My ex left Aug. 4th 2024, we were together for almost 5 yrs with 3 yr old twins, I did no contact for 2 weeks now she begging to comeback, I stay in North Carolina and she took my kids to New Jersey where her parents live no contact really works, thanks coach.
@jenrn1147
3 сағат бұрын
That's awesome...If you don't mind, what was her reasoning for leaving... Happy for you also.
@peterhennig4678
3 сағат бұрын
3 month no contact and holding up, starting to get easier
@Ms.T2024
2 сағат бұрын
One month today, it's still very hard, but I can actually feel myself feeling different about the no contact.. meaning I think it is getting easier, it's like I'm missing him sooo much but I'm getting to the point where I don't feel he would ever come back or call me. So a part of me is letting go. It's hard to explain unless somebody out there feels the same and they understand😢
@SonyaWill2012
Сағат бұрын
@@Ms.T2024I get it completely, going on 2 months of no contact, he ended the relationship, I'm pretty much I'm at the point that I'm glad he did, bc I never had the strength too... Im definitely ok and better off...
@basicinfo2022
Сағат бұрын
Over 2 months no contact so far. If he's highly narcissistic, you're better off forgetting them and moving on. It takes years for a narcissistic person to change and learn.
@Ms.T2024
37 минут бұрын
@SonyaWill2012 I miss mines, I let him know,... he did text bk but didn't Acknowledge what I said and asked about something else, I called once and he didn't respond, I waited one wk to see if he'll say happy Birthday, and he didn't. So I went into NC...... now I'm at that point like I was saying of missing him but getting stronger without him..! And I'm glad you are also, especially if that's what you wanted...we gonna be ok. Oh and he's very stubborn (Avoident)
@SonyaWill2012
9 минут бұрын
@@Ms.T2024 I definitely think a person gets stronger when they actually come to the reality of a situation, WE definitely got this💪🏾 and my ex is an avoidant too, I truly understand...
@malikahharrison4194
3 сағат бұрын
That's a nice jacket Coach Black
@blacademic
3 сағат бұрын
Thanks my friend ❤️
@malikahharrison4194
3 сағат бұрын
@@blacademic you're welcome
@romo3418
Сағат бұрын
It’s been almost a year. Coach helped me get through a lot! I used to watch his videos multiple times a day lol. Thankfully I hardly watch anymore! She found out I was dating (casually) someone else. Dm’d this new girl on social and asked how she knew me. Shortly after that I received a text from my ex telling me how much she loved me and that she was going to move forward. Mind you she left me, I pleaded for a bit, messed up no contact multiple times. I eventually completely let go though. I still think about her very often but the anxiety is completely gone. Pain hurts less. Her reaching out kind of messed with me a bit, I felt that anxiety come back a bit. If you’re reading this hang in there! Listen to coach. If they left you, they’re betting that they can do better without you. Let them!
@FhVW
2 сағат бұрын
No contact for 3 months. She has set her Instagram from private to public, public to private and that 3x for the weekend (her birthday and an event). Saw she put stories in highlights and watched them after 48 h. Maybe the last one was within the 48h because it went to private again. I’ve put mine on private as well now, but she won’t be able to watch my stories or reach out. No hope here and moving on, because for some it may work (it works for yourself) but honestly I would be happier with breakups where they leave you with respect and not cold turkey. I do not believe she is coming back. There is no breadcrumbing or signs. Nothing at all. I’ve worked on myself and quite happy now but rather feeling lonely though
@DvO82
2 сағат бұрын
Thank you for the end of the video, explain clearly what a masculine and feminine person best to do in certain situations ❤ ps that colors look so good on you!
@basicinfo2022
Сағат бұрын
Masculine role does the courting and proposing. Feminine role does the choosing of the best suitor and attracting best suitor.
@ryanlad3541
3 сағат бұрын
Everytime my ex falls out or has a brief break up with her bf she hits me up. What's the best way to approach this. I ain't no ones plan b.
@ahernandez1080
Сағат бұрын
Just ignore her. Block her number
@allenchristian184
3 сағат бұрын
Thanks
@blacademic
3 сағат бұрын
🤞
@glight23
2 сағат бұрын
Idk if this is new or not because of that ice fishing story. I heard you tell it before. I know the video says it dropped 4 hours ago.
@kimluvseli
3 сағат бұрын
I hope you read this Coach Blacc, my ex and I have always been in communication off and on. All your techniques have worked for me….. they have actually worked too well but it doesn’t stick. I find myself repeating these techniques over and over. Sometimes days, weeks, and or months will go by with no communication. But when we do speak or go out we would talk about us but nothing ever materializes . Do we have a chance of actually being together again?
@empress8885
2 сағат бұрын
How u go no contact when y’all have a 4 month old
@FINALSTRIKE94
3 сағат бұрын
Coach why does my ex block me after i set boundaries with her?
@basicinfo2022
Сағат бұрын
She can't handle her emotions or is punishing you with silent treatment.
@anthonybrown1431
2 сағат бұрын
My ex and I been separated for six months. We have been texting each other about two months ago but there's have been no contact since then would she come back or is it over.
@lucywood4988
2 сағат бұрын
What if your ex has cheated and moved away what can i do make him come back
@basicinfo2022
Сағат бұрын
You need to love, respect and value yourself.
@SonyaWill2012
Сағат бұрын
My ex dumped me, but we work together and he now avoids me by all means at work and I like it that way, I didn't beg to be together when he ended it I was basically like, "ok, God Bless" I wasn't being treated properly anyway... But he's watched my stories then I blocked him from my social media🤷🏾♀️ baby good riddens...
@garyluce1311
Сағат бұрын
You allude to the fact at the end of your video, it's the masculine responsibility to chase/reach out to the feminine. That seems counterintuitive. Does that not break the cycle or effectiveness of no contact?
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