation.
@rashidarogers4215
2 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskins this is the absolute truth.. especially the emotional bondage that occurs... I have been there and thank GOD for deliverance... I don't play with my life or these people NO MO!!!
@geedee38
2 жыл бұрын
Thankful for this Tony. Social media/ people would rather you join the HELL hand basket they’re all dragging! That’s so easy to do when morals are not a priority. I am peculiar & good in my solitude. 😊 So many truths in this short to the point message. 🙌🏾❤️👍🏽
@achiramaria7779
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the wisdom Tony... You are changing lives. God sees you & you will be blessed with more abundance in your life.
@brittanyb5942
2 жыл бұрын
A nurse came and talked to our class when I was a sophomore in high school and told us the ONLY thing that comes from unprotected sex is pregnancy and STDs. I was several years later that I understood what she meant...
@KrystalBanner
2 жыл бұрын
Tasha K sent me... Glad I'm here.
@kelleydavis8551
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent message! It’s a beautiful expression inside the boundaries of marriage…outside of marriage it’s like holding a hand grenade and the pin could be pulled out any minute!
@amethystgarcia7228
2 жыл бұрын
This is the realest thing I’ve ever heard come out of a man’s mouth. I wish to marry and find a man who thinks just like you. God bless you and amen. 🙏
@douglaszirk8949
2 жыл бұрын
You're exactly right, sex is over prioritized. Even within a marriage and as beautiful a thing as sex can be, couples are still basically addicted to it and if they aren't both exactly on the same page as far a frequency and other factors, it creates a tremendous stress on the marriage because both people are spending much of their daily and weekly energy in trying to make the whole sex thing work out as if it's a life and death thing. I know because I was there. Now my wife has stage 4 breast cancer, the semi treatable kind, second time around,.. no one feels sexy at stage 4 and we are both learning how to live a fulfilled marriage without sex. Honestly I wish our marriage still had sex in it but at the same time in many ways our marriage has been better than ever now that sex isn't a strain for us anymore.
@chelseajanay5897
Жыл бұрын
Wish there were more men like you out there. Your wife is blessed
@monetchic
2 жыл бұрын
I have been abstaining for 5 years and it is very freeing. To add it also helped me to be more focused and purposeful in everything I do 🙏🏾
@angelad7135
2 жыл бұрын
Great message!💯 People will either learn the easy way by listening and applying this advice in their lives or learn the hard knock way and experience the pain of soul ties, pregnancies, drama diseases or combination blows.🥊
@taytay1292
2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this message today!
@turner2952
2 жыл бұрын
Amen! More awesome Truth! God tells us to walk in the spirit, not the flesh. Nothing good dwells in the flesh. Satan knows our weaknesses and will attack us in those weaknesses, but God will give us the strength to stand. "Resist the devil and he will flee from you." Knowing our weak areas helps us to avoid situations and circumstances where we will be tempted. Lust has destroyed so many people. Trust God, lean on Him anone. Thank you so much, Mr Gaskins. You are helping so many people! God bless you, your family and your ministry.
@shirleywalker6504
2 жыл бұрын
Are there any men abstaining? I mostly hear about the women.
@kairosunltd130
2 жыл бұрын
Absolute truth Mr. Gaskins. God is the author , it begins with Him and ends with the Most High. Its too sacred and nothing to play with. Its covenant and God's that is. The day He fully revealed it to me I knew it was nothing to play with. Wish I had the revelation sooner but thank God for His grace.
@sonjamoore5467
2 жыл бұрын
You better break THIS DOWN!! 🙌🏾
@DsCompilations
2 жыл бұрын
"Learn where you're really operating from & WHY"❗💯
@bariannmartin8728
2 жыл бұрын
I'm celibate have been for years waiting until marriage and i mean that...I'm about to be the big 50 this year and im still going to wait. I LOVE ME!!!❤
@Dimples3434
2 жыл бұрын
Listening to an old video while I work and a New video pops up 🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you Tony
@annagrace1159
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! 😁
@CharrrN1
2 жыл бұрын
I’m 29 and still a virgin… trust me I couldn’t even ignore the foolishness of this society’s mindset and many men nowadays even if I tried …the Holy Spirit just be keeping me right constantly! I am so wise about it and I can only thank God!
@elainepjones2478
2 жыл бұрын
I agree TG today's society to "sexually sensitized!" Keep putting this Truth "Up Front. I've been saying for years " Most of us women spend more time on our feet than on our back!" Hopefully 🤣
@ziyamalik1666
2 жыл бұрын
As a Virgin, my life is always been without sex. I will never understand, why people put sex on this much pedestal
@Sandrinarhonda
2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY, it’s easy being a virgin. You never try it and you don’t have a desire or temptation to get involved or seduced by it .
@tinicoleofficial
2 жыл бұрын
When someone gives up their virginity to the wrong person it makes it harder to be without sex. I wish I would’ve never gave mine up & waited till marriage. It ain’t even all that if it’s not with someone you’re committed to for life
@e11ionore79
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe because people have different sexual drive? Somebody doesn’t even have to resist much and others with have stronger libido and its much harder to resist
@Chrisia-Queens
2 жыл бұрын
Because you've never tasted it. You won't understand. It's better for you not to taste it. I lost my virginity at 28. I had sex just twice. And it was so painful and I broke up with the guy. I've never tried again since. I'm 31 now. But every night I'm battling with my sex drive😭😭😭😭😭. I have to masturbate at least once a week to release myself. But I only regret losing my virginity with the wrong guy. Honestly I don't see myself reaching 40 years old in celibacy.
@j-tenn226
2 жыл бұрын
@@Chrisia-Queens Physically painful or emotionally?
@enidhutchinson
2 жыл бұрын
I know this is a very unpopular opinion, but it is based on a sermon that made sense to me a long time ago. Parents give up everything for their children, and "the children come first" is such a common way of thinking, and one of the main reasons why the parents LOSE their marriage because they neglect their relationship with their spouse. The true nucleus of the family is the husband and wife. CHILDREN ARE GUESTS in the home. Yes, you are parents, but husband and wife are the family. Children need to come SECOND to the husband and wife relationship. Because this is such an unpopular opinion, I have been told NOT to date any men with children.
@overcomerbtboj
2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you- God’s order is -Him first, your spouse second, then children third- so many couples don’t get that and that’s why some marriages end when the kids come along
@pamelatoro907
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Tony. Your videos have helped me tremendously in understanding worth and value as a woman, in a world that continually encourages us to live in the flesh. Sexual addiction cannot be quenched through more sex. People need to wake up and realize that the world and it’s influences is not for you! May we live a life that honours Jesus Christ, and respect the way that he ordained us to use sex. All within the context of marriage. Im reminded of scripture “do you not know that he who unites himself with a harlot is one with her body, for it is said, “the two will become one flesh”. 1 Corinthians 6:16 Soul ties are real!!! Thank you Tony.
@juanitamarshall5018
2 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed and love this message ! I'm a Single woman and I desire much spiritual education on this teaching. I'm 43 and haven't leave with a man for 23 yrs. I've had 3 situationships over the years that was really just a loneliness fix to be honest... that just left me drained and broken inside.. God spoke to my heart one day and said Guard your heart and everytime I fell weak to these individuals God would blocked it from becoming worthless unproductive relationships going no where. I've been watching your channel and Bishop R.C. Blakes Jr and ya'll are such a blessing to me I'm soo grateful to God for ya'll support toward us Queens🙏🙌 ya'll always 100% on point!!🙏🙌❤May God continue to bless You my brother in Christ Mr. Tony Gaskin!!❤
@karenblackwell8847
2 жыл бұрын
All I can say is…. You’re Right Mr. Gaskin! Even though I’ve heard this before, now at this very moment, at my age the information means more to me and makes a lot more sense. I’m There!!!! You’re so Right!!! People please listen, please wake up. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@jam1369
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent Word from the Lord so needed! His Truth sets you free to walk on a blessed path.
@anniehatcher4347
2 жыл бұрын
Be blessed Tony and keep preaching this Hood Gospel where everyone can comprehend 👏
@alesiawashington7814
2 жыл бұрын
@Tony Gaskin..Thank you for these grown mature conversations. I find when we really get into the things of God our eyes open to truth and welcome the beauty of Truth.
@samildeperez8399
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always speaking truth. There is a small remnant out here who sticks to what the Word of God teaches which is what you preach Baruch HaShem!
@shenquejames7598
2 жыл бұрын
Tony, that is so true when you married and have kids its all about them! Sex is not the number 1 on the list. As you stated sex is not the root of happy marriages. I wish more happily married people would speak on this truth. But I know they don't because people will take this and run with it the wrong way.
@PbnJAMilah
2 жыл бұрын
The world needs to see this video
@C2Different
2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss! Everything you said was the truth! I m on a spiritual journey & men are so irrelevant to me! My mental & physical health is the most important! I have a totally different mind set! Thanks Tony for your messages! ♏️❤️
@angelaorelien5643
2 жыл бұрын
I left my ex and after he disrespect me I left him in one day,because I refuse to let someone one call me out of my name my name is not bitch,or Mf,and some of those another names women be called, I love me,and I can go without sex,because it's not every thing,sex is not love and my Bible says don't be unequal yoked I refuse to live my just for,all these diseases out here love yourself.
@dbillingsley2012
2 жыл бұрын
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@amandag2115
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you, you’re saving yourself pain and soul ties. They are the worst. Proud of you. Find someone who is worthy that will marry you. Xx
@michaellewells6932
2 жыл бұрын
Let them hear this message at the young age.
@loveswintertrees
2 жыл бұрын
This is such an important message. Thank you for supporting common sense science and personal responsibility. No one is entitled to parenthood. If you don’t have a stable relationship or financial situation, you’re being selfish before the child is even born by putting that risk in your life.
@jherriyoung1759
2 жыл бұрын
I really was struggling with this. Thank you for a new mindset about sex!!! 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@DandyDuh
2 жыл бұрын
Same 🙏🏼
@tvazstukes7687
2 жыл бұрын
You're Nothing But the TRUTH, Tony and wife. Been checking you out 4 a little while. I'm Hooked on your Word.
@la8921
2 жыл бұрын
Man I gave myself to this guy again I knew better Gods conviction hitting me
@a1xluv
2 жыл бұрын
She was super SMART!!! I was listening to a song on the radio this AM, not paying attention to the words, out of curiosity I went back later and listened to the words! I was like superstars are promoting sex! The music is so sexual, sometimes you gotta turn the radio completely off! Smh! Mom’s definitely need to be best models for the children! I praise God m, as a single mother, I rarely ever get sick! Thanks be to the healing leaves of God’s precious trees!
@shereewhite4828
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for bringing another informative & well needed video. Keep working for God's kingdom, helping to save lives & bringing souls to Christ.
@alinabuzulan4583
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message. The temptation is so hard sometimes but I’m holding on to my virginity. Especially after I’ve been Deceived by someone who claimed that this is a need and part of adult life and even using God’s name to justify sex outside of marriage. Many people will flatter you to make you think you’re something special and that they’re willing to do this only with you; but in reality this is a tactic to get you to think they are worth your body without the bounds of marriage. Just like a lot of the ladies here, I would rather suffer being alone and having desires than suffer from lowering my value and giving myself away just for some pleasure that takes away my real purpose in life. No thank you! Keep your guard up ladies, there are a lot of clever men who know how to play on your weakness, next thing you know you’re doing something you don’t wanna do.
@reinaquisha9418
2 жыл бұрын
Happy Friday blessed tribe ✨💛🙌🏾
@chloelageaux769
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I'm so glad that you talked about this! S*$ really isn't that important yet we place it at the forefront of our lives! This was never the way that God intended for things to be which is why have to look to God not man for direction.
@apsalmsbeat
2 жыл бұрын
I really wanna repost this...the world needs to hear this!
@khadijarembert
2 жыл бұрын
Amen!! Confirmation as always. Thank you for blessing us!
@talltangorgeous4287
2 жыл бұрын
Tony just told so much truth 💯
@ayjaybee4893
2 жыл бұрын
The caffiene headache is a very real thing! Been dealing with it for years. 😩 Great video! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@K7H7
2 жыл бұрын
"Get a hold of childhood trauma"....that's super important!!!!
@millicentstollenwerck5239
2 жыл бұрын
Those few minutes of pleasure can sometimes cost you lifetime of pain and regret.
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