I have that feeling when with my friend. Keeping the friendship until stripped.
@Stoicphilosopherinsights
21 күн бұрын
Fact 💯
@Bkmdluli
21 күн бұрын
@@carolmack1751 That's why I have no friends anymore, got rid of them. Lessons learnt
@LilAbum742
16 күн бұрын
There's a few things I wish I hadn't told anyone about but I have to admit that I've been privileged for sharing with a friend that I have to wear nappies and he has shared his own personal experiences with pooping himself every time he has done so and has said that he really appreciates the fact that he has someone who understands and wouldn't tell anyone else which makes me feel rather special
@MrWarriorsMom
Ай бұрын
I'm guilty of it. I trust too much and tell them everything.
@GeneralTortlittle
27 күн бұрын
Me too bro, I'm trying to stop it
@user-nm8iq9us9o
27 күн бұрын
Lol guilty
@donna6165
27 күн бұрын
Restraint makes me feel so powerful. ❤
@fruitypopwhickle6806
26 күн бұрын
Yep. You're doing it now...
@kaosaefong2270
26 күн бұрын
guilty as " charge! 😅
@kimlogan1278
25 күн бұрын
2 things I TOTALLY agree with. Never tell anyone about your finances. You could be putting yourself in harm's way.
@anonaka131
21 күн бұрын
You can't hide your millions!
@phululwaphungwayo5152
16 күн бұрын
"Harm's way!?" How so? I need further clarification...😢
@solomonchau7725
15 күн бұрын
@@phululwaphungwayo5152If they know you have money or good job, scammers will keep trying to contact you via phone, cross connecting, text, What's App, Telegram, social engineering, gaining your trust, grooming, romance scam, sexstortion, kid napping, fake napping, misleading job leads, randsome, phishing emails, cold calls, or just trying to snipe you in broad daylight like Donald Trump.
@deed3583
15 күн бұрын
That's one thing
@PSYCHIC_PSYCHO
14 күн бұрын
@@anonaka131It is possible to hide one's wealth from friends; I am not flash, I don't wear expensive jewellery, only have one item of jewellery, a chunky sterling silver ring, with a large Emerald stone. I don't wear designer clothes or accessories, I don't look stylish.
@user-of4iq4vn9mAngel2Jeanie
29 күн бұрын
They take our plans and dreams away when we tell our plans or dreams.
@monicanorman4681
25 күн бұрын
Yes
@Michelle.Wilson
24 күн бұрын
For sure
@D2255
24 күн бұрын
They literally speak it out of existence when you speak it in( behind your back) Life and death in the tongue
@user-qg7xb9pk5x
23 күн бұрын
💯@@D2255
@Nzeru-ey1sh
22 күн бұрын
@@D2255 exactly.
@emilianocatapang8880
25 күн бұрын
As an introvert, I always keep it secret to myself so that they don't know what my next moves are😅 "TRUST NO ONE" is the ultimate rule, for me😅😊
@TheyCallMe_TC
13 күн бұрын
💎
@indridcold8433
12 күн бұрын
@@emilianocatapang8880 Trust no one. Depend on nobody. Keep a well defined distance from everyone, and you will be healthier, smarter, far more self-reliant, truely independent and more free than any social person could ever hope to be. In the past, if one was not social, you were destined for a short life. Today, being social is what shortens your life dramatically. It is very unhealthy and dangerous, as compared to isolation. Keep your enemies far and your, "friends," further. If you can avoid making both, you will live a long, prosperous life.
@emilianocatapang8880
12 күн бұрын
Absolutely right. In my past experience, I used to trust people so easily thats why I always got hurt. Being kind and too nice to them is what I always do for I know that that's the right thing to do but I realized that doing that will never be enough so I started to isolate myself from people. I set boundaries for everyone especially those "toxic entity"😂😂😂
@emilianocatapang8880
12 күн бұрын
I realized that when we get older, the more that we just wanting to be at peace and doesn't need to please everyone. Live by our own rules, as long as we don't harm anyone ❤️❤️❤️
@magicalindigoadult3838
12 күн бұрын
That hurts keeping it in I wa t support a d I know u do to people that don’t share look trapped and sad
@sandburgmartin7947
Ай бұрын
In this new age of entitlement, envy, and selfishness one needs to know there are many "frenemies" waiting to step on you to look taller.
@stacielivinthedream8510
Ай бұрын
Tall-Poppy syndrome!
@donna6165
27 күн бұрын
Envy…No one talks about it. Except Robert Green.
@Jonas_Albert
26 күн бұрын
CHRIST IS KING!!!❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@R73949
25 күн бұрын
That's why i don't make friends at all.
@user-ty2xv6xw8j
25 күн бұрын
I made the mistake of sharing when my husband recently passed away only to be ripped off, taken advantage of, and victimized. I learned that the hard way. Cut several ppl out of my life. 😢😢😮❤
@georgevavoulis4758
27 күн бұрын
I never tell anybody 1-Love life ,who you're dating or involved with 2- finances as money make people envious 3-political views on things 4-future plans
@pinkifloyd7867
22 күн бұрын
I tell myself everything and thats good enough 😊
@michaelkrull3331
21 күн бұрын
5. Religion, or lack thereof
@lukewilliams7020
19 күн бұрын
What do you talk about then
@mycouture1922
14 күн бұрын
@@lukewilliams7020 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 THA.....WEATHER !!!!!! TV - SHOWS !!!!!!!! CARS !!!!! CLOTHES !!!!!! SOMETIMES - NOTHING !!!!!!!!
@Anonymous-tx6ef
12 күн бұрын
@@michaelkrull3331you are definitely not a Christian or Jehovah witness. I'm not judging you.
@neurogenesis9179
24 күн бұрын
This was the perfect voice for the narration. It makes it more serious
@katbow5922
25 күн бұрын
Agreed !! Even the best of friends can become your enemy
@Certez2
13 күн бұрын
Maybe "the best" yes, but not "the true" one
@katbow5922
13 күн бұрын
@@Certez2 I agree....true friends are hard to come by
@estrelltungpalan7629
10 күн бұрын
Agreed..I had my experience very bad so much inggit na Kabayan at kabatch ko pa.God bless them and me LORD.Not only one but many of them.🙏
@epifanioesmero536
26 күн бұрын
Friends are future enemies!!😅
@R73949
25 күн бұрын
But some idiots need lessons so they can understand
@yellowguy4004
25 күн бұрын
Things you should never tell anyone. Not a damn thing. Trust no one period.
@ColleenLytle-sq8tx
22 күн бұрын
It's taken me 68 years, but I've learned to trust - it has to be by watching their behavior over time. I pay attention (not to what they say) to how they show up. Be careful with whom you share yourself with, especially financially - that's what the stinkers are aiming for. The consequences of not paying attention could cost you everything.
@lindas343
21 күн бұрын
@yellowguy. Yeah that's me as well. I trust no one.
@KPark-hn8jf
21 күн бұрын
Can you tell me this though??. Are you really yellow?!.
@viqtorchewinner
21 күн бұрын
What a lonely life
@IamParalegal
21 күн бұрын
That’s actually Scriptural.
@motormouthalmighty
26 күн бұрын
that voice is so serious and frightening!
@joelfrombethlehem
24 күн бұрын
A. I. (Artificial Intellengence)
@JasonMarano
23 күн бұрын
Teach u a lesson
@motormouthalmighty
23 күн бұрын
@@JasonMarano lessons?that's the only problem.we never learn do we?
@naturalbeauty4734
9 күн бұрын
🤣😂👏
@jooje100
26 күн бұрын
Should never, or, shouldn’t ever! Not shouldn’t never!
@bambina3148
21 күн бұрын
Yep
@wattycuffee5664
21 күн бұрын
Yup, double negative.
@kathymayes4290
17 күн бұрын
Drives me mad, all the grammatical errors nowadays.
@Nosferata138
16 күн бұрын
Now you went all triple negative. I don't know what to think anymore...
@coldspell8676
14 күн бұрын
Now you shouldn’t never say nutin bout dat, ya hear 👂
@twilighttime952
27 күн бұрын
The use of the double negative is doing my head in.
@ceceoo3
25 күн бұрын
Yes! I had to get past that before watching the video😂 but I'm glad I did. .......they need to fix it though lol
@chriper77
25 күн бұрын
Actually, 'things you shouldn't never tell anyone' - actually means things you should tell people. It cancels itself out. It should be 'shouldn't ever' lol
@pardonmyfrench4760
23 күн бұрын
Haha beat me to it! It's so funny when people try to be smart and enlightening, but little things like this makes everyone laugh at them
@clevelandsavage
21 күн бұрын
You shouldn't have told anyone about that, now they're going to use it against you.
@deed3583
15 күн бұрын
Thank you! Thought I was the only one
@elenitapangilinan2975
27 күн бұрын
Yes,I learned from it. Unknown enemies attacked.
@maclac48
24 күн бұрын
I can relate to what is being said here, & it’s something that I practice regularly. I like to keep my business between me, & the Lord. Everyone doesn’t have your best intentions at heart, & do not want to see me succeed, & they definitely don’t want to see me doing better than what they’re doing. I pray for these competing individuals. 🙏🏿
@gulamahmed4773
Ай бұрын
Learned 😂 this the hard way
@dougbrown7023
26 күн бұрын
Same as of only yesterday. Person I thought I could trust decided that it was their job to speak to someone on my behalf 😮😢. They only stirred the pot and spread discourse and strife instead of letting me speak to the person myself in love and wisdom. I forgave them but will be guarded from now on. Happy 4th of July everyone. Have an awesome day and may God bless you
@GameN3rdz
24 күн бұрын
@@dougbrown7023👌🏿
@ssmoothe2000
Ай бұрын
So stay to yourself. 😂😂 noted.
@patrickchineduikogwe4075
Ай бұрын
From personal expieriences,it is very very true. How I wish I knew aboit Stoicism 40 years ago.Thanks a lot.
@Indigochildwithin
22 күн бұрын
Patrick..me too,I have always been a chatty Kathy,shared everything to anyone that asked me. Now I keep certain things very close to my chest....if I say anything...its because I want them to know...😅😅 youbtibkniĵ7h97gĝ
@TC-1985
22 күн бұрын
Same Here..I Wish I Knew This 40 Years Ago Also...
@karinodendaal5277
27 күн бұрын
I agree we need to be careful with whom we share
@ingridbergman-vz7go
25 күн бұрын
Totally agree. This is the exact advice I give the young ones in my family.
@shjh798
26 күн бұрын
Don't tell any one your plans ❤ They can't hurt what they don't know ❤ I have finally stopped telling my family and friends my plans. They always ruin it with magic. My step dad got so mad when I didn't tell him my plans that he got so mad and almost switched off the Xbox.
@rc1952
21 күн бұрын
A child gets to the age of realising they need to keep secrets round 15 on average. It would vary widely. For me it was 15. Pretty average. I knew it was a thing because one parent got angry with me. I was starting to be my own adult person and set up my own personal BOUNDARIES
@MI6-W
4 ай бұрын
Proverbs 16:28 (NKJV) A perverse man sows strife, And a whisperer separates the best of friends.
@asmith8898
26 күн бұрын
...kind of like expecting the NKJV to not dilute the word of God.
@dalehood1846
23 күн бұрын
@asmith,. Some Versions of The Bible are easier to read for some people than others. I have read King James and NIV versions. I went back to King James version when I found out missing verses in NIV. For me, I prefer it.
@asmith8898
23 күн бұрын
@@dalehood1846 it's all english. If one cannot understand kjv then they will never understand the things they need to. People who are slow just need to overcome being slow
@yolandaz2706
28 күн бұрын
Excellent advice🙏 Thank you & God bless you for posting🙏💜🙏💜🙏
@arthurgames9610
20 күн бұрын
My father always told me the 2nd one. He himself always pretends to have way less money than he actually have for anyone else.
@user-bp3wu4uf2m
4 ай бұрын
Surely, perfectly said 🏅
@lynroyfrederick8928
21 күн бұрын
So true Never Tell anyone about your personal Thigs That's why I drop all FRIENDSHIP.
@desiree6256
27 күн бұрын
But yet you STILL do tell and teach so THANK YOU FOR THAT 😌
@emmettmckenna4565
26 күн бұрын
You shouldn’t never use a double negative!!! 😂
@notesencantos
24 күн бұрын
I was wondering what they mean by shouldn't never. That you actually should?
@pardonmyfrench4760
23 күн бұрын
The fact that so few people are catching this worries me...
@ArnoldTupas-oc3bk
23 күн бұрын
I am guilty of it. I was robbed of the best opportunities that came my way. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
@Stoicphilosopherinsights
22 күн бұрын
Another better opportunity will come but this time you are wiser. Guide it jealousy 👌
And (to me, anyway lol😊) implies that one should always tell whatever… Depending upon how literal the reader gets…
@dereckmearns4596
25 күн бұрын
Absolutly correct.
@dayanNFNF
27 күн бұрын
Im 23 n fr I experience this thing even there r some persons who r thief of future dream it's definitely true unless ur make it never tell our plans do it let they watch it
@son2495
24 күн бұрын
Couldn’t be more accurate 🙌 learning after decades of sabotage ❤🙏
@NobleLady2024
16 күн бұрын
Don’t tell some family either. Family can be one’s worst enemies.
@sportzrunner
25 күн бұрын
Having studied psychology and sports medicine I can help people by combining them with nutrition to balance their bodies. This is what I do as I feel it’s what I’ve spent many years learning and it’s only right to share it. I only do it when I feel I have experience to help. I enjoy helping but thats my extent I used to be very private but after having identity theft for the past few years do I have any privacy anymore? But it don’t mean to make it worse either. Personal ideas and plans should be kept shared with only those you trust and for me I’ve been cyber stocked for a gray number of years so there goes that. But finally it all has to end sometime! KABOOM! 😊
@pardonmyfrench4760
23 күн бұрын
Sure, you studied something, lots of people study things. But do you hold any credential that says you understand and demonstrate mastery of said content?
@stevenmorganofficial5696
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the information 💯
@KristinaBergkvìst
25 күн бұрын
All this very true. Thanks..🦉🦅🦅🦅 .
@kristofertogun9688
Ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY DISCRETION IS THE BETTER PART OF VALOR
@stilesjohnson1745
24 күн бұрын
A friend today can be an enemy tomorrow.
@shonevans2563
19 күн бұрын
So can family who do ya trust 😅
@stilesjohnson1745
19 күн бұрын
@@shonevans2563 No one
@user-lf7fd6mp4r
27 күн бұрын
YES ITS SO TRUE, AMEN, YES THANK YOU FOR THIS LESSONS WE HAVE TO LEARN, AMEN 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@LaDonnaShielded-kc7zm
28 күн бұрын
Shouldn't never is a double negative
@prameelarajakumaridasari3142
24 күн бұрын
This was the perfect voice for the naration . It makes it more serious 🙏.
@NanaBanana-bb9wc
26 күн бұрын
Thank you, very great things I learned the hard way ❤
@lewissearson5760
25 күн бұрын
(shouldn’t never?) either put (should never) or (should not ever) such wisdom
@DragonGoddess18
4 ай бұрын
This is pretty sound advice I hope more people will hear this
@user-ph4ct5iv9q
Ай бұрын
Truth is Truth FOREVERMORE
@MalkuthEmperor
Ай бұрын
Its poetic and i like it, but its totological ( which isnt bad, just its circular so it doesnt offer us what truth is) A tree a tree forevermore xd
@MalkuthEmperor
Ай бұрын
Thing with future plans is that some of us( me) tend to not want to do the plan of i share it most of the time, idk why tbh, it just becomes that much less motivating to me, i heard huberman talk about how talking about plans secretes the same dopamin that youd get then you were actually doing the goal, but thats as much as i remember and understand from that explanation. Exceptions to this are, plans with people im actually working with, and telling people the imediate next steps of the plan. So if i tell someone my next two steps it wont be a problem, but if i tell them the final outcome i want to attain, than is when motivation drops. Tho even if im working with someone, it can sometimes become a problem, especially if the other person needs be get motivated by me but doesnt also try to motivate me . By motivate i mean, making progress by themselves, and then asking for me to either give me feedback, and to continue building off of what we have, or i suppose to brainstorm if we just started. Thats about as much as i need to get motivated, yet what i find disapointing is that that is rarely dont by people i work on side projects with. But lets not get in to my complaining😂 Have a good day
@leoninebenit2595
23 күн бұрын
I agree! Loose lips sinks ships!😅
@shantemoore6265
26 күн бұрын
Noted. Number one has been my experience. ✅️
@mehere337
21 күн бұрын
These men all look very STOIC!
@abigailbosibori2510
26 күн бұрын
Very very very true
@gerrimiller3491
20 күн бұрын
Observing more than discussing personal matters means keeping your peace😊
@oldmate9650
20 күн бұрын
I wish my grandma was still here to show her this. I let her down because I trusted my uncle. The unknown enemy
@N.gVanUytrecht
19 күн бұрын
I Strongly Agree With This, Thankyou Sourse For Your Wisdom Amen
@nicoldavis-johnson7080
22 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this information. Something that needs to be heard.
@Nizzle69
10 күн бұрын
a true friend listens and encourages you.
@angieford6012
21 күн бұрын
I am such an open book, the leeches all come out of the wood work when I am excited about all the things you explained that has happened to me!..learning my lesson though, thankyou to your explanation.....👍💝
@CaryFenelon
Ай бұрын
A double negative is confusing. Do we or don't we?
@pardonmyfrench4760
23 күн бұрын
I think he wants us to tell everyone this list of things...?
@myrabyrd3522
18 күн бұрын
I learned that the hard way!!! BUT GOD‼️thank you Father!!! For Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding🤗💝🕊💝MB
@natalieclairezaloumis2174
9 күн бұрын
May discernment & discretion be a strength in my life LORD ❤
@kingtank4679
19 күн бұрын
THE" BEGINNING" IS MOST DEFINITELY!!! THE" TRUTH!!! PERIOD!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@shanenephilim2727
22 күн бұрын
Number 2 is absolutely essential, when I started doing financially well for myself the leeches came to me.
@carriearmstrong7939
16 күн бұрын
Yup! Move in silence ❤❤.. Amen!
@ev.adelemandagie4589
24 күн бұрын
I have been open to everyone all my life. This is good advice.
@whiterodman
26 күн бұрын
I'm guilty. I'm getting better since I've started studying stoicism.
@tanishamcdonala3181
25 күн бұрын
the wealth of the wicked laid up fit the justice bless the chosen ones reacting amen hallelujah hallelujah amen hallelujah glory yes lord thanks lord hallelujah! my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge amen
@Anta2790
4 күн бұрын
Absolutely positive communication 💯💯💯💯💯🎯‼️
@jthacker3585
14 күн бұрын
Very True. At times those we call friends turn out to be an unfriendly friend masquerading as a friend. Sure, carefulness is the key.
@AworotiJan
11 күн бұрын
I am guilty of My self. I have been robbed in my hold been.thank you for the education may God bless you.
@derricksmith3614
25 күн бұрын
The 🐟 who never bite the 🪝 never gets caught!
@edwardEyap
11 күн бұрын
YES, Sir...I thank you for that Great advise.💝
@kabontsimorekisi6136
23 күн бұрын
100% true 👌👌thanks for the information . Dear God help us to be aware every time to protect what's happening in our lives so that our future plans, financial information etc may not fall on the hands of wrong people and it will be known by others. Help us my Lord to be very careful in everything in Jesus mighty name I pray AMEN ❤🙏🙏
@Stoicphilosopherinsights
22 күн бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@one23itsjustme
14 күн бұрын
I needed this advice in the 90s.
@jewelljoyner3723
20 күн бұрын
Very true I had a friend asked me how much you have in the bank. Butt, never told me how much he has in the bank.
@yukiannie666
8 күн бұрын
infairness...following tips from videos like this really improved my life 💖💖💖💖💖
@Stoicphilosopherinsights
8 күн бұрын
👌🙏
@drewskiwest5284
20 күн бұрын
SO TRUE about NEVER SHARING FUTURE PLANS because literally E V E R Y single time I've shared my "plans" about ANYTHING, something has gotten in the way - not someone but the universe flat out caused those plans to NEVER happen.
@Vishfeast
15 күн бұрын
It's important to remember that people will value gossip and spill the tea on your personal life, just for the fact to fit in. You should not keep all of your plans to yourself, but learn to find people who have honor and cherish your friendship. If you never bounce ideas off people without experience, you may set up unrealistic expectations and set yourself up for disaster.
@Peter-gv6vf
22 күн бұрын
I was brought up to believe never tell a friend a secret so you cant fear him if he becomes your enemy.
@Stoicphilosopherinsights
22 күн бұрын
💯💯💯
@SadhanaMahajan-jm2nf
24 күн бұрын
I failed to hide and they ruled and ruined me
@RedRose-uw9bo
11 күн бұрын
Brilliant advice thank you❤❤❤
@lindam.2739
20 күн бұрын
Absolutely Correct....it's called WISDOM!
@lindam.2739
20 күн бұрын
And I may send these EXCELLENT Stoicism videos to Pres TRUMP ASAP. 😊
@user-wg8we4yz4j
24 күн бұрын
Just go on. You're gut. Feeling that you get and have felt earlier in your life. ❤
@TC-1985
22 күн бұрын
I've Learned This The Hard Way As Well .
@user-zw9ki6lk5t
20 күн бұрын
Remember the same people who can be your friends have the dual ability to be your enemies as well
@xhakazulu8424
2 күн бұрын
Love your teachings
@Stoicphilosopherinsights
Күн бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@rosalinqcruz6346
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing . God bless you.
@masterprophet8378
22 күн бұрын
High wisdom!
@ofeliagobangco6925
Ай бұрын
Yes, thank you for sharing
@mrpink6022
22 күн бұрын
KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER........
@PirLawAssociates
22 күн бұрын
A deep view into Mechiavelli intuitions. Perhaps... Well no dislike of the video. Loved it.
@user-xo3kr5yd1p
Ай бұрын
❤😊👏😇🙏 Amen and Amen
@MalkuthEmperor
Ай бұрын
A man, and a man, walk into a chirch..😅
@ekeko_
5 күн бұрын
The perfect stoic : " ."
@Julie-wk7vo
23 күн бұрын
It's not, "things you shouldn't never tell anyone". It's,"things you shouldn't ever tell anyone". Words of wisdom?
@Victor-vo9vh
14 күн бұрын
That's where introverts excel so much 😊
@magicalindigoadult3838
12 күн бұрын
No that’s why they are depressed they need support
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