He was one of my profs. at CMU. Always interesting lectures.
@patiencecollins9915
4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful soul! I pray God blesses him immensely! It would appear as though he already has
@lbryant5836
5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you!! As a trauma survivor who has been lost in time, thank you for explaining the struggle💗
@suejorgensen46
4 жыл бұрын
I am at the awakening he is talking about..this Ted talk is so very important
@Cathy-xi8cb
5 жыл бұрын
I wish that Dr. Gold would mention how difficult it is for people with DID to learn these essential skills. If all the parts aren't learning them, I don't know how it could work as well as he says it could.
@EM-wb6bk
4 жыл бұрын
I loved this Ted Talk... I'm a survivor that is lost in time.. I hope that one day I can leave all the hurt behind and maybe find myself... Thank you
@markbeeman3093
3 жыл бұрын
My wife says I have PTSD from a former abusive employer because of recurring nightmares.
@foxpuddles
7 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I've cried in a year. I wish I had peace but I've been in a void for years and I think about suicide every minute of every day. I've done therapy and after 3 visits I think "I have too much for them to fix" & I quit n go back to void
@stevengold1164
7 жыл бұрын
Hello Better Mom It is common for trauma survivors to doubt that improvement is possible, to be concerned about being a burden to others, and/or to feel that they aren't deserving of a gratifying life. If you stick with therapy and don't give in to these pulls you will get to the other side. I encourage you not to give up and fall back into the void. Push through. It is worth it! Steve
@madalenafrio5822
6 жыл бұрын
Keep searching! Dr Gold suggested a doctor for and my life changed.
@suejorgensen46
4 жыл бұрын
Lovely Mommie...I hope you have found a path..I always quit because a few sessions in I felt like I would die or commit suicide to go any farther, I didn't tell anyone or ask for help because I might be crazy. Eventually I overcame my fear started with something not related to the true trauma..built a relationship and they didn't reject me when I told little truths. It's taken a few years..and it will take a few more but it does get better!
@rODIUMuk
3 жыл бұрын
I cant believe this . I’ve wasted so much time . I didn’t realise other people had this .
@hamzaislam9420
2 ай бұрын
Hcdb
@askyeshka726
6 жыл бұрын
We continue to address the symptoms and not the cause. The cause is human beings not treating other human beings with respect and dignity. A child does not have a frame that allows them to deal with malevolence. All the children in the United States attending public school are being traumatized every day. We have moved leadership from caring protector educator to authoritarian policing aggressor with laws that only support the aggressor. The system of education has transformed gradually over time, so we did not notice the difference and assume that schools are where our children will get an education. They are not getting an education they are getting traumatized and we are telling them they must go. It is like telling your child to put his hand on a hot burner of a stove and to do it every day. Children are not able to tell their parents that the school environment is not a place where they feel safe and protected. They feel something is wrong with them if they are not adjusting to an environment that parents, educators, and the law are telling them they should go to school and that it is good for them. Nothing could be further from the truth. we need to talk to our children with active listening and acknowledge their environment is NOT NORMAL and your children have a viable reason for not wanting to go to school. It is not a behavior problem. It is not a parent problem. The SCHOOL IS THE PROBLEM! Compulsory Education law is being used as a tool/weapon to force children to stay in basically what is a communistic society daily without any freedom to leave or protest. If you still have a Principal at your school that protects children, then count your blessings. Those are the only children truly receiving an education and thriving the clear majority are traumatized. The bully stuff is not what it appears it has always been about trauma and the fight, fright, freeze automatic protection system being set off for every child in a totalitarian ruled public school who does not allow due process. If they put you in detention or suspend you then that is what will happen without a court hearing or any due process. The position of principal is being taken over by less than honorable people. Lack of morals and ethics and might makes right mentality is pervasive. It is top down bullying in almost all schools. If your child is not running TO the school then more than likely the problem IS the school!
@PHanomaly
4 жыл бұрын
Wow I agree with you on the problems and sources, even though I'm not familiar with schools because i dont have children, but the punitive approach is visible everywhere, and it's truly damaging too many people unnecessarily who have no option to escape.
@marcusnl66
7 жыл бұрын
What if you're unable to connect?
@stevengold1164
7 жыл бұрын
Hello Marcus I apologize for the delay in responding. Being able to (eventually) experience a connection with a therapist is, I believe, essential to overcoming trauma, especially what is referring to as "complex trauma": repeated instances of trauma, as in child abuse or domestic violence. In complex traumatization, however, it is also to be expected that the survivor will not be able to easily connect. This comes in time as trust in the therapist develops and fear subsides. Interpersonal connection is both essential for therapy to be successful and an central outcome of thearpy for complex traumatization. A skilled trauma therapist will be aware of this and will understand the importance of being consistent, attentive, and trustworthy so that connection can gradually develop and stabilize. Steve
@suejorgensen46
4 жыл бұрын
It can take a few or even a dozen tries..the right therapist needs to be in the right place for you and then for the full transformation I had to be in a spot that I felt safe enough to tell the truth and feel and remember.
@donnieraveling188
8 жыл бұрын
A strong resilient bond with therapist and patient? hmmm my last therapist went to sleep on me and that lives with me. I was trying so hard to connect. BUT, I realized I was boring him.
@emmalouise5765
8 жыл бұрын
+Donnie Raveling i am sorry to hear this happened with your therapist. I have been through various therapists. There is one that will suit your requirements - don't give up. I have reached the stage of mourning the realisation that all those years of suffering and understanding that there is so much love available and good people. I am now a psychology student and plan to help others to heal.
@donnieraveling188
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for replying. I once was a psychology student myself and I wish you well
@stevengold1164
7 жыл бұрын
Jared Please accept my apologies for taking so long to reply. As disturbing as it must have been to have your therapist fall asleep during session, please consider that there may be many reasons for this that may have no relationship to boredom. i hope you take Emma Louise's input to heart and keep searching for a therapist you feel comfortable with. As she indicated, there are therapists out there who will suit your requirements. Steve
@yourrnamee1280
5 жыл бұрын
I don't think this man is being realistic about how the brain heals from trauma. One day a person just comes into the present? Really..NO
@askyeshka726
6 жыл бұрын
Tell every child that is in public school that once they are out of school and in the world that they will NEVER again be forced to be in an environment where they do not have options. They will never again be forced into a group that is formed based on their date of manufacture rather their your unique, special, gifts and skills that are individual. Life is very different after school. You can quit a job or walk away from any person you do not want to be around. School is the only place where you are forced to endure abuse by adults and other children without ability to escape.
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