You see, people always think gentle parenting means letting your kids do whatever they want. What it really means is setting boundaries with your kids clearly and with compassion, not screaming or hitting. Kids are still learning to regulate their feelings and understanding why things are the way they are. All screaming and hitting does is instill fear into your child and that just breeds an anxious, frustrated kid who doesn’t trust their guardian. It’s not easy considering the fact that you as the adult have to learn emotional regulation first, but it’s worth it.
@sophieschonfeld2943
2 ай бұрын
The problem is that there are many people out there who say they do gentle parenting and are not setting any boundaries.
@lindaa2437
2 ай бұрын
@sophieschonfeld2943 Very true. Too many parents don't take the time to teach their kids saying 'it is faster to do it myself' That doesn't do a child any favors.
@rachealconrad1763
2 ай бұрын
😂
@nemogris7748
2 ай бұрын
@@sophieschonfeld2943 well, thats like with every other thing. People are telling they are teaching good Christian lifestyle while doing the most unholy things to their kids or themselves. Or say they eat a healthy diet while eating a ton of meat and sugar. While the definitions that people have of certain things may vary, that still doesn't make the thing itself less valid just because some individuals mess up.
@Anointed77
2 ай бұрын
Amen. It works in my house and makes things easier on my mental health as a mom seeing that my daughter understands.
@user-kc4xy6mm9p
2 ай бұрын
Anyone notice the little hand petting moma 😂. How cute 🥰.
@julie.1081
2 ай бұрын
Why not buy him some kid size brooms? They even have small vacuum cleaners, mops & sweepers. Make him his own "clean up kit". Use non-toxic sprays in smaller spray bottles. Boys especially love those for some reason. Cut a roll of paper towels in half. He's the perfect height to clean off the fronts of lower cabinets & bath tubs. And his little brother is old enough to help with putting shoes & coats away. Make it a game with a ticking timer & challenge them to "beat the clock". There's even really cool step stools so kids can help with dishes safely.
@sosehgevorgian1905
2 ай бұрын
Lol I did…its like she was coaching mom along lol 😂
@TheAslauga
2 ай бұрын
Yes..this momma is sooo loved
@rosameijering5161
2 ай бұрын
@@julie.1081yeah like this
@IsaDCTV
Ай бұрын
like they are calming her down ... she is heavy
@beths4334
10 күн бұрын
Liv- you are a very DEDICATED MOTHER!! Raising strong, independent and happy children with CLEAR and CONCISE guidelines and boundaries to follow. My FAVORITE part of this video was when your younger Son was stroking your hair as a sign of love and support. ❤ KEEP BEING A WONDERFUL ROLE MODEL Liv!
@kattella
2 ай бұрын
I love the examples this mother is putting out there. She is proof that you can be direct with a child and not be angry. You can also speak softly while not sugar coating it. It also goes to show just how much it helps your entire family dynamic when you treat children as human beings, capable of more understanding than you may think they have. It’s so evident that the bonds of these family members run so deep and are 100% sincere. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences!
@anlitatahir9979
2 ай бұрын
Not just a mother but also a teacher.. the greatest mom..
@gember1382
2 ай бұрын
The difference between you and most parents at the moment is that you get involved. I see parents sitting on the couch, with their phone in their hands telling (yelling) the children to do things. You do it TOGETHER! ❤❤❤
@heykay59
Ай бұрын
That’s what I do.. I believe if I’m asking my children to help work (pickup toys, shoes clothes etc) I should lead by example and do the same
@brynne77
Ай бұрын
@@heykay59 Good idea, heykay. I wouldn't have thought of that. I"m not a parent. But I don't look at my phone anyway. If I'm going to talk to a child, I'm going to interact with him or her.
@ShutterbugVideo671
2 ай бұрын
I think this is great. Not only is he learning skills about cleaning, but he’s also learning how to work through tasks that he needs to do even when he’s upset. These are things that he will need to know how to do when he’s an adult.
@SLEMPY273
2 ай бұрын
We all need a mommy like this.
@kagu3849
2 ай бұрын
Maybe you!
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@kagu3849Not just her. Lots of people would benefit from having a mom like her. I have a great mom like her myself that teaches me and even others to be kind every day.
@JupiterNeutr0n
Ай бұрын
My mom might not be like her but she’s still a good one, im grateful i even have a mother
@user-mp7bl7ku4e
2 ай бұрын
When she was talking to her son, the other son was petting his mother,it's so cuteeee I'm dyinggg😢❤
@Anointed77
2 ай бұрын
Good job mom. More parents need to learn emotional intelligence so they can also use gentle parenting to teach emotional intelligence to this generation.
@user-sv2yc5fz9c
Ай бұрын
No thank you
@RobynBellospirito
2 ай бұрын
You're a great mom raising your children to feel confident and loved. Bless your heart! Wish every parent would learn this.
@XuanHuongTran
2 ай бұрын
You’re so cool, methodical and patient with parenting! I admire you wholeheartedly. 💜💜💜
@Sharon-gb5ku
2 ай бұрын
Mom, YOU are the BOSS!!! He RESPECTS and LOVES you!!! Good job!!! Don't worry. Be HAPPY!!!
@VanessaAnn93
2 ай бұрын
This is the way, reassuring, not invalidating, respectful, helpful. The kids will individuate knowing they are loved but also capable and secure in themselves and how to treat others. Great modelling!
@jeantodd8823
2 ай бұрын
YAY!! FINALLY a parent who doesn't ask their children if it's "Ok??" "Understand?" is the way to go!
@anathompson5413
2 ай бұрын
I liked the way she handled it
@lisabailey2515
2 ай бұрын
His sense of pride in a job well done! These lessons will serve him well for his entire life. Great job Mama!
@judytelles3518
2 ай бұрын
He will find a woman who does it all. The woman needs to always have his mum in the house.
@shaylacrossland1475
Ай бұрын
@@judytelles3518Doubtful
@mlmj1994
2 ай бұрын
Thank you - sincerely from teachers everywhere
@lindsayomary8774
2 ай бұрын
This mom rocks! I need some more Olivia in my life 😂😂❤❤❤
@fragilefleur
2 ай бұрын
It’s the threat of number three and the followup that made him reset himself. Little guy was cleaning the way I feel some days. Lol. Flop flop! Key is to make it more positive once he’s getting the groove of it. Maybe get him a small broom and dustpan to help and his own little container of spray and a microfiber cloth cut down to his hand size. In montessori they make cleaning part of their play and have tools and utensils to help make the jobs more easy and part of play. Good luck with him learning self regulation. He is learning with your 1,2,3 so clearly your time outs have made impact.
@CLord-gs7nj
2 ай бұрын
Your clarity,kindness and affection are everything!
@juanitawhite7486
2 күн бұрын
This mama has the patience of a saint! 🥰 This world and families need more moms like her. Great job mama!!
@eugeniajuico2814
2 ай бұрын
Wish there were more Mamas like her.
@NoSnowflakesHere
2 ай бұрын
Wonderful teaching children life skills. So proud of you!
@saAbbasi1
11 күн бұрын
Crying still doing it 😂😂😂 that's right way to make them work for themselves so later in life they know where to put stuff instead of leaving it on floor for you or their partners
@andrearomero2692
2 ай бұрын
This is exactly what parents need to look like 😢 ❤👏👏10-15 years ago this is what it was. In Todays days parents just hand their kids a phone/tablet and ignore their child for hours on end. Sad. You’re an amazing mother
@brynne77
Ай бұрын
I've seen and heard of this, too (of mothers giving their kids an iPhone or tablet and ignoring their kids for the rest of the day). It's tragic. I wonder if the child ends up thinking the parent doesn't like him or her?
@user-mb6pb8cu1s
6 күн бұрын
I really love the way you bring up your kids. They will be good people oneday . We need people like them into this world.
@belpri633
15 күн бұрын
Yesssss, the type of parenting the worlds needs ❤❤❤❤❤
@TheSiobhan12
2 ай бұрын
These are the kid videos people should post, not kids swearing like a sailor or offering the mum a knuckle sandwich!!! Thank you!!! 👍🏻👍🏻
@user-jz8vv4sc7k
24 күн бұрын
I love this Mom, she's tough on the boys in the just the right way. She's raising boys to be well rounded, level headed men. We need more Mom's & families like this.
@cathyc.2512
2 ай бұрын
I love your videos. You’re such a sweet mom ❤
@JR-cp9zb
2 ай бұрын
Love how the other boy supporting you from the back, patting your hair ❤
@IsaDCTV
Ай бұрын
why does she need support?
@JR-cp9zb
Ай бұрын
@IsaDCTV I would think of 2 scenarios. The first the kid feels that his mom is also in emotional distress. We never really like this kind of situation. The other case can be that the kid wants to help his mom deliver the consequences, the 3rd option which will be in the rare cases, the kid is a sociopath and manipulate his way into being his mom favorite but that is so so rare.
@trishervin3331
2 ай бұрын
It takes a LOT OF PATIENCE... Doesn't it? .... 🙋🤗
@NPC8087
2 ай бұрын
You’re raising a future husband. I wish my late mother-in-law did the same.
@missnlahi
2 ай бұрын
Same thing that I thought😂
@l.insid3s
2 ай бұрын
Thats a good mom right there
@ms.krueger2660
2 ай бұрын
I have three sons. Brings back memories!! 💜 They are grown now.
@marcizollinger6341
4 күн бұрын
Every time I watch her, I am more and more impressed with her parenting skills It’s so easy just to tell a kid go do your chores and then you disappear but if you’re there with them helping them learning new skills cheering them on, it’s gonna be an enjoyable experiencefor them
@RM-sj5lp
5 күн бұрын
Finally! The handbook for parenting. Excellent!!
@user-yb7wr3vv3i
2 ай бұрын
Please can we stop filming our kids in meltdowns and post it for the world to see? Kids deserve and have a right to privacy within their homes without a camera pointed at them while they’re crying. I would feel so uncomfortable in my house if someone was continuously filming me in a dysregulated state. Please let’s stop normalizing this.
@lindaa2437
2 ай бұрын
There was no focus on a meltdown. The focus was on guiding a child through chores and rewarding his accomplishments. This boy will grow up self-sufficient and not a helpless individual.
@bevil-
2 ай бұрын
this was actually an incredibly good video showing how children should not be punished for having meltdowns, but rather be talked through them so they can learn to regulate their own emotions. if she was simply letting him cry and filming it would be completely different, but she's showing and effective way to talk down a breakdown. shes doing incredible! a great mama.
@bridgetter9046
2 ай бұрын
Agree. This channel is better than many, but the meltdown stuff shouldn’t be allowed. As a society we weren’t ready for social media. We don’t have the laws in place to protect children. There are laws to protect child actors in Hollywood for a reason. We need laws to protect child KZitem stars just as well. Any monetized channel should be subject to the same laws that those employing child actors are held to.
@Leahla333
2 ай бұрын
Yes to this!!!! Exactly
@allthingsaremadenew236
2 ай бұрын
These videos are actually helping me, a mother of almost 4, to handle myself and my children better! I APPRECIATE that she is trying to help us do better.
@tinanielsen1309
8 күн бұрын
She is the Hero 🌸💯 Motherhood is the most important job on the planet. Always remember that Mom, even when folks act like you are invisible. I was a stay at home and home schooling Mom
@sunshinesuzi5324
Ай бұрын
You are the best mommy I have seen on the internet… true life situations and excellent training for your children. A loving and nurturing mommy !! I love that for your children ❤
@Jojo-gg6jc
2 ай бұрын
You're a wonderful mom, others should take lessons from your channel. Great job momma ❤
@monicasoledad
2 ай бұрын
A bit much for a toddler , I don’t understand why people praise her. She reminds me of a future Ruby Franke
@joyousbloom731
2 ай бұрын
Toddler?
@keke4x
2 ай бұрын
I was just about to to comment the same thing! I thought it was a bit much. Gave me Ruby vibes for sure and so do her other videos.
@AmeliaEarhart537
2 ай бұрын
No, this isn't too much for a toddler. You sound like you'd spoil your kids if you had/have them. In the old days, most parents had their children doing stuff like this (plus more) at this age, and they were used to it. She's a good mother, teaching him responsibility early.
@keke4x
2 ай бұрын
@@AmeliaEarhart537 just because it happened in the "old days" doesn't mean it's okay today. Parents don't abuse their kids anymore for a reason.
@AmeliaEarhart537
2 ай бұрын
@@keke4x Parents abuse their kids a lot now. In many ways parents then were better than now, because they taught their kids to work at a young age. (I'm not saying child labor is okay, I'm saying they taught their kids responsibility, and had their kids help out with chores and stuff. American families now usually just spoil their kids and let them hang out on electronics all day, and when they grow up, they become bad people.)
@Trigun_arcx
Ай бұрын
Nice to have the GREATEST MOM!!
@joyspellmann4312
Ай бұрын
She’s teaching decisively and not asking them. She’s also having them see a natural outcome from following direction. Good on her. Ruling with strength. 👍🏻
@angelinaeredia3292
Ай бұрын
I love this this is great!!!! You not only helped him understand that he needs to get his chores done but also helped guide him and made him feel better. 💕💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🥰. Toddler tantrums are not always easy. Great job mama!
@keelymontalvo9065
19 күн бұрын
I love how your other child is gently caressing your hair and giving you the support you need to for Hudson ❤😂😊 love iiiit . Thanks for the videos !
@timeflysss
Ай бұрын
Draw the line early, communicate with love, and parenting becomes a wonderful experience. **everyone take note of her down on his level, educated positioning - well-done!❤
@gloria4506
Ай бұрын
Great mom! Raising a great son who will some day be very grateful! ❤
@kbarnettbarnett8273
Ай бұрын
Love to see actual parenting. Good for you mom. Not allowing a tantrum to override the tasks. Good job.
@florenceprince1302
Ай бұрын
Love your style of parenting. As a mother, you'll enjoy your efforts at parenting correctly as time goes on.
@mahamo92
2 күн бұрын
I love your shorts❤god bless Ur kids I love the way you're talking with them so wise❤
@danaythvillasenor146
2 ай бұрын
I'm a psychologist currently working with elementary age kids with behavior challenges. I love your channel! Thanks for sharing and helping other parents.
@brynne77
Ай бұрын
I appreciate you, then! And I appreciate you appreciating her videos, haha! (Hope that made sense :)
@emj1768
Ай бұрын
This is just NORMAL parenting to me. Needs no label just straight parenting. Getting to the point where you count to 3 & he stops crying is what I'm intersted in most tho. Great job edtsblishing boundries while teaching & lifting up your kids!!! ❤❤❤
@spicyskyraisin7745
20 күн бұрын
Her tone is perfect! Love it.
@elmariachi2728
25 күн бұрын
Talk with kid like they a mature. GJ mother!
@eyez587
18 күн бұрын
the way he hugged you in the end made me tear up fr 😭 i wish my parents could have been this patient with me instead of expecting a positive reaction right from the jump. youre doing a beautiful job 🥲
@suespatches7881
Ай бұрын
I have had toddlers just like this cutie. His unwillingness to work is SO MUCH like a preschooler. Now my grown up toddlers are parents and are helping their own littles understand the joy of finishing a project. 😊
@zehraakten2368
18 күн бұрын
Pes etmeden,kıyamam kuzum sana demeden kararlı ve sonuna kadar ciddi bir tavırla davranıyor.
@elektra016
Ай бұрын
Good job mommy you make the difference. Patient,consistent no anger issues and the more important here love ❤
@karenvandersluis4809
2 ай бұрын
you are awesome ... That was so fun to watch and to see a happy, happy boy at the end get his hugs// That was great
@timothymcgee1065
2 ай бұрын
She is worth gold for that training of the child!!
@beckydennis6591
2 ай бұрын
What?
@CertHunter
2 ай бұрын
This is the kind of gentle parenting that I can get behind.
@drjimb0311
Ай бұрын
I’m so happy to be a single dad, and raise two young men the right way.
@TheChesireKat
Ай бұрын
way to go!!!!!! love seeing a mom be firm, loving, and guiding all at once! i know it's not easy, but you're doing it right!!
@collinpribula3270
Ай бұрын
That’s genius! i love it sooo much! This is the best family short film I’ve seen!
@selahs3110
2 ай бұрын
Good for you, Mama 💖💖
@mishasmith2450
2 ай бұрын
❤❤GOOD MAMA!❤❤❤ JUST WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS MORE OF WHEN HANDLING TANTRUMS
@barbarapagels4675
Ай бұрын
Excellent Job! Both Momma AND Little One! ❤🎉😊
@user-vq1ys6rc7v
Ай бұрын
This is not just an employees. This is family.❤ Wow.
@AngelicaC-mq6ui
Ай бұрын
What an awesome mom❤🎉🎉God Bless this beautiful family ❤
@preciousleano847
2 ай бұрын
I love your parenting style! Kudos to you momma!
@sidraarshad8397
2 ай бұрын
He is super cute in his expressions while doing chores. Need to learn alot for this mommy. I always struggle to be this assertive, either end up being too nice or angry.
@patriciabridgers5421
2 ай бұрын
Good Job mom😊❤Set rules and boundaries and stick to them! Its so nice to see this because kids have to have structure and learn that rules are a part of life! It makes their lives easier when theyre older❤
@Escaping_Reality_Official
Ай бұрын
thank you, I wish there were more parents like you in the world raising good humans for the future :)
@xaltideinvader
Ай бұрын
Girl was so gorgeous 🥰 I watched this for like 100 times
@DieVorleserin2013
2 ай бұрын
You are doing very well. Know so many parents, that discuss all the time and ruin the kids possibilitys of learning a nice calm behavior. I also love how you talk, clear and friendly ❤❤❤
@nunyabusiness5414
6 күн бұрын
I WANT THIIIIIIIS MOM TO BE THE TEACHER OF ALL MOMS! OMG... THEE BEST. IM GOONG(going) TO BE BETTER SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE OF YOUR CONTENT. THANK YOUUUUUUUUUUUU!
@fridaguerra6801
Ай бұрын
what a sweet mother omg
@mindchow9618
Ай бұрын
You are doing an amazing job...like a best mom!! The little one is also watching you 2 and learning!!
@donc9275
2 ай бұрын
I love his low energy hug at the beginning………..oh I give up. Then the happiness at the end.
@mytruthmylife8725
2 ай бұрын
She makes it look easy 😂❤ but it does work, we must learn patience 😊
@samirazafar1252
20 күн бұрын
I just love your videos , even in my class i use such instructions. Even though he's not ready to clean up but doing great ,love your son's expressions😅
@valm.0
2 ай бұрын
Gentle parenting is also not exploit your kids and respect their privacy
@phebienewman819
2 ай бұрын
I wish I'd learnt from you when my son was little - so important to bring up our boys and train them to take part in house duties with responsibilities and pride 🙏 Well-done Mum you are young beautiful and wise Hope many will learn from you ❤
@karolinecruz3391
2 ай бұрын
Such a good mom. ❤
@harryberkson6819
2 ай бұрын
Super mom! We need a nation of these people.
@spiritual_earthly_insights
2 ай бұрын
You are such an amazing mom, teaching him so wonderfully! 🤍🤗🕊️💞✨👌 Seeing you makes me miss my mom, she always gave us so much of her time & energy.❤ And your little one is such a sweetie, he is an empathetic one; the way he was brushing your hair, was too cute. 🥰🤍🤗 If feel if you hug him, you both will love it! 🕊️💗
@josephmathew-bygodsgraceto3312
2 ай бұрын
Olivia you are a blessed mother in parenting your toddlers , 70 % of adult personality is based on brought up, educating emotions,values,respect ,share,love, morals,ethics, parenting way ,godly way its definitely creates more impact on kids .
@klo85290
Ай бұрын
It can be so very hard to make ourselves do what we need to do sometimes! It was especially touching to see how his feelings came out in his body language ~ his limp arms when you hugged him at the beginning, his suffering when picking things up off the floor, his facial expressions... such a wonderful example of learning to practice fortitude and self-control and experiencing their rewards! It was beautiful to witness the way you came alongside to guide him throughout, and that he was allowed to have his feelings without being reprimanded. The only thing a bit missing for me (and it could have occurred often and earlier) was expression of empathy. Are you familiar with the acronym ACT? It stands for Acknowledge the feeling, Communicate the limit (which you did so well!) and Target the alternatives (providing choice, which children need as much as grown-ups). Acknowledgment of his feelings at the beginning would've softened the start of the video. Sprinkling it throughout the chore completing process would have amplified connection and feelings of support and understanding. Overall, such a great example of positive parenting!! Your concrete examples will surely encourage and help so many ~ thank you!!!
@livjowen
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I was not familiar with that acronym, but it's one I'm going to be holding on to. Thank you for the suggestions, the kind words, and the support! ❤️
@klo85290
Ай бұрын
You are so welcome! There is also CAT, when speed is of the essence, such as in a dangerous situation ~ simply switch the order of A and C. I was taught that two of the most helpful feeling reflections are simply "It's hard" and "It hurts" ~ useful in a multitude of situations. You can see that I utilized one of them at the beginning of my first comment :)
@pagevpetty
2 ай бұрын
His face when he is picking up the shoes 😂 Thank you sooo much for sharing these CRUTIAL skills I wish it was mandatory for people to watch your vids before having children.
@eyerusteshome2317
2 ай бұрын
I appreciate your video. you give me the way to treat my future children.THANK YOU
@mariaorourke1159
Ай бұрын
Calm kind and firm. Super impressed!
@user-yr2xr2me3h
Ай бұрын
Great job on teaching children work ethics.
@amypletcher4411
Ай бұрын
Great teaching for the little ones!! ❤
@kayodudu5190
2 ай бұрын
Awwh He is soo sweet
@brittneyc.brookes1455
Ай бұрын
Love the baby caressing your hair.
@mohanjaganathan966
2 ай бұрын
Well done mum. Firm and with love
@veclubby
2 ай бұрын
Perfect parenting. Well done
@chrisa2237
2 ай бұрын
been seeing your vids on the algo lately and a huge part of me sincerely wished this was the kind of upbringing i had growing up. i'm glad there was a better way to teach your kids rules without resorting to yelling and hitting. thanks for uploading these kinds of parenting vids ❤
@annamarielewis7078
2 ай бұрын
Thank you. You are raising a human and doing beautifully 💝
@stacyescobedo1642
18 күн бұрын
My man picking up the shoes is such a vibe. Sometimes i feel like that all day long 😂😂
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