I think parents should teach their boy child to behave correct instead protecting, or restricting girl child
@sairaahul5856
6 ай бұрын
This is true I accept sometime girls don't want boys who are innocent they actually want rugged boys not all some wild animals do like this I feel pity
@mesvinschannel
6 ай бұрын
Very true..
@ss-tc5gy
6 ай бұрын
Enanga pesreenga
@gowshika7999
6 ай бұрын
@@ss-tc5gy En Purilaya ungaluku sonadhu. Tamil la solanuma?
@ss-tc5gy
6 ай бұрын
@@gowshika7999 enaku purithu...ungluku puritha?
@vedhak7488
6 ай бұрын
The point sneha told...the way we fight for culture y can't we fight for rape... correct 💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Madsavage18
6 ай бұрын
😂😂can't ah 😂😂
@User-qfhwj46rg
5 ай бұрын
💯% true❤️🙂
@Yash-sd6of
6 ай бұрын
These things starts from very small things like teasing girls and making jokes on their body parts. Normalizing small comments leads to big traumas. How many people knows about marital rapes !? Why every shitty things happens only to women. "It's not all the men but it's always men!"
@Shrivaishnavi-e7b
6 ай бұрын
That's 💯 true
@enchantedspark-ws2wj
6 ай бұрын
Bold of you to assume that all women are innocent. In some places women misuse their rights. They even falsely accuse innocent men . By your logic i can also conclude that "it's not all women but it's always women who falsely accuse men "
@duh450
6 ай бұрын
@@enchantedspark-ws2wj can we stop blamiing eachother and together try to protect ourselves from evils belonging both genders
@Madsavage18
6 ай бұрын
Manichow ahh😂😂😂
@shivad2841
5 ай бұрын
Body parts jokes are mostly cracked by women on boys
@kirthanak5797
6 ай бұрын
😢😢😢 I too have been a victim of bad touch twice. It happened when I was between the age of 13-16 and it caused me a great deal of trauma. Till this date, I haven’t confided this to anyone, not even my parents. Being an only child I worry about making my parents upset:( nd also I was very scared that people would think poorly of me. Even now recalling those incidents fills me with fear. Thank you for putting up this video Kamala Amma - Kirthana BA. LLB (hons) 4th year Chennai ❤
@Aish_and_chris
6 ай бұрын
🫂
@jayajith
6 ай бұрын
Amma... Na solratha neenga nambuveengala nu therila... Na 8th padikum pothu la irunthu en v2la na safeah illaing amma.. enkuda porantha anna ve enta thappa nadanthuta try pannitu irunthaanga... Enaku itha amma ta solla bayam.. bcz ammaku enmela paasam jasthi nu nenaicha.. sonna avanga uyiroda iruka mataanga nu nenaicha... Ithukaagave na 11th 12th hostel poita.. na nalla padipang amma.. but intha trauma naalaiye ennala studies la concentrate panna mudila.. antha tym la tha I felt safe with one boy & I fell in love.. ena antha trauma la irunthu veliya kondu vanthathe avanga tha.. avanga soli tha COVID time la amma kita anna pathi sonna... Sonna neengale shock aaveenga... She doesn't even believe me & worry about me.. ipo varaikum avanga en anna ku tha support panraanga... Na ipo sonna atha epd nambarathunu kekaraanga.. now I've completed my UG & studying LLB 2nd year... Na en v2la illa... Venumney councelling la thoorama iruka college select panni en v2la irunthu na thalli iruka.. bcz I don't feel safe in my own house..
@Karthikaneet
6 ай бұрын
I feel so sorry for this...more and more strength and love to you akka❤
@mercynivetha9975
6 ай бұрын
Stay strong da
@venkatasalamganesaperumal4017
6 ай бұрын
Nan oru girl nanum uthe mathiri face paniruken oruthar illa niraya per bad touch panratha en childhood niraya face paniruken.. nanum veliya pogum pothu payanthute than still now enaku 32 age antha fear pogave illa..
Very true!!! I stopped using public transport for years.
@ridupriyaa4959
6 ай бұрын
பெண் குழந்தைகளுக்கு ஆடை உடுத்துவது பற்றி சொல்லி கொடுப்பது மட்டும் அல்லாமல் ஆண் பிள்ளைகளுக்கும் சொல்லி வளர்க்க வேண்டும் பெண்களை எப்படி நடத்த வேண்டும் என்று
@Krish_stewart
6 ай бұрын
Dress is their individual choice,
@vikramvignesh98
6 ай бұрын
I'm 27 male I been sexually abused and raped in my childhood multiple times around the age of 7 to 11. This trauma leads me to non socializing person who always had difficulty in maintaining friendship or relationship. Some months back my psychiatrist conveyed me it may be due to my unhealed childhood trauma I been currently into chronic Depression, PTSD and anxiety issues. I'm taking medication related to it these days hope one day I'll heal. One thing I feel proud was I made sure my lovable younger sister shouldn't undergo this things so I safeguarded her as per my knowledge and she is currently persuing medicine and have large social circle not like me .I felt so guilty when some people commented it's all because of men like I feel it's about individual discriminating things like this towards one gender is not acceptable. My parents didn't educated about this things may be they thought I'm a boy I wouldn't face this things and I really don't know what's happening those days it took me years to understand what happened in my past. To parents who out there make sure to educate your children whether girl or boy about it and give them strong support that you will be always there for them😊
@divyarani8534
6 ай бұрын
Everything will change bro don't worry the human who did this to u will be punished by God severally
@ambigadevimurugan714
6 ай бұрын
You are a such a cute angel.I agree victims are from both gender. You too get some education and grow your self and reduce your financial dependency also. It is not our mistake, come out from it. Time will heal every pain. Till then we should be very careful and should not become a prey for them. Take care. Stay blessed.
@harinirao9166
6 ай бұрын
I wish pray and hope you heal.. Hugs to you
@Pastel_Enchanted
6 ай бұрын
Don't worry
@Riya-bw5di
6 ай бұрын
Big hug to u🫂🫂 hope u heal soon ❤❤ and joy the life and I wish, you get all the happiness in this world.
@ramaprakash8716
6 ай бұрын
எனக்கும் இதவிட மோசமாக நடந்து இருக்கு 10 வயசுல😭 அப்பறம் நீங்க சொன்ன மாதிரி school days la public transport la😭என் அம்மாக்கு கூட தெரியாது.அதுல இருந்து இப்போ 35 வயசு ஆச்சு என் கணவரை தவிர மத்த ஆண்கள் எல்லாம் என்ன தப்பான கண்ணோட்டத்தில் பாக்குராங்கலோனு தோனுது அதுனாலயே வேற ஆண்கள் கிட்ட பேசுவதையே தவிர்க்கிறேன்😢
@suryarathin6236
6 ай бұрын
True 💯 sis, enakkum bad touch nadathiruku, 7th padikkum pothu realation la athum Chithappa murai, ithanalaye ipo vara en ponna yar v2ko sonthangal v,2ku vida payam
@varshiniprakash9450
6 ай бұрын
Iam a clg student studying in coimbatore,I'm staying alone in a rental home ,Innaiki mrng pakathla irukura shop ku I went alone wearing a shorts,there was a Kovil poojari standing nearby I realised where are his eyes going, na avana thirupi stare paniyum kooda avanuku oru hesitation ila,he continued his staring,na dress edhuvum podatha maari he made me feel ,rmba sexualize ah paathitu irundhan,I felt very helpless and felt like nothing I could really do, I really do hope atleast indha maari vds paathachum edhadhu oru paiyanuku aachum ponungala sexualize ah disrespective ah paakuradhu thappunu purinja podhum.
@selvabharathiselva6027
6 ай бұрын
Do u know abt that poojari? Means avan epdi pattavan nu. If he doesn't stop staring in a shitty manner just make a fake call as if you attend the call,and just speak whatever ur heart says,he won't turn by your side , let he feel shame about his actions. I use this method if sometimes Iam in situatiom to travel alone in auto or bus , by noting the vehicle number and sending it to the person I feel safe and also the location live sharing. I think this would be helpful in anyway, hope so u be strong and safe all time.
@sanjanaccube
6 ай бұрын
The sad truth is andhamari kazhisadaingalukellam indha video poi seraadhu...paakkamaataanuga
@tabassumnuha16
6 ай бұрын
@Mit_mithra sad reality 🤐
@prashanthkumarm4069
6 ай бұрын
I, being a rape victim, I survived it in my 13th age and none of my family knew about it till now. I processed my traumas with the help of professionals after 10 years and got healed but I don't think all victims can afford it. I agree with Snehu, I am not feeling safe in this nation and this country is incapable of protecting an individual from rape and abuse. To Amma, maatram varum...? I don't think so.... I lost belief. Ennum ethana Peru nambala madhri thavikka poranga...? Kadavul kuda pathutu summa dha irukkanga la, let him/her enjoy our pain and sufferings.... I appreciate your efforts and thanks for speaking about sensitive objectives on this subject.... Survival continues...........!
@sheelasel2530
6 ай бұрын
Im sorry u don't deserve this 🥺
@pavithram9382
6 ай бұрын
I too faced ma In public bus who he get that confidence in a public bus When Punishment was severe it was change.....⚖️ Some cheep rate people are there with us it's has faith 💯
@ImD_D2
6 ай бұрын
This was actually very helpful and you've teached me to be more careful and just as Sneha said "I've lost my trust on this country"
@samyukthaaravabhumi
6 ай бұрын
I feel as a doctor and a woman, it is my duty to say, that the comments about the the way women dress is taken as a validation for their action be it harassment or assault - verbal or sexual by a lot of men and boys. Just a few days back when i was speaking to my aunt about this topic, she made the same comment and i asked her “ If your own son harassed or abused someone just because she was dressed provocatively, will you accept it as a valid reason for your son’s actions?”, only after I asked that question did she realise how ignorant her comment was. Most look at this issue only from a single side, but like all issues this is also multifaceted. Like Rani aunty said I have also faced this at an age when I couldn’t even comprehend the gender differentiation less alone sexual encounters and by no less than a family member, I was subconsciously so traumatised that I repressed the whole issue until it resurfaced during my first year in college when I faced a similar issue albeit to a lesser degree while travelling in public transport. To the parents, guardians and adults, I beg you to have a honest conversation with your kids about this issue, be it boys or girls, teach them what is right from wrong, be open and receptive, tell them to treat each other with dignity and respect, reassure them that no matter the trouble they are in that they are always welcome to share it with you but at the same time set some boundaries that they are not to cross and ask them if they ever faced something like this, but do not push them, because as long as you are willing to openly talk about these issues, with enough time and reassurances they will come to you. It is high time that instead of blaming the victim, or imprisoning women in house or a marriage, you educate your sons, fathers, brothers, cousins and friends about how to treat women, better yet teach them how to treat their fellow human. For all those women out there that went or going through something similar, I know that even on thinking about these encounters, this crippling fear takes over you and for the tiniest moment you freeze every time you read, hear, or see such incidents, I understand and If you ever feel like you want to talk to someone, I urge you to reach to the person you trust most, or to any other doctor or a psychiatrist or you can contact me @9629010555.
@Ismail71717
6 ай бұрын
As a man, i feel ashamed if what is happening in our country. Sexual abuse goes on both genders, even i was abused by my cousin when i was 9.its not all men, but always men.But, the reason why major of the victims are girls is bcoz boys are not taught how to see a girl, how to talk to a girl, how to treat a girl, especially in rural areas. The fact that the past abusers are still free in our society, makes me doubt the future of our society. Avanungala kallaala adichu saagadikunamnu thonuthu.
@_.angelin._2001_
6 ай бұрын
Nanum indha situiation la irundhuruken santoor mommy ..idhu full ah padinga actually 12th mudichen andha tim la aluthuten anniki veetuku vandhu daddy kita solrapo .. thirunelveli ku bus la na daddy mummy lam ponom apo enaku back seat la irundhu oru aged ana oru aal bad touch pannaga like na window side la ukkanthu irundhen enaku daddy kita solradhuku mudilla bayamavum padhatama vum irundhuchi apo na safety pin eduthu andha aalu touch panrapo avan kaiya pudichi kada kada nu sharp ah kuthiten nan dha psycho thanama pin vachi kuthuren nu andha aal nalayum katha mudilla bcoz thappu avan mela irukapo epdi shout out pana mudium .... vtuku vandhu my daddy asked me about my higher studies so i said to my dad that all.. what happened in bus !! I don't wanna to be in this country anymore daddy na foreign poren nu soliten daddy suddenly started to cry aprom sonnaru enaku irukuradhu orey oru ponnu nee unaku inga padikradhuku istam illa ne safe ah feel pannalana ok unna vitu enga nala iruka mudiyadhu India la namaku safety illa ne foreign ke poiru nu sonnaru .... So now I'm free bird here na ipo Dubai la MBBS internship eduthutu iruken .. ❤ na India vandhu 4 yrs aachi ..next yr daddy mummy Yoda family ya Dubai shift aga porom santoor mommy...anniki edho function kaga thirunelveli ponom car repair aachi nu oru chinna reason .. bus la konja nala poradhe illa jolly ya round adikalam nu Nana dha daddy kita sonen andha chinna reason nala dhan bus la ye ponom .. 😢
@petriciayesudass6787
6 ай бұрын
Happened to me whn i was in 7th . Horrible trauma.. Now im 23 . That person passed away still i have that impact. But im telling this because we are not alone 🙂
@petriciayesudass6787
6 ай бұрын
Thank u for bringing up this topic 🙏..
@Aish_and_chris
6 ай бұрын
🫂
@chitras884
6 ай бұрын
Sure🙏
@reshmaa8421
6 ай бұрын
Sneha said true words justice delayed and denied. தண்டனைகள் கடுமையாக இருந்ததால் தான் குற்றங்கள் குறையும்.
@DV-005
6 ай бұрын
Enakku 28, i have faced this issue few times during my schooling. Enakku therinja anna oruthar eh enna bad touch panirukaru, the thing is i was too young to understand that was a molestation and i escaped just bcz i was not comfortable and even after that i was talking to that person bcz i didn't realise that was a bad touch or what i under go was wrong. After certain age only i realized he just molested me. Now i have a 4 yr baby girl. After Aarthi news when I try to say dont get chocolates from others she is asking y. I can't explain her. Enakku therinja kanna nondi vithuruvanga story la sonalum she is not convinced and telling like na Dora oda map pathu veetuku vanthuruven, bheem mari avangala dishum nu adichuruven. How can i explain she is not in a safe society As a girl parent i feel very insecured and unsafe 😢😞
@heh8285
6 ай бұрын
Nowadays in school they start early to teach about good and bad touch from grade1
@mahalakshmibalamurugan8423
6 ай бұрын
Great initiative lack of safety in our country nowdays if women is traveling alone its not a easy job
@Simple_Survivor
6 ай бұрын
நானும் என்னுடைய சிறுவயதில் இப்படி சில சம்பவங்களால் பாதிக்கப்பட்டேன்🥺😥
@Nsr385
6 ай бұрын
Seeing the way how Sneha reacts when you say your incidents,I can really understand her root thought.. I appreciate the way you grow them though you people are with social media❤
@MeenaV-nr1yq
5 ай бұрын
To be honest I've been abused by my own father when iam 12 years old 😢😢
@priyajiiva1111
4 ай бұрын
Omg😢
@vinodkumar-il4uq
4 ай бұрын
Be confident ✨️ never leave your self identity ❤❤❤
@coco.x_x
4 ай бұрын
So sad to hear , it is the only pure bond a daughter and father can have how could a father do such an abusive thing to his daughter 🤧🤧 I hope you'll find your way . don't fear anything be brave women should be respected as we should be praised by the way we are.
@LIONQUEENLakshi-ji4hx
3 ай бұрын
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@TejaswiniVijiyaShankar
Ай бұрын
😢 don't worry sister,.. I don't know what to say.. I'm sorry
@priyamurugan3621
6 ай бұрын
I'm 25...I am also face that situation in temple with my parents.... And I also didn't ask to noone even my my parents becoz I just felt so embraced and so suffering...
@kishoregamingtamil6786
6 ай бұрын
Face la adika vendi tha na sister Don't feel embraced
@tehillahjoy4108
6 ай бұрын
24:38 you are absolutely right Sneha 😢💔
@Madhumitha-1913
6 ай бұрын
Idk its Very shameful about our India! But i have a request to sneha i want her to be the Lawyer who sounds to be like "Justice done " i hope she gets in to a higher level in this career she brings out Justice! ❤
@lokeshwariraja1170
6 ай бұрын
Almost 5.7k comments in the comment section I can see around 5.6k told about the harassment happened in their life 😢 really this is curse of our country
@aarthibhuvan3405
6 ай бұрын
Hi sister I'm aarthi age 27 and married. Recently happened to me one old man age around 60 to 65 opposite to my home he misbehave with me and i shouted totally he twisted on me no one believed me expect my husband pls don't believe age or good fame because these culprits wanted ly creating good image to do bad things to protect themselves pls beware don't believe anyone
@rathimugunthan1177
6 ай бұрын
I am also a victim ma. Starting from very own cousin brother to the incident that took place last week. The trauma is increasing day by day. I too have a girl child studying in grade 1 till date pick up and drop is by myself and my husband. I am traumatized to the extreme to even believe in PPL around us because of some creatures. I dont no where these situations are going to end.
@Aish_and_chris
6 ай бұрын
🫂
@lenigeorge3630
6 ай бұрын
Each and every women had faced and each day facing this. Even by the looks women facing nonsense. Stomach burning 🔥
@bhoomajagz0613
6 ай бұрын
I have also faced a sexual harrasment at my previous work organisation despite complaining to women safety department with proofs they did not punish that person who was my team leader. I am still traumatized.
@futurebanker9375
6 ай бұрын
90%girls ku idhu nadandhurukum . Bus la yo, train la yo, kovil la yo veetla yo, relation veetla yo nadandhurukum
@ondrekulamoruvanedevan
6 ай бұрын
Not 90% 100%
@near602
6 ай бұрын
I feel these things happen often because people watch ** videos online and as those women are unapproachable, those fools end with some random girl🤧‼️
@nekkashoba9784
6 ай бұрын
I think instead of banding TikTok, the government has to band those kind of websites to prevent all kinds of abuses.
@puyalfans1137
4 ай бұрын
True
@geethajai
6 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you spoke about this, be it men or women, should first be inculcated with respecting their fellow beings. Don't let anyone abuse you, if they over power you, never leave them, let the hell come down. If one fights, and get justice, it will help others to do so too. This will bring in fear and they have to think twice before committing such crimes. I agree with you on bringing in law for a strict law for such crimes, no exception for juvenile as well, if they have knowledge on this crime they are not minors, they have to be treated as majors and apply the same punishment. I've been a victim too many a times, when told to my family I was made to shut up. I'm 47 now...and those incidents have impacted me deeply , which has impacted my relationships as well. To all lost souls, you did nothing wrong, but I pray the culprits are brought to justice soon.
@durgalifestyle
6 ай бұрын
Amma.நானும் face pani irrukan.in my childhood la.house owner &my own சித்தப்பா.ipo நினைச்சாலும் yenaku aalugai வரும்....yenaku அவளோ கோபம் varuthu
@poojaduraisamy3265
6 ай бұрын
Good touch bad touch முதலில் ஆண் குழந்தைகளுக்கு ஆரம்பத்தில் இருந்தே சொல்லி வளர்க்க வேண்டும்.பெண் குழந்தைகளை தொடக்கூடாது என்று.
@premikachennagounder9985
6 ай бұрын
I dont usually comment on videos, but this is personal. I am 22 this year, I have experienced sexual assault when i was 9 years old. No matter when or how many times i think of the event, tears just roll down my eyes. I have 2 sisters, and the trauma happened to me just gets activated in fraction of seconds whenever they step out of the house. I feel safe at home and even then sometimes i am like what if things happen at home and thats how much it affects the victim. it scars them forever. I have not told my parents abt it bcs for a fact i know they will blame me(they will be like neeyae ange pona, idhukku solrathu ponnuna ipdi irukkanum) but deep down i have always wanted them to voice out and defend us. like you said, in the span of this week many households would have talked about how horrible the affected parents would have felt, but i think every parents should have made their children to sit down and ask them if they have experienced any sorts of that and when they ask the children parents should be prepared for any answers. I personally dont think there is a solution for this, but we can hope for a reduction if the upcoming generation or this kid generation decides to change and break the chain of asking girls to change instead we can make both the genders sit down and tell them its never right to touch anyone without their consent and teach to be respectful of each other. Respect creates a boundary for everything. I am sorry to say this but this is sad reality if today(avan paiyan, nee ponnu , avan ennavenalum pannala aana ni ponnu panna kudathu) ITS A HIGH TIME TO BREAK THAT SICK CHAIN.
@Abi-j9e
Ай бұрын
I completely agree with u..stay strong akka❤
@akshayasenthil8940
6 ай бұрын
Its also happening for the girl's there inside their own house they are suffering a lot without able to tell anyone about it that they have been going through all this in their own house. It may be their father, brother, uncle....... Girls don't feel much safely even inside or outside their home. 🙂
@dianacamili363
6 ай бұрын
I am 16,l faced it , it is not other those 2 person is my family member not others , l didnt tell anyone til now,l am sooooo much afraid,l can't believe my family itself
@dianacamili363
6 ай бұрын
It is not others*,those.......(spelling mistake)
@dianacamili363
6 ай бұрын
Not now when l was little younger
@Madsavage18
4 ай бұрын
What the fuck?
@Angel.46168
6 ай бұрын
I am only 14 i also faced it once before
@Sugananish
6 ай бұрын
Our India Need No Police No Sattam There's Nothing With That Rules And Regulations So Arabic Countries மாதிரி தலையை வெட்டணும் னு எல்லாரும் சொல்ற மாதிரி சொல்ல வரல போலீஸ் சட்டம் அவங்கள குறை சொல்லக்கூடாது ஒருத்தன் தப்பு பண்ணா அவனோட பரம்பரையே அந்த பாவத்துக்கான தண்டனை Ey அனுபவிக்கனும் அப்போ தான் மா பயம் வரும் அடுத்து பொண்ணுங்கள தொடுறதுக்கு 🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👌👌👌...
@zaraz610
6 ай бұрын
I m 30 now. When i was 16 i also faced the situation in bus. 11th std physics practical anniki. Ennala practical la concentrate pannave mudila. Sir kita neraya thitu vangunen. But na edhunala apdi irundhenh yartayum sollala. Enna ellarum thapa pathuduvanga nu bayam. Idhu illama en chithapa paiyan enna madila ukara vechu bad touch pannan. Apo enaku may be 12 years irukum. Veli ulagathala matum illa. Sondha veetla kuda annan, mama murai ullavanga kuda neraya per chinna pullanga kita thapa nadandhukuranga.
@jesy1919
6 ай бұрын
Unga family group la intha video share panni unga comment screenshot ah sent pannuga and avanga wife illa family ta sollunga
@malinis9297
6 ай бұрын
Add fathers tooooo sisters..... Yevlo than bayapadradhu, azhuvardhu,theriyala
@Mass.tamizha
6 ай бұрын
Truth but sad 😢. (Foreigners + Devote + Local) today women's day.we're educated / growth 📈.
@beyou2001
6 ай бұрын
I am a boy I have also been abused by some men Boys are also at danger
@Empty438
6 ай бұрын
😮😮
@RENGESH-11
6 ай бұрын
Iam studying 11th iam worried very much about this Ma you and sneha as spoked very well.... Don't leave this this issue (pondicherry) like other issue.... Ella issue vaiyum 10 naal pesuvaanga aporam yaaravathu celebrity illa Cricket pathi paaka poiruvaanga.... Athe maari entha maari nadaka koodathu...... Intha issue va perusa aaki.... ella problem layum takkunu maranthuruvaanga ndra mentality ya namba society la maathanum..... And itha konjamaavathu thaduka orey vali entha maari pannuravngalaku kadumaiyaana thandanai tharathuthan #justice for potu oru projanamum illa
@shalinim4158
6 ай бұрын
I am damn sure all women would have faced this situation once in thier lifetime after they come out !!! Even thier own house is not a safe place !! Lets start supporting and secure our women from now on !!
@saravanansaravanan4173
6 ай бұрын
India - becaming famous for rape and drugs (kanja ) 😶 You two spoke about this topic......Hatsoff both ... En manasula iruntha ellathaiyum solitinga snehu and amma 😖
@Star.boy18-n1i
6 ай бұрын
Comment Section full aa ithana peru avunga trauma va share panranga but ithana peruku idhu nadanthurukunu nenaikum bothu as a men a enaku shame aa iruku 🤕
@dinhorox199
6 ай бұрын
I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way, brother. But, whoever feels it’s okay to rape is not a man at all. You are a real man, they’re not. They’re just disgusting lust-driven monsters.
@Thoufika-u7e
6 ай бұрын
One incident that i want to share is when i and my family were in bus stop for sending my brother for an college IV trip , a drunken guy came near me to hit on me , a friend of my brother slaps that guy and saved me 😢 i don't even know his name 😢 . But i am glad that he came to help a strange girl and having a great respect for girls. There are some guys .....
@deepadeepa612
6 ай бұрын
I literally cried while seeing this vedio😢this society was to be change ☹
@Thoufika-u7e
6 ай бұрын
😢😢 my mother and grandmother always restricted me , they don't allow me to go outside without a shawl 😢 this is happening from when i age attended, i cannot blame my mother for that because the country is like that , my confidence was fully destroyed because of many restrictions 😢😢
@LabbarBoi
6 ай бұрын
Influencers like you and many others must talk about it a lot together so that it can bring about some sort of change at the least
@Madsavage18
6 ай бұрын
😂😂
@haridhamirali3768
2 ай бұрын
Enaku Aanchanayar kovil la entry line ninum mothu 1 fellow came in exit way it happens in fraction of a second I just noticed his physic he was not too this greenish gray mixed shirt his age may be 21-26 he said near my ears ur leg nail polish looks se** immediately I turned but in that croud most of the men wearing black dark brown shirts so I was confused to I identify that stray dog so I left . MORE INCIDENT HAPPENED IN MY LIFE EVEN PARENT protecting ME LIKE GEM, in my teen by my relative THAT WHO BROUGHT ME en morapayan FROM BABY LOST TRUST IN MEN etc even in furniture showroom seeing me wrongly even I properly dressed in salvar with dhupatta , one of my classmate look wasn't proper not all the men is wrong nala avangalum irukanga society la at the same nala avanga mathiri nadikravangalum irukanga now I was 22 running patha vodana voru person oda character ah judge pandra alavuku en mental health train ayduchu MARRIAGE AH VENDAM NU IRUNDHA BUT IM MENTALLY PREPARING ME FOR MY MOM & DAD I don't have siblings so why not god give me good partner still H🫣PE!
@thangarajraj537
6 ай бұрын
I also faced this one in my school time at 1st std near by house one 11st std boy touch me as a bad me and brother play with him one day my brother was not there he bad touch me and I was panic and didn't tell about anyone he call me at leave days to play but I panic to see his face and didn't go better my family shifted into another place and at 8th std after get puberty my mother always told me don't stay with four walls you must go outside because then only you know about the world I also believe and go outside whenever school leave I went my grandmother house this is my house near 2 street my grandmother house this is as usual thing one day I came back to my home one boy at 20+ and I know him he is my relative he suddenly talk with me I just smile him and came back when I was going he touch me as a bad I feel very bad I suddenly cried and I can't do anything I went my home and cried loudly I can't do anything I scattered to say about this to my mom after then I didn't go my grandmother house lonely now also many of the mens looking awkward only when I was walking in a street or anywhere and somebody was looking our body parts only not they look as a women we have to move on for these kind of things because we living with bad mind people's
@sandhiyaShanmugaraj
6 ай бұрын
I too faced it by my close trusted relative when I'm too young to understand it was a bad touch but now I realised, it was a bad touch. He is not alive now and still i feel bad about it.
@princessbhuwi
6 ай бұрын
Thanks @momfluencer for creating social awareness.🙏👍Thought provoking content. Gr8 effort @sneholic 👌 . Hope we all can make this world safer place.
@engaveettusamayal5326
6 ай бұрын
Yenakum athe maari bad touch nadanthu irukku. 20 years back. Ippa varakkum atha nenacha kambalipoochi oorura maari irukum. This world is not safe.😢😢😢
@Nasreenbanu-fr1ds
6 ай бұрын
Hi amma, enakum ithu nadanthirku, apo enoda age 7, veetukum school kum distance athigam, athu government school la irunthathaala school bus , van lam kedaiyathu, so enga veetu garden clean panra oru aged thatha irunthaga.. avaga kuda thaa daily enga v2la enn a school ku anupchi vachaga, 😢sathyama solren antha time la avar enaku pannathu abuse nu kooda theriyathu, not 1 or 2 times .. throughout the year athu continue aachu😢.. finally family situation naala naaga vera ooruku poitom. Athanala na athula irunthu thapichen😢.. itha nenachi daily ume enaku mind disturb aaguthu.. ipo enaku age 25 .. still i can't forget that shit, kadavule girls ellarukum bathugappu kodunga..
@kannulovesdevi7191
6 ай бұрын
நீங்கள் தைரியிமா பேசிடிங்க பேசாம இருக்குரவங்க பலர் அதில் நானும் ஒருத்தி 😢😢
@sofiaradley
6 ай бұрын
Snakes I have been saying this exact thing since 2014.. I have lost hope in this country long back and moved to the middle east. Here no one even dares to look at other women. And yes of course change can only begin with us and in our household.
@abiramisanjay6631
6 ай бұрын
True bayam bayam amma appa namala dhan solluvanga thittuvanganu bayam😢😢 adhanala dhan solrathu ila
@abithacormaty3681
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for discussing about the most important social issue on this forum . Appreciate you for sharing your thoughts and experiences Happy to see mother and daughter sharing this conversation.❤
@deepapriyadarshini8652
6 ай бұрын
Oh god, the fear on Sneha’s face when u were telling the incident that happened to u😢😢 there r many such incidents that most women have faced this.. it’s not acceptable… like Sneha said women feel unsafe in our own country.. I live in UAE and here I go out all by myself at 12 am and my hubby doesn’t bother but when in India my parents or hubby don’t allow me to step out even at 8… that’s the state of hard reality… I was talking to my son who is 10 year old, how to behave with girls around, I am sure he didn’t understand most of it, but I think it’s everybody effort and responsibility… without any doubt v need stricter laws…
@MirdhuBashini
6 ай бұрын
Even iam in UAE BUT MANY OF MY FRIENDS EXPERIENCED THE SAME SITUATION IN UAE NO COUNTRY OR PEOPLE ARE SAFE HERE FOR FEMALES.
@tamilreview500
6 ай бұрын
Yes you are saying is true, even i m a men and i too got molested by a even men that too when i was studying LKG😢. Till now that guy was alive and happy but i m still having this incident affecting my life without telling anyone 😢😢. Also till now i couldn't come out of it but i have a confidence he will be punished by god❤❤❤spread love hate lust🎉🎉🎉
@malinis9297
6 ай бұрын
Take care thambi
@AsighaGopi
6 ай бұрын
i was just studying in 3rd or 4th watching serial in my house with my grand parents playing with my friends my friends brother came to pick her sisy i dont know why he came also and the powercut happened grandmay went went to match some candles or something he just grabbed me he touched me down he hugged me very tightly after 5 mins my grandma came i just pushed him without shouting at all but i dont know why i didnot said it to her but i remained silent after current came he is watching tv with us i went out from that place but he not that time no one thought me about good touch bad touch literally feeeling bad about tha😓 even at that age im not wearing any short dresses i weared a full gown i didnt weared it again i still remember that dress my birthday dress but i say one thing that time im not scared at all i pushed him away not cried or did anything
@kaaviyarajasekaran
6 ай бұрын
As sneha said I don't feel safe in my own country. After getting to know all these I felt like it's better that I die in a gun shot not by this.
@shifararizvi3873
6 ай бұрын
Very true!😔 Each nd every woman had daily faced nd each day facing thiz!💔I too faced this kind trama🥹nd I think parents should teach their children to behave correct instead protecting✨
@classic__girl__editzz8178
6 ай бұрын
Evloooo pesnaalumm nothing will change laaa.... this is going to continue tilll every men is suffered like arthi's father athu varaa nothing going to change.... i honestly agree sneha's statements not a single women feel safer for anything literally anything transportations laa irunthu public restroom use panrathula irunthu hotel room la stay panraa varaiku yellame bayaam matum thhaa..... just now male dominance illamaa female each nd every career laa females hve contributed ....but inimee palayaa maari pombalaa pillaa poranthaave bayapadraaa stages thirumbaa vanthurchu here aftr marupadiyuu girl baby's ah veetlaye vachu valathuu adolescent reach aanathu kalyaanam thhaa panni veppanga thiss is going to happen for sure🙂 unless untill arab countries maathiri if anything harassment happens even chinnatho perusooo harassment is a harassment nu road la vachu thalaya vetti potaa thhaa this'll stop namaa contry layu if they follow thiss kandippaa oru stage laa 0 harassment cases and 0 rape cases varumm if judicial strong ah irunthhaa yellame seri aagum..... to each nd every men who are reading this remember vagina is not only a sexual organ that is the place where all you humans comes from..... whenever nenga women's ah thappaa paathingana remember each and every women in you house has gone through the same.... out of 10 boys rendu pasangaaa kettavanaq irunthhaa remaining 8 boys umm thappu pannanum nu avasiyaam illaye antha rendu per ahh thiruthalaam includes drugs rapes harassment yellame thhaa ....oru chinnaa change kooda periyaa impact ah maaralaam ....athaan ithana rape cases irukeyy nama pannaa perusa theriyaava pothunu nenachu panningaa remember you are done for your life all the women will gather and smash your organs with their feet .....respect all the womens
@Dhivi_16
6 ай бұрын
Drugs ilamaiyum idha panuvanga. Nan 6th padikuren oru kalyana mandapathula rest room ku lock podama thaniya poiten oru Al vandhu try to open the door and asking me to show something and I pushed harshly and put lock he keep on knocking suddenly one women came he went off after some minutes I checked and ran away still enala maraka mudiyala bayama eruku
@nallammalsengoden2455
6 ай бұрын
I am feeling so bad about this generation😢
@LabbarBoi
6 ай бұрын
its not just this generation , the majority of the ones who do things like this are actually not from this generation
@Narboi
6 ай бұрын
Not this generation, epola irudhu iruku
@MrTrichy
6 ай бұрын
Aama aama entha generation la mattum than veliya teriyuthu ponna generation mudi marichuruvanenga keta maanam pogirum aa
S. I was also sexuall abused by my own brother. For about 3 years he abused. I didn't know know what to do that age. I told my mom. She was working and didn't mind that. I felt very unsafe at my own house. Its been 23 years now. Till now im not able to get out of that trauma. Im praying god to punish him atleast his hands should get cut off in any accident. But now he is talking to me like he is a responsible brother. Cant take it anymore. He is living a nice life. But i lost all my confidence and suffering from anxiety.
@malinis9297
6 ай бұрын
True dear... Épaadi nallavan madiriae pesuranuga naaiga... Avanukkum 1girl child irukku.. periya ozhuukkan madiri pesuvan... I was abused by my own father and brother from the age of 9 to 14😢.. now I have 2daughter's but could come out of that worst happens to me.. I don't like to give birth to male child also... My mother acts like she is the best protective motherin the world... Thu it's all fate.. still I'm waking up shockingly in mid nights...
@Deepthi16032
6 ай бұрын
Amma as a coimbatorian like you I'm a 26 yrs old as a mom for 3 yrs boy child i have faced this 2 times in my 8th std and while I'm going for the job. Like sneha said I don't feel safe in this country🥺
@saranyasekar7393
6 ай бұрын
Nanum face pani eruken even in 8th standard busla nadandhuchu enku marriage aye 2 baby eruku analum nyt kanavula vandhutu andha incident literally im struggling lot 😢 pls unga pasangulku teach panunga ponunga kita epdi naadandhukunum
@Thoufika-u7e
6 ай бұрын
Even my brother won't introduce his friends to me and I too don't have any guy friends. Till 9th I thought why mom is saying like that but now I am little scared to make friends 😢😢😢😢
@thingsinmyway906
6 ай бұрын
Sollikudukura vayasula irukura gents ipdi panraanga.. In arthi's case one is 19 years and other is 59 years.. if a 59 year old person is involved in this.. who will teach that kind of men...
@dhivyadharshini2814
6 ай бұрын
When I was like 15 I also experienced this. Like one day I went a shop and that shopkeeper was like 70 or something. We are facing eachother's face but still he tried to touch me not once but 2 or 3 times at that time I don't know what to do so I went went out of that shop fastly. that whole week I have been thinking about that when ever I pass that shop I can feel that fear till now I can feel it
@nethranethu32154
6 ай бұрын
I am just 16 year old girl , i here to tell you thattt We just can rise our voice but can everyone outhere hear and listen ? Yes damn nottt so let's be safe for every second to protect ourself . Not only women but men tooo , every girl yea from 9 year to 80 years every one is going under rape ,kind of case which can't expressed by everyone,some hide some open up ! Sure every girls who see this message open up when u feel discomfort. We are strangers I am sure just a subscriber and fav vlogerrr relationship. But I appreciate atleast to open up the single girl and boy to comment about their pov over here stay safe no more changes mommy !
@sx092o
6 ай бұрын
At the current situation many small boys and girls should faced the situation Aana girls ku nadantha ithu periya visyam thaan aana boys ku nadantha paiyan thana indranga antha paiyan bayangramana trauma la irupan 😢
@lenigeorge3630
6 ай бұрын
Very true... many girls and infants are facing by their family men itself
@varshikaskitchenlifestyletamil
6 ай бұрын
எனக்கும் இந்த மாதிரி cinema theatre ல நடந்திருக்கு இப்போ எனக்கு 38 வயசு நான் 8 வது படிக்கும்போது theatre seat பின்னாடி ஒருத்தன் கை விட்டு bad touch பண்ணான் நான் பயந்து போய் seat edge ல படம் பாத்தேன் பக்கத்துல அம்மா இருக்கும் போதே நடந்தது அப்போ நீங்க சொல்ர அதே பயம் அம்மா கிட்ட சொல்ல விடல.. அழுகை அடக்கிட்டு உகந்தது இனும் ஞாபகம் இருக்கு..அதுல இருந்து cinema theatre போறதே விட்டுட்டேன் இப்பாவும் cinema பிடிக்காது...கூட்டமான bus, train உம் பெண்களுக்கு safe இல்ல.. மோசமான அனுபவங்களை சந்தித்து இருக்கிறேன்... இப்போ என் மகளை வெளிய எங்கனா அனுப்பவும் பயம் இருக்கு...
@diviyashini2736
6 ай бұрын
By speaking out, nothing could change the situation. As citizens, we have to do something to cure this problem since it's increasing in India. I think one of the major reasons why this kind of problem happened is the film industry, and the type of movies that they make. Some movies really give an important message to society. I really appreciate it. Such as appa, how to raise kids, and recently Chitta, it was such an amazing movie that gave awareness about a girl child who has been involved in rape and psycical abuse . But they are some of the movies that are really not worth watching, and they really have a negative impact on society, especially in India. They are some of the movies that contain domestic violence, abuse, sex, and some double meaning contents. I think we need to avoid this kind of movie and try to direct some good movies. This kind of movie really didn't have any good impact; it only made the situation worse. The government should ban this kind of movie. The youth nowadays are influenced by this type of movie. Other than that, the country's laws have to be strict. As a citizen in India, you guys have to take some actions to cure this problem, not only by creating videos and by commenting. In Malaysia, the situation is the same... As an Indian, they get influenced by this type of movie, and they think if they do something violence , it means they are stronger and hero , like in Tamil films. Bro, just remember they are acting to make money. But you're going to live in hell for your whole life. Try to change, by taking some actions. Deep condolences from Malaysia 😌
@gyiww.yn11
6 ай бұрын
i've also experienced this too by my cousin brother..and never even told anyone :( mummy and snegu sis
@harinnis2727
6 ай бұрын
Yeah Things has happened to me too till 10 yrs ago. I faced these kind of issues in bus, other places too. So i don't go to temple on crowded days. I stopped going in bus. Things has happened even in my workplace. I'm just avoiding those places still. I felt very long back that being born as a girl is a sin to my birth. I still have the feeling of unsafe and will be there till my death.
@heh8285
6 ай бұрын
No ,not being born a girl is sin since someone did sin it's not your fault.be happy about your self 😊
@ragaunlimited4037
6 ай бұрын
Hi, i am so glad @momfluencer spoke about this issue! You addrssed everything from provocative drsssing to victim shaming! It's important that the message came from you because, sadly, the society doesn't respect young women like sneha screaming from rooftops ..she may be easily tagged as a feminazi or an extremist! People respect a woman because of her tag.. and they may take what comes from you more seriously because you are a mother! But you are a very sane and sweet one at that! Thanks for leveraging your position in the society to give out a beautiful message..keep rocking!
@aparnanatraj1056
2 ай бұрын
This is so true.... I am a young mom and yes when I was in delivery room soon after the baby born I was asking my doctor what baby it is ... They hold her in front of me and said it's a girl and that moment my thought was oh I have to hold her tightly in this unsafe country 😢😢 I couldn't be happier that I got an angel in my hands 😢😢😢
@MrTrichy
6 ай бұрын
Yes all men nu sollura mari yes all parents of boys should teach this to their son to stop the slogan yes all men .
@nandhu014
6 ай бұрын
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@zeksecc
6 ай бұрын
Dei muta kooth- paiyana olunga vazhakama epo pathulum ponnu ippadi dress pànrda, appadi dress pandranu solirye, nee poi un ponnuku dailyum dress potu vidu, unnala evalo cover pana mudiyumo pannipaaru, appavum chinna payanla irundha savura kelavan varaikum un ponna thappa dhan paapan, keta adaka mudiyathunban, appadi sokdravan part ah vettana, ethana nalaiku than girls ithu boys ithu nu solluveengalo
@7696-_-
6 ай бұрын
@@zekseccgirls dhan avuthupotu katuraluga boys decent ah dhan dress poduvanga Poi insta la kuda paaru
@saranyagopinath3956
6 ай бұрын
@@7696-_-so some boys mella thappu illaya? Unnaku puriyudha illa ya? Appo 1 year baby yenna dress pannuchu sollu
The question you asked that why don't we do something as a mass against this, I also thought about it. You know why it's not been there, it's because someone in our house is the one doing it and the one getting affected is also someone in our house only . Would even women (though being the victim) come up and stand against someone in their own home. Most no. That's the Saddenning truth! Women not (maybe unable to ) supporting women.
@Kavyanandh
4 ай бұрын
Currect ma nanum en childhood etha facepannirukka I'm 22 still na parents da sollamutiyala marakka um mutiyala😢 athula oru kotuma enna na atha vayasula athu abusing pannuranganu kuta enakku therla na valarthu atha antha instead yosikkapothutha enakke theriyuthu evaru enna badtach pannirukkarunnu
@rahulsp2959
4 ай бұрын
All words said by Amma and sneha is absolutely right...but without individual change nothing will be change in our society..... first of all govt must ban Adult website and should not allow to add a Provocative scenes in films.
@janu8001
6 ай бұрын
I am currently studying 12th I am feeling bad how do I am going to face this unsafe society My ambition is to study in AIIMS New delhi ..😥😥Please GOD help uss😭
@samihaaiyubkhan9012
6 ай бұрын
This is also a culture of TN so there is no justice for women ever in this world, they cannot take an inciative to protest for this, Not only you sneha even we also feel the same " Feeling Insecure To Be A Women's Of TN".
@AAAAADSFGG
6 ай бұрын
I really inspired by your talk mom... Keep more inspiring me with your motivational talks ma❤
@sreemathir1220
6 ай бұрын
Comments la type panna romba lengthy a pogum aunty!!! Romba romba sensitive issue.. ella ladies, kids, grandmoms ellarumey anubavikuranga.... Namaku enn vambu nu dan ellaroda mindset.. but this is an eye opener!!!! Ella womens altogather ah onna yosichu, pasanga, ponnunga solli valarkanum
@iipud236snehashreeg9
6 ай бұрын
All this happens just because lack of knowledge and wrong parenting , I here by beg parents to upbring both female and male child with equal nourishment and right , Hope this will too change ... Pure prayers to all those victims .
@poornihari599
6 ай бұрын
Mummy I too faced sexual harrasment.... 😭😭😭😭Ipo thonuthu nan apove sollama enna pannenu....apo nan 3rd std mummy🥺🥺....enaku onnum thrila...ana thappunu thriuthu solla bayama irunthuchu....😢😢ennoda peripa...ammavoda sis husband....😭😭😭😭epo ponalum 10std varaikum bad touch pannite irupanga ana enku solla bayama irukum athunala nan anga poratha stop panniten....ipo nan perima v2ku poi almost 7yrs aaguthu....nan itha frst tym ungakita share panniruken innum en hus kita kuda sonnathillaing mummy😭😭avungakita sonna avara summa vida matanga athunala sollama iruken ....
@jothigaarumugam
6 ай бұрын
My mom was an orphan even my mother is a victim she shared her story with me but not even to my father. Due to her trauma she can't leave me alone anywhere and she was overprotective
@Nandhini-dy6ti
6 ай бұрын
10 ku 10 ponnungalum anubavichurupanga nanga hostel la pesum bodhu than therinjudhu ellarukum ipdi oru incident irukunu😢
@angelineaugustine7592
6 ай бұрын
Yes.. Anty iam also a single mother. Though i have a boy baby... I have worried about this but know. Ipo thn more responsible a irukanum ninakuran because en payan a corrt a valakanum
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