As a Christian man, this is solid. We need more strong brothers in Christ to rise up. Far too many weak, luke warm men feel emboldened to live pathetic lives because Christian girls still date and marry them…Christian girls you hold the keys to stopping this weakness and driving men to better themselves in Christ…Keep the bar high
@jinoia
3 ай бұрын
"Christian ladies, he might not be ready and it's not your job to get him ready or to fix him, patience is key, trust God in the in between"
@hkhorst7
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! As a Jesus loving woman getting ready to go back into the dating world, I wish more men would speak openly and straight forward like this.
@FRodriguez_
3 ай бұрын
Could you do a similar one for men? I love the idea, and I’m sure it’d be helpful for both genders. This one will surely make young men like me want to be better and better for our future wife.
@SpoilerAlert-ISpeakTruthOnly
3 ай бұрын
Beautiful message. I unfortunately married outside of the Lord many years ago and as the Lord was beginning to call me, my husband decided to file for divorce. I tried holding on to make it work but he refused. Now many years later... the more I am becoming less of a "babe" in Christ, the more I would have loved to know these things back when I was younger. For a while I was still hoping to find a good man of God or continue praying for God to restore my marriage but the more I get closer to him the more I believe I am called to stay single for his glory sake. So unless God himself puts a Godly man before me that is confident in his godliness and strong in the word of the lord, I'm staying single. The closer I get with my Father in heaven the easier it becomes. Just a side note... I know it was a little off topic but all in all your message to the lady's out there looking for love, this was perfect!
@sovereigngodlisaloves9525
3 ай бұрын
If you don't mind sharing, did you have children with this man? In the Bible it says that the single woman will have more "children" than usual in the ones she brings to Christ! 🙏
@SpoilerAlert-ISpeakTruthOnly
3 ай бұрын
@@sovereigngodlisaloves9525 I don't mind at all... yes I have one son with him, he is 11. Due to my actions/circumstances I lost all rights but I am in his life and continue to work my way to be in his life 50% as it should be with broken families
@SpoilerAlert-ISpeakTruthOnly
2 ай бұрын
@@sovereigngodlisaloves9525 I keep responding but then my response seems to disappear... where at exactly does it speak of this
@Maverick-zy7yu
3 ай бұрын
My husband hid his porn addiction 9 years of our relationship. Just found out few months ago. It’s been challenging to day the least but praise God we’re no longer living in hell. I had an urge to pray to God that my husband would be free from lust and God answered.
@dude9318
2 ай бұрын
Amen May he never watch that again
@briannalarimore9928
3 ай бұрын
Wow. I felt like this video was specifically made for me. Literally word for word - I nearly gasped twice in surprise. As a young Christian woman who has recently learned how not to just "settle", due to feeling like I'm missing out on an opportunity in my dating experiences, this is so validating. The Lord has been drawing me even closer to Him because I've been listening to His promptings and the words of the wise in my life. Even some who I thought were the one...I realized I was about to settle, as this video shares. And I now know that I desire to grow ever closer to Jesus, and if He has a man for me, I know he will be a man who is doing the same - seeking Jesus first. Jesus will teach me how to not "settle".
@GofaoneMoagi
2 ай бұрын
I want to marry right and I’m waiting and sometimes it’s not easy.My brother you are spitting facts.
@autumnmarie8841
3 ай бұрын
Thank you, brother.
@JessikaCruz87
2 ай бұрын
This really hit different for me today but GOD loves me and I am not alone I trust GOD
@glitch2259
3 ай бұрын
Very pertinent thank you
@Libertybible100
3 ай бұрын
Amen good word bro
@nataliespotatoes
3 ай бұрын
TYYY
@isabelpeters7342
3 ай бұрын
Well…..I needed this today. Thanks.
@etualesefika8587
3 ай бұрын
💯💯
@alexism7294
2 ай бұрын
I think this advice is pertinent to women as well- that we women need to be maturing to be godly women of Christ, and wives if it's the Lord's will, before God brings us into what is next. Sometimes I wonder why things feel so slow and stagnant, but then the Lord shows me how I am still immature, and need to continue to let go of the old nature, and grow as the new creation God has made me. Old habits need to die, and I need to realize that I'm not suddenly going to wake up one day and say, "yes, I've made it," but it's obedience to God and steps each day that bring me closer and closer to being more like Jesus. I pray we each fall in love with the Lord first, everyday, all day, before we fall in love with the spouse God has for us. Because if we are unsatisfied with Him, another person definitely will not satisfy us in long run. Psalm 34:10 "...but those who seek the Lord shall not pack any good thing."
@Humourous_Pie
29 күн бұрын
Yes I agree. Magnum P.I. Dude. ❤
@hopeking37
2 ай бұрын
Ladies: just stay single lol ….I have been single for 5 yrs its absolutely amazing
@dude9318
2 ай бұрын
Its their own choice It depends on whats God will is as well
@zabdiel1558
3 ай бұрын
What if a young man is starting to grow in his faith; should a Christian lady avoid becoming interested in him because he's not fluent in theology, despite being blessed with a strong character? If he is still a child of God, would the woman be "settling"? I know beautiful marriages where the woman was patient, and the man grew in his faith.
@lilwritergal
3 ай бұрын
I don’t want to put words in Isaac’s mouth, but I don’t think what he’s talking about is necessarily being fluent in theology. The characteristics he listed have a lot more to do with the man’s heart and purpose in his relationship with God. A newly converted man on fire for God may not know all the theology, but I’m sure he’s going to be passionate about seeking God, seeking knowledge, and learning how to be the godly man he’s called to be. And because of his love and desire for God, yeah, he’ll eventually learn as he goes, and that can blossom beautifully in a relationship as the man and woman pursue Christ and learn together. (Even if he isn’t super knowledgeable about the Bible compared to her, he can still be a spiritual leader by initiating Bible study and being intentional about faith growth.) But someone apathetic or passive in their walk with God, even if they technically know all the theology, won’t be pursuing the things of God despite considering themselves a Christian, and that’s the man women shouldn’t settle for. (That’s not to say that man won’t ever be fit for a relationship. Far from it! God can redeem everyone, but while he’s apathetic in his faith, he’s not going to be a godly leader or husband.)
@J_Elizabeth2
3 ай бұрын
This is actually my fiancé and I. I was the one who was always rooted in church and who grew up Christian, and when I met him he had grown up secular and didn’t know much about God or the Bible. We ended up getting to slowly know each other and have deep talks about God, and I knew that if he was not the one for me, he wouldn’t be willing to change and become a Christian. But he was very interested and he gave his life to God very shortly after we started dating. Of course we faced challenges in still setting boundaries on what was Christian and what was sinful-like the things mentioned in this video. He had been so used to living a secular life that was swayed by the world and by worldly desires, but no one is perfect and we both grew so much in our faith through the years dating. Now we are getting married soon, and he is such a considerate and strong man of God!! Anything is possible with God and anyone of any background can change🙏🙏 it will take some work, but God will be there unraveling everything and it will work out. Don’t judge or choose to believe that just because someone has sinned then it won’t work. Because it very well can and will work if it’s in God’s will. People change for the better when they recognize this and when they truly live for Him.
@defketra2817
3 ай бұрын
Put your faith in Christ and understand that things can work. But don't use this line of thinking is it justification for interest you may have in a less than admirable man. Trust me you will regret it.
@Emma_1708
3 ай бұрын
Amen Amen and AMEN
@joem13yearsago73
3 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@PistolAbby27
3 ай бұрын
Too late for me
@PistolAbby27
3 ай бұрын
He is a Christian but doesn't have any drive to maintain or improve n little effort to put back in our relationship @bearde_mut9731
@hRn77
3 ай бұрын
But...what if that's your husband😕
@dude9318
2 ай бұрын
I pray things change then May God make him a better man
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