Yes excellent book. She escaped by the skin of her teeth eventually
@indirabatista6055
12 күн бұрын
When I saw the film.. I couldnt believe all the hardship both endured b4 escaping.
@yessum15
12 күн бұрын
@@jeromepakalomattom1985 The movie should be treated as fiction. As should all movies which claim "based on a true story". The filmmakers took major liberties with the story and the film as a whole exists primarily to serve as anti IRN marketing.
@babydoll644
11 күн бұрын
Name of the movie
@patienceroper3517
10 күн бұрын
This was an incredibly emotional story. Something I'll never forget. Marrying an Iranian man with those laws is something women need to know in advance. The way he kidnapped his wife and child was difficult to watch and harder to to imagine what she went through.
@slavicaprodanova3225
9 күн бұрын
Freedom is the bare minimum a country can offer it's citizens. American is not the greates, just because it offers fredom. Every country in europe offers fredom and much more that benifits the people living there.
@LynnTanner-ls9kx
8 күн бұрын
Completely agree
@Guardian-io7kl
7 күн бұрын
@@slavicaprodanova3225 how dod you just watch this video and come to that conclusion? If every countey was free this womam would be able to leave w her child back to america. 🤣😂🤣
@MurakiChiyo
7 күн бұрын
@@Guardian-io7kl ... do I really have to tell you that Iran is in Asia?
@jeannan.barker9662
7 күн бұрын
True words
@lesliephinney7617
8 күн бұрын
I wish more people realized this….when you marry out of your culture you better know what you’re signing up for.
@zohrarehman7197
6 күн бұрын
This is actually true. Know the culture you are getting into.
@susannelidwina
6 күн бұрын
I married an American...and he hid our german passports. I couldn't go back to visit friends and family for almost 10 years...we made it finally out in 2017.
@Anna_M_numbers
6 күн бұрын
moskovia occupied Ukrainian land, and pasportised it's citysens. Ukraine does not recognise those people as citysens of moscowia. They are still citysens of Ukraine (not like they have any help from Ukraine...). If the story shown in this video is true, it means usa is too miserable. Statement "not marry anyone from other culture" is not correct. The statement "better be citizen of Ukraine" is correct!
@bobsinhav
6 күн бұрын
This is also called Love Jihad
@lel3450
6 күн бұрын
Marry out of your culture why you acting like most cultures are like this lol
@kai_ee
10 күн бұрын
This is like selling your soul without knowing it
@coureenlawrence4915
9 күн бұрын
Oh, they do, this is what most Americans do. They go to other countries without knowing their laws and think that they can do and say anything.
@Rella-rellai
9 күн бұрын
@@coureenlawrence4915 *They go to other countries and expect everyone to act like normal decent human beings who don't marry children or hot their wives. American women fell for the exotic lie that Islam is a peaceful religion and when their eyes open its too late since they're stuck in hell.
@AllTooWell_1322
9 күн бұрын
@@coureenlawrence4915 as an Iranian living in england after my parents immigrated this is true
@louise3088
8 күн бұрын
@@coureenlawrence4915 In her particular case she met and married her husband in the U.S. and they had a good marriage for a couple of years.Then her husband told her they should go for a visit to meet his family.She agreed to visit.Once there her once reasonable husband decided that he wanted to stay living in Iran,and that she had no choice in the matter.She and her daughter were trapped. That's why the book and movie are called Not Without My Daughter,he told her she could leave,but not with their child.She refused to leave without her daughter.
@30sandrita1
8 күн бұрын
@@AllTooWell_1322 That is terrible. 😔
@tamaliaalisjahbana6849
9 күн бұрын
Check the law and your rights before you marry a foreigner especially if you move to his country.
@sittonpretty6146
7 күн бұрын
The sad part is they were on a trip, they don't have to get you to move, just be on that soil.
@tvjunkie5052
7 күн бұрын
Its been i while since i watched that movie, but as far as i know she knew the laws. She didn't want to go to Iran, but her husband told her he wanted to visit Iran on vacation to see his entire family. He swore on the Quran that they'd return, to convice her. Once they where there he used the Iranian laws to ceep her there. She married that man, she had no reason not to trust him and she thought him swearing on the Quran actually meant something to him. It was her guarantee that they'd all return to the US together, but her husband didn't give a 💩 about that.
@user-ml4ps5cq3v
6 күн бұрын
@@tamaliaalisjahbana6849 thats the thing she didn't "move" they just went to visit the husbands family, while it was the evils husbands plan to kidnap her.
@jijiani677
6 күн бұрын
Think 100 times before marrying a Moslem
@Lovecoffe506
6 күн бұрын
Still the hole idea that they could not help her is absurd. The ambasy is park of USA. USA laws should apply. How could they not help her?
@frankramirez8618
12 күн бұрын
This reminds me of 3 American dudes who went to the middle east and brought back two 7 year old sisters. They were hired by their American mother.
@ZLQ90
10 күн бұрын
@@frankramirez8618 this reminds me of Amer1can terrorism
@Felicia0514
10 күн бұрын
😂
@patienceroper3517
10 күн бұрын
You'd have to hire mercenaries for something like this.
@syrajatt6141
9 күн бұрын
Another movie lol
@kekekeke2200
9 күн бұрын
@@patienceroper3517it's surprisingly easy to get random people to help with something like that. A cousin of mine got a random man to help get his sister back from Syria for nothing more than 3000 Swedish krona, a pack of cigarettes and a sixpack of beer
@cathyrowe9216
9 күн бұрын
Ignore the posts that say the facts stated in the movie are lies. Everything stated in the movie is true. Her husband basically threatened to take their daughter if she filed for divorce.
@RimWulf
7 күн бұрын
Yeah, you are correct. Although, it's technically against UN charter but the UN picks and chooses with some of the richest states. A woman would have to first get their husband or male guardian to allow them to go to another country. For whatever excuse and only then can they ask for asylum.
@rimbaud1180
7 күн бұрын
I'm sick of people calling Betty a liar , especially after her daughter Mahtob has confirmed that the story was true. And they're not the only ones who this has happened to. My aunt and cousins have a similar story.
@mary5305j
7 күн бұрын
We aren’t calling her story a lie, but she and her daughter were still American citizens and the embassy failed them and the UN failed them. The facts stated about that specific “law” in this scene is not true.
@valeriatofan4380
6 күн бұрын
I live in Germany and I am stuck in a small town because my daughter is born here and he would not agree to let me leave the country with her. He became abusive in the marriage and after and I had almost no support. I am an european citizen and I must tell you that Germany is almost no better.
@RimWulf
6 күн бұрын
@@valeriatofan4380I think the word "almost" I might be an understatement in Saudi Arabia are literal second class citizens a woman cannot divorce her husband but can only petition the court to dissolve the marriage on limited grounds. Although the husband can divorce his wife for whatever reason.
@hollyhart1715
11 күн бұрын
The movie is called “Not without my daughter”
@theresam8809
11 күн бұрын
Thanks I couldn’t remember it.. I remember see it very sad story and sally field play good in it.
@debbieradford2974
10 күн бұрын
thankyou
@milapolak717
8 күн бұрын
Thank u for sharing the titel
@comptegoogle5071
5 күн бұрын
Did they make it? Did Betty finally saved herself and her daughter?
@nosender2399
4 күн бұрын
@@comptegoogle5071 Yes. It took 18 months. She she escaped to another country through the border (I think Turkey) and the US embassy got them out.
@AChristina
10 күн бұрын
I remember watching this movie when I was a small child with my mom. When I started traveling as an adult I always made sure to know where the US Embassy was in each country I traveled to.
@chiendinh-je2xi
10 күн бұрын
And never married Middle East man
@lauriekrebsbach8190
10 күн бұрын
At least not in Iran, her rights would be different if they lived in the USA. Then his rights would be less. Women need to learn the laws before marriage. Don’t hope your husband wouldn’t take advantage of laws in their own country.
@seensaw7339
9 күн бұрын
@@chiendinh-je2xi Persian
@seensaw7339
9 күн бұрын
@@chiendinh-je2xiSorry it's probably religion bigger influences not ethnicity. Iran used to be a free society before the new ruler took over in the 80s.
@chrisdawson1776
9 күн бұрын
@@chiendinh-je2xi To be fair, Persia/Iran is not like the other Islamic countries in the Middle East. They practice a different form of Islam and are actually at odds with the rest of the region.
@kerynl.sanchez9891
6 күн бұрын
A friend had a boyfriend from Turkey, he also kidnapped her after a “vacation trip” once in there the whole family supported his actions and kept her against her will. He tortured her and did unthinkable things to her until she also escaped! This is more common than you think.
@joannajones8533
5 күн бұрын
yes......indeed.
@ChristmasCarolyn
3 күн бұрын
Wth!! And I thought suffering abuse in my own home country is already bad...to be trapped abroad with less means to get help is horrifying! 😢
@IamSuperAbundance
2 күн бұрын
marry a muslim man and you are doomed
@rivkacampbell677
2 күн бұрын
I remember a turkey 🇹🇷 guys meet me on ig and say come to turkey he will give me houses i think he me somewhere to stay and food.i say okay.i wasn't going no where.and good thing I bidnt go to make him do that for me maybe he would do the same to as a gf.i watch this movie before on KZitem it sad😢😢😳😲👀👀💔💔😥😪😪😢😭
@ishamassoud7906
2 күн бұрын
What a full of crap
@planarian1772
9 күн бұрын
For those who are wondering why it’s a Swiss-US Delegation it’s because The US doesn’t have an embassy in Iran so the Swiss is an acting representative for the US interests.
@heathershark8895
5 күн бұрын
That tells you something right there!! Maybe they aren't our allies for a reason.
@aanchal-annaleedeprince5525
3 күн бұрын
Thank you for explaining because I was also saying to myself that it is not a US accent. Thank you.
@svetlanapil8089
2 күн бұрын
I don't know about Swiss, but if they are anything like Germans, forget about help. They won't move a finger if it's not a written somewhere rule. Even your request for help would be taken as the biggest insult. I only know a couple of people from Switzerland, and they seem to be very much like Germans. Very rigit nations.
@retroreceptionist7571
7 күн бұрын
Women, PLEASE KNOW THE CULTURE YOU MARRY INTO.
@sellynechepkemoi4432
6 күн бұрын
This reminds me when my husband took my passport and hide while i was being abused , i couldn't travel back to my country also i didn't understand the laquange and to make it worse my embassy was not located directly in the country, i mean suffering for innocent women out here is very real. God protect all innocent woman who are far from thier country.
@rock8465
4 күн бұрын
How did you come out?
@ellela_
3 күн бұрын
Thank god you are Okay❤️❤️
@sellynechepkemoi4432
3 күн бұрын
@@rock8465 I had to applied wisdom since I couldn't fight him, i became everything he wanted the bad and the good, I took in all the mistreatment until to him it became normal to mistreat me, it took almost two years until I finally got to understand their laquange get to know well my way to Airport , because i could communicate now with few people ,,and off course I was also busy looking for my passport, so when i got hold of my passport one day , i left . Today I'm alive I can tell the story .
@sellynechepkemoi4432
3 күн бұрын
@@ellela_ Amen, I usually say if I didn't die that time ,I still have along way to go my Gods grace
@aanchal-annaleedeprince5525
3 күн бұрын
I am glad you are doing fine now
@MinooNikoumanesh
7 күн бұрын
I read many comments and as an iranian woman i have to say what seems like to you as a nightmare we live it here everyday!!! Americans should be thankful for their laws and their society you have no idea how we live since we born until we die...
@empressofdaunknown6530
6 күн бұрын
I am so sorry. I pray things get better for all the women there. I can not even phantom 10% of what your life is like. I am so sorry😔
@veeyan6882
6 күн бұрын
My grandma said she couldn't attention school or get an education, it was not for girls..f tht place
@user-gu3tx5xc2c
5 күн бұрын
Not only Americans,many other countries.
@mona1164
5 күн бұрын
I am really heartbroken to read that.
@markot9902
5 күн бұрын
So...why don't you make your country better and more humane?
@BROUBoomer
11 күн бұрын
To me, this movie became the best advertisement for *not* marrying anyone from a foreign country.
@harringt100
10 күн бұрын
More like anyone from Iran. These laws are unusual.
@MarisolLegonPerez
10 күн бұрын
A very few country have this law, most of them in the middle east
@thefatpakyak2826
10 күн бұрын
@@harringt100 I like how you say “unusual” instead of abusive and misogynistic
@dale6497
10 күн бұрын
JUST marry someone normal
@jackandblaze5956
10 күн бұрын
I used to have a crush on a cheerful Catholic woman who fell in love with an Arab man. They got married and he moved her to over there. Once she was there she realized he had other women and she was not ok with that. She said that to punish her he forced himself on her several times a day, and brutalized her "back door" constantly. It took her several years to escape. When I finally saw her again she wasn't the same person anymore. She had sexual PTSD really bad, she hated sects with a passion - but said she loved Islam. I never saw her smile again. She was full of bitterness.
@trudifruty6078
10 күн бұрын
This movie was so heartbreaking but she and her daughter did get back to the United States she went through hell over there
@freespiritable
8 күн бұрын
@@trudifruty6078 what's the title?
@phoenix0477
8 күн бұрын
Not without my Daughter @@freespiritable
@subite
7 күн бұрын
Thanks for the spoiler!
@glenniefrederiksen2305
7 күн бұрын
@@freespiritable not without my daughter
@chibineko6274
5 күн бұрын
Glad there is happy ending ❤
@ThuanNguyen-kj2ww
12 күн бұрын
Best movie, I've read the book, watched the movie several several times, can't imagine the life there. I was so glad she's made it home. God blessed her.
@steveanton763
11 күн бұрын
The same God who commanded her husband to act the way he did? What an awesome plan this god sounds really smart and has communicated really clearly his wishes. 😂
@isabellegauthier4318
10 күн бұрын
@@steveanton763 it's not God's doing. We have free will. God did not make puppets.
@marlainapetrucci2429
10 күн бұрын
@@steveanton763it's not the same God 🤷🤷 people have different religious beliefs
@cybersamurai6549
10 күн бұрын
Bad choices made by Mother now regrets
@learner404
10 күн бұрын
@@isabellegauthier4318 well in islam ...you dont have free will
@kenzievn6877
7 күн бұрын
The amount of people that marry foreigners with absolutely no idea of their laws is insane
@marynorman4797
10 күн бұрын
Not without my daughter In Equalizer 2 Denzel rescues a little girl whose father stole her from her American mother & planned to take her back to his homeland (Turkey) He didn't want the child he just wanted to hurt the mother (she left him because he was abusive) All the Equalizer movies w/Denzel are excellent & all the John Wick movies are excellent also‼️
@30sandrita1
9 күн бұрын
Agreed 💯👍
@johndecko2896
8 күн бұрын
@marynorman4797 all John Wick films are 'video games'.
@prissylovejoy702
8 күн бұрын
John wick wasn’t even a Twinkie when this movie came out over 30 years ago.
@veeyan6882
6 күн бұрын
Equalizer is good cuz it's like a superman comes and saves people frm a evil lord, u know it's true events makes u love watching it..people have no idea what life can b like in other countrys
@Tiam.Rad.12
12 күн бұрын
Like I live in iran, and I am an Iranian, but the rules here are awfully The country and cities in it are beautiful for tourists to come but if you want to marry you shouldn't come here cause everything goes to men
@mygoogle1525
12 күн бұрын
Oposite to the states and mojority of non-musl1m countries smh
@godsqueen9437
11 күн бұрын
Generally speaking, this could be a real strength thou. But It's a double edged sword. It can go both ways. The global dominance of "MAN" and its presence and influence in the world could start with Iran and Iranian men. If it is true and Iran laws are solely in support of Iranian men then that is great. I am interested in those laws have historical been conducive to the betterment of the Iranian people? A lot of times we only hear the bad. But I am really interested in hearing about the good. Personally, my father was and is my biggest supporter! Even beyond the grave, I dare not " Do the right thing" for everyone involved, sort- of- speak. Is Iranian laws in support of men that are supportive of women and children that "Do the right thing" for everyone involved, sort- of- speak in such a way it won't tarnish their global imagery and reputation of "MAN"? If so I think, globally, that would be a wonderful thing! A fatherly cultural revolution sounds a little rebellious and chaotic but in actuality it really gives a sense of "wisdom and guidance and acceptance"
@AV-ff4hr
11 күн бұрын
@@godsqueen9437 are you dumb, Iran had no such restrictions upon women as it has now, once upon a time when Iran was free form Muslims it was even more developed than the west but as the muslims increased in number, human rights for women basically vanished. And in which moral or common sense do you think it is ok for men to rule over women? Or women to have zero rights ?
@AV-ff4hr
11 күн бұрын
@@godsqueen9437 of you need silencing of women's rights which are basic human rights to feel masculine and maintain your masculine image then trust me you are no man and there is no good in Iran today it was maybe fifty years ago when muslims hadn't invaded yet and it was persia. Iranian laws are sexist and discriminatory they don't even consider women to be citizens and we have had fatherly culture for centuries now see where it has led us, we are rather doomed with such patriarchy, there is no guidance or wisdom if ones mind is filled with superiority complex and lack of consideration for other beings
@AV-ff4hr
11 күн бұрын
@@godsqueen9437 And suppressing women's right and making them slaves to your choices is in no moral or legal value right or even justifiable
@kalualauber1921
8 күн бұрын
My grandmother saw this movie and whenever I dated anyone from any other country she would always say, “Don’t be like Sally Fields and go over to a big foreign country! You won’t be able to get out.”😂😂😂😂 I married a Brazilian and whenever I visit I say, not without my daughter. My husband doesn’t get it and we have a son. Great movie.
@abcdefoff3307
7 күн бұрын
All women need to read up on Middle Eastern laws before marrying any Middle Eastern man. While the man can be fantastic at the time of marriage, their country's laws can be hella screwed. Let's say your man is actually nice forever but y'all are not compatible, who knows how the law can still screw you up. .
@ManiyaVinas
5 күн бұрын
You mean muslim countries Pretty sure in Israel you can exist financially independent from a man
@KS-cl8br
12 күн бұрын
Don't go to Iran, Egypt, Afghanistan, Japan, Iraq with your kids if you marry someone from there
@YoungStoic45
12 күн бұрын
What's with Japan?
@srujanahanumanthu6016
12 күн бұрын
What's with Japan bro??
@KS-cl8br
12 күн бұрын
@@YoungStoic45 Japan favors their citizens in custody. There are a lot of New Zealand and Australians who were married to Japanese people and then the person files there and most always gets the custody over the foreigners.
@YoungStoic45
12 күн бұрын
@@KS-cl8br Preference over citizenship or religion over what's right is straight down pathetic. But, that's the case of most of the marital laws across the world. Men gets trated like shit, except for some cases, like the aforementioned ones.
@nouran3749
12 күн бұрын
Egypt??
@jackandblaze5956
10 күн бұрын
I used to have a crush on a cheerful Catholic woman who fell in love with an Arab man. They got married and he moved her to over there. Once she was there she realized he had other women and she was not ok with that. She said that to punish her he forced himself on her several times a day, and brutalized her "back door" constantly. It took her several years to escape. When I finally saw her again she wasn't the same person anymore. She had sexual PTSD really bad, she hated sects with a passion - but said she loved Islam. I never saw her smile again. She was full of bitterness.
@ishratjahan8627
10 күн бұрын
Religion has nothing to do with a bad person. Every bad person have some sort of religion. This doesn't make the religion bad. There are thousands of arab men around the world who keeps their wife like a queen, and gulf arabs are damn rich.
@rakano3733
10 күн бұрын
@@ishratjahan8627let's be real here it's been shown throughout history that people have done horrible things in the name of religion so don't try to play that card please
@NessieNice
9 күн бұрын
Muslim brothers don't claim him. So much Muslim impostors out there...
@ishratjahan8627
9 күн бұрын
@@rakano3733 I'm not playing any card here . There are so many horrible stories about Christian cults etc and Hindu tribes,that doesn't mean the religion is to blame. individuals are responsible for their own wrong doings.
@staissitrading6675
9 күн бұрын
Funny thing is, "backdoor" thing is haram in islam. Hurting your wive physically also give wife the right to file divorce.
@tammymathis5893
9 күн бұрын
This is why it is so very important know everything before getting involved with anyone. Especially someone from another country.
@pseudopuppy160
7 күн бұрын
Especially if that other country is the USA with mass murders in schools, zero choice over one's reproductive ability, unlivabke wages, healthcare only for the wealthy & evangelical religion promoting hatred & that women are for breeding only...
@huggledemon32
8 күн бұрын
Oh man!- I saw this movie in my teens, and it kicked off an obsession with reading all sorts of books about women’s lives in the Middle East! I know it’s not the case for all women who live there, but DAMN!- it’s pretty scary as a western woman!
@hinatah4832
15 сағат бұрын
wait .... its a book of " Iran",??? 2 years a go a read this book its beautifull
@firsttake3042
7 күн бұрын
I had a co-worker who was about to marry an African. I told her he was already married to a girl back home and just had a child. All his kids were girls. He was going to try for a boy with her. I told her to look up the laws in his country before she married him. They didn't get married.
@nagehangunaydn6541
8 күн бұрын
When they saw the Turkish border and the Turkish flag, they realized that they were saved. As a Turk, my biggest wish is that this situation does not change for Turkey.
@kristingallo2158
7 күн бұрын
Turkey is part of NATO. They knew turkey could get them home.
@YOUR_LOCAL_LAYLA
2 күн бұрын
Fr, in my opinion Turkey is one of the best Muslim countries (I don’t mean any hate) I just love their culture and most of the people are so sweet💕
@nagehangunaydn6541
2 күн бұрын
@@YOUR_LOCAL_LAYLA ❤️Turkey is a secular country and i hope that this does not change.
@geegee_509
7 күн бұрын
My friends mom left the US to Lebanon and her husband did a 180 on her when they got there. If it wasn’t for her mother in law vouching for her, she and her mom would’ve stayed stuck there. Her mother is a Dominican US citizen. Scary shit.
@AnuAdhvaryu
9 күн бұрын
Saw this movie "Not without my daughter" . one of the best movie based on a real story.
@kerynl.sanchez9891
6 күн бұрын
But this one is based on a true story.
@hinatah4832
15 сағат бұрын
wait .... its a book of " Iran",??? 2 years a go a read this book its beautifull
@AngelElectricity-ke4qm
9 күн бұрын
😢😢😢😢😭😭😭I was in a very similar situation I completely understand something like this happened to me too 😢😢😢 and you suddenly feel you are in a very unpleasant,even desperate situation but it's soo saad you can't leave your children !!😭😭 you ll die just to stay with them! 😭😭😭lucky after 10 years I managed to go back to a liberal country!! Here I am free and safe!!
@MarcYanruw
12 күн бұрын
Damn that's heartbreaking 😔
@James-zi5en
10 күн бұрын
Imagine being so brainwashed to believe this propaganda 😔
@ChasRiaStJohn
11 күн бұрын
When I meet Americans that convert. It boggles my mind.
@lujainaahmed3580
10 күн бұрын
Islam has nothing to do with the laws in Iran lol
@thefatpakyak2826
10 күн бұрын
@@lujainaahmed3580yeah, totally has nothing to do 😂
@mythplays4306
10 күн бұрын
those are not islamic laws
@fatmakacmaz1866
10 күн бұрын
@@thefatpakyak2826 hey, muslim daughter here. Men and women are given equal rights. But i believe women are more protected. A countries culture and laws are not necessarily related to religion. Its based off of lies of leaders. Many countries have laws that do not represent religious rules. America, for example, does not have fair nor equal laws. So I am confused as to why you are belittling my religion based on what you see, and not study. Please try to be open-minded and show respect.
@thefatpakyak2826
10 күн бұрын
@@fatmakacmaz1866 your false equivalence to comparing America as having unfair laws is comical. I’m sure I can easily find 5 unfair laws in Muslim ran countries before you find 1 in America (if even 1)
@jodyjojo1381
11 күн бұрын
How ....that makes no sense. I've NEVER been to an embassy that has the countries people working there. For example the guard who answered Iranian, the lady who speaks to her Iranian. .... If you are American, Japanese, Jamaican, Indian the people that work there are your born people
@shirleysp8176
11 күн бұрын
There was no American embassy in Iran at that time. She went to the American Interests Section of the Swiss Embassy.
@rosinchenpapa
10 күн бұрын
That isn't true. Many embassy's in other countries employ people from this country to guard the doors or do other jobs inside the embassy because they know the language.
@shirleysp8176
10 күн бұрын
@rosinchenpapa it's what her biography says. That info came from Betty Mahmoody herself - so tell me again why it isn't true? Are you insinuating that you know better than the woman who ACTUALLY lived it? How arrogant. A month after her captivity, she and her daughter escaped to the SWISS embassy. "I told Mahtob we were free, we were going home," Mahmoody recalled. "But then the woman at the Swiss embassy told me 'You are an Iranian citizen. You have to return to your husband and abide by Iranian law."" "No one told me when I married an Iranian how it would affect my citizenship. I became a dual citizen of the U.S. and Iran. But Iran did not recognize dual citizenship". Swiss. Not manned by Americans either btw So tell me again you utter muppet, how you know better than the woman who was actually there!!
@deanneshane3799
9 күн бұрын
You forgot about spies. They turn away from their own country don't they
@kimeraevent
9 күн бұрын
@@shirleysp8176 You proved his point you slag. She went to the Swiss embassy. A group infamous for ignoring people in need. The American embassy would have had US Marines guarding, State department officials working there, and she would have been flown out as soon as they were able to verify her identity.
@user-qh8mt2ys3x
9 күн бұрын
Think about someone coming from this and then live in America , enjoy the freedom... and then criticising America. This scene is so powerful and if this doesn't make you feel grateful for freedom, nothing would.
@katarinask139
9 күн бұрын
There was freedom in Iran by the time her husband left to America
@bakedbydevashri3605
8 күн бұрын
“Not without my daughter” it’s a book on real story will give you goosebumps and tears 😢 the way she saved her self and her daughter’s life
@hinatah4832
15 сағат бұрын
wait .... its a book of " Iran",??? 2 years a go a read this book its beautifull
@DeidresStuff
10 күн бұрын
That's why I'm married to a nice man from Minnesota.
@aprilbess4074
10 күн бұрын
I cried while watching this film. And it hurt all the more knowing it was a true story.
@ohyeahyeah1068
8 күн бұрын
Wasn’t it her fault?
@aprilbess4074
8 күн бұрын
@@ohyeahyeah1068No. Her husband begged her so his family could meet her and their daughter. However it was all a rues he never planned to go back. They were supposed to be there for 2 weeks I think.
@CottagecoreBihexual
8 күн бұрын
The husband tricked her @@ohyeahyeah1068. So if was the husband's fault.
@Xizario2
7 күн бұрын
It is not true story. You can't loose your us citizenship because us don't really give a f about Iranian institutions. The marriage is simply invalid to them. Moreover she can't even mary him, because Iranian goverman will not allow it in the first place.
@MassimoShire1981
11 күн бұрын
Alfred Molina was choose as the Iranian husband. He is Spanish and Italian heritage.
@heddystgeorge3756
9 күн бұрын
He was born in Paddington London UK
@lottelarsen2918
8 күн бұрын
He did such a good job in this movie 🙂
@oneaghachiamaka8521
7 күн бұрын
Marrying an Iranian man without making inquiries about their laws is very unsettling. 😢
@aleksandrac9335
5 күн бұрын
What inquiries could she do? She married him in america before the revolution.
@Danka42
6 күн бұрын
Couldn't travel? _Couldn't escape,_ you mean.
@Geo-zy8ch
8 күн бұрын
Lesson: think before you marry someone
@janetcampbell4191
7 күн бұрын
Betty was a nurse in Alpena, mi. Hospital where she met her husband. Theylived in the biggest house in Alpena. Betty lived in Owossi, mi. After her return to the states. Her daughter went on to college at Westetn U. After yesterday s of hiding from the ex husband, he showed up , looking for the grown daughter.
@LK-pb4no
7 күн бұрын
This movie alone taught me a lot about it foreign men when visiting their countries. Especially in places where women have no value.
@YOUR_LOCAL_LAYLA
2 күн бұрын
Women have no value? Hold up right there, brodi, Islam gave women their rights before y’all created the word “feminism” or even “woman”
@vishnuchitlangia6999
6 күн бұрын
Everyone is talking about knowing the law before marrying, no one is talking about how these laws should be changed and absurd
@user-qm9wu1zy2x
5 күн бұрын
Facts. I heard a story abt a teenage girl kidnapped by a Iran man forced to marry him & when her parents tried to save her they got no help.
@salviaikukt2659
8 күн бұрын
I remember watching this as a child i had tears. To think this has happened to many women Im so glad she escape and were able to tell her story
@boopnoodle6947
10 күн бұрын
I read this book and wow what a brave woman and her story is just so inspiring…
@bhzr458
10 күн бұрын
I'm Iranian and I hate our law and government. Its horrible country for women
@dianavalle3877
10 күн бұрын
Unfortunately they treat women like garbage + get away with it!!
@James-zi5en
10 күн бұрын
I’m American and I hate our law and government. Its horrible country for women
@James-zi5en
10 күн бұрын
@@dianavalle3877 I’m American and I hate our law and government. It’s horrible country for women. Unfortunately they treat women like garbage + get away with it!!
@bhzr458
9 күн бұрын
@@James-zi5en I'm not saying that america is the best country for women but trust me definitely it's better than Iran. At least you have much more right than us. Don't misunderstood I'm not saying that you don't have any problem as a woman cause I kow you have.
@bhzr458
9 күн бұрын
@@dianavalle3877 yes that's sadly true. I'm trying to find a way to leave and go to the better county 🙂
@King_ofNight
6 күн бұрын
Now enjoy marrying in "culture of Peace" 🕊️
@heart5993
9 күн бұрын
Whats the movie's name?
@weightycarlos
8 күн бұрын
And they said patriarchy is not real.
@deliabowlen3834
12 күн бұрын
They need to reshow this. It's obvious from their actions the younger adults of my country don't know how things really are in the middle east
@ferelcopter5126
10 күн бұрын
?
@longingsummers78
10 күн бұрын
iran is the only country not others
@toritori5835
10 күн бұрын
Please don’t generalize. Also, laws by a few authoritarians who gain power in a country do not reflect the people who live under those laws. This story was about an abusive man who duped his wife into a situation he knew would entrap her. Unfortunately, she did not research the laws of that country before she went. But it is not indicative of Persians nor is it indicative of Islam. As well, to generalize about “the way things are in the ME” isn’t okay. This is an anecdotal story. If I told you a horrific story about an abusive American man who used local or state laws or systemic contacts (good old boy system) plus pressure from the local church to subjugate and entrap his wife, it wouldn’t be indicative of America or Christianity, right?* I know a number of Iranians (both men and women) who are gentle, kind and proponents of equal rights for all. They are not misogynists, nor are they bigots. Ditto with Persians from Afghanistan and India. This is an excellent movie and compelling story. The problem is that many individuals in the west have used it as “proof” to indicate it is a cultural and religious norm. *BTW, if you want laws and institutions in the USA to uphold our freedoms, vote Blue. Project 2025 and Schedule F are a real thing and I am utterly ashamed at the religious leaders who are backing it and pushing it on our nation. If Trump gets in, we will have white nationalist rule in this country and it will become a rule by the Christian Taliban. True followers of Jesus will recognize this and denounce it vehemently.
@saralotti7174
10 күн бұрын
@@toritori5835and if Joe wins he will probably mandate another experimental medical procedure on workers right?
@Wyz369
8 күн бұрын
@@toritori5835vote "blue"??? Like the demented old man who is POTUS now?? And yes, he DOES have significant dementia 🤨
@-Sunshines-girl_
8 күн бұрын
Damnn this so scary... Thanks for spreading the awareness
@KarenLee-bs5ms
10 күн бұрын
The movie is called not without my daughter and it was completely twisted
@valeriaharris3420
10 күн бұрын
Powerful movie.. Sally fields needed award
@juanitamasian9414
9 күн бұрын
This is a true life story made into a movie with Sally Field. A mother's love is stronger, enough to sacrifice her life for her daughter.❤️
@jessicabarberick5492
3 күн бұрын
Brings me to tears when she says im an American citizen
@Cole0x
7 күн бұрын
It broke my heart how the smile on the girls face faded as she couldnt understand what the lady was talking about looking at her mom hoping is just a mistake 😢
@swethag365
8 күн бұрын
And they say they are peaceful community and want to impose their law in all countries 😂😂😂
@Adam-wj8yd
9 күн бұрын
Her voice alone is unmistakable
@highesteem2778
4 күн бұрын
So cruel. Women deserve better
@mevebelanger
7 күн бұрын
I read this book. It lives in my head since then. What a courageous woman.
@reginaflemming4390
9 күн бұрын
This is a very good movie based on real life. Sally Fields is an excellent actress! ❤
@godsqueen9437
12 күн бұрын
These "women and children" laws sounds EXACTLY like the *COMMONWEALTH OF VIRGINIA* Uggh, same issh different toilet
@gabrielboyd8780
12 күн бұрын
good too many women rip their children from their fathers at the first opportunity. Even though every single study done on the difference between a single father and single mother home it overwhelmingly shows a single father home as superior in every way. #1 indicator of a child being molested is being in a single mother home. #1 indicator that a child will become a criminal is being raised in a single mother home. #1 indicator that you will grow up to be impoverished adult is a single mother home. None of these problems occur in a single father home.
@faithcastillo9597
12 күн бұрын
@@gabrielboyd8780 I believe you need to site your reference to support your statement. I suspect you are cherrypicking data that suits how you feel.
@ommeloise6309
12 күн бұрын
@@gabrielboyd8780 The fathers are able to bolt, so the mothers are automatically granted custody since they physically birthed the children. There are a lot of standup guys, but it doesn’t compare to those who flee when faced with responsibility.
@yessum15
12 күн бұрын
@@ommeloise6309This is actually not true. In the US, the reason mothers are granted custody is because *fathers overwhelmingly do not want custody.* Over 90% of custody decisions in divorce are made by the families without the involvement of the courts. When the courts are involved, fathers overwhelmingly voluntarily refuse primary custody. In the extremely rare instances where primary custody is actually disputed the court will advantage *whoever was the primary caregiver during the course of the marriage.* The court does not care whether that was the father or mother. The issue is that in those instances, most of the time the mothers were the primary caregivers during the marriage and are able to demonstrate better familiarity with the ward's daily routines and needs. The idea that there is some major problem with fathers being denied custody is a myth. In real life, fathers tend to lack involvement with childcare during the course of the marriage and tend to refuse custody during divorce. The actual widespread problem in real life is that in addition to denying primary custody, many fathers also fail to attend visitation sessions and refuse to pay support. The problem is not that courts are taking wards away from their fathers, but rather that courts are struggling to find ways to keep fathers involved in their wards lives after a divorce.
@godsqueen9437
11 күн бұрын
@@gabrielboyd8780 Why is this so? Single parenting is single parenting. What makes the gender of the parent more different? Do single men have an equal support system than single women? Or is this a societal thing?
@bluenomadbruh
5 күн бұрын
I am still thankful for the infiltrated seller who helped her leave.
@gun_dalf
8 күн бұрын
Thats why you should always read the terms and conditions before signing anything
@chowmarina008
12 күн бұрын
Saw this and read tye book. When this came out, ppl assumed that all muslim countries are like this but its not so at all.
@hahap2644
12 күн бұрын
I would rather be safe than sorry. Not taking your advice.
@ommeloise6309
12 күн бұрын
All international custody battles turn ugly.
@goowoo69420
11 күн бұрын
All muslim countries aren't like this, but the ones that are literally are an image of the qu'ran. The qu'ran is terribly misogynistic, it literally allows for husbands to beat their wives. These islamic states take the scripture literallg and people are so surprised when they do.
I read the book in French at the age of 11 , it marked me forever
@Aerie925
12 күн бұрын
This was such a good movie!!! Love this one.
@user-jy8vk9tb2y
10 күн бұрын
I cried so hard when i watched that movie, its so sad!! And the sadest part is that its a true story, and she wasn't the only women a man did it to!
@_saanjh
6 күн бұрын
This scene rekindled my claustrophobia .
@awuorogutu4440
8 күн бұрын
And that's how Iran is cancelled off the list...I don't care if it's a movie 😅
@roxanne_s2939
8 күн бұрын
It's an enchanting country, just don't get involved with the law.
@azbeaux
10 күн бұрын
And the people who support Hamas are supporting this abuse of women. Hamas is funded, trained, operated and strategised by Iran.
@mrgoodnigth6742
8 күн бұрын
And they want these laws in western countries 😂😂😂
@lauukikmhatre4993
7 күн бұрын
I have read the book in english and in Marathi.. salute to the lady who fought for her daughter and for ger rights..
@haileyfaze8462
3 күн бұрын
This is heartbreaking because it's true, not just in the case of this story but as a fact of life and culture in middle eastern countries; where women have near zero individual inalienable protection rights.
@zahrashirbaz4543
11 күн бұрын
Americans love to make themselves look like hero’s lol
@lyndseyburrow4872
11 күн бұрын
That is what any good mother would do it has nothing to do with her being a hero or American don't be a buffoon
@DanielaRicci-wx5zv
12 күн бұрын
Fantastic movie and casting !!! True story told as a warning to Western women marrying muslims without understanding the dangers to them and their children. She escaped. Majority..didn't.
@mrparvezff5834
12 күн бұрын
Nah mate, should be a warning to Muslims not to marry westerners.
@jessicabader8010
11 күн бұрын
It's not about Islam...It's about Iranian laws. I'm married to a Jordanian in Jordan (Muslim country) and laws are different in terms of marital laws and children custody. Go educate yourself and stop slandering.
@lujainaahmed3580
10 күн бұрын
This is why I hate these clips, teaches so much false information. First of all non muslim women can marry muslim men without even converting, those who do have simply chosen to, second of all this has nothing to do with islam, it is simply a strict government system. I am a non muslim living in uae and 80% of my friends and coworkers are all non muslim and most are western, every single one of them is living their happiest life
@VSR-wo2od
9 күн бұрын
The couple were doctors, the man changed after going back to Iran and Ayatollah but she used every means to reach America helped by humans,,😊 irrespective of their religion they helped her unlike the spineless doctor husband 🙏
@knowyourworth236
6 күн бұрын
I remember watching this with my mom years ago. Sally Fields did such an amazing job! I cried for her. Still today, I cry for the women of the world in these situations. 😢❤
@inodog5784
9 күн бұрын
I remember watching this as a kid, this shaped my view on islam and the arab countries. I was terrified of the way they treated females, no respect whatsoever, females were a commodity. Still pains me to this day to see this film. This reality is atrocious and i still find it hard to process that you can treat mothers,sisters, daughters&wifes as lesser human beings, it showes something flawed about your own humanity and culture.
@jaishriiyer1563
9 күн бұрын
Which movie is this ?
@j2810
6 күн бұрын
This isn't even arabic, it's iranian. And the 'islam' they practice over there isn't the mainstream one and most muslims don't consider it a part of the faith. This is like taking the story of what the catholics did to the natives (burning them alive, rapes, kidnapping, etc all in the name of Jesus) and saying that this is what true christianity is.
@chaitali71
11 күн бұрын
I have read this book “not without my daughter” I remember being glued to the book from cover to cover. This woman’s ordeal was unbelievable. Didn’t know there was a movie too.
@creativestudio101
10 күн бұрын
You would think she would have known all that before she married the dude.. like hello!!! 😂😂
@cassandramalvasia3629
Күн бұрын
Never without my daughter. The book brought me tears and the movie was like a punch in the gut.Betty Mahmoudy and Xana Mohsen are true survivors.
@ellies3768
3 күн бұрын
The book is also worth reading.
@lisafilly464
12 күн бұрын
Liberal women in the U.S. need to watch this movie. It’s heartbreaking how women are treated there. Maybe they’d appreciate the U.S. and the freedoms women have here if they’d watch.
@HashtagSuperior
11 күн бұрын
“There’s a country worse off than us. Therefore, the US is perfect in every way!”
@stefanienaranjo4477
11 күн бұрын
You can appreciate what you have and still want more for yourself. Just cause we have basic rights doesn't mean we should just shut up and take whatevers given.
@stefanienaranjo4477
11 күн бұрын
@@HashtagSuperior honestly
@abbie_joan
11 күн бұрын
and yet the US is slowing but surely removing all the rights they gave to women starting with bodily autonomy
@LEMATTOFFICIAL
11 күн бұрын
Are you kidding me dude? Get outta here with your foolishness
@AdakStillStands
8 күн бұрын
RIP Alfred Molina. He played the husband. May Sally Field grace us for a few more decades! Outstanding movie that these days, should be showed over and over again.
@Cricket57846
5 күн бұрын
@@AdakStillStands Alfred Molina is very much still alive lmao.
@saturnxoxo01
7 күн бұрын
Loved this movie to bits
@taliasanders4849
9 күн бұрын
😂😂 and people nowadays are completely ignorant protesting for this government
@alikelateh8252
9 күн бұрын
This is ridiculous، my name is Betty Mamudi😂😂😂 in iran after marriage The womans name and surname do not change. And the gender suffix in Farsi is the same for both men and women. Yeh right youre defender of womens rights😅 o God see these
@aleksandrac9335
8 күн бұрын
?
@m0h4mmad
6 күн бұрын
Exactly😂😂
@shahi7879
5 күн бұрын
You sound exactly like Indian men, explains why these countries are so dangerous
@airimee
2 күн бұрын
So..this happened to a teenage girl who got tricked into going to Syria like 5 years ago. She tried to go back to England and was told she lost citizenship and was sent back into that war zone. I dont know if shes still alive but she went with 2 friends who were both killed she was 15
@Ater_Draco
Күн бұрын
Shamima Begum. She and her friends were recruited by ISIS. She acted as an enforcer in Syria, punishing women who didn't follow the laws set by ISIS. She's alive and in a detention camp in Syria
@theresatzitzira1361
9 күн бұрын
I read the book...shocking, heartwarming and heartbreaking...
@Blagger3000
7 күн бұрын
She made her bed, now she’s got to sleep in it.
@davidluchs2657
12 күн бұрын
Name of Film?
@reneeg9406
12 күн бұрын
Not Without My Daughter (1991)
@dikshaedythe6042
7 күн бұрын
Stoning of Soraya takes it a step further, also true.
@annagnr3002
3 күн бұрын
Yπεροχη ταινια...καταπληκτικη Σαλι Φιλντ...τρομακτικές συνθηκες,ζωης σε αυτες τις χωρες...οταν δεις αυτην την ταινια,εκτιμας την ελευθερια ,που θεωρεις ως δεδομενη..
@TFD-sn5nt
11 күн бұрын
She deeply regrets her decision 😂 that’s why Iran Law sucks
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