Forget the thought of carrying your baby, she is already with the father but you must tell your new found love
@samsonadebayo129
Ай бұрын
This girl doesnt know what she wanted. Why do I say so? 1) You want to marry somebody and you are yet to inform him that you had a baby yet you want that same baby to come and be staying with you, 2) You wanted the baby to stay with you and you didnt think of the consequence that will have on your new man. Way forward: 1) Inform your new man now that you had a baby if she wants you he will stay. 2) Warm yourself into the heart of your daughter before you take her out of that place. 3) After that had been done then you can now activate the last one one by taking custody of your daughter. 4) Please, inform whomever you want to marry that you had a daughter to avoid future disaster. Thanks.
@Enogieru
Ай бұрын
Live the daughter with the father and move on with your new fiece and later your daughter will come to you But tell the guy
@ChinonsoChukwuma-bc7kq
Ай бұрын
Give up the child and move on with the new man start a new life going for the child will make you fall from all corners yes be her friend you will tel her your stories when she become adult
@naze497
Ай бұрын
Your friends family have been good to you, let them look after your daughter, at least she is with her Dad. Tell your boyfriend the truth, if he decides to marry you, ok, if not, there are plenty fishes in the sea. Don't bit the hand that feed you, you might need that hand in future.God Bless.
@hasshaba
Ай бұрын
She can't eat her cake and have it. Bad is bad.
@hasshaba
Ай бұрын
Poisonous snakes everywhere
@lawrenceonuoha3070
Ай бұрын
Don't marry your friend's father. Tell your guy that you have a baby, on time. If he takes you for who you are, fine, if not, life goes on.
@fadugbajohnson6946
Ай бұрын
Confess to your new Man everything...he will fight for you but don't have a thought of taking away your daughter.
@bolajiabikoye2382
Ай бұрын
My dear sister, you need to open to boyfriend that you have a child. This may later hunt you because you may never give birth. Another lesson I have learnt from this is that greed caused to be in this situation because if you haven't gotten your dad's friend phone Number you will not be in this situation.
@johnabrahamtosin9723
Ай бұрын
you can eat your cake and have it
@ambroseutin2729
Ай бұрын
To me, this family has already accepted you and the baby although they're yet to know everything. Infact I don't think there'll be any animosity or prejudice once they get to hear the goodnews that the new baby in the house is actually a biological daughter/ member of the family. Now, my question is, what exactly are you looking for? This family has already given you practically everything you want in life. Also, this family religiously built you-up. Even if your boyfriend agree to marry you, you don't have the legal right to remove a baby who doesn't even recognize you as her mother, a baby you never kept and nurtured since birth, a baby whose biological father is financially boyant and substantive to assume full responsibility of tuition and fees, room and board, medical, insurance and all other unforeseen expenses until she becomes an adult. Open-up now to the family the secret between you and the man. Should the family kicks against your decision to marry the man, then you've got a good reason to go, perhaps, with your baby--only if they allow the baby with you.
@Surelymsp
Ай бұрын
Your child should be your first priority if he find out he’ll leave you, if you tell him you’ve a child and explain your past!!!! Is a mistakes you said he might understand my gender!!!!
@emekanwosu2987
Ай бұрын
Nenyebaby, I don’t think taking a daughter who does not have motherly affection will be easy. And to the new guy tell him who you are and for how long are you going to hide this because definitely he is going to hear it from outside. Then all will not be the same again. Don’t start with lies because all these will come up one day
@ChelseaOnuoha
Ай бұрын
I don't understand. You used to talk to her parents cause she gave your number to her parents. Then you come up again to say you just had to get her father's number. Shey her father no be part of her parents?
@falodunbabatunde6655
Ай бұрын
Very simple…. Though, there was a mistake but God understand better. Confess to your new guy completely. But I feel you should still leave your daughter but taken her away will be too complicated for your life. Leave the child things will fall in place later
@joyfestus9365
Ай бұрын
Let the baby remain with them and face your life. Do not marry your friends father, don’t do it. Face your front, and forget about the past. Your daughter is with her father, as long as they are treating her right let her be with them. You are talking like a child let your baby daddy go
@user-vo3hk5rl9g
Ай бұрын
My dear you can not eat your cake and have it. Don’t even try to collect the child from them after all the child is with the father . Try and make the man see sense that your marrying him will destroy his home and break the heart of his family members and also tell the man that wants to marry you that you have already had a child that you have given out for adoption because of your situation at that time. The truth will always prevail , if he loves you he will go ahead and marry you if not allow him to go the right person that will accept you and your past will come . Also I will advice you to give your life to Christ, I believe he will direct and help you to do the right thing
@elliottjohn8459
Ай бұрын
Please cut the relationship and you have to tell that guy you are married , if the guy accepts you and your baby then you can take her away . Majority of guys don't like to marry baby mama .
@paulpromise9781
Ай бұрын
You went after your friend father's money in desperation and in appreciation you gave him a child because you wanted more. According to you, your friend's father took very good care of your welfare even to your present job. Why do you want to bring disaster upon your friend's family and upon yourself. If you cause your friend's mother to shed tears with a broken heart, believe you me, your life will turn up side down without coordinate. I will advise you to you start running as far as your legs can carry you and settle down so where else but not without telling your fiancee that you have had a child, if it's not too late by now. You can not eat your cake and have it. Think very well before acting because .............😢
@johnanichinedu6377
Ай бұрын
devil tell your new boyfriend the truth
@user-zl6pt2nz2m
Ай бұрын
Y'all ruin your lives at a very young age, and you don't want to be blamed. You went to college to get some education but instead you go get a baby from an old man.
@jecintaaghedo1195
Ай бұрын
How can you leave a child with a family without letting the child know that you are her mother as she grew? Of course she should take the child and take care of the child. You better repent and follow Jesus Christ genuinely. Repentance is the only way forward.
@misavenitshaukemaboko4706
Ай бұрын
Tell your boyfriend that you have a bby and she's staying with your aunt c I don't think the father will allow you to take his bby to stay with another man
@moritzifeanyi404
27 күн бұрын
You ladies are too confused. The best option is for you to marry the father of your daughter. You are playing with alot of people here Am tied of advicing women.
@user-ut2kh5tb7w
Ай бұрын
What of your mother ? Now that you have money let your daughter go and spend sometime with your mum and you . Kindly tell the man you don't want to hurt his family, his wife, your friend and the other children . Tell the man you don't want
@johnanichinedu6377
Ай бұрын
live another woman husband get married to your man and your daugher with family that have show love
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