Didn’t matter how long you knew. A loss is a loss. You have every right to grieve. Praying for you and your husband. 💜
@alexakearney
3 жыл бұрын
I always felt guilty mourning my chemicals as well. Thank you for saying this ❤️
@angelkaate
3 жыл бұрын
A loss at 30 weeks vs 5 hours is still a loss. Don’t worry what others think. We support you and mourn with you🥺❤️
@KaylaNatalie
4 жыл бұрын
I feel like chemical pregnancy is such a terrible word. It makes it seem like it wasn’t a loss and that it was a chemical that caused you to get a positive when in reality, it was a baby. A child. A life. It is most certainly a loss. My prayers are with you 🤍
@samanthablevins3726
4 жыл бұрын
You both have been trying for so long. It was a loss. Every month you get a negative it's a loss and this one got your hopes up. You have every right to grieve this loss. I'm sorry this has happened. I hope you get your dream.
@natashajoseph3248
4 жыл бұрын
You have every right to feel the way you do. God bless you guy’s.
@MakingMemories
4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss mama. Your feelings are valid. A loss is a loss and everyone has the right to grieve in their own way. I remember hearing a quote once that really resonated with me and it’s “saying you can’t be sad because others have it worse is like saying you can’t be happy because others have it better.” It’s okay to feel whatever you feel. Thinking of you ❤️
@tamaragarrett4940
4 жыл бұрын
Elayna, please never think you cannot mourn the loss of your sweet baby just because you didn't know about it any longer than you did. I had a early loss in July, only knew about it for 2 days before I lost it. The pain is just as bad as anyone else's. I still blame myself, the what if's.. It is hard to move forward. I pray that we get our rainbow babies SOON, because honestly, I am not sure how much longer I can hold on to faith.. A friend of mine is due in March, just like I would have been. I am sending you lots of love and prayers. Love you lots sweet girl.
@carolgoodwin7537
4 жыл бұрын
This journey is hard enough, and I hate that you’re also feeling the extra weight of the other people’s harsh thoughts of you. You deserve all the space to feel your feelings. You got that first positive test and that’s a huge step, so the roller coaster from that is hard enough alone. I sat this gently, but your body is working and moving forward! I’m praying for you guys!!!
@Nikki0057
3 жыл бұрын
We had a chemical pregnancy a week ago after 6 years of trying to conceive. You have every right to whatever you feel. I am also trying to look at the positive, knowing we can get pregnant even if it takes forever. I did it once I can do it again ❤️
@lisamugavero4946
4 жыл бұрын
You have every right to be sad, angry, to mourn, whatever you are feeling, you have the right! It could even have been 5 mins of pregnancy, doesn’t matter. Your journey to get to this pregnancy was a long one, and I can understand why you’re sad. I personally don’t suffer from infertility but I see you and can only imagine what you are feeling. Prayers for you that you will get your baby soon! 💗
@clover8883
3 жыл бұрын
Chemical pregnancy 😒 no it wasn’t just chemicals, it was my baby and they died and now my heart is broken. Seeing that positive test is the moment your heart bursts wide open with love, hope and excitement for that baby and it doesn’t matter how long before that devastating news arrives with you- the moment we know of that sweet angel in our belly it’s like we are shot into heaven then that loss is the plummet back to Earth. It is CRUSHING. I’m so sorry for your loss, truly. You get to grieve and feel that loss, it doesn’t matter how long you were pregnant for- that baby still deserves to be missed. Take your time to heal, patching ourselves too quickly means we fall apart so much worse next time life takes a swing at us.
@carolgoodwin7537
4 жыл бұрын
This journey is hard enough, I hate that you’re also feeling the extra weight of the other people’s harsh thoughts of you. You deserve all the space to feel your feelings. You got that first positive test and that’s a huge step, so the roller coaster from that is hard enough alone. Sending virtual hugs! I say this gently, but your body is working and moving forward! I’m praying for you guys!!!
@jilliansangria6131
3 жыл бұрын
"Comparison is the thief of joy." A loss is a loss. Don't be embarrassed. Every pregnancy is different. I love how you whole heartedly love your baby. Keep doing what you're doing and I wish you the absolute best of luck. I wish you get what you want. 💕💕
@kateeeh3795
4 жыл бұрын
I totally understand the insecurity about how early it was. I remember sometimes lying about how far I was because I wanted people to think my pain was valid. I had 2 6 week miscarriages and specifically my first one, it was so unexpected that I cried for weeks. I stayed home from work for a few days. It felt like a total and complete loss even though it was so early and it was a total loss! Grief is absolutely part of the process when you’ve seen a positive test and then it goes away. You picture your future right away and that future has now been taken away. ❤️
@katiaatanasova4739
4 жыл бұрын
Chemical pregnancy is something. You know therr is a baby, you know that the miracle has happend and so for this reasons - it is a real thing. Don't feel guilty for the pain. You had a baby and you lost it, no matter which week it happend. I remember feeling the same way and only a person who haven't been there - will tell you that's not a loss. Stay strong honey 💜
@laurenrichards2005
2 жыл бұрын
I know you probably won’t see this since this video is old. I’ve been loving and binge watching your videos. I just want you to know that you have every right to feel what you want to feel and need to feel. Your experience is different than everyone else’s and no one has the right to judge your personal feelings. It doesn’t matter how long you knew, you have every right to celebrate and you have every right to feel that loss. ❤️
@aislinnmcmanamy4874
3 жыл бұрын
Elayna I just found your channel because I was searching for some support to get me through my own early miscarriage, I found out I was pregnant a month ago and was miscarrying within 2 days. We were trying a year and it was devastating to go from so happy to heartbroken in the blink of an eye, I'm still struggling💔 I just want to let you know that you are not alone, so many of us are going through this and I'll keep you in my prayers🙏 hopefully we'll get our babies very soon. I just subscribed aswell😊
@marycolleengazy2790
3 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for you and Levi! While I was watching your reaction to the pregnancy I was so felt your excitement. I also felt the loss that you so quickly felt. My husband and I tried for two years to get pregnant and were so excited when we found out we were pregnant, only to miscarry two weeks later. There was such grief with the miscarriage, yet such hope that we could get pregnant. We needed up getting pregnant two month later! The first couple weeks were scary as I had had a couple periods of bleeding. It ended up that there was a blood clot in my uterus that they felt was due to twins and one not surviving. I was told to follow complete bedrest so that the blood clot dissolved and didn’t cause a miscarried of the remaining baby. By the grace of God our daughter, Hannah, was born completely healthy! Followed 17 months later by her sister Sam and her brother, Nick, 26 months later. You are in my prayers!
@daniibabii6901
4 жыл бұрын
You have every right to mourn, grieve and feel how you do. God bless xxx
@abb2234
4 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel in my feed and while I haven't experienced loss like you have I want to tell you.... YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO GRIEVE THIS BABY. This was a baby, a gift from God, if only for a moment. Don't worry what anyone else thinks. You are entitled to feel your joy and your pain. Please don't give up I know you have faith.. I could tell just from the 2 videos that I have watched of you. It will be your season of celebration soon. God is so incredibly faithful even through the most difficult times. I for sure know that. God bless you! I'm so very sorry for your loss.
@sflecha1
3 жыл бұрын
Your loss is as real as if you had been pregnant longer. Cry if you have to and take the time you need to heal. I have been in your position 3 times. The last one I knew I was pregnant for 4 days and I didn’t get see my baby at all and it was hard to know I was loosing him/she. Love and prayers for you and your husband.
@peterstrom9618
3 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter what other people think - ever. I hope that you get to a place where this is your daily reality.
@rachelbork5763
4 жыл бұрын
Your feelings are so valid. Give yourself time to feel everything. Thank you for sharing your story and being open. Every baby matters and was loved, however long they were with you.
@heatherp.1204
3 жыл бұрын
Ok new subscriber here. You’re allowed to feel how you feel, like no matter how long you knew that doesn’t matter. You had a loss, and I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
@selinamattocks
3 жыл бұрын
I know this happened a bit ago, but my heart is breaking for you both. You have every right to grieve for your baby no matter what stage you are at. I pray that god will bless you with a rainbow baby. All in gods timing..
@AmeliaTrimm
4 жыл бұрын
For my first chemical pregnancy, I found out late on a Monday and woke up on the Friday knowing I wasn't pregnant anymore. The second, I found out on the Friday and found out I wasn't on the Sunday night. It doesn't matter the length of time of knowing - in that moment your whole future changes and you start planning things with a baby in your life. It sucks. It's horrible and utterly heart-breaking. Thinking of you and your husband
@saradesrochers9588
3 жыл бұрын
Please do not compare your loss to anyone else’s. You lost your baby and that’s just as valid as someone else’s loss at 6 weeks like me or 24 weeks like someone else. You are a Mother. You deserve time to grieve. ♥️
@yosoyal9176
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve had a couple early miscarriages too. It’s very hard to keep pushing forward and keep trying, but somehow we still find a way. Prayers for you and your husband....I know that horrible feeling all too well.
@domoniquemiller2226
3 жыл бұрын
I will be praying for you both. You have every right to grieve and feel any kind of emotion and don’t worry about what other people may think. We suffered a miscarriage last October from our 3rd IVF cycle (no fetal development even with an amniotic sack). We were told before we couldn’t conceive naturally (diminished ovarian reserve with only one ovary and tube), but I did get pregnant in February after taking time off and going on vacation and as of today our baby boy is 1 month old. That was all God so please keep the faith and don’t give up. I forgot to mention I’m 37 so my age worked against me, but God was working for me. There’s nothing He can’t do.
@Becks1020723
4 жыл бұрын
I had a miscarriage over 10 yrs ago and I think about that baby everyday. I allow myself to feel the pain, the loss, the could have been once a month. Usually only a couple days, if I allow any longer it’s hard for me to get out of bed and just be “normal”. That dark place is a very real place and I can’t be there all the time. I pray for more “normal” days for you and Levi but also that you guys be blessed with a pregnancy. Stay positive and prayers to you two! 💛💛💛
@jennekalundeen8302
4 жыл бұрын
Such a difficult thing... I am so sorry you had to go through that. btw, your hair and eyes are strikingly gorgeous!
@cortneymattingly7029
4 жыл бұрын
Loss is loss! Your feelings are real and valid
@missiehammers5870
3 жыл бұрын
Praying for you every single night Elayna.
@ryanm7249
3 жыл бұрын
So sorry this happened. Prayers go out to you all!
@thuff1947
3 жыл бұрын
Oh honey, I felt the same way with my first loss after IVF. It was a confusing time. I felt guilty if a woman would share her story about a loss when she was 14weeks or more. The very next month I had another miscarriage @ 10weeks & we had heard the heartbeat before the loss. I definitely grieved the 2nd loss harder. I now have 2 miracles. I now feel like a loss is a loss not matter what. However, each loss can/is different and that is OK! You don’t owe anyone an explanation for how you feel, this was sooo hard for me in the early stages after my loss. Hugs to you.
@juliatroyer3388
3 жыл бұрын
You have every right to feel the way you feel! Because I too felt the same way! I think anyone who goes through infertility feels this way. We never think that it’s going to happen! Then when it does and it gets taken from us it’s such a blow! Since you’ve had other pregnancies and they ended in a chemical maybe ask your dr to do a loss blood work panel? My dr did that to me after our loss and we found out I had a blood clotting issues. Once we added a blood thinner to my protocol we finally had a successful pregnancy! Praying for you in your journey! I’m not trying to be a Karen who tells you what to do! But just giving you options or something you might not think of, that worked for us.
@nicholefrank6770
3 жыл бұрын
Women should never look down on any other women’s pain or situation. I would pray that you never hear anything negative from anyone. Your pain and loss was very much real. No matter the amount of time.
@mannann1934
3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you had to go through it 💔 I had an early loss last year end of October early November and the following month December We did a clomid+Trigger I finally got pregnant with our rainbow baby boy. After 8 years trying, 4 losses we did 3 clomid+GonalF +Trigger, 3 IUIs nothing. Then we did a final a final cycle and was the lucky one. Wishing you all the positives ❤️
@BeatriceHernandez
3 жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful soul. I’m so happy i found your channel ❤️
@transgender56
3 жыл бұрын
Every women is different with there experience don’t compare your situation to others take your time with the loss God bless you guys prayers
@crystalstachowiak
4 жыл бұрын
Your loss is still very much a loss. It’s not any more or any less of a loss compared to anyone else. All the feelings you feel are valid. I’m proud of you. You are so deserving. I’m praying for you & Levi.
@meet.me.on.venus.
3 жыл бұрын
Girl you are allowed to be upset. This affects you, and understandably so. PAIN DOESNT HAVE MEASUREMENT!! I'm right there with you.
@JulieLynn89
3 жыл бұрын
A chemical pregnancy is definitely a loss. You have every right to grieve. That feeling you get when you see that positive: there’s nothing like it. It’s unforgettable. And when it’s ripped away: also an unforgettable feeling. We had a MMC in March at 10 weeks. Our baby’s heart had stopped at 8w5d. I’m so sorry for your loss and the struggle you guys are going through. We’re on month 7 of TTC baby number 2. You are a true warrior and you’re in my prayers. ❤️
@ComfortingGrace
4 жыл бұрын
You have every right to grieve this loss. It is a loss. You cannot compare pain with others who have had different experiences. Pain is pain. I have grieved all 5 embryos we have lost (even the one that didn't even make it to transfer) and I never even had a positive pregnancy test with those failed transfers. If people have a problem with your grieving...that is THEIR problem. You do whatever you need to as far as what you share and how you heal. ❤
@savannahhargis
3 жыл бұрын
Any mom who has felt a loss would never look at you and judge how you feel. I have had an ectopic pregnancy and had two miscarriages. Praying for you ♥️♥️
@liveforhope4835
4 жыл бұрын
You have every right to feel loss. I have been there, IUI, miscarriage at 12 weeks, IVF (failed) adopted our daughter then got pregnant with our second daughter. Whatever your journey to parenthood is it’s possible and you will and can have a baby. Sending all my love and prayers.
@michelle3445
3 жыл бұрын
I totally understand how you feel. I knew I was pregnant about 18 hours before I miscarried my first pregnancy. Then I got my two rainbows. I’m praying for you that you will get your rainbow soon.
@amandazakovec6740
4 жыл бұрын
Honey you have every right to feel the way you do. A loss is a loss no matter how long you knew or not! Sending prayers and love to you and your family! Just keep your faith in God that he will bless you with your rainbow 🌈!
@cherylmartinofchemarsilico7080
4 жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best for your next cycle - you have a great outlook
@normaramirez2994
4 жыл бұрын
God bless you girl and your husband! God is going to send you a rainbow baby 👶 🌈 don't loss faith i had a chemical pregnancy after two years i had another baby i have two beautiful boys i will pray for you send a hugs
@dominiquemoore5906
3 жыл бұрын
You shouldn’t care what other people think. I lost our baby at 9 weeks it was hard and devastating!! 😢 Still I felt your pain you have been trying and wanting a baby for so long. It doesn’t matter how long you new you were pregnant it’s still a heartbreaking thing. So if someone is coming at you with negativity they need to kick rocks. This is your story and how you feel and you should feel like you need to apologize for reacting the way you did because you only knew a few hours.
@alliemcnamara9474
4 жыл бұрын
My husband and I had been trying to get pregnant for two years then in November 2019 we got the positive pregnancy test then a few days later we lost the baby and the doctors said we had a chemical pregnancy so here we are almost a year later we are still waiting for our rainbow baby so you are in my prayers
@christinef433
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had two very early miscarriages, technically chemicals, and they were DEVASTATING. We've chosen names for our babies in heaven and they have ornaments on the tree at Christmas time. I can't wait to meet them someday. Xxx
@jessiemaxwell6427
3 жыл бұрын
I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks & one at 8 weeks. The second one we had heard the heart beat twice and see it on an ultra sound and I felt like that loss was maybe harder than my first just because I was so confused but truly a loss is a loss and if I had a chemical pregnancy right now I’d be devastated. Take time to grieve and take care of yourself 💛
@amandasjourneyttcwithpolyc7382
4 жыл бұрын
A loss is a loss no matter what stage of pregnancy. It doesn’t matter what other people say there not where you are. Hopefully you will get your baby soon. xx
@irishlass777
4 жыл бұрын
A loss is a loss no matter when it happens. We lost our first pregnancy in the first tri and it was crushing. I hope you guys get a break soon!!!
@mimadominicnyamweya8799
3 жыл бұрын
i'm praying with you.. God will bless your womb
@MariaRamos-io2yk
3 жыл бұрын
As soon as those cells start to form for a baby Is A BABY!!! Don't apologize. I suffer 1 at 10 weeks, 1 at 4 weeks, 1 at 6 weeks(the next month got pregnant again now i have a beautiful baby girl who is 9 months) they where all losses before. They where little cells of a possible future baby!! That we lost. Your embryo was a group of little cells as well even if they didn't take. U have suffer and what u feel is normal. Is infertility is a rollercoaster. You will get your baby. #4 years here too. Plus doctors telling me I wouldn't have kids. Prayers
@susanlunt3342
3 жыл бұрын
A loss is a loss, you plan so much within those first few hours even- not to mention the years of dreams 🙏🏻 please feel what you feel freely x
@amberjames1194
4 жыл бұрын
No! A loss is a loss! You grieve and mourn! I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks this month last year and I still hate this month 🥺
@missmistyeyedd
4 жыл бұрын
God bless I hope you get the pregnancy you deserve. 💖 babydust
@dezthegem9522
4 жыл бұрын
Sending baby dust to you, it will happen, keep your head up you guys will be incredible parents, I’m praying it happens for you guys
@sheisvanessa1182
3 жыл бұрын
God is so good hun, you’re entitled to feel and mourn however you want. A loss is a loss doesn’t matter. I pray that god blesses you and your family and answer your prayers to become a mother. God bless remain stress free don’t worry it will happen in Jesus name 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@manriqueboys
4 жыл бұрын
Hi I am so sorry for your loss a lot it’s a lot I’ve been true my own loss I lost my baby 6 1/2 months pregnant I have my journey on KZitem yes this journey is a roller coaster sometimes your mind play games
@cassiforest9191
4 жыл бұрын
Sending love your way. Your pain is valid. It isn't a comparison. Other people are on different journeys. This was part of your journey and it was a loss.
@cris8605tina
3 жыл бұрын
I had a chemical pregnancy a few weeks ago and I haven't told anyone not even my husband knows . Mostly because i feel like im to blame . A year ago we had my daughter after years of trying
@lil-mumma-adventures
3 жыл бұрын
I am feeling the same after my loss 💔
@AliJaeJR
3 жыл бұрын
We were told we wouldn’t be able to conceive naturally after my ectopic, and then that surgery blocked my other tube,,. Had a little one through IVF... when she was 8 months we found out I was pregnant... blown out of the water by the pregnancy test... when lo9king at the calendar I was roughly 9 weeks... called the Dr and my H CG levels decreased... it was beyond crazy... after my tube was removed the HSG showed a blocked left tube.... GOD wanted me to know that though this wasn’t a viable pregnancy.... Dr isn’t in control.
@lis4636
4 жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family.
@kirakambarova7777
3 жыл бұрын
You have such pretty eyes 😊
@chrisell7419
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve recently had 3 chemicals :( they have all been very hard. It is a loss.
@taylorlivengood341
4 жыл бұрын
I doubt you’re looking for advice right now, but my fiancé and I took PreMama supplements from Target after our chemical pregnancy when we started trying again. I took the drink packets every day for one cycle and we got pregnant right away. It’s worth a shot! They have them for men & women, they worked for me and they’ve worked for friends. They also have incredible reviews! Good luck trying again moving forward, God’s timing is so much better than ours and I’m sure He has a beautiful plan for you and your family. ♥️
@whitneypickle
4 жыл бұрын
My second transfer was a chemical and I dont know how to feel or describe it. I had a mc from my first one at 8 weeks, so did I have 2 losses? do I state 1 loss and 1 chemical? I just dont know how to process it.
@jessicagrgich3384
3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@michellewebb2414
3 жыл бұрын
❤
@korriworden4001
4 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss but with the loss comes the conformation that you can get pregnant
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