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@luisabolado
4 сағат бұрын
oooh girl scentbird has serious allegations against them, look it up, they’re not really what you want to be supporting😬 love you girlie
@chelseashurmantine8153
15 сағат бұрын
When you said it's not all about how your body looks, it's about how your body feels, that applies to your brain. Your brain is part of your body and if it is hating itself..... that is not healthy.
@Jade_Crane
15 сағат бұрын
Yes!!!!
@surette2012
13 сағат бұрын
And it’s like the snake eating itself because it’s all connected. If you don’t properly eat, your brain shrinks from malnutrition if it’s severe enough. If you don’t eat any antioxidants or fats your brain power suffers. then your brain becomes even more dysfunctional and the self talk gets worse and worse. Your mood is not stable because you’re not taking care of your body. It’s a snowball effect. not liking your body and mistreating it harms your brain and if you fuel your bad habits with self hatred there’s never gonna be an end goal in sight because you’ll just want to punish yourself more and more and you become more afraid of food and change.
@WolfeWrangle
11 сағат бұрын
Exactly. Me hating myself led to me overeating, and only when I figured out how to reduce calorie consumption and body fat did I also learn how to love myself. The excess body fat and poor diet contributed heavily to my mental health issues. And I also learned that just because I liked home-cooked meals didn't mean my diet wasn't still poor. Now I eat and cook with intention, and life has become so much better.
@swolerabbit
4 сағат бұрын
yeah, i said in my own comment that these girls wouldn’t speak this way to someone they like. that’s how you talk to someone you hate. that’s how you bully. it’s sad to see, and i really wish our mental healthcare system was better, because the stigma around this shit is just creating a horrible cycle a lot of us will never get out of.
@lourdescmendoza
2 сағат бұрын
W take
@doggwater
16 сағат бұрын
Dog piling anyone on the internet with an eating disorder has NEVER worked historically. Think of Eugenia Cooney or Amberlynn Reid. The bullying and constant comments just makes them dig their heels in harder, when will yall learn this
@taylorhillard4868
5 сағат бұрын
Nikocado avocado and Tammy Slaton have. People who were never going to change won't change anyway.
@xerxestheimmortal1
5 сағат бұрын
@@taylorhillard4868So, if shaming works on a small minority of people with EDs it's justified?
@maravi9773
5 сағат бұрын
@@taylorhillard4868Bad examples tbh. People need to be ready for change. Tammy wanted to change. I mean, she went on a weigh loss show. But back then, she wasn't ready to change. Nicocado on the other hand made money from the outrage he caused and still does. He put on a show for money. It was always more about money and fame. Eugenia, wanted to change, tried to change, but has relapsed. It is disrespectful to just say "people who were never going to change, never will" when we talk about mental illnesses like this.
@taylorhillard4868
5 сағат бұрын
@@xerxestheimmortal1 no, I'm saying that it's not a relevant factor as to whether or not they recover. Amberlynn Reid and Eugenia were never going to get better, regardless of whether or not they were online seeing comments or not. They're not doing what they're doing because they're "digging in thier heels" it's because they don't want to change.
@maravi9773
4 сағат бұрын
@@taylorhillard4868 would you say that to an alcoholic who has relapsed? Or a shopaholic who hasn't completely changed their ways? Like seriously, making a change requires will, but also a lot more. And food addiction as well as eating disorder are difficult cases. Want, is part one. Then comes why how, when, and doubts, successes, failures, support or lack of it. And then finally, maintenence, which includes all of these.
@gastllyxo
18 сағат бұрын
If I was more on TikTok a few years ago I’d be in a much worse spot in my recovery than I am today. Period. Being kind to yourself is sick as fuck girls I highly recommend it
@wannabehuman
14 сағат бұрын
Hell yeah Best of luck in recovery, you got this!
@mikrokosmos9833
5 сағат бұрын
Same here! Deleted that shitshow 2021. love that for us. Good luck on ur wayyy. We eating this shit up
@kiranstarr4359
18 сағат бұрын
i’m glad that this is getting talked about!! thank god tiktok wasn’t around when i was a middleschooler with heavily disordered eating
@transrightsdinosaur
18 сағат бұрын
Right!! This content would have made me think I had to try harder at my anorexia.... it's frightening
@reagyeggy207
18 сағат бұрын
dude tiktok was around when i was a middlechooler and it was actually so bad for me
@stefaniashefer3096
18 сағат бұрын
If u think tiktok is scary, u haven't been on 2010s ED tumblr obviously 😂😂
@panikiczcock2891
17 сағат бұрын
@@stefaniashefer3096I was on tumblr back in those times and tbh tiktok is worse. On tumblr you had to search for that content at least a little bit. Tiktok and instagram reels (especially the latter) throw ED content in random people's "recommended for you" feeds. I have no interest in ED content and yet they showed me that a couple of times.
@caribbean9829
16 сағат бұрын
@@stefaniashefer3096 and even before blogs!! ED was a big thing in the early 2000's. I am older that must of you.
@MrMusicKid87
17 сағат бұрын
“My dad’s a gastrinologist” she says…I don’t believe her, mainly because if her dad were a GI specialist he would be a gastroenterologist…
@NimeshaBalacich
9 сағат бұрын
I noticed this too 😂
@lheem839
8 сағат бұрын
you would also think he knows losing more than 3 pounds a week is very unhealthy and youre basically lose water weight and muscle tissue. and also that lechtin is essential for our cells
@taylorhillard4868
5 сағат бұрын
Well she also brought up "dr" Gundry as a source....so maybe her dad is a "gastrinologist" lol
@crispyyrosee
5 сағат бұрын
Lmao right? I've seen enough of them as an IBS girly 😭
@ellierose8141
14 сағат бұрын
can't believe people really thought an entire crumbl cookie was 180-200 calories.. surely you would take one bite and realize that they're not
@cloudthief8918
11 сағат бұрын
Some people have no clue how many calories are in foods. Tbh, that may be to their advantage, but still, people should be aware of what goes into their food. cooking and baking has really opened my eyes to what is actually needed to achieve restaurant/bakery quality food
@aliteralcalendar
10 сағат бұрын
pp😊
@mimibaka5082
9 сағат бұрын
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@amidreaming333
8 сағат бұрын
Yeah as someone who's sensitive to sugar, I would take one bite and pass out, but some people are more likely to consume a lot of sugar without instantly feeling sick. I think it's a genetic thing.
@rikkus
8 сағат бұрын
A lot of people are desensitized to sugar and have no idea about calories. My dad thought that pralines had like 5-10 kcal each. He was shocked when I told him it's more like 50-100!
@localbird
16 сағат бұрын
When I started gaining large amounts of weight in my adolescence, nobody tried to figure out why. They just told me to go on a diet and lose weight. I had a binge eating disorder and the medication I was on caused weight gain
@elsa7594
5 сағат бұрын
damn.... its the exact same for me. I never got a formal ED diagnoses, but idk if i can just go see my family doctor and tell her i think i have an ED. I'm a young adult now but i feel like my disorders are worse than before
@hardcrowley1549
4 сағат бұрын
@@elsa7594can you get access to online therapy? Or at least watch content of people recovering? I wish you the best
@soph4realll
18 сағат бұрын
i truly TRULY resented BBL culture but f me I didn’t realise how lucky I had it back then as a curvy girl in terms of my body being somewhat accepted 😭
@Jade_Crane
15 сағат бұрын
It’s unfortunate that the body “trends” always fluctuates between stick thin and thick but still thin bc unfortunately thin is always in even if it is to the detriment of the person
@MarlopolyGaming
4 сағат бұрын
@@Jade_Crane Yeah it sucks.... and also why is it always WOMEN'S bodies that go in and out of fashion.
@tiernyjasmine8678
3 сағат бұрын
@@Jade_Crane having boobs and a butt is also ALWAYS in
@Concioushippie444
17 сағат бұрын
After I had my daughter I had really bad ppd and had an eating disorder where I just would sit and eat a family pack of oreos every two days, eat fast food everyday and drink ALOT of pop and no healthy food. I gained 70 lbs. Finally I realized what I was doing and started eating healthy and started working out and now I still can't get all the weight off. It's a real thing and effected my overall health so much.❤
@melowlw8638
17 сағат бұрын
i hope ure feeling/doing much better now!! becoming a parent is sometimes so unfathomable to me, its such an enormous change in one's life im wishing u the best, n a healthy body n mind, for u as well as ur family 💫💫
@cameron5821
13 сағат бұрын
this is completely understandable! sometimes hormones have a huge factor to play in weight loss. if you’re dieting and exercising and staying consistent and you’re still not seeing results, you should get ur levels checked! it’s a slow but steady process. don’t be discouraged, you got this!
@lynnboartsdye1943
13 сағат бұрын
The thinness culture of the 2000s and 2010s has honestly messed me up, elementary schoolers bullied you if you were fat. I don’t really know if or what weight is “healthy” and in talking with my doctor it turns out health is much more complicated and fluid than this binary of being fat vs being skinny. There are like soooo many factors weight included. Appreciate the Kiana Docherty clip btw her work is great More importantly though what you say about empathy towards those with binge eating disorders is VERY IMPORTANT. I was a fat kid and my dad believed in the weight watchers logic of “you can eat anything you want so long as it’s within X calorie range” and he’d portion control my meals which usually left me hungry since the food wasn’t nearly as nutritionally valuable or filling. I’d end up overeating or just emotionally eating by accident since I never knew if the next meal would be enough to feel satiated. Our eating habits and views on excercise are formed and warped by our parents AND the broader society/internet, it’s not your fault you’re just doing your best with what you have.
@user-gk7vh2ld6y
5 сағат бұрын
I also had same experience back in school
@persephone213
14 сағат бұрын
Cycles of history repeating themselves. Back in the 90s and early 2000s, fat shaming was the norm and thin was seen as basically the only acceptable way to be and no one was afraid to say it. Sounds like maybe that’s a cycle we’re going back to. I’m not glamorizing it, though. I’ve had body image issues my whole life.
@gemstar7286
Сағат бұрын
I watched Devil Wears Prada recently,and it was so ridiculous & funny how Anne Hathaway's character was referred to as ' fat' all the time 🤣🤦♀️... like seriously. But I guess it highlighted the crazy distorted beauty standards @the time . These trends on the internet & in society is always one extreme to another. Both are unhealthy & bad. And it confirms it's all about balance and good health, obesity & anorexia are both wrong.
@alexisw-wk7vk
Сағат бұрын
It was always like this
@xanthewaldon7407
14 сағат бұрын
I’m super into the gym and go because 1. I feel more confident in my appearance 2. Feeling less helpless especially as a woman and 3. I feel better mentally and physically. But I avoid a lot of the gym content on tiktok etc because there are so many unrealistic expectations being set, and I know I’d have to develop unhealthy eating habits to look the way they do. Not all, but a lot of them can really cause a spiral into disordered eating.
@djoeke2675
6 сағат бұрын
I agree! And it is difficult to not compare yourself to everybody else on the app
@oomay1925
18 сағат бұрын
Would love to see what exactly is Nickocado Avocados social expirement results. What was he conducting by embarrassing himself on KZitem, harassing Stephanie Soo, and leaking a photo of his inflamed arse 😭
@kellygugie7614
13 сағат бұрын
It wasn't a social experiment. He just exploited the situation, he made fetish content, playing it off as a lolcow. he was vegan before all of it, and i've heard a nutritionist/dietician (something like that). He just knew what he was doing and did it with a purpose of $ and views. This is his attempt at coming back without that stuff attached, playing his behavior as some ha ha silly persona "always one step ahead."
@oomay1925
13 сағат бұрын
@kellygugie7614 100% agreed. He's just acting like it was all just some social experiment to pretend like he had the upperhand in some game when there was nothing to what he did except be super weird and gross.
@raeganj6744
11 сағат бұрын
@@oomay1925my gov/econ teacher did a similar thing where he claimed he did a social experiment just so he wouldn’t have to actually do his job. He barely ever taught class and then one day declared that him not doing his job was actually a social experiment to see if we’d call him out on it and claimed we were all lazy. I straight up told him that I just figured he was useless
@Window4503
4 сағат бұрын
@@raeganj6744That’s so dumb. Did no one tell him that students are there to study, not be studied?
@ethanbaker137
18 сағат бұрын
Truly and genuinely shocking how much the Internet has propped stupid people up enough to give them a voice we all have to hear, god bless you for managing to stomach all this (pun very much intended)
@Beth-ux6jn
13 сағат бұрын
It's so personally damaging and socially irresponsible to recognise you're "bullying" yourself and to immediately validate it as necessary to an audience. "Really HATE myself but it keeps me skinny ✌🏻🤪" literally that mindset. We learn those things in childhood to cope with situations out of our control - they're a sign we're feeling that way again. That voice isn't you, it's not right about you. You are valued, loved and worthy of love and respect. Harmful language is never helpful, ok or justifiable. Stay safe everyone xx
@spicychildofYah
9 сағат бұрын
Wow… thank you for this analysis. I needed it
@leocoyote6579
17 сағат бұрын
aw man, i feel so sorry for this poor woman. you can tell she’s malnourished cause she’s not recalling the actual words she’s tryin to say (like ‘gastroenterologist’ and ‘lecithin’) and also yikes for promoting this to others. hope she heals!
@cantsay2205
3 минут бұрын
Some people just have bad memory. You're being really passive aggressive.
@clouise8752
9 сағат бұрын
2020-2021 was so healing bc of the body positivity movement being taken seriously. now, bigback this and y2k skinny that, its like all that was for nothing. and consumerism is at an all time high. its ironic.
@taylorhillard4868
5 сағат бұрын
Honestly 2020 was the start of the downhill turn. It was around then that fat acceptance tried to rewrite history and claim the body positivity movement as thier own. They turned good messages that were meant for normal healthy weight people and tried to argue that they still applied for severely morbidly obese bodies. Once that happened people stopped listening to the advice originally meant to promote healthy sizes. Body positivity was the dam that held back the whole 90s-y2k nonsense for the past decade. Once fat acceptance stole it and turned it into a clown parade, there was nothing left to protect people from the y2k nonsense from returning.
@audreypretnar
Сағат бұрын
@@taylorhillard4868THISS
@jenniferowen128
13 сағат бұрын
I was literally just talking about companies low balling calories on their packaging today!! I had no idea my whole life that a serving size of Mr noodles (43g 190 cal) was only half of the package 🥲 I used to eat 2 packs and still be hungry. Thankfully I gave up a lot of processed and convenience foods but it irks me that companies can get away with it
@user-gk7vh2ld6y
5 сағат бұрын
This comment is what I needed. Thank you
@lolnope7411
15 сағат бұрын
My god, when she called eating a crumbl cookie “stuffing myself like a cow”… that does not spark joy o.o
@susanjeffries5108
14 сағат бұрын
Yes I actually cringed when she said that. Yikes!
@sweetestaphrodite
13 сағат бұрын
Well one cookie alone has more calories than one meal should
@vaishnavisingh9244
10 сағат бұрын
Crumbl cookies have a very huge amount of sugar, but you can absolutely treat yourself once a while. Also such language is definitely from the hyper thin ana culture. I was around the tumblr times (as a child) and used to say such things without understanding how hurtful it is.
@TheOneTheyCallTim
Сағат бұрын
If you can eat crap like that and not feel like a stuffed cow then something is wrong.
@paperglu6640
49 минут бұрын
@@TheOneTheyCallTim ok best ana
@EJ_2091
12 сағат бұрын
While posting pro-ED content is not the answer, I do understand the point you made about how you believe people like Liv Schmidt and kingkrabbypatty are kind of a response to excessively PC culture. There is no room for genuine self-expression anymore, especially in progressive circles. Take body positivity: if you ever expressed that you wanted to lose weight, or wished you were skinny, you were vilified. They denied people-women specifically-their true thoughts and feelings, and shamed them for having them. But you can’t expect someone on the internet saying “love yourself” to suddenly undo all the diet culture brainwashing you’ve been subjected to all your life. The body positivity movement asked for too much too quickly, burned itself out, and only hurt women by policing and censoring them even more in the process. And I feel this way about a lot of things. Even social media platforms are getting worse with forced censoring. We can’t say words like dead, suicide, murder, sex, or even lesbian because those words get flagged as “offensive” or “sexually explicit” when they’re just…normal terminology???? And people are getting sick of having to use stupid, almost insulting synonyms to get around it. I think we’re really burning out on not being able to just talk freely and express ourselves properly. And unfortunately this leads to a swing in the opposite direction, to the other extreme, rather than a healthy middle ground. It’s very frustrating.
@maybe8985
18 сағат бұрын
I’m serious when I say people just lack decorum, respect and etiquette. Just NO education.
@bawnigan6494
18 сағат бұрын
Thinfluencers remind me of those alpha male podcasters. Their attitude towards ppl different from them are so ugly and it tells a lot about their character imo
@bawnigan6494
18 сағат бұрын
also on the note of body positivity, I agree that it went to an extreme end for a lot of the internet but the answer to that shouldn't be to retaliate in an equally toxic way? I'm personally hoping the pedulum between these things can meet a more neutral point eventually to where we stop caring so much how people look. That's probably asking a lot tho from the internet 😩
@sweetestaphrodite
13 сағат бұрын
Stems from insecurity, just as the alpha males
@x10296
13 сағат бұрын
@@bawnigan6494I hope body neutrality is the next trend. Loving your body is the best option, but if you can’t do that the next best thing is to accept it the way it is.
@palemeadows
9 сағат бұрын
@@bawnigan6494”fat activists,” have actively spread disinformation and harassed people over wanting to lose wight or “triggering” them (random tiktok with a thin person eating healthily?)
@williamtran6295
2 сағат бұрын
I feel the same way about all the body positivity folks
@messygrl
5 сағат бұрын
about "coddling people with eating disorders" i see a lot of people just making fun of anorexics, like joking about their hair fall out, which is fucking disgusting to say about someone who is dying due to a disorder that makes you slowly kill yourself. if you don't want to "coddle" anyone, just fucking ignore them, don't ridicule them
@Miuu2
5 сағат бұрын
i’m anorexic and i much agree people talking abt ed spaces just draws more people in i think it’s much better just to ignore than to respond (either insults or encouragement)
@biancarosner7576
5 сағат бұрын
As someone who went from a size 22-24 to a 12 i literally dont even feel good about my body. People talked shit about me for years now all i get are “compliments” like “oh are you on ozempic?” “You look so skinny how did you do it??” “You look so great!” People ive never talked to before come up to me at work and ask about my weightloss. They ask my parents about it even im not a person im just a number on a scale for people.
@Yemery_21
15 сағат бұрын
Never heard of a “gastrinologist”
@louiselalescu2991
14 сағат бұрын
Finding out Liv Schmidt and KingKrabbyPatfy both went to U of A!!! There is something about Arizona and specifically Tucson I swear. I got SO SMALL at school because everyone was tiny there. The Tucson U of A effect needs to be studied for real
@Velereonics
16 сағат бұрын
Electrolytes dont make you full. What is she talking about. Feeling full comes from your stomach expanding and weighing more. Electrolytes have to do with nerves firing and muscle contractions, pH and other stuff. She is clearly full of it. She is right about water. People dont drink even CLOSE to the amount of water that is necessary to function. I swear I rarely meet someone who isnt clearly dehydrated, and also that people if you drink water you will feel like your IQ is going up. Your brain NEEEEEEDS it. Your blood needs it. Your everything needs it. CEEELLLLLLS. But yeah people dont exercise. Find a way to be on your feet doing something physical. You dont gotta go jogging every day. But you need to do something manual that keeps you moving a bit. Work on your yard. Build a shed.
@phoebecross8514
15 сағат бұрын
Don't know if you actually take electrolytes, I take them on the weekend since I run and cycle pretty long distances, and from experience it most definitely diminishes my appetite to eat. You're right it doesn't make you full but at least for me it makes it a challenge for me to get through all the protein I need to be consuming in a day without leaving a lot of eating until the end of the day because I simply don't want to eat.
@Velereonics
13 сағат бұрын
@@phoebecross8514 That's interesting. It might be caused by something else though because you're getting like endorphins and stuff when you're exercising and endorphins don't necessarily make you want to eat. I just remember being in the hospital for a long time and not being able to keep food down. I also had super super low electrolytes so I was like spasming and chucking things for no reason, and and before and after getting infusions of electrolytes I was equally hungry. And it wasn't like I was eating nothing so it's like I could have felt full I guess but yeah the electrolytes didn't fix it.
@dontmindmeimjustchilling
17 сағат бұрын
First girlie pop is straight up mentally ill. And like, nobody is telling her she needs to stuff her face. Its more the 'Tomatoes make you fat" schtick
@AnonymousLittleBird
16 сағат бұрын
Oh no, not Scentbird 😭 Please look into the founder and her awful, awful behavior
@spicychildofYah
9 сағат бұрын
What happened
@not_them
9 сағат бұрын
So many creators have scentbird sponsorship and it makes me wince. The founder is horrible
@ira__s
8 сағат бұрын
@@spicychildofYah I think the ceo and founder is a big spiritualist who believes and talks about some really awful stuff, like Hitler not being evil, people could heal whatever illnesses they have if they really wanted to, miscarriages being the woman's fault etc.
@stepankatomasova5399
7 сағат бұрын
I mean, that sucks, don't get me wrong. But as long as the company itself/product is not a scam, why would you deprive her of the income.
@moonlitdreams-7266
3 сағат бұрын
this is the equivalent of me going into a starbucks and getting mad at the employee for the prices, or the humanitarian issues. be so fr, people need money to survive and it’s common knowledge that a pretty big chunk of the income content creators generate comes from brand deals.
@Arose147
7 сағат бұрын
A few years ago i was watching mukbangs ONLY for the reason that I was starving myself at that time and it was a way for me to live vicariously through them watching them eat food i wished i could be eating. God am I glad that time is over and I‘m healthy again
@moonraeshan
5 сағат бұрын
That’s the exact same reason I would watch them 😔
@somerando1469
15 сағат бұрын
The problem with liv is that just her own issues affecting herself, yes it’s concerning, but the big problem is that she’s promoting eating disorder tendencies and her fat phobia. It’s just very harmful and can hurt so many people
@koffinkiss
16 сағат бұрын
The most important part of this issue is the fact that these influencers are teaching impressionable young people, mostly teen girls, how to have an eating disorder. Those tik toks are literally just video format of pro ana tumblr posts. We can't make these content creators stop, but having this conversation and actually gearing it towards their demographic of impressionable kids and teens is so extremely important. Those anti smoking ads from like +10 years ago that used to scare the shit out of us really worked for a lot of kids when they had those going around, and maybe something like that could help for this. having an honest conversation about how eating disorders can fuck up your body permanently and how your brain works, and dispelling the fake aesthetic control the thinfulencers eating disorders try to promise.
@lex5233
15 сағат бұрын
I honestly think this is better than her lying about eating more 🤷🏻♀️, she’s a woman who wants to be thin, that’s it
@kyungsparkle
3 сағат бұрын
one thing i think often gets left out of the mukbang conversation is that a lot of korean people who diet (especially women) often share that *they watch mukbangs to help them diet*, to vicariously experience a meal or some food they're denying themselves during their diet. in the west, mukbangs are seen as being some loneliness cure, which, sure, that can be true but it's also because korea is also a hugely beauty-obsessed society that's still really deep into diet culture, so it's more mainstream for people to be restricting what foods they eat and obsessing over the foods they deny themselves.
@juhnellee
17 сағат бұрын
Please look into the founders of Scentbird 😅
@alexk7937
4 сағат бұрын
wait why?
@theartofenjoyinglife
5 сағат бұрын
The binge eating part just made me cry, because I've been going through binge eating disorder for the past 3 years as an impact from depression & past trauma. It's not as easy as what people said, because it's not only about food, but it's about the mental state where we fight the demon inside our head that kept saying "you're ruined already", "you won't get better".
@pipsli
12 сағат бұрын
Liv Schimdt's fans will consistently say "oh you're just fat" or LITERALLY TELL ME TO KMS in extremely graphic ways when I say I disagree with the message she sends, it's so fucked up
@pipsli
12 сағат бұрын
thank you so much for making this video, I've relapsed horribly with my anorexia due to this tiktok content but stuff like this helps keep me sane
@ashiechan8444
6 сағат бұрын
I hope you're okay, rooting for you and your recovery 💪
@Lee_Rins
8 сағат бұрын
My problem with Liz Schmidt and her type of influencers is that they are 2.0 versions of 2012-2014 ano-thight gap tumblr girls who were almost openly promoting ED and starvation. As someone who went through all of this and still is haunted all this "Are you hungry or just thirsty?" or beauty in a skinny body is giving me massive flashbacks. The only difference is that instead of smoking, they promote consumption of insane amount of supplements and essential oil
@digital9ymph
10 сағат бұрын
“saving america from obesity” IS WILDDD
@luisabolado
17 сағат бұрын
another day being grateful that i left that app in 2022
@ianfancypants89
18 сағат бұрын
girls wake up a new madisyn video dropped
@MichaelaWagner
14 сағат бұрын
if anyone needs relief - i think the mukbang w the eggs is actually peaches
@romanc.49
2 сағат бұрын
One of my favorite podcasts that helped me through some weight gain after taking a new medication was Maintenance Phase. The two hosts pick different topics talking about how fatphobic certain topics are addressed and the reality behind BMI and the concept of "good skinny = suffering for it," and I always suggest their content for people who want to learn more about this!
@mirriamm4284
11 сағат бұрын
Just to add to the Adele conversation- I agree it’s pretty twisted to chastise someone for losing weight. I also believe people need to think before they praise weight loss too heavily, when we don’t know the why or how. Generally it’s just so weird that we feel entitled to discuss the bodies of people we don’t know?? Or even those we do know, when they haven’t invited the conversation. I feel like we need to de-normalize that lmao.
@nonperfectartist
18 сағат бұрын
been waiting for another content creator to discuss this growing issue, your health is *wayy* more important than chasing views y'all
@thectyptid00
9 сағат бұрын
See, ED culture never left. We went from Ana and Mia in the 90s-00s to BED in 2010s-20s. And now the pendulum just swong back. The thing is that people hate talking about BED and overeating, look at modern body positivity and fat acceptance, but whatever they are doing and however much they are eating is as unhealthy, as starving oneself
@Bamgeutcutiepie
18 сағат бұрын
My algorithm on TikTok doesn’t show any of this. That’s because it shows what you keep showing interest in. You can click and say “not interested” and boom. Problem solved. You won’t have to look at content that make you feel bad. There will be ED’s in humans for all time. Always have been. Always will be. You can say it’s a trend or not. It’s there in silence too. And it’s our own personal responsibility remove ourselves from it to not get s!ckk ourselves. We have that power. TikTok doesn’t own you.
@RachelRichards
17 сағат бұрын
This is exactly right. Great comment.
@VideosForYou90
15 сағат бұрын
Facts!
@palemeadows
9 сағат бұрын
while i get that, usa currently has what? 40%? of its population obese, this isnr some trend anymore. its a danger to health.
@jeiluunaa
17 сағат бұрын
As someone with an eating disorder, the internet’s over exaggeration and emphasis of food consumption is not helpful to my mental health. Same probably goes for obese people as well
@katsmeow6946
17 сағат бұрын
Then for your mental health maybe you should take a break from the internet or at least related topics? You delicate little flower.
@Demonocityy
16 сағат бұрын
@@katsmeow6946damn chill lol
@jeiluunaa
16 сағат бұрын
@@katsmeow6946 don’t call me delicate, thank you
@Besilia
16 сағат бұрын
@@katsmeow6946geez, a-hole much?
@lex5233
15 сағат бұрын
You should take a break from this content then, and you shouldn’t even watch this video for your own sake
@Calle.Hutch..
17 сағат бұрын
Love how the ad was about drinking too many calories in your coffee😂💀
@caranook
4 сағат бұрын
For me, I eat healthy and exercise but I’m still not very thin. I’m just an average weight, but I’m healthy and I feel amazing in my body which is what really matters. I used to be underweight and unfit, and I felt really bad in my body despite looking the way people expect a ‘healthy’ woman to look. I was tired all the time, I felt weak and had a lot of nutrition deficiencies. I was going through severe depression at the time and didn’t care enough to eat enough food or take care of myself, which is a very difficult situation. When I finally was feeling ok enough to start going for walks, it felt amazing. I started going for jogs after a while, and I was getting hungrier because of the exercise so I started making myself proper meals. I’ve put on weight since then, I’m not as skinny as I was but there is no questioning that I am healthier and happier. Looking skinny doesn’t matter if you are miserable and unhealthy, take care of yourself ladies!
@owenraspberry4737
16 сағат бұрын
Love the Kiana Doherty shoutout
@younghotbajuni
11 сағат бұрын
ice spice and doja was more of a black male gaze and black beauty standards as now their preferences weren't accessible for objectification and sexualisation it wasn't really for body positivity imo.
@swolerabbit
4 сағат бұрын
this all makes me so sad, because these girls absolutely would NOT (i hope) talk this way to someone they like. the self hatred is so evident, and it makes me so sad that society at large consistently makes people feel this way, and in a way they have no choice but to project that back onto others. i’m plus sized, and no amount of exercise, diet, etc will change that due to medical conditions. i work out and eat right, and it doesn’t change anything about my size, and i even tried wegovy for a bit but had to come off because it made me ridiculously ill. i used to be dramatically underweight before the medical conditions, and the bullying i received on both sides has always been ridiculous, but the worst part is the fact that if i had been either size just FIVE YEARS APART, the bullying probably would’ve decreased dramatically. bodies as a trend is absolutely disgusting, and i hope one day we can all collectively move past it, but damn. damn.
@Psychedelicdoughnut
4 сағат бұрын
It’s fascinating how both over and under eating are pretty big “trends” (for lack of a better word) right now. I was pretty deep into pro ana/mia tumblr and forms in my teens and the last year I have had a major relapse into my ed. Oddly enough many seem to be relapsing right now. Personally I think this weird mess of food content is because people gained over lockdown and now a couple years later are thinking “okay maybe time to do something”. The cost of food is really high right now too so what can people afford to eat? Watching people over consume what you can’t because of diet or money would explain the uptick in eating content while also seeing a lot of diet an exercise content. Binge eating is also the most common ed type but restrictive types are more visible. The internet is a lot smaller in a way than it was when I was involved in pro ana/mia forms so it seems what used to be kept to the forms is now just being posted on main for everyone to see.
@daves1420
14 сағат бұрын
You look great! It was cool when you started talking about fitness I was happy and excited for you - because I'm a big gym rat. And god only gave me one body so I'll make it as healthy and fit as I can. And it's fun doing it.
@MelZel7
18 сағат бұрын
Thinfluencers? Oh man 🥴
@campbellofsweden
11 сағат бұрын
“I’m an expert because my dad is a doctor”. That’s nice, dear, that you’ve seemingly detached yourself completely from reality.
@rouka120
3 сағат бұрын
I’ve struggled with both sides of the ED spectrum most of my adult life. I lost about 50lbs when I entered adulthood and I never felt like I could lose enough. Then during covid I couldn’t stop eating my feelings away. These people starving themselves/eating boxes of cookies at a time is everywhere. I cant imagine what would happen if I wasn’t stable. I’m old enough to be at peace but I now have a daughter and I fear for her image of herself when she gets older. I focus on telling her how beautiful she is no matter what she looks like. I want her to know, that as long as she is healthy, nothing else matters.
@ayla8345
9 сағат бұрын
This has been said before, but I think this is just a cycle repeating itself over and over again and currently we seem to be in the “skinny tumblr era”. Luckily it seems like it’s a very small subculture and not really taking over much of social media. I think most girls still strive to look healthy. During tumblr every girl wanted to be extremely skinny and it was basically a pandemic and lasted many years. Social media and society nowadays is different so I do think this’ll pass pretty quickly and people will find a new body trend to obsess over soon.
@Sunshineattacks3
Сағат бұрын
Demonizing people that want to diet and lose weight is the reason why this content is getting so bad in my opinion. People don’t often want to talk about it freely because they’re afraid of getting canceled. But if it was out in the open, it would be a lot easier for people to identify the misinformation. But now it’s all in a small echo chamber and it rarely gets challenged. They demonize that girl simply for sharing her tips and tricks so now when people call out the actual misinformation, no one believes them ! Because they’re always calling out for dumb stuff
@Luckyup7
6 сағат бұрын
As someone from the 90s, thin was always just the norm. We were seeing a lot of emphasis on body image in media and movies. Some people go to extremes and that is what this whole pushback of “We’re going back to the 2000s heroin chic”. Look, models and actors will always go to extremes and some people want to look like that. I don’t care if someone wants to get plastic surgery or liposuction or a nose job or lose weight naturally or unnaturally. We make changes in our lives to make us happy, if it didn’t make you happy then why tf you doing it. People want to inspire and be inspired to lose weight because that’s HARD to do alone. We’re all in this world together, some people have it better than others and there will always be someone better than you. Look up to those people and be inspired to become better. This whole jealous mentality, scrutinizing and policing other people really reflects your own insecurities. Rant over😅
@arc4705
6 сағат бұрын
Well-done vid, I really wish I could leave thinspo shit in 2014 Tumblr but as a middle school teacher without Tiktok, I feel like I gotta watch stuff like this to see what my students are inundated with daily :/
@grymmline_6832
11 сағат бұрын
When I had an ED hearing I looked skeletal didn't make me feel successful. I hated my body before, so I changed it, and then here you are telling me even after changing I'm still disgusting to look at. it would send me spiraling. I got to a point where I didn't know what to do because I didn't like how I looked when I was a normal weight (I was never fat, I look back on my old photos and I was quite thin idk what I was thinking) and then I came to dislike how I looked when I was super skinny. The only real difference is that after starving myself of precious nutrients I didn't just feel ugly, I also felt like garbage. Like I was always tired, my stomach hurt, and I was cold 24/7, it was awful.
@xzxzojkeymtzxzx7712
2 сағат бұрын
i really enjoyed the way u presented this -- it can be so difficult to say anything bcos food, body image, and health are so personal with lots of different factors influencing it
@spicymayo623
15 сағат бұрын
Your hair is so pretty!!!
@kocopuff27
18 сағат бұрын
19 seconds ago?! love this for me lol
@kawaiicomentando74
18 сағат бұрын
A videoo I kinda missed those it's being quite a time, but again I can understand it takes time to research and make. Still quite happy your fan from Brazil
@koroconnell
12 сағат бұрын
I think we need to learn to stfu about stuff that we legit are not qualified to talk about
@abbybrooks1348
2 сағат бұрын
I think something i like to think about while having these conversations is “health at every size not healthy at every size” like you can strive to have health at whatever size you are but you may not be healthy and being healthy may require you to loose or gain weight because lets not forget this applies to either extremes being super thin isn’t healthy and nither is being super fat
@Jai_dinn
17 сағат бұрын
Its either too little or too much. Nobody knows how to balance
@sagethespirits
Сағат бұрын
been in anorexia recovery and i have to stay off tiktok…it’s so gross to see proana content like its not an absolutely awful disorder
@Sarah-gz4no
3 сағат бұрын
I dont really trust anyone online who has the Kardashian tonal quality. The way these influencers speak drives me insane.
@Mars.95
16 сағат бұрын
I wanna know why people go so hard against Liv but not all these people eating 1,000's of calories casually. Especially since most people today struggle with overeating rather than undereating. Her being banned but not these other people is crazy.
@xXJoeyXxcoooool
16 сағат бұрын
BOTH are horrible tho?
@Mars.95
15 сағат бұрын
@@xXJoeyXxcoooool I agree, i'm just wondering why the mukbang people aren't getting banned like she is.
@EssieSpring
14 сағат бұрын
I agree, there have been a few mukbang creators that have passed away while on a live 😳
@adorablewaffles9818
13 сағат бұрын
So true. Just goes to show how unconcerned ppl are about binge eating compared to something like anorexia or bulimia. They should ALL be taken seriously
@angelica_eats69
12 сағат бұрын
@@adorablewaffles9818I’m betting a decent amount of money that the reason people are not as concerned about BED as they are concerned about anorexia & bulimia is because they think in the majority of cases, the obese people will outlive the anorexic/bulimic people since they’re not restricting food intake in any way.
@hannnn5048
5 сағат бұрын
I have a problem with my eating. Kind of always have… I finally got to like my body and weight at 202lbs. I was finally curvy after a lifetime of being thin. After my spouse of 20yrs cheated on me I just stopped eating. I went to the doctor yesterday and I am only 167lbs and my blood pressure has been consistently and dangerously high. I lost over 30lbs in less than 6months. I rarely eat. I rarely sleep. It’s nothing for me to go 4-5 days at a time without eating anything but one wheat bread and tomato slice with cheese sandwich. If I am lucky I can get about 2hrs total of sleep a day. I didn’t realize I had an eating problem because I thought it had to be in the traditional sense. I don’t set out saying oh man I’m really hungry but I’m not going to eat because I want to be skinny. I just don’t want anything to eat. When I manage to force myself to eat I get full almost immediately. I have been looking for high calorie foods to hopefully make me gain weight.
@cantsay2205
10 минут бұрын
Yasslighting doesn't help either. "oh em gee YAAAASSSSSS kween, you look so good, you don't have to gain/lose weight, you are BEAUTIFUL" like no, I need to lose weight, I need to eat better, don't lie to me, don't lie to people in general. Don't encourage me to be unhealthy so you have less perceived competition.
@jaidenboucher0
34 минут бұрын
thank you for talking about this! the combination of sugar and fat in food is literally not found in nature. it is so addictive!!!!! and the fact that the us government allows these "foods" to be sold and be advertised to children is disgusting. ultraprocessed foods are the modern day cigarettes.
@krk6216
4 сағат бұрын
Therapists can’t diagnose either, I’m pretty sure it’s only psychiatrists or paychologists
@mikalacst
18 сағат бұрын
Love a comprehensive video like thisssss! 🎀
@geeegaewlwlwll9328
Сағат бұрын
i had a friend with an ed (we dont talk anymore but from what she posts she seems to have gotten a lot better) and she used to constantly ask me how she looked. i hated these conversations because no matter what i said it fueled her ed. if i told her she looked scarily thin it was encouraging to her, if i told her she looks normal she felt insulted and worked even harder to lose weight, and if i refused to answer she took it as confirmation that she was fat. no winning scenario im so glad she's better now
@Cindyxx0
9 сағат бұрын
I do get reminded of the delicious fast food and sauces and stuff when seeing them online or on tv, when I haven't thought of it for weeks or months. If I didn't see as much yummy fat food I wouldn't think about it as much
@SteffidelaM
6 сағат бұрын
I'm so glad this stuff wasn't around when I was a teenager. I would have definitely been influenced by it... I really wish body positivity was more about things we can't change about our selves and that we're all beautiful, not so much about skinny or fat.
@KingofDudes-hm3wx
15 сағат бұрын
As someone who has lost 53lbs drinking Rao's (not really but I love it), my bloodwork is great. I don't know what her tomatoes are doing but the Rao tomatos, perfection.
@lauren1779
Сағат бұрын
Nick and videos like that fed my binge eating disorder for years. I hate them for it.
@angelafaulkner52
2 сағат бұрын
I have BED. I had to diagnose it, then went to a psychiatrist because my go didn’t get it. I would be in locust mode where, if I wasn’t constantly eating, I would be anxious and/or angry until the episode passed. Once it passed, I felt bloated, sick, and ashamed at my “weakness”. I’m now on medication that helps to control it
@kayladuncan4737
Сағат бұрын
Omg when you said anorexia-leaning I feel like I can finally describe my complicated and disorganized eating disorder when describing it to healthcare providers. I can’t wait to use it next week 😂 Everything you said in the video is wonderful! Thank you for this!
@veronica.lgrt.
2 сағат бұрын
I know a lot and nothing about food at the same time bc there is so much information and they all contradict eachother and demonise the other side
@lunayen
4 сағат бұрын
1) I wish that people would stop saying that the body positivity movement "failed." It was not a race or a competition with the thin obsessed culture. While yes, people who complain about heavier people who want to lose weight should be addressed, body positivity still had a positive effect on society at large. 2) People with a BED get less respect and more hatred from society at large than someone with annorexia, orthorexia or even bulimia in general, as people assume that it's a problem with an "easy solution."
@d1gitalsonder
16 сағат бұрын
19:03 even if this was the case for someone, adele losing weight doesn’t erase the fact that she once was that representation and was still seen as beautiful and respected and talented and acquired fame whilst being in a bigger body interesting to think about
@alyssamendoza7708
2 сағат бұрын
love your videos and how you always try to see both sides of an issue.
@thechelseakiara
51 минут бұрын
I will say crumble really tried to finesse their calories for the cookies. On the cookie when you go to the store it will say 250. They wouldn’t have per 1/4 - at least when I went. I was like oh wow i thought it was more UNTIL i went to website and they said it was 1/4. After that, I never had a crumble cookie again. The cookie wasn’t bigger than an average cookie so they really tried to play in people’s faces because why is ONE cookie 600 calories and it’s not even that great 🥴
@harrietmia
9 сағат бұрын
One thing I’ve noticed this time around is that whenever someone comments about the ED culture returning or someone with a platform intentionally promoting unhealthy habits, it’s met with “why are we commenting on people’s bodies!” even when there’s no comment on their body at all. It’s scary that this time around it feels like we can’t even talk about it without being told we’re “bringing women down” and it feels like an aftermath of 2010s girlboss-ism.
@rylbarb3981
2 сағат бұрын
U have a much more nuanced take than most people talking about this stuff so thank u for being understanding
@shadowwolf2257
9 сағат бұрын
thank gods someone is willing to have a nuanced take on eds and overeating without being fatphobic
@haileys9823
13 сағат бұрын
It’s not a sin to want to be thin but starving yourself sure as hell is
@mschimpanzee2023
57 минут бұрын
ugh the way you talk is so pleasant I love u
@Kazelita
3 сағат бұрын
8:46 most of the time they aren't aware they have disordered eating thoughts. From their perspective, they are in the right, there's no obsession, no excess, that's their normal.
@FederalBurroOfInvestigation
4 сағат бұрын
I feel like something that can play into telling someone they're "too skinny" not helping can be the thought process of them not feeling skinny in their own mind. I don't have a clinical problem, but I don't necessarily like my body either. My dad makes comments about peoples' weight quite often and has also in a call (divorced parents) asked, "you haven't gained any weight, have you?" as if that would be a terrible thing.. That doesn't help. I feel stuck in a mindset of being worried about being called "too skinny" for the reason above, due to the areas my fat is in not being something I like.
@Bluntgirly
18 сағат бұрын
Oh boy , here we go .
@emotionalkryptonite1161
Сағат бұрын
Excessive daintiness around food and refusal of food is also classified under gluttony, thinking of gluttony as just 'eating too much' is doing a massive disservice to the sin itself.
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