Thanks for answering my question. I asked because a person with Asperger's asked me to point out behaviors that were irritating people. She and I are friends, so I tried to help her. One day, I was rushing to get to class, and she just kept talking, even following me into the hallway. Since this was one of those behaviors that was driving people crazy, I stopped, gently put my hands on her shoulders, and said, "***, when someone is leaning away from you, trying to walk away, or walking away, it's time to stop talking." Her face lit up, and she said, "Oh, thank you!" - - It occurred to me that teaching people who are on the spectrum simple body language cues might help them socially. By the way, she is brilliant and is working on her doctorate. She is also one of the best people I know.
@catedempsey5707
26 күн бұрын
Some people with autism are excellent at pattern matching - crazy good at it but also experience difficulty with body language because people's body language often contradicts the words they speak. Your idea would have been very helpful for me when I was young because I couldn't figure out why people were lying so frequently.
@elainetise4535
26 күн бұрын
@@catedempsey5707 Perhaps, you could find someone you trust who could point out behaviors to you - - kindly. It did help my friend. I loved her just the way she was, but others didn't understand. You are so right. She didn't understand when people lied.
@catedempsey5707
21 күн бұрын
@@elainetise4535 I am now 54 and have been a barrister (trial attorney) for a quarter of a century. Things are going well in terms of being able to spot liars and now I have insight as to motivations...
@NicolaMaxwell
5 ай бұрын
I can hear your 8 hour video playing through the wall. My son absolutely loves it Scott. I do too! ❤ I think you sent one of the panelists into a 16 hour hibernation. 😂 You're the best. 🙏🏴
@loisdiamond3714
3 ай бұрын
I’ve had experience of people enjoying me being scared. It’s so freeing to let go of fear , it’s life changing x
@SydMountaineer
5 ай бұрын
I close my eyes often when talking, but not due to smugness, sometimes it’s when I’m trying to focus. People with ADHD & Autism will often close their eyes or look away when talking to you (even when they’re masking they have to keep reminding themselves to look at you).
@SuperDrLisa
5 ай бұрын
My brother was on the autism spectrum, he never looked anyone in the eye when he talked to you.
@DelmaRaySmithJr
5 ай бұрын
Narrative, inflection, repetitive moves . . . a rocking chair, pendulous motion, like a lullaby.
@dilafng
5 ай бұрын
I use body language during Zoom calls with clients and regulatory agencies. Specifically, I use mirroring and matching, and I also use body language and facial expressions to convey agreement, disagreement, confusion, etc. while others are speaking. I like to watch people when I’m out and about, and I’m always amazed how couples or groups of people match each other, even in things as basic as how they walk. Despite having followed you and TBP since Depp vs Heard, and even after reading your book and spending a couple of days with you all in Vegas, I still find it very difficult to “use “body language. Usually when I am speaking with someone, I am too busy either thinking about how to answer (e.g., a scientific question from a client) or feeling self-conscious to pay attention to the other person’s body language. Maybe someday it will become second nature. Thank you for sharing your super power and making me lol at least 3 times during every video. 😊 P. S. She’s an idiot. Your hat is awesome.
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
🙂👍
@susanthebeautiful
5 ай бұрын
That is so awesome that you donate personal training to your local law enforcement.
@lynnschaeferle-zh4go
5 ай бұрын
I noticed something that my therapist confirmed. When being over bearing, or being pleased by his manipulation he puffs all up and looks large. If you call them out they shrink into a much smaller slumped victim.
@frohlockdilemma
4 ай бұрын
To me, body language is most useful to spot how comfortable or uncomfortable people feel. That's when I realise at least that I notice it much more and try to intervene, for example in team meetings, when I see that someone feels misunderstood or is not satisfied with an answer. It's a very useful tool to me to detect, if someone's not feeling alright, but also if someone is putting on an act, trying to manipulate me or to see, what someone's thinking about my behavior.
@aaronwalderslade
5 ай бұрын
The Harrison Ford finger! I've noticed a lot of people deal with interruptions by using what we called "broken record" in assertiveness training. You repeat exactly the words until they let you complete the sentence. I've seen this work well in TV interviews with many panelists.
@hannojaanniidas9655
4 ай бұрын
On airport security, I took pre-mission training at Aviano air base in southern Italy in early 2015. My wife travelled with me, and at Brindisi airport, I pointed out the airport security dressed in plain clothes. We're experienced travellers and speak in French. We were stopped, questioned, and released. So it's not just nervous people that risk being stopped. The observant are noticed as well. These people are professional !
@christistruth705
5 ай бұрын
I had a coworker/boss that couldn’t look people in the eyes. He would always look at my chest area, like at my sternum. He wasn’t checking me out. He just had an issue looking people in the face. I think he may have been on the spectrum. Great guy, but could make people feel weird if they didn’t know him.
@Kloops
5 ай бұрын
My ex husband would lie because he believed it was a game. He even bragged to me that he loved to lie to people just to see what they knew. I never knew where I stood with him after we got married. Before then, he was a perfect guy. Yes he had flaws but I accepted and loved him for who he was. I learned after we got married that those four years of dating were lies. He was giving me back what I was giving him. Recently I asked him why did he change right after we got married. He said because he wasn’t courting me anymore. Well we courted again for the divorce just a different kind of court.
@SuperDrLisa
5 ай бұрын
Same here. Once we got married my husband suddenly couldn't do dishes, cook, clean. Do laundry, things he could do before the ring was on the finger. Then he tried CV to control me, food, work, reading material, tv watching. 4 years and only living together only 2 of those, the ring was off the finger and he was out the door.
@gypsyscometotown
5 ай бұрын
My ex did the same thing, woke up the next day with a different person🤦🏼♀️
@godlink6743
4 ай бұрын
I had a 4th grade teacher who had a crush on our principal. Her eyeballs would begin to flutter EVERYTIME he walked into the classroom. Even young as we were we knew what was up. Bless her. She was a precious person.
@leasaharris6097
5 ай бұрын
You are the coolest cat on KZitem. Love your videos ❤
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Thank you. 🙂
@googlespyfranchise9089
3 ай бұрын
Where’s the psychopath fear bit? I must have missed it.
@PrivateEye_007
5 ай бұрын
I love that you are the go to expert on Psychopaths & thank you for sharing your knowledge so beautifully to help protect us 🥰🥰🥰& spot those evil things
@tictactoedias1908
3 ай бұрын
I love Scott eyes ❤️ he has kind beautiful eyes ❤
@christistruth705
5 ай бұрын
Scott! You do NOT have a big nose! I hear you talk like that too often but I don’t see it. Your face is perfectly proportional. Stop it!
@UPONBUTTERFLYWINGS
5 ай бұрын
Scott, so thrilled to have learned about you here and TBP. I’m relatively new to KZitem, I gravitated to the site because of my life long fascination with the criminal mind. Found Grizzly True Crime, fell in deep like with Gisela and the way she handles her content … through Gisela, I heard about TBP, which led me here! I recently decided to further my studies, late in life at 55 years old, into the many facets of the criminal mind and behavior. Things are so different from when I graduated in 1991 with a MA in Psychology… I’m learning a ton of new stuff!! Essentially, and in a long winded manner, I am Thanking You… I’m reveling in the information you’re providing and look forward to participating in the offered coursework. Hope your days are kind to you!🌼
@NDAsDontCoverIllegalActs
5 ай бұрын
Your fair, impartial and nuanced explanation is appreciated.
@vickiparsons5698
5 ай бұрын
I respect and appreciate what you guys do.. interrogators taking these predators off the streets..thus saving others lives.. you don't have to be nervous Scott.. another humble hero.. thank you for what you do ❤❤❤
@LeslieMiletich
5 ай бұрын
I WATCH BEHAVIOUR PANEL. Glad I found your chanel.
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Leslie. I’m glad you found it too. 🙂
@ClaireWedgeworth
5 ай бұрын
*I LOVE the psychopath content, they're so fascinating to me. Scott you're incredible at what you do, love the content 💕*
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Thanks Claire. I’m having the best time doing these. Let me know if you have a question. 🙂👍
@judiday5316
5 ай бұрын
Storytelling is a dying art. Scott you are great at it but you always edit yourself. PLEASE introduce some segments of yourself telling stories. It's obvious that you have a million stories to tell but you always shy back. Body language is great and all, .BUT REAL LIFE STORIES -from someone who actually has somethin' to say, and who can actually do it would be AWESOME!!.... : )
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Thank you. I’ll see what I can do. 🙂
@jinx.rhodes
5 ай бұрын
@judiday5316 I just started a cool story telling class from Casey Rosen. He is so kind, hysterical, and brilliant! I’m trying to track down his book “Your Story, Well Told” as I have a feeling it’s more of the same. ☺️ Thought I’d share. 💘
@judiday5316
5 ай бұрын
@@jinx.rhodes
@NTandJH
5 ай бұрын
WOOOOOW ❤️ I think my question was read 🙋♀️thank you Scott ❤️
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
You sure are welcome.🙂
@charlotte7554
5 ай бұрын
The looking in the eyes thing reminds me of Curb Your Enthusiasm's recurring gag of Larry David staring deeply in someone's eyes while trying to determine if they're lying
@curiousamiba
5 ай бұрын
Hey scott, watching from my oncologist treatment
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Ha! That’s awesome. Hang in there. The boredom fades slowly but surely. 👍🙂
@curiousamiba
5 ай бұрын
😂@@ScottRouse
@BookishDark
5 ай бұрын
Would you say that learning body language is kind of like unlearning social niceties? I’m reading Joe Navarro’s book “what every body is saying” and it’s all stuff I know in my gut and could see and call out as a kid and teen, but I feel like the last decade or so of my life (30-40 years old) I’ve suddenly had those instincts conditioned out of me - I give the benefit of the doubt to people who definitely don’t deserve it. I’ve found that I’m projecting too much of my own issues - the desire for compassion, understanding, and the benefit of the doubt - onto others to the point that I talk myself out of what I’m seeing. It’s occurred to me that it was easier for me to call it out as a kid and teen because when you’re young you can be openly antisocial; teen angst insulated me from feeling bad about making judgment calls. At 40, I can’t quite bring myself to make those calls in the same way that I used to. As I’ve been learning more, it’s made me wonder - is learning body language really a sort of UNlearning?
@susanwagner98
5 ай бұрын
I've been watching a reality show to practice and it really adds fun to it.
@melaniejennings8945
5 ай бұрын
I really enjoy listening to you guys! You are very Interesting and cover some very interesting topics as well as analyze some INTERESTING people!!! OMG!! Yeah, I agree with the comments above ...if I was guilty of something I wouldn't want to have u guys interrogate or analyze me!!! My father was a policeman, and as a teenager, I got away with NOTHING!!! 😮😂😮
@mizzmy929
5 ай бұрын
It's the KOOLEST KAT in the Behavioral scene!! Much respect and even more appreciated Mr. Scott❤😊
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you. 🙂
@AmberGoodridge-se9ee
5 ай бұрын
TY “tan daddy” :) pretty impressive. Remaining positive this is all for good.
@tjnugent62
5 ай бұрын
It is always fun to listen to you Scott. Give my best to your mother.
@koricoconut4293
4 ай бұрын
Scott, I just got out of a narcissist relationship. We had been friends since High School so I thought I knew him. Question: Is love bombing how narcissist start out, and gradually start gaslighting and become meaner? Also wanted to add, they made their whole family hate me. I had no idea all the talk going on behind my back. 😢 Btw, just made BBQ short ribs. Love you Scott ❤
@pope1089
4 ай бұрын
If he is a narcissist they all work from the same handbook, loving, devalue then discard, repeat. I find it weird that they all work from the same handbook regardless of culture and believes. Psychopaths dont do this for some reason they usually have someone they like.(my opinion). Peace, its a long and interesting hurtful journey, dont go back it gets worse.
@rosemadder5547
4 ай бұрын
I went through this a few times. The family is what is called their flying monkeys, they've been brainwashed to be on his side, and it works. Look into triangulation.
@vickiparsons5698
5 ай бұрын
No Scott 😂😅 Mark, Greg, and Chase 😂 would definitely know if you fib with them.. it's fun with them ,the behavioral panel you are a big part of the panel.. you 'all are a great team 😊
@andreal9238
5 ай бұрын
80%-love it! 😄 I would love to watch you try to do it too! The best of the best in their element.
@miryamsharif547
5 ай бұрын
Get you scott and your fancy editing. Love it ❤
@NenoJanjane-mn3ux
5 ай бұрын
Awe, nice of you for helping up sheriff departments for nothing, it's so sweet n delightful. As always thanks for teaching a lot more about body language, and the 8 hour sleeping video that you provided is great too, I have difficulty in sleeping, after hearing the first one, I enjoyed a deep sleep. You should consider urself as a sleep specialist, too.❤
@shanelamps6242
5 ай бұрын
Body language is most useful for me with my kids. I try and teach my daughter on things and she pretends she isnt in to it but i know she is. I love it. Also, good on you Scott for helping out the police force when you can, you're awesome.
@pennythpmas5787
5 ай бұрын
Second City was the Bom! Such Talent!❤
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Yes it was. So sad it’s not anymore. 🙁
@rachaelpino6914
2 ай бұрын
LOL the first question reminds me of when I was a kid. My sister swore that if I lied I would laugh. So when she was suspicious of something I say, it made me laugh even when I was telling the truth. Just this serious suspicious look on her face would crack me up. So she'd always believed that I was lying even though I wasn't. And the more suspicious she was, the more it made me laugh 😂😂
@Heythere775
4 ай бұрын
This is the 2nd time I've fallen asleep listening to you!! Thanks for that...I have lifelong problems with insomnia. I did try listening to your guided meditation, but it didn't have the same effect...
@ScottRouse
4 ай бұрын
Yes!
@investigator77
4 ай бұрын
Some men would be insulted if you told them you fall asleep listening to them, but Scott knows how soothing his voice is to a lot of us fans! I make up a playlist of his episodes, that total 15 or 20 hours, and use them to sleep. I have chronic pain, and have had trouble sleeping for decades. When I wear my big headphones to bed, and I have to get up a couple of times for pain meds thru the night, but then Scott's beautiful voice lulls me back to sleep. It's interesting to listen to everything he's saying, and I'm learning while I sleep, but his voice is soothing and is a perfect distraction while I fall asleep again. I love him so much! Amber is a lucky lady!!
@Echo_1174
3 ай бұрын
I'm taking notes Scott😊thanks❤
@minecraftmonkeysar1119
Ай бұрын
Oh my gosh, Martin Short is my favorite comedian too! So underrated. I could watch/listen to him all day.
@Polyp1-3
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Scott … peoples behavior has ALWAYS had me intrigued… thanks to you and this video I now know where to start. 😝I appreciate you sharing your knowledge 🙏🏻🥰
@StLennyBruce
5 ай бұрын
Hey, there was a great comic down in Houston, Sean Rouse. Brian Regan is a GREAT study in bidy and vice. Martin Short is the greatest of them. I caught some recent strange expressions on his face I caught at an awards show.
@reiningreminic
5 ай бұрын
"I reckon I could lie to their Fayyce!" 😂😂
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
😬
@reiningreminic
5 ай бұрын
@@ScottRouse 🤣... that's the appropriate emoji if you tried to lie to Chase and he just quietly locks onto you with his jedi stare. Then this one 💩 🤭
@dominiquepellissier8518
5 ай бұрын
This was really interesting. Thank you. Especially the stuff about the different personalities and how specific personality types tend to do the same things. I have a narcissist in my family and have been able to understand and predict their behaviour a lot better just by understanding how narcissists in general behave. Would love to learn more about the different personality types, it's so interesting. Definitely gonna look for that book.
@SweetiePieTweety
5 ай бұрын
Autism and closing your eyes to reduce stimuli input so that you can form your words I have to look away or close my eyes to be able to focus on my words, so there could be lots of reasons why someone might close their eyes when they talk. But most people get the body language of people with autism autistic people a little wrong when they’re studying it they don’t always know what they’re saying, but they’re trying to put it into a category that usually just isn’t quite right.
@lindasheldon6940
5 ай бұрын
I'm not autistic but grew up w a lot of anxiety and if I feel I'm being scrutinized or under pressure, I close my eyes so I can focus on my words bc I wasn't believed most of the time by my parents and got punished for things I didn't do or say, also if I'm embarrassed, I'll look away but still be truthful. I'm very uncomfortable w lying. Point being, I've been misunderstood and called weird a lot growing up. My grandson is high functioning Asberger's, so I get what you're saying and your are right.
@debs7411
4 ай бұрын
I do that too sometimes. I'm not autistic but I have a friend who swears I am on the spectrum. I have ADHD-PI if that matters.
@teresev1435
5 ай бұрын
8:05 I think I could lie right to their FACES.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I❤U, Scott. You crack me up😘
@Livefreeordie-182
2 ай бұрын
I just really enjoy listening to you talk. Your story-time video was excellent.
@ScottRouse
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. 🙂👍
@aletha460
5 ай бұрын
I'm happy you've said you still want to learn & keep up to date. I've worked with junior docs in training, for 25+yrs. My old boss was the Dean of medicine. He was 65 when he retired. But he said its still important to keep the brain going, so after a full career in medicine, he went on and did 2 more degrees. He was an OBE too, but after retirement, would only tell people who asked, that he used to be a doctor. No more than that. Lovely man. One of his degrees afterwards, was law. At his age, he still went on to work voluntarily as a lawyer in a citizens advice bureau. Never stop learning -its a good thing! X
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Yes!!!
@aletha460
5 ай бұрын
@@ScottRouse hoped you would like that. He lived & worked here in the UK, and had a holiday home in Florida. We thought he would retire there but nope-he wanted to carry on learning. The other degree he did was Art History. He was a delight to have as a boss-an encyclopaedic brain and a cheeky little sense of humour. He was funny.
@heidik5109
5 ай бұрын
😄 They got a pretty dang good baseline on you ~
@OnlyGetOneLife
Ай бұрын
Yet another juicy gripping watch! Huge kudos and thanks 😊
@siouxd799
5 ай бұрын
Glad I found your off shoot channel!!!! Love you guys!!!!
@Jesus_the_Way_Truth_Life
5 ай бұрын
You're so funny. You went from 100% confidence on lying to your TBP cohosts , to 80% then 75%. LOL
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
The more I think about it, the less confident I get.
@megonvi
5 ай бұрын
😅 Hahaa that was hilarious! But it's a very good sign too. If he had already lied to them in the past and got away with it, he would have lots of confidence that he could do it once more. If he had tried but failed, then he would have too little confidence in not getting caught again. So, the fact he kept hesitating means he truly doesn't know how it would go because pretty much he's been honest to the guys. Lovely! 💖
@BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat
5 ай бұрын
42:41 👏 😮 👏 ❤Jawdropping and SO true, haven't heard it put that way.. 👍
@strawberryjam119
5 ай бұрын
I love listening to you talk l, Scott, thank you for taking time and answering questions for the everyday layman. I have learned quite a few things just from listening to you guys on TBC and one thing I’ve learned is you need a baseline and try to go from there.
@tld1235
5 ай бұрын
I agree that when your nose is itchy it does not mean you are lying. Everyone knows that if your nose is itchy you are going to kiss a fool. Ha ha ha you have to use it to tell the future.
@sarahs413
3 ай бұрын
Oooooo -- I'm curious about the course you're mentioning and how much it would cost! THANK YOU for the link!
@gazpearce3700
5 ай бұрын
8.35 in Scotty 😂😂😂😂 your thinking hard cobber about lying to the boys, you had a little moment were you weren't sure 😂😂😂 funny as
@sarahs413
3 ай бұрын
Right with absolutes. Taught in basic psychology. There's ALWAYS an exception while mentally noting it just in case it's useful later on ..... I THINK.
@godlink6743
4 ай бұрын
I convinced a University Professor and his family once that limes were actually just unripe baby lemons. It was before the internet, and we were playing Trivial Pursuit and drinking Bloody Mary's. They did not want to believe me. It was a hard sell but since I'd moved from California, had a lemon tree in my yard and they were from Chicago it began to be believable. See, the pulp is green and the seeds are smaller. Then I asked them if they'd EVER seen a lime tree and they hadn't they began to believe. The game question had something to do with citrus or limes and if you unsuccessfully challenged a right answer the person got an additional wedge bonus in the game if they were right. I think their consumption of Bloody Mary's aided in my success. My boyfriend's father (History Professor at O.U.) nailed me the next day though. One of their sons was an Olympic Gold Medal winner. Yes, I lied to a Celebrity family! LOL! It might have prevented me marrying into the family though!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@jewelsbarbie
3 ай бұрын
LoL!! What a good story! 🤣
@mystical_poncho
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Sir.
@ScottRouse
3 ай бұрын
You sure are welcome. 🙂
@sarahs413
3 ай бұрын
For me, interrupting is done because I'll forget if wait to be finished, and also can't show that I would be listening by writing down my thoughts while they're talking. I wonder what the balance is for this. Would I miss critical info by not looking at that person? That's a tough one!
@MissReneeMichelle
3 ай бұрын
The balance is called "active listening." Active listening is listening to understand, not to respond. Actually listen to what the person is saying and come up with a response when they're done. 😊
@tiffanyhawthorne2687
5 ай бұрын
I hope I see TBP do a test on who was better at lying and who was better at detection of the lie
@KathyPridayWickedLadyChains
5 ай бұрын
I thoroughly enjoy listening to the Q&A sessions. My husband and I could listen to you all day. I loved the hypnosis video, it worked like a charm 😊 thank you for all the tutoring you do, you appeal to my inner nerd!
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Yay!
@Barb.T
5 ай бұрын
This'll be good! I know from TBP that you have a strong interest and understanding of psychopaths. I didn’t realise the importance of the info on such personalities until I recently read Without Conscience. Knowing the traits is very valuable. It helps to recognise them and avoid disasters. Interestingly, my (estranged) brother had most of the traits as a child. It explains a lot. I’m looking forward to what you have to say here.
@Narnus96
Ай бұрын
It’s nice though because when you have anxiety, odd behaviours etc and are actually fine, and you have a lot of empathy actually, or just anxious, or on medication or poorly, it’s obvious to people who matter to you, and anyone who gets to know you will see that eventually most of the time. Sometimes you’ll be misunderstood but it all balances itself out hopefully. People can say what they like when they’ve met you for like 5 minutes. So I’m trying to spend less time worrying about my body language 😂❤
@susanthebeautiful
5 ай бұрын
I am not as interested in spotting lies as I am in spotting the truth. I feel like I was colorblind before I started watching KZitem videos about body language and behavior analysis now I see in technicolor. For instance when someone tells someone they love you and you can tell they are being truthful it is so beautiful and moving.
@chrisrobbins9924
5 ай бұрын
Great video. Love how you think. ❤️
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Chris. 🙂
@sarahs413
3 ай бұрын
MAN, I wish I could afford to take these kinds of courses. I've been passionate about it for at least 20 years!
@ScottRouse
3 ай бұрын
Email me BodyLanguageQuestions@gmail.com
@SueMiller-zu1pv
5 ай бұрын
Hi Scott, thank you for all your work and another great session 😊 Now it's time to listen and learn with sleep session ✌️☯️✌️
@denisedaisy3357
2 ай бұрын
Hi I enjoy your q and a videos. In one of them someone asked about recognizing expressions. LOOMIS' Fun with a Pencil ( ancient book) page 25 has drawings of 20 expressions. They are really clear, obvious and labeled. I practice drawing them a lot. Inadvertently, my grasp of morphing and micro expressions has greatly improved. Thanks again.
@christineh4782
4 ай бұрын
Scott, I'm shocked. How did you find us? We would have invited you if you weren't staring at us through the bushes.
@bibleprophecy4400
Ай бұрын
You want to know if they’re lying, just ask them more questions - they Will contradict themselves almost Every time. Trust me, my ex (& unfortunately our son) do it every time. I’m starting to wonder if I was married to a psychopath now. 20 years, no wonder I felt like I was on a roller coaster. Makes me wonder about my sanity because I still care about him. 💔😢 he’d do something so seemingly altruistic and then do something so awful and act like it never happened. I’m still in counseling 12+ years later. Never again. Single forever.
@LoisFrancis-lb9hl
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Sara.
@katherinel1801
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for doing this - I’m a therapist and this topic is fascinating to me. I look forward to your videos.
@Buttercup203
5 ай бұрын
Are u going to do a LIVE stream Scott? I love ur expertise + would love to catch a Live so we can interact w ya! Great Show 👍👍
@cherialbaugh1741
5 ай бұрын
How great is this, the psychopath loves fear. How many people do I know that love to activate and install fear 😢. Thank you Scott this is so timely and will be extremely valuable and helpful.
@lindseyhudson1274
5 ай бұрын
This was really fun and interesting! I'm also fascinated with psychopaths and narcissists. My favorite thing is the percentage of lying you could get away with! Ok we totally want to see you try to lie to the other guys during a show! Even a small itty-bitty lie that is inconsequential because they know you and so it doesn't have to be high stakes. Then we can come back here and see how it went! For bets I think Greg might know or be suspicious, but you might be able to get it past Mark and Chase lol.
@jaredblume1220
5 ай бұрын
Martin Short in the Three Fugitives. Comedy perfection. 🤣 - beth Blume
@e.sjolund4011
5 ай бұрын
Big nose? You? I have watched you for so many hours and it has never, ever crossed my mind! 🤷♀️😅
@BookishDark
5 ай бұрын
22:38 the trickiest one - covert narcissist. They don’t present like grandiose narcissists do. They’re so much harder to spot.
@CarlaHowatt
5 ай бұрын
If you are speaking to someone who has fallen for an MLM - does their body language betray their lies or do they believe it so much they appear to be truthful?
@@ScottRouseMulti-Level Marketing businesses are usually “snake oil” businesses. They lure people in by claiming their product is some kind of miracle product. It’s like a cult, because people get sucked in and start believing their own lies. In reality, the product is only a means to an end…getting people signed up so they can make money off them. Everyone they see or meet is a prospect. And some MLM’s are even SCAMS. But trying to convince someone who’s drunk the cool-aid is an impossible task.
@Vmurph
5 ай бұрын
It’s a good question. It can actually apply to people in any type of cultish group or activity. Would their body language reveal whether they have doubts or if they really do believe the hype of what they’re into?
@windywednesday4166
3 ай бұрын
@Vmurph That's interesting... As far as cult followers go, I think it would be something that should be there but isn't more than looking for a 'tell'. It's much harder to see things that should be there but aren't.
@lbacaterpillar
5 ай бұрын
About closing eyes when talking: I know someone who does that to block out distractions (kids) and concentrate.
@ajsquaredproductions7860
5 ай бұрын
15:17 Scott--did you just say, "throw it in the Goog." 😂😂😂
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
Oh yeah. 👍
@nanceb4him
5 ай бұрын
"The Google God" not to shorten, but food for thought.
@curiousamiba
5 ай бұрын
Love these q&a's you're great scott
@susankerr9521
4 ай бұрын
Tell me more about this sucker-punch pickle. BTW, I loved the hot-chicken sandwich burp. LOL. Humanity is a wonderful thing.
@sbeddo1
4 ай бұрын
In your Sleep Series (#4) you say people lie out of love, hate, or greed. I think the main reason people lie is to get out of trouble. This isn't love, hate, or greed unless you say it's "love of self." Is that what you mean?
@ScottRouse
4 ай бұрын
Yes. People lie because they love themselves and they don’t want to get in trouble.
@TheLeagueOfSteve
5 ай бұрын
Fear = Power & control? Love the Disney animated movie Tangled for showing the controlling stepmother only ever showing love to Rapunzel's hair. She doesn't love her, she loves the control she has over her "daughter". It's stealthily sophisticated storytelling disguised as a simple fairytale.
@jwsuicides8095
5 ай бұрын
I was guiding a client through performing that stepmother's song from Tangled...freaked me out...then freaked me out some more....
@wendieking4184
5 ай бұрын
Martin Short and Keanu Reeves both proud 🇨🇦❣️
@tinamalik362
2 ай бұрын
I play the long game, too. I must be pretty good at not letting on that they just revealed important data.
@clarice1001nights
5 ай бұрын
I love your involvement
@marymackenzie7283
5 ай бұрын
What does it mean when someone shakes their head no when telling you something. Does it mean they are lying?
@caycedagenhart517
5 ай бұрын
It could mean something and it could mean nothing. Scott and the behavior panel talk about context. Everyone has a baseline and you are looking for cluster deviations from the normal behavior. That is where people are feeling stressed. That doesn't mean they are lying, it just means they are more sensitive around that topic. There are no universal behaviors that will tell you when someone is lying.
@tiffanyhawthorne2687
5 ай бұрын
I feel like chase mark or Greg should pop up and say Challenge Accepted!!!
@NenoJanjane-mn3ux
5 ай бұрын
Yeah, that would be a great fun.
@jwsuicides8095
5 ай бұрын
I didn't know you had your own channel...I'm probably being stupid as it's obvious you'd have one. Doh! Facial expressions and body language comedians: Stan Laurel. Yes, an obvious choice but a bloody genius!
@ScottRouse
5 ай бұрын
He was AWESOME. 👍🙂
@candyvarvel
3 ай бұрын
Okay, I experience empathy deeply. But don't generally feel fear. In chaotic situations, I spring to act. I can also turn off and disconnect from emotions. Idk what I am. I can feel what others are feeling too sometimes amd can't block it. I feel like a paradox.
@Just...Peachy
Ай бұрын
I'm the same. When there's chaos I'm cool as can be. I'm actually anxious when things are fine haha
@micheleamoah5049
3 ай бұрын
Kafka wasn’t a ‘fantasy writer ‘was considered one of the greatest writers of the 20th century exploring themes of alienation and isolation and ‘Kafkaesque’ is considered a genre of its own wherein the human condition is explored through surrealism. He’s really worth a read!
@ScottRouse
3 ай бұрын
“Kafkaesque” is a bit past its prime now. People make fun of the term. 👍
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