As an 'elderly' listener, I find your conversation very interesting. I enjoy the way the three of you share and build each other up. There will always be naysayers and rude trolls but do they really matter. Weed them out and listen to the positive feedback. I miss the days when cotton, wool and linen were the fabrics of the norm and there was no question when you bought an item, what its content was going to be. But then again, garments were hard to come by, hard to maintain, since drycleaning was a luxury, and things were usually washed in wringer washer and went through the rubber rollers to squeeze out the water, to then be hung on a line. For the housewives and busy women holding down a job as well back in the day, polyester was a complete dream. It washed and dried easy with no ironing, was very sturdy and wore longer than natural fibres, Plus the colours were so bright and fun. I am guessing all of you are way too young to remember crimplene outfits or phentex yarn. Even today many families are dressed better than ever before due to synthetics. Where the balance comes in is not thinking of synthetics as just throw away clothes. We need to appreciate our garments and care for each piece as if they are high quality. I appreciate the time and workmanship someone put in, some where on the other side of the world usually, to create something for me to wear. I don't just see it a garment that I can wear but I appreciate the fact that there are people out there who went to work and made it for me to buy. Thank you for sharing and talking about the issues that mean so much to you! I will be back again for your next one! 😊
@JBUHJBUH
Ай бұрын
This is why I thrift more these days - can't stand the abundance of synthetic fabrics in *everything* these days (even designer clothes)! That said, they've come a long way since the 'vintage' synthetics (do you remember those 'popcorn' tshirts from the 80s and 90s lol, with that terrible texture much like the crimpelene you mentioned?) I've been pleasantly surprised by some viscose/ rayon these days but still stay away from acrylic - don't know if the technology for it has improved, but I'm too scarred by the 'crunchy' feeling of old acrylic fabrics to dare try again, haha 🙈 EDIT: That said, I *do* still buy synthetics (like mentioned above). They're definitely superior for some things (could you imagine camping in a cold and rainy climate in a silk coat &/ or cotton tent like they used to, lol??) but according to my *personal* limits (i.e. I can't do polyester on my top half, but others may have no issues around that).
@luluandmeow
Ай бұрын
I look up to my Italian grandma, in the 70s when I grew up, she had a small closet (we'd probably call it a capsule wardrobe now) of quality, timeless pieces that she cared for well so they lasted a long time. Mainly neutral colours and great scarves and other accessories, structured bags, elegant shoes, etc. Buying new items was rare, almost a once-a-year event, if that. my grandma always looked so polished and chic, I look back now at he "vintage" style and wish I'd kept some of her blouses, jackets, etc. Unfortunately I don't have a single item that belonged to her. My nonna Cinzia got dressed every day, there was no leisurewear then, and all clothes were fitted, no slouchy elastic waists that encourage overeating!
@33Jenesis
Ай бұрын
My problem is obsession. I’d get into something and start buying multiples. I became very conscious of this mindset over the decades. I really try my hardest to not keep on buying. Also I am a lot more careful with matching my lifestyle and what I buy. I no longer buy something that doesn’t fit lifestyle no matter how much I like it or how deep the discount. I am retired and not socially active. Even such life I don’t need new teeshirts and jeans every years. I have enough different tees and jeans to last for a long time as long as my weight doesn’t change drastically. I don’t need 20 pairs of casual slides and sandals because I don’t go out much. I don’t need occasional jewelry either. I have so much jewelry items that I wouldn’t run out of accessories. I stopped buying scarves during menopause because of overheating. In conclusion, I do think that being mindful when shopping and be asking self “why do I turn to shopping?” are critical in being sustainable.
@JBUHJBUH
Ай бұрын
I think the 'multiples' issue can come from a scarcity mindset - like 'OMG what if I can't find anything that fits/ suits me as well as this when I need it?' But the truth is, we have *so* much clothing these days that you are likely to find *something* when the time comes. And let's be honest - you aren't likely to wear the same top in 8 different colours *unless* you really love ALL those colours *or* you're someone who doesn't crave a variety in silhouettes at ALL.
@waterkress4770
Ай бұрын
Such a great conversation! I’m currently reading The Anxious Generation: How the great rewriting of childhood is causing an epidemic of mental illness by Jonathan Haidt. It speaks volumes about how the internet and social media have affected our ability as a society to think with nuance and relate to one another. (Backed by tons of data, not just his opinions) Highly recommend!
@user-gx7ns6sy9v
Ай бұрын
I’m a teacher and my boss got us all a copy of the book. I hope it means longer recess for the littles and a district wide cell phone ban is coming 🤞. You should check out stolen focus. It’s a similar genre of book.
@miwedf15
Ай бұрын
This episode made me think about how much less clothes I bought since I found my own personal style and started to build a more curated closet. The more I know what I like, what I actually have in my closet, what I think fits my body and lifestyle and so on, the less I buy. It makes me reflect about purchases more and slows down the process from want to buy. But also helps me to see more of why I don’t like or need the pieces. Being confident in my own style and loving what I have, has made the urge to bring other stuff in to my closet smaller.
@kgsherwood7950
Ай бұрын
I think the ability you three have to productively probe and discern nuance and then articulate and interrogate those spaces from multiple perspectives is a characteristic of journalistic professionalism outside the norm of much social media. Thank you for this conversation-today it felt very relevant to a whole host of current contexts.
@luluandmeow
Ай бұрын
It's true that I bought a lot since following fashion/style influences, but I needed to update my wardrobe after years of virtually no-buy and these influences really helped me, e.g. Erica Ball Style, Nada Manley as well as yourselves. But now I have enough stuff so I watch but shop my wardrobe before I shop online or in store. Case in point: I bought several new pairs of jeans as I'm always on the look-out for the perfect pair, which I thought were straight jeans, but actually the slim straight jeans look better on me. But the other day I was wearing some very old boyfriend jeans (low rise!) and although technically they would not be the most flattering jeans on me, they looked amazing, simply because they had been worn so many times that they were soft and supple and moulded around my body, so they looked effortless and cool, while the new jeans look too stiff and new, and I'm even considering returning some of them that still have the label on. So I'm off to try the new jeans again and see if they're really worth keeping. I definitely no longer watch influencers whose style is different from mine and who keep buying multiple pieces or being sponsored or featuring hauls.
@lorrainekemp2909
Ай бұрын
Another C word - confidence. Which is what you individually seem to have with your choices. We are all struggling with handling the changes in our individual lives on a day-to-day basis. There is no precise formula. Identifying and implementing positive guidelines for ourselves is essential but, those guidelines need to be open to tweaking as individual need arises. This is the real world we are trying to navigate. We will have wins and losses. Good luck with the dopamine reset Christina. and thank you for being so honest about how tough it is for you. Great conversation ladies. 🌹🌹🌹
@marisacooper5364
Ай бұрын
The stainable side of fashion can definitely be supported through pre-loved shopping isn’t only about supporting brands who have sustainable practices-doing both, makes a huge contribution. I believe and trust your knowledge and insights😢about consuming in sustainable ways; there are so many nuances around this, so glad for this conversation . Fortunately, sustainable business practice studies are being offered in Universities-it’s my son’s major- he’s working for the city now. The field is growing. Sustainability and a designated qualified coordinator should be an integral part of every business practice today. ❤❤❤
@kristinagrom2270
Ай бұрын
I liked this topic, because, I am on No Buy July with Christina, and I went to a new country on a work trip and yes, I made some alterations to my no buy list, making it basically a Low Buy July, because I allowed myself one or two souvenirs from my trip. And I absolutely do not regret it. I just think that flexibility in our relationship with ourselves is a very good move and finding compromise between our desires and restrictions is also a great thing to do❤ So appreciating and loving ourselves should definitely be a part of our sustainable journey 🙌🏻.
@marvawiebe4364
Ай бұрын
You gals have so much common sense and are so good about showing us how to make more aware and sustainable choices without beating anyone up or shaming anyone. I appreciate your realistic and kind perspective!
@rebecca-72
25 күн бұрын
Great conversation, thank you. Loved the alliteration at the end! I do agree that something in us craves novelty. However social media, by broadening and constantly creating new „keeping up with the Jones“ content, is bombarding all of us with far too many things. We cannot financially or space-wise, keep up with all that new stuff! This is why I appreciate your „shop your closet“ approach, or why having a creative hobby - be that writing, making art, knitting, sewing, bread making…. Helps. It allows us to find novelty in a way that hopefully doesn’t break the bank.
@Martina-qu9vc
Ай бұрын
It's nice that you mentioned that we generally are drawn to "newness" in our lifes... I am following you since a while, also each of you on KZitem (I have never consumed Instagram, Tiktok or any other sozial media until now, and I am very happy about that!) and I think I have really become a concious consumer, but it makes so much fun to add some new things here and then! However, before purchasing a new item, I always wait more than a litte walk around or a coffe' next to the shop. For me at least one or two weeks are important to think about it and so many items disappear from my wishlist after reflecting if I really should by it. Also if it might be a real great peace, what makes me often not buying it, makes the occasions to wear my items: Having just really enough, each new peace makes it harder to wear all the loves peaces I already own!
@AnneHewitt
Ай бұрын
I have been putting on your podcasts after my runs as I do some stretching and corework. (I am woefully out of shape and they keep my going) I haven't watch all of your podcasts but I think today's might be the best I've heard so far. I am a teacher and I talk to my students about the importance of critical thinking. I tell them that most of life happens in the gray area. I am really curious about two issues regarding fast vs slow fashion: How do you determine and then make peace with decluttering items that either are feeling shabby or you are a little tired of despite that fact that they serve a function in your wardrobe? Also, how do you strike a balance between advertising/endorsing products while discouraging your audiences from overconsumption? Do you have a litmus test for either of these issues?
@JBUHJBUH
Ай бұрын
Haha I also teach critical thinking & like how the inspiration can come from (pretty much) anywhere! If my clothes are getting shabby I *start* looking for a new item to replace it for once it *does* bite the dust. But if I find the replacement *before* that happens, either I store it until the time comes OR I start wearing the shabbier item around the house/ for casually bumming around UNTIL it's on its last legs. I find this better than tossing something out prematurely and then unnecessarily rushing to replace it because now there's a wardrobe hole lol 😑 Hope that helps!
@user-z5e5h
Ай бұрын
I would also love to know the answers for the last question about product sponsorships and paid ads. I recently discovered a no buy channel by Alexa - she’s a professional musician, and unfortunately she fell into the trap of overconsumption by watching Alyssa, Christina and Use Less channels. She made a video on everything she was influenced to buy, and it was very eye-opening. Since discovering her channel, I unsubscribed from all the three channels, and I noticed that I don’t spend nearly as much time browsing online stores out of curiosity. I’m only subscribed to this podcast, as I find it interesting and there’s no product sponsorships in this podcast yet. It’s very ironic how slow fashion and minimalist channels still make us overconsume, although they’re supposed to do the opposite.
@jl82714
Ай бұрын
I love the connection Christina made between short form content and shopping. I have felt like since 2020 my own attention span has taken such a hit with watching short form social media content. I went on an unintentional IG/shopping break for July and I have to say, I do feel clearer and far less of an urge to spend.
@wrendor9465
Ай бұрын
This podcast is beyond fashion therapy ❤
@autumnellingham5712
Ай бұрын
I love how you all talked about the influencer bit, It can twist round the other way too, I think that sometimes people feel that they don't measure up to the standards influencers set, I much prefer influencers/ content creators that are real that talk about there challenges as well It makes it more authentic and reminds us that we are all human and that we shouldn't be so hard on ourselves or if we fall off our own standards that we can start again and reset. I also think it's fab that there are communities now where it feels like a safe space to talk and explore our interests and passions (like sustainable fashion) and where we can all learn from each other in real world situations. also keep sharing the No buy's it's inspiring and great to here how Christina is getting on with her No Buy July. Thanks All 🙂
@jenniferkaminski5605
Ай бұрын
Great conversation! I 100% prefer long form content! As for consumption of anything I have started asking myself do I NEED this or just want it. I’m coming to realize I don’t NEED anywhere near as much as I want. 😅 Also can we please go back to realizing that everyone thinks differently and that’s okay!! The emotional response to everything is so shocking to me!
@ninastemson4131
Ай бұрын
I've recently discovered and am enjoying your podcasts. I totally agree that black and white thinking around our wardrobes doesn't work in reality, and it's helpful to think differently about how we shop and what we buy. I do have a constant battle in my head with polyester though, knowing that even if I get loads of use out of my polyester pieces, it will still be around in hundreds of years time clogging up the planet.
@marciagarcia8486
Ай бұрын
Girls I’ve been following the three of you for so long now 😊 it changed lots in so many ways. I feel like giving my opinion: there are people who come online to generate debates 😅 being behind a screen allow them to be rude or say anything that goes on mind. Just let them be and move on! For me polyester has it use on some pieces but in general is plastic. And talking about energy, it lows ours when directly on skin. (My opinion based on articles I’ve read). So, let them wear polyester, I will continue looking for vintage linen and cotton ❤ thank you!
@debrawells-hopey1980
Ай бұрын
Long form > short form! Most (not indulging in black/white thinking here) information and ideas require more than 30 seconds to covey. Also, I feel that I'm being yelled at too! 😂
@rachelbrewin5618
Ай бұрын
I think a lot of people who are sanctimonious about synthetic fibres maybe don’t realise that natural fibres require a vast amount of water to produce, like one cotton t-shirt needs over 2000 litres of water to produce. This in itself isn’t environmentally friendly or sustainable either if we over consume at the rates pushed at us by fast fashion. Some folk are holier than thou but nobody is perfect, we are just trying to muddle our way through.
@user-vy2vc6ih6q
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this nuanced conversation! I love the three C’s (amazing alliteration Alyssa!). And I so appreciate that the three of you put yourself out there and have this discussion despite the black and white and less than kind responses you sometimes get, thank you!
@codeN_8
Ай бұрын
These babes all in one space!🎉
@mariawelling4194
Ай бұрын
Hi ladies! I recently had my niece visit for the summer ☀️ I can not believe the very poor clothing design for teenagers..Horrible! Can you ladies try and address this topic. I believe our young people need to learn about fast fashion, it's should start at an earier age.
@evalindell2757
Ай бұрын
I love to listen to your conversations! I think you show us all how hard it is today to navigate around social media and how vounroble you are as creators! I hope that those few nasty people don’t drown all the positiv good vibes I get when I read som of the comments! We can only do our best with what we know and no one is saving the planet by stopping shopping! Our globe need so much more… Keep on working with your Messages! Life is complicated and you show dirrent paths we can take! Good work 👍
@brontec9769
Ай бұрын
I LOVE long content and I don't even use tik tok...but perhaps this is a reflection of my demographic. :) ANDlove this podcast (I am doing my ironing and maintaining my wardrobe here ladies and I definitely could not do that watching shorts)
@rebeccabelflower7767
Ай бұрын
I Google this to add to the conversation. Thinking critically is the ability to analyze a concept objectively, considering the facts and differing perspectives to reach a sound, logical conclusion. The reason critical thinking is a skill-and not just an automatic thought process-is because most people naturally think “uncritically,” making decisions based on personal biases, self-interest, or irrational emotions. Everyone is vulnerable to this type of simplistic thinking. It’s human nature. However, there are ways to improve your thought process to be more intentional about thinking critically. The article continues on with examples of how to go from simple thinking ( black and white thinking) to critical thinking . It can be developed if a person wants to possess it. It was posted by Zip Recruiter, as it helps with job performance.
@bellebb8673
Ай бұрын
Such a practical conversation. I was especially interested in your comments on polyester. I have been considering saving up for a plissee blouse from Lafayette 148. I have been hesitant because they are always polyester.But after thinking about it, I dont believe plisee folds can be made from natural fabrics. That brand uses high end fabrics, I feel like there is probably a reason that fabric was chosen for that type garment? Thanks for your thought-provoking ideas.
@melaniemcneil407
Ай бұрын
Thanks for this thoughtful episode. Lacking context is part of the problem, and that implies that there are particular circumstances that might, for instance, make one fiber choice better than another. You gave the example of the dress made from synthetic fiber because of its design, not in spite of it. But another problem is simply lack of information in a broader way. ALL of the fibers, synthetic and natural, have environmental issues. Would you like everyone to wear all wool all the time, for instance? How much land would need to be reserved for all the sheep that would be required to do that? What would the industrial needs do to the world? Would you like everyone to wear cotton or linen all the time? Hm, some issues there, too. Cotton production is terribly poluting, and the fact that US cotton is almost all shipped overseas for processing, and then shipped back either as yardage or completed garments, is an issue most people don't consider. How about silk? Same idea. We WILL continue to wear clothes, apparently, and so will continue to buy either the clothes or the supplies to make them. So none of that will go away. But maybe we can be more thoughtful in the choices we make. You continue to explore this idea and contribute to that conversation. Thanks again.
@cristinaph
Ай бұрын
BRAVA, Alyssa, loved your recap of this (yet another) awesome conversation! ❤ Well done, ladies! 💐💐💐
@brontec9769
Ай бұрын
P.S just had a little laugh about loving alliterations...I am so with you!
@angelahamilton1979
27 күн бұрын
I can appreciate the conversation about nuance and critical thinking being the opposite of black and white thinking. For me, the nuance you're talking about resonates as complexity thinking, and I don't think critical thinking, which is a purely cognitive exercise, can lead to more complex thinking. Some theories of adult development would frame the ability to think more complexly as something that would develop as people mature. It's rooted in the idea that life experience brings greater experience, knowledge, and ideally wisdom. Some theories would frame it as something that could develop through reflection on transformative learning experiences that arise from cognitive dissonance, which occurs when there's incongruence between thoughts and actions, maybe behaviors and values, or some new way of thinking that doesn't fit into the mental models that we've constructed. Transformation is different from and more complex than behavior change, and it requires much more reflection (inward oriented). So much of what we get on social media, scrolling, short formats don't leave us with any time to actually reflect and often puts us into a state of comparing ourselves to others (being outward-oriented) instead of developing our own internal measuring stick.
@katem3961
Ай бұрын
Really interesting conversation. Excellent. Thank you ❤
@christianegrimard6555
Ай бұрын
Love this episode, there is so much to say…but in French …Alissa or google do the translation 😂 cette fds j’allais reporter un article en magasin que j avais commander en ligne. Car c est une des stratégies que j utilise maintenant et ça vient de vous si ce n est pas a ‘hell yes’ je ne garde pas l’article. Sauf qu en allant reporté je tome sur les soldes de fin d été et comme ce n est pas facile pour moi de trouver des vêtements qui me vont …non seulement c’était une bonne journée pour des articles qui respectent mon style (and my 3 Words), ces vêtements tous sur ma liste à remplacer étaient en solde. Je ne magasine pas dans les boutiques de seconde main pcq il n y en pas dans mon coin qui valent le déplacement, alors votre vision plus nuancée me convient car à un certain âge/poids il faut trouver les vêtements confortables dans le bon matériel avec le bon style et la bonne grandeur…a un moment donné ça devient pas mal complexe donc quand je trouve des pièces que je sais que je vais porter je les achètent et les apportent à la maison et je les essaie avec ce que j ai déjà si ça fait… je garde si non je retourne …et quand je tombe sur un vêtement confortable qui me va et tombe bien même si il est viscose je le porte …ce n est pas de la rocket science…question de jugement et de complexité de trouver de bons vêtements pour soi , car comme le dis Christina j’aime la mode même si je veux moins consommer. Merci pour cette épisode qui est ressenti comme un vent frais n’en déplaise aux perfectionnistes et au bien pensants….❤
@muaythaigirl1612
Ай бұрын
I love that yellow dot / white dot analogy! We need to keep that in mind for all of our interactions, not just those online. Our interactions with a lot of people are within a defined point in time, where we don't know what happened before we came into the picture. Maybe having more compassion for both ourselves and others is what we need (also brought to you by the letter C) 😊
@sandiscalmanini8096
Ай бұрын
❤ my favorite trio! My no buy 2024 is going very well thanks to all of you. I am learning so much about my self and my closet and spending habits. I have learned a new level of understanding about my retail therapy, consumerism and need for dopamine. I got kicked off of tictok- funny story and deleted my IG account. I use Spotify and KZitem for the longer shows because I crave the longer content and shows. i still get reels on You Tube but I am very choosy on whose I watch. The short videos are maddening and so addictive. Thanks Sustain This!
@luluandmeow
Ай бұрын
I've stopped buying synthetic jumpers/sweaters, however soft, as they don't wash well. Only merino. No cashmere either, too expensive and needs to be hand-washed. Merino looks great after lots of machine-washing and is inexpensive, also easy to layer because not thick. Can be worn in the warmer months too. Vests, t-shirts and other tops - I don't buy the cheap ones anymore, only good quality cotton because it lasts longer, I spend a little bit more for better quality and buy less. I buy less whites because they stain so easily and end up becoming grey. I wash all my bras and delicates by hand now so they last longer
@evahalkova2859
Ай бұрын
Hi ladies, loved this week's episode. I would just like to address the polyester topic. I don't buy it simply because I sweat a lot in it and smell.
@marystewart1292
Ай бұрын
Christina that was so great, “tee hee…”
@cate20000
Ай бұрын
Got to laugh....the ad break showed Temu....🤣🤣🤣
@kathyffarney-keck8593
Ай бұрын
The key to critical thinking is to know your authentic core values and why they are yours. Make them a habit. Then, it takes very little effort to assess what's in front of you. Then keep your eyes on yourself rather than what someone else is doing P.s. I'll never do a no beagle post. Total heart candy!
@miraearles3372
Ай бұрын
For me personally, until something changes in the production of clothing at large I don't want to buy anything new besides maybe underwear. I just don't want to support the practices of forced labor and unsustainable agricultural.
@Maggie_327
Ай бұрын
I’m having a hard time believing that a garment can’t be made to drape and move using natural fibers. It sounds like an excuse. The designer just couldn’t be bothered to figure it out.
@dinjolins
Ай бұрын
I think the Mirror Palais dress is a bad example, as their dresses and draping are pretty standard and many other big name designers managed it with natural materials. It’s the same way all lace is now polyester, almost exclusively- yet cotton lace is both manageable, more sustainable and better for draping.
@BettySnith
Ай бұрын
Keep going lovely women. Your voices matter
@miaflowerpower4725
Ай бұрын
Yeahhh…❤
@Chloe7324v7h
Ай бұрын
An artist self critique included overuse of props. This was something I realized I had done with clothes and other areas. How would you describe your clothes if you compared it with art, gardens or even your work structure?
@yap4808
Ай бұрын
So the girl is sure shes going to buy a cotton rain coat, just to not use polyester 😂😂😂 for me, i dont buy my base clothing out of polyester, maybe 1% elastane in jeans and a bit in a few tops that are more body hugging.
@saraantonelli3586
Ай бұрын
This episode brought to you by the letter “C” 😂 #sesamestreet
@leastidyworld4365
Ай бұрын
If the power hungry weren’t so money greedy then we wouldn’t have this problem.
Пікірлер: 56