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@patienceobongo
Жыл бұрын
Grow-up. "Dating aged 50" FFS
@mationinfo
Жыл бұрын
Hey Rich, I am from Calgary. Which site of your do you use to connect with men globally. There even might be some on from Calgary. Lol
@bhillis99
Жыл бұрын
Rich you ever thought about shaving? Makes you look 15 years older with your beard.
@h2w25
Жыл бұрын
Nobody watching this video is trying to find any kind of relationship. It’s like modern day Seinfeld, you’ll inevitably find something wrong with her and onto the next As well you should, it’s 2023 and Peter Pan syndrome is in full effect.
@jakemccoy
Жыл бұрын
@@h2w25 I like his thought process. If I have my boys and my business, I'm good. I can then date women I want without expecting too much out of her.
@stevec3526
Жыл бұрын
I dated 3 single mothers years ago. I don’t recommend it at all. The family dog will get more respect than you will.
@dosbaddel7436
Жыл бұрын
Agree, same experience.
@bumpnuglies
Жыл бұрын
Dogs are the worst they don't train them and let them get away with everything
@chintz7428
Жыл бұрын
The same happens when new grandkids show up.
@DukesFandango
Жыл бұрын
Truth absolute. You will be expected to exist on fumes.
@cbxxb4841
Жыл бұрын
You will get the respect you demand. Stamp right on disrespect and if they don’t get it, you will have to let her go.
@michaeldunn572
Жыл бұрын
At 50 i am more interested in making money, being a full time dad to my son and enjoying my passions than dating women. I enjoy their company but nothing trumps your own personal freedom to come and go as you please , without having to deal with an undiagnosed personality disorder !
@manifest2203
Жыл бұрын
This is what women say too. But somehow males don’t believe them 🤦♀️ For women, especially at older age it means less stress because of less work. No new man to nag them asking them to make more food, to do more laundry, to do more cleaning.
@rogerthornhill1491
Жыл бұрын
@@manifest2203 Oh I think we believe them alright! There are just so many examples around to prove that point.. I certainly believe that your average woman is much better prepared to live alone, happily, than your average man. Men are slowing catching up though. Its a matter of social training to that mindset. And discovering its very possible. I think one of the reasons is that most older women overall could care less about pursuing sex anymore. Its just not a priority. She might have sex but not necessarily for its own sake. This whole men and women have the same sex drive is just complete nonsense! Especially after 50 (menopause) My GP told me during a consult last year (she's also a gyno/OB) That after fifty women broadly fall into three categories, 1. Those who don't desire sex at all. 2. Those that can take it or leave it. And 3. Those that still actively enjoy and pursue it. Not particularly good odds are they?
@manifest2203
Жыл бұрын
@@rogerthornhill1491 that is what I am saying too. Men can definitely take care of themselves, but of them won’t. Slowly catching up on? Not really. The male default setting is laziness, being easily inebriated, selfishness and s3xual dege*neracy. Right now, there are lots of men who can’t even hold one job. There is a report that 8 million able bodied males aren’t looking for a job. They simply mooch off of their moms, gf, wives. I do agree that men are more th*irsty thaan women on average. Most of them are meant to d*ie as virgins anyway. And yes older women aren’t thi*rsty for men at all. It makes no sense for older women to get married to older men. Some of them do have a higher s3x drive and they should pursue younger men because younger men are more virile.
@rogerthornhill1491
8 ай бұрын
@@Walkingdead69 I don’t necessarily disagree with you there. But most women are going to be forced to work as a result, unless they are semi retired as they did well in a divorce that landed squarely in their court, so they don’t have to bloody work. Let’s face it. The main reason men crave women’s company is the sexual aspect? If you take that away, you might as well just be living with a friend? if that’s your cheese, fine. But (most) men past 50 are not as motivated by sex as a 20-year-old? And they do the calculations in their head and come to the conclusion that living alone has all the benefits you speak of. And there’s not a snowballs chance in hell they will go back once they discover that. It’s only then they become equal to, or better than living alone than a woman. Women usually discovered this a lot earlier than men. They do the exact same calculations. And especially if they’re married, they go shit I can have half of everything he has and live very very happily alone without any of his aggravation! They’re not stupid. They have no attraction to their husband there, regarding him as a cash cow and nothing more There is no residual attraction to him, so they make the logical choice. Is it no wonder that thousands and thousands of married women are making that choice? Personally, now that I’ve discovered it I have never been more happy and at total peace. As well, most men when they’re younger don’t realise how subconscious physical attraction to women is to the love they have for a spouse. Otherwise, why would any man in their right mind put up with all the aggravation from a combative spouse? All you have to do is run into some of your early girlfriends when you’re in your early 50s, and they are likewise aged weathered and overweight and you say to yourself, ‘what the hell was I thinking?’ And you realise it wasn’t your big brain thinking? And that the whole wrapup of attraction you had to her was mainly physical attraction. And now that that has massively diminished you realise it in real time. And then you contemplate the heartache and misery she caused back then and you go home. Unpack your groceries and laugh your arse off as to how stupid you were, and how lucky you are now! I’m here to tell you the rest of that day is a dream full of wide arse, smiling to yourself! Most men, me included. Do some very stupid things with regard to women in our 20s. And we suffer some very stupid self-inflicted wounds. Being a mature and rounded man is realising that as early as possible.
@ThePhilosophyOfNature
4 ай бұрын
Thanks man. The time has come when this is extremely useful to me!
@dojocho1894
Жыл бұрын
Divorced after 17 yrs no kids 62 Model looks cardiologist.. It's stunning how easy it is to pick up girls in their 20's. I mean, they see my ID badge that says MD and they see stars. I just dont take it all seriously anymore for I loved my ex but she sought greener pastures. Hooked up with a dentist. I'm busy AF. I have a few more years to retire and I have been going back and forth to Sicily looking for a retirement home. I literally could date everyday...but im from a different generation my youth in the 70's girls were way different...I grew up in a family that had love parent's married 50 yrs......I wa not prepared for the type of crazy out there today.
@sam.r8610
Жыл бұрын
u r just being delusional and thinks women r just thing but the thing is u r just acting irony cause you r desperate hope u get good life partner
@pablodarko84
Жыл бұрын
Hi, that's great, perhaps you could also consider Costa Rica or The Philippines to retire, they are awesome places too and cheaper. Stay safe.
@chilipepper9938
Жыл бұрын
As a hospitalist, at 51. Have a friend who does locums one week a month and lives overseas
@AW-zy1kw
Жыл бұрын
Lol “model looks” but they see stars when they see MD & your wife left to bang a dentist. I think you need to quit lying to yourself😂
@Traian986
Жыл бұрын
Congrats on your health and taking care of your body. How did you mantained your model look until 62 ? Thanks!
@leshardley4248
Жыл бұрын
I'm am fortunate for 2 reasons. 1. I am still considered attractive by most women of any age 2. I live in Florida so I can travel to Central and South America for 3 to 4 day weekends, hotel and airfare for around $500. The past several years I have been able to secure several "friends with benefits" relationships with women in their 20s but going to Colombia has been my dating😉preference of choice. I have never dated a women over the age of 37. The age of my ex wife at the time I divorced her and even at 56 I have no intention on doing so😉😉😍😍
@hansjorgmoser1371
5 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more!!! I spend my vacation either with my grown up kids (occasionally, when they have time) or with my male friends. No drama not even atmospheric disturbances and we all pay for ourselves. What a treat!!!
@scottiemomma2314
Жыл бұрын
I’m among a good mix of women (almost 40) who are pretty humble about looks, value, etc. None are single…and almost all have kids. I have encountered some who are overt about entitlement, especially if they’ve always been pretty. I get the hesitation about moms, and I agree lol. I have 3 and I’m insanely busy, and that’s with my husband helping. We rarely go on dates or have “us” time, so that’s a factor to consider. Her kids will always come first because they are her biological responsibility. We aren’t necessarily wired to love someone else’s kids, in the true sense of the word. I think it would be a headache, but it’s not yo say some moms aren’t worth it. 🤷🏼♀️ Some of us are actually pretty down to earth and realistic about what we have to offer. You are totally right about men lacking friends or seeking those qualities in their lady!! You can’t put all your eggs in one basket…My husband has a small group, but they struggle to hang out. I can see that he’s so much happier when he’s had some time with his boys. I thought I read somewhere recently that a man’s testosterone is actually a bit higher after he’s had quality time with his man friends lol. Get together and do dude stuff. She doesn’t want to do those things with you all the time. Time apart is healthy! Great advice!
@DarylSimpson58
Жыл бұрын
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash...
@MaryTongx
Жыл бұрын
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
@DarylSimpson58
Жыл бұрын
@@MaryTongx well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@MaryTongx
Жыл бұрын
@@DarylSimpson58 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
@DarylSimpson58
Жыл бұрын
@@MaryTongx her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
@DarylSimpson58
Жыл бұрын
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
@ericcuthbert5974
Жыл бұрын
A beautiful woman is like a Ferrari sports car - lovely to look at - but way too expensive !!. Be strong and think the whole thing through. Relieve yourself before you consider going looking for women - you will be glad you did.
@00_UU
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful ones are only affordable when you live in another country where you are the prize. Many countries in Asia.
@fatgirlboy9341
Жыл бұрын
@@00_UU They want your money
@00_UU
Жыл бұрын
@@fatgirlboy9341 surprise - fefes all over the world only want your money, except in Asia they will be happy with much less money.
@MichaelMallon-y3y
8 ай бұрын
I was married for 30years, she was, everything i needed, in one person, when menopause came, she, changed, it was just sad to watch
@anythinggoes1396
5 ай бұрын
I’m 53 divorced 3 years now. I just travel and do my thing in other countries. I got tired of being in that what’s your favorite color stage and I really don’t care if your father wasn’t really around.
@tonyawilhour3284
Жыл бұрын
This guy. Rich. Potentially has the power to change the western world into a better place. When women can’t find marriage because they want to be strong independent women realize, the more important things in life is not going to be easy to attain, a shift could happen to a world where women stay home more, and men are men again. 🙏. It’s a slippery subject because, as female, I would hate to see women dumbed down, being abused and totally controlled by men. No woman wants that and could never be of any value to a man if she’s not happy but I do believe it’s exactly what’s wrong with the world today. The breakdown of family, traditions, values the United States had in the 50’s. Its POWERFUL message to women if they think they will end up alone and unattractive to a man because she’s strong and independent. The status quo could shift if it truly reaches women’s ear’s. For the most part. However, the fantasy that ALL men can get women much younger, without her having the agenda of taking your wealth after your looks are gone is pure BS. Rich, Andrew Tate and very few others have the stellar looks, along with the other traits of a manly man to date women way younger. It’s not because I’m older I’m saying this. It’s factual in most cases I’ve seen. Younger women want a realistic good looking husband and if he’s gonna get old on her, she’s probably with younger men on the sly using your funds to make her look like a high value woman. I’m guessing and don’t have statistics or facts but only from what I’ve observed over the years. Rudy Giuliani is one example. Old man with beautiful 40 year old gets dumped when he get too old to attain good looks. Rich has an ability to reach a large crowd. He’s more humble than others that tout his same message. Joe Rogan has the same humble nature, plus is a great listener like Rich from my observation, I only think it would be wiser to be realistic about making men think they can truly get much younger women and it being a truly desirable situation for the much younger female. I think it’s setting a bunch of men up for a huge disappointment. 10 years is fine but let’s get real…. 20! BS for most men.
@DavidDevonshire-su8qm
Жыл бұрын
Great video Rich 👊🏾
@erbthatsright1103
Жыл бұрын
If you see a Ferrari with “Bumper Stickers “ = tattoos! It’s been rode hard and wasn’t maintained well. Run! Edited for spelling. Road exchanged with rode.
@TheGandorX
3 ай бұрын
Valuable insight, figure out what you want your life to be and make that happen. THEN know what place in your life you want your woman to be - Know What You Are Looking For.
@thebipolarpsychonaut4984
Жыл бұрын
I dated a woman that had to get a hysterectomy done for medical reasons at 28. She refused to take hormones and she absolutely lost her mind.
@cbxxb4841
Жыл бұрын
Menopause is a real thing, had a few relationships I had to end due to it. Sadly (because it is not their fault) some women simply lose their minds.
@manifest2203
Жыл бұрын
@@cbxxb4841that’s because you must have been a dead beat in that relationship.
@gusgrizzel8397
Жыл бұрын
@@manifest2203 Agree, not all women hate sex. It's a myth that women stop having sex because they are older.
@erictriplett33
Жыл бұрын
Really like the advice about how you need to be comfortable with yourself and your guy friends and be your own mental point of origin for happiness, etc. Don't look to a woman to provide that. A great woman can provide many things, but not everything...
@aalthouse
Жыл бұрын
Get your passport bros.
@00_UU
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, but Rich never admits it. My guess he is super jealous he has to "do the work" and live a boring life in Canada while other overweight guys slay 18 year olds in the Philippines enjoying life on 2k per month.
@troyfreedom
Жыл бұрын
@@00_UU Yep, he’s stuck in Canada.
@strangeanimal1535
8 ай бұрын
It's easy dating. So many candidates. I'm not looking for long-term relationship. Why ? What's the point ? In our 50's, we really don't need an older damaged and bitter "friend". No way I want to share their day to day drama. Fun on a trip maybe ? After that trip I want them out, thank you for the "company". Next trip maybe she won't be available so, next on the list.
@Dynamic-cb9jy
7 ай бұрын
Dating should be simple.....if it's not time to evaluate
@Arthagnou
Жыл бұрын
I recently had a conversaion with a woman who is fitness a nurse(slim and NOT a financial trainwreck) and she even had a good sense of humor, so we were having a good back and fourth, at some point I had found out she had bought a couple guns and she liked to go shooting. So I asked her about her guns and what drew you to the ones you chose? her response "I was graped".....I then asked her "why the would you just drop that into a normal conversation?". The rest of the conversation just devolved from there. I probably should not have had a reaction...but seriously wtf... clearly things were on the surface and she has lots of things to work through. I feel sympathy, but the guy/guys she next hooks up with are just going to get dumped.
@andrewzembar3869
Жыл бұрын
yeah you're in the wrong on this one
@aservantinbabylon
Жыл бұрын
I don't believe these women anymore in the least when they lead with "I was graped". Half of the bitches you come across will tell you that they were graped, which is statistically impossible, not even close. What is going on is female mass hysteria today. But where you f'ed up was taking a nurse seriously. The profession is completely sick, we saw that with tic tok dances all over the world during covid. People having their lives ruined while they dance around like psychotic fools. I haven't had one interaction with dozens of nurses that didn't show me that each one was either a narcissist, slut, severely damaged, feminist, or a combination of all of the above.
@Patso65
10 ай бұрын
Uh oh bro, you're girlfriend is "not perfect," or, doesn't "carry much baggage." If she watches this video, you're going to hear it (and you know it). LOL. Anyway, another good video, keep it up.
@bobbysilver272
8 ай бұрын
Almost 59. Just ended a marriage after 32 years together! Not dated since back then. Now looking to enjoy the company of a woman with similar views to me. I don't need a woman in my life, but I think I still would like the right one in my life. Many thinks have changed and part of me is excited, part of me can't be bothered. So I'll work on me and if the right woman comes along I will take a look.
@GS-zc4sk
8 ай бұрын
32yrs. Holy macerators.
@nickcarnevalino7462
Ай бұрын
im in my 50's - i dont mind a woman with children , as long as they are over 18 (better out of the house but if they in collage etc then they get a pass)
@AustinKloud
Жыл бұрын
I’m 52 and divorced…. I’m raising my 16 and 18 year old sons as a single father. I don’t need some crazy trying to ruin what’s left of my family. *Rich I bought your book and i recommend it to every man I know.
@magsteel9891
Жыл бұрын
I'm +10 years, same here. Don't need any crazies in my life, I'm busy enough as it is
@njjj3338
Жыл бұрын
What happened to baby mama?
@dpstrial
Жыл бұрын
I am 61 and the number of crazy post-wall women is off the chart.
@CodeBleu724
Жыл бұрын
I'm 51 and in the best place in my life now. Divorced offcially since 2016...unofficially since 2011. I raised my only son on my own and he'll be 22 this September. She got remarried in 2017 to a chump to pay for her medical insurance, being an epileptic and can't work. I took care of her until she became a bored house frau and lost her mind on this stupid online game called Second Life. I dated a handful of women since, some single mothers, some not. I will NEVER take care of someone else's kid. I don't need the aggravation. And at my age, why should I take on that burden?
@dpstrial
Жыл бұрын
@@CodeBleu724 You are right: taking on someone else's children will be a heavy burden and one that is completely unnecessary. You don't need to live with someone to these days to enjoy carnal pleasures. Modern women should be kept at arm's length.
@zoesparrow-rk7se
5 ай бұрын
I'm a 58 year-old man. Not the least interested in women in their 20s. Too entitled and immature. I'm not raising someone elses kids so women in their 30s and 40s. I'm very much enjoying the women I've met in their 50s. They're settled, know what they want, and appreciate the activities we do. Women in their 50s have been great.
@helenyeaman1118
Ай бұрын
Thanks, I'm one of those.
@fishin4bogey
Жыл бұрын
A good friend of mine is in his early 60's and consistently dates women who are 35-45. He's in the gym daily, definitely working on himself, and keeping his game and frame at it's peak. Makes 60ish a year. He's my OG Red Pill mentor. No marriage. No cohabitation. He lays this all out from the get go, and they all fall in line. His last relationship was going along fabulously, until she started trying to Betatize him. Told her that it was going to be his way. Period. She withdrew her suggestions, but started up again a month later. Back to the streets she went.
@davidpierce9949
Жыл бұрын
Does he have money too?
@rn2811
Жыл бұрын
It’s true that a woman will test you.
@fishin4bogey
Жыл бұрын
@@davidpierce9949 nope. Regular working schmuck making 50-60k a year.
@jakemccoy
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like me, except I stopped dating women in the USA 5 years ago.
@pinkchilldivestmentor
Жыл бұрын
I knew a guy like that here in San Francisco. Then he finally married a nice woman about 25 years younger. He got cancer and died, and now she inherited his estate.
@patluvsvettes
Жыл бұрын
I'm about a year away from turning 50, and honestly, I've stopped dating. The juice ain't worth the squeeze at this point in my life, and I have WAY too much to lose.
@VoiceOfThe
Жыл бұрын
Same age and I’m not fussed about dating anymore.
@fatgirlboy9341
Жыл бұрын
think of it after dating. i didn’t really enjoy it.
@BucksOutdoors
Жыл бұрын
Turned 50 a month ago and I'm out. It's just not worth the hassle.
@fatgirlboy9341
Жыл бұрын
actually i won’t give up. but i will try to find out i will be happy in the long term as well as pleasure in the short term. good things aren’t easy normally.
@spadgm
Жыл бұрын
Same age as you and I am fine with no more dating.
@9StickNate
Жыл бұрын
I’m 49 and got out of a 10 year relationship/marriage and we have no kids. Last Summer I met a 36 year old single mother with 2 kids, 6 and 10. we shared a similar profession and had some things in common. The kids were friendly, but probably more out of curiosity. They were very clingy and kids are the ultimate cock-Blockers. The Mother had a look of defeat on her face consistently and screamed at her kids over the most minor things. This wasn’t apparent the first couple weeks. I had stayed over at her place 2 or 3 times. That was enough. Quiet, sporadic sex with someone who is constantly stressed and irritated was god-awful. I do not recommend. In regards to maturity. I’ve met 24 year olds that have a plan, hobbies and a good attitude. I’ve also known 50 year old Prima Dona’s that have baggage, entitlement and demanding attitudes. Some women age; win the house and child support in the divorce and then believe they’re going to get the attention that they got at 25.
@lordshiva9359
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for writing a book 📖
@sam.r8610
Жыл бұрын
Man u r 49 and dating 36year old lady isn't that weird it's like dating ur sister
@skibum914
Жыл бұрын
I'm 60 now w similar situation as you...I do not find 50+ yrs olds attractive at all...life is good without all the headaches.
@seanross1962
Жыл бұрын
I find many women marry young, raise kids while husband builds success, get bored after kids leave the nest, get attention from guys on social media, divorce husband and take half his wealth, realize the guys on social media only want sex and not marriage, then cry over a bottle of wine every night saying they don't want to be alone the rest of their life
@freddaniali
Жыл бұрын
@@sam.r8610 I'm 49, and I sure don't want a 49 year old woman. I don't even want a 45 year old woman. Nothing wrong with dating a 36 year at his age; however, he should have found one without as much baggage. There out there, if you care to make the effort. I don't personally.
@PNdebt-hc2tg
Жыл бұрын
I must be the exception. Divorced at 62 and found a great lady that is two years younger than me. She is beautiful, takes care of herself in every way. Good family, finances and a near perfect match. I have the guy bonding thing down well enough so finding an adventurous lady is perfect. We are 15 months in and the future looks great. Sex is really good for both. Great intimacy. Guys..don't give up. Personally, I could not build a future with a lady that was a lot younger than me. Prefer an equal for the long haul.
@scottmiller2576
Жыл бұрын
That's right any 50 yr stating that they are in solid relationship with a 25 yr old is kidding themselves , there is only three things guaranteed in life , Death/ Taxes/ and a 25yr old female leaving a 50+ yr old guy. Only a very wealthy man that has a overwhelming Financial Tractor Beam will hold a women at that age until she has the ability to set herself up through divorce or Defacto family law proceedings.
@Marwadear512
Жыл бұрын
I remarried in my early 40s to an amazing man my age and YOU represent the vast majority of the best men I saw out there before meeting him. Almost all of the emotionally stable, willing to commit and wanting to marry, well-off/financially secure, professional, attractive, emotionally intelligent men who overall had life going well for them despite their widowhood or divorce, wanted to find a nice, attractive woman around their own age.
@transitionsnc
Жыл бұрын
Good for you. All the best to you.
@iangutoskie2315
11 ай бұрын
@@Marwadear512not true: I’m in that category. Women over 40 have much higher standards and they can’t be mothers. I’m 46 and married a women in her 30’s. I have a large company, 6’6”, in great shape and decent looking there is no way I would date anyone my age when I can have younger, hotter, more pleasant. Your post make zero sense. Also most women in their 40+ are in and out with medical problems and dragging every man that wronged them with them. Read this a few times and think why it would be any different. ALL MEN find women between 18-25 at their hottest, once the 40’s hit they don’t look anything like their younger selves. Stop the cope and treat that man like gold because an overwhelming majority don’t want a women their age. If what you say is true show me a KZitem channel with a ton of followers that believe your non sense
@Marwadear512
11 ай бұрын
@@iangutoskie2315 I stated my reality. Whether you like it or not, doesn’t change it. I had 3 proposals from attractive HVM within 1 year of divorce. The first two didn’t work out due to location and kid situation. Thankfully the last one did. Now if they wanted more kids then obviously I wouldn’t be suitable, but many men do not want more kids. Like my husband. Who also did not want a woman in her 20s, despite them generally being physically attractive.
@mangwolf
Жыл бұрын
the best guide for dating in your 50s: 1) don't end of guide
@nw1816
Жыл бұрын
Dont date a single mother no matter how old she is. All they are looking for is a sucker to help raise her children. When the children are old enough she will dump you, married or not. Also, it doesnt matter how old the gf is, she still is "monkey branching". I dated a 62 year old widow, petite and looked much younger when i was 58. She was much older than i prefered but after all the heartache i endured my whole life, i thought i was golden. I sacrificed age for stability. Boy, was i wrong. Her friend contacted me and said she was seeing 2 other guys. Then her girlfriend who was in a relationship hinted that she wanted to sleep with me, disgusting!
@jtoland2333
2 ай бұрын
Bullshit
@highdesertutah
Жыл бұрын
I’m in my 50’s and for the vast % of older guys I’ll give this advice. Don’t bother unless you have the looks, money/status, game, and desire to get a younger woman. Women my age turn me on about as much as a bag of redi mix concrete and I have no chance getting a younger woman unless I pay a pro. That’s probably the best way to go for older dudes. The sex drive of most men past 45 or so has diminished enough that rubbing one out a couple times a week works just fine then they can get back to earning money and pursuing hobbies.
@davidless57
Жыл бұрын
Some great advice, I’m a high value successful man and am done dating women, lol The one my age look so beat and the younger ones want young men. Bought a 150 g sports car avid cyclist just gotta get some men friends. Great advice, just gotta get over the woman intimacy need thing
@philsrandomstuff2392
Жыл бұрын
As a 46 year old newly single bloke one of the hardest thing is to have male friends to hang out with as they are all controlled by their female partners, if you’re not a strong guy a woman will take away your identity like what happened to me and you will be left single and friendless. If you’re not strong she will drive all your friends away. I let this happen. I may be single and alone but I now have control over my own direction.
@paulnicolas172
9 ай бұрын
Avoid women at all costs unless you can’t lol 😆
@hughobrien4436
9 ай бұрын
Yes it is tough. Just get out of bed each day, focus on you and your ambitions and make yourself the guy that women will want, if you want to that is. And remember Dude.....IT IS NO OVER at 46. I am 53 and last year I met my then 29 GF and things are just great.
@themustangone6449
9 ай бұрын
Same here, i cycle a lot, keep fit, date, guess i was blessed with height 6'4" not ugly so havebt had much issue, but sad i lost my identity for a while
@hayley44448
7 ай бұрын
@themustangone6449 wow thats tall haha considering I'm only 5 ft 😅
@pinnacle1717
5 ай бұрын
Glad you got your life back mate. Unless you are a truely strong Alfa, she will stop you doing anything that she is not in control of. Friends, hobbies, time with your side of the family, all become distant memories. Boys hunting trips, boys ski weekends, fishing trips. All will be a thing of the past. DON’T let it happen. One buddy I used to hang out a lot with, - once the new “perfect” woman was running his life, she stopped him from doing all of the things he loved. Made him sell his boat, quad bikes, mountain cabin, glider, beach buggy, all the toys gone! She basically cut his balls off. They only seem to spend time with her relatives now & her bitchy girlfriends & their men (all betas) When they finally split, (let’s hope for his sake they do soon) he will realise she has stripped him of any manhood he once had.
@steverinaldi890
Жыл бұрын
Agree with many men on here. First off I’m in my early 50’s and women anywhere near my age have more issues, drama and less to offer than younger women. Regardless the box isn’t worth chasing at this age. Slept with many women and love sex and would be open to a relationship but they are looking for an ATM in my opinion at all ages. An older woman hits on me last week and was pushing me to take her to dinner on a Wednesday. It would have ran me over $300 for dinner at this place. I was shocked that this 59 year old, not even very attractive woman (not in my league at all) pushing dinner at a place like that. Insane
@mattn9349
Жыл бұрын
Older women love to shame men preemmptively by casually dropping lines like "i've never understood what men could possibly have in common with younger women". In truth, women don't mature beyond 16, so those 40 year olds really aren't offering anything other than significantly depreciated assets. The rare 'exception' was already different than the others at 16.
@Kitiwake
Жыл бұрын
Lol.. Dont. She's not worth that. Best thing you can do is tell her you're not going to spend that kind of money. See what she comes up with.
@edwardmylnychuk5774
11 ай бұрын
if they want a dinner then they are gold diggers so leave. if coffee to meet up with isnt good enough then you arent worth my time
@aled4019
7 ай бұрын
Just pay for it when you need to empty the tanks.. it's cheaper!
@pinnacle1717
5 ай бұрын
@@aled4019 & a guaranteed “happy ending”
@dagobaker
Жыл бұрын
finding women on my level in their 40s or 50s in NE Ohio is nearly impossible 30s they have young kids 40s middle age kids 50s the looks and body are basically gone finding one thats attractive and not overweight.... without kids at home has proven unicorn status
@bashiruddinahmad408
Жыл бұрын
Born and raised in N.E Ohio haven't been home since 2019 in the 80's 90's the women were different yes I agree overweight women are plentiful with kids in tow..trying to find a good one is nearly impossible
@riggitydoo5116
Жыл бұрын
And then you find a fit, good looking and guess what? Still defective. Ask me how I know.
@chilipepper9938
Жыл бұрын
From southwest US and moved to northeast Ohio. You nailed it, only place is to live close to the college towns.
@00_UU
Жыл бұрын
That's why you save money, retire early and move to the Philippines do date young ladies and live a luxury life on 2k per month. What is it to do in the Midwest? Long winters, boring football games, average bars and everyone is overweight.
@chilipepper9938
Жыл бұрын
@@00_UU that is my goal, looking to get 20k a month passing income by working 85 hours a week , and go overseas asap. Will watch the embers of the dating and marriage apocalypse over there in the beach. Can guarantee that the US government will stop giving passports. Once men start waking up and leaving
@Kguth819
Жыл бұрын
Older women: No accountability. SSRI’s, cats/dogs, wine, feel that they are older and know it all and have all the answers. Overuse terms like; toxic, healing, abuser, narcissist, independent, sarcastic, witty. The modern woman is obese because of…fast foods (they can’t cook) SSRI’s cause weight gain and make it very difficult to lose it. Wine…empty calories and high sugar.
@seanross1962
Жыл бұрын
And 99% refuse to put gym time in yet spend thousands on their appearance.
@ChrisTurnbull-p3f
Жыл бұрын
"toxic, healing, abuser, narcissist, independent", correct. It's pathetic how often these now meaning less buzzwords are trotted out with monotonous regularity by the same fat, unattractive, insecure, jealous, nagging, bitter old tugboats.
@user-yk4gd1fl4z
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a nightmare. Those words are cancer from women.
@Saultdog67
Жыл бұрын
Yep the" Wine Witch"
@dudeorduderorelduderino9087
Жыл бұрын
BEST COMMENT!!!
@LiftOffLife
Жыл бұрын
You will never be more important than a single mothers worst child.
@simon0044
8 ай бұрын
😂😂👍
@406mitch
3 ай бұрын
That would've been useful to have read about 11 years ago.
@GBU61
Жыл бұрын
If a man reaches his 50s and is single, it won’t get better moving forward with relationships. You will find as you age you stop caring what women want/think because usually what she offers is no longer worth all the work. A more realistic approach is don’t promise anything and keep your options open. I found, now in my 60s, that having my own home, and my own space offers me the control of my life that works well. If I meet a woman along the way that will allow me to lead, I will see her while I am enjoying the time we spend together. Ultimately none of these relationships last anyway, so by becoming indifferent, I save myself a lot of grief and heartache. If I want a true companion, I will get a dog.
@ma3stro681
Жыл бұрын
Men in their 50s should just go to Thailand once or twice a year …
@ENIGMAXII2112
Жыл бұрын
True, oh how very true. Those relationships do not last. Best thing is not to take it seriously..
@highdesertutah
Жыл бұрын
Dogs are great just make sure you have the time and space for them.
@rogerthornhill1491
Жыл бұрын
Gold!
@marionwallsten7507
Жыл бұрын
Well spoken ! So would I, as a woman.
@KennyD-bi3ec
Жыл бұрын
As someone who just turned 52, and has been separated since Sept 21; I can say I am in a happy place in my life. I realized that I don't need another relationship/situationship to make me a complete person. I love the fact that I am on my own now, save for when my kids are with me. I have been doing the work on myself. I've been going to the gym since Feb, and have hit 64 days so far. I think a lot of guys forget what a solid separation/divorce can be for you. You get a do-over. Rediscover yourself. Invest in you. You will be happier for it. Life doesn't have to end with the end of a relationship. You are worth it!
@johnheckscher7138
Жыл бұрын
Yep, I understand and I'm happy for you 😊
@KennyD-bi3ec
Жыл бұрын
@@johnheckscher7138 Thank you!
@shovelgeorge8851
Жыл бұрын
Similar situation myself and I agree 100%. At recent family get together had family members asking "So... you looking for someone? Any new ladies?" My answer was a resounding "NO way! I'm good" I later explained to others that I should actually thank my ex-wife... they were puzzled. I said "She set me free" Saved me from a miserable life of "Happy wife, happy life" Now that I have a few years of red-pill education, No way I'd ever fall into that trap again. Guys...Enjoy the Do-over like someone said and the Freedom.
@manifest2203
Жыл бұрын
This is what women say too. But somehow males don’t believe them 🤦♀️ For women, especially at older age it means less stress because of less work. No new man to nag them asking them to make more food, to do more laundry, to do more cleaning.
@gailainsley6939
Жыл бұрын
@@manifest2203. Exactly. When women want nothing to do with men. They actually mean it. Men don’t and will even get passports just to be around women. It is NOT the same. 😂😴
@skibum914
Жыл бұрын
I'm 60, never married, no kids, retired last year, have no liabilities, money to enjoy life, physically as good as I was 20 years younger, in great shape, look pretty young for my age...but have zero interest in women in their 50's+. I'm kinda resigned to the fact that I am off most younger women's list for dating...it's ok, I'm living a great life in Denver Co. It would be nice if I could meet a happy, nurturing, fun loving woman who is no liberal...who am I kidding!!!!!haahahahaha....,enjoy life on my own terms.
@jimmyjuju
Жыл бұрын
I'm 50 and my #1 rule regarding women is that they need to fill a role in my life: mother, sister, daughter, aunt, teacher, co-worker, partner/gf/wife, etc. Under no circumstance do I need female friends to "hang out" with. Absolutely and resolutely "no thank you".
@FineBlueAgave
Жыл бұрын
I’ve never dated a woman older than 35. There is no reason to. No single mommies, no purple hair and no feminazis. What’s the solution? Rent
@JayB-JayB
Жыл бұрын
Don't get married!
@DB.CorvusRonin
5 ай бұрын
😂soooo true
@egorpolyanskii-ul8ui
5 ай бұрын
Even in your 50s?
@sylviaweimholt2309
3 ай бұрын
😂
@brentdoogle
Жыл бұрын
I always see men coaches and dating gurus offering advice for older men, and it is mostly useful information. However, most "assume" you can use your resources (wealth) as a critical component of attracting younger women as well as your confidence, experience and "dad vibe". What I think most people miss here, is many guys in the 50+ category are usually fallout victims of divorce and may be starting over financially. While we may have the know-how to recover in a couple of years, the psychological stigma of being broke holds men back from even trying, or going home with women far below their levels. I know several friends that got wiped out in divorces, lost their business and all their assets. How about those guys? Other than getting in shape (priority) and dressing smartly, what can older men do to attract women if they are practically broke?
@SKBottom
11 ай бұрын
Don't be broke. Broke is a temporary situation, it doesn't have to be a mentality.
@webersteve1547
Жыл бұрын
In my mid fifties I met a young girl in her early twenties. We are still together after more than ten years. Ok, you have to bring something to the table, which is not easy after a divorce and two kids that study. I wouldn't even consider a woman older than mid thirties. My ex is over sixtie now (as I am), and man am I happy that I'm divorced from her 😂
@coloradomark2159
Жыл бұрын
Hope your ex got to see you with your young hottie, this would really put her tired old self in her place.
@colinrussell2017
Жыл бұрын
@@coloradomark2159 Maybe the ex is happy too!
@sam.r8610
Жыл бұрын
50 with 20yr old wife damn man u r ruining ur life she isn't even attracted to you
@webersteve1547
Жыл бұрын
@@sam.r8610 why do you think so? Maybe we just give us what we need?
@davidpierce9949
Жыл бұрын
Hope she sticks around when you're in your 60z and beyond and not banging a younger hot dude
@edwardwallace1633
Жыл бұрын
Menopause is a real thing I went through it with my ex wife and one lady friend They don’t like sex My current lady friend is 38 and good to go I’m not moving anyone in or getting married Thanks Rich!
@riggitydoo5116
Жыл бұрын
Bingo. It moves a large number to the sidelines permanently. Hence why it seems like a one sided game...because it is.
@BleachDemon707
Жыл бұрын
I think you meant to spell "Men on pause" 😂
@ENIGMAXII2112
Жыл бұрын
@@BleachDemon707 Oh yes..
@mattn9349
Жыл бұрын
Wives withold sex at every age, specifically to mess with you because that's enjoyable to them, and often because they never loved their husband to begin with. It's all a game to them, and the goal is to live the most comfortable life they can with minimal effort, or at least, to be better off then their 'friends'. It's a fallacy that sex becomes more accessible in marriage. In reality, men become more attractive with age and wealth, so I've never understood giving that up just as the outlook is about to get a whole lot more promising. In summary, marriage = death.
@ENIGMAXII2112
Жыл бұрын
@@mattn9349 In full agreement with you Sir.
@it.hardlymatters7424
Жыл бұрын
People in 50s need to find GOD not some women.
@jackfenton2271
Жыл бұрын
Women are real. God is fake.
@stevec3526
Жыл бұрын
Men have many needs. Maslow….
@chintz7428
Жыл бұрын
Beware: Chaotic loserdom/boundaries. Even if older kids are moved out, they still have the abilities to bring crap back into parents lives via grandchildren/life crisis/stupid choices. The cycles repeat. You will be expected to put up with and help solve any crisis and family drama. It is the nature of parenting. Women with no children may be crazy in other ways, but at least you know some leviathan won't come out of the deep generational trauma and destroy everything you have ever worked for and your sanity. Some families just have no boundaries.
@TheTradosaurus
Жыл бұрын
Best advice for a 50+ gentleman trying to find long term committment; don't. It's only going to get worse unless you can score a widow that was trained right.
@swamptoedenliving4924
Жыл бұрын
I am 53 and divorced for 4 years. I was only dating 30 and under after trying the 30’s, 40’ and 50 year old women. Now I have been in a relationship with a 23 year old with no kids for the last 1.5 years and it’s been great. If you know how to lead as a man they will follow. There are no real men in the younger range that stay in their masculine frame.
@davidpierce9949
Жыл бұрын
53 dating a 23 yo? Nothing to brag about.
@davidberg7346
Жыл бұрын
I’m sure she’s not just dating you for your money
@swamptoedenliving4924
Жыл бұрын
@@davidpierce9949 Don’t hate because you can’t do it! You can have all the old scraps that have been run through.
@swamptoedenliving4924
Жыл бұрын
@@davidberg7346 I wish that was the case! Was married for 18 years and she took 70% of my net worth and get a large sum of child support. Basically starting over for the last 3 years but she doesn’t seem to mind
@jakemccoy
Жыл бұрын
@@davidpierce9949 It does not sound like he's bragging to me. It sounds like you feel inferior for whatever reason.
@Jimminityjabooboo
Жыл бұрын
Don’t get married. Don’t raise another man’s kids.
@406mitch
3 ай бұрын
Word.
@brianyerger583
Жыл бұрын
I'm 50 years old and dated 6 women back between 2020 - 2021 following my divorce ending. Every one of them were in their mid-forties and all were divorced 2 - 3 times. They always blame the men for the divorce and how they as women were wronged one way or another. If you're divorced that many times each of these women had to play a part in it. I hate when they play the poor me & blame shifting. I can't help but think they had to play a part in it themselves because it takes two.
@ma3stro681
Жыл бұрын
They were most likely the cause each time. And I bet they came away with more cash and prizes each time. Don’t get involved with divorced woemen …
@mattn9349
Жыл бұрын
@@ma3stro681 Exactly, they're so draining with their constant pleas for sympathy, and given that women love to argue and fight way, way more than any man I've ever met, they still want you to believe it was the man's fault. They were perfect angels as always.
@LatimusChadimus
Жыл бұрын
Yes a lot of common basic women think they are worthy of a top-shelf guy while they say that they are the table even though men built the table that women won't even make pretty anymore
@victorblock3421
Жыл бұрын
My soulmate is my dog. He's my sweetheart. With him there's intimacy, love, friendship, companionship and loyalty. For my libido it's a local Asian massage parlor.
@SterlingWheel
Жыл бұрын
Keep up the good fight, Rich. I've shared your work with a few plugged-in friends. The ones that resist are no longer in my network, easy life hack.
@Bravefit
Жыл бұрын
Guys by your 50’s you’ve amassed resources. Just go overseas. 7 of my friends have done this and found wives. Women in the west are toast and not worth the effort
@hwy1310
Жыл бұрын
Travel, meet different people…..even if it’s a brief encounter at a restaurant, gas station, etc. It’s a great way to stave off the feeling of isolation. I travel on my motorcycle, solo….I’ve met so many interesting people the past 2 years, since I’ve been single and riding. Get out and LIVE, don’t try to hard to meet someone…when you quit caring so much about it, magical things happen.
@ubermensch6669
Жыл бұрын
A hard lesson I had to learn in mid 40s was to love and invest in yourselves fellas ,happiness is within you as chessy as it sounds ,women are a wonderful additions to life but it’s not essential ,you peace of mind MUST be your total focus in life
@Healing_gateway
14 күн бұрын
Your comment is among the best. You can never go wrong with investing on yourself, now as to the part of women aren't essential, nobody is. There's the same level of frustration among women. We have to admit there's an intrinsic need for love and connection and is very likely that can be fulfilled by other means than relying the opposite sex to fulfill that need.
@michaelmitchell5098
11 ай бұрын
I’m a widower at 61 and not even trying that dating crap. Haven’t done it since the early 1980s and from what i hear from my Granddaughters (20 & 27) it is not the place to be.
@ronhoek69
Жыл бұрын
Rule 1: Only date single mothers if you have childern as well and then only if the woman has a 50/50 shared custody, for numerous reasons. The important one is time you'll have for your own child(ern) and the time she has for you. Another indicator with 50/50 SC is that she is able to negotiate with and probably has a reasonable relationship with her ex. Rule 2: No living under one roof as long as your or her child(ern) is still living at home.
@jimmyjuju
Жыл бұрын
Single mothers are for fun only. Period.
@liljerseygirl249
8 ай бұрын
Are you kidding, the last guy I dated was divorced 5 years already, and he talked about what "she did to him" she left him and filed for divorce after 23 years of marriage.. This was every time we saw one another. He also talked about another girlfriend he had 35 years ago that walked out on him. Never a word about how he was verbally and physically abusive to them.. (I found out when he started doing it to me and spoke to the ex) I got sick of hearing about his exs, and no way would I put up with any type of abuse. By the way, I made more money then him, have my own health benefit, etc. I didn't need his money.
@lou15176
6 ай бұрын
If he talked about his ex more than the basic info that I need to know, I’d be gone. If you are dragging your past around then how do you have time for me? Yeah red flag 🚩 byeeee x
@rizkhan3368
4 ай бұрын
Like toxic women, there are toxic men, always figure em out, I can judge most of em in a few days! so should you with experience.
@ashdobbs
2 ай бұрын
haw haw
@wingandhog
2 ай бұрын
Hanging out with like minded dudes is important. I ride motorcycles with several close friends and we spend days exploring interesting places on the bikes, then hanging out for dinner and laughs. Love those times!
@justinsmudde2554
6 ай бұрын
You're giving dating. Advice yet I've NEVER seen you with any Woman or even talk about anyone you're dating. Fake news LOL
@aaronmcleod5537
5 ай бұрын
Can attest to how menopause affects woman as I work in the hormone field. Mental issues, weight gain, anger, inability to deal with everyday circumstances, general disinterest in activities they used to enjoy As you said Rich, hormone therapy can help but it’s very difficult to dial in. And many times doctors throw in antidepressants and other drugs to complicate the issue. Went through this recently with my ex, who became a totally different person. Sad to see.
@davidulrickson8310
Жыл бұрын
Try dating women in their 60’s, talk about dumpster fires.
@davea3329
Жыл бұрын
Be the best person you can be and don’t worry about your age or what other people think . No need to chase anything, if you do the work and be your best, things will come to you. It is the law of attraction.
@hayley44448
7 ай бұрын
Agree
@andrewcolleypropertiesreal1941
Жыл бұрын
Baggage is very heavy with women in their 40’s and 50’s
@Project-Masculinity
Жыл бұрын
Including their notch count
@00_UU
Жыл бұрын
Not baggage, all those STDs! The older they get, the more they been ran through. Antibiotics can only go so far.
@ewoman3584
Жыл бұрын
Baggage is heavy with men those ages too. What sets those apart is ones that own the baggage and pack it up in the baggage closet learning from it. They move forward not carrying that baggage around like a ball and chain hitting everyone with it.
@Project-Masculinity
Жыл бұрын
@@ewoman3584 25% of North American women have Genital Herpes…. That baggage isn’t going away soon Have you been tested?
@bradfordparker6639
8 ай бұрын
The women are very heavy. If they are one of the few that are healthy they are not on the market. Every single time.
@ericthered.147
Жыл бұрын
The pool gets very shallow. Most 30s and 40s have kids in tow. This is a non-starter. 50s with what, 60% overweight and burnt out. No thanks. At 55, I'm in great shape and have freedom- tine and money to do what I want. Skiing cycling and surfing.
@yellowquantum4240
Жыл бұрын
WOW!!!! I got burned with my 15 yr relationship with a NZ what I thought was my soulmate..A liar, cheater a master fake. Thank God I am a cyclist 3 times champion, Ferrari guy I own a boutique hotel in the Hudson Valley NY and have the 1% life style no kids 62 yrs old. I have options and financial abundance ..I want a pleasant, fun life style. A female connections are welcome , it is nuts out there...Disgusting !!! Have fun guys and love life , your soul mate is you interlaced with GOD!!!! My opinion..
@DuncanBuilds
Жыл бұрын
Great vid Rich, thanks. 41, single, 2x divorced. Started my red pill journey about 18 months ago. You've been a major player in it. Always appreciate your balanced perspective. It's wild out here boys and this info is gold. Act accordingly.
@dinos9607
Жыл бұрын
Seeking love in your post-50s is immature, childish. A man has to be realistic. While nothing can be excluded, the possibility of a woman of any age "falling in love" with a man older than 50 is so small that any man no matter how rich or good looking should not even get into the trouble pondering over it. If it happens, it happens and then again the man needs double and triple checks. Any woman of any age, the younger the more suspicious, seeking sex and relationship with an older man will do it to seek a particular material benefit out of it. Money, a better housing, expensive gifts or a promotion at work. Once the man makes freely available all what she seeks she will move on to her next plans most probably than not involving another man or no man at all in case she is older. No woman wants to sit and take care of a man in his older age. Exceptions are those generally older women close to the man's age who are in need of a companion to avoid loneliness and even then their love is self-serving even if still a step above those who are in for the material support singlehandedly. Overall? You are better off with prostitutes 99,5% of times. For those who hope, keep hoping for the 0,5%.
@Stringwar
Жыл бұрын
I think loneliness is a big factor as you get older. Your best mates arent available as they are still married, new buddies have baggage too, they are either looking for a woman all the time and tends to be the focus of their drive, they also come with mental health issues that can be too complex to help with. So yeah, guys are going to be keen to find a chick to settle down with and will accept some of that baggage.
@rudeawakening3833
Жыл бұрын
SO SPOT ON ! I’m 63 , got divorced at 50 , and I would have avoided SO MUCH grief and stress and aggravation had I heard THIS ONE VIDEO … ☮️
@mkd4life40
Жыл бұрын
Same age, became red pilled during the lockdown...funny how many 55 year old plus ladies think they have a smv beyond being banged by dudes 18-80...many are waiting for the next best option, you're simply the current best option...hypergamy knows no bounds.... I look for fwb, no desire for 24/7....
@rudeawakening3833
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately , I feel the same . I got divorce - raped in 2011 . I don’t want another “ grey “ divorce . Laws all on women’s side . Sad . Grow old alone - “ I can do bad , all by myself “ Peace ☮️
@Em-vs5zj
Жыл бұрын
As a woman, I feel bad for men dealing with crazy. I understand how incredibly tempting a gorgeous woman can be but some guys do not look any deeper and find out quick how ugly she is in her character and moral compass. Just sayin’. And all the ratchets make all women look horrible.
@rjagger1395
Жыл бұрын
I am 70 ,,, you date all you want ,, but remember all you have is yourself ,,be strong ,
@juicearibe
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I'm a widower fifty-two. My wife died a year ago from cancer. I was married for twenty six years. I dated her 8. Basically i've been with one woman for thirty four years. I am green. I own my own home. I have two boys With happy military careers. I recently dated this young woman who's a single mom her husband died from cancer. But she's also a divorcy from her first husband. She has 2 kids, one in college and 1 lives with her. And the one with her is eight years old. Lot of emotional baggages. I really like her, But she's more into her child which I respect in favor. I don't have a problem with taking on another man's child. If I really love the woman. But I can't take the emotional roller coaster. And I realize a lot of women are really damaged baggage at fifty. Help!!!
@MrsRobinson398
Жыл бұрын
I’m in my 20s and my friends and I make fun of these old guys. We use you for money and make fun of you how stupid you are to our friends.
@joeplem5329
Жыл бұрын
Seriously if you're dating in your 40s or 50s just know you're basically her only option left or her "retirement plan "🙄
@SSNESS
Жыл бұрын
Burlap Brag
@mationinfo
Жыл бұрын
Sorry not a chance
@professionalwidow
Жыл бұрын
this is older men too. no young woman with a brain is marrying an older man to be his nurse in 20 years
@JuracyLopez
11 ай бұрын
Facts🎯
@Snarge22
Жыл бұрын
A woman good with maps???? Shocker! Most can't navigate themselves out of an elevator. And it was a woman who told me that one.
@AiresOne
Жыл бұрын
This isn't just for dating in your 50s, this is for dating whatsoever in the degenerative, hyper modern world.
@jaynikk758
6 ай бұрын
Very true!
@twofarg0ne763
5 ай бұрын
My ex walks in when I was 55 and says she's getting a divorce. I say okay. I'll tell you the past 20 years have been the best years of my life. My kids have grown up and moved on with their lives. I dated a couple of times, but the women I met had so much baggage I said the hell with it, so I sold my business, retired, moved to southern France, and bought a nice apt that overlooks the Mediterranean. I stopped eating an American diet, lost 85 pounds, and started walking 5k - 7k a day. At 75 sex is no longer a big deal, so why in the world do I need a woman in my life? I belong to several social groups; we play golf, meet for dinner, go to local jazz clubs, and take trips together. I have female friends, but I'm not interested in them romantically, at all. I don't need a woman in my life, and I sure as shit don't want to be some woman's retirement plan.
@canarc1
Жыл бұрын
I just went on a date recently where the woman catfished me. I was there anyways and stayed for a drink rather than splitting immediately. She said as we were talking.l bet you’re lonely. I said, Hun, l don’t need anything or anybody, l would survive just fine even if l was living in a storm pipe. The fact is l would sooner be doing that that cohabitating with a nasty sexless woman. Gulped my rum down and happily carried on with the afternoon, knowing l have peace and no chaos in my life, priceless.
@Snarge22
Жыл бұрын
It's been my observation that women age something awful after menopause. By far the greatest misogynist ever? That would be Mother Nature. She's exceptionally cruel towards women.
@hughobrien4436
11 ай бұрын
I got divorced at 49 from a woman, who was three years younger than me, who basicaly ignored me for the last 6 years of our marraige(I live in sweden and the divorce laws are not as hostile towards men). I have 3 sons. I am 53, and a year ago I met a 29 year old who adores me, she is 30 now and we are looking at marrige and a house together. Life could not be better.
@brendantindall805
6 ай бұрын
Basically guys expect too much from chicks
@scottwells4007
Жыл бұрын
Rather have a good sandwich
@computerhelpcc
Жыл бұрын
Yes: diversify your personal connections, cannot put it all on one person, certainly NOT your gal. Gotta have activities outside of actual work and your gal. Your pets are not capable of being critical/higher functioning, so if you cannot handle anything besides your pet (dog, cat, etc) your mental position needs expansion. 😊
@equinoxb8711
Жыл бұрын
51 and dating 35 or under. Can't deal with women my age on that level. God knows I tried.
@brando7266
Жыл бұрын
Why would a 35 yr chick go out with a 50+ guy, ? Probably for the money ( financial security),
@fatgirlboy9341
Жыл бұрын
i don’t find interest with woman who have interest with my money
@equinoxb8711
Жыл бұрын
@@brando7266 they all do. Even the 50 yo. I'd rather spend time and money on a 25 yo and have a lovely time than a 50+ menopausal harp. It's important to vet properly and not front load (to not give what they don't deserve).
@ErnestkhalimovErnestkhalimov
Жыл бұрын
@@brando7266 True. Every guy who dates women 20+ years younger there is a 99.9% chance they are rich. Why would they want a guy who could be their dad if they can have young, hot chad. 💀
@brando7266
Жыл бұрын
@@ErnestkhalimovErnestkhalimov they r looking for sugar daddies,
@johnadams2630
Жыл бұрын
Agree! 47 years defined here. After being divorced for the last 18 years. Definitely have found that most women with children want a man to cuckhold. I have raised 2 daughters and they both agree that the cuckhold is real. Put yourself and your business first.it’s tough trying to balance a relationship these days. Raise your standards “”. Thanks Rich
@jessnevares7861
Жыл бұрын
Men in their 40’s and 50’s. If you can’t find a good woman here in the matrix, get the hell out of here. Zoom to Thailand or the phillipines. There are plenty of young mature woman their that would love to be with you. Luckily I found a lovely Asian woman here in the matrix and married her. It can happen but the odds are stacked against you. Good luck. 🍀
@RealGaryGibson
Жыл бұрын
Responsibility with no authority leads to insanity.
@betteralone318
Жыл бұрын
As a man in my early 60s it is the baggage that really wears you down. Many wahmen hold onto it and it seems like they expect you to pay, make up for, for their perceived mistreatment by men from previous relationships. Its seldom that they take responsibility for their choices or behavior. It is this that prevents them from learning and becoming more attractive. It is so tedious.
@jackdeniston59
Жыл бұрын
They like the baggage/excuses.
@zrunner240Z
Жыл бұрын
FACTS!!
@matthewbowers6178
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, this is why I don't date single moms anymore. They take everything out on you from their past. The damage is unbelievable
@SKBottom
11 ай бұрын
A lot of them are also still in love with the bad boys. Intellectually, they might know he's trash, but they are still in love with the fantasy. This was originally told to me by a female psychologist Like many, she went into the field looking for solutions to her own problems, and she had plenty of problems, but she was also right about this.
@pinnacle1717
5 ай бұрын
Yeah, it’s the “I’ve been done wrong, please rescue me, I deserve it” moderngurl! They are everywhere, beware the witch disguised as the damsel in distress! Pure evil.
@RollingThunder808
Жыл бұрын
Older single women have baggage and will apply it to the guy they're with that's why they're still single. Just date a young girl with no baggage.
@ronfesta771
5 ай бұрын
Me thinketh taking relationship advice from an., over the hill.........player!@?😝🤑🤪🤪🤪
@mbg9650
Жыл бұрын
Guess what: women entitlement comes at all ages.
@johninflorida8634
10 ай бұрын
I've been a tax practitioner for over 35 years. Women with kids from a prior man often will ring the register just as soon as those kids finish school snd enter the workforce. Be careful if you are helping support her children, especially if she can get paid.
@joecampos7999
Жыл бұрын
Single mom's or chicks in their 50's are the same way. Due to their past experiences like divorces, exes, emotional bagage, they want to boss you around, and take full control of the relationship. Screw that.
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