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@darriuspeterson9165
3 ай бұрын
Dated a high maintenance, narcissistic and emotionally unstable…I got out fast.. girl had expensive taste with no money, I paid for everything…she lived with her parents but claimed she had her own home, was constantly begging for money, talking about herself while belittling me and downplaying my accomplishments.
@nolaguy1408
3 ай бұрын
Dang sound like we dated the same woman 😅. Mine paid for nothing then called me cheap. But I stayed for a yrs. Not time wasted because the timing would have been off that allowed me to meet my wonderful wife.
@jamaalhorton2343
Ай бұрын
Yikes
@zuhairreza
14 күн бұрын
That is so unfair, I am lost for words. It cannot be described how unfair that is.
@0kapwes
9 күн бұрын
Dang what’s huh name I think ik her😂
@Jspore-ip5rk
3 ай бұрын
The lack of accountability is an across the board phenomenon.
@jamaalhorton2343
Ай бұрын
A pandemic
@stevenscott9983
3 ай бұрын
Well said brother, most men don't think about that because we're visual, blinded by her looks. A woman may seem attractive that is until you find out the way she thinks, then suddenly she doesn't seem so attractive anymore. This will definitely help a lot of men who are in relationships and those actively pursuing one. Good lookin' out.👍
@Ga090774
Ай бұрын
I will add one. Damaged women. A lot of women suffer from childhood trauma that they have not healed or gotten treatment for. This can be stressful and frustrating for most men. How long are you willing to wait to be happy.
@lhoa_
3 ай бұрын
She Checked Off Every Box Per Topic
@notmyname1038
3 ай бұрын
Some of these groups of Women are the same. The "gold digger" and " high maintenance" , the "manipulator" and "narcissistic".
@darriuspeterson9165
3 ай бұрын
Narcissistic is it. Social media has birthed a lot of those.
@leonwilliams9999
3 ай бұрын
AND the worst place to try to meet a woman is the mall , because they are all taken or spoken for
@notmyname1038
3 ай бұрын
Also healthy real relationships are NOT messy. Yeah she may get out of line and need to be corrected or checked sometime but being messy is borderline toxic
@Andrewszm
4 ай бұрын
My wife is emotionally unstable ever since she had sex with another man. We now have 2 kids and it is the most painful thing I ever experienced. The only time I feel peace is when im not around her.
@darwynnmcpherson
4 ай бұрын
I’ll pray for you. Anytime you need to talk about it or want change I have a link you can schedule to meet on my profile
@Andrewszm
4 ай бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson thank you for understanding.
@darwynnmcpherson
4 ай бұрын
@@Andrewszm You're welcome brotha
@Andrewszm
4 ай бұрын
I total her today that im moving on and she seems to understand, i gently explained the situation and why i cant live with an unfaithful woman and that it’s destroying me spiritually. I don’t wanna conflict any pain on her and Im separated from here on out. I have had nothing but a peaceful mind since i made this decision and am finally freed from this prison. Im currently fixing my one house i own once it’s completed i will be moving out. From the beginning i preserved my body for only her and she didn’t, and to be blameless at the end of my life i will continue to live under that commitment only to please the one and only true God.
@KingLeonard-wh7gf
4 ай бұрын
I understand and hope you stay strong
@lawrenceross3037
6 ай бұрын
Without Saying It We All Know What The Vast Majority And Race Of Women Fits Your Description ...
@Lawlesslarry69
6 ай бұрын
So true
@karmathephoenix2474
3 ай бұрын
The race of women men like you left more than 2,000 years ago and it looks like God has left men like you.
@doughatcher-cq5fi
3 ай бұрын
Man... I came across this channel by accident and I'm glad I did. I was in a relationship with a woman who is emotionally unstable. I didn't realize that until after I fell for her. Everything was fine, so I thought, and one day, she flipped the script and turned into someone I didn't know. It was a shock to me. Needless to say, whatever was bothering her, is still bothering her, and she asked me not to contact her anymore. I have NO clue what happened, and how we got there. It's frustrating to be in this position and not know why she made the decision she made. Definitely, some red flags there that I overlooked. Thank you again for taking the time out to educate. Be blessed!!
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
We can figure it out together brotha
@FredrickWonnie
3 ай бұрын
"Don't walk, run" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
@youvegotmel2844
3 ай бұрын
1. Entitled women 2. Lack accountability 3. Women refuses to compromise 4. Manipulative behavior 5. Narcissistic tendencies 6. Unrealistic expectations 7. High Maintenance Women 8. Gold Diggers 9. Immature, irresponsible no goals 10. Emotionally Instability
@jamaalhorton2343
Ай бұрын
@@youvegotmel2844 basically narcissistic women which is 99 percent
@youvegotmel2844
Ай бұрын
@@jamaalhorton2343 I’m sorry you had bad experiences in your relationships I pray you find someone that can heal your heart & mind cus you sound butt hurt
@jamaalhorton2343
Ай бұрын
@@youvegotmel2844 making assumptions is another sign of narcissism!! I don’t need no woman!! I have me and that’s all I need! So thank you for your well wishes but I’m good!
@youvegotmel2844
Ай бұрын
@@jamaalhorton2343 I’m just tryna understand why you @ me saying 99 percent women are narcissist where did that come from? Again you sound butt hurt you need healing is what it is
@youvegotmel2844
Ай бұрын
@@jamaalhorton2343 men definitely don’t take any accountability ever either plus yall highly selfish
@jfonixx
3 ай бұрын
Dam... the real horror story is all these different traits wrapped up in one woman.
@jeffreywatson4574
3 ай бұрын
Very well Said Advice. It's A Reminder of Having A Discerning attitude; not Looking For Faults; because no one is Perfect; But Being Patient for a Well Balance Life Partner. The Wisdom From this Video is Sound. Thank you My Brother; Looking Forward To More Great Content Like This ; So it Can Turn on the light bulb in our Heads To Be Wisely Aware of these Things. Pastor Jeff Watson.Nu-Dominion Ministreiz Cleveland ohio.
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Amen and thanks. I from 106th and Harvard Ave. BELIEVELAND
@tankerrrtankerrr1987
3 ай бұрын
Men remember, Drizzle Drizzle.
@FredrickWonnie
3 ай бұрын
Great video👍
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed
@devohnmitchell
3 ай бұрын
These 10 Types Fit 99% of Women Out Here..Think over This..
@plasmaarmelund
Ай бұрын
FACTS!
@Bornagain_2024
3 ай бұрын
Don’t walk, run!
@kaleemjabar5825
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Brother, Great info!
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Any time!
@secretsarelies9681
4 ай бұрын
First off, 💯 on the ten types. I will add this type, although she may fall within one of the ten: the female who has no issue with not resolving an argument prior to bedtime. I’ve seen what this does to a female the morning after an unresolved argument with her man, but her man had a heart attack in his sleep and died. I have seen a female absolutely fall to pieces realizing that her man is dead, and the last interaction they had was her being a verbally abusive asshole to him. It destroyed her. Great content, just discovering you, will subscribe and like, ty!!
Talk about narcsissit you are the man .I went true thad and histronic personality you learn.
@darwynnmcpherson
19 күн бұрын
True
@rayhanes1347
3 ай бұрын
You just eliminated 98% of all western women. 😅😂
@gurjindersingh3843
3 ай бұрын
That is what we need to do to find the right woman
@2bjjones
3 ай бұрын
Facts
@tyreemathis
3 ай бұрын
Brah....Darker suite would more than likely due you well. Good luck
@ClarkMatthews-e6b
3 ай бұрын
Great info brother
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@ClarkMatthews-e6b
3 ай бұрын
Always
@mustafaince2645
3 ай бұрын
Thank you,great video.
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@sdabney
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this videos! Said a lot of true things, that one can learn from....
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@hakhasan117
3 ай бұрын
I needed that one.
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Glad i could help
@stacythomas23
17 күн бұрын
Thanks. Excellent video. I will spread the video to every man I can.
@darwynnmcpherson
17 күн бұрын
Thanks Stacy!!!🫱🏾🫲🏽
@johnroberts7980
Ай бұрын
Great video bro i kn exactly what u are saying
@darwynnmcpherson
Ай бұрын
Thanks
@rgould5820
4 ай бұрын
I came across this video and what hurts me the most is that I was the opposite of this.. I was too meek, I gave all of me always compromising.. and still he hurt me and cheated.. he said I was desperate.. and I was not desperate it have other guys that like me but I just dont like them.. i loved him and he broke every part of my soul.. so now im broken but not damaged I learnt a lot about setting my boundaries..
@jackgibsong8778
4 ай бұрын
Me too bro
@nameblocked
4 ай бұрын
I hope you're not blaming anyone but yourself as to why that relationship failed. Buried in your comment is the answer as to why it was bound to fail. 😊
@VictoriesAtTheMarathon
3 ай бұрын
Y’all throw the word “ love” around too loosely. You’re not supposed to love that many people, but you can care for them to an extent. Dating is like a sports team. Sometimes you win the championship, and other times you lose, which makes you think about how to improve everything surrounding you, along with yourself. Your soul shouldn’t be broken, it should be reinforcing itself to make you a stronger woman.
@shtfvan8084
3 ай бұрын
You chased the wrong characteristics. Lots of infatuation, and no real life compatability
@TruthFLA
3 ай бұрын
There are no guarantees. This video is about limiting exposure to certain negatives. That doesn't mean its 100% guaranteed the relationship will if you avoid all the negatives.
@aaronsteele7085
21 күн бұрын
Used to look at the physical and thinking that the all I need! Need to smarten up and be patient and going for better !!
@darwynnmcpherson
21 күн бұрын
This is a common mistake. Now you know and you’re heading in the right direction.
@hakhasan117
3 ай бұрын
Wow, I have some reevaluating to do.
@Jerry-xs1uz
3 ай бұрын
THANK YOU MY BROTHER 🙏
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@importedreign6408
Ай бұрын
Here for it!!!
@ohuobaemmanuel2604
Ай бұрын
Nice one
@darwynnmcpherson
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@lsporter88
4 ай бұрын
What does this mean? It means we're on to you Ladies. Govern yourselves accordingly. Superior Commentary.
@StevenSmith-zs4mv
25 күн бұрын
Yes I totally agree I was in a long term relationship, And I felt like I was dying inside, There was know affection like simple hugging are a slight kiss because I had to avoid the constant mood swings, And if I said anything about the situation, Even in a soft understanding tone in my voice she would still be triggered so I would avoid physical affection 😢😢😢
@StevenSmith-zs4mv
25 күн бұрын
I did something outside of my character seeking attention 😢 Noughting sexual, It was online, The sad part about it is I felt nothing 😢
@darwynnmcpherson
25 күн бұрын
@@StevenSmith-zs4mv Damn Steven, this is tough. Hope things have gotten better for you. Is there some super power you wished you had before deciding to commit to a woman?
@patrickbennett439
6 күн бұрын
This sounds like some extremely good advice. You make me want to ignore a particular x girlfriend. Thank god I never married her. In fact I already won’t get married. That just gives them the key to destroy me. It’s better to love and lost than never loved at all, but it’s also good to never let women mess your life up in the meantime. I just stay single due to I don’t even connect with women. There’s attraction usually, but other than that everything’s just off. They always find some other sucker easier than me to manipulate and that’s ok.😂
@oghenetegaisrael2889
Ай бұрын
Many thanks.
@darwynnmcpherson
Ай бұрын
You are welcome!
@leonwilliams9999
3 ай бұрын
I'm a attractive visually impaired man smells nice and dresses nice I don't get compliments, eye contact from pretty or average women I always get negative looks and body language, that s why I d don't approach or try to make eye contact,let alone attempt to start a conversation
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Leon it’s all good brother we’ve been there. It’s a struggle. But don’t quit keep leveling up don’t worry about them they will come running
@jeffreyfranklin4392
2 ай бұрын
Bro thank you very much my x-wife fit into three or four categories you just mentioned thank you man thank you
@darwynnmcpherson
2 ай бұрын
No problem 👍
@dexkato7329
4 ай бұрын
When it comes to dating and marriage, I feel that the African American Community is doomed to fail! Our expectations are totally unrealistic. Everybody is trying to date outside of their lane. Maybe we would be better off letting Candace Owens and Steve Harvey choose our mates for us.
@percynelson7726
3 ай бұрын
I am glad you didn’t say single moms. They can be single for 3 reasons: 1) their man wasn’t good/ready; 2) they were not good/ready; 3) both were not good/ready. A single mom who gets their stuff together for their child/children may grow in to what they need to be.
@jonysaav6759
20 күн бұрын
@@percynelson7726 he forgot to mention single mothers .... it's doesn't matter the circumstances, a single mom is a dish you do not want to order
@LIFETHELEADER
16 күн бұрын
@@percynelson7726 he didn't say Single moms because why mention an Archetype that's already been discussed Countless times before ...
@janetvansky3621
Ай бұрын
The sad TRUTH is that these "toxic" women you are describing have been damaged by TOXIC MEN, going all the way back to their fathers. Men need to take responsibility for THEIR healing.
@darwynnmcpherson
Ай бұрын
I’m sorry but you can’t hold the men you date accountable for what your father did to you. We didn’t create the issue. You need to go get therapy before dealing with men. Until then don’t date.
@richieedwards4133
3 ай бұрын
Mentally unstable. RUN don't think twice
@asunthegreat5893
Ай бұрын
Women with children especially as a single man.
@jamesmock8431
3 ай бұрын
Don’t walk run…..
@geeskin5750
3 ай бұрын
When she has a lot of male friends
@maureenenow9851
3 ай бұрын
I love to share in my story.make it possible
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Share your story? Or share the video in your story?
@ryangoulbourne4662
3 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Inspire3hub
16 сағат бұрын
Fairs ❤
@eugenefreeman6085
3 ай бұрын
Lord..
@randyharris-sj5jb
3 ай бұрын
💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
@maureenenow9851
3 ай бұрын
Please let the video be in a wayj
@paulodili751
20 күн бұрын
I know a girl with 9 of these qualities, it was a nightmare.
@darwynnmcpherson
20 күн бұрын
Oh wow!!! How do you know her?
@paulodili751
20 күн бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson Ran into her at a workplace, academically brilliant, can be charming, beautiful and well proportioned, then started dating turns out what a horrible mistake; ran for my dear life.
@darwynnmcpherson
20 күн бұрын
Yikes 😳
@Spruill526
3 ай бұрын
The advice was good, except you said give if you want to, but don’t encourage men to be Stingy ! That’s definitely not a good trait.
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
Be generous because you want to. Not because your asked to.
@BamaNiiji
9 күн бұрын
Says the Golddigger...
@wayneemerson5651
Күн бұрын
you're a smart guy, wise beyond your years, do you coach males on an individual basis?
@darwynnmcpherson
Күн бұрын
Yes I do and thanks!
@darwynnmcpherson
Күн бұрын
Shoot me an Email
@wayneemerson5651
Күн бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson please send me your email, I can't find it on the page, sorry....
@darwynnmcpherson
Күн бұрын
Bruizzr@outlook.com
@wayneemerson5651
7 сағат бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson thank you brother. I’m gonna send you an email at some point later today.
@heroforhire1018
17 күн бұрын
Just got out of a marriage with a woman that hit every single mark I'm exhausted and destroyed
@darwynnmcpherson
17 күн бұрын
Wow how long ago was this?
@heroforhire1018
16 күн бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson 5 years had no peace work myself to death no appreciation no respect I stuck around for a long time because of my son who is autistic and is gonna be 3 in nov she had a strong family dependency and no motivation living off of tik Tok and the ideas of how I should be from it tho tho I worked and always provided butt the vibe of my house was constant war so I got used to always being in a war till I tuned out sex was like a transaction and I had to do something for it my wife was extremely pretty for my looks damn I was a doormat I had my fair share of frustration and yelling back but I was the only one who ever took accountability on anything I'm alone now in a city far from anyone I know but that's okay I have peace and I have a purpose now I'm not allowed to see my son out of spite but Dada will be back soon lol
@heroforhire1018
16 күн бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson like 3 months and the last month I have spent without my son from her spite
@darwynnmcpherson
12 күн бұрын
Ill be your brother from afar... Anytime you need to talk just shoot me an email or Dm. Keep grinding bro, your son is counting on you to overcome this.
@hakeemmahdee2927
3 ай бұрын
This video is basically about my Ex-fiance
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
OMG really?
@hakeemmahdee2927
3 ай бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson yes brother we was supposed to get married but she didn’t she would find ways not to get married so she was older than me 5yrs she has 2 kinds both have autism 2 baby daddies I’m 30yrs old she playing games with me put me in jail painted like I’m a monster but all I’ve done with her tried to make a family with her but everybody said she’s crazy I was settling that’s too much I’m 30yrs old I got the rest of my life to live so I’m glad I’m away from that
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
@hakeemmahdee2927 I’m glad you realized that was a bad deal for you. Uneven tradeoffs leads to incompatibility
@hakeemmahdee2927
3 ай бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson Man you right but I didn’t wanna give up or turn my back on her & the boys she gotta deal with that for the rest of her life while I can do whatever I want but if I’m such a monster why were with me all that time but man I’m glad I got away
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
@@hakeemmahdee2927 She came in to the deal accepting and acknowledging that her past decisions was her burden alone. Her and her boys is her burden so you didn't give up on her. It was nothing to hold on to in the beginning, no marriage and conditional loyalty from the kids that aren't yours. You are not a monster you were blessed to have seen her uncooperative nature and some force or some energy has pushed you out from being a statistic. May not have been what you wanted so i have to say that the Lord was protecting you.
@Ghettobank69
Ай бұрын
All of what a narcissist is.
@timwattison4419
17 күн бұрын
@Ghettobank69 loads of them about these days unfortunately.
@d_s_ctube
3 ай бұрын
There's not many women left if you avoid these types. 😅
@darwynnmcpherson
3 ай бұрын
You only need one to go with you
@frankruiz6646
Ай бұрын
RULES OUT 99.9 % of woman
@0kapwes
9 күн бұрын
My ex just went 0-10 I was trping 😂
@jalenv9549
6 күн бұрын
Need to say stay away from bipolar women
@MichaelMyers-tg9uh
6 күн бұрын
Soooo we are supposed 2 avoid all women then 😂 ? This list describes all women at different times of the month 😆💯
@Laytec187
3 ай бұрын
Moral of the story is avoid women🤣
@tony411
3 ай бұрын
It's the equivalent of dating a child😮
@smoov005
3 ай бұрын
Fellas stay focused and self love is my best advice. 🫡
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