It never ceases to amaze me how family members are a fine and dandy with each other until someone dies. I hope I don't become a bitter, old, money-grabbing, hoarder. On that note, I'm off to make a will.
@roadrunner9622
6 ай бұрын
Often I feel it's a result of survivors not understanding one another's motives and rationale. Also people can be irrational, and not understand *why* you should get extra. Or they're just greedy and inconsiderate.
@turtleanton6539
Ай бұрын
Woof🎉🎉🎉
@mike-yo8qj
22 күн бұрын
"Death brings out the worst in people." - Watched a similar thing happen to a friend when his grandma died and the 5 children (his parents), began fighting over the ranch, because it was in a fast growing area in suburban sprawl.
@christinehopping5040
6 ай бұрын
I walked away from my father's inheritance (not a penny) while my half siblings fought and fought it. To this day, they hate each other. but all of them loves me. You will gain financial peace when you put Jesus first place not money.
@privacyplease1556
11 ай бұрын
The sister took care of the mom. The brother took care of the property. She did nothing and wants to get 1/3 of the value of everything. NO WAY.
@roadrunner9622
6 ай бұрын
I agree in principle, but the sister got years of free rent. Was she "taking care of mum" by wiping her butt and administering medication, or just by going out and getting the mail between Netflix binges? Did the brother actually add value to the land? Or just try to take advantage of it for his Hemp business? Questions like these need to be in the mix.
@julieann2315
3 ай бұрын
It's nice of the sister to do the care, but unless the mother wanted to compensate her for it, it doesn't really come into it. My stepfather cared for his dad, the thought that would automatically mean he got everything. We used to hear him carrying on to everyone that his sister did him over. Then I found out the father decided to leave a % of the house to his daughter too, and not leave her out.
@StrawberryFieldsNIR
2 ай бұрын
On the sister taking care of the mother, it could be that she had to retire earlier than she wanted, so that it did put her in a worse financial situation for doing that. The 'free rent' would have been cheaper than having an outsider come in and do it. It depends on a lot of circumstances. The brother building a shed was a bit stupid for sure.
@Jackie-x4u
Күн бұрын
@@StrawberryFieldsNIRyes, and she may have given her life up elsewhere to take care of mum, putting her life on hold while her siblings moved forward with theirs.
@adamseidel9780
Жыл бұрын
Laughed pretty heartily at the loopooooooong silence when Dave asked why they shouldn’t benefit more after they put money into the property and she didn’t. Figure out a fair value of the improvements, assign that to each respective party, and divide the rest evenly. That may be easier said that done, to be fair.
@dialac1
Жыл бұрын
Women are solipsistic. If a situation benefits them, they don’t care about fairness. They care about what will give them the most. That’s their nature unfortunately
@dano8613
Жыл бұрын
I would normally agree but it seems like those siblings took advantage of their mother and received their extra benefits before she died. It's far too common unfortunately. So I say all everything split it evenly and part ways, at least 2 of those siblings sound like they are greedy,manipulating scum. 150k to take care of your mother! Really? Scum!
@TheSubmissionChannel
Жыл бұрын
Who cares? Why should they CONTINUE to be parasites even after their matriarch died? If they wanted all of their investment to be theirs, they could have built elsewhere. They can go kick rocks. She should take a third of it. F 'em (it was their attitude when they were taking advantage of their mom)!
@MarksTournaments
Жыл бұрын
@@dano8613150k for adult care Is cheap my guy. I'm a firm believer in whoever takes care of the parent last gets the majority of everything
@alvinstreicker4579
9 ай бұрын
Is the hemp is the kind you use to get high or the edible hemp seeds you buy from the regular grocery store?
@dialac1
Жыл бұрын
I told my dad that I didn’t want any of his lands and property and told him to give it to the remaining siblings. A few of my siblings opted out too. The worst thing that can happen to siblings is to fight for property. It’s stupid and never ends well.
@Dreamprism
Жыл бұрын
My brother is getting everything from my mom. She doesn't have much anyway, other than a house that may or may not be paid off by then, and my brother helped her off financially more than I did, so I'm okay with this arrangement. It won't result in any chaos.
@auburnanger6679
11 ай бұрын
She needs to pay her family back with her 3rd. The sister caring for her mother should have monetary value
@cariwaldick4898
9 ай бұрын
@@auburnanger6679 I totally disagree. If the sister AND her kids are living on the property, rent free, then she's already been paid. That's over a thousand dollars of value she gains every month. If their mom needed extra care, then the sister should be reimbursed for any expenses she paid herself--like prescriptions, nursing, physical therapy, etc. They need to be honest about how much the sister really contributed--how much trouble was mom? If sis had to put her own life on hold, then yeah, she should be paid for that. Otherwise, no.
@ajalicea1091
8 ай бұрын
@@cariwaldick4898 I agree with what you stated. Dave even stated the same thing.
@SomeCallMeTato
7 ай бұрын
@@Dreamprism You are a good brother
@ashkrikorian5753
6 ай бұрын
Dave is correct on this. Take the total value, subtract what each person put in ie; buildings… and the divide the rest by 1/3. That’s pretty clean
@BlueDauntless
3 ай бұрын
If they can’t agree to that, then they just need to follow the trust.
@p.sherman3158
Жыл бұрын
Late 60s and her mom was still alive. What a blessing to have her mom that long.
@janelleg597
Жыл бұрын
depends on the mom.
@p.sherman3158
Жыл бұрын
@@janelleg597 true. Was just thinking about my own mom.
@goofygirl1311
Жыл бұрын
It depends on the health of the mom. If the sister had to live on that property and provide eldercare for 5 years that could have been as simple as doing the shopping, cleaning the house, cooking and making sure the electric bill got paid. But if the sister was providing bathing, toileting, medication management and possibly watching over a dementia patient that would be something else entirely.
@TrinidadBadMon
Жыл бұрын
Mine lasted until I was 18 yrs old . Single mom
@dasheffield5596
Жыл бұрын
Her mother may have had her in her late teens? People married young during her generation.
@vickiewilkins1579
Жыл бұрын
My parents died without a will. It was 15 of us. The State stepped in and told us that if we fought over our parents' property, they would sell it and split the money among us. We quickly came up with a game plan, and the property was split evenly.
@unfairsanic5089
Жыл бұрын
Split like you sold the property or you guys keep the property?
@vickiewilkins1579
Жыл бұрын
@@unfairsanic5089 We kept the land
@joeriveracomedy
Жыл бұрын
I take care of my mom. She and no one else owes me jack. I'm a grown *ss man with money & integrity.
@roadrunner9622
6 ай бұрын
I think it's fair to expect your siblings to contribute though. What that contribution *is*, is up to you guys.
@nickidrew5113
Ай бұрын
It’s definitely fair to expect that but sometimes one sibling is way more responsible than the others and or has better money management skills unfortunately
@danigirl103
Жыл бұрын
She sounds like the one being unfair. Her sister took care of her mother, her siblings raised the value of the property by investing in it, and her mom put her brother in charge of the will. Now she comes back after not being around wanting everything split evenly. If I were the siblings I’d get as far away from her as quickly as possible.
@goofygirl1311
Жыл бұрын
Those are good points.
@BearsBeetsBattlestarGalactica1
Жыл бұрын
it did kinda sound that way. hopefully she will take daves advice and let them get more from the property they put money into.
@Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries
Жыл бұрын
Daughter and all her kids got free rent. Son put a $50,000 building, not a $500,000. The trust is legally binding. I'm not feeling sorry for a couple of people fighting over $2.2 million. 😂
@goofygirl1311
Жыл бұрын
@@Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries And she never had to worry once about her mother's eldercare situation because her sister had stepped up and handled it. She is not the one having to worry about acting as the trustee. She is also not the one who had put her own money into the property, thereby increasing its value. She needs to be fair. It's better to accept a little less in a situation like this when all she's doing is collecting her share after the others have all put in the work.
@kokoskokso
Жыл бұрын
Yeah she kept on weaseling: "How do I put this.." (so I don't look bad.) "It's complicated." no it's not. Your siblings took care of your mom and her property while you were gone for years and now mom's gone you want an equal cut, and even to move in there! No way Jose, get a grip lady. Mom should've dealt with the situation better no doubt, unfortunately situations like these are not uncommon.
@lindawilson4625
9 ай бұрын
I love all your cohosts, but it's really fun when it's you and Rachel because she reacts to what comes out of your mouth like an adult daughter who loves you would!
@voidfroze
9 ай бұрын
Right? When he made the comment about Biden and she just covered her face 😂😂😂
@alladreamwedreamed
8 ай бұрын
The best pairing :)
@philipgerry5228
Ай бұрын
Rachel has no hesitation to disagree with Dave on occasion.
@heathbarzforpresident
22 күн бұрын
@@voidfroze that was the best part 😁
@lkj0822g
Жыл бұрын
Mom should have worked out the estate plan decades ago. It's not fair for one of the siblings to act as the executor, or in this case, the trustee, to sort out her mess. The lesson here is to talk with your children about this subject. There have been a lot of families torn apart when trying to divide an estate.
@goofygirl1311
Жыл бұрын
Probably when she created the trust she was taking care of herself and the property, there weren't all of these buildings being constructed on it and there was no need for her daughter and grandkids to live on the property "rent free". Obviously, things changed and the mom's health went downhill, some of her children got more and more involved in her life while the caller remained at a distance and let things play out. Now that mom has died, the caller just wants her even cut of everything even though her siblings have sunk their own money into the property and the one sister provided home care for their elderly mom.
@auburnanger6679
11 ай бұрын
I bet she was too sick or mentally unwell to update it.
@jillgott6567
Жыл бұрын
I took care of my mom and my two siblings took care of what little inheritance our mom left. She wanted it split 3 ways - however, it was split 2. I haven't spoken to them in years as they don't want to talk to me and I am good. If they, who did not help our mom can look themselves in the mirror - fine ! Because I know I can .
@kleindropper
Жыл бұрын
Imagine being in your 60s and fighting over inheritance
@stevenporter863
Жыл бұрын
Yes, imagine? A lot more common than you think
@goofygirl1311
Жыл бұрын
Imagine how sad their mom would be hearing her children fight over the home and land that she had hoped would be a blessing to them all.
@mominthe209
Жыл бұрын
They plotted on their inheritance from teenage years. They make poor decisions for their life thinking I’m going to be rich when I get my inheritance.
@stevenporter863
Жыл бұрын
@@goofygirl1311 Mom obviously didn't care enough to leave a comprehensive will that would have eliminated the confusion.
@goofygirl1311
Жыл бұрын
@@stevenporter863 She was old and probably a bit senile. She trusted her kids to handle things.
@Blitcliffe
Жыл бұрын
more reason everyone should get a financial advisor , i mean a good financial coach will let you know about "the need for will" and "trust"
@EdwinBoettcher
Жыл бұрын
Distinguishing between money management and wealth accumulation is crucial, and the absence of investment education within educational systems could be a factor contributing to individuals' difficulties in sustaining their financial growth.
@KimberlyFlores-kr1bz
Жыл бұрын
Agreed, financial advisors play a key role in portfolio allocation and i've been using one since late 2019 just before covid outbreak. So far, I'm barely 25% short of $1m ballpark goal after subsequent investments.
@BradleyMaurice226
Жыл бұрын
I've actually been looking into advisors lately, the news I've been seeing in the market hasn't been so encouraging. who's the person guiding you?
@Blitcliffe
Жыл бұрын
I'd recommend BECKY LOU GORDON. She is a genius when it comes to diversifying her holdings. You can verify her identity for yourself by looking her up online. She is well knowledgeable about the financial markets.
@BradleyMaurice226
Жыл бұрын
excellent share, just confirmed her page online after inputting her full name on my browser, she seems valid. very much appreciate it.
@975gms
Жыл бұрын
Caller: My mom recently passed away. Dave: She needs to have her butt kicked.
@ykciR
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@mistiinseattle
Жыл бұрын
crude
@jet4415
Жыл бұрын
@@mistiinseattlecome on, have a sense of humor! It is all our fate!
@edhcb9359
Жыл бұрын
@@mistiinseattleDave said it
@kokoskokso
Жыл бұрын
Dave: How much is her yearly income, does she have a car?
@Carry1996-wdw
Жыл бұрын
"It does not increase your probability of death when you do a will!" 😅
@jimleszczynski
Жыл бұрын
I love when Dave gets fired up. I recognize it’s not good for blood pressure, but it’s my guilty pleasure.
@ShelleySorenson
6 ай бұрын
I know. I just laugh and laugh. That is what makes the show so good.
@Todjcam
Жыл бұрын
It really shows how much you were “loved” when you die and your family fights over your spoils 😒
@TheFlyingZulu
Жыл бұрын
13:36 Knives Out was a great movie and a good plot twist during the "reading of the will" scene. lol
@eliza_kai
Жыл бұрын
Even without any assets, if you have children you MUST have a trust, will and advanced directive. If both parents die, the children are placed in foster care until the state determines who they get to go live with. In 50-50 states and with everyone on their 3rd marriages the new spouse gets EVERYTHING by default even if there’s biological children/grandchildren. Good ol California! My dads 3rd wife of SIX months snatched my dads entire estate even with me as the named beneficiary on his work financials. The only time a named beneficiary works is on a life insurance policy. All financial things will default to the spouse. My dad left a mess at 50 years old. He was healthy. Died very suddenly. The worst of all was fighting with the new wife and her five kids for three years only to end up with nothing. My dad kept telling me all she wanted was his money right before he died and he was right. Crappiset part is he probably did have a trust that she got ahold of. These aren’t filed anywhere so if it gets destroyed, or stolen, it’s null. This woman had just left my dad the week prior to his death. I believe he died of a broken heart. Can’t wait to see him again in Heaven ❤
@Junzar56
Жыл бұрын
I am giving my children and grandchildren things they would like now. Things like paintings, books, musical instruments, keepsakes. If these items are in their homes they will love family history
@pattyajones
7 ай бұрын
YES EXACTLY. But still get a Will and Healthcare Power of Attorney. Our kids are wonderful and know/agree with who gets what, but they don't agree with my DNR wishes. So, I put it in writing.
@Junzar56
7 ай бұрын
@@pattyajones already did it.
@genglandoh
Жыл бұрын
My mother in law moved in with us at the end of her life. She spend $20,000 to change our floor plan but them took that money out of my wife inheritance. All good but it assumes the $20,000 increased the value of our home which it did not. We now have to spend about $30,000 to put the floor plan back so we can sell the house. So we are out $50,000 and have not said anything to anyone. My wifes family are good people if we said anything they would give us some money. But they do not have very much money. We knew this going in so no surprises and we are OK with the decisions we made.
@polares420
Жыл бұрын
My mom finally died "5 minutes ago" so let's start fighting over the money! That's disgusting 😠
@ericakusztos3394
Жыл бұрын
She said 5 months ago
@polares420
Жыл бұрын
@@ericakusztos3394 no put subtitles you will see.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
Жыл бұрын
KZitem subtitles don't always get it right.@@polares420
@TheFlyingZulu
Жыл бұрын
@@polares420 It sounds like 5 minutes... but it was 5 months.
@polares420
Жыл бұрын
@@TheFlyingZulu It sounds like 5 minutes because she said 5 minutes!
@stephengamber7000
Жыл бұрын
"If Dave dies this year . . . ." Love how he doesn't sugarcoat!
@lauvasquez7198
Жыл бұрын
*Real talk. Mr Dave Ramsey. You can’t die anytime soon. Many of us enjoy hearing your wisdom*
@justinaacorn5721
10 ай бұрын
Yes Dave. Priorities for 2023 end.. 1. Complete a will 2. Be debt free 3. Go to the gym 3 times a week 😊
@kd1g130
10 ай бұрын
Hahaha
@mrsh2167
4 күн бұрын
be generous
@rdmineer1
Жыл бұрын
Little brother has to put emotions aside and specifically follow terms of the trust. Those who added fixed buildings also took value from the soil, essentially a trade. Without legal agreement pertaining to their additions, those additions are now part of Mother's estate. They just have to suck it up.
@purplecloud2828
Жыл бұрын
The hemp grower made money.Dave is wrong.Divide it evenly.That is the law.
@ShelleySorenson
6 ай бұрын
My dad said that a woman died when he was a kid in the 1930s during the depression. She had absolutely nothing, and the kids came in and fought over every table cloth and little thing she had. I always thought that was a good lesson.
@turtleanton6539
Ай бұрын
Indeed🎉🎉🎉
@smokinhalf
Жыл бұрын
It is sad that every where around me is now an apartment duplex or condo. This was once family farms. Once the old ones die off they just sell it instead of farming it
@drtij_dzienz
Жыл бұрын
Need more zombie farmers who will keep farming after they died out
@rory644
Жыл бұрын
No money in farming it’s almost impossible to get a decent living, most people who farm do it for the love and love don’t pay the bills anymore
@whatevergoesforme5129
Жыл бұрын
@@rory644 Plus unfair government regulations will kill small farmers in favor of the crony big food companies.
@rosalindlopez9719
Жыл бұрын
Tell it like it is, Dave! Get a will and/or trust, yesterday!!
@Coryraisa
3 ай бұрын
Yes!!!!
@lthage373
Жыл бұрын
My dad didn't want my siblings (his step sons) to know what he had and therefore did not tell them on purpose. It's caused problems since he and Mom have passed, but I totally respect what Dad wanted and how he handled it even though I am now paying the price in my sibling relationships.
@oraza66
Жыл бұрын
True..the loving and caring have different meaning!
@ThePolypam
9 ай бұрын
Your dad was looking out for you if his assets were there before he married your mother.
@PhuongTran-j9l2i
Жыл бұрын
My in laws have it all figured out. They tell us that there’s a box with all their paperwork and an attorney. My parents have not planned at all.
@davidsensing2664
Жыл бұрын
I am in financial services and I strongly recommend all my clients have a will in place. It amazes me how many don't. Also, have a medical directive in place!
@LKS92Y
Жыл бұрын
Not just a Will but life insurance is well. I’m the only person in my office (30ish people) with a term policy
@TonyCox1351
Жыл бұрын
A will wouldn’t have hopes this situation. She already had a trust in place on the property, the problem is they don’t like the trust. They would have the same problem with a will.
@davidsensing2664
Жыл бұрын
@@LKS92Y yep. By the time my term life insurance expires, my retirement account will be right at seven figures.
@9liveslisa
Жыл бұрын
I'd sell the whole thing and split the money equally and walk away.
@TheFlyingZulu
Жыл бұрын
The issue is the siblings put buildings on it with their own money so thus they 'should' get more of the money if they sell it... It's a screwed up situation for sure.
@Cathy-xi8cb
10 ай бұрын
Dave, you nailed it; the trust did not adjust for actions taken and the siblings took actions w/o consulting the others about repercussions. Stupid. Stupid for the trustee not to say anything. Stupid for every sibling to know about these actions and not insist on discussion. So, Much. Stupidity. Not all farm families are idiots, but these are.
@nedawilmhoff3599
Жыл бұрын
My grandparents were smart my Papa’s will said Mama could remain on the farm and when she died property and belongings would be sold and money divided equally among children. If you wanting something you could bid on it at the auction. It worked for the most part but one daughter stayed at the house and helped herself. Thankfully she was the only greedy one. She always was and grand mom always let her get away with it.
@elchapojr6219
Жыл бұрын
😂 love the last part when Ramsey goes on a rant wake people up man there crazy people out there just not listening I remember working at the bank I have seen messed up crap when parents die and all the kids cousins come out of the wood work 😂
@growingingrace1176
Жыл бұрын
We've told our family elders that if they want all the kids and grandkids to get along and not fight after they pass on, they need to legally document what they want to happen with their details. Period. There's a 90% chance that the kids all end up at war and the family becomes permanently broken if they don't!
@lthage373
Жыл бұрын
Having a will does not mean the kids won't fight. If they don't like their "gift," they're gonna fight.
@growingingrace1176
Жыл бұрын
At least everyone knows it's what the deceased wished, and you can deem it the last word. (But it's true and everybody also knows that the malcontent(s) will not be contented, regardless :-)@@lthage373
@cariwaldick4898
9 ай бұрын
@@lthage373 This is why they need to discuss the "gifts" while they're still alive. Deal with these disagreements before you throw in grief and confusion.
@BlueDauntless
3 ай бұрын
@@cariwaldick4898My in laws are planning a family reunion next summer to go over all of this with their kids. They have 17 acres and a house. But as they’re aging, it seems less likely they’ll be living in their home for the duration of their lives. So my FIL is wanting to discuss with the kids. He also updates them regularly on the maintenance of their land. All three kids live in different states. It should be interesting.
@Elboman11
Жыл бұрын
Ah, excuse me Dave, Jesus did die. That's a pretty important. Now the jury is still out on Elijah, I'll give you that one. Elijah just went up. I don't think we have the knowledge as to whether Elijah died on his trip to heaven or not. LOL. I Love your show just had to add my $.02 for once.
@whatevergoesforme5129
Жыл бұрын
Agree. Jesus had to die to rise again and defeat satan. The Resurrection needed death to be executed and that was God's WILL.
@Lon1001
Жыл бұрын
Caller sounds like she doesn't want to receive an inequitable share but then doesn't want her siblings to get their equitable share. When the trust says they divide the farm equally I don't think it means subdivide the land rather have an equal stake in the entire farm, but she seems to think it matters what part of the land has the buildings on it. I think its a lot simpler than the caller has in her mind, and I didn't hear any reason why they can't all sit down and figure it out.
@BlueDauntless
3 ай бұрын
I assumed it had to do with her siblings not giving her her cut. Maybe they’re trying to not give her anything when she’s entitled to a third. And she wants to live on the land but the siblings are having a fit. Just a few assumptions.
@roadrunner9622
6 ай бұрын
In our culture, we don't talk about death or money. And this topic involves both. If you do try to be the adult and insist on things being in writing or split up equitably, you're seen as heartless or a money-grubber. "You don't trust your family??" No, I don't. Because people can be irrational, unthinking, or just plain greedy. And I bet over half of the middle class is in this boat. What ends up happening is, the strongest personality gets to say how things go, or else a sneaky relative figures out how to take a portion and run.
@jcherestal
11 ай бұрын
I just love when people Who have no money in a situation have the loudest voice
@MillionaireHouseholdFinance
Жыл бұрын
This kind of family drama is always a challenge. As a rule, anything like this should be clearly defined beforehand to prevent complications later.
@jet4415
Жыл бұрын
These people moved onto the property after the trust was written, I’m sure.
@TonyCox1351
Жыл бұрын
It feels like this was clearly defined…mom clearly wanted the property split evenly. The problem isn’t in it being unclear, it’s just they don’t like the outcome. To me this seems like an easy fix…honor the will. Everyone is getting something for free, and they shouldn’t be complaining because someone else got more for free.
@mikederucki
Жыл бұрын
I helped my grandpa set up his will and trust. His kids fighting so much that the lawyer paid to do the execution of the estate returned the fees and walked away
@barnabusdoyle4930
Жыл бұрын
I saw a situation recently where the lady I met and her late husband set up a trust in the mid 2000s. Then his 2 daughters got him to sign a will where he left bank accounts, cars and a house to them. The lady (stepmom) is now in a battle with the daughters in court over the assets. I’m pretty sure that since all of those assets should have been in the trust, he wouldn’t have been owners of any of the assets when the Will was signed.
@aolvaar8792
Жыл бұрын
@@barnabusdoyle4930 The will would have been a "pour over" will inside of the trust. You don't have a will with a trust, the whole point is to avoid probate.
@BlueDauntless
3 ай бұрын
@@barnabusdoyle4930I just don’t understand this selfishness. My parents certainly don’t have much. A house, life insurance, that’s about it. And I don’t want nor do I feel entitled to it. My mom made it clear everything is split between my brother and me. (Which presents its own problem because he’s a drug addict and I refuse to help him kill himself with a lump sum of money. But that’s another topic for another day.) My dad and stepmom have half an acre of land. I have two step brothers so I fully expect all of their assets to go to them. I’m not entitled to any of it. I would at most ask for a few personal keepsakes, if they’re agreeable. I don’t need or expect anything from them. And I certainly wouldn’t fight my step brothers over it. Even for my dad’s assets. Again, a few personal keepsakes.
@pejisan
5 ай бұрын
My mother had a simple divide-it-all-evenly will until my oldest brother started talking to her about taking care of the inept siblings via her legacy. It has created bitterness, especially since these are the same siblings Mom has enabled their whole lives. They have taken and taken from Mom (and the other siblings) and ... thanks Mom.
@anthonyfalco2462
Жыл бұрын
It's not about what's fair it's about what's in the will. You split it equally and that's that
@BlueDauntless
3 ай бұрын
I don’t understand the issues either. Follow the will. Done.
@catherinewhitman8333
2 ай бұрын
What a petty thing to ruin your mother's memories over!!!! Just walk away..youve lived without it this long! Id rather have peace; than property that was the reason of bad feelings! My parents property and things , including bank accounts etc.. .will be sold / cashed in and split 3 ways...wete all happy with that ..if there's any arguments..I WILL WALK AWAY!
@stillwatersfarm8499
11 ай бұрын
If you agree to be a caretaker and expect compensation, then you ask to be paid upfront. Then when it comes time to split the inheritance, there’s no call to expect a greater portion. If you build a barn on someone else’s land, well, that’s just not very smart. If you want to build a house on your share of inherited land, you have to split the value of the land three ways, and then if the parcel you wish to build on exceeds your share, you have to buy your siblings out.
@davidschwartz870
9 ай бұрын
Wants to do right by god and yet she’s the one in the wrong 😂
@HB-fj3ii
Жыл бұрын
The property should be divided equally. It was the siblings choice to put buildings on the property.
@jet4415
Жыл бұрын
No rent, no food, no electric costs and using her car, her credit cards, too.
@turtleanton6539
Ай бұрын
Insane.🎉
@gerria2000
5 ай бұрын
My mother left her house entirely to my brother because he wasnt working and wouldnt get a job. He somehow ended up losing it. It wasnt paid off, but the bill was so old it was only a couple $100 a month. If hed had a job before that, could have gotten mortgage insurance for even less, and had it free and clear.
@andyg806
Жыл бұрын
It's incredibly sad what money can do to a family!
@romanumeralz
Жыл бұрын
It’s incredibly sad how stupid people are with their money.
@jimmymcgill6778
Жыл бұрын
And what was sad about it? She didn't say that they were fighting about it. Dave is just anti family. He may have had family issues growing up.
@BearsBeetsBattlestarGalactica1
Жыл бұрын
@@jimmymcgill6778 yep. she must have called in because everything went well and there were no issues.
@jimmymcgill6778
Жыл бұрын
@@BearsBeetsBattlestarGalactica1 She did not mention any issues. They were just lots of assumptions.
@BlueDauntless
3 ай бұрын
@@jimmymcgill6778Anti-family? Dave? 😂😂😂😂😂 Now I know you’re a clown. How is he anti family?
@sonjamccart1269
Жыл бұрын
My mom was concerned about being fair with her estate (she is still alive and well.) She has helped my sister financially significantly over the years. I told her that all three of us siblings have gotten help over the years, and I received financial help when I was getting my degree, and that is just as valuable as what she helped my sister for over the years. So it is to be evenly divided. She gave my sister and I equivalent executor duties, but my brother none, because he would not honor her wishes for certain things (he is a religious nut, and not in a good way)
@CrazyTobster
Жыл бұрын
Rachel is like "SO!" loud enough to stop her dad from talking!😂😂😂😂
@stevenporter863
Жыл бұрын
15:25 Rachel is loving Dave's rant😂😂😂
@LittleMopeHead
Жыл бұрын
I love when Dave rants about the government/politicians, especially with Biden and FAUCI!!!!
@asp6415
Жыл бұрын
Top moment 😂
@JessicaNewell-d2q
Жыл бұрын
Poor Rachel keeps trying to talk and Dave is on a rampage! Lol We get it, get a will! I too get frustrated with families who fight about this stuff, it is infuriating. Write it down. Get over it. It's called adulting. We all need to do it. I'm with ya!
@JoshuaEdwards-p4c
5 ай бұрын
Bible correction it was Enoch and Elijah that never died. Jesus did die, though He did not leave this earth as dead.
@lizziebeth5296
11 ай бұрын
There are 5 of us. I'm in my early 60s. My mom died 30 years ago. Dad is still alive at 89. He is of the opinion his will ....his finances...are his business as he is still sound of mind. He says his will is not open for discussion as it's none of our business until he's dead. It will be a surprise in the end, and probably not a good surprise.
@turtleanton6539
Ай бұрын
Indeed😊 he giftig it all to some cats😊
@cindy_lou_loves_to_stitch
Жыл бұрын
😆😆 You go Dave! Ramsey for President! 🇺🇸
@BlueDauntless
3 ай бұрын
He’d be better in congress to get them on a damn budget.
@Michael-jo9jb
7 ай бұрын
Love it when Dave gets fired up LOL
@minnesotachris7884
Жыл бұрын
We have a will in place for our kids, but we moved states a few years ago. I didn't realize it's state specific.
@aolvaar8792
Жыл бұрын
You don't want to transfer property by a will. Many States do transfer on death or Beneficiary deeds. Death certificates and deed will be at the State>> FREE transfer.
@HK-yn1vl
8 ай бұрын
You should always revisit your will once in x number of years depending on what life events are happening.
@tammyschilling5362
7 ай бұрын
I usually agree with Dave, but he's wrong here. Taking care of an elder is worth way more than free rent. Indeed, she may not have needed or wanted the free rent, but her entire life choices were dictated by caring for this person. She HAD to live there. And it's 24/7, heart breaking, and back breaking. If you haven't done it, you have no idea what goes into it. It's way harder than taking care of children. I don't know what the right number is, but she should definitely be compensated.
@roadrunner9622
6 ай бұрын
Yeah but was she wiping butts and administering medication, or just checking the mail in between Netflix binges while she sat on her lazy a** eating chips and getting free rent?
@MelindaJeffs-h2g
4 ай бұрын
Ummm, I take it that Dave is a mild mannered Republican.😂
@anabolic123
Жыл бұрын
The Biden joke was to much 🤣🤣🤣
@plumbingHVAC_sports
Жыл бұрын
Trump 2024
@froniccruxis1049
Жыл бұрын
It really got me too lmao. I am kinda glad that Dave tries to stop himself but he is funny when he flings political insults
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
Жыл бұрын
Is just as geriatric and senile as Biden.@@plumbingHVAC_sports
@pattyajones
7 ай бұрын
I am so glad Dave was "Well, kiss my butt" about the sister who wants $150K added to her inheritance for taking care of her mother. Living rent free or not, that was so wrong.
@roadrunner9622
6 ай бұрын
Imagine working for someone without ever telling them or getting a compensation agreement with them, and then years later telling them out-of-the-blue that they owe you $150,000. Especially after mooching free rent for years.
@fromdeathtolife2076
Жыл бұрын
I like Sharon! Money and no hassle 😅
@michaelpalumbo4880
9 ай бұрын
Who told the siblings to put money into the property? If the trust says it gets divided equally then tough shit it gets divided equally. What the siblings should have done BEFORE they put money in the property was to have changed the trust to reflect that they invested in the property and a split of the property commensurate with their investment.
@brad9092
Жыл бұрын
I like miss Sharon's idea. I just want money. Yeah. Forget that 9-5 stuff!
@naokihasegawa9243
8 ай бұрын
This is a lawyer problem, not a Dave problem.
@middleagedcrazy5297
Жыл бұрын
Oh lord! I enjoy listening to Dave and whichever cohost he’s with on any given episode. But shows like this one take that up a notch.
@tokenblkguy00
Жыл бұрын
$1500 a months worth of rent does not cover the effort of elder care. Especially considering she was sickly. I agree with everything else he said though
@stillwatersfarm8499
11 ай бұрын
If they wanted payment, they should have been upfront about it while she was still alive.
@calvinator2525
Жыл бұрын
Exactly this was such a good session. All it takes is some planning. And yes it’s going to be uncomfortable but grown up need to do this.
@elchapojr6219
Жыл бұрын
All jokes aside this is a really great episode if you were to pass what happens to your assets very good Ramsey I wish you show was more recognized by the general public
@theburnetts
11 ай бұрын
It's frustrating to listen to people answer questions sometimes. Dave and Rachel asked her a number of direct questions. I don't feel like she really answered any of them. Every time they asked her a question she responded with a story about something else.
@ieatkittenswspicymustard5089
Жыл бұрын
When I die I want all my estate to go to a tap dancing giraffe named Gerald.
@d.schmidt16
Жыл бұрын
Oh what a convoluted mess! Depending on how much or how little she needs any $$ from the property, her best action may be to simply walk away. Or, force a full sale and divvy up the $$ in various shares.
@kingshomes8546
Жыл бұрын
🚨Dave you right but actually it’s + or - Enoch and Elijah. Jesus actually died and resurrected on the 3rd day 😂😂
@georgewagner7787
Жыл бұрын
Lazarus twice
@tubenachos
Жыл бұрын
Rachel looks like she's bracing for the worst 😅
@stevenporter863
Жыл бұрын
15:25 Rachel is loving Dave's rant😂😂😂
@dmlagrange
Жыл бұрын
Figure it out or donate 33% to the bar association. It's that simple.
@rachelvaupel6915
6 ай бұрын
This is EXACTLY why I hate the concept of a shared family property. One person always ends up putting in the sweat equity to take care of the place, and everyone else wants to use it or profit off of it without contributing anything. It always ends badly.
@BlueDauntless
3 ай бұрын
Kind of like school projects. I’m still salty. In college, I worked with two of my friends on a project. My one friend and I did the most work. Our other friend couldn’t meet up so didn’t contribute as much. Come time for a grade, they gave themselves top scores and docked me. Despite the fact that I supplied the materials, out the effort in, and showed up. I can’t imagine fighting over my parents assets. Sounds awful.
@minnesotajames1
9 сағат бұрын
Good luck getting your older parents to create a will or trust. It took me 5 years. Now I've been telling my parents for years to update their stuff because they tell me "it's out of date". Literally.... years and years.
@johndone8045
Жыл бұрын
Just have them buy u out, there is zero chance u can get them sell it and split the money
@roadrunner9622
6 ай бұрын
My mother-in-law has a net worth of over $200,000, four adult children, and a history of making minor financial mistakes. She's 77 yrs old but doesn't want to discuss end-of-life financial arrangements, because "It sounds like you just want me for my money." This is after we've had a lifetime of ongoing relationship. We've demonstrated we don't "just want her for her money." We just don't want her to mess it up somehow and leave everyone with nothing because of some foreseeable error. It's possible to love someone and also not want to miss out on $50,000 due to a mistake. That doesn't make us money-grubbers. This is also after she had her own struggles with her siblings due to disagreements over her own mother's estate. So she of all people should understand.
@mrsh2167
4 күн бұрын
making a will won't stop her from losing the money in some scam or other poor decision
@chelsea2378
Жыл бұрын
Easier said than done to have conversations like that Dave. It's the logical and wise thing to do but a lot of people struggle with having uncomfortable conversations and avoid them. Once they deal with that fear and have the uncomfortable conversations it does make life easier down the line to avoid any potential conflict or money issues like this caller is dealing with in her family
@CrazyTobster
Жыл бұрын
I don't know about America but say it around £130 to get a will written, that's a lot of wonga if you need to keep redoing it.
@felixfruhauf4940
11 ай бұрын
@@CrazyTobster 130 for a 2 million property and peace between your kids? That's not even a rounding error...
@CrazyTobster
11 ай бұрын
@@felixfruhauf4940 Most people don't have $2 million bud. For many, a £130 bill could be a significant burden.
@alicelindborg5096
11 ай бұрын
Please read Being Mortal and The Conversation. Both are by knowledgeable physicians who have walked paths of end of life issues with close family members and sick patients. Worth your time. Will give you incentive to get the talks started.
@bigboyk1989
Жыл бұрын
The jim bob line had me dying guess it’s time to get a will 😂😂😂😂😂
@waynesbeenthere9681
Жыл бұрын
Ramsey assuming that 'free rent for taking care of an elderly parent 'is enough" is a steal for the family and the elderly loved one. . Ramsey is not factoring in true costs time and emotional investment of long-term elderly care.which this seems to be. Regardless, the family not having a game plan and clear boundaries seems to be common in our age where much wealth is and will be transferring from the Silent Generation and the Baby Booomers. The problem is only going to get worst. As to getting a will --- the will still has to go through probate court. Regardless- Ramsey is showing wisdom very emotionally emphasizing the need for communication. On a different tangent, the caller suddenly threw in a curve ball revealing that she seems to want a sizable piece of the pie when others had done a lot of work and tending the elderly mom.
@strqueen123
9 ай бұрын
Yeah I don't think the free rent is quite enough, but it sounds like the sister's adult children lived there rent free also. I still think yhe sister deserves something but not 150k.
@talex001
Жыл бұрын
you honor what the trust the way the parent had it written, it was her decision, once that is done if one of the parties wishes to give some back to another so be it, but if they don't all should honor it and move on.
@mr.lavander7145
Жыл бұрын
Dave is talking bad about a hardworking guy who grows hemp :(
@bellabobbybob3476
Жыл бұрын
This situation is so sad, taking care of mom and expect siblings to pay. It’s YOUR mom!
@L.O.R.DRecords
4 күн бұрын
Shit momma wasn’t charging them rent on them buildings on her property that got all profit fuck that split everything equally 💯✔️
@williamjones7821
25 күн бұрын
"GET A WILL". I'm not familiar with the COMPLETE story, but I have heard about Joe Robbie -- he was an attorney who owned part (or maybe ALL) of the Miami Dolphins in the NFL. I heard he died without a will, and the estate tax was so large, his heirs had to SELL THE MIAMI DOLPHINS to pay the tax !!!
@colemant6845
2 ай бұрын
Family Blood means Nothing... Law and FILED Binding Documents is all that matters when the "Leader Dies" Trust God... nobody on Earth. Family is usually a deep as air.
@trishahopkins8199
19 күн бұрын
Where theres a will theres a writ. My brother is the executor of my late mothers estate and the will hasnt been settled yet. My mother died 8 years ago and hes gone through the most awful process trying to settle the will. Everyone i suggest you read "BLEAK HOUSE" by Charles Dickens - its a real life lesson.
@StrawberryFieldsNIR
2 ай бұрын
100% probability of death in the human race, who knew?! LOL I have actually started talking to my father about sorting out his affairs, to see an estate planner (and set up a trust), because otherwise, it will be a big old mess that will take a year or two to sort out. Plus, don't like giving the government a cut, which he is onboard with. It's my main sales pitch to him.
@Beloved_Boahemaah
3 ай бұрын
10:50 “You’re gonna DIE!” 10:56 “There’s a 100% death rate in the human race plus or minus Elijah and Jesus” 💀😂😂😂😂
@talzumon101
10 ай бұрын
No... if your 18 and older you don't need a WILL... keep to finance have the legal stuff to the attorneys. By default most people (especially at 18) don't need a will... besides if your going down that path get a trust instead. Save yourself taxes and probate.
@janhatcher6991
2 ай бұрын
I keep telling my friends they need a will. My parents had one that was 30 years old. They didn't have their burial plans in place. They didn't have anything Vance directive anything I telling my friend would you please get a will and get a burial plan in place I'm 63 years old. I got mine about 20 years ago and I just did my will, about two years ago and what a relief even though I really don't own anything I still put one together
@sidehustlevikki1066
Жыл бұрын
True story. My mom worked her ENTIRE life at a nursing home and saw ppl die with out wills or either not be specific about what they want to happen and talks about how horrible it is and that ppl need a will. She has told us that she has a will but when I asked if she has everything spelled out in the will she said she is hoping that my brother and I can figure it out. 🤬I wanted to tell her how stupid that is. But atleast she gave me a heads up and I wont be disappointed. My brother and I never see eye to eye on things and I have already told myself when that time comes if there is any confusion or disfunction it will probably be the only time I will ever be a passive individual and just go with the flow even if we cant see eye to eye on the situation. I'll let him have more if that is what he feels is fair for what ever reason. But her whole logic seems pointless.
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