Grace used 'them' several times before Ash even said anything, so I don't really understand where people are getting this idea.
@JoBenny67
6 жыл бұрын
koutashinji True. And honestly, I like it when Grace just speaks naturally and doesn’t force the pronoun political correctness.
@missjul8
6 жыл бұрын
Our best pronouns are our names! No one can assume them 😉
@HLB313
6 жыл бұрын
JustJ8 it would be hilarious if they did! Hey, Brian!
@alexket3581
6 жыл бұрын
there's dead names tho! Calling somebody a deadname would probably be equal to that
@allisonh5491
6 жыл бұрын
grace using all the pronouns is a mood
@adrianz5614
6 жыл бұрын
@transwomen aresexistmen Nobody wants your terf opinions here. Why be hateful when you could just be silent.
@isaacs8783
6 жыл бұрын
@transwomen aresexistmen hush
@dreamflight6000
6 жыл бұрын
Pronouns, "that's what the people want."😂
@KayLeeTubbs
6 жыл бұрын
dreamflight6000 i was looking through the comments and saw your post I thought it was super funny. I also follow you and your families videos. Threw me off to see you ok this videos but it’s nice.
@froggyboi3273
6 жыл бұрын
I got top surgery last week so I have some advice too! 1. I had soooo much trapped wind after I woke up from the anaesthetic that I couldn’t eat anything without burping or vomiting, that was for the whole first day so just expect some discomfort in that regard? 2. Make sure you poop before surgery, makes life a lot easier in the long run 3. Button up shirts!! 4. Take the painkillers they tell you to take otherwise you’re gonna regret it lol 5. Hydrate yourself, you may have to pee more but it makes life so much easier being hydrated 6. Mentally prepare yourself beyond everything because you’re going through a major change in your life, it’s going to take time to adjust, especially with the pain you’re going through I hope some of my tips help someone, I wish I’d known a lot of these things before hand!!
@namelesswolf2625
6 жыл бұрын
And in contrast I had top surgery last week and I had none of the same problems as you! It's very very different from person to person, more than you'd ever believe. I have a sensitive stomach so i thought for sure I'd be throwing up after surgery but i was pleasantly surprised
@meadowrae1491
6 жыл бұрын
They might have put an anti-emetic in your IV if you told them that you have a sensitive stomach. I really stressed the nausea problem to my surgeon and he hooked me up.
@LpsAlex1534
6 жыл бұрын
froggy boi w..w.. WAIT THATS YOONGI IM SO HAPPY TO FIND ANOTHER ARMY BOIIII
@dancingpianist5314
6 жыл бұрын
BiasKookie Same
@dancingpianist5314
6 жыл бұрын
I'm 13 years old and my parents are totally anti LGBT and I REALLY want to get top surgery in a few years. But my parents don't even buy me a binder! Fml
@schizotistic
6 жыл бұрын
"what were they like?" *slurping noise* "ah ok."
@ShinjiSings
6 жыл бұрын
Regarding the question, why Grace usually says Ash instead of pronouns. It's something i do as well. My spouse is Nonbinary and they usually prefer singular them. However there exists no singular them in german. "them" basically is the same as "she" and my darling is afab, so it would feel wrong. That's why i started saying their name or "my spouse" or "my partner" when refering to them A LOT. I just prefer doing this then accidentaly outing them to narrowminded jerks or misgendering them. My 2 cents out. Don't know if its partially the same for Grace.
@emptythecan3793
6 жыл бұрын
Maik Sowinski actually people created some gender neutral pronouns. I looked it up because I wanted to talk about my partner at the time, who uses they/them or she/her pronouns, and also because I wondered if there was something I liked. But because German is more grammatically complex they were really difficult to use and felt super unorganic. Like, if someone in my life used them I would really try and learn how to use them, but for me personally they wouldn‘t be practical and sound weird? Because there are so many and not really a standard one, that is easy to use, and that even people outside queer circles can understand, like with they/them. Maybe we should invent a pronoun that doesn’t have to be declined! It would not only defy the gender binary but also grammar:D
@caleshe9246
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah. That's why I would want das not Sie even though it is like the equivalent of it
@ShinjiSings
6 жыл бұрын
emptythecan this would be great. But from what i could gather there isn't really something that most enbys could agree on. I thought xir was in discussion for a while.
@metracxx
6 жыл бұрын
It's difficult in German
@user-hf9sj2jv1w
6 жыл бұрын
It sucks that she and they are the same, I wonder if some non binary afabs or just non binary in general people don't mind it because the verb makes it different, e.g. sie heißt (she is called) vs. sie heißen (they are called) because even though we imply a singular they in English we still use the verb form of the plural they. Tbf it would be cool if each language could just adopt a new pronoun for 3rd person singular English because I know plenty of people who struggle to remember to use they because it sounds like they're talking about more than one person e.g. xyz *is* called rather than they *are* called and the equivalent in German/any language with the same problems (xyz being used here in substitute of a pronoun because I didn't want to pick one already kind of in use and I'm not creative enough to come up with something else)
@akkyz7177
6 жыл бұрын
Ash and Grace are so cute 😍 my fav married couple xx
@puppy544
6 жыл бұрын
mine too
@elizabethwolf5556
6 жыл бұрын
Same
@hannahmacdonald3804
6 жыл бұрын
Them and Rose and Rosie are the best KZitem couples by s long shot
@Accountnolongerused
6 жыл бұрын
Akkyz eww please no
@shmoopy4265
6 жыл бұрын
Sammeee they are so adorable together.
@bryntendo
6 жыл бұрын
Grace said 'they/them' multiple times before Ash said anything about pronouns, so obviously Grace does use pronouns whenever it's natural to do so... What do people mean when they say there's a lack of pronouns? =/ Obviously it's one thing to talk about someone to a third party, but when the person is right there with you and you're also talking to them as part of the conversation, it makes sense to say 'you' in reference to them or use their name when it makes sense (like 'well for Ash it was' rather than 'well for them it was' when Ash is part of the convo and right there, y'know?) I think Grace speaks quite naturally in terms of referring to Ash personally, to the camera, to differentiate, and as a third person reference. Shoving pronouns in for the sake of it just sounds weird to me, tbh.
@TopHatKitty
6 жыл бұрын
She was saying the pronoun "they" a lot in the beginning, idk what you are talkin about.
@leahdragon
6 жыл бұрын
I’m also non-binary and this video is awesome because I’m considering getting too surgery in the future. I’ve got a doctors appointment next week to hopefully get a referral to a gender therapist. I love your journey Ash. You’re one of the few youtubers who makes me feel like I’m valid as a non-binary bisexual 💕
@jaydenv8557
6 жыл бұрын
Haley Cooke same (though I call myself pan more than bi)
@Sicsen
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this!! I’m getting my surgery in two weeks and this was really helpful
@Illuminallie
6 жыл бұрын
Sicsen extremely ☺️
@saraho3938
6 жыл бұрын
best of luck with your surgery!!
@ryandohrn5938
6 жыл бұрын
That's awesome, congrats! One other big thing that I'd suggest is to have lots of really smooth, soft foods for afterwards. After my surgery one of the worst things I remember is just how sore my throat was from being intubated... Even the applesauce they gave me to eat before I was discharged just hurt too much. All of that, paired with being a bit nauseous from the anesthesia... I honestly more or less survived on vanilla Ensure shakes for a solid week 😂
@appliancessuck5581
6 жыл бұрын
Sicsen Freak
@zeusson6678
6 жыл бұрын
Make sure you rush order a binder with Velcro side on it, or a waist trainer. You'll thank me when your medical binder stops smelling nice. You need some baby wipes cause you don't get to bathe for about two weeks. Q tips need to be on your list as well as bactine spray, neosporine with pain killer in it. One of the back pillows with the arms should definitely be on your list as well as medical gauze, and the weird pillow looking gauze in you are having nipple graphs. Anything that weights more than a phone or a PS4 controller is right out the window. Your drains need to be checked and emptied regularly, and just over all don't think that you can wake up and go chase the world. Your going to stink, your going to want to have a shower, your going to feel like you have been hit by an 18 wheeler. But that first breath you take out of surgery with all that weight off of your chest is so worth it.
@bobbibridgeman8310
6 жыл бұрын
Best part - Grace describes zombie cooking then gives Ash "love you" eyes and kisses their neck. 😍
@bobbibridgeman8310
6 жыл бұрын
Next best: Grace - Why don't you ever call me... Ash - Noofulmooble? Grace - Yeah! Why don't you ever do that? Ash - I'm sorry, Noofulboogle. 😂😂😂😂
@loh.22
6 жыл бұрын
Ash sounds so much more natural than them/they etc. I didn't notice her saying ash too many times.
@calebreilly5562
6 жыл бұрын
Hey ash could you do a chest reveal?! I've been dying to see the results
@remi6656
6 жыл бұрын
Caleb Reilly they said they will when they feel more confident ^^
@ioanapopa2954
6 жыл бұрын
Grace did use "they" and "them" for Ash a few times before Ash brought it up
@indiajadeglennon3617
6 жыл бұрын
“ can I please have sweet potato fries...” 😂
@nickyschou4343
6 жыл бұрын
Grace seems like such a good and supportive partner. I'm happy for Ash. You are a lovely couple
@mxxpower
6 жыл бұрын
I got top surgery 2 weeks ago (DI without drains) and recovery was so easy for me! I still have the binder on for another week but i am able to reach for things, never took any pain meds or slept in a weird schedule. Even when I got home 1 hour post op I sat on the couch and watched tv till midnight and was able to get up myself and sleep normally. So my top surgery recovery was so easy I am v v lucky!
@hillyinseattle5630
6 жыл бұрын
I've been forgetting Ash's name, at a rate of approximately every 15-20 seconds, thus the frequent use is helpful. Wait it's Greg right? Nope, Ash. It's Ash for sure. 😉
@livbrooks4194
6 жыл бұрын
Aw I'm sorry your back was so sore! In future, put pillows under and between your knees! Also migraines, I get them a lot. Cold and dark is the way to go. Oh! And if you're sitting and your back is sore, sit on a pillow(if on hard surface) and if you're sitting on a couch or bed, put a pillow just under your butt, not all the way but enough to prop you up man a little forward. 👍
@rebekahcastro5430
6 жыл бұрын
Ohh boyyyy the pain the pain A little background: I have Ehlers-danlos syndrome, same as your friend Annie Segarra. The "pillows of varying firmness" suggestion is my liiife. I dislocate my ribs easily, and this has been especially true since my foot surgery (a fusion) on the 18th. I have had a rib dislocated for the last ten. days. I have two memory foam pillows, three extra firm, three regular, a lumbar support foam thing, several throw pillows, a body pillow, and a bunch of soft throw blankets that I can stuff into nooks and crannies, like under my neck. If I sleep the slightest bit wrong (the "right" way is a moving target) I will wake up with dislocations or a migraine. I have a migraine about once a week. I am so sorry you've had such bad back pain from the surgery 😢😢 I hope your pain is being treated sufficiently. If you have any questions that have not been explained fully, or pain that is new or more intense than normal, please talk to your doctor or nurses and advocate for yourself. Don't put yourself through that pain like you did with the bandages! I'll be honest, I have an extremely high pain tolerance, but I would have called the doctor the first time it felt uncomfortably tight. If I've learned anything, it's that unnecessary pain can be very dangerous!
@Goat.Cheese
6 жыл бұрын
Rebekah Castro I'm so sorry that you have EDS! I do too!
@rebekahcastro5430
6 жыл бұрын
Emily oh gosh, I wonder if we're in any of the same Facebook groups! Haha
@Bellencer
6 жыл бұрын
Oh hey, another zebra!
@rebekahcastro5430
6 жыл бұрын
Chloe Yay!!! Do you watch Annie Elainey?
@Scintillate9
6 жыл бұрын
I was reading this and thinking, “wow, this person just had the same surgery as my friend Rebekah! And also has rib locations!” and it took me a long ass time to put it together lol (hello!!)
@katie6384
6 жыл бұрын
Grace's collar bones look so good 😍 is that weird to notice? 😂😂
@kmatthedisco8778
6 жыл бұрын
Just imagine if u guys have a baby! That'll be a lot more zombie-ing and 3 a.m. sweet potatoes for grace😂
@sarahdominymusic
6 жыл бұрын
KM!attheDisco I love Panic! at the disco lmao
@katsmith3608
6 жыл бұрын
KM!attheDisco SHER
@ethelip5239
6 жыл бұрын
If ‘they’ is used as a singular pronoun, why would you say ‘they are’ instead of ‘they is’? She is smart. They is smart. He tells jokes. They tells jokes. If it’s going to be equivalent to he/she, let’s be consistent. Whadda ya think?
@kavitadeva
6 жыл бұрын
F pronouns. By the time it was 2 minutes and 10 seconds Grace had already said they and their at least 5 times. So I do not believe she kept calling you Ash as you accused her of.
@silverveganbrown964
6 жыл бұрын
I am getting a reduction, thank you for sharing
@luckylex8106
6 жыл бұрын
“That’s what the people want” lol 😂
@savannahn0383
6 жыл бұрын
Omg! Thank u! This lets me know what to expect a little more some day
@charleer8477
6 жыл бұрын
yeah Echo is AWESOME!!!!
@flootzavut30daychallenge
6 жыл бұрын
"It gets boring just sitting there." OMG I wish people would realise this with people with chronic illness, the next time someone tells me I'm lucky I "get to" do nothing all day imma Hulk out I swear. I know that's not the point of this video but thanks for being honest about that.
@lisajynx
6 жыл бұрын
I feel ya, I have chronic pain and chronic migraines. It's all so debilitating. There's nothing "fun" about "sitting around all day, doing nothing"!
@zaydenelliot9339
6 жыл бұрын
I'll be hulking out right next to you. I'm really adept at entertaining myself, but I really freaking wish I could do something outside of my house once in a while.
@Djoodibooti
6 жыл бұрын
Ash is OFFICIALLY MY NEW PRONOUNS. AS/ASH. THANKS.
@jazzyroly
6 жыл бұрын
Did y’all diy your headboard? Because I want it
@valeniricibar6644
6 жыл бұрын
Loved seeing this from a caregiver’s perspective, which you don’t usually see! You two restore my faith in humanity ♥️
@DOOMZIGGY
6 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your top surgery ♥️
@jesc8583
6 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 the people want pronouns!
@jacethebald8712
6 жыл бұрын
i love you both but what the heckie did you say in the outro
@gretchenlynn89
6 жыл бұрын
I love Echo!!! Amazing recommendation - all should go watch!
@Barbarauzore
6 жыл бұрын
I'm (finallyyyy) getting my top surgery done in less than two months and this video is helpful! I"m really anxious about having to sleep on my back. Thanks for the feedback :D
@HyperNovva
10 ай бұрын
Five years later, how are you? if you feel comfortable sharing of course
@fhn7734
6 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for sharing. Thank you❤
@jesusnazareth3575
6 жыл бұрын
If there was a vampire movie Grace would be the vampire not trying to be rude
@go-cm4rz
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus Nazareth A super cute and cool vampire though
@thatsocosplaycosplayer114
6 жыл бұрын
Aww you guys are so cute💖💖 It’s a doggo 🐕
@scheupoe
6 жыл бұрын
This is freaking cute, you guy on camera are so sweet. Hope this is close to real life.
@catlover2214
6 жыл бұрын
i should be doing my math homework
@TheBieber27
6 жыл бұрын
I definitely heard Grace use they pronouns for Ash several times before it was brought up.
@lyswenn
6 жыл бұрын
This video was posted the day before I got a mansculpting liposuction, and my experience has been similar! It's true that at first everything is too numb to feel much and it gets worse once the numbness wears off.
@treefrog101
Ай бұрын
Recovery from surgery is a lot of ups and downs. I had adenomyosis (disease of the uterus) cured by a hysterectomy. Oh boy. The two days, I was in pain of course but I was SO happy to be cured that it just felt like I got beat up *a little* It was Day 3 that was rough. The next week adter that, also rough. 😖 No energy. The body takes time to come down from such high stress and when you are down, damn you are DOWN.
@mikevanautgaerden2894
2 ай бұрын
So I'm gonna say some things I wish I knew before, but keep in mind I had periareolar and I live in Belgium so I'm just speaking from my experience. 1. All the youtube videos I watched had these reveals and so I thought I only got to see my chest a couple weeks post op but when I was in the awakening room just after surgery and I woke up my first instinct was to look at my nipples and I just did it. there were no bandages or anything so I could see everything. I only had to put two dressings and a binder on when I was in the recovery room with my mom. And even after that I was able to see my chest everyday because a nurse came to take care of it. 2. The first few days nothing was swollen, red or bruised but after a week the skin below my nipple started looking red and it hurt. I thought it was infected so we called the surgeon and I was immediately put on antibiotics and in the evening we went to see the surgeon but there were no signs of infection. He explained to me that they not only take away the mammary gland but also a ligament and that's what was causing the pain. He said that that was totaly normal. 3. Don't expect everything to look right the moment after your surgery. If you're like me you panic about every little change but the recovery takes up to three months, so before that don't worry to much about how it looks. 4. It's okay to take your binder off sometimes (if your surgeon told you so). The doctors did tell me that but I wanted to be safe and kept it on for two weeks before taking it off. Just take it off for like an hour and breathe. 5. This one won't be for everyone but it happened to me so it might happen to you too. My surgeon told me at first that I had to wear the binder for six weeks and I also couldn't exercise for that period of time. But after my consultation after my surgery he said that it was healing pretty well and said that I only had to wear it for four weeks :). I'm just saying this in case you like me are really not looking forward to wearing that thing for so long (mind you I had surgery in the summer, so not the ideal time to wear two layers). 6. Speaking of summer, don't be dumb like me and have your surgery in the summer when you have exams. I had surgery June sixth and my first exam was June seventh. I was able to post pone my exam but I still had to take an exam on June ninth. This put a lot of stress on me because I wasn't able to study much and I could barely get to my school. 7. If you had drains like me I'm just going to say it but that shit hurts so much to take out. I read somewhere that it feels tingly. It doesn't. I hurts so so much, but I found a trick to lesser the pain. Take a deep breath and when the nurse pulls it out you blow on the top of your hand. Also I thought the piece of drain that was in me was small but it's about as large as where it is put in you to your nipple. I don't want to scare anyone but I think it's better to know the truth than sitting in pain and complete shock after the first one and having to do a second. 8. Next the pain medication. Do not wait until you are in pain again to take your medication. Have a routine! That way you are never in pain :). 8. Lastly as I said I am pretty paranoid so I didn't move my arms for one bit during the healing process. So when I could move my arms above my shoulders again I wasn't able to because they hadn't moved for a month. You can't move your arms a lot but please do it a little bit, just make sure they don't go above your shoulders and you should be fine. Also when you can start moving a bit just take it slow like Cameron said in the video like for example don't start running right away but start with walking.
@caroldeaton619
6 жыл бұрын
God bless you both. Glad to see you're feeling better you two are perfect together. 😍😘
@katara311
6 жыл бұрын
I love the love between these two. It's so obvious, you can just see it. Everyone needs this type of love and support.
@kaydenstiles6743
4 жыл бұрын
I have a question about showering and being around water in general so obviously I know I can't go swimming like right after my operation cuz like obviously I'm going to have like you know the drain stuff and like the bandages and crap like for showering do I not shower or do I take them off for shower or what I do?
@NotPMHarper
6 жыл бұрын
I remember that outro song from, like, when my mother first got a Macbook and I liked playing around on GarageBand. Nostalgia hit me in the face.
@hads5279
6 жыл бұрын
The tubes going in freaks me out. The thought of having thick tubes inside me makes me wanna faint. I'm a giant baby. But I think I might want top surgery one day. Can a tube just fall out of you? Ugh that whole part of it just freaks me out so much. Like, I feel llight headed just thinking about it.
@amandawilkins2201
6 жыл бұрын
Now I need the magnets. NEED. Just for the clicky noise.
@mandybeighey
6 жыл бұрын
Yall have cute doggies.
@squid_melonnn
6 жыл бұрын
ASH AND THE DOG THO OMG IM DYING THATS ADORABLE😭❤️
@nexx1
6 жыл бұрын
I would say inviting Ash too because inviting them and they sounds plural to me.
@melisacaceres8740
6 жыл бұрын
"But i said in my brain: Fuck that, no, i'm a fucking trooper" That's such an aquarius mood tho
@Paperback.Rat.
6 жыл бұрын
I have a rhinoplasty coming up in December and I’m so scared but so so excited
@yutostinynipples2941
6 жыл бұрын
sore back? dude i had a back surgery and did i complain? no.
@deepray1133
6 жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much💕 you are both so amaziiiiing
@victoriar8284
6 жыл бұрын
Ash, I'm not trying to be rude but you interrupt Grace a lot.
@priscillalove_
6 жыл бұрын
They are super cute together!❤❤
@sagehuard1504
6 жыл бұрын
This video is so nice and informative, since Im considering top surgery one day! Good job!👍 Hope the rest of recovery goes smooth!
@Tenareful
6 жыл бұрын
Muscle tightness/tension is a whopper of a migraine trigger =/ migraine suck
@kayohaggard3150
6 жыл бұрын
My coworkers just say my name instead of pronouns because I use they/them and its easier for them to say my name and you cant misgender me if you call me by my name instead
@angiepie111
6 жыл бұрын
Grace, you are such a supportive partner. :)
@squiddyb0i
4 жыл бұрын
Who was your surgeon? You may have said it before but I'm not sure lol.
@TheEpicPlace
6 жыл бұрын
There's nothing on the end screen?
@julieannemichelle
6 жыл бұрын
I went to massage school and they say not to use your thumbs. The knuckles or sometimes even the arm. It might help your own discomfort while you try to comfort your honey. Good luck and please feel better.🌸
@sharkygames1473
6 жыл бұрын
6:59-7:18 i kinda feel like making a animated video of that..... idk why but i will....
@teddybear2338
6 жыл бұрын
Is the only reason u got sick because the bandage was to tight or will this happen to other people?
@girlsrule001
6 жыл бұрын
How come you both got top surgery I know you can get one and you don't have to be a transgender or transitioning but why did you both want to get rid of your breasts when there is nothing wrong with them say like cancer or something I was just wondering is all so please don't feel offended by my qeshtion and please people in the comments don't jump down my throat or be mean to me because of my comment I would appreciate it because as commenters we all have the right to ask qeshtions if we ask it in the most respectful way
@Ray-lk8gg
6 жыл бұрын
I don't think Grace got top surgery?
@elainasmith1700
6 жыл бұрын
The puking part and the nausea scares me the most.
@jamwise.gamgee
6 жыл бұрын
Elaina Smith if you’re going to get top surgery (or any surgery, for that matter) you can ask your doctor about anti-nausea medication! some doctors give it to you regardless.
@easytokeepquiet
6 жыл бұрын
same! i have a huge phobia of vomiting and when i heard that part i was like oh no
@On_the_Virgil05
5 жыл бұрын
I don't wanna be bored or stretch my scars
@niss519
6 жыл бұрын
Grace was saying “they” “them” and “there” the whole beginning of the video. She was doing just fine the whole time.
@lulucho5728
6 жыл бұрын
I had top sugery like 6 week ago with 16 years. I was the best and the same time most intimidating experience ever.
@dalyad4534
6 жыл бұрын
You guys are my otp
@annabelyates5219
6 жыл бұрын
"Guard your lil heart" 😮❤
@shamanism295
6 жыл бұрын
Digital drawing is hard! lol I love you guys you're both awesome never stop being yourselves, big hugs!
@TransKameron
6 жыл бұрын
I watched so many videos before my top surgery last year and that was helpful, so I know this video will help others! Although it may have been awkward because all 3 of us were exhausted, tired, and hungry....I was glad I was brave and said hi to you folks at the airport in Philly. Like I said in person, KEEP MAKING videos to help educating people. We all need more of your voices, stories, and experiences. Love from this FTM dude from Oregon ;)
@lumb4rjack441
6 жыл бұрын
Ash. Uh hey. I was wondering and does this transition mean that you will change your voice. Its adorable and if you have power over that I hope that you dont. BUT... that is your choice so I cant really say anything to change that. So... uh bye.😊 Sincerely, Jackie
@jenwalmsely
6 жыл бұрын
Jackie The Shoulder To Cry On Ash is not on any hormones so his voice won’t change any but if she decides to be on hormones we need to support his choice and love their voice regardless. It is cute though, I agree with that!
@lumb4rjack441
6 жыл бұрын
Jenna Walmsely thanks for making that clear. I will respect his choice on what he shall do with his body.
@jenwalmsely
6 жыл бұрын
Jackie The Shoulder To Cry On Thank you for being kind. Have a good day Jackie 💖
@lumb4rjack441
6 жыл бұрын
Jenna Walmsely you too. Bye
@cranepetty6839
6 жыл бұрын
Hey y'all! Ash's pronouns are they/them, just so ya know
@EvTheVeg
6 жыл бұрын
I had surgery 2 weeks ago. I wish I knew that I'd be so bloated after that I'd look heavily pregnant for the next 9 days 😂😂 For me the worst pain was having to take off sticky dressings and tape off. Personally I felt very little pain other than that. I stopped pain killers the day after, and felt completely back to my normal self (walking around my house and stuff) 3 days after. A plus is that my sleeping has never been better, I think because I'm forced to stay to still 😂
@brenmoyer4896
6 жыл бұрын
Grace is your hero!!! What a great video, thanks folks!
@icemholofficial9964
4 жыл бұрын
Hello watching here
@veritymarie7139
6 жыл бұрын
I love ❤️, your love, as well as the love given and received 😭me 👩🏻
@benson4549
6 жыл бұрын
I am recovering right now. This video is so true!
@chickadeea16
6 жыл бұрын
That end screen music was freakin’ amazing
@UndyneEv
4 жыл бұрын
So they can cook in half sleep? That is cool.
@jessielefey
6 жыл бұрын
Comedy specials kept me alive during my (not-top but p major) surgery. Srsly, keep your mind busy. The bad days are *so* long.
@chcraigslistad4camry
6 жыл бұрын
I wonder if "thee" would be an option for the pronoun? Not in the old sense (as a substitute for "you"), but adapting it... he, she, thee would make more sense to me than they, which usually refers to more than one physical person.... ;)
@lanelongmire7647
5 жыл бұрын
No offence I am confused is ash a man or a women
@karlafalk9567
6 жыл бұрын
Hi, i was just wondering a little (or actually a little much) your intro in the beginning, I think I maybe remember you saying that it wasn't you guys who was singing, but us! And I just love that concept, if I'm actually right, but I would just, maybe, I just really want to help and I don't know how to or where to send it, the intro... I really hope this makes sense, but yeah, I really hope you are both doing okay😊
@No-by7wu
6 жыл бұрын
Can someone help me with this. I keep catching myself and I forget to use people’s preferred pronouns. I really want to use whatever they want to be called, and I totally respect their identity, but I forget a lot. Does anyone have any tips on how to remember pronouns?
@jeremyduer3098
6 жыл бұрын
💕 I’m now 5 days post top surgery. I totally agree with the rollercoaster ride. Pain hasn’t been that bad, except I feel the stitches pull occasionally when I get out of bed or move too quickly. It’s s great reminder not to do too much too soon though.🤪 Pillows are my friends right now as well as my medical reacher/grabber. Especially for picking things up that I drop on the floor or can’t reach, as I have T-Rex arms. 🦖 Also, my back scratcher has come in handy as the ace wrap itches like crazy on my back.
@penguinpinata
6 жыл бұрын
my friends at GSA told me that when the GSA teacher wasn't at GSA and wanted to talk about me , she just went with my full name - not because of Grace's thing where they're just used to saying the full name - but because I use they / them and she was being an awesome teacher and being careful with my pronouns cuz she wasn't used to them XDD
@Mikazha
6 жыл бұрын
After Grace used different pronouns I was expecting Ash to say "back off with the pronouns, okay".
@danielg.2952
4 жыл бұрын
wakey wakey eggs and bacey
@seanmcguire7974
6 жыл бұрын
No,prescription pain,meds for,a,painful surgery like that?
@moochachaa
6 жыл бұрын
I do remember my back hurting so much, I was so uncomfortable. I couldn’t sleep on my sides and I’m a side sleeper. I hated every second of top surgery and I would never go through it again lol! Thank God this video was made for other people.
@abbyconway3259
6 жыл бұрын
Ugh, migraines are the absolute worst. I've had quite a few. I'm so sorry you had to experience one. In case you get another, the best thing to do is to go into a cool, dark, preferably silent room. Lying on cold tiles or wood is something I have found to be very helpful. Best wishes to you two. Lots of love from Ireland!
@paigelew
6 жыл бұрын
I noticed the pronouns way more than than Grace saying Ash's name ....I don't think there needs to be such a huge emphasis on the pronouns but that's my view of the video.
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