Can already see your personality and sense of humor shining through in this video a lot more, and it's really refreshing
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
hell yeah B) thx
@whatpageareyouon
Жыл бұрын
I turn 29 tomorrow, and feel a little pressure at wondering if I did anything of note with personal growth in my 20’s at all, or at least feeling the pressure of even if I feel any differently mostly since my early 20s. Reading, also, feels like a conscious activity my body is noticing I use to sometimes distract myself from my own life, and I think I sometimes morphed that into a weird sense of productivity, trying to jumpstart my personal growth a lil more. I definitely feel a lot better when my space is refreshed like you tackling your spring cleaning. Thanks for sharing with us, and for the TW:Sincerity LOL. Glad you’re with us, Pato! 💫 PS: would love a buddy read sometime, whenever ya feel it! : )
@kuramaruki
29 күн бұрын
Всю жизнь я восхищаюсь искусством и творческими людьми. Фильмы, книги, картины, видео на ютубе, да что угодно, всё это окружает меня и даёт мне силы жить и наслаждаться жизнью. Я хочу связать свою жизнь с этим, но не знаю как. Спасибо за отличное видео эссе на тему доступного искусства. Написал комментарий на своём языке потому что my English very bad
@SildaTwinton
Жыл бұрын
i have struggled so much this year with using any form of escapism (books, film, podcasts, games, etc etc) to distract myself from my current reality, hearing someone else express similar emotions was something i didn't know i needed. thank you for being vulnerable, i know you'll be able to find a balance that works for you and seeing another person confront that gives me hope that i can too :)
@bibliosophie
Жыл бұрын
I feel this so hard -- I spent 2022 reading like a fiend in a desperate attempt not to think/feel. and I've come up with similar goals of slowing down and having more buddy read interaction 🖤
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
great(?) minds think alike haha, that reminds me i have to talk beale street w you soon i forgot!
@booksthehausdown
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing where you’re at, sending some love your way. Also, what a good Marvin album you picked up!
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
felt better just making the vid & putting it into words yesss i’ve been listening to it so much lately i’m stoked to own it
@emarigo
Жыл бұрын
hii thank you for being so vulnerable, i know it must probably take a lot of courage. just wanted to say ur absolutely not alone in feeling lost about urself especially at your (our) age i think everyone’s kind of going trough stuff like this (not to discredit ur struggle, just to let u know ur absolutely not alone this). the more i talk to people about my problems the more it feels like everyone literally goes trough the same stuff💀 basically we r all kinda lost and its okay! love ur vids lots, always feel v excited to watch when i see u put one out. love from prague!:)
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
thank you so much ema!!!
@queen0fasgard
Жыл бұрын
thank you for the update pato! you of course aren’t obliged to share with us but those feelings are those that some of us (me fr) can relate to! also you absolutely slayed the book organization :) i hope you have a wonderful week ahead pato!
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
thnk uuuuuu
@aaubreyy
Жыл бұрын
really love seeing more of you and your personality and lil bits of humor, you’re quickly becoming one of my fav creators. also i clocked that olga togarchuk! it’s one of my fav books and i hope you like it!!
@ssongpyeon
Жыл бұрын
take good care of urself pato! I’ve been struggling with feeling like shit too, and im sending u lots of love, from one lost person to another ❤️ and pls don’t be pressured to share a lot of ur private life here!! u deserve a lot of things, and privacy & wellbeing r two of them haha
@carlylongman8974
Жыл бұрын
I love watching sorting
@aytanitamamasita
Жыл бұрын
nah, keep being sincere, it’s like when you read a good book, you feel this connection. This video creates the same feeling of connection i guess? (a little cheesy but you get the point 😀) Loved your humour and thoughts and especially the book collection)
@TheBarandtheBookcase
Жыл бұрын
relate to this heavy, in many ways! would love to buddy read with you whenever you're down! sending much love ❤v grateful for you and your channel!!
@nooble5945
Жыл бұрын
Life is full of flaws, and you’ve experienced a lot of them from what it seems. But these flaws aren’t what makes our life. They get in the way sometimes but we live to feel joy, and we can find joy despite the flaws, or if we need to fix the flaws and make the joy ourselves. Your actually doing pretty well, now of course not currently the best but you’ve got a lot of potential, you recognized the problems, learned about why you might have them, put forward a plan and completed your goals. Now you won’t cure yourself with a quick cleanup but it does represent a great step forward. Self improvement is exponential, meaning while the steps one their own won’t really do much they will grow quickly as you work more and more. It may not be much now but if you keep this up you’ll grow much bigger then you are now
@rebareads
Жыл бұрын
Sending you hugs 💕 I have been in an overwhelmed/out of control state recently so I connected to this video soooo much. Thanks for being vulnerable and inspiring self check-ins. Also, I enjoyed your book organizing - very satisfying.
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
ahh hell yeah, sweet!
@noorsbookshelf
Жыл бұрын
sweet pato!! very much feel that about reading to not have to sit with your thoughts 😵💫 take care!! and would love to do a buddy read over summer perhaps 🥰🥰
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
yess i would luv that
@gabrielar4966
Жыл бұрын
:0 Olga Tokarczuk on the book pile !!!! #polishandproud
@ilyoongi3731
Жыл бұрын
its really cool to see you opening up to us ^^ you hve a really cool vibe
@kaileyidk
Жыл бұрын
that post grad crisis goes crazzzzyyyy omg I feel u. Much love
@r.enee.morris
Жыл бұрын
Big hugs Pato. So great of you to recognise when you need to change things up and prioritise your mental health. Would love to do a buddy read with you when you have time.
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
❤️ definitely!!!
@Djcooksandbooks
Жыл бұрын
When I was struggling, I read a book called Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb and it made me feel better. Enjoyed the video. Take care!
@noravinyl260
Жыл бұрын
thanks for being so honest
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
thank u! :D
@defamiliars
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!! Sending love
@gabrielar4966
Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way about books & escapism, I've already read too many this year... And I used to think reading was always safe & good but now it really feels like I should try to do it less in order to think my life through or some shit -___- everything has to be a problem huh. Anyway, hope this vid provided some outlet for you. Good luck!
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
good luck 2 u too 🇵🇱
@siwar-vw2cr
Жыл бұрын
Love your new editing style
@yenasung
Жыл бұрын
Take care, Pato! This is why i need that book variety. We can’t just be eating 100% devastating sorrowful litfic. Ofc we’ll be unwell 🥲 and omg can’t wait to hear your thoughts on beale st 💔
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
fully expecting a buddy read w you soon, maybe a christie? haha
@lilyakre9476
Жыл бұрын
Ooh recollections of my nonexistence! Cant wait to hear u talk about that one, it’s one of my favorites
@kt-fe1vt
Жыл бұрын
pato slay
@idalisreads4444
Жыл бұрын
I ended up cleaning my shelves with you and it was definitely a bad idea 😂
@literaryiggy
Жыл бұрын
We luv sincere!!! 🫶🏽 !!!
@annagonzales1462
Жыл бұрын
Ahhh! As a person who also just graduated and is excessively reading to escape their existential crisis, I feel uncomfortably seen by your intro. Buddy reading is a great idea. Stealing it!
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
hahaha solidarity, we got this 🤞🤞
@person2461
Жыл бұрын
Only read 3 books this year 😭
@ratgirl107
Жыл бұрын
Loved this video Pato ❤
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
@batumanslittleidiot
Жыл бұрын
But also yes I relate to reading as a form of escapism and just the overall sense of nauseating levels of confusion with what to do with yourself post-grad. I felt it really hard last year when I graduated & honestly that’s why I started my channel, to try to give myself some sort of stability. I feel like I’m slowly starting to climb out of it now but it’s still so hard!! Would love to Buddy read, pick a book from ur shelf and lmk whenever
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
solidarity! fingers crossed for us both & sweeeeet i’ll message u abt a buddy read sometime soon
@souhailaelmayati8729
Жыл бұрын
You have a masayoshi takanaka record?? Uff you have taste
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
he’s sooo sick
@intovertedextrovert_08
Жыл бұрын
You don't need to speak abt your personal life making yourself uncomfy. Your taste in art and lit is enough. 👍🏻 P. S. I consciously choose to read compulsively...to escape reality. I'm in my hermit era, cut off from people. Idk. 🙂 I might open myself to people by next year it seems.
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
lol thank u! baby steps
@Lily-ch9zh
Жыл бұрын
hi pato! love the masayoshi takanaka record. listen to himiko kikuchi's stuff if you haven't already, you'll love it.
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
:o i’ve only heard flying beagle, any other album u rec?
@Lily-ch9zh
Жыл бұрын
flying beagle's my favourite, but all of her albums are awesome, she does not miss. try sevilla breeze next :)
@ameliareads589
Жыл бұрын
I would love to do a buddy read with you, whenever that might be. Big love for you and everything you shared in this video. ❤
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
ooh definitely! will u just message me on insta if you have one so i know where to reach out
@Amandascx
Жыл бұрын
Dam you got good taste in music patito
@Amandascx
Жыл бұрын
Me lo robo
@lucyrutherford
Жыл бұрын
I am trying to not sound like a condescending old lady haha but I so distinctly remember those years when I felt like I was a completely different person every few months. It's settled down somewhat now I'm almost 30 but almost where I have the opposite problem of wanting to change more but not knowing how. It is so hard to make peace with that inner pressure and questioning even though we know it's ok to do things at our own pace. I feel that as well about wanting to be more personal in my videos but I often try and then delete everything not about books or films. Also I would love to do a buddy read with you when you're up for it! :)
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
glad you could relate & omg veganism is the future you look way younger haha - will def buddy read with you this year!
@notrealwill
Жыл бұрын
great video as always. sending love 🫶🏻
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
thxthx :)
@nathansnook
Жыл бұрын
take good care, pato! health is wealth! also, always down for a buddy read! i feel that it also helps in slowing down and just being more present in the fine and rich details of the text. love ya! 🕊🤍
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
:) round two round two
@Amandascx
Жыл бұрын
What did you think of beattle street???
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
baldwin must pay for his sins
@krule274
Жыл бұрын
Main takeaway: sell all my books and never read again. But really, take care of yourself. The books aren't going anywhere!
@4shanna
Жыл бұрын
(watching late) i am sorry u aren’t feeling the best :( it sounds like u are reflecting and slowing down in a meaningful way.. If u have time in aug or sept for a buddy read lemme know - it can be low pressure and via email lol 📧
@alsopato
Жыл бұрын
sounds good im down 😁📬 hope yr life sorting/room cleaning went well glad i could be background noise haha
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