I met her in my darkest place, we both grew so much together, and now it’s over. It’s hard to think the woman who saved me is gone
@alfiere2078
3 ай бұрын
i can feel this a lot, man..
@ffjake4762
3 ай бұрын
Felt
@zacharypecora5339
3 ай бұрын
I fully feel that man, the same thing happened to me. She got me to finally stop getting pinned and actually “Wrestle the Giant” and then she left
@hunterelliott4858
3 ай бұрын
That’s the problem brother. You gotta get out of the dark place before you meet the one. Gotta have some self worth and value before you get serious. Then you’re just relying on her to give you value
@worldrecordmethod7119
3 ай бұрын
wtf me too man, chick literally pulled me out of the gutter and turned me into a great man. I know it feels like you’re back in the gutter now that she’s gone but you’re not. I’m currently 55 days in and it’s not easy, but it definitely feels possible
@mdcmdc1
6 ай бұрын
And they think men don't care...it's really difficult to be with someone and then suddenly it's gone. You can have friends, parents or whatever, but its your partner you build a life with. The emptiness is real.
@pook304
3 ай бұрын
It sure is cause I'm completely empty and she doesn't even care one goddamn bit about it.
@Satsusss
3 ай бұрын
@@pook304she does trust me
@nicolassimon2367
2 ай бұрын
Empty, Lost in thought and regret, we were planning to start a family and a week later she just left. I am not able to stop the pain yet, i see her everywhere and cant stop looking at my phone but we have to at least give it a try.
@bunnypxnts
8 күн бұрын
@@nicolassimon2367 how are you holding up man?
@Valhalla2008
6 ай бұрын
My girlfriend left me on my birthday, right after I got home from the Walter reed military hospital, because my dad was in a helicopter crash. I've been so depressed from that and to the things I saw in the hospital. I'm struggling man, I've been needing something like this. Especially when we live in a society where Men can't show their feelings. Where men just need to go suck it up and keep working. I'm just, struggling. Struggling with my faith, Struggling with depression, struggling with the will to live. I needed this. Thank you.
@KVuong-rv2hs
6 ай бұрын
Let tears water the seeds of your future's happiness.
@jimg5797
6 ай бұрын
Me too brother..
@AKrieger94
6 ай бұрын
Sending love for you brother! Keep fighting. It shall pass 🙏
@gakorothyt9768
5 ай бұрын
Bro, I am truly for your loss. Especially for you dad. It must really be hard for you to just keep living. I know what you're going through. My mom's gonna have surgery, I have me end Semester exams, and my woman whom I thought to be my emotional anchor left me. So my whole life is just crumbling apart bro. And I can't show that to anybody else. I can cry and grieve in solace. That's the best I can do right now. Everyday it's hard to put on a I'm happy and fine face and live my day as usual So you're not alone brother. We are there for each other.
@jonburnett2207
4 ай бұрын
stay strong my bro (:
@aidanlund3767
7 ай бұрын
Just gotten broken up with by my girlfriend of a year and 4 months. I was too attached to her and she needed some space and independence. After losing her a few days ago, I have felt so empty. I have no motivation to do anything and I’m constantly wanting to text her back and fix everything, even though I know she wants to move on. I hate this feeling so much Edit: Thank you guys for all of the support. While it is sad to know other people are experiencing what I’m feeling, it does help me to understand that I’m not alone. This feeling still sucks, but time does heal. We got this boys. Sending love to all of you❤️
@iwanther17
7 ай бұрын
Im on the same boat as you she just broke up with me and i feel so empty.
@christianstone8570
7 ай бұрын
Same here!! 1 year and 4 months! we were perfect
@christianstone8570
7 ай бұрын
I hate this man
@TevitaSwann
5 ай бұрын
Same boat right now bro. It's really hard man.
@toxicty6595
5 ай бұрын
How's everyone doing
@Syndor12
7 ай бұрын
Thank you. I'm 28, been in only one serious long distance relationship for the last 4 years. We'd broken up three times before, but we'd always get back together. I finally ended it again, two weeks ago. She was my best friend, my safe place, but logistically we just couldn't be together. Neither of us fell out of love, we just knew we wouldn't be able to get married. No one really tells you how to handle those breakups where both people are still in love but have to break up for reasons out of their control. Still, this video helped me.
@HQR000
Ай бұрын
I had to breakup with my bf because he went through a major illness.. we were seeing each other with the intention of marriage but in the end I had to walk away because if we pursued it further & became more knowing the fact that he could practically leave me widowed in the next few years it would crush us both. If he really became my husband & I had to see him deteriorate in front of me & then die I dont think I could mentally handle it. I had no choice but to walk away even though I still think about him everyday.
@Syndor12
Ай бұрын
@@HQR000 I'm sorry, that's such a horrible and cruel situation for anyone to be put in, I can't imagine it. I hope you get through it. I left that comment five months ago and today I'm able to get through most days without the feeling of pain and loss. I know our situations are completely different, but time really does make things easier. Hang in there.
@nicholisfourie8971
24 күн бұрын
Yeah. I didnt stop loving her, but we knew that we had such different ideas over a household together. I did not go researching strategies on how to handle break ups, weighing the odds of not talking to them anymore and so forth. It was my first. I was genuinely reacting. Some people encouraged not talking at all, but that just sounded so extreme and cruel.
@Syndor12
24 күн бұрын
@@nicholisfourie8971 Honestly as much as I was against going no contact, in the end that's what did help the most. It did basically mean the end of any relationship we'd ever have, I don't think the two of us will ever speak again or be friends, but it's the only way I could move on. It's still a struggle during some days, but I think it'd be worse if we were still in contact.
@anycoveryoulike7510
18 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I went through a very similar situation where I broke up with a girl I really loved 3 weeks ago, it was really hard, but it was the 5th breakup in our relationship and at the end of the day despite how much we loved each other, it wasn't compatible
@D-A-N-
7 ай бұрын
The fact almost everyone went thru this and is going thru it makes u feel better that what happened to u is really not that special, it’s just part of the game.
@MAGNATEOfficial
3 ай бұрын
6 years ended 2 weeks ago. The worst part is I’m not sure I fully understand her reasons for wanting to break up, which makes it worse, harder to process or to accept that it was a good thing when there doesn’t seem to be a good reason to break up. But there isn’t much I can do. First week was fine, felt normal but I ran into her 1 week ago and she spoke to me for the first time like a stranger, like we were fully truly done and I think it was then that it properly hit me, have been feeling really shit lately and have lost some ‘friends’ who no longer seem to reach out anymore. I feel lonely to be honest, and I want someone to talk with but I don’t feel like I have anybody that cares. Its tough man.
@chipsahoy8716
3 ай бұрын
I feel you bro 3 years over like I swear 30 minutes ago everything you say I feel the same, but we got this bro I love you💙
@godnoss466
Ай бұрын
@@chipsahoy8716I relate to you man! I am going through something very similar. Stay strong bro, at least I’m trying to!
@whiteyls9682
2 күн бұрын
Hey man I seen this is 3 months old now, how are you doing. I had a 6 year relationship that just ended still early stages literally this past Monday and I'm not sure I know why it ended as well I mean she gave me reasons but us guys can't truly comprehend a woman's mind unfortunately, anyway I been down for the most part but I am trying my damn hardest to hold it together
@TheThinkFirst
8 ай бұрын
This really does describe all the emotions that I’ve felt so far with my recent breakup. I’m still moving towards the 3rd and 4th step in the first part. Keep doing great things because mental health is extremely important.
@ryan_clutch35
8 ай бұрын
Although its been 6 months since my 2.5 year relationship ended, this video just saved me from a lifetime of unhealthy thoughts and all I can say is thank you. To everyone else who may read this, take this from someone who made mistakes (even with the right intentions) and had to get over the depths of self-blame. YOU. ARE. NOT. ALONE. Love yourself and forgive yourself for any mistakes you may have made. Nothing moves linear so let the lessons be lessons and move forward with your new perspective, because one day you'll realize how strong you truly are. You are the author of your own life story. Some chapters may be your favorite and some you might choose to skip, but realize that you hold the pen. So write the story you want! Go out and try something you've always wanted to do, tell your loved ones you appreciate them, and let the next time you smile be the evidence that you deserve to be happy. Thank you for being on this Earth with me, I can't wait to read the story you write!
@joeykidney
8 ай бұрын
love this
@parashar.s
7 ай бұрын
thanks man I can relate to the things you said I hope everything will be fine
@ryan_clutch35
7 ай бұрын
@@parashar.s You'll be okay and everything will be fine, as long as you make yourself your biggest cheerleader. You may not like who you see in the mirror today, but that's the crazy part. It doesn't reflect who we'll be in the future. So keep moving forward and keep the momentum! You have my complete support!
@karlzilz9004
16 күн бұрын
Those stages are bang on. She left me almost a year ago and my heart initially felt sad because I thought I lost the one but then I found out how she was manipulating me, using me for what ever she needed or wanted and then just left me high and dry. I will never forget the lies she told me that night, the famous line “it’s not you it’s me. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.” I was this secret, never a profile photo or a status… then there was the other guy that she went overseas with. That was a fucken kick in the balls. Now my heart is just filled with seething rage and hate towards her. I hope that one day she is plagued with reflection or she has to comfort her child one day for the exact thing she did. Never have I hoped karma existed this much. She was my everything. I am slowly getting back to myself and able to laugh and smile again. There are good days and horrible days but we have to push forward and learn from the hard lessons. To the guys going through heartbreak, stay strong gents you are not alone and we must stand strong together.
@godofgames0947
Ай бұрын
We hugged before we said our last goodbye's. Im thankful to have someone like her, to have the chance to court her. Thank you.
@leviotten
5 ай бұрын
14 years of love is over. Depression caused her to to turn inward, and it was 4 years of decline at the tail end that caused her to open up and tell me she cant see a future with me anymore. She can barely see tomorrow, let alone feel anything but anxiety about our love. She said the suicidal ideation hasnt left her alone for years now. She needs to focus entirely on recovery. She is still alive. She is still the woman of my dreams and the love of my life so far. I have to somehow cope with her needing to move on and deal with her depression in earnest. I have to move on as well. Nothing could have prepared me for this outcome. Be kind to yourselves. The grief is total and it is the very definition of pain. I dont see a way out yet, but one day I hope too. I love you more than life itself gaby. I dont how to deal with being alone.
@veer5714
Ай бұрын
Stay strong brother... we love you.... Seek help from God ... Make a bond with him... He will surely help... I am going through the same situation after staying 9 years together she is marrying to someone else....
@joaomacedo7279
6 ай бұрын
You are one of the few that actually says what it's need to be heard. It has been over a year now and I guess I am at the last stage, I've accepted it and moving forward but still with pain in my heart but I don't ignore my feelings anymore. That hug thing at the end it's so true, everyone needs a tight hug from time to time!
@christiaannel8339
16 күн бұрын
Man, when you said the word hug I burst into tears, yup That's all we want now
@Lbf81769
3 ай бұрын
Very powerful message here "You deserve too see what tomorrow is like"
@nlegault1218
5 ай бұрын
i love everything in this video, but you really got me when you said i need to hug someone. i started choking up
@robertg78
6 ай бұрын
Thank you, Joey. In my case, the part that hurt the most was that I was trying to feel valued through my GF because I didn't feel valued at my job. That said, I was dumped. Couple of months later she is going out with a new guy and gets in a new relationship. I actually did not care much about it -kinda happy for her actually- but the ego, man. Ego took a serious low blow, reinforcing my low-self esteem and value issues. I believe that when your ego gets hurt like this, you need to acknowledge it, try to understand where it comes from, and work on yourself; be kind to yourself. Men are shaped under the heat of the forge and by the weight of the hammer. Work on yourself with purpose. Even though I still have my setbacks, I feel blessed whenever I feel excited to know what partner the future will bring. I don't know any of you guys, but I love you still.
@skeley1167
3 ай бұрын
That hug part really got me man. Wish me luck boys. sending love to all of you, lets get through this ❤
@mikelgutmut
6 ай бұрын
This is just so good, thank you brother. Almost a year since I took the decision to break up with my ex-girlfriend. It has been a super healthy breakup, full of respect and love, but also, of course, so much pain. Your words are just so accurate and true. Thank you. Keep moving forward guys and strive to become better men in the process.
@999plays
4 ай бұрын
Damnnn I didn't think of it at first but the thing you said... You don't feel it when it happens but the more time passes, the worse it gets
@TheWaunfawr
7 ай бұрын
Day 77 after a 6 year relationship
@retroaspects729
6 ай бұрын
Same we’ll get through it brother
@captainrich0222
6 ай бұрын
I’m on day 7 after a 3.5 year one. Does it get easier?
@TheWaunfawr
6 ай бұрын
@@captainrich0222 it does mate. You go from being in pain and upset into a stage of being confused and not knowing what’s next for you in life. You just have to grind the pain out mate. Feel your emotions and let them out, no shame in it. Stay active, get closer to your friends and family and set some big goals in your life! My 2 goals this year is to go to the Amazon and do ayahuasca then later on climb up Mount Kilimanjaro! It’s something to look forward to and to prepare for!
@anzorthewolf5558
6 ай бұрын
@@captainrich0222 Hello brother! I hope you're doing well❤️ I know it's so hard to deal with especially if it wasn't you who decided to break up I have been in an online relationship for over 8 years And today she just decided to break up just like that... No reason at all... 8 years.... 8 years gone from my life the memories, the feelings, the emotions... They meant nothing to her... She were just manipulating me all the time... I tried everything to make her stay... My feelings were so true and pure towards her She was my everything my love my soul my motivation to keep going and to never give up I thought that she was the one for me... I gave her everything..... Yet I meant nothing to her... I rejected many girls in real life for her, it was so hard for me but I did it anyway just for her And now after all of these years together.....after 8 years she just left me like it was nothing Just simply saying: "I think we should break up I'm sorry but we can't be together" nothing more and nothing less She just left like it was nothing It's so hard to deal with, so much pain in my heart, so much memories that won't fade away Stand strong brother! You deserve better than that! You'll get up from this It's ok if you fall down but remember no one will hold you back up but yourself Take your time to heal and let it all go away Don't chase a silhouette that's long gone She's gone forever and she'll never return Stay strong brother❤️ I hope you the best in your life!
@nelsonleung613
6 ай бұрын
@@captainrich0222Day 1 for me from a 3 year relationship
@areebjaved0022
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for this. She just left me yesterday and her mom was trying to comfort me, it's been really hard even though it's been a day. I will still be there for her and support her as she has more problems than me
@Spectrumpicture
7 ай бұрын
I moved to a new city, knowing no-one. I met her, through new friends. I had a glimpse that I wasn't going to be alone, I found a new home in this person. Obviously, im here, and she didn't feel the same. I share this because it helped me to know my situation is not unique, and maybe this describes you too.
@CrazyPancake9876
7 ай бұрын
I hope everything gets better for you, man. Just remember that we’re all in this together.
@ricassiocosta
4 ай бұрын
This is exactly what happened to me... I moved to a new city in a different state just to be with him. We lived together for two years and now I'm totally alone. I feel like I don't belong to this city, but in the same time, I changed to much back to my home town... I'm totally lost.
@ravnvr
23 күн бұрын
i always thought that me and her could finish every problems that we had, and we always think that we match each other so well ! but 5 days ago she told me that she’s tired with me, and she don’t wanna be in a relationship, she don’t wanna be someone’s girlfriend.. while im loving her dearly everyday. she told me i always treated her well.. but why is she giving up on me.. this my first serious relationship, and it hurts me so much..
@Grey_legend59
4 ай бұрын
1:45 I’m here because I miss my ex, and I wanna move on, but I still miss her. I still have feelings.
@nidhithakker5911
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much needed this badly I'm a woman, never been in a relationship but still somehow needed this badly especially right now ❤
@joeykidney
8 ай бұрын
I am glad it helped you
@juliaoescravo4054
6 ай бұрын
Anger is linked with optimism and sadness with pessimism. I know It’s not right but that anger high feels good.
@aditdeshmukh3431
7 ай бұрын
You’re doing a great job,its been 3 months but still trying to fight it.
@joeykidney
7 ай бұрын
and you’re doing great too! Keep going
@aditdeshmukh3431
7 ай бұрын
@@joeykidney thanks man
@L3RMINAT0R
4 ай бұрын
Thank you, it’s been a week since I broke up, she was my first ever girlfriend, we spent almost two years together, I know it’s basically all my fault, but it still hurts allot, like the world is ending, like something is missing from me, but knowing I’m not alone really helps, thank you so much
@brandon360white8
6 ай бұрын
I needed this channel badly, just got out of a fantastic 1 year relationship and it ended because of anxiety and we both were going down mentally and we had to accept we had to end things, now I'm starting a new job and my life feels so confused and unmotivated, it's been hard to move on and accept everything that happened, it's weird trying to find myself again, thank you for the advice
@yoshiguevara8425
3 ай бұрын
Going through it now, 3 years and she didn’t know what she wanted. Broke it off because I couldn’t do the uncertainty, I still love her and wished she would want to fix it but she’s checked out. Meanwhile I’m over here trying to keep it together after working so hard to build a life for us. It hurts and although I’m staying busy doing everything I should, being 31 I’m losing hope. I’m just living day to day and getting used to actually living alone. Coming home to nothing. It’s the first time I’ll be truly alone coming home as my family moved away and feel like I have no support. I’ll keep fighting the fight for now take care everyone
@austeam
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. My relationship with her lasted 10 months and she broke it off without giving an actual reason. All she did was just texting me saying that this will end in "good terms". Later I found out she was cheating on me for a while and was hinting it a few times. Its been 4 months and although it doesnt bother me as much, my thoughts still run wild from time to time. Now I realize I really am not alone, and perhaps this breakup might be good for me after all. Everyone, you're all worth it and you deserve to experience so much more. Don't let a breakup control your emotions and remember sadness is as important as hapiness in life. ❤
@ChimpRevolution
12 күн бұрын
The thing that sucked the most was i didnt even get a proper breakup the last time we were hanging out i felt she was way more distant than normal week gors by not a single reply doesn't open my messages. I finally text her number and let her know if the sparks gone, i understand, but we are both adults. At least have the decency to tell me youre done she eventually said she was good and didnt want to continue. The thing that hurts the most is the last time i saw her when i left she hugged me but she was holding on tight and i didn't say anything but it felt like one of those hugs you give when you know you wont see someone for a long while that's when i got the gut feeling and knew it still hurts thinking of it.
@36200
3 ай бұрын
Many girls hitted on me but i was so depressed i didn't even care. Then she came. Not the most beautiful, not the most sane, not the most stable. But there was something in her i couldn't explain in words. I still didn't show interest, but she was the one making the first move, and i went for it. It was magical, every second with her. I forgot my depression, forgot every bad thing that happened to me. And then she just left. No explanation, no reason, nothing. The worst part - i see her everyday at work, acting like nothing happened...
@ovrxpsd
2 күн бұрын
damn. I'm sorry. that's probably why everyone always advises against dating someone in the workplace. i hope you get thru this brother.
@Kbflocca
Ай бұрын
It’s crazy because I picked this girl up well she was at her lowest and after everything I did she left me at my lowest
@cmonManFthisName
Ай бұрын
I met a girl a month ago for like 5 times, it just felt so good with her because we were so close to each other and then she told me that there is nothing more than a friendship between us. Its crazy that I only have met her 5 times and that I wasnt even in a relationship with her that it hurt me so much even now after like 30 days I am still in pain and miss her but bro the end of this video really told me the truth and I nearly dropped a tear which is not often the case. Big thanks to you @Joey Kidney !
@henrichomette831
6 ай бұрын
I cried watching this, your so genuine and real. Thank you
@salaad1385
25 күн бұрын
just ended my first relationship. I feel like she was perfect, or obviously i can point out shit that was annoying (who cant) but those dont matter and never did. It really felt like it was just at the wrong time. We both miss each other every day, weve gone back and forth like 3 times with her deciding if we wanna try again (but we didnt) and the annoying part is that every time ive decided that it would be best to stay broken up, but then i meet her or talk to her and i instantly start feeling this incredible love for her. She helped me through so much and i helped her. But shit just didnt work out for some dumbass reason. I told her this and i think its one of the truest things ive ever said: I really wish i could just love you. Now i just cant stop missing the things we did, and its not even like that i miss specific stuff. I just miss her pressence and her smile and how she made me feel. Right now its impossible to imagine that i will ever find somebody other than her that i would ever like in that way. Im just really sad it didnt work out basically, because we both really wanted it to.
@InOneWeTrust
2 ай бұрын
Its been 6 months since we broke up. I disrespected her boundaries by dropping gifts off to her house. I just ordered a mystery birthday dog box to her house. She blocked me on every communication app possible. she was the only person I went to for my issues and I told her everything. I have nobody to go to right now so I'm starting therapy again to hopefully get better. It hurts so bad to see how easily I was pushed away but in the grand scheme of things it was my fault because of the things I did while we were together. instead of trying to show her I've changed by trying to fix things I need to show her I've changed by accepting the consequences. its so hard to let her go after 5 years together. i don't enjoy anything I do anymore and don't enjoy the company of others. I need somebody to talk to so I think therapy will be good or just explaining my feelings to random people on the internet.
@VARC10206
14 күн бұрын
i cant man, look, i don't even know if it's worth anymore, i don't know what to do im so lost man, i dont even want to live anymore
@ankurmukherjee2302
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Joey..... You don't know how much I needed this❤❤..... Lots of love my guy❤❤❤
@judethedude6288
4 күн бұрын
We had been together for 2 years until today. It was a mutual parting of ways and I knew I wanted to break up for a few weeks but it still hurts. We’re on good terms and are still friends but I’m just more sad than I thought I would be. Thanks for this video, it helps to know that there’s better days to come.
@AquaInferno
8 ай бұрын
Love you so much big bro!! Been with you along this journey of life for years now. So thankful I your wisdom found me you always bring me back to a humble and emotionally vulnerable state of mind. I hope we get closer one day and get closer because I genuinely have seen you over the years as an older brother. Sending you love forever!!! Stay positive twin
@CrimsonSkull_nothere
Ай бұрын
What happened is she broke up with me today. I'm fresh out of breakup and I just don't get it. I comforted her through a car crash, I bought her a necklace for her birthday, etc. She thought I was cheating on her with one of my best friends, and all of her friends blamed me. I'm going to take a break from girls right now and focus on myself more. Thanks for this video.
@jakubmroz7104
Ай бұрын
Im 3 weeks after breakup of 5 years relationship and i just couldnt stop to cry after the hug part, I was doing it every day I only could and thinking that I haven't done it for so long made me realise how much I've started not to even think about it, it was just a habbit for so long, but man I would use a hug from her rn so freaking much
@xXChaChingXx
Ай бұрын
I think I'm getting to this stage. Man it sucks
@GauravMishra-vt7dq
8 ай бұрын
Perfectly said everything
@joeykidney
8 ай бұрын
Appreciate it!
@synmade
11 күн бұрын
Don’t ever blame yourself when someone leaves you for something you couldn’t control. My girlfriend of 4 months left me because I was uncomfortable with a guy friend she had just reconnected with, who I noticed was being overly nice and flirty with her. When I brought it up, instead of respecting my boundaries she took it as controlling behavior and told me I was being toxic, ignoring the fact that he was quite literally giving me a reason to feel this way. Either way, she was too immature to even try to understand my feelings and reasoning, so instead of admitting the truth she made an excuse to leave me by calling me manipulative and controlling when I simply didn’t want some guy to be flirting with my girl. In the end, all she did was use me being uncomfortable as a reason to create a bigger issue that would allow her to leave me. She told me that if I “couldn’t handle” her “prioritizing a friend” over me, then I couldn’t “handle her.” Which is just blatant bullshit, and was an excuse for her toxic behavior. She hardly had talked to me or hung out with me during the few prior weeks and now this suddenly sparked a big issue that wasn’t really there.
@TheFailBros
Ай бұрын
Needed this. I know I’ll love her forever. I wish I could’ve taken care of her better when we were together. I took every moment with her for granted. But I’m thankful for everything I learned from our relationship
@imafirenmehlazer1
2 ай бұрын
Brothers in arms I been suppressing this for 3 weeks now im upset that she broke up with me when I was at work mostly and didn't have the respect of me to tell me to my face, I cried in front of so many ppl with 0 emotions but tears just rolling out of me like a child does for a toy at a super market as I sat there at attention I was with her for 4 years she literally made me the man I am today I was a kid but she made me a man and now I'm faced here to confront this after 3 weeks of suppressing it , I am 33 years old rn half my life is over it was the hardest thing she just shrugged it off like it was nothing 4 years of hard work I put into the relationship to be a provider and a good man to her... the dis respect man
@blackfyre7096
4 ай бұрын
She ended our short relationship moment. But, I'm thankful for everything that she did. I hope i did good enough for her.
@andreas7640
2 ай бұрын
Joey, these 7 minutes were really an eye-opener. What a great video. Went through a breakup yesterday, so I really need this.
@diamondstudios2568
3 ай бұрын
People always told me to just "move on" and that "it'll get better eventually" But it never covered up just how much I was hurting. How much I'm still hurting. I screwed up a relationship that meant everything to me, she mesnt everything to me. She now has a boyfriend and is a lot happier now. As happy as I am for her, I still wish I could've been better. I miss talking about our future, watching horror movies, being a couple of dorks and just, being happy. I went from being someone she wanted to spend the rest of her life with, to now a memory of some weird guy she dated. It hurts man it really hurts....
@grandmastermario3695
2 ай бұрын
Honestly my mom had many breakups because of the abuse her boyfriends put all of us through, so honestly if you get depressed over 1 break up then, i really don't know what to say, sounds like you can't deal with the harsh reality of life sensitive.
@clintonspeaks8668
18 күн бұрын
The same person who broke my heart is the same person who can fix it. I’m just not sure it’s right thing for me.
@synmade
11 күн бұрын
The only person who can truly fix your heart or any other problem you’re facing, is you. Sure, they make you happy and support you and make you forget you ever had problems anyway. However those problems are still there and the only way they’ll go away is if you love yourself and help yourself, regardless of who’s there with you. The next time that you love someone and they love you, remember to be working on your problems and fixing yourself while they’re there. Not only will this give them less reason to feel the desire to leave your life, but it’ll also provide stability and strength if at chance they do leave you.
@ritamdas3833
2 ай бұрын
whoever came to this video, I hope you guys feel the best very soon. I was in a situationship and it ended today, here I am. I hope I will meet someone one day who is willing to commit. :)
@leonovais8
6 ай бұрын
I think the worst part about my breakup was that the person I opened up to actually started talking to her while I would open to him. He took advantage of everything. I get controlled by anger and shame for everyhting. It has been a rollercoaster of emotions. There is not a day I don't think about it and it's been 7 months now. It really affected me mentally. I've been trying to improve in terms of understanding the reasons behind everything and not being controlled/manipulated by others. It get's better overtime tho :)
@aldoramos292
Ай бұрын
Me and my girl broke up a couple days ago, at first I felt like I didn’t care but then the sadness hits real quick it just seems crazy how she can just forget about you just like that remove your pictures with them and seeing someone who was there for you when I had no one else leave, I felt so bad to the point where I lost all my energy and I couldn’t concentrate on my work focus on work, I’m holding up right now but I just feel like I need someone to give me a hug and tell me everything is gonna be okay.
@Mitziiiiiii
14 күн бұрын
You made me cry in a good way, thankyou I needed this ❤️
@tomrosenbarger8668
3 ай бұрын
How do you get over the anger you feel towards yourself when you know that it’s your fault
@grandmastermario3695
2 ай бұрын
Theres always a reason, every time my mom broke up with my dad and my step fathers there was always a good reason for it, because of drugs and they were abusive to all of us.
@bencaballero1820
Ай бұрын
This video hurt Beacuse he is telling the truth . Still has helped me get through this feeling. Thank you Joey ❤
@yup8236
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for the video. My girlfriend just broke up with me about a week ago, and it's been rough. I feel like it makes it even harder to move on because it didn't feel like it was over anything super serious like someone cheating. I don't think she's having an easy time either but it doesn't seem like she's having it as rough as me which sucks... there'll be days when I feel alright but then some days I just crack and end up texting her. I'm gonna try to stop doing then and just start working on myself. Hopefully I can look back on this comment in the future and see all of the progress I made. To anyone else out there going through the same thing, we got this.
@ExplosiveTrees
7 ай бұрын
My gf broke up with me two days ago we were dating for 3 years. I love her so much but she wants to be friends. We are going out with some friends to watch a movie soon. I lost her trust because I didn’t talk to her about my personal problems. She felt left out and it was my fault. She wanted to be my own therapist because she loved me so much. I have to regain her trust, and I hope I can do it
@Astro-u7q
3 ай бұрын
What hurts is I broke up with her and one of her friends told me she said "It seems like he was happy to leave" That hurt bro...
@clumzyn7892
25 күн бұрын
we deserve to feel love again part really got me, thank you.
@DylanVanLangendonck
Ай бұрын
the last part really gave me a relaxed and calm feeling in my mind! it's ok to feel :)
@sagovana
29 күн бұрын
One of the hardest things in life is saying goodbye to someone you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with
@handylarochelle5967
17 күн бұрын
It’s been a month since we broke up and it was my fault towards the end and I can’t help the constant regret and it’s like I find random pictures of her on my phone and all the feelings just come back and she was great. I hate this pit in my stomach I hate that it was because of me it ended. I don’t want anyone else, just her but I know she’s happier and she’s not thinking of me. Wow this sucks I don’t like this
@MMKnight_1
Ай бұрын
When I got heartbroken, I could barely eat, sleep or think about anything that wasn't her. I still have some trouble eating, now almost 1 year later, cuz I had to slow down my eating massively to not throw up when I was at my lowest. Don't want her again, but I still feel slightly sad it did not work out. It does get better, but never 100% it seems like
@liltone9614
Ай бұрын
It’s crazy how singular person can do that to you. That’s love for you.
@ryanhew6752
4 ай бұрын
Recently I broke up with the love of my life of almost 2 years.The nightmare of losing her due to my own flaws and insecurities actually became true.I have lost all my energy and will to carry on my life.The thought of living on my life without the presence of her hurts me so damn much.This hollow feeling in my heart is going to tear in me into shreds soon.The fact that we could go from lovers to strangers in the span of a month absolutely destroys me.I would do anything in my power to go back to the way it was.Upon coming across this video has thought me a few lessons for the future me and found it really helpful.Word of note boys, cherish what you have and sometimes you dont always need more.
@johannxs03
2 ай бұрын
Hey man, how are you doing nowadays? I'm sort of in a similar situation, where I broke up or at least caused us to break up because I couldn't deal with our long distance relationship and my own negative thoughts anymore, whereas he hadn't really done anything wrong. It hurt and still hurts so much. I feel like we truly fit well together and it was my first relationship, but I still think it was the right decision because I couldn't really deal with my emotions and it was hurting him too. Sometimes the kindest thing and truest form of love is to let go, and to try to learn from your mistakes and insecurities so you can be a better partner in the future. For what its worth, thats my two cents. Thought I'd add this, maybe it can help you. All the best :)
@tdogfman14
Ай бұрын
I just broke up with my gf. She was so sweet and pretty and I loved her so much. She accused me of cheating but I wasn’t. We dated for almost 9 months and one random day she said she wanted to break up. She told me for the last 3 days she liked my best friend. They both asked if they could date and if I was ok with that I said I didn’t care. Me and my other friend were on ft and he saw a video of her doing weird stuff on a snap video. At that moment, I realized that I’m better off without her. I’m doing well in school and sports. My friends are closer than ever now and I’m so happy. If you feel the same way, just know your not alone. Do your best in everything. You got this. I’m sorry I just had to get all of this out somewhere
@kennwin7
6 ай бұрын
Thank you. I really needed to hear some of this. My girlfriend of 2.5 years recently broke up with me and immediately after slept with the guy I was told not to worry about. I felt cheated and deceived because I felt her slipping away prior to that and yet she told me everything was okay. After I found out, the breakup went from the most amicable one I’ve had to the hardest one. I confronted her, fights ensued, and she told me she meant to break up a long time ago. That hurt me so much. I’ve never seen a girl get along with my siblings so well, my friends, or even do all of the activities I’ve values in my life as my partner. She saw me grow up throughout college, through the thick and the thin. I struggled to understand self worth after this. It made me question why I put 110% into loving her and giving her my all, only to not be enough. The gym/anger portion of the video is spot on. Thank you.
@skyflyer5157
6 ай бұрын
I hope the future brings you lots of peace and happiness brother everything will be okay 🙏.
@camo733
2 ай бұрын
3 kids together, a home, assests all ripped from me in a flash. She turned on me like I was nothing and took everything. The pain is unbearable, I didn’t think this would happen and I have no energy. I am only still here because of my kids.
@rockybiscuit1003
5 ай бұрын
man that hurts, after the breakup i just went through and hearing you say when last did you get a hug, when there is no one I could go to for one. Just wish this suffering would end
@Xiviuz
4 ай бұрын
No matter how much I "feel" it doesn't feel less, or easier. It's constantly painful having to mourn and grief someone that lives. Never ever felt a heartache so painful as this. "No I love you more" and so much talk about plans for the summer, then 4 days later breaks up. Almost 4 years just gone.
@abracadaddy3915
2 ай бұрын
Almost 2 months, following a 5 year relationship that ended out of nowhere. I feel like I’m dying every single day. Been dating for a few weeks now, but nothing compares.
@JudiciousJaguar
2 ай бұрын
Feel the same.. 4 years of relationship ended like it was nothing And dating now is so bad because you will looking for someone like her, and eventually notice that anybody cant compare anymore.. a huge hug for you
@germanalfredoporrasgutierr5613
5 ай бұрын
I just ended a 3 year relationship, the hardest part for me is doing the stuff I love
@RadYudoka
4 ай бұрын
my fiance and i just ended our 3 year relationship and although it ended in a good way and out of love and no hate, my heart still hurts so dam bad and i cant seem to stop crying. to my queen, i will forever love you and have a special place in my heart for you.
@rockywalter119
4 ай бұрын
Thank you Joey ❤ the Hug part got be badly 😥 EDIT: Got to the same video again, after 3 months of this comment. Because I've just broke up again with the same girl. I need strength to stop. Just getting hurt so badly
@luca_bodybuilder
Ай бұрын
6:39 "you need it." damn that hit like a ton of bricks
@emmanuelmontalvo1676
Ай бұрын
The hug part just destroyed me completely.
@StayHard-ij3gf
3 ай бұрын
my girlfriend broke up with me a week ago. she was my first love, and i dont think ill ever love anyone ever again, not even myself. we planned everything together, but in just a week, everything changed. her tone, her energy, i didnt feel loved anymore. i knew something was up. until it happened, she broke up with me. i dont think ill be able to move on from her.
@Osvie01-uc8go
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Broke up with my dream girl because she wanted to move on, happened just over a month ago. I stepped to the side because I want her to be happy but it tore me up. I've been thinking if only I tried to make her see that no one will love her like I do, but she obviously didn't feel the same for me. Now, I'm left with the burden of having to go through a heart break that I wouldn't wish on anyone. From the comments I'm glad I'm not the only one who has gone through this. We have to accept that part of life is experiencing pain, just wish it wasn't too painful.
@Emarso
3 ай бұрын
I honestly cant even look at other women without thinking about her, we both still love each other but even though it hurts we thought it would be best to split up as it was long distance. It was honestly being with her was the best year of my life even though there were ups and downs. She was the best girl.
@eduardogm3r753
4 ай бұрын
Bro thank u, i needed this, she was perfect and exactly like me... But she broke up, not because of me, because of her ex, that she had traum and couldn't see me with that loving eyes that we saw on the past... She decided to take a break and think about it, i hope it turn back to where it was🥲 Appreciate u bro, and boys, hope yall are having a good time, no matter what, im with yall:) virtual hugs to you
@hazza1063
7 ай бұрын
I found this through TikTok and was on the receiving end of a breakup of a 9 month relationship last week and it just still stings cause it was over text
@mrmangbro6842
3 ай бұрын
Its been 2.5 months after a 6 month relationship. I didn't even see her all thar much it wasn't an explosive thing where i saw her all day everyday. It was once a week but she understood me more than anyone. I have never clicked so well with someone before in 24 years. She wasn't my longest, or treated me the best, nor was she my first or last but i loved her more than anything. She was the first time i felt like id hurt anyone that hurt her. In the end she went back to her abusive ex gf. Its been over a month sonce we spoke and im just now able to kind of date other people. Ive been back in therapy, got diagnosed professionally with bipolar depression. It hurts that everyday i get the urge to reach out.
@hendriksilm2637
3 ай бұрын
yeah not my first breakup here, but i feel it will hit the most. just broke up from an almost 5 year relationship, thank god i did not get to propose her yet (it was on my mind to do it in the end of august at her birthday). she left me because we got together right before covid and we had an age gap (me 22 then she just got 18). today she said that she has been thinking 'what if' thoughts for months now and had delayed this conversation all the time. it seemed to me we were finally getting back closer and more in love than ever... i have not cried yet or even felt like broken af, i was angry more and dissappointed. but as i have been here before, this will hit sooner than later very painfully. she still has all her stuff at our home and i will be seeing her often until she finds her own place finally so i dont know yet how it's all gonna go. just had to dump my emotions here because damn, that hug part got me too and i want to see my 2 best boys now and go have a beer and a hug with them. we are all here for same reason so lets not give up and just go through it!
@jackskelton6501
3 ай бұрын
Thanks joey, I’ve just been dumped after 2 years. She said she ran out of love and I just started balling my eyes out, I’m 3 days in or something and I’m still in the emotional stage, I was driving home after she dumped me and I had some suicidal thoughts, I’m so glad I wasn’t stupid enough to do it, I’m hoping I can move on to the bettering myself stage tomorrow. I’m trying to keep my self occupied so I’ve booked a climbing wall to have a bit of fun on then gym afterwards. I’m going home to see my family on Tuesday night so I don’t need to live with my ex. Once again thank you for the video, this has given me some real hope 🎉
@nikolas116
Ай бұрын
Dude, i cant take it anymore I've never been happy, i been dealing with severe depression for years, then april 27th hits and i meet the one, she was exactly who i dreamt of, weirdly, because i say that in a literal sense, like literally, physically and behaviorally she was the idealization of the perfect girl, and from that day onward i was happy. She never been treated well, and i wanted to be the guy that showed her what being legitimately loved felt like, tho i never felt that myself, and each day that passes i realize that is what i need most, but never got. Long story short, slightly more than a month later, may 29th, she was the closest she ever was to me, hugging kissing, caring, everything, and i was over the moon, then one day later she broke up with me, because she "didnt want a relationship", but made sure to say that i gave her everything she ever wanted, was the guy she always fought the previous toxic boyfriends for them to be, then she "felt so bad" for letting me go, that i had to emotionally support her for a whole week after, since she called me crying saying she didnt want to hurt me, and at that point, it hadnt sunk yet, so i wasnt that bad. But then, at the end of that week, June 8th i tried going out hooked up with somebody and felt nothing, felt like shit actually, like kissing the wall. Nearly two months and a half in now, and i never been worse, cant stop thinking about her and how after all this time i still dream of her coming back to me most nights, but 6 days after the breakup she went to a party and said she felt too good single, enjoying her life, while i never been so miserable. Been trying on dating apps, but no luck, people dont want me, dont want a relationship, dont want a caring guy, so i honestly just havent offed myself yet, because i aint got the strength to do it, but i know it is the best for me Anyway holy shit if you read this fucking novel i just wrote, you deserve a medal lol
@Law10205
Ай бұрын
Theres two cases for me in recent times. The first hit harder as it lasted 8 months with absolutely no arguments or anything toxic, she ghosted me out of nowhere and it ruined me for a bit, i had anxiety basically everyday afterwards, everything felt dull, etc. I eventually got over it and moved on to the second person, and we got together after i saved his life, while it wasnt as happy as the first one, it still brought me happiness, we argued a lot and had some differing views and eventually he ghosted me, which made me more mad than it did sad, as i saved his life twice and he ended up leaving me in the worst way, no communication, didnt face me about it, just left, and i know it may sound like i view it as i deserve gratitude and he shouldnt have left but it wasnt toxic, we just argued, and he did communicate but like i said, he just ghosted me without saying anything, which made me mad cause it felt like the whole relationship was one sided, which i dont truly believe it was but thats just what it felt like, ive gotten over them both for the most part but i still look back in anger sometimes or sadness, though overall i think ive healed and learned from the mistakes i made, though only from the second one, cause i dont know what i did wrong with her (the first) Anyways thanks for reading this mid rant/vent of mine
@StadiumChasers
24 күн бұрын
I’ve lost my one and only and just never thought this would be the outcome. I need a therapist asap
@idk0139
2 ай бұрын
The kind of breakup that no one talks about. When you both love each other, care for each other but the circumstances force you to part from each other. How do I forget someone I love so dearly that I want them to share all of their happy moments, more so their worst ones with me. How do I forget how I loved the dimples that formed when he smiled, how his brows curved when he frowned, how he loved teasing me and the cute "baby I'm sorry". How do I forget the I love yous between the deep and intense kisses, the way you looked at me while we made out in the middle of the room where your friends were asleep, how you called me yours in front of the world, how you made me feel loved for once after being alone away from home. How you made the scared and lonely little girl feel all the joys of the world . How you made me feel like you are THE ONE. How you became my home away from home..
@OshanMaverick
2 ай бұрын
I feel hungry very much but I can't eat when I sit at the table , I feel so sleepy at night but I can't sleep. I really have no words to express my feelings I even don't know how I feel now. I'm literally lost.
@mulattopapi9741
2 ай бұрын
As of 4 days ago me and my partner of 5 yrs split , one of the most hurtful parts is coming home to an empty home that once had love and life in it and just the fact that somebody your used to always having your back now gone is scary. Getting your life back after you’ve made somebody your everything 😔
@dannyliles8025
2 ай бұрын
The love of my life moved out while I was work and left me note saying she fell out of love with me. We did everything together. I dont know how I will ever move on
@pointsynth
4 ай бұрын
It happened. It happened last night. I had feared it the whole time, and turns out, I was right. Not only was I right, but I probably also manifested it. We had the most romantic encounter ever, at the young age of 16, me and my friend went outside of our city to a small town to do some urban exploration. We sat on some hills as we we waited for the sun to set, and there she was. On another hill, with her friends, also looking at the sunset. They called us over, and before I knew it, I was head over heels for her. She brightened up my days, made everything so magical. However, soon, my traumas creeped up, and I didn’t manage to outrun them fast enough to save the relationship. We lasted a total of 1 year and 3 weeks. It was the most beautiful time of my life, and I don’t know how long this’ll take to get over, because in many ways I still think she’s the one. Our families had met, we had went to the beach together, we were practically one step from getting married.. Now it’s all gone…
@xXnazmanXx
4 ай бұрын
shoutout to all the guys that got the "right girl at the wrong time". I've been with a girl long distance for a year and she was amazing. But it started to have its pitfalls of how the relationship will continue. I can honestly say that it wouldnt have progressed well and right now the best thing we can do for eachother is move on. Its tough, but lets see how thing will workout
@Zephyriel
3 ай бұрын
I have a severe case of emotional dependency, and Just end the relationship with a girl a loved, thanks man for this video
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