At no point did she mention the effort she's putting in. Which tells me she's putting in ZERO.
@Mr_Kenneth
17 күн бұрын
Yup
@markd_aus9809
17 күн бұрын
shes all take take one look at her its obvious
@SuperHamric
14 күн бұрын
She wants everyone to assume its 100% always and we know thats not true. The one thing she realized is she can take take take and then when the man gets tired of being taken advantage of and she has a bunch of excuses/blame reasons for why the man was/did her wrong... Ive had a good fair share of women like this and I've gone monk mode and that's the best decision I've made ...
@natehill8069
13 күн бұрын
Yes she did. She explicitly listed all the effort she put in. ..
@gregwatruba4541
11 күн бұрын
She's the table. 😂
@WannbeSomeGuyWithLongHair
5 ай бұрын
"Givers have to learn to set limits, because takers have none"
@delamarhamilton7225
5 ай бұрын
This 🙆♂️
@Seldomheardabout
5 ай бұрын
I like when sentences encapsulate my feelings.
@gazzmania150
5 ай бұрын
This logic has saved me so much hardship XD
@bdickinson6751
5 ай бұрын
100%
@johnjohnblazin
5 ай бұрын
Damn another banger comment , ty
@curtish5925
5 ай бұрын
No reciprocation, no appreciation, only expectation
@SlikPapaRuff
5 ай бұрын
more proof a woman's soul is a Black Hole
@jaredlackey9177
5 ай бұрын
I heard a saying once, "Just because it's expected doesn't mean it shouldn't be appreciated."
@MrBixsonic
5 ай бұрын
Told my sister once what it was like to be in a relationship with a woman these days .."Oh it'll work out fine if you understand it's about her, it's always about her, it's only about her"..... Honestly it's 10 times lonelier than being alone.
@curtish5925
5 ай бұрын
@@MrBixsonic I feel you pain. I remember hearing of a young fellow who just started dating, ask his sister why he's always broke , but she has money. She said, " simple, I have a boyfriend and you have a girlfriend"
@positivel5530
5 ай бұрын
What does reciprocation look like to you?!? Is the affection, concern and care not enough ? Is the fact that I consider you in my day, plans and show up when you ask me to not enough! It’s exhausting on our end too🤷🏻♀️
@MyGFIsMaria
21 күн бұрын
Damn, her reasoning skills are just as sharp as her math skills. "go down from like 100 to 95 to 90 to 80 to 85"...
@kimasp7482
5 ай бұрын
The reason he puts back 5% is because he's trying to see if you're going to give some effort back or not. I don't blame him one single bit.
@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf
5 ай бұрын
Males do this to see if women will allow it. The slow define of effort happens regardless of women's contribution. Ladies, just opt out.
@KRYMauL
5 ай бұрын
Or he’s just been convinced that she’s in love with someone else and that you should move on. I did move on, but she kept expecting something even though everyone said that she was clearly in love with her ex. I was wanting to talk to her ex's girlfriend about my roommate's shit because that was her job. Instead, I got her fired and the girl came out and started screaming saying she thought it was about dating. Not once did I consider myself a prospect because the other guy clearly won by showering her with gifts. Needless to say, I told the guy that was going to Germany and he gave her his phone and told her to chase me. However, I was already of the mind that she would stay with the guy. Now it’s been almost 3 years since a professor called her out and I still want to go on one trip with her. Also, she kept saying that she had a friend. EDIT: Grammar
@RanchKings
5 ай бұрын
@@KRYMauL?
@RoddHoward
5 ай бұрын
@@KRYMauL hey man, just run that through google translate again, I wanted to read what you put, but it doesn't quite make sense. Good luck bro
@user-qs2vs6ji4b
5 ай бұрын
Facts
@guestguest3715
5 ай бұрын
That woman sounds exhausting.
@coleycole5344
5 ай бұрын
😭😭😭
@kennymonty8206
5 ай бұрын
For sure. I'd rather eat a broken light bulb.
5 ай бұрын
which woman
@J-O-H-N
5 ай бұрын
@@kennymonty8206 I'll be sitting next to you taking shot glasses of nails
@kennymonty8206
5 ай бұрын
Oh my God, was there more than one?
@alexanderren1097
5 ай бұрын
Women who demand to be treated like queens usually want a servant not a king
@sm_artx
5 ай бұрын
That's a severe burn for women who say that 😂
@user-gw5tc7nu4r
5 ай бұрын
FACT
@georgecurious2248
5 ай бұрын
Kings have lots of concubines to entertain him. She is not the focus of his life. She is a talking point.
@squidvis
5 ай бұрын
@@georgecurious2248 Not European kings, which is usually the dynamic that women want. Oh and before you say "Henry the VIII!" That was one guy and most people agree that he was a scumbag.
@donquixote...
5 ай бұрын
These days, that'd be a butler, who btw, is paid...
@marbellaotaiza801
10 күн бұрын
Gotta admire the precision of that man that stops giving effort in specific 5% decreases.
@scribblescribble
4 күн бұрын
At least he's consistent! 😂
@getjoshnow
2 күн бұрын
😂😂 perfect quantitative easing
@YaYa-ex8cu
Күн бұрын
I bet he's a mathematics teacher 😂
@marbellaotaiza801
Күн бұрын
@@YaYa-ex8cu 😂
@oceanofdevotion9405
5 ай бұрын
Men stop trying when they realize it's not going anywhere.
@Learntospell-LooseandLose
5 ай бұрын
Or when we realize she not mother material
@chevychelios4672
5 ай бұрын
That woman has audacity to judge, good luck judging and getting left over-over again
@AnEmerald
5 ай бұрын
Bologne
@deependguitar777
5 ай бұрын
AGREED!!!!!!! This woman appears to be one to walk away from FAST!!!!!!!
@RapK-fu2sh
5 ай бұрын
Not receiving the effort back?! Lol suddenly she knows every man's relationship and the problem with it. Nice try! These "experts" spreading toxic misinformation on videos and attempting to validate a segment of men with fragile egos. Real men are confident enough in their abilities and don't need cr@ppy videos to tell how to treat a woman right.
@romanhwc
5 ай бұрын
The lack of self reflection and accountability is unfathomable
@robinwells8879
5 ай бұрын
You’re right. She obviously can’t hear herself. 😢
@timothyrothrock4173
5 ай бұрын
What percentage is she putting out. You receive what you are showing. Don't waste your time figuring him out. What's wrong with me is what you want to work on.
@frayzure
5 ай бұрын
Just your typical wahmen ☕️ these days…
@WomenAreRottingHoles
5 ай бұрын
@@frayzure as I say whine-men
@beatnik6806
5 ай бұрын
Yeah, this woman definitely have had million boyfriends and she is addicted for the first phase of the relationship. Is it called the "honeymoon phase"?
@paulfurse2288
5 ай бұрын
What he gives - no matter how much he gives - gets criticized.
@chrisw8838
5 ай бұрын
It's just criticism all around. It's continuous and everlasting and all encompassing. There's a reason why men die earlier than women even if they are active, in shape healthy and work a safe job with no bad habits. They die inside a little bit after every negative statement and over time that compounds till you've used up all the will to live you had. Even healthy relationships often turn out that way. Some will however be successful and that hope keeps men in relationships they shouldn't be in, putting up with nonsense they wouldn't put up with from a man. It doesn't get better but it can absolutely get worse. So only stay with women who are consistent, who say sorry and try to make amends with you. If she is not your biggest fan and supporter day in day out you should leave. Women are so desperate to be in a relationship they will force it with a guy they don't really love then leave and trash you on the way out. When they shut off the lights in a bar you know it's time to leave, treat your relationships the same way. You'll live longer, be happier and will make room in your life for a woman that actually loves you for who you are.
@chriswilson7211
5 ай бұрын
yep.
@mernmoon
5 ай бұрын
Girls give some in the beginning and then they drop off like a cliff
@stephenhipp7859
5 ай бұрын
Fucking bingo!!
@TheIncredibleMrG777
5 ай бұрын
That is my reality
@AntonioClaudioMichael
21 күн бұрын
Exactly 💯 we stop trying because we dont get the same effort back
@hyperswain
5 ай бұрын
If a woman said this to me, I would ask how much effort are you putting in?
@user-sf3ih2ns2d
5 ай бұрын
SPOT ON...!!! Well Honey, WHERE THE HELL'S "YOUR 100%"...??? WHEN I SEE IT..., THEN YOU'LL SEE "MY 100%" AGAIN....🤔🤨😡👊😎
@Raymal100
5 ай бұрын
"I AM THE TABLE"
@OtisCluck
5 ай бұрын
Then she would get all pissy and offended, and start some tirade about misogyny or some other bullshit
@guitarswiftable
5 ай бұрын
She would simply avoid the accountability by switching topics and offending you with unrelated things
@lukemustafa6692
5 ай бұрын
I wouldn't..... I'd disappear and get on with my life.
@douglashughes2331
Ай бұрын
I stopped when I realized that no amount of effort was being returned.
@Shivam782
Ай бұрын
no one puts the effort unless he gets the appreciation in return. So expecting same level of effort like in the beginning when nothing being reciprocated, that's foolishness
@simpinainteasy680
Ай бұрын
What do you mean your reward was having the honor of expending time money attention and other resources on her. That in and of itself is a far greater reward that can never be paid back.
@Shivam782
Ай бұрын
@@Rapha_the_Ancient just learn from your mistake and never repeat same mistake again. like it is said a smart man makes mistake and never repeat again, a wise man see the mistake of smart man and never does that mistake.
@ItsAllApsyop
Ай бұрын
If that's true AND she ain't working the joy stick, time to part like Moses.
@alejandroperalta1982
Ай бұрын
Well said 👏👏👏
@joshuarobertson2104
5 ай бұрын
An old woman told me when I was a teenager, "Son no matter how good looking she is somebody somewhere is sick of her shit". That's the most truthful statement I've ever heard and it was a 60 year old lady that said it.
@martinboyle9163
5 ай бұрын
Truth!
@user-in3hp6ow2h
5 ай бұрын
Wise words indeed. 😂
@johnlibonati7807
5 ай бұрын
100% truth. Been there.
@GnomesBeCool
5 ай бұрын
Lol my step mom once told get a woman you can get along with because they all look the same in the dark 🤣
@seanlinnan2719
5 ай бұрын
My roommates dad told me that. It's so true
@deezgex
12 күн бұрын
You just answered this the best way possible and of course. A woman thinks no matter what she is putting in 200%
@chrisphillips2401
Ай бұрын
She acts like she is putting in 100% constantly 😂😂
@mockupguy3577
29 күн бұрын
More like 35. The only thing she does is shop and do her hair “to look nice for him”, as if she wouldn’t do the same or more if she was single.
@MJBOGAN
28 күн бұрын
Look at her face, you think she's ever had to try, she swaps guys like shoes.
@MusicPlayingPeon
27 күн бұрын
She may have put more effort into this video.
@LilXancheX
27 күн бұрын
@MJBOGAN if a man chooses that then he has poor tastes
@blaqshiep4920
25 күн бұрын
She acts like, she is unaccountable and unaware. Selfish with blinders on
@zen7RZ
5 ай бұрын
Also another thing they conveniently leave out, is that they get so used to what they receive to the point they take it for granted.
@jaidynbell7885
5 ай бұрын
This! My ex literally admitted to my face that she was taking me treating her good for granted
@notyourtypicalwatchreview2563
5 ай бұрын
@@jaidynbell7885I’m glad she’s your ex.
@take7upyours822
5 ай бұрын
It's expected and never appreciated. And a guy needs respect or he goes elsewhere to get it. That's what these broads always fail to see. Only a simp will grovel and stoop to pathetic levels to please them.
@darkbringer1440
5 ай бұрын
Yeah. Half the time, that "effort" drops 5%, not from less effort but from her taking more of it for granted and just not perceiving it anymore which then triggers the other half the time it drops because he's literally penalized for putting in effort.
@Enigma.88
5 ай бұрын
Saturation my dude
@chad8537
29 күн бұрын
Some women turn frogs into princes and some turn princes into frogs.
@TruckerWife
16 күн бұрын
The way I say it is some women can turn pauper into kings or kings into paupers.
@HumourousPie
11 күн бұрын
I think I dated all the frogs. Not every man wants to change. Sometimes they want to change. you like you want them to change. One that I thought was serious wanted me to dress a certain way. He hated my love for vintage clothing. A female friend influenced me there. I still love vintage clothing. He would ask me why do you wear dead people's clothes? I didn't see it that way. He was into Italian made. He had expensive tastes. I never tried to change him in his clothing style. I just wanted him to have the same faith in God. We broke up because he didn't want to get serious. He brought me to the city I now live in under false pretenses. I said I don't want move here unless we are serious. He was the only I wanted to marry. When we broke up it took me a long time to get over. It wasn't a healthy relationship. I realized so much was missing. No intimacy and lack of communication. I really craved deep conversations. More closeness. I wanted my best friend. He had friends that didn't seem to treat him well. He couldn't see that I treated him better then his friends. I think if language wasn't such a barrier it could have worked much better. So I learned you have to have pie's. Physical, Intellectual, Emotional and Spiritual connection. But honestly that would take a miracle. I don't really know if PIES exist?
@help8help
5 күн бұрын
Megan Markle is a stunning example.
@positivel5530
5 күн бұрын
@@chad8537 facts suggest that married women die earlier because their husbands stress them out and men live longer when married to women.
@Patrickf5087
14 сағат бұрын
@@HumourousPie why should they "change" and why are you trying to "change" another person. Women expect men to love them unconditionally. While you proved you will only love a man that changes. The sad part is alot of women do get guys to change and then dump the guy because they are then more.bkring than they where
@hallinden3942
2 күн бұрын
Women like this are the reason men are going their own way and being happier about it
@jeremymcauliff8485
5 ай бұрын
Absolute facts. Dudes get tired of giving 100% while receiving 0% back. It's unsustainable.
@notrelatedtobacon1282
5 ай бұрын
Effort and investment is like a battery for wach person How can we keep the charge up when we are only giving but never being recharged in kind right?
@tiagomota6226
5 ай бұрын
todays woman just put makeup on their faces and they already think they are the center of the universe like this one for example you look at her face and you can see she is full of makeup and so just because of that she thinks he as to give give give because she is a princess with makeup i am a real supporter of the ending of makeup companies let the woman be who they are with insecurity but at least she will get her feet on the ground for a change and pray for this modern woman mentality of being center of the attention and 304 passed and make them again wife material i truly belive if the cosmetics doesnt end they will forever be that unfortunately.
@shieldwolf65
5 ай бұрын
The whole beauty industry is calculated to attract men, all the surgical mods, salon Work, false lashes, hair, Botox, spray tans, lip fillers, Kardashian fashion that makes them expensive high maintenance Plastic Princesses. Of Course they think they've done all this for you, you should for everything else for her. Ultimately you'll end up paying for her vanity & she'll never understand it her vanity, not what you need. Red flags on these girls. For going out on a special occasion sure, for everyday - Run & don't look back.
@robertnoble6661
5 ай бұрын
Yup, if a woman cares, appreciates, and loves a man it will reach to 1000%
@andrewgardner1727
5 ай бұрын
@@tiagomota6226great idea and see how fast these woman will crumble it’s truly a sad fake world we live in
@frozenkilt
5 ай бұрын
You can guarantee this broad is putting in a consistent 0%. One of the ones who, if asked what she brings to the relationship, she says "Me!" like that's a prize
@samuraitadpole5459
5 ай бұрын
Sadly there's an abundance of her personality type especially since women 99% of the time don't approach
@waynehewett4017
5 ай бұрын
This entitled bird is no prize...
@willshad
5 ай бұрын
@@Andel-1995 They don't approach anyone, except maybe the cops to report men 'harassing' them.
@brandonshelton7692
5 ай бұрын
@@Andel-1995 keep simping brother, it makes it a lot easier for the rest of us who actively avoid the nukes that “approach” you. Just so you know since you’re oblivious, you are responsible for the over inflated egos these women have you donut.
@RubbingPotatoes
5 ай бұрын
Don't be a hater. What she's saying is 100% true and you know you'd date her if you could. Like a dog waiting for a treat.
@madninja7319
5 ай бұрын
Imagine if men expected women to give 100% of what they can offer…….😂
@waynehewett4017
5 ай бұрын
Yer right ... Hell would freeze over first before that ever happened....
@moldovancrisis5482
5 ай бұрын
That truly got a laugh from me. Thank you; very cathartic to see I am not alone in my experience. 😂 She wants to put in 5% effort and be praised like it's 110% and meanwhile nothing is ever enough for her.
@thesignman704
5 ай бұрын
😂🤣😂
@Voxavs
5 ай бұрын
lol fair point
@connor7296
5 ай бұрын
This is why i want to die.
@Viper3220
4 сағат бұрын
When a man does this, he's finding a level of effort he feels matches the effort you're giving.
@monicaparker4922
5 ай бұрын
Women like that don't actually like their man, they just like what he can do for them
@seanceknowles2911
5 ай бұрын
Can say the same thing of men. Men will stay with or even marry women they don’t like.
@moon66487
5 ай бұрын
Why would be with someone that does NOTHING for you? You really want to be with a man that'll let you raise the kids on your own? Or perhaps doesn't even show you love in anyway?
@yoachim91
4 ай бұрын
@@seanceknowles2911 You never heard any man say what the woman in this video says EVER. You know why? Because we don't think that way, if i don't get the same attention from a woman i start by thinking what i did wrong not what she did wrong....
@seanceknowles2911
4 ай бұрын
@@yoachim91 that’s not true. While there is a percentage of men who don’t think like this, there is another who does. I’m old enough to have seen with people around me to all the places I’ve been and the people I’ve met that a man will drag you along without hesitation if you let him. They won’t question why the attention that he put first is decreasing because he exhibited just right to be able to get you and after that there is no effort needed according to him. Men get too comfortable in relationships and marriage and that’s just not how things work. When I mean comfortable is not putting the same effort. Women disconnect or exist the relationship mentality and emotionally before walking away. Why? Because you tell the man that he is lacking in the attention and affection and intimacy department and he will look at you dumbfounded like you’re some horrible liar.
@yoachim91
4 ай бұрын
@@seanceknowles2911 Ofcourse men "drag you along" we are the once who mostly start relationships and marriage in the first place . You know how marriage "works"? Till death do us part what do you think that means? Yeah and that is normal that after a while you start building a live instead of being inlove teenagers. Having a woman is only one small aspect of being a successful man so we can't just focus on that. Once you have children it becomes even worse because all the attention and time go's to the kids. We men are always in last place when it comes to attention but you think you get to complain to us when we get used to that? I think loads of women think they put in the effort but complaining about everything is not putting in effort btw. Strange way to solve a problem disconnecting and giving up, imagine if we men did that what the world would look like. You do realise how hopeless and childish that sounds right? "I don't get enough attention so i am going to trow a tantrum so i get attention the wrong way" and you find it strange we look at you like you are crazy. Your whole comment proves it again, where is the " what did i do " but no it's always the mans fault right 😂. We men can never do enough women always want more and they offer the bare minimum. You say women want attention, affection, intimacy from a relationship, oke so one little question for you, you have a clue what men want?
@kevinclause4p55p5
2 ай бұрын
Nobody can afford red lobster, an amusement park, a dozen roses, and to take off work every single day. Its called scarcity.
@kingcerberus93
Ай бұрын
It's called life lol
@dirkfrazier9779
Ай бұрын
It's because somebody quit puttung out!
@ohseeus5406
5 ай бұрын
Crazy how they never question themselves. But quickly blames the man.
@patriarchmike
5 ай бұрын
It never even once occurs to them that they may be the problem. Not even once not ever.
@kevinward3088
5 ай бұрын
Western women believe that they are perfect and men are beneath them
@MrTsukudu
5 ай бұрын
They know they are useless and have no agency without men, that's why
@nedflanders3769
5 ай бұрын
Yep
@shieldwolf65
5 ай бұрын
Unless you want an argument DON'T ever suggest they might be the problem. 80% of Women simply won't accept it & will go on the attack, denial, whataboutism, Kitchen sinking, burning every bridge just to be right. Then of course you're expected to apologise for upsetting her.
@fuzzynutz069
12 күн бұрын
Thanks for standing up for the guys. We are constantly hearing about "toxic masculinity" and not so much about the "toxic" flip side of that coin. The "I don't need a man unless he's going to take care of me, my bills, my baggage, and everything else because I'm a woman" group absolutely blows my (and my wife's) mind. Relationships should be partnerships. If your spouse is 100% taking care of existence, then you are livestock and not a partner. It sets unrealistic expectations.
@yarriddevogelaere2005
5 ай бұрын
A lot of men don't even expect equal effort in return, they'd settle for appreciation.
@AdLockhorst-bf8pz
5 ай бұрын
And sensible communication! Why can't women just *decide* and then *say* what they *WANT?!?*
@b4rs629
5 ай бұрын
@@AdLockhorst-bf8pz because they're indecisive 99.9% of the time. They can't even figure out what they want to eat.
@AdLockhorst-bf8pz
5 ай бұрын
@@b4rs629 Oh, but they DO! They want what's on your plate, things they are shy about ordering. Like fries.
@tonyrobbins1665
5 ай бұрын
Yes, and cooperation
@rudy_dstroys1821
5 ай бұрын
Ding ding ding! It's really isn't as complicated as math but really feeling appreciated is more than enough for me. Or at least acknowledging my efforts have gotten us this far without any negativity.
@billucf96
5 ай бұрын
This girl is used to giving 0%, and cries when the man wants her to do anything.
@MG46931
5 ай бұрын
Effort is always proportionate to appreciation.
@johnnelson7192
5 ай бұрын
Ooh ooh. I like this. 😮😮😮
@notyourtypicalwatchreview2563
5 ай бұрын
Well said.
@lilmama88
5 ай бұрын
As a decent woman(I'm35), that is correct.👌🎯
@yyyyyk
5 ай бұрын
Not just appreciation, also reciprocation!
@Todd_Swank
5 ай бұрын
Yep, I heard my neighbor compliment how my lawn looked dozen more times than I heard my soon to be ex say anything positive about the work I did.
@kurtwagner307
5 сағат бұрын
Thank you, your shorts make me feel appreciated on bad days. Thank you for caring!
@stephenballard3759
2 ай бұрын
When effort doesn't pay off, the energy goes somewhere else.
@benoitguillou3146
2 ай бұрын
Women spending starts at 100% , the she move in your home so you gotta pay food , her Netflix bill yada yada , you're now at 120% , then she puts out kiddies , expenses jumps up to 260% ....long story short the guy has to put more effort at work and comes back home exhausted hence the 10% in the "relationship involvement" .....But then she asks for divorce and the expenses skyrocket to 1650% plus half the house ....At this point "relationship involvement " touches minus 20%
@21nitro21
2 ай бұрын
No, play the game build your value.
@SteveInLava
2 ай бұрын
@@21nitro21value is lost if very few is reciprocated.
@shieldwolf65
2 ай бұрын
Sometimes the women these days are clueless as to what energy they have to return. They think it's just se×, or paying the next tab & everything will be fine. With the average Chad, which is where most of thier experience is, that's a Fair mov😅e. With a Real man looking for. Relationship??? *NOPE*
@shieldwolf65
2 ай бұрын
Maybe try initiating *"Affection"* not lust. Showing genuine interest in his hobbies, putting time into figuring him out, plan outings, dates etc to off the wall places that show she understands him better.
@ricardomiranda7768
5 ай бұрын
Sounds like a manager talking about an employee's declining performance.
@rezzo_6fn659
5 ай бұрын
Facts. A LOT of women swear they give effort when they don't give a damn thing
@jomacba
5 ай бұрын
I will add that in my experience women will only out in the effort when it's convenient for them.
@bjornironsides6474
5 ай бұрын
Yup only when convenient and they think just seggs is the only effort they need to give. Let's ignore the constant nagging, passive aggressiveness, acting like cleaning means you're doing nothing... etc.
@TheDeathmail
5 ай бұрын
The reverse is also true. Many times, problems males face in relations with females are often also reflected in reverse...
@jzurita6186
5 ай бұрын
@@TheDeathmailwomen believe simply showing up to the date is putting effort. That's like saying accepting a gift is reciprocating.
@shinymew2887
5 ай бұрын
@@TheDeathmailyou shouldn’t be able to vote.
@chocolatety130
Күн бұрын
Amen! 🙏🏾 speak the truth. We need something back 😇
@1notgilty
5 ай бұрын
I didn't hear her say ONE WORD about how much effort SHE puts into the relationship. My advice for the guy is: RUN AWAY! RUN AWAY! DANGER WILL ROBINSON! DANGER!
@sircefiro
5 ай бұрын
What do you mean? She's so fn amazing, you're graced by her presence
@ShiftyMcGoggles
5 ай бұрын
@@sircefiro Think he's talking about the tik-tok user, not Emily.
@112233JORDAN
5 ай бұрын
There will always be a sucker for her as long as she has those looks. Eventually, that will disappear, and she will be forced to settle. Sad reality of life.
@1notgilty
5 ай бұрын
@@112233JORDAN Right. And then she'll make that chump's life a misery until they get divorced and she takes half of his worldly possessions. What a deal!
@K.B.Williams
5 ай бұрын
@@1notgilty Say it again so they can hear that in the back!
@ImARealHumanPerson
5 ай бұрын
Understood. Start off at 10% fellas.
@samuri119
5 ай бұрын
My Grandma always said don't set the bar to high, because where do you go after that?..
@budisutanto5987
5 ай бұрын
Always, don't envy guys who can get girls fast, he's giving everything & got nothing in return.
@WomenAreRottingHoles
5 ай бұрын
@@budisutanto5987 depends if he is ugly ye he is giving if he is hot no she is giving
@dandotvid
5 ай бұрын
10% is a bit unrealistic. Really, you should start off at around 70% and make sure she's worth the other 30%.
@JoeJ-8282
5 ай бұрын
I would say start off with only "half" effort (50%), and ONLY IF she proves herself to be actually worthy of the "rest" of you, THEN you can do more, but NOT unless and until she shows that she's actually worth that much from you, with her overall quality of character, personality, morals, values, and especially her quality of internal Spirit! If she can't show you that much then she's never gonna be worth any more than only your "50%". (And of course the exact number percentages to start with and then go up (or down) from is ultimately relatively unimportant, but the main thing is that a true partnership and Loving relationship is only worth it IF it's an EQUAL energy, effort, time, affection, Love, and positivity exchange among and from BOTH partners, back and forth to each other, and on an ongoing, continual basis throughout your lives together as a couple!
@GotCamel
27 күн бұрын
Emily understands men. Ladies, listen to her. She’s on point.
@Treeesmith
5 күн бұрын
Yeah it's alway us, pfffft
@deckzone3000
3 күн бұрын
No, she understands boys, not real men.
@erickempenaers1497
3 күн бұрын
@deckzone3000 be a slave for you girl in the hope that she will stay with you has not to do with 'real men'
@ddevil4980
3 күн бұрын
@@deckzone3000what? Do you watch he videos? She's usually spot on.
@deckzone3000
3 күн бұрын
@@ddevil4980 What are "he" videos?
@MajorHuck
19 күн бұрын
Nailed it with the explanation. I'm lucky to have someone who understands that after talking it through.
@OKRickety
11 күн бұрын
It's good she understands, but it's sad you had to explain it. It should be learned from seeing how others behave.
@kaede15
5 ай бұрын
That actually says a lot how much reciprocation this woman gives to her men.
@Resmund
5 ай бұрын
My ex used to love bomb me all the time, when I got used to it and also responded more she stopped, that was around 6 months into the relationship, then she called me clingy when I asked if anything was wrong because there was sudden decline in our talks and effort on her part, so I also started putting less effort and after few months it was all over.
@djgamingdragon969
5 ай бұрын
@@Resmundsame exact shit happened to me, bro(maybe i put up with bs longer than 6 months until I blocked her) but she had you trauma bonded bro
@bigheadrhino
2 ай бұрын
It’s called comfort. A truly happy couple can just be in each other’s company doing literally nothing saying nothing and be perfectly content.
@georgefromgreece4119
Ай бұрын
Excellent insight.
@MarcIverson
Ай бұрын
That's the only kind of people who should be a couple.
@Richard_Nickerson
Ай бұрын
This. I need a woman who understands this.
@cjkohlberg
Ай бұрын
This is me and my girl. She has anxiety so she doesn't like to do too much. Lucky for me, I don't either lol. So we send reels and talk all day. And when I see her we just hangout and watch TV and talk and do all the cozy things together
@jeffsaxton716
Ай бұрын
You learn that if you manage to avoid breaking up by sixty or so.
@jeffwestbrooke279
5 ай бұрын
It's not "give, give, give" its "provide, provide, provide". Treat him like he is 100% and he will keep providing 100%. He cuts back because you take him for granted.
@Justin-ox2xn
5 ай бұрын
They don’t think this is possible! It’s our job 😢
@mrOGbobbyjohnson
5 ай бұрын
Providing is giving. Doesn’t matter if it’s food, money or time, you’re still giving it
@maleenajewelry
5 ай бұрын
Treat her 100% in bed first 😂
@amandaparker7661
Күн бұрын
My husband always tells our boys "if u want to treated like a king you have to treat em like a queen, if your wants to be treated like a queen they have to treat you like a king, it goes both ways equality boys" hes so full of it though, he treats us better than he treats himself
@willmartin7293
Ай бұрын
Emily is absolutely correct. It gets really tiring to put in 100% effort all the time and just receive an entitled attitude in return.
@FrankHaubrich-kd9vr
Ай бұрын
Right on
@KnightlyRogue
Ай бұрын
Thank you. No reciprocation and no effort yet all attitude for you not wanting to be the only one putting in. 😮💨
@julianchillby1024
21 күн бұрын
Men do lie and sell fake promises though. i have done it countless times in order to get sex with women who wouldn't have done it with me if I didn't sell fake promises, I wouldn't have been nearly as successful as I have been At least i can admit this, meanwhile you losers just continue to cope and think you're 100% morally correct while you're sitting here bashing women
@Godric_71
5 ай бұрын
Remember gentlemen, no matter how beautiful she is, someone, somewhere is tired of putting up with her crap.
@sarvolfe6435
5 ай бұрын
Dude, I love your avatar.
@seeya205
5 ай бұрын
Beauty gets old quick when they are a b.
@DrummerJay74
5 ай бұрын
After awhile of not getting anything in return you give up trying. And then the woman wonders why? They aren't too bright are they?
@ChineduOpara
5 ай бұрын
Absolutely true!
@beatnik6806
5 ай бұрын
Yeah, this woman definitely have had million boyfriends and she is addicted for the first phase of the relationship. Is it called the "honeymoon phase"?
@weezem
5 ай бұрын
The man just begins to match the effort the woman gives. Know your worth kings 👑
@PaydayGabeBCNV
5 ай бұрын
🙌 This comment is 💯 Valid !! Sadly everything has become "transactional". " what have you done for me lately "...🤦♂️ Pathetic.
@jakemidnight7458
5 ай бұрын
Damn good comment
@brendoncarl5870
11 күн бұрын
Your commentary on relationships is 70 percent the reason I'm still single. Keep up the good work!
@stephan5353
5 ай бұрын
Right. That woman just talks about what she wants. She never even thinks about what HE might want. No wonder this is her experience.
@SilentHotdog28
5 ай бұрын
It's also because she is going after guys that treat her like that, for some reason women like guys treating them badly......but then complain about it, then do it again. Women don't know what they want.
@vivekagrawal4232
5 ай бұрын
100-0 90-0 80-0 50-0 10-0
@antclerfont8478
5 ай бұрын
For real
@christianchetwood2581
5 ай бұрын
@@SilentHotdog28She is probably more into the guys than they are into her if that is the case. In that situation, taking away their attention makes her want to chase. She feels the illusion of action as her anxiety kicks in. She's probably addicted to those kinds of guys and is only just realising.
@SilentHotdog28
5 ай бұрын
@@christianchetwood2581 But she will eventually try and 'settle down' and get with someone that is actually good for her and try and convince him that she isn't damaged goods. She likely won't be able to succeed and will become jaded and take it out on the younger generation of women by telling them to do the same thing.
@CanadianARMY1000
3 ай бұрын
A mans effort is directly correlated with how much of his soul hasn't been sucked out and crushed.
@pwh5805
3 ай бұрын
Yup, if you meet this type of man, just run.
@scotshanley
3 ай бұрын
@@pwh5805run ? Run where ? Run to the next man whose life your going to destroy. 🤦🏻♂️ May your feet always be bare and every road you walk on be filled with broken glass that you may never reach your destination or destroy another man's soul.
@d.gerstmann4930
3 ай бұрын
False. That's boy shit.
@pwh5805
3 ай бұрын
@@scotshanley ?? All I’m saying is do not engage with these men. Stay far away from them. You’re interpreting it as the opposite?🤷
@troysimmons506
3 ай бұрын
This applies Jobs as well
@Myself-im9xi
5 ай бұрын
Modern Woman: Women can do everything a man can do... Except reciprocate effort in a relationship.
@elpacho....9254
5 ай бұрын
Or admit fault.
@jackyoung2198
5 ай бұрын
Or have less bodies then a man.
@Iron-Bridge
5 ай бұрын
They can do everything except the difficult stuff that exists outside their narcissistic lens.
@darinheight6293
5 ай бұрын
Yes they can, even have sex with women. A man these days have it extremely difficult trying to compete for women.
@KhayreeMiles
5 ай бұрын
Facts😂😂😂😂
@jacobblatnica
19 күн бұрын
This woman is a genius!
@seemykids99
3 ай бұрын
Ladies, men give you the amount of effort you deserve. If his effort is going down, YOU are slacking.
@tomaszstramel3594
2 ай бұрын
Even that is often done on credit, i.e. in the hope of being at some point reciprocated.
@1Skorpia
2 ай бұрын
That's when men get dumped. 😂
@TheLvGordo
2 ай бұрын
@@1Skorpiaenjoy your cats
@seemykids99
2 ай бұрын
@@1Skorpia and I'm sure those men are absolutely crushed that a No Effort Woman left them. And, yeah, enjoy those cats.
@crytoorlabs6347
2 ай бұрын
Why should they when they can move on to next guy effortlessly and without consequences
@dalehatton6965
4 ай бұрын
Meanwhile, she gives 10% at the start and continues to give 10% and says "my effort has never gone down, unlike yours!"
@paulf3
4 ай бұрын
Yep. This is the same kind of woman that gets dressed up to go out with the girls and tells her husband that she doesn't dress up for him because he's the safe space, the whole point is to not have to put in effort.
@marinalovric2700
4 ай бұрын
Maybe its just a manipulation tactic hot and cold to lurk in her emotions and becomes emotionally attached 🤷♀️
@allanirvine7304
4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂👏🏻 amen brother
@brandonfeeley514
4 ай бұрын
@@marinalovric2700could be but most men aren't that manipulative, unless the were used a bunch by people unless they basically broke and went to full manipulate mode. That's only like 10% of men. The only reason "all the men I know" comes out of single people's mouths referring to manipulative people is they only go to the bars and the clubs where the predators are. The minute the see a real man who would actually put in the effort, most times blow him off and not even say hi or make eye contact, because of all the manipulative guys they are constantly around. Then only if they are like male model looking even give a chance...but then if he is actually considerate he has to fight a thin line of be a jerk/look the part or he gets completely blown of like he is weak. Be willing to bet most guys that are being blown off like this make a pretty good wage, and would actually take care of you. If you asked them to do some freaky thing they would. But too stuck on obviously 100% of men are out to do something nefarious, which is a mistaken belief. But just keep gping on with that mistaken belief wondering why you always end up in the same situation.
@FormedBox
4 ай бұрын
The effort goes down because over time we realize that no matter how much we give, it will never be enough.
@asdfbeau
4 ай бұрын
people need to understand that it isn't a conscious decision until you're at that 10%. That initial 100% is a man's attempt to show what's _possible_ with him, if she comes in and supports him. Nobody can give 100% of their best time/energy to someone, without other parts of their life suffering.
@DeniseFriendo
4 ай бұрын
It's not about giving enough in their mind, it's about being enough.
@DrBoX89
4 ай бұрын
Before I met my wife, this was my experience. Giving everything but getting zero from the other side
@paulguzman7088
4 ай бұрын
That's why it should be, everyone put up 50%/50% since we're equals. Women's effort will likely stay higher than the current 1%
@definingimage
4 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@forbidden1086
4 күн бұрын
If the man is not putting in 100% it's because he feels like he's not getting the same effort in return
@jkutyna
3 ай бұрын
The man is slowly becoming aware of his situation and he is lowering his level of effort to match that of his partner.
@aliray7833
2 ай бұрын
Yep.
@Ard-mhacha-abu
2 ай бұрын
100%
@ashley_brown6106
2 ай бұрын
Not true at all, I always give 100% every day and they always drop and drop
@NigraeLegiones
2 ай бұрын
@@ashley_brown6106then you've chosen the wrong person. Men generally will always put in 100 when they're shown that theyre loved and approciated for it. However if that isn't the case then their efforts starts lowering yo match what they're receiving. Tbh what most women view as putting in effort isn't actual effort they seem to have the view that being attractive and having a vagina is all the effort needed from them and men should just give give give.
@jkutyna
2 ай бұрын
@@ashley_brown6106 perhaps your 100% does not match their 100%, so yet again, they are lowering their effort level. It is difficult to self analyze ourselves until we get older and more objective. It is a skill you must actively cultivate in an effort to become a better human being.
@trentd483
5 ай бұрын
Show your man 100% appreciation he'll never stop giving 100%
@Fyfester666
5 ай бұрын
Facts! That's the effort we appreciate! This entitled "but its the bare minimum" attitude a lot of women seem to have for what's quite frankly 110% above and beyond levels of effort is astonishing!
@zakirchoudhury9206
5 ай бұрын
That’s no true. Most people don’t give 100%. They give what they can get away with. It’s not gender specific.
@heinzerbrew
5 ай бұрын
@@zakirchoudhury9206 right on the money about the average human.
@psychopompous489
5 ай бұрын
@@zakirchoudhury9206 I wouldn't say people only give what they can get away with. People give what they think is maintainable, what can help give them a sense of meaning, and what they think will be returned. That's usually 75% for a good situation (In case they get blindsided, and need 25% spare), and bare minimum in a bad one.
@raphaele863
5 ай бұрын
If he gives a 100 in the beginning he definitely can continue if he sees ur appropriation (not though words only but being caring towards him n building relationship) instead some women expect their attendance to be enough.
@harigaribovic799
5 ай бұрын
it goes down because when we give 100%, you don't appreciate it, so you ask for 150% and you give nothing in return
@runeingebretsen8378
5 ай бұрын
and women only put in 100 percent in bed,outside of bed they put in 50 percent.
@harigaribovic799
5 ай бұрын
@@runeingebretsen8378 more like 20 precent in bed especially if you are in a long-term relationship if she even wants to have s.. but that's something we don't talk about here 😂🤣😂😅
@andrewstratton806
5 ай бұрын
@@runeingebretsen8378some don't even put out 100 percent effort in bed
@shakeelahmed8222
5 ай бұрын
😂😂
@kevinl3235
2 күн бұрын
All your analogies are spot on!
@mallo1353
5 ай бұрын
He’s matching the effort he’s getting in return
@BiG__Disgruntled
5 ай бұрын
The fact that this girl has figured this out tells you about the amount of effort she's giving men.
@BadManaManXXi
5 ай бұрын
or shows you the amount of effort women show to men, the fact that one doing this seems so abnormal
@Joe_P
5 ай бұрын
If you asked her what she was giving to the man, 100% it would be "you know, ME, like, he gets to have me, or whatever" as if their mere presence is the fucking be all end all of everything. You put on makeup and did your hair, yes absolutely let me worship the ground you walk on
@raphaele863
5 ай бұрын
@@Joe_P Soo true, some people just expect dat from guys without making effort n thinking their presence is enough. I know for a fact that appreciation and being caring would boost it back to 💯 for most guys
@washedtg1093
5 ай бұрын
@@BadManaManXXiI don’t care if it seems abnormal it seems women can be bad partners just as much as men. There’s a whole bunch of posts where you can see how women mistreat their partners. My ex is a good example of wanting so much and not reciprocating
@peak4366
5 ай бұрын
I mean it's just common sense. I'm 18, never even been in the talking stage with a girl before, and I would've said the same shit.
@donbartholomew8273
5 ай бұрын
He will be accused of being "emotionally abusive" soon if he communicates that his needs are not being met and that the woman is selfish and unappreciative
@AS-gf5jn
5 ай бұрын
She seems highly unstable emotionally, wise men will avoid at all cost. She has trauma not dealt with IMO.
@HellHoundOne
3 күн бұрын
Thank you girl! You set them straight! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@scorpionsrock1511
4 ай бұрын
When a good man drops the effort, he realised that you aren’t worth his full effort.
@pduidesign
5 ай бұрын
Exactly. The man is just tapering down his effort to the same level that woman is putting in.
@kyledurkin2833
5 ай бұрын
More than likely it's putting out, not in lol
@Fyfester666
5 ай бұрын
Yup! Like when your netflix premium free trial runs runs out and you don't want to pay full price anymore so you opt for the cheapest option.....but that option may come with adverts you don't want and limited quality or content
@el7284
5 ай бұрын
Maybe it's tapering down to the actual normal level? It's likely the "100%" is actually 150%
@jaredgailes8169
5 ай бұрын
Absolutely correct Looking for reciprocity
@nichster080
4 ай бұрын
Eleven thousand people just told this girl she's wrong, maybe there is hope for the internet after all
@NewYorkNadia
4 ай бұрын
RIGHT?!? 😂
@gabriell558
3 ай бұрын
10,999 are men 😂
@ACuriousChild
3 ай бұрын
@@gabriell558 EVE never had any sense for limits - as insinuated by THE SERPENT in THE GARDEN OF EDEN - nor for GOD ALMIGHTY!
@esq73
3 ай бұрын
Like #101
@adamrouse16
3 ай бұрын
I wonder how receptive she would be to knowing she was wrong. My guess is not very.
@lnr12241
5 күн бұрын
The work a man puts into a relationship is in direct relation to the amount of respect he gets back. RESPECT. Not money. RESPECT
@SS-th9wz
5 ай бұрын
Hence the reason a dog is a man’s best friend.
@eduardosantana8300
5 ай бұрын
I don’t know about you, but I’m not going to screw a dog. I’ll happily take on the bitchin
@BlueeyesofSkye
5 ай бұрын
This is 100% true. If I’m not getting back, I back off on my effort.
@mcmarkmarkson7115
5 ай бұрын
No men puts 100% effort at the start. 100% comes when the kids are born. That "math" is just embarrassing for all women
@taylortripodi85
5 ай бұрын
It is simply because men are best at romance and passion generally. The relationship is an emotional entity. It primarily falls on the shoulders of a woman. Not fair , too bad, smarten up, get to work if you want a long long-term healthy relationship. The key is kindness and acceptance,not berating them for what they don't possess. We are learning about ourselves so you can choose to be a shrew or wise, you pick.
@JS-nd1po
5 ай бұрын
Men are kings of reciprocity, men will logically weigh out their decisions, if they try and the woman is not responsive, rejects, criticized etc, men will back off because they know it doesn’t matter.
@antclerfont8478
5 ай бұрын
Exactly. So she can post many videos of oh men gave me 5% but not willing to raise it up to 100%. Well honey, wat de fuck are you doing for him to even receive that amount. Don't like it, well stay single. Cause.men ain't gonna throw in %100 for a used car....
@gracefulPainter
5 ай бұрын
You start feeling being taken advantage of. No self repeating person wants that
@markdelgado8831
3 күн бұрын
You are SO RIGHT and the other woman doesn’t have a clue 💯
@TokyoSexwale23
5 ай бұрын
I stopped talking to a girl a few months ago for this EXACT reason. I think she might’ve seen the original video because she said almost the exact same thing about my effort dropping by certain percentages and called me manipulative. That was the craziest thing I’ve heard all year. I’m not manipulative, she just refused to reciprocate interest and even told me herself that she doesn’t think she should have to put effort into relationships. Sometimes you just need to let them be someone else’s problem ✌🏾
@SvenDansk7
5 ай бұрын
She told you that she doesn't believe she should have to put effort in? Does she really think relationships should just happen to her? That is unhinged.
@allanmason3201
5 ай бұрын
So she didn't feel the need to devote any of her time and emotional energy to making the relationship positive for both of you, and it was all on you to make the necessary sacrifices and compromises? Walking away from Miss Entitled was an excellent move.
@sunfilms5089
5 ай бұрын
@swenDansk7 Women like this view “dating” as just something that”happens to them”, not as something that they “Initiate” or put any effort into. If this is how they are unfortunately.
@TokyoSexwale23
5 ай бұрын
@@allanmason3201exactly. It was the most extreme form of not wanting to go 50/50 or the “I am the table” mindset I’ve ever seen. One thing she taught me was that all that glitters is most certainly not gold
@TokyoSexwale23
5 ай бұрын
@@SvenDansk7yeah she wanted the man to do all of the work to try to “win” her, then he has the great privilege of paying all her bills (sarcasm). She even told me she didn’t want a man in a relationship with her to feel secure, like he could be replaced at any moment. Some of the stuff she said was so ridiculous and came out of the blue, I just had to move on
@GJG2010
5 ай бұрын
He isn’t dropping his effort level, he is just trying to match hers!
@johnboehmer6683
2 ай бұрын
Very good way to put it
@jaobidan2358
4 ай бұрын
She was never told, in life, that you get what you put in.
@shawny5338
3 ай бұрын
Amen.
@iricellyperez2677
3 ай бұрын
This is bs the 1 chick talking is referring to the gius that play games, the toxic narcissistic guys that don't know how to give what they receive and their unrealistic expectations. Walk away from those types this advice will save you years of pain and turmoil.
@DreamProphet417
3 ай бұрын
@@iricellyperez2677 your assuming she's 100% perfect and anyone who dates her should worship the ground she walks on. Yeah, ok buddy
@jessebarnett4205
3 ай бұрын
@@iricellyperez2677Bahaaaa. Narcissistic behavior is believing guys are the problem 😂😂.
@DirtyJamesUK
3 ай бұрын
Because women don't. I thought about it a few years ago, and they get men (some they find very attractive) coming up to them, being nice almost everyday. Doors open for them. Cars that breakdown magically get fixed and them rescued. It's life on ultra easy mode. This is why they talk so much about manifesting. Because good things actually just come and find them.
@TheGritherr
13 күн бұрын
If you married well and you’re right in the head, keeping a scorecard isn’t forefront in your mind, you just enjoy each other’s company. You’re in sync.
@RFK-POTUS
2 ай бұрын
Only a woman would legitimately feel like she has a right to complain about effort while giving absolutely zero. It doesn't even cross her mind. That's the scary part
@grantbishop1961
Ай бұрын
It's because their taco 🌮 😋 is a commodity to be used and traded for goods and money. The thing is their quality is not all the same level lol.
@salbahejim
Ай бұрын
It's not really scary, is just sad and disappointing.
@RichardDraggin99
Ай бұрын
Bingo
@raymondpeters9983
Ай бұрын
Better having a hooked its cheaper 😂
@ShaneOffTheGrid
Ай бұрын
@raymondpeters9983 not getting into my tyraid about that. We agree. Lmfao. However in my world. I have no choice but to take the biblical verse. " the appearance of evil is evil." My x-mother in laws parents were agents for the CIA. In Greece in the 50's, 60's & 70's. Her mother was the redacter her father was definitely involved in government sanctioned murders of non American Civilians & illegal espionage. Trust me when I tell you this woman has pulled her favors & strings to go ALL IN ON MAKING MY LIFE MISERABLE. Don't worry. Book # 2 I'm holding no punches, I'm 6 chapters into writing it. It'll probably make a good script for a movie too. I have so many audio recordings of the BS this woman & her husband have put me through. I WILL NOT HOLD PUNCHES.
@matthewkaptena9512
5 ай бұрын
Nailed it. It's hard to keep giving 100% when you're always only getting 50% in return.
@lane8376
5 ай бұрын
A 50% return is unrealistic. It’s lower than that like a 5 or 10% maybe.
@viper-the-great
5 ай бұрын
where you getting 50% from? it's more like .0001%
@DruidicWanderer
5 ай бұрын
Wait, you’re getting 50%?!?!?!?
@Algo1
5 ай бұрын
But um, if you give a 100, and then the other person gives 50, the couple gets 150%. Pretty good deal, but impossible.
@johnrambo2876
5 ай бұрын
Give him something worth 100%
@rodgerkeller403
11 күн бұрын
Thank you. Coming from a man, I can say this is spot on. Great video.
@nezaeya
5 ай бұрын
Very true. A true healthy relationship is when the 'effort' is coming from BOTH sides. Should NEVER be one-sided.
@user-bc2cv8ic9m
5 ай бұрын
YES!
@ryanandrews321
5 ай бұрын
Exactly. When our efforts are no longer reciprocated we start drifting further and further away until the relationship is over.
@sunfilms5089
5 ай бұрын
Women seems to view things like getting her hair done, nails done, new outfit as “reciprocation” to the man. But a man does not view this as reciprocal TO him. These are just things that she does “for herself”. He is already attracted to and interested in her. HE needs to know she appreciates the things he does for her: planning dates, etc.
@clearsky9109
5 ай бұрын
@sunfilms5089 from KZitem videos I jokingly think does reciprocation exist anymore?
@toddr.6209
5 ай бұрын
When a relationship becomes transactional, it's no longer a relationship. It's business.
@seanblanchard3333
5 ай бұрын
So you never bought a woman dinner? Taken her to the movies? Bought her clothes? Financed her car? Provided for her child? Are you supposed to get nothing in return? Please elaborate on exactly how relationships are not transactional? Do you really expect a woman to stay if you buy her nothing?
@toddr.6209
5 ай бұрын
@@seanblanchard3333 That is giving your 100% in return for her 100%. And showing that you are willing to give 100%. Both people should start at this point and never stop. When people begin keeping track & metering out affection, intimacy, & participation based on perceived ROI, it's a business.
@quigon6349
5 ай бұрын
If I have to buy everything then hard pass I am not getting used
@RisingChaos
5 ай бұрын
@@seanblanchard3333 Implicit vs explicit. I dote on my girlfriend because I like her, for example. I do not expect her to directly return my affections 1:1, I am not explicitly 'keeping score' or a ledger of transactions. Over time, however, I will notice if she isn't putting in a similar level of effort toward me. After all, if she likes me and she's a good person, she should want to dote on me just as much. Her not doing that is proof that she either doesn't like me or that she's a bad person, and so I should end the relationship. It's not like loaning someone $100 and expecting them to pay you back in the near future out of obligation. It's more like loaning someone $100 and then expecting them to be the type of person who is eager to pay you back because it's the right thing to do.
@burmy1552
5 ай бұрын
... and if we're being completely transactional then my financial investments appreciate and her looks depreciate. Just a fact of life. This is why we look for less transactional relationships which are becoming the unicorn.
@Unearthlywhales
7 күн бұрын
Sounds more like her appreciation just drops every time he does something as if he's supposed to increase or improve his ever effort every time.
@rickwheeler978
5 ай бұрын
I noticed that she(the selfish one in the back) has so much to say about a man's level of effort...but not one single word about her own efforts.
@bobculhane4746
5 ай бұрын
Absolutely no reciprocation, a man feels like a working mule 😢
@RealCadde
5 ай бұрын
Working mules get more reciprocation than most men do. Mules are brushed, they are fed without question or nagging, they get shelter without having to maintain it, they receive love and affection simply for being mules, they are spoken to with a kind voice, they are taken for walks down the countryside, their shit is swept aside, they are cleaned, they get massages, they are scratched and they get the medical attention they need. How is it that women can take care of babies, animals, themselves and their friends... But can't give their supposed love of their life the same care and attention? Yeah...
@4literv6
5 ай бұрын
@@RealCaddethat was amazingly well stated! No men? no society as we know it=the end! you think women are gonna work the oil rigs? work pulling chain logging? work as brick layers? build building's? build roads? maintain, repair and engineer the very infastructure they&all of society depends on daily like us men actually do? 😅 guess which gender is the most murdered? most successful suicides? most otj injuries&fatalities? most imprisoned? Most casualties in any conflict globally? If you guessed men to any or all of those you are right! men literally do the majority of everything daily that matters to keep society functioning and we are treated worse than stray dogs.
@huntmatthewd
5 ай бұрын
Correction: to them a man IS only a work mule.
@alexanderanghel7946
5 ай бұрын
I need reciprocation below the belt
@bobculhane4746
5 ай бұрын
@@alexanderanghel7946 hahaha 😆 absolutely
@imposter0shadow
5 ай бұрын
Guys, you notice in the beginning of the relationship she gives 100%, respects you, gets crazy in the sack, treats you like a king, but as the relationship progresses she gives 100, then 80, then 20. Then when you say something you're controlling, not accepting of who she is, dismissive of her feelings or not a real man for not putting up with her attitude/disrespect ect
@erickolb8581
5 ай бұрын
I've always been 3rd string or lower when meeting a lady. They *NEVER* give 100% if we're going by my experience. There are those of us who work to keep society itself 100% standing and we barely even get noticed nevermind a "thank you" most days. I can't speak for everyone, but I Chase after success, I don't have any time left to chase pussy.
@PoesRaven73
5 ай бұрын
The abbreviation for etcetera is “etc”, the first three letters of the word. It’s not “ect”.
@johnjohnnston3498
5 ай бұрын
@@PoesRaven73 No he was right, random typo is allowed. Move on to the subject at hand.
@imposter0shadow
5 ай бұрын
@@PoesRaven73 oh no, whatever shall I do with a random typo
@PoesRaven73
5 ай бұрын
@@imposter0shadow That’s not a typo. That’s ignorance, and I see more and more people getting that simple abbreviation wrong. It’s like when people spell “receive” as “recieve”. I would much rather someone point out a mistake I made in grammar or spelling than for me to go through life having people think I’m an uneducated idiot. There’s no reason to get defensive.
@markwinstanley9901
5 ай бұрын
Spot on... Sick of utterly self involved women, expecting a shoulder ride....
@prschuster
5 ай бұрын
She has no self awareness.
@makariosagios
5 ай бұрын
To be fair, there are some shoulder rides that are fun to give...
@markwinstanley9901
5 ай бұрын
@@makariosagios yea, not for 18 years lol
@BluffandStuffHomestead
5 ай бұрын
100% true! This is why men stop trying, because their girl stopped trying.
@Nethemas
5 ай бұрын
Wait, what? You had a girl that actually tried?
@Philipp-pz6yh
5 ай бұрын
@@Nethemasare they actually real?
@SimonASNG
5 ай бұрын
They didn't start trying... He invests and checks to see if it is paying off. If it isn't, he fades out.
@cptbluemax1234
5 ай бұрын
Lol stopped trying.....hahahahahaha
@rimasmuliolis1136
5 ай бұрын
Trying? She NEVER SAID ANYTHING about her giving even 2%! I recently saw a woman's "fair" balance of a 50/50 relationship is she exists and he buys her a pink Porsche.
@SnakesWrath
5 ай бұрын
Perfect explanation. She's probably never given a 100% back ever. It's all about what she receives, absolutely selfish.
@familhagaudir8561
5 ай бұрын
I can't imagine living with someone constantly giving me their 100% and expecting my 100%. Must get exhausting real quick.
@SnakesWrath
5 ай бұрын
@familhagaudir8561 you are confusing intensity of feelings and obsession, with having commitment and giving attention to your partner. 100% is giving and receiving without expectations and guilt trips.
@waynegibson8395
5 ай бұрын
Guarantee she bl@ws on first date but 6 months later nada.
@TwiztedFingers
5 ай бұрын
@@familhagaudir8561 That's how a functional relationship works. In marriage each person must give their 100% each day. That 100 % might very a great deal from day to day, but you must give 100%. When you wont give or no longer give 100% of what you can each day the relationship is dead.
@WhackBytch256
5 ай бұрын
@@SnakesWraththat entire clip was nothing but expectations and guilt trip 🤦🏻♀️
@HelloTygr
6 күн бұрын
It’s not “reciprocation” we want, it’s “appreciation”. I don’t want a reciprocative relationship. I want my efforts to be recognized, respected, and valued. If a man puts effort in and he gets criticized because he ‘should have done it a different way’ or he ‘used to put in more effort’ and his effort never even gets a simple ‘thank you’ or smile of acknowledgement, it’s not really worth it, so of course he puts less effort in.
@cecilycook5592
Ай бұрын
My husband and i have been together for 15 yrs..... since out of HS. He still gives it all. He will wait for me on the front porch until i get home. Meet me at my car, help bring anything in, even if its just my coat and cup. Help me out of the car when im in a lot of pain from a long day of work. He does anything i ask of him. He randomly buys me little gifts. He *truly* cares for me. And why..... because he gets it all back in return. We take care of each other. We equally give all we can. We are very considerate of each other.
@Master-zp5pn
Ай бұрын
So What do you give in Return, We are Curious 🤔
@cecilycook5592
Ай бұрын
@@Master-zp5pn after 15 yrs.... there is too much to explain or detail, what ive done. Best way to put it quickly, i helped him get from the wrong side of the track, to the right side, helped him achieve everything he has accomplished and helped him build an empire. Im the perfect mix of an old school traditional female and the hawk tuah girl. I keep him completely satisfied in anything he needs or wants. He is my king and i am his queen, happy spouse happy house.
@cecilycook5592
Ай бұрын
@@Master-zp5pn too much to list within the last 15 yrs. But essentially, took him from the wrong side of the tracks, put him on the right side, helped build an empire.... all while being the perfect mixture of traditional and hawk tuah 🤣🤣🤣. I treat him like the king he is and take care of his needs and wants.
@socom2173
Ай бұрын
You have found the perfect wife!
@litmatch7249
Ай бұрын
My wife and I met in high-school too and 10 years in she still waits. When I walk in from work I walk into a hello kiss and asking about how work was. I work a dirty job but with her non stop support I just got a huge promotion that they're transferring me for. When we have a few minutes to talk, she has the shower set up for me and clean clothes set out for me. I take 2 showers a day. One in the morning to help her wash her hair because she has fibromialga and getting up and moving first thing is hard for her. So I wash her and her hair and she leans on me. We do her morning stretching in bed because she gets really stiff while we sleep. She cuts my hair, I shave her legs, I make the money, she puts it where it needs to go. I don't have to worry about finances because she has a head for numbers and if she knows I need something she gets it. If she askes me to do anything at all I'm on it. I make sure there's time to make her feel beautiful, special, appreciated. Every two weeks I take her on dates where she gets to dress up and feel like a beautiful feminine woman and I'm lucky enough to have her on my arm. If I see something that needs to be picked up or cleaned, I do it because she won't get mad at me for not doing it the way she would. I will say, dishes are absolutely a me job becauseI'm to meticulous and I won't put my standard on her. I love every chance to make dinner with her because every time we pass I get a kiss. She has stepped in to help me take care of my brother and mother. I would walk through fire for my wife.
@Omar31587
5 ай бұрын
Never chase love, affection or attention. If it's not given freely, it's not worth having.
@euanandchels
5 ай бұрын
Love is like a fart. If you have to force it, its probably shit...
@andrewwilliams9154
5 ай бұрын
Well said, great comment 👍
@Omar31587
5 ай бұрын
@@andrewwilliams9154 many thanks!
@grinnifer
5 ай бұрын
Great suggestion for both men and women ❤😊
@soulbreaker625
5 ай бұрын
You don't know how genders work if that's how you think this goes. You got a long way to go buddy
@JavierCespedes90
5 ай бұрын
Agree. If I don't get any reciprocation, I walk away.
@zeusdarkgod7727
5 ай бұрын
Same, my ex fiance wasn't too happy with me 😂
@gmennc2648
5 ай бұрын
@@zeusdarkgod7727 Neither was my ex wife when she got served with divorce papers and a custody suit.
@zeusdarkgod7727
5 ай бұрын
@gmennc2648 it's like they have zero self-awareness, man. I'll be damned if I give my all to someone who gives me whatever is left after family, friends, gym, work. Wish you the best buddy!
@IChooseJesus9091
4 күн бұрын
Not to mention, relationships aren't about give give give, all the time, on either end. The longer you're with a person, & the healthier the relationship, the more it becomes about maintaining the relationship for both of you. Both of you giving what you can, & just meeting each other's needs, as best you can, & making sure each is content. You don't need to each be putting in 100 - 100% of the time. You don't have to constantly be on a high in the relationship to be satisfied. If you did that, then when does either of you just get to relax in the others company? Some of these young people act like they never had parents, or like they were raised by their Mother in a one parent household. They talk about men like they are less than human.
@lacolem1
5 ай бұрын
Exactly. The whole thing was about HIS effort waning, but she never once mentions her effort
@Angarsk100
5 ай бұрын
Oh, I'm sure it was a huge effort for her to demand that he puts in more effort.
@scottb296
5 ай бұрын
Lol facts. I mean you don't think this KZitem short was work? She's workin her ass off here guys.
@MensaGiraffe
5 ай бұрын
"No matter what, everything is the fault of men."
@vernonhoover3060
5 ай бұрын
Years ago, where I worked, we were required to take time out of our work day to watch a video on “sexual harassment in the workplace” or something like that and take a test at the end achieving at least an 80% to pass. My supervisor kept asking when I was going to get it done, as I finding it difficult to find the time for it. Finally I submitted my results with score in the 90 something percent range. She said that she was glad I finally watched the video and got it done. I told her I didn’t watch the video, I just looked at the fact that the course was written by a woman, and answered each question knowing in each scenario it was the man’s fault. She wasn’t happy, but she just wanted the thing done, so she accepted it.🫤
@verribarry
5 ай бұрын
This women's attitude is why I stopped giving ANY effort.
@rene-rv6pp
5 ай бұрын
Yeah. Better not give anything to see how she really want
@lucycarlisle9120
5 ай бұрын
M'kay. So treat all womem horribly to see who puts up with it & how low you can go because 1 didn't give you what you wanted? How are women who act that way wrong, then? Don't be a hypocrite.
@Mark-ep4bj
5 ай бұрын
@@lucycarlisle9120 amazing how you little girls equate not giving anymore effort to being treated "horribly". As if men have to bend over backwards, empty their bank account and stress over your incessant yapping all the time. Just to be in a so called "loving" relationshit with someone like you lmao.
@dariusposton5714
5 ай бұрын
@@lucycarlisle9120 Says the hypocrite.
@lucycarlisle9120
4 ай бұрын
@@dariusposton5714 M'kay. Says the infant.
@jamesseelye1866
3 күн бұрын
A man HAS to feel appreciated! Many ways to show this..
@jeremylocklear9118
3 ай бұрын
FACTS. If there are no reciprocated efforts, what's the point of putting in the effort just to feel unappreciated lol. The same can be said for women
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