There’s a man who ‘spares’ time and a man who ‘makes’ time. Ladies we need to learn the difference.
@1SwiftAngela
Жыл бұрын
Best comment!
@tarawiselove
Жыл бұрын
Facts! Thank you for this post.
@francesogechi693
Жыл бұрын
Whether they 'spare', or 'make' time, it's the motive that counts
@bvirginia312
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Fitting you in between appointments isn’t making time
@bambinoesu
Жыл бұрын
@@francesogechi693wise 💯
@carmay3600
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Ladies a man who likes you actually wants to spend time with you…and not just night time time. 😏
@hawaiigirl8089
Жыл бұрын
Yessss ugh 😑 haaaaate how many men flatter & rush push us into bed for them. I have more respect for a hooker! At least she gets paid to be used
@KT-gm1no
Жыл бұрын
Fantastic unbiased advice.. I think most women are not even liked by the men they waste so much time on. Life is short, if you want love, you deserve love. Don’t settle for anymore half assed attempts.❤
@traj4640
Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@reddrasta9118
Жыл бұрын
Received!!!!
@WarriorQueen1962
Жыл бұрын
💯🎯🔥
@soulclarity01
Жыл бұрын
Felt 💯
@reginaboyd8422
Жыл бұрын
Received
@Kekebusinessmogul
Жыл бұрын
This is true ladies. My man is a roofing contractor. Has many responsibilities. Work 7 days 10+ hrs a day. He make sure he make time for us. Brunch dates, movie, quick lunch....he definitely find a way to make time for me...
@TheMwendaa
Жыл бұрын
Niiiice Lucky you
@joditawhai7844
Жыл бұрын
Hear that ladies....if a man really likes u hes going to make time 4u, to be with u at every opportunity he gets! U heard it here from da man himself...he speaks da truth that's why I love this guy!
@jayrodriguez4119
Жыл бұрын
I have a similar story. Going through a divorce and had 5 children and pursuer had the money as well. It's out there. Sharing because other Podcaster are trying to devalue good women because of age and having children. It's about how you carry your self, integrity, values ect.
@iwasbornunderwater
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes these situations will have you feeling like you're crazy. Being gaslit for asking for the minimum like you're asking for the world. Thank you for these vids. It's good to know there are some healthy minded ones out there.
@hawaiigirl8089
Жыл бұрын
Time to tell some of them off! They need to hear that we see thru their crappy behavior. I usually tell a man he is the product of poor parenting & his mom & dad were huge failure! It’s TRUE & it’s a mental kick in the balls.
@ladyyuni218
Жыл бұрын
This is true. I dated a man that was 10 years younger than me. I was going through depression from my divorce and this man helped me thru it! He was a business man and would call me I. The middle of the day to go on a boat ride lunch! Or ask me to come to a business meeting with him! Send me flowers/balloons for no reason!!! It was amazing the attention he showed me. I left him because he was young, and I couldn’t give him babies, (had a tubal ligation after my fourth child when I was married)! It would have been a shame for him NOT to have children of his own! ❤
@larana2988
Жыл бұрын
🥺🥰🤗
@karlenedyer9776
Жыл бұрын
You are wise grown ass woman. Sometimes you have to sacrifice and make decisions that break out heart but is best for the other person. Respect would have done the same
@elkee4730
Жыл бұрын
What an unselfish move on your part, to let this gentleman go. Love was definitely there. Hope you both found some else to bring you joy and peace. Thank you for sharing this with us.
@paulineedwards9029
Жыл бұрын
So sweet. Every girl's ddeam
@Respect2theFallen
Жыл бұрын
Did you two at least remain friends? Or was there resentment on one end after?
@chellebelle3686
Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I found this channel. Just turned 45 been divorced 5 years . Thank you for speaking to men and women the way you do. New Subbie 😊
@tanyasharadamba1264
Жыл бұрын
Well said
@kiarasimon3
Жыл бұрын
Men and women honestly. We make time for individuals if we really want them around.
@yvonneratcliff47
Жыл бұрын
True. It can go both ways. Also wasting time on people who don't really care goes both ways. I just think women waste their time more often, because we think we can change the man, or eventually time ⏲️ and maturity will bring change. Many times they actually get worse with time ⏲️, because they go through the change of life (again, this applies to men and women). That is an entirely different conversation! 😄😄😄
@ciarraleone2040
Жыл бұрын
I had to learn this the hard way.
@GEM_777
Жыл бұрын
Time and consistency 😌
@bahiyahgraham
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been blessed to finally experience this… a man that shocked me outta nowhere. He makes time for me EVERYDAY not only with calls, texts but actually showing up and fulfills every statement he’s ever made to me. At first it scared me and seemed to good to be true but I look at it as if you ask of God and consistently believe in the things you want He will give it to you and I thank God each and everyday I met him and knew that I deserve every bit of it.
@cindyoliver7065
Жыл бұрын
True facts if he really likes you he will fit you into his life
@thisisHowHedidit
Жыл бұрын
HIS "WHOLE" LIFE, HIS 85-YEAR-OLD MOTHER AND ALL! AND WE KNOW HOW MOTHERS CAN BE ABOUT THEIR SONS, ESPECIALLY IF HE'S "THE BABY!" LOL
@thisisHowHedidit
Жыл бұрын
AND I MEAN HIS "WHOLE" LIFE, HIS 85-YEAR-OLD MOTHER AND ALL! WE KNOW HOW MOTHERS CAN BE ABOUT THEIR SONS, ESPECIALLY IF HE'S "THE BABY!" LOL
@amaragrace94
Жыл бұрын
When you have actually had that treatment before and they did it just because they wanted to (didn't even have to ask)☺️, it reallyyy makes it sink in that the other ones did not like you that much😅. Ain't no flaky communication, no going several days to a week without a call or even a 30 second text to check on you or to set up quality time, no I'm too busy. The first sign of that, cut 👏 him 👏 off 👏. Do not let any man gas light you or tell you you're over reacting to get you to lower your standards and accept crumbs.
@eugerievieux8229
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this comment. ❤️
@Yerdiknow
Жыл бұрын
THIS THIS THIS thank you!
@spirituallyspeaking923
Жыл бұрын
This is the truth it’s a choice and he will make the time if he feels you’re worth it
@kmb655
Жыл бұрын
I’m grateful for these videos.
@chloethemessenger
Жыл бұрын
This makes me feel like I’ve never truly been loved before 😔💔
@cookiethomas8069
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@mjjohnson4564
18 күн бұрын
Me either 😢
@cbeavers83
Жыл бұрын
This is very true. A man will even move his schedule around.
@chellez29
Жыл бұрын
I said something similar to the last person I dated and told me "I be busy" I politely told him it was fine and he could stay busy with whatever is keeping him. Then he tried to accuse me off making him that bad guy when I said no such thing. Feels good to get confirmation from another man on this subject.
@BluDrop5
Жыл бұрын
Notice how your truth exposed who he really was.
@Yerdiknow
Жыл бұрын
I basically just had this same conversation. When all we doin in just matching their energy.
@millag93
Жыл бұрын
@@BluDrop5 when you expose them they always get so defensive 😂
@denisenelson853
Жыл бұрын
You are speaking the absolute truth. Ladies, don’t waste your time on nothingness and never take off your crown for any man. Know your worth.
@erynd.9911
Жыл бұрын
These guys are my big brothers for real
@Itsme_1648
Жыл бұрын
This goes for any type of relationship. Work partnerships, friendships, significant others. You make time for what you want. Simple.
@centykaia4450
Жыл бұрын
Yes a man who makes time for you when it's inconvenient for him A man who sacrifices for u instead of what's he doing for you
@BluDrop5
Жыл бұрын
Commitment will always come with adjustment; interest comes with excuses.
@seeingstraightthrough
Жыл бұрын
If you have to "flake" on anyone then you are not a mature man or woman. A mature man or woman doesn't make excuses no matter who they are dealing with.
@seeingstraightthrough
Жыл бұрын
By the way, one of the definition of flake is " unreliable person".
@heathermetz6576
Жыл бұрын
“A man who really really likes you, will make time for you!” “He’s going to find a way to involve you!”
@gabriellaayimadu6374
Жыл бұрын
that type of man is called a Gentle man and a Responsible man because he would think about you before making any decisions
@kloverfields466
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad I saw this. This was confirmation that the guy I’m into isn’t into me. It hurts to accept it but it’s the reality of the situation. He always give me excuses but. Ones around whenever he wants to. I’m done with him.
@ankhofmotivation
Жыл бұрын
Not all men who gives you all their time loves you....some are love bombing you.... been there I thought I finally found the one☹️ Still healing..🤦
@Candeegirl77
Жыл бұрын
Happen to me before, too. Some men (women as well) are just like that. They always call, reply to text, take you out, and spend time with you, but they do this with everyone or most.
@carolynwells4346
Жыл бұрын
Right, a man don't care these are the signs...see them from 4 what it is...spare time and make time are different like apples and grapes
@rayphilly3359
Жыл бұрын
Easy way to understand for those who don’t the same way you treat a man who you don’t like but keep him around is the same thing a man who doesn’t really like you dose to you
@amaragrace94
Жыл бұрын
💯
@Calicapenergy88
Жыл бұрын
My top love language is quality time. I watch actions and than move on if I feel I’m being played
@happyme2989
Жыл бұрын
💯🎯🙌 this is true! My hubby came in the door doing his hubby duties. He spends majority of his time with me because he says I am his everything! We only depart when we're @ work, he comes sees me on my job everyday before he leaves for work. This lady said that's is not healthy for your husband to see you all the time. He said BS💩 this my wife, and I took my vows seriously! She's not my only my wife she's my best friend it's not my fault nobody never loved you😌🤣.. that's why I am my husband peace and he's spoiled rotten(vice-versa 💞) he's just awesome! I tell him encouraging words daily. I've NEVERRRR try to lil boy him b/c he's a grown man, I also don't nag him. We have a superb relationship simply because GOD is 1st.. APTTMHY 👏🙏
@tory198511
Жыл бұрын
This is what I try to tell women who make excuses for men saying oh he's a firefighter or old he's doing this. You can always text or call somebody or meet up with them throughout the week. I don't want to hear the excuses. Glad I don't have that problem
@marlenej152
Жыл бұрын
Real talk! It's true, he takes the time.
@jennymaldonado6196
Жыл бұрын
I have seen just a few shorts from this gentleman, he is on point every time ♥️💫🥰🙏🏽
@chaplainred4263
Жыл бұрын
He speaks plain, simple short and sweet!!!! It doesn't have to be complicated. Love it!!!! You remind of an old man in a young body. The Lord poured out on you the wisdom at a young age. What type of profession or business are you in? How did all of you go into this journey? You have a similar delivery like Tony Gaskins. You all are on an assignment to take down the damage kevin samuels and andrew tate have done to sabotage relationships. You are making a difference and the Lord is smiling on you. You don't need no artificial swag. You keep telling it like it T-I-S!!!!!
@tmed362
Жыл бұрын
A trillion claps
@debrajones156
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your honesty. We as women keep hoping and finding excuses, but to hear it from a man is golden.
@LadyNStreet
Жыл бұрын
I had a guy that spent time with me daily and proposed but still cheated with multiple women 😔
@alego8072
Жыл бұрын
Don't blame yourself! He was always a dL hoe.😉
@XxMercuriiXx
Жыл бұрын
Daym, how did he even have the time
@JBTHEJEWELER
Жыл бұрын
My man speak nothing but facts 💯💯💯💯 I've watch almost every episode and this dude right here definitely make his points clear and direct 💯💯💯
@pcbrunson3302
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I just deleted that one. I knew it but his “I’m just busy”, made me not want to be the one to stand in the way.😢
@christinajackson646
Жыл бұрын
This is so true and I realized that after my divorce. And once I started dating and it blossomed into a relationship, it was then I knew the difference that I was shown. Thank you babe for caring about me. 😘
@sohmaz
Жыл бұрын
A man who wants to be with you will drive hundreds of miles or hop on a plane and work remotely to spend time with you.
@wanda01141
Жыл бұрын
I can't lie I cant understand how some woman not know if a man like u or not. They definitely show it when they like u
@chocolatediamond9453
Жыл бұрын
And that's why I got my king. 20 yrs strong. I do the same for him. That's my man and I'm gone stick beside him lol
@tiffanyyisrael7989
Жыл бұрын
😂❤
@pri4358
Жыл бұрын
So true. I dont know why they bother spending time making excuses if they aren't interested.
@saraithomas8014
Жыл бұрын
Time & changes ❤
@victoriafhicks
Жыл бұрын
This is SOOO true. My ex was busy, but he would use that as an excuse. My current boyfriend FaceTimes me for lunch 3 times a week and will find a way to come see the other two days.
@tarawiselove
Жыл бұрын
The validation I feel when listening to videos like this is like a sonic boom in my soul.
@truezladye1893
Жыл бұрын
True, he makes time and stands by you.
@monday2756
Жыл бұрын
Wish it's easy to find a man like that nowadays ...
@just98us
Жыл бұрын
Facts!! I’m thankful that I know the difference now. Tests made me realize but the way you move after is the difference! Thank you for your platform.
@jacquelinecabanatan7925
Жыл бұрын
Soooo true. And I allowed a man to just see me as an option for 2 years! Atleast im no longer there
@sophiaf.
Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾 … “How Much” ???
@hp5552
Жыл бұрын
Let ppl do what they wanna do so you can see what they’d rather do👀
@hotmomma1552
23 күн бұрын
And not only will he make time for you , he will PURSUE YOU. Stop chasing a man , if he really wants you , you never have to chase. Period
@SharonStar62
Жыл бұрын
Short Sweet Simple when a man wants you loves you he will show you.. straight up..
@thisisHowHedidit
Жыл бұрын
YES, LORD! I KNOW THIS TO BE ACTUAL AND FACTUAL...🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💝💝💝
@dvnwifey222
9 ай бұрын
Listennnn when a man is interested he will make time!! The guy im talking to rn came and saw me at work this morning. He left to go do a job way across town and then came BACK two hours later just to take me to lunch on my break before going to finish his work day. I no longer buy the “I’m busy” line. People make time for what they wanna make time for. Period
@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5
Жыл бұрын
He hit a dead spot on. Was just dealing with somebody I will say these things too.
@amyross3475
Жыл бұрын
I've learned so much from listening to you and your videos! Thank you! You are such an inspiration. Keep up the good work!
@Abigail-Hollis
Жыл бұрын
Women know this… they just choose to settle.. for whatever reason.
@GhostZombieLife
Жыл бұрын
How much a man uses his time with women doesn't really tell you how successful the relationship will be or if he genuinely likes you. We're basically talking about opportunity. Usually people ask each other what their schedule is like the first date....and assuming each party didnt have to move a mountain to have a date this shouldnt be really hard to figure out. The problem is the "theory" in this video is for annoying codependent women who need attention and think that excessive attention = love = trust when all three are exclusive traits. A very organized player could have at least 3 women falling in love at the same time with this advice.
@melissatrowell3720
Жыл бұрын
Like I say I don't want to know what you can do for me how much are you willing to sacrifice For me for us That's the question great video blessings
@thugpassion08012
Жыл бұрын
True.....women do same thing lol....ppl make time for what they want.
@trinab903
Жыл бұрын
Well said! Offers clarity. Thanks brother!
@RN083012
Жыл бұрын
Facts, you preaching king!
@michie4872
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Krew Season! 👏 Finally a man speaking some truth to women. I have been needing this at a young age but did not have it and I've had to be on a long journey of sorrow for over a decade until I got the necessary therapy from speakers and videos on youtube to open my eyes and its finally sinking in. Now I will not force anything if it is for me then it shall be and I will be the one to receive not give and give and give with no outcome.. Thank you 🙂
@londonallie2006
Жыл бұрын
I just love listen to this dude
@cheriloreal7863
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this confirmation + understanding 🙏🏽
@rayshanabrown3995
Жыл бұрын
Yes! This is so true.. and it took me meeting my husband to realize this, he has always made me a priority even with the kind of job he had, he realized how much time we spent apart physically and chose to get a different one that gave us a little more time together and with our kids, I thought that was so sweet..
@thejbladys
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these videos. You put a lot in perspective for me. Much appreciated
@sunshinechica6626
10 ай бұрын
I always say this...if a man or woman is interested in you, they will make time. No excuses 🌟
@jenniferrodriguez9700
Жыл бұрын
facts dude making plans with you and not following through is someone not into you aswell
@rosalynjolly2565
Жыл бұрын
Keep your legs close😂
@cassandrasmith1584
Жыл бұрын
Hello!!
@Targetedindividualsworld
Жыл бұрын
If a woman likes you she will oblige your advances 😢
@linc_liz1171
Жыл бұрын
This covers men and women…if a person is interested you, they will make time to see you…
@tisaligon-roman6353
Жыл бұрын
Yes that “Spare Time Man” can keep his time.
@elilove8456
Жыл бұрын
Men. Leave the women alone that you don't really want. Find the woman you really want so that you're not wasting people's time and wasting your own time, end up with a crazy bihh from Waiting to Exhale! Do the right thing. Stop being selfish.
@BluDrop5
Жыл бұрын
Not every man is mature enough to do this. Therefore, we need to protect who comes into our lives.
@sunflowersoul821
Жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right! 💯
@izzybusy643
Жыл бұрын
Making the time for you is everything ...♡
@FreeCreditAdvise
Жыл бұрын
Your making me see how much my husband actually cares thanks
@yvonneratcliff47
Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. I already know it, but this guy is really confirming what we feel.
@dee_tracy5863
Жыл бұрын
Powerful words. I hear u
@BenjiiiB1
Жыл бұрын
I like what these guys say most of the time. But ladies.... If there are majority females signing this off as facts and agreeing and no men.... Then you must know that it's not accurate.... Guys would be down here agreeing if it aligned with how we think. Take notes please
@Candeegirl77
Жыл бұрын
So is he wrong? I'm just curious 🤔 Cause the first thing I did was skip the women and look for the men comments lbs
@berrywhite9791
Жыл бұрын
Amen. All the internet "know it alls" need to know this.
@Missylove941
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing.
@christinagracewhite
22 сағат бұрын
Been dating my new guy for three months and he’s already taken me to 2 Work dues and we meet for lunch when I’m up his way. This has been the sweetest relationship I’ve ever known ☺️
@jujus4735
Жыл бұрын
PEOPLE MAKE TIME 4 WHATS IMPORTANT TO THEM
@teresamann1218
Жыл бұрын
You are telling true yes Lord Amen
@amayautumn
Жыл бұрын
I thought all women knew this. I never accepted nothing less.
@ericasmith1962
Жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people waste their time with someone they don't like VS finding someone they like
@joattaandrews9096
Жыл бұрын
This is sooo true and the same goes for us women.
@kbunny74
Жыл бұрын
Totally agree thanks King your messages are on time!
@browneyes3044
Жыл бұрын
Love real talk!! keep coming with it!!!!
@lynettenorwood2864
Жыл бұрын
MADDD FACTS KING 🙏🙏😊😊
@aliciastewart3037
Жыл бұрын
He has the look on his face letting you know he's real about who he is and what he says. Thanks for the advice!! I hare a man who always gives you empty answers to why he can't sp3nd time with me. If he wants to, he will
@convowithashnicole
Жыл бұрын
I really love this guy's prospectives! Much respect! I feel like some men and women just simply don't know how to be in a relationship bc a lot of us never saw healthy relationships, two parent households etc! There are a lot of factors!
@GK-sz4ir
Жыл бұрын
Truth! I learned the hard and hurtful way.
@HandsofGlory1
Жыл бұрын
Y'all help me understand this. I agree.. however, my ex fiance was like this and more... In the beginning... & throughout... YET..... He ended up being an abusive covert narcissist.. that was married and lied about EVERYTHING. I'm healing.. however, I don't want to be fooled again.
@Godcomes1
Жыл бұрын
YUP❗LET HIM" DO HIM" HE AINT HAPPY NOR" SATISFIED " ANYWAYS🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭❗
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