This lady is a gem... this should be taught in schools... in fact alot of what she says should be taught in school.
@thesunris
11 ай бұрын
"Takes away your domestic duties", good luck teaching that in public schools lol
@conman00007
11 ай бұрын
She did teach. She was a psychology professor in London 😂😂
@reddit-it3414
10 ай бұрын
the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something. Is the definition of value. NOW add the word HIGH. Domestic chores and taking a few things off my plate isn’t HIGH value. “Adding value to him” is a circular definition.
@subodhgautam649
9 ай бұрын
Yes
@user-kcrpine
7 ай бұрын
It’s absolute garbage. Adding “something” doesn’t make her high value much less valuable. Stop simping.
@michaelking4578
11 ай бұрын
I’ve watched a lot of people speak about psychology and human interaction relationships etc. This woman is the best.
@g.banderas1242
11 ай бұрын
For sure ❤
@allisonwaters716
11 ай бұрын
Every relationship therapist speaks this way
@MrTsukudu
11 ай бұрын
😂😂 another one bamboozled by the honey trap
@subodhgautam649
9 ай бұрын
Yes.. ✔️🤗
@braedenevans9225
4 ай бұрын
agreed
@user-rx7ms7iz3w
10 ай бұрын
That describes my woman,she is absolutely amazing, I love you Patricia
@Rollacoastertycoon
3 ай бұрын
Patricia got some big o tts
@stynicee7964
10 ай бұрын
A woman that loves children doesn’t guarantee that she will nurture a man the same way. The expectations from the two are drastically different. If this were true there would be less divorce. It’s not just couples without children getting divorce and it’s not always a man’s fault when those divorces occur.
@ReginaM2U
10 ай бұрын
I also immediately picked up same thing....sooooo many missed the distinction...geez!
@ajourneyoftransformation
4 ай бұрын
Your man is Not your child...that could end up very poorly.
@i7abella
11 ай бұрын
Thanks for the point on having boundaries, not accepting anything and everything so that the man can become a better version of himself🙏🏻 I needed to hear that!🙌🏻❤️
@aetank_yyteawu3436
11 ай бұрын
Not having boundaries allows for me who don’t care about you to enter your life and use you. Same goes with men.
@MrTsukudu
11 ай бұрын
Men aren't wild beast waiting for women to tame them 😂😂😂 but good luck if you believe this grifter
@tavi885
4 күн бұрын
This lady is amazingly intelligent & super classy!! Thank you for sharing your intellectual intelligence with us!!!❤💕
@g.banderas1242
11 ай бұрын
Yes absolutely agree with you. Value and loving 😊
@Onmysheet
8 ай бұрын
In short she could've just said. "A high value woman is me"
@rachanag4750
3 күн бұрын
Most of her vids are subtle self promotion. The vibes are too obvious.
@ryuxfx52
3 ай бұрын
Take a shot every time she says adds value
@user-ig7or5ou3u
9 ай бұрын
This is a treat for a narcissist.. Your nurturing side. She works for the oppressor
@Leeohlin89
9 ай бұрын
She said it plain and simple, feminine. 🙏🏼🌸
@MsTaLaiah
8 ай бұрын
Everybody wants boundaries. I agree. I knew this was said about children. They will never ask you for them, but they do thrive within Safe and predictable boundaries. I haven’t heard it spoken about men, so this makes sense. The high value woman is clear in her chosen direction so it would help the man to know how to engage with her. Less confusion and less of her blaming the man for what she experiences, I imagine.
@ceemichaels1877
7 күн бұрын
Yup, nailed it 💯💥💥💥 She knows her stuff for sure!! Luv this message!!!
@jnicolettebailey
11 ай бұрын
Wise beyond her years
@gloriavis
4 ай бұрын
I had boundaries.
@user-ds1fd2rm4p
7 ай бұрын
High value woman wants to be alone remain , calm
@kennedyrichards5444
11 ай бұрын
👏👏👏..a real none delusional woman.
@ArvindKumar-hv2zc
11 ай бұрын
Hello Sadia, thanks a lot. Your advice is amazing and really helpfull. Please keep it up. I am sure lot of people wait for your sessions and bless you . May God give you the most blissful life with your partner.
@davidlam3763
11 ай бұрын
She leaves out the most important part out in terms of HIGH Value, PURITY and LOYALTY! LOL. Good Luck Searching for those parts of the Package. 🤔
@josephphoenix1376
11 ай бұрын
Excellent Episode 👍
@YasminYoruba
10 күн бұрын
Boundaries are soooooooo true!!!!!!!!
@chathalee5741
10 ай бұрын
That adding value part, and NOT being a burden is priceless. Together we can accomplish a lot, life’s great, and family vacations are awesome.
@jenniferbloh-michael8662
8 ай бұрын
What ? That's a weird comment . Why would you marry someone you would look at like a burden ? Being called a burden by your husband is um , disgusting. I know because my abused as a child - ex , called me this . I promptly divorced his alcoholic coke head ass .
@hannahstriker
3 ай бұрын
@@jenniferbloh-michael8662 Because there, unfortunately, exist some women out there expecting a man to behave like a "caretaker" towards them. There exist many instances of men sharing their stories with abusive female partners, behaving exactly in the same way the woman in the video above described. With some of the most notorious examples constituting of the likes of Amber Heard and Jodi Arias. Similarly to how abusive men behave as well.
@thebirdclan
2 ай бұрын
One thing Sadia, I don't want kids but I am still nurturing. A sign of a woman who is high value is knowing herself well. I know what it takes to raise a child, right, and its not in me. If you want kids just because you think it's the feminine thing to do, you're not very sself-aware
@rachanag4750
3 күн бұрын
Absolutely agree 💯 I don’t think she’s self-aware to that extent. Even I don’t want kids as a conscious choice , and I’m still loving, nurturing and all that. I don’t want to be a parent, that’s all. And it’s ultimately the woman’s choice if she wants to have kids or not. No shaming women who choose not to have kids and indirectly calling them “low value” if they choose this route. Shaming in this way means Sadia isn’t high value herself. High value women don’t judge and shame other women and their choices.
@thebirdclan
3 күн бұрын
@rachanag4750 I'm nurturing. I'm a teacher. But I've seen how much time it takes to raise a good and productive child. It takes hours of reading to them, you teach turn at home. You need to be able to build trust so they can come to you to be a better person. If you're not in your highest self, they could spend the formative years being destroyed by their parents. I'll bet 65%our more of people really don't have what it takes to be a parent because of their parents. If people would say that they need to be in their highest form of self and ready right, sacrifice their needs. That's what being a parent really means.
@rachanag4750
3 күн бұрын
@@thebirdclan I agree fully with you. People just have kids coz they are cute or some random dumb reason of the sort which is very selfish. Parenting is another ballgame altogether and not everyone’s thing. For those of us who get this, we make conscious choices to be childfree. Doesn’t make us low value bitches - in fact quite the opposite. We’re conscious souls.
@PsKIXEM
11 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@civildiscourse7626
11 ай бұрын
The problem here is that it’s actually not hard to have The traits or behaviours that make a woman “high value”. that means that because high value men are rarer- they hold all the leverage …
@ladyofspa
10 ай бұрын
This is not about leverage control over another winning, making another submit to you making ladies have feeling they can't manage. It's about over coming your fear of being left, or used. What's the point of all that leverage ,but you still don't like yourself and are afraid of everything. You are jealous of women that's why you want control. Source out the real wound and you won't need leverage. You will have power within and peace to just love freely.
@jenniferbloh-michael8662
8 ай бұрын
@@ladyofspa insecure men suck
@Stoicmom777
10 күн бұрын
I agree! ❤
@babydooll84
11 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@batboy.
11 ай бұрын
It's soo true
@user-lr4wo5vj1v
Ай бұрын
So very true IV always loved kids even tho I never wanted any & I definitely have boundaries & I will let them know in the nicest way the first time if they try to overstep those boundaries then I will be harder to make sure I get the message across
@Johnconner1976
10 ай бұрын
She's a genius ❤
@knowmean
9 ай бұрын
Woman that have great relationships with their fathers will ultimately have a great relationship with their male partners. If a woman has a tarnished relationship with her father, this will emulate into all her relationships. A woman must a great relationship with her father to have a great relationship with you
@peterm2152
18 күн бұрын
ope u ar rite!
@danuelfrancis173
11 ай бұрын
💯 i’ve been saying this for years, but it’s like no one gets it The worst is I’m a man and a slag, even over men, don’t even dare as well
@Oracle842
10 ай бұрын
💝 So true!! 💝
@Guitar3801
7 күн бұрын
This reminds me of a reel where they husband tells his wife he’s leaving her because he needs a woman like the one described here and the wife said, wait don’t leave I need that woman too! So they went and tried to find that woman together
@joebloggs1321
6 ай бұрын
So true,
@cielostack2698
10 ай бұрын
I don’t know if that’s true. I’ve been told I’m attractive many times over. Plus I was a teacher for many years. I’m also a mother. Yes I have that nurturing side but that didn’t attract good potential partners in the past. Now I’m with someone who is consistent, kind and respectful. It took almost 10 years to find him.
@your_average_joe5781
6 ай бұрын
Well everyone loves a pretty face and a sexy body 😅
@user-ub7zh1hm4k
Ай бұрын
I think the problem in this case is that the people here just see the women as the ones who have to make the relationships work. So, no matter how "high-value" (even if the definition in the clip is questionable) you might be, if the guys you meet are just some narcissistic losers, your "skills" are of no help. So, naturally, it takes a long time to find someone suitable, despite the obvious preferred opinion in the comments here that all men deserve only the best, no matter how they are or behave themselves.
@hannahstriker
Ай бұрын
@@user-ub7zh1hm4k Absolutely incorrect, nobody has ever once stated that women are the only ones that need to make relationships "work". In fact, many individuals in the comments section(including the woman depicted in the video above), have consistently highlighted that men also need to improve themselves if they ever desire to be successful in the dating department. Have you ever watched any other video of hers where she mentions the exact same things? The problem with your rationale is that it places the responsibility solely on men, while excluding the fact that women also have agency over their own personal decisions as well. If every single man you encounter is a so called "narcissistic loser", that is simply your problem with picking the wrong men instead men's fault as a group. And I would definitely say the exact same logic applies to men that constantly complain that all women are "horrible", "manipulative" and "gold-diggers". But here is the catch, if a man was complaining about all of the above, you would have rightly colled him out. But when some women complain thet all men are "terrible", they are somehow justified and the onus is on the men to improve themselves and obviously not on the women to make better choices in regards to partner selection? The problem with individuals like yourself is that you believe that women literally deserve the best, irrespective of how they behave themselves. They can have all the expectations they want, no matter how unrealistic, but the moment that men also express their own preferences and what they expect from women, they are in the wrong. And finally, how did the woman above eventually found the man of her dreams exactly? If all men are supposedly "narcissistic losers", how is that possible then? Perhaps, it was her fault making the wrong choices, ignoring all the good men available because they were not "attractive" or "exciting" enough or whatever. It is literally impossible for "high quality" individuals to constantly meet "narcissists", "losers" and "manipulators"(regardless of gender that is). Simply put, if every single individual that you meet is an "asshole", or you put the blame solely on them for treating you poorly without any acknowledgement from your part that relationships are a two way street and that you also potentially contributed to their downfall, then you are the "asshole".
@hannahstriker
Ай бұрын
Then how is it possible that you encountered a good man eventually, if all men are supposedly "horrible"? You said it yourself, you personally did not attract good partners in the past. How is it men's fault as a group exactly, where you went out of your way to pick the worst ever possible partners while ignoring all the good ones available? Or maybe, you are not as "great" as you think that you are. Do not take it personally, individuals tend to look at themselves through "rose tinted glasses", ignoring the fact they also contributed to the downfall of their own relationships, as relationships are obviously a two way street after all. And that goes for both men and women obviously.
@cindyrichardson3224
2 ай бұрын
So true!
@shanencal5984
Ай бұрын
wrong, the dynamics of roles in relationships, emphasizing the importance of balance through polarity, is intriguing. Here’s a revised take on it: In any relationship, the interplay of masculine and feminine energies contributes significantly to balance and harmony. These roles, often termed masculine and feminine, don't necessarily align with gender but rather with the qualities each partner brings to the relationship. While one might typically take on a more nurturing role (traditionally seen as feminine) and the other a more assertive role (traditionally seen as masculine), what's crucial is not who adopts these roles but that their dynamic interaction fosters a balanced relationship. Importantly, these roles are fluid; partners can switch between roles, adapting to circumstances where, for example, the primary earner might become the primary caregiver, and vice versa. This flexibility helps maintain equilibrium and meet the evolving needs of the relationship.
@Gmill3r
8 күн бұрын
Very well said.
@lupezuniga1
11 ай бұрын
Well said!!!!🎉
@dovetailtrinity
6 ай бұрын
As a high value woman myself, i concur. ❤
@Simplez321
5 ай бұрын
Adds value... Is feminine... In touch with her nurturing side... Loves children... Has boundaries...
@onelove2023-cp2tx
3 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 💯
@robertgallegos8399
Ай бұрын
Beautiful ❤
@dustycloudy3753
11 ай бұрын
💖
@KoleAjayi
4 ай бұрын
Of. Course. U. are right.
@biersmorgen6609
4 ай бұрын
My woman/ wife is so amazing I just took too long to realize it, Lord Jesus save my marriage I'll be better I've changed
@cliffdiver5357
11 ай бұрын
Solid points.
@everh4926
10 ай бұрын
every day i learn sumthin fr u which is so important
@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198
6 күн бұрын
I hope to be more like her... I'm trying to get in touch with my feminine side...
@elizabethwerter7171
9 ай бұрын
I love this. ❤
@amygreiner9930
5 ай бұрын
Nicely said
@kennethmartin7138
11 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@gokudecimomeridio
11 ай бұрын
Loyalty,supportive,let men lead,take care of her health,femenine,not call attention from other mans..
@user-ub7zh1hm4k
Ай бұрын
Why would you let the man always lead? Women are nowadays just as smart and educated and can therefore be good leaders. So decide it from case to case. I get that most men like feminine women but saying that a "manly" woman can't be high value because of men's preferences is very narrow-minded and implies that a lot of man in this comment section see women as people with a worth that solely depends on their usefulness to men. But, of course, everyone in relationship should be loyal, supportive and also not cheat. Plus, always take care of your health and try to see woman as normal people with their own personalities!
@bloodbaaith
4 ай бұрын
Proof of an amazing high value woman is her husband. Kudos Sadia❤
@paulsaragosa371
10 ай бұрын
all ways faithful bandwagon amazing
@PriyaRNair
11 ай бұрын
Wow verytrue 👍❤️
@meerasreekumar4421
11 ай бұрын
So very true
@amralaasaleh
9 ай бұрын
Sadia mixes Psychology and Islam in a beautiful balance. She is a high value woman, hands down.
@mohammedsameer5705
4 ай бұрын
Well said sister.
@Winecheezer
4 ай бұрын
She talks a lotta 💩
@jacquia.7340
6 ай бұрын
Beautifullll 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏💓💕
@siviwehonobrokemashiyi9210
11 ай бұрын
True❤
@paulsaragosa371
10 ай бұрын
own world 🌎 ocean with the diamonds 💎 anand the truth of all wisdoms
@kiddytube3915
11 ай бұрын
A high value woman is someone who knows their weaknesses and strives to make improvements in their life. A high value woman is someone who knows how to take criticism and make adjustments to their character and habits. A high value woman is someone with a growth mindset.
@cd4playa1245
11 ай бұрын
I dunno, you have to be careful to place what a man’s goals should be onto a woman. Men need to grow physically and mentally, they need stronger, bigger muscles, but when don’t need to grow physically, they’re basically perfect as they are unless they’re at an unhealthy weight. And mentally as long as they’re respectful to their husbands they don’t necessarily need to be too smart. But intelligence can also be attractive on a woman. But if a woman’s growth is to become a doctor well then she might miss out on the opportunity to become a mother. It’s the double standard. And men can have multiple previous sexual partners and receive no judgment whereas women will receive judgment.
@kiddytube3915
11 ай бұрын
@@cd4playa1245 it doesn’t necessarily need to be about intelligence or career growth. A woman can grow to be more empathetic and understanding. A woman can learn how to apologise for their actions instead of being offended at the thought that they need to even apologise in the first place. An emotionally mature woman should be the gold standard. This is the same as asking for a successful and rich husband who won’t sleep around with other women and provides for his family and wife. If such high standards are expected of the average male, then we should begin expecting that women place more emphasis on being high value.
@DaniloDanny77
11 ай бұрын
Excellent. Now replace "woman" with "man".
@kiddytube3915
11 ай бұрын
@@DaniloDanny77 replace both with “person” Men and women should not leave their EGO unchecked. That’s narcissistic behaviour.
@g.banderas1242
11 ай бұрын
Totally agree with you 🤔💖🧘♂️🌹
@CarolineLatter
11 ай бұрын
I agree with so much of what you/Sadie says but.. I have children and teach children and love the kids. It doesn’t make me love men better than those that do not want kids! That is ridiculous! Some woman love their man and did not want children.
@mjkingofmusic
10 ай бұрын
It is true though that those women who don't like kids & never wants them are far more selfish & self-centered than those who do & also certainly not as nurturing as the ones that do want a family. I'm a woman myself btw.
@your_average_joe5781
6 ай бұрын
@@mjkingofmusic The more intelligent a woman is, the less children she will have ✅
@rachelg6799
6 ай бұрын
Yaassss! 💯 Percent‼️
@paulsaragosa371
10 ай бұрын
deeper in the sky o🎶 with your own
@narjeselhermi1778
4 ай бұрын
Totally ❤
@YourDoctorUSA
11 ай бұрын
Sadia’s floral outfit ideas come from her Kashmiri culture haha . I love it
@PS-le4mf
11 ай бұрын
Most outfits for women are floral all around the world
@YourDoctorUSA
8 ай бұрын
@@PS-le4mf not true .. western women mostly use solid color
@jooguiz4774
11 ай бұрын
Elle est adorable mais elle parle beaucoup 🥰
@vernvilar6922
2 ай бұрын
Good
@michaelmackay4823
11 ай бұрын
good effort
@sidharthshivappa1359
3 ай бұрын
👌❤️
@user-nd5uf2of4z
6 ай бұрын
I have same name Sadia khan
@debivallejo8085
11 ай бұрын
She is wise and beautiful.
@your_average_joe5781
6 ай бұрын
She is just another pretty face 🙄
@bridgetdickey
3 ай бұрын
Yesss
@straightshooter9908
2 ай бұрын
Adding value can be subjective and not all value is good value as some can be ego based and self Centred. I do ageee with the aspect of nurturing as it’s an intrinsic trait of a selfless woman by nature and if she ain’t this way then something is off or skewed or indifferent to most women my nature
@IamBarati
11 ай бұрын
How do we not know this? Why do we need to be told
@GETAFlX
11 ай бұрын
Because all advertising and social media over the last 20 years has been contrary to this? The upbringing of all children by television games MTV fashion and add to that the social reconfirmation that everyone gets from their friends that experience the same things? Hello?
@user-kr2pv2mn1s
4 ай бұрын
How to put clear boundaries?
@estelaa.6737
5 ай бұрын
How do we establish boundaries?
@Inatfromdenmark
7 ай бұрын
Beautiful. Not some superficial shame blame unrealistic bla bla. But common sense
@maxeycents8284
11 ай бұрын
You can love your family and your work in different ways of course, but, you can do both
@consultant2678
10 ай бұрын
She never stops talking and talks as she is the authority on all aspects of a relationship…dating her would get old fast …hearing her jabber on would be so annoying
@your_average_joe5781
6 ай бұрын
Just another pretty face 🙄
@ingridyau3012
3 ай бұрын
What else do you want her to do in a podcast? Dance? 🩰
@consultant2678
3 ай бұрын
@@ingridyau3012 really don’t want her doing a podcast to be honest. She is super annoying to listen to …like nails on a chalkboard! Dancing whilst not speaking would be preferred if only other option
@searklarak
7 ай бұрын
High value woman traits which are becoming rare: Low body count (not promiscuous, doesn't hook up every night or do OF, has self-respect for her body), in good shape and not overweight (takes care of herself as being healthy is the most important thing to everyone), not addicted and reliant on social media/alcohol/hard drugs to get through her day, has a positive and happy mindset (doesn't need to complain and talk down on people all the time) and is comfortable being natural in her own skin (she doesn't do piercings, body modifications or plastic surgery).
@sv8372
4 ай бұрын
I don't want kids but I am very feminine and nurturing while still being able to be independent ❤
@sir-ali1163
7 ай бұрын
"I am a strong, independent woman. What can you offer me?" "My Condolences"
@FortilusBright-hf7xy
4 ай бұрын
I'm accepting that
@davidburks4657
7 ай бұрын
Facts
@reginageorgetownuni
5 ай бұрын
Women: focus on yourselves, you automatically become high value with good education, self esteem, physical and mental fitness, confidence, independence and assertiveness.
@tyronevonchadley
11 ай бұрын
A high value woman is a woman that high value men commit to. Plain and simple. A queen does not make herself. A king makes her a queen.
@toddjohnson271
11 ай бұрын
And he is sought after by women likewise.
@aalleexxx0011
11 ай бұрын
What?? How is a high value men going to commit to any type of woman? Your logic doesn’t make sense. A woman needs to possess desirable qualities first in order to attract a good man. A good man who knows his worth isn’t going to put up with red flags because “he’s making a queen”
@vamvos13
11 ай бұрын
I disagree. I've seen high value women who ended up with losers and high value men who ended up with hoes, e.g. Kanye & Kim.
@zuhurahrukosa4879
11 ай бұрын
Perfect said ❤
@NightinGal89
10 ай бұрын
History teaches otherwise. Some women were self-made queens. And some men marry siliconed bimboes just cause they think with their lower extremityes..a tramp won't be a queen just because a rich guy says she is.
@Midtown_MadneZZ
2 ай бұрын
i single mother will teach us what a high value woman is
@raheelaawais762
9 ай бұрын
💯
@user-dq5pm1nk2h
15 күн бұрын
High value man would like a woman to take him for a journey around the world. Spending time in expensive hotels, drinking, having good time. At her or public expense.
@gk-zb2pn
11 ай бұрын
Very intelligent woman but too much bottox in top and top lip.
@GETAFlX
11 ай бұрын
Very observant comment but it's "too" , not "to".
@gk-zb2pn
11 ай бұрын
@leighhearne5178 thanks I will edit
@GETAFlX
11 ай бұрын
@@gk-zb2pn when the irony passes by u and u have no idea, is funny
@Prince-lo3nz
Күн бұрын
The host looks concern with her answer lol.
@zottida1295
16 күн бұрын
I was with her until her last point.
@Foxie635
4 ай бұрын
I love older people, I am drawn to people with disabilities. Just because a woman loves children does not make her a good caretaker of a man. Why else would women with kids get divorced? Personality differences and experience differences make you who you are and if you will care for your man.
@robinsoncamineroszamudio8000
3 ай бұрын
Like
@sandrella1992
6 ай бұрын
The name of the channel or episode plz
@milosvojinovic5710
Ай бұрын
True Woman energy is express through man. Man just exercise and empower her energy.
@ricardasj4503
11 ай бұрын
this women knows
@PriyaC011
9 ай бұрын
She’s kind of correct.. a high value person will always add some value to your life some way or the other… and you will be a better version of yourself due to her/his influence in your life..
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