I found this quote some months ago and still think about it a lot. “Whether it is the best of times or the worst of times, it is the only time we've got.” ― Art Buchwald
@AStockTradersJourney-ps8vz
15 күн бұрын
Love this!! Needed these lessons a long time ⌛️ ago!
@lee7701
Жыл бұрын
Always trust your eyes and not your ears, when you do this you’ll hear things in a different light
@samuelsneed7753
11 күн бұрын
Deep ✊
@weldscholars8253
10 ай бұрын
When it comes to women it should say. Men know your vision, path and purpose then a woman gets on your program, helps you and caters to you or to help you with the mission or you let her go. She respects you and in turn you love her. End of story
@anthonyhughes8026
4 ай бұрын
I notice you are trying to fit all of his wisdom into a little red pill. It’s a misshapen attempt. Don’t bend the rules until you learn them better. This is just my perspective. I wish you all the best. Cheers.
@weldscholars8253
4 ай бұрын
@@anthonyhughes8026 I see where you’re are coming from however I am a natural man that has been dealing with females since I was young. Hundreds of women so I know women from real experience. What I say isn’t redpill. What I said definitely is the foundation for any nuances or details to happen.
@anthonyhughes8026
4 ай бұрын
@@weldscholars8253 Heard. Well, your way sounds a little bit severe for me but in the right hands a tool (like matter-of-factness etc.) has tremendous power. Thanks for talking.
@anthonyhughes8026
Ай бұрын
@@DJK-cq2uy love your contribution to the discourse. Keep it up
@lebronjames7041
Күн бұрын
Books are so unique because they will shatter you apart , while also giving you the perfect opportunity to notice the missing substructures in your pyche and personality . Recreate the proper mindset by integrating the new discoveries you have found . Confront , understand , integrate
@King_David_97
9 ай бұрын
Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts. I like that one.
@tasjourney7778
10 ай бұрын
26 is a huge one to me I learned after a relationship I ruined that sexual discipline is very important as a man.
@giovanniortega1893
6 ай бұрын
How did u learn that Or come to that conclusion, with help or solo?
@tasjourney7778
6 ай бұрын
@@giovanniortega1893 solo I learned to genuinely enjoy being around women without expecting sex. After ruining several great relationships cheating. I took a break from sex while touring met my wife I refuse to cheat EVER. We have a wonderful relationship
@travisliberatori6835
6 ай бұрын
You’d have to be insane to want a relationship after learning all this. This explains the endless issues people have, and always would have. Not getting married and having kids was the best decision I ever made. Now I go into my 40’s knowing I’ll walk alone from here. And it will be a more peaceful, productive walk I’m sure.
@cavaliib1889
6 ай бұрын
You are correct
@autocorrect3055
5 ай бұрын
It’ll be a lonely path but if it’s the right one for you, tread it.
@anthonyhughes8026
4 ай бұрын
It’s true that not everyone actually enjoys the feminine, inasmuch as desiring to penetrate her sexually. I’m glad you made your peace with this. 😊
@irocksup123
3 ай бұрын
I’d say it’ll be very lonely. But to each their own
@anthonyhughes8026
3 ай бұрын
Try it first, then decide. Edit: I would defend anybody’s right to avoid people to the extent their community/situation can make affordances for this. People are complicated and not for everybody. Forcing socialization is an artifact of more primitive societies, IMO.
@dblockvillin
Жыл бұрын
#34 is such a big one in my opinion women love the feeling of being passionately and gently guided
@davidrogers1246
Жыл бұрын
Can you elaborate a bit
@davidlam3763
Жыл бұрын
@@londontripz4824 A stoic is a gentleman/chivalrous and passionately loves his purpose in life though the love of his woman, as an asset complimenting his life, loving life whole heartly through her opposite feminized balance. Stoics have strong emotions as do other men, but has the emotional intelligence for control, and are gentle in guiding that's where the word gentleman is derived from. A stoic looks cold but is not. Due to today's generational comfort men show their more emotions due to their weaknesses (epigenictically certain genes expressed) and the fake smiling is, appeasement! (chimps showing teeth) 🤔 😍😎
@anatourney5175
8 ай бұрын
I can assure you that is complete nonsense.
@RegnaSaturna
11 ай бұрын
I lived as if my father was dead since i was 10 in 1980, due to this death. And learned most of what was said here on my own. Although it's a never ending journey.
@yurigagarin8574
Жыл бұрын
The basic principle is that people end up in pain, not because the world is not rich enough to allow them to satisfy their needs, but because their representation of the world is impoverished. 'Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.' - Henry Ford “There is no reality except the one contained within us. That is why so many people live such an unreal life. They take the images outside of them for reality and never allow the world within to assert itself.” Steppenwolf by Hermann Hesse
@alexandruepure290
11 ай бұрын
As man all you want is peace, but, with the complexity of women(to say it in a respectful manner) it's kinda hard not to say impossible. That's why the happiest days of my life were when I was single 😂
@MrGengad
11 ай бұрын
We are simple creature but been with a woman can be never racking. I love my peace. My wife and I no longer together. I really feel great and looking forward to life.
@alex_jermaine
10 ай бұрын
I think this book is about transcending and overcoming that. The superior man learns how to metabolize that feminine complexity
@markdaniels4178
12 күн бұрын
I agree 100 percent
@Eric-dd8bk
10 ай бұрын
Korean guy here with experiences with white women, Japanese women, no Chinese women unfortunately, and histpanic women and his statement about Japanese women being cooler and Korean women being hotter is so accurate.
@DJK-cq2uy
Ай бұрын
Wow!!
@thornwivans
Жыл бұрын
Wished I could have seen this or better yet read the book when I was 20 years old.
@billymills4238
Жыл бұрын
Currently 20
@chacotaco3607
Жыл бұрын
@@billymills4238lucky you
@chasemoretv.4029
11 ай бұрын
@@billymills4238bro lol. Don’t be this type of dude. You didn’t need to let him know your 20, just be greatful your young and get wisdom.
@JeanPatrickSmith
11 ай бұрын
For real, wish I read this back in 2004
@troyhughey4791
9 ай бұрын
Lesson 29! Biggest lesson
@Yingchanlan
Жыл бұрын
My son is 15 and starts reading this book. I hope he doesn’t live like I’m dead. If the purpose is to learn to be independent, I think it’s better to live like mother is dead not dad.
@Alex-mf3jj
Жыл бұрын
I think the "live as if your father were dead" is more of a metaphor for understanding that your father is a human, not a God or a monster. As children, we tend to either idolize or demonize our parents depending on how we feel about them in a given moment. Later on (sometimes after they've passed away), we realize that our parents did the best they could. We take the good things they gave us and leave the bad.
@backchattvsports2905
Жыл бұрын
😂😂 love it
@alexandrubaginean7369
Жыл бұрын
@@Alex-mf3jj Or maybe if you "live as if your father were dead" you start taking full responsibilities, there is nobody out there to take care of you and save your ass when you fuck things up, and we all know that everything start with taking responsibility and start doing.
@dylanakent
Жыл бұрын
#3 oh yes it is. He needs to live for himself, no one else.
@onthemagenta
11 ай бұрын
I’m glad your son is reading this. He needs it.
@rogerprestes1275
9 ай бұрын
Valuable thoughts, tks for sharing.
@palobar9974
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this wonderful summary of this great book.
@DJK-cq2uy
Ай бұрын
Great book? 😂😂😂😂😂
@JohnJoseph26
11 ай бұрын
Legend ! This was my very first book I read back to front. My absolute favourite book ever. Timeless master piece. And by keeping its niche, makes it just the merrier. Well done for video. Brilliant ❤
@corryjohnson6591
9 ай бұрын
Love it 🎉🎉🎉
@chrispeplinski7306
9 ай бұрын
Very insightful
@grapevyne
7 ай бұрын
19:23❤26:00 ❤26:07 and lesson fifty 26:19💪🏾🎊☝🏽💯men & Women shld practice Restoring and Dissolving
@wtf_usa5597
Жыл бұрын
Great video, thanks! 👏👏👏👏
@thedojoclub
Жыл бұрын
this book is an essential read
@BartvanderHorst
5 ай бұрын
If this is all true it really hits me hard... it unfortunately explains why my Ex broke up with me...Although I thought she did many things wrong... looking through the lens of what is written by Deida... There was not much she did wrong... Though I must say that when I listen to this it feels as if a man has to be very perfect... almost too perfect...
@futuretechnology7679
Жыл бұрын
This is about is good as Robert Green's Works. Nice!
@chacotaco3607
Жыл бұрын
What books of his are good please?
@SRC503
Жыл бұрын
Roberts Greene 48 Laws of Power is good; it's his most famous work. It's case studies high profile people from history about the dynamics of relationships and consequences. Also, Dale Carnegie's book on "How to Win Friends and Influence people" is a classic if you like psychology and how to get people to like you.
@futuretechnology7679
Жыл бұрын
@@chacotaco3607 The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene, most are on Utube.
@DJK-cq2uy
Ай бұрын
You can't be serious!! 😂😂 Really!?
@futuretechnology7679
Ай бұрын
@@DJK-cq2uy For Robert Green, Yes. I read several of his books. This was the best in my opinion. Just my opinion.
@rocking1313
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much David!
@billihawk368
Жыл бұрын
a Man Can do what he wants as a work... following his passion is like not killing himself in a regular job. You can become Rich but yeah always be in Masculine energy.
@DJK-cq2uy
Ай бұрын
Wow!!😂😂😂😂😂
@user-hs8fo9kz5u
7 ай бұрын
One day will happen, but the day never comes up
@oscarsvgs
11 ай бұрын
im only doing this now so ONE DAY i can do what i really want to do it wont be different it never ends the creative challenges is to tussle and play make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift to the world
@bisonmma-kickboxing2511
Жыл бұрын
Powerful ☄️
@barneyboy2008
Жыл бұрын
Too much in there about women. Follow your purpose and keep in frame. She must fit with you all the rest will follow.
@DevelopmentPill2002
7 ай бұрын
I've been covering this book chapter by chapter on my channel. It's arguably the best book to align your life to.
@DianasReviews
Жыл бұрын
Well if I was a man and listened to this, I’d think it’s too much work to be with a woman… but when you are matched with the right partner… the relationship is effortless and joyful
@xtruhsauce
11 ай бұрын
Any man deterred by hard work shouldn’t claim to be a man
@alex_jermaine
10 ай бұрын
It's only "too much" if you believe it is
@poface2
10 ай бұрын
As a man, I wouldn't say this is too much work. I respond to these teachings particularly having reaped the consequences of not knowing them. It benefits both sexes. Being matched with the right partner is being matched with someone who meets your needs whether you realise it or not, that's why it feels effortless. Also, many relationships feel effortless, ... until they don't, particularly early on. Many men who grew up fatherless naturally end up with an imbalanced maculine/feminine energy tilted towards the feminine, particularly if they grew up with their mother and the consequence of this causes issues in relationships when women subconsciously reject the traits, which feminised men don't even realise they've displayed, never mind realising they even had those traits or / where they came from. This book helps explain what goes wrong / went wrong. Also, as men we like a challenge and we appreciate being told what the challenge is. So for fatherless men, who have no masciline male role model to naturally take after, this book explains the missing pieces.
@Undefeatedatoutwittingcons
2 күн бұрын
She right it is to much 😂😂 but it is what it is
@ZRun001
Жыл бұрын
This was amazing to watch 😂
@temtamyassine2292
Жыл бұрын
Brief and clear thxs
@MicahCooLer1
5 ай бұрын
You need to read this book before even getting into a relationship
@adexridau26
Жыл бұрын
Very educative
@grantnelson7289
9 ай бұрын
He is right. I fuck up i really fuck up.... feeling very sick as fuck. I push the one i really love away she was testing every way she can. I really love her damn that pain going stick with me the rest of my life.
@thabangmohomane648
Жыл бұрын
This is life changing 🧘 thank you🤩
@inmindcanidate1884
Жыл бұрын
Lost on a few of these,will get BETTER😅
@realreview1285
Жыл бұрын
25:50 "The Divine way, or the highway"
@dmck8516
Жыл бұрын
Find your purpose or your wasting air - Nipsey Hussle
@dmtdreamz7706
11 ай бұрын
There was a waterfall near us, such a lovely thin streak of water, like a thread but white and moving. It fell from a great height, but it looked quite low, and it was half a mile away, though it did not seem fifty paces. I loved to listen to it at night, but it was then that I became so restless. Sometimes I went and climbed the mountain and stood there in the midst of the tall pines, all alone in the terrible silence, with our little village in the distance, and the sky so blue, and the sun so bright, and an old ruined castle on the mountain-side, far away. I used to watch the line where earth and sky met, and longed to go and seek there the key of all mysteries, thinking that I might find there a new life, perhaps some great city where life should be grander and richer--and then it struck me that life may be grand enough even in a prison.
@azelah
Жыл бұрын
3:35 that caught me off guard
@jimjamjerry
Жыл бұрын
Haha
@Pazaluz
Жыл бұрын
👀🤣
@farnaazaram1470
11 ай бұрын
Lesson 33. That's it.
@adamyisrael2557
11 ай бұрын
Right on! 🎉
@barneyboy2008
Жыл бұрын
Hohhoho. My woman will understand 😂
@musicandairplanes6330
6 ай бұрын
interesting!
@Recken1
11 ай бұрын
Lesson 50: Men won't settle for other Men's bullshit, but women will agree with each other and strengthen their viewpoints. This right here is the difference between Republicans and Democrats. Republicans won't get behind someone they disagree with, Democrats will band together and vote for anyone on their ticket regardless of their feelings for the person.
@anatourney5175
8 ай бұрын
It's literally the exact opposite...
@FreshurDenUent
Жыл бұрын
14:00 is the realest ish
@JCredible86
Жыл бұрын
This is more about women than men
@acextensionsinc
9 ай бұрын
9:03 🙏🏼✨🙏🏾 9:06
@stanleyoketch8134
9 ай бұрын
Great pieces......however so concentrated on women traits and how to handle them.
@noonelikeme81
Жыл бұрын
"women are not liars" 🤔🙄😂
@crawlinginfaithbdalingo5515
Жыл бұрын
Then right after he said something about them being liars.
@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, that is a ridiculous statement to make obviously. I think the intention was aimed at a deeper truth, which is that the feminine never lies as a collective.
@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
Жыл бұрын
Women lie because they can get away with it, and they can get away with it only because of the week men around them.
@triwellertrucking604
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ZfromBrooklyn
Жыл бұрын
Y’all don’t get that part
@user-tw8mf4ty7h
9 ай бұрын
This is funny as hell 😂😢😅
@Toneloke-3000
Жыл бұрын
To implement all 51 of these lessons as a man of over 50 years old I feel you need to be at least 3 different people. No thanks it's easier to be alone and live your one true self.
@yasserbostan7156
Жыл бұрын
You need to embrace the masculine. Which you're clearly not.
@b3makinn
Жыл бұрын
I “feel” “it’s easier” you sound like a women. No offense. But family and mastering relationships is worth it as a man. (Although not easy)
@road_to_riches2000
Жыл бұрын
You do you. I will ALWAYS aspire to be a better man in any and every way
@b3makinn
Жыл бұрын
@@road_to_riches2000 respect to you sir, and all the best blessings to your life
@brandon.4451
Жыл бұрын
Interesting, I'm 42 and am enjoying being single because it's a peaceful existence. I do what I want when I want. I guess this isn't all that uncommon.
@adams5507
5 ай бұрын
lesson 19 :)
@deepakrajcounsellingpsycho1020
6 ай бұрын
This book have in Tamil language
@jsblastoff
Жыл бұрын
You must know your purpose but also be willing to change everything and find your purpose. I’m hearing some contradictions here
@wisetails1526
Жыл бұрын
Andrew Tate read this book and gave us the same blueprint under a new name, the top g
@DonGivani
Жыл бұрын
That man is garbage, a man should never go to Eastern Europe to do sex trafficking, that guy is not a man
@BodyByBenSLC
9 ай бұрын
18:00 that is the truth! I used to box and kickbox. When I was younger man night of one of my fights. Seen a friend from high-school Holly, cute little brunette with freckles. She never paid much attention to me but we had a few classes together. We chat few minutes but I gotta go get prepped for fight. It was good night for me and I get the W. I don't even have my gloves off and Holly is grabbing at me "Take me home, right now!" LOL. My coach a wise man "it's your night champ"
@zaidshaikh2536
Жыл бұрын
Pretty impossible for any man to go by all these 51 let alone even 25 principles. No wonder why Todays society is difficult for men.
@koengreen2540
Жыл бұрын
Why?
@jayvbooth
Жыл бұрын
Nothing is impossible. Start with a few or break them down into chunks and remember them
@IForgetWhatISay
Жыл бұрын
How is this impossible? Most of this is based on the foundation of self respect….
@CapalotTeam
27 күн бұрын
13:20
@terryseldon7446
9 ай бұрын
4:52😂😂😂😂:..IM AT THAT POINT WHERE I DONT KNOW WHAT TGE HELL IS GOING ON😂😂
@Keithj21
Жыл бұрын
Part pls 😭
@calebormsby6351
11 ай бұрын
Damn!! Lesson #33 is on point!! ☠️😂 16:00
@Jaime-dt7rm
Жыл бұрын
Scorpio male 😀 Finley some good 👍 shit! Wow took forever too find some good advice or quotes!🦂💥♏️👍💫♏️💥💥🦂
@datfloppynoodle3677
Жыл бұрын
The lessons were right except the ones about women. Those lessons were some of the biggest simp mentalities I've ever heard.
@inversionesalfa923
Жыл бұрын
Better Late than never
@djfunknuckle3375
Жыл бұрын
is this this hole book?
@nelsonmartinez8136
11 ай бұрын
Just a quick summary
@Rugz-smoke
6 ай бұрын
I don’t care there is no shortage of masculinity in the world
@Whosaids0
8 ай бұрын
I believe there's context missing.
@cincocentcc7280
11 ай бұрын
For Someone who's been there done that who needs women. To much work. Plus the best company is your own. Or with your dog.
@PinupSticknerd
10 ай бұрын
Who is this supposed to 'insinuate'. Is this the right word ;)
@AnvAnv-zm8wx
2 ай бұрын
50/50
@perrytornado
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I have realized from personal experience and my acute self-awareness that I will often want more than one woman and she will want often want more than one man/ Conventional society unwisely glorifies monogamy and it is a tragic mistake/ Monogamy is egotism and that horrendous attitude will banefully impact on truthfulness, mutual trust, sincerity and unconditional true love/
@leonrobinson8180
Жыл бұрын
Monogamy isn't "egotism". Stop trying to justify your hedonistic polyamorous desires.
@eastafrika728
9 ай бұрын
In other words, be yourself and stop blaming women for your own self ignorance.
@Spree1775
11 ай бұрын
Anyone fully understand # 21? Please advise
@chefspree7804
11 ай бұрын
Reflect on lesson 18
@murraysaucedo897
Жыл бұрын
This sounds like a bunch of New Age woo woo wa wa
@user-jv3ge1jb8l
11 ай бұрын
هل الكتاب كامل؟
@dteun
11 ай бұрын
The book is this not Its 51 points get the book.
@floorcoatin4u
Жыл бұрын
She wants you to be fearless of death to protect the love you have for her, but she dont want you to steer away from your purpose for her…. Never allow your desire to be suppressed, but dont let her think you care about losing her…. She will test you to see if you slip away from your purpose, but she dumb and doesnt understand why a man should stay in his purpose…. Super contradicting bro.
@SimioniFeteroSungiJR
11 ай бұрын
It is not contradicting if you could think about it more. In my opinion It reflects the wavy ness of female nature the point to be taken here is focus on the purpose keep being the man she was attracted to the first time you met up don't let her control you, show love but do so in the framework of Work first Bitches second
@anatourney5175
8 ай бұрын
Yeah this is a middle schooler's idea of relationships.
@calebormsby6351
11 ай бұрын
22:14 🤌🏾🔥
@s-power2221
Жыл бұрын
so does it say how to start? lik what should be the first step?
@Psychware
Жыл бұрын
in the book, the 51 lessons are presented sequentially and divided into 8 parts but we believe that each lesson is standalone, and anyone can select which one is relevant to his/her situation
@righteousdivine
9 ай бұрын
Where the f*ck has this book been all my life??!!! ❤
@osiruzthegodd4025
9 ай бұрын
✊🏿👑✨🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶🪶
@chriszablocki2460
Жыл бұрын
Seriously. A confident man that can comfortably wear pink, especially in the company of other men, is alpha as fuck.
@VeneerDept
9 ай бұрын
You probably think a confident man can wear painted nails and make up and act like an EMOtional Soft Punk. Who asks queer then abuses women boy just stop that’s a CON MAN, a Down Low Man, A Bottom… Expressing his inner pink across the booty sweats
@ee2926
9 ай бұрын
Didn’t enjoy the ai narration. Sounds too robotic
@blackpeppericecream
Жыл бұрын
wish I didnt had to learn some lessons the hard way...
@edemo24
Жыл бұрын
Believe it or not the hard is best lesson in life, once you reach that success you have that story to tell to reach people that has that same struggle keep pushing
@FeloniousMyronius
Жыл бұрын
Yep. Thats womem, and I love it.
@yurkstudios
Жыл бұрын
Was this written by a Woman???
@gudduentertains
Жыл бұрын
Seems so. Hyping them.
@aleskaresquivel4700
Жыл бұрын
Lol all the stuff about women. I'll just be single at this point.
@yournamevictor
Жыл бұрын
Is it fine for women who listen to or read this book and take the lesson to build themselves as a man??
@Psychware
Жыл бұрын
we think so, though we believed that the book was written for men, some of the lessons seem applicable to women too
@koengreen2540
Жыл бұрын
He also wrote a book for women I think.
@wert5151
Жыл бұрын
What you wrote does not make any sense, thtats the first sign...
@geeklightning
Жыл бұрын
I need to know more about that orgasm technique...for science. 😁
@scroopynoopers9824
Жыл бұрын
Lesson 15 is trash. Why marry someone who'll constantly "test" you when there are plenty of people, both men and women, who'll test you? Bad advice. Don't tolerate destructive behavior.
@RhysBrowneSr
Жыл бұрын
All women test you. Some do it more subtly than others. But it’s just their way of making sure you’re fit to lead and protect your family or future family. Strong character is immovable. So they’ll test you to see if you’re strong enough💪
@gutta9922
9 ай бұрын
Me personally it rubs me the wrong way after we’re together for a long time. It’s childish. I have left women for trying these tactics
@jtthegreat8182
2 ай бұрын
Yes because they want it all from you but can't treat you with respect
@samwelkuria6
10 ай бұрын
these women want a lot of things 😂😂
@scroopynoopers9824
Жыл бұрын
Ok. A lot of this very hit or miss. With a lot of miss
@AnvAnv-zm8wx
2 ай бұрын
Много о женщинах
@scroopynoopers9824
Жыл бұрын
The author described a child in lesson 16 and called it feminine nature...
@K1ngmarco
11 ай бұрын
He lost me when he started saying different races of women were hotter and cooler 😅
@almightyVI
11 ай бұрын
facts....especially if the author is a white western male with no first hand experience and understanding of different cultures of the world
@Fightingvaultboy
11 ай бұрын
@@almightyVIStill knows more than you ever will liberal.
@joshuam749
11 ай бұрын
"It's not her fault that she's bitchy and complaining " haha
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