My husband and I got engaged during college. My family was very poor and I was paying my own way through school. My husband’s family was better off (not rich) and his mom really liked to show off their money. My husband was also paying his own way through school. His family lived in Myrtle Beach and his mom was very adamant that we should get married “at the club.” She dragged me to “the club” (her country club) and the cheapest wedding package was about 10x our budget. I told her we couldn’t afford it and I didn’t want to get married there anyway. We wanted to get married in our college town, which was about halfway between my family and his family. She was deeply offended. We picked a date in June 2007 to get married. About 8 months before the wedding, she loses her damn mind and says, “Well, I’m planning my father’s 80th birthday celebration for that month, and if everyone comes in for your wedding, they won’t come back for his party. You simply cannot get married then.” She thought we’d put our marriage off for another year… she was wrong. So my husband asked me, “What if we get married over spring break and use that time for our honeymoon?” And that’s what we did! My MIL just about dropped dead because her plan backfired. 😂 We’ve been married 15 years and have our 2nd baby on the way. 🥰
@karmenrosebush
Жыл бұрын
Blessings to your family thats so beautiful!
@graceanne385
Жыл бұрын
My husband and I did something similar 33 years ago, his choice, not mine. His mom was being outspoken, and instead of being mature and talking it out, we eloped. My mother lived in Europe where I am from, so she was not particularly affected by our choice to elope. Now that our kids are grown and getting married, we realize what a cruel thing that was to do. It was incredibly disrespectful. Our parents gave their lives to raising us and we did not give them the respect they deserved. This is one of our deepest regrets, a decision for which we feel deep shame. Now that our kids are grown we have a different perspective. His mom was just a human being. She loved her son and she deserved to be heard. We could have figured out a compromise but we were too self righteous at that time to do so.
@Callimo
Жыл бұрын
@@graceanne385 Honey, parents are supposed to provide for their children. That's the bare minimum, and it certainly doesn't give any egg or sperm donor carte blanche to run roughshod all over their adult child's wedding plans. Don't be a doormat. It's good you two stood up for yourselves then. But, if you still want a "proper" wedding, you and your husband can always renew your vows and have a traditional ceremony. :)
@thabsmkhize2481
Жыл бұрын
Do you and her get along now?
@graceanne385
Жыл бұрын
@@Callimo you clearly don't get it.
@Plethorality
Жыл бұрын
Don't marry the man who is married to his mum. Let him divorce her first.
@aneatasewell8525
Жыл бұрын
Oh Sister, after 23 yrs.of being married to the trifecta of insanity- a Husband that had huge mental issues who was trained not to think for himself, & whom they held back that important piece of information before our wedding, telling him not to say anything because it 'wasn't any of my business to know', a full blown narcissistic Mother who felt she had a personal pipeline to God and 'Her Will WAS His Will!' mentality. To the incredible enmeshment & very reason the saying Mama's Boy was invented - since she basically owned him. She finally got her way and destroyed our family & our marriage! He's been living with her again, and I'm just waiting for the wedding announcement between those two!
@Tropically5
Жыл бұрын
Well in her case the mom is the problem more like when you break up but they don’t act like you did lol
@ellieboo_97
Жыл бұрын
Nah I’m not gonna wait for him to “divorce” his mom. Either he quit sucking his momma’s tits or I’m leaving, but I will not compete for my man’s affections
@normaowens7340
Жыл бұрын
I got married rather young the first time. I was 20, we did divorce 8 years later, but I got my wedding. I was informed by my ex mil I would have a strawberry filled cake. Nope I am allergic. His grandparents said I had to get married at their church. Wasn't happening. I was also informed my colors would be lavender and yellow. My colors were 2 shades of blue. Was informed since my father was dead his grandfather would walk me down the aisle. I loved walking down with my mom. Last but not least. My bouquet was heavy (it was the 80's). I have major nerve damage to my left arm so I had to walk on the opposite side so I wouldn't drop my flowers. Was informed that wasn't correct. Doesn't matter what side I was on, we were still married. We divorced because of the baby we planned for made his life a drag. As abusive as he was that was the best thing that ever happened to me.
@timriggins70
11 ай бұрын
Could say the same about a woman married to her family.
@wharrington8587
Жыл бұрын
We eloped. His mother was planning my dress who would be my maid of honor & everything. After our daughter was born she really showed her true colors. Since then they don't talk & it's all my fault cause I wouldn't cave to her demands. We just had our 21st anniversary.
@freshlysaturatedcheese
Жыл бұрын
Yeesh, talk about controlling
@JennifuhhGilardi
Жыл бұрын
A situation where it’s perfectly fine to be “the bad guy” because you’re really getting credit for sparing everyone 😂😂
@2Ryled
8 ай бұрын
You dodged a bullet. My mil was snarky to 2 sons wives. They hardly spoke to her. Then she started on me at holiday. Msde sure her husb, sons weren't in room. That was the last time I ever went. 20yrs ago. She acted dumb, about saying nasty things, wouldn't apologize. Then sons say she's like that. And I said I'm like this. She put me down for having migraines. I must be lying about them. No one can have that many. Done and dusted.
@fanpet3912
7 ай бұрын
Not your fault. Her fault
@melissasaint3283
5 ай бұрын
Oh yeah....when they're awful about the wedding, watch out when children arrive!! That's as what finally made my DH go NC
@kristi6274
Жыл бұрын
Man, my mother in law is just like this, one year, I bought a cake for my son, she threw a tantrum saying since she bakes we should've asked her, I had no clue she wanted too, so I cancelled the cake, and she promptly told me that I should've known and that she didn't know if she even wanted to make it now. 🙄 So I'm like w.e. the next day she made the cake... It literally fell apart when she tried to take it out of the pan, and this woman CRIED. Stormed off. My hubby went to talk to her and she tells him "she's gonna be mad cuz it's not perfect " blah blah, man idgaf it's a cake for a 4yr old. Absolutely wild.
@CheapsKate77
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like she needs some meds.
@KingRinVT
Жыл бұрын
The 4yo ain’t gonna remember it. Their 4! It’s a cake. Any and all cake is going to the same place. MIL sounds like a nightmare tbh.
@alim.9801
Жыл бұрын
She sounds like a nightmare and like she really needs to learn how to self regulate her emotions...like REALLY needs to learn that
@NAT20Ashes
Жыл бұрын
She’s gunna get way worse.
@beezie7886
9 ай бұрын
Sounds like it was a cake made by a 4 yo
@rowan5335
Жыл бұрын
Both of our families are nightmares and we neither told nor invited any of them. We went to the courthouse and two friends of ours who knew showed up unexpected. It was great!
@dhanagunter5893
Жыл бұрын
No drama, the best kind of wedding, and spending it with people you love or like.
@alim.9801
Жыл бұрын
Aw that's so sweet they crashed your wedding! Good friends hehe 😌
@HoneyGun
Жыл бұрын
My ex-mother in law made planning my wedding absolutely miserable 😖 It got to the point where she was even angry messaging my mom how I wouldn’t do the things she wanted, and my mom was having to step in. I’m glad that part of my life is closed.
@2Ryled
8 ай бұрын
It's your wedding your way. I've heard of brides being forced into weddings bc mom was living thru them... ugh
@___unkmown
5 ай бұрын
Ur ex didn't defend you? Guys these day smh
@melissasaint3283
5 ай бұрын
Calling your mother to try to help pressure you....that's "triangulation" and it's almost never a good sign. That kind of thing is for sincere Interventions to save someone's LIFE, Not to control who the maid of honor will be 😑
@angelbulldog4934
Жыл бұрын
Been divorced for about 10 years now after 23 years of marriage. I was really blessed with in-laws. His parents never once presumed to tell us what to do or how to spend our money, even if they gave it to us. I don't miss him, but sometimes I miss his mom and dad.
@sendnoodle5
Жыл бұрын
I miss my mother in law more than my ex husband. I still call her my mom in law. I miss her dearly, unfortunately she passed while we were still together.
@ZiggyWhiskerz
Жыл бұрын
What made you divorce after 23 years!!!??? O.o
@angelbulldog4934
Жыл бұрын
@@ZiggyWhiskerz Short version: I grew. He stagnated.
@Captain_Bob
Жыл бұрын
@@angelbulldog4934 May I request the long version? As long as you're comfortable with sharing, that is.
@angelbulldog4934
Жыл бұрын
@@Captain_Bob Long version of what exactly? The in-laws?
@TheUrbanHousewife16
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣that's right " Nancy don't play"
@tarawalker7193
Жыл бұрын
I felt that in my soul!
@rmoenmjea
Жыл бұрын
My grandma was that person... My parents had a really fun potluck-wedding and didn't really want a wedding cake. When my grandma arrived the day before she suddenly had a 3-tier wedding cake in tow. Obviously there was no room for it so half the neighborhood had to clear out their fridge to help store the cake. Day of the wedding my parents totally forgot (and kind of refused) to cut the cake andthere is a lovely picture of my grandma standing in the kitchen door, with a HUGE knife, looking like she was debating whether to cut the cake or the bride. Precisely the moment she was dubbed the "Knife-Granny"
@cathydraws7787
Жыл бұрын
Do not let toxic in-laws run your life for you! Speak up and stand up for yourself. If you don't it does get worse!
@f.miller9522
3 ай бұрын
Still very hard if the husband doesn't back you up.
@michelegray5970
2 ай бұрын
@@f.miller9522 Absolutely! 15 years down the drain and he can thank his mom for that!
@jessicacarnahan6924
Жыл бұрын
I was blessed and got the worlds BESTEST Mother in Love. She was truly a joy- made me laugh, made me smile- brought soooo much joy to our lives- I mean whom better to help with your husband than the one person who probably knows him best. I freaking miss her sooooo much! RIP mama!!
@graceanne385
Жыл бұрын
It’s like any relationship. You treated each other with respect. People with miserable mother in laws are usually miserable daughter in laws. They lack respect for each other, are both insecure and don’t have any real respect for the husband/son that is forced to pledge an allegiance to one or the other when he should be able to love and respect both in completely different ways.
@jodiehardy7220
Жыл бұрын
@@graceanne385 I don’t think that’s true there are alot of very overbearing mother in laws who are overly attached to their sons
@rebeccafoster-faith6647
Жыл бұрын
equal! My MIL is lovely but we also know which buttons not to push
@EmP-2022
Жыл бұрын
I love to hear stories like this! I have 2 sons and you do rarely hear positive MIL/DIL stories! I am already mentally preparing because I know it will be hard, these are my babies, but I want them to be upstanding men more than I want them to stay babies!
@jessicacarnahan6924
Жыл бұрын
@@EmP-2022 I have two hand picked daughters from my two oldest sons…. Pretty u issue relationship with each one. My second son has made me a Gigi almost four times now…. I got to be there for there delivery of my first ever grand baby…. What a blessing! I will always cherish that moment and so honored to be invited to be a support person to her during one of the most intimate moments of your life. I have a great role model as to what a mother In Love should be and well, it takes no effort to be nice, right?!
@LivvyBooks
Жыл бұрын
Lol the holding money over your head is why neither my parents or my man's will pay for our wedding. If we can't afford it then it's time for a city hall ceremony and a pot luck afterwards.
@e.458
Жыл бұрын
Which sometimes makes the loveliest weddings - probably because it's way less stressful. The ability to relax and actually savour the moment is worth more than the most pinterest worthy wedding package.
@donnawestbrook8992
11 ай бұрын
There are lots of ways to do an affordable wedding. A dear friend got his ministry license online to officiate a couple in our circle who wanted a non- traditional wedding. We took a vacation to a bed and breakfast, said vows under a waterfall to each other, then had a minister sign our marriage license at her yoga studio.
@Kohlerstacey
9 ай бұрын
My spouse and I eloped. We both got teary eyed, it was so meaningful to us, and there was no drama! Coming up on 30 years of marriage
@jeremyweitendorf6723
Жыл бұрын
DON’T MESS WITH NANCY!!! 👏👏👏
@rantymcrantrant9391
Жыл бұрын
This happen to my husband & I, 20 years ago. We only wanted a courthouse ceremony & my MIL flipped! We were gifted with the silent treatment for only a couple of weeks😂
@timdrake719
Жыл бұрын
People need to stop giving inlaws so much time, attention, and leeway. Adults don't need to constantly cater to their parents.
@brie9960
Жыл бұрын
I think part of the MIL/DIL relationship that makes MIL feel the need to torment and overstep their bounds is they haven’t seen their kids as adults. And since they don’t see their own kids as adults, they don’t see the partners as adults either. They feel the need to step into everything and don’t like being told no because kids don’t tell their parents no or kids don’t tell their parents what/ how to do things. Thankfully my MIL sees all of her sons as adults and therefore respects their decisions and in turn, mine (ours). My MIL does sometimes overstep but not to where she’s telling me what to do or how to do something without me asking. We’re expecting our first in February and we’ve had a few talks about how we plan to raise the baby and what we expect from both parents. They’re free to be grandparents but they don’t get to parent. Example: she brought up kids watching tv or using iPads and we said that she will be able to do those things and we plan to use them if we need to. There are educational things to be learned from technology. My niece is 4 and can use a computer and search what she wants to watch, so she’s reading and spelling ahead of her classmates. My MIL attempted to say that no, our daughter was not going to be using them at all. I made it clear that if WE allow her to, that’s it. If she’s watching the baby by herself than that’s her choice of if she allows her too or not but that’s only when she’s in charge and we’re not around to decide otherwise. My MIL knows I don’t play and knows I pick my battles (she’s complimented me on the ability to do that throughout my relationship with her son) so if I’m gonna argue, it’s because I feel strongly about something and I’m not going to budge. Don’t be afraid to put your foot down with in laws. On either side. They can either accept the decisions they’re allowed to be privy to, or they can accept not being apart of any decision🤷🏼♀️
@melaninchocolate6552
Жыл бұрын
This!!! Exactly!!!
@sildragonqueen
Жыл бұрын
This makes me so happy my fiancé's mom is chill and loves me. I honestly have a better relationship with her than my own mother.
@sadespain01
Жыл бұрын
Lol same
@2Ryled
8 ай бұрын
I thought mine was chill until years later. Then every fam get together was about her. Her controlling what toys the kid could play with. She didn't like they ignored her toy. A sewing machine. And them turned on wives 1 by 1.
@sildragonqueen
8 ай бұрын
@2Ryled mine is really low-key. She looked at my fiance and told him if he messes this up, she's keeping me. My mother has narcissistic traits and basically emotional and mentally abused me for years until I finally moved out at 15, less than a week or two before starting high school.
@deborahlewandowski3206
Жыл бұрын
My MIL was a bitch and my ex husband was a narcissistic, mentally and verbally abusive momma's boy so I ended up between a rock and a hard place that drove me to attempting suicide... after that I realized that I couldn't stay in the marriage another minute and decided to leave...and I did ..
@laurengallagher1
Жыл бұрын
Glad you’re here ❤ hope things are looking up now!
@MIMI-bv5gd
Жыл бұрын
GREAT TO HEAR THAT 😊❤
@Swampgurl777
10 ай бұрын
Wait, I don’t remember writing this…. But I sure could have 😏
@Loveroffood41
9 ай бұрын
Girl you just described my ex-husband and former MIL. I am so glad that you got out.
@raynaysride
9 ай бұрын
Glad to hear you made the right choice, prayers & blessings to you
@Bennifer2002
Жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful I love my in-laws and my husband loves his in-laws. We never had any drama!
@ruchi2207
Жыл бұрын
Blessing truely
@yannanydeira
Жыл бұрын
I really just can’t believe that someone’s mother-in-law is like that. Like she would literally have to be fucking crazy like the kind of crazy that gets you put away
@l.dougherty7573
Жыл бұрын
You Must have been BLESSED with a wonderful MIL.
@aneatasewell8525
Жыл бұрын
Oh Honey; They Do, and Can get Very, Very Crazy! 😱
@e.458
Жыл бұрын
They can. They don't have to necessarily be the MIL, FIL can be marriage breaking awful, too. In my social circles, there are more toxic FIL than vice versa.
@doyoureadme94
Жыл бұрын
Elopement sounds better and better every day.
@hydeparkacademy7107
8 ай бұрын
Save the money for a down payment on your house. Have the big party on one of the anniversaries.
@nenyaproctor1247
Жыл бұрын
My husband and I went to the justice of peace ( he and my cousin planned it as a surprise for me) ❤😊 29 years ago!! I thought that we were just going out for a date without our kids (3), I’m glad we did!! But his mom never liked me or our kids, and the feeling was mutual!! We ended up having a happy marriage and family together with 4 kids, before he passed away! All our kids are grown and we are grandparents to 5!❤❤
@evanez1912
3 жыл бұрын
These are perfect comebacks! 😂 I will note 📝 & screenshot for future reference. Thank you 😂#savage
@jessicas6651
Жыл бұрын
That part about her sitting next to your mom and just how your mom would respond was epic 😂
@fayeart5277
2 жыл бұрын
You go girl, hold your ground! Hoorah! 💪I eventually had to end up disowning mine, totally! I respect that my husband has a relationship with her as long as it's atleast 500 ft away from me. After 10 year's of her torment...I'm done.
@stitchedmouthgirl
Жыл бұрын
My cousin got married about 7 years ago to a guy she had been with for 15 years (they were engaged a long time because every time they’d start wedding planning they’d get busy). Now I actually think MY family was the crazy in laws. But some background first. My cousin got pregnant at 17 and my aunt kicked her out for it. My cousin refused to tell anyone who the father was. Later she meets her current husband and he takes care of her the whole pregnancy (fyi my cousin and her son are black and this man is white, this is important later) and she has a boy. My cousin and her ‘friend’ who is looking after her get together and he accepts her kid as his own, then 6 years later have a daughter. He proposes when she tells him she’s pregnant and she says yes. Now you’re all caught up. Firstly my aunt straight up refused to go because she was still mad at my cousin for getting pregnant as a teenager which is ironic because she did the exact same thing. Secondly my cousin wanted her husband’s family to pay for the WHOLE wedding because she knew they were well off. They agreed to pay for half but she bullied them into paying more when she went over budget with her dress and the venue. Husband’s mother (the rich one) wanted me to be a braidmaid and argued that since she was paying for the wedding and because I was closely related to the bride she was allowed to make me a braidmaid, my cousin said no because it was only her best friends and not her relatives. Reminder her son was the best man. Also her daughter, who is 6 years old, is nothing special and isn’t allowed in the reception or in any photos. Venue is in the middle of nowhere and whenever someone says, “Dam that’s far, might be able to make it” my cousin loses it. My cousin wants the cake to pistachio flavour knowing everyone hates pistachio and many guests are allergic to nuts. I’m not a bridesmaid but I still have to wear what she tells me. Finally her husband tells her to stop and she almost cancels the whole wedding. Only reason she didn’t she because my Dad told her he’d beat her ass then never talk to he again if she let a man like her husband go after being abandoned by her first baby daddy. That made her shape up so fast.
@CheapsKate77
Жыл бұрын
Why wouldn't she allow her own daughter at her wedding or in the photos???
@stitchedmouthgirl
Жыл бұрын
@@CheapsKate77 I really don’t know. Around the time, she seemed like she really disliked her daughter. Constantly yelling at her for very little things or something nothing. They seem closer now that my little cousin is a bit older. I think my older cousin just told a while to feel a mother instinct for her.
@nathanielcraig3588
Жыл бұрын
@@stitchedmouthgirl Yikes, that poor kid! I hope she's not traumatized
@househannah333
Жыл бұрын
My mother in law was pissed at where her table was (I put her next to the doors because she smokes and I didn’t want the smell to bother people during the reception) and she decided to move her whole table to a different spot and messed up the ENTIRE SEATING CHART
@owbs
Жыл бұрын
My MIL 100%. She didn't understand why she couldn't wear a white, lace dress. Or why we were mad that she kept insisting on paying for things and then waiting until the day before to say she changed her mind
@Chelle1214
Жыл бұрын
My mother did this with my wedding dress. She insisted, against my protests, and badgered me that she wanted to pay for it and I eventually gave in and she also insisted I get a beautiful but very expensive veil on top of the dress. I paid the deposit then she claimed for 1.5 years she was paying it off. I would check in on it pretty much monthly and always said please tell me if you can't make the monthly payment so I can sort things out. A few days before the dress pick up she told us she wouldn't do it. She hadn't paid a cent and ofcourse we hadn't budgeted for it because she kept telling me it was being paid off. It was made worse by the fact she essentially just slammed it on my finance as we had a young baby then so I was a SAHM and not working at the time so it was really stressful. It totally soured my experience with my dress.
@jeanetteporter8114
10 ай бұрын
I never understood why you can't wear white to a wedding?
@mutteringcrone1210
9 ай бұрын
@@jeanetteporter8114Officially, it's because you are upstaging the bride, stepping on her visibility, looking like you are the bride.
@acote5020
Жыл бұрын
There is no win-win with these people. So the answer is always if you don't like it don't come.
@rheahawko7179
Жыл бұрын
We need more of your mom confronting Linda. That would be awesome
@allisonstilley8636
Жыл бұрын
I’m soooo grateful for my husbands family. His mom and sister are like true family to me ❤
@michellealjunaidi8471
Жыл бұрын
Yeez people like that. Marrying into that type of toxic will be too much to take. You will have to move away and only visit for funerals. You wouldn't want your future children growing up with that type of environment. She may treat your children differently.
@PamelaH_HappyVibes
Жыл бұрын
Nancy don’t play!!! I’m putting my money on Nancy!
@fourever2ne1
Жыл бұрын
I’m not even engaged and my dad tries telling me that I AM going to have a church wedding (I’m 28 btw) and I’m just like nah bro,it’s my day and I’ll have it where I want and if you don’t like it we’ll you won’t be invited.
@DisturbedGeneration
Жыл бұрын
Right? Also like. At the church? I don't want all those weird people I purposely ignore to be at my wedding because my parents think they have a right to invite people.
@ilevel007
Жыл бұрын
This is why I am all for low key, private weddings. Don't bring your negative energy to my sacred, joyous event. Weddings are just as personal and sacred as child birth, in my opinion. Don't have anyone there who you wouldn't genuinely feel loved and supported by.
@MsBellaSicilia
Жыл бұрын
These videos make me so thankful im getting an awesome MIL. Honestly, I feel like I'm just getting another mom, she's so great. We are also eloping to make things easy, just a court house wedding. We'll do an actual one later.
@lisaj5107
Жыл бұрын
I love these shorts! I'll bet my MIL could embarrass yours!
@donnatate6327
Жыл бұрын
"Nancy don't play "😂
@aryabolton2949
Жыл бұрын
Omg these videos are soooo relateable ! I've been with my man 12 years this summer, we're engaged and I'm terrified of having the very small, intimate wedding we want ( his sister, the golden child, had her wedding payed for by his mom) because I don't want my parents to meet his mom, they're sure to hate each other, and just like Nancy, Lisa ( my mom) doesn't play either, and has a 1 mm fuse .
@Juleesuz
Жыл бұрын
Just have the two of you.
@aggiev8561
9 ай бұрын
Yeah I say just elope. We did so due to the pandemic and it was such an enjoyable day. We had a fb live video for close family and friends
@KawaiiandDark
Жыл бұрын
I love how my SO's family were so against me at first (mostly behind my back) and now they all looooove me It's hilarious because I just didn't care if they liked me or not, heck, his dad's scared of me for some reason Closest I've gotten to explanation to the change of heart was because unlike his family, I plan before I set in motion, even in short spans of time His dad and twin went to pick him up in another state as he had no way to get home, they didn't prepare properly and ebbed up turning around and going back home without him (it was winter, no tie chains or anything, slide in the road and got scared, they were 1 hour away from him) I was pissed so I looked up buses in the area that could get him home, found one called and asked what I needed to do to ensure he be able to ride with no problem before buying the ticket Wrote down the information needed, all while texting his dad to get the # of the guy giving my SO a ride to the station (my SO lost his phone) I texted the information to him so as to make sure he had the right information 100% right, no errors in the code he needed to provide for his transfer and boarding I also bought him food and had it delivered to him while he waited so he wasn't hungry After that his family started treating him that I'm "too good for him" I just don't pay around when it comes to something like that, I was not going to leave him in another state in the middle of winter with no where to go and no winter clothes (he had shorts and a t-shirts, and sandals) I still don't understand why the hell his dad would just be all "welp, I tried" and just turn around and leave his kid out in the middle of the snow because he was too stupid to even prepare for the snow he knew about beforehand My dad taught me that if I'm that far, I might as well finish what I started, even if it terrifies the hell outta me
@funnyanimalshorts643
2 ай бұрын
Never ignore your gut
@mystirae7027
Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I was blessed with a great MIL! I love hearing the horror stories though.
@frankkiejo5560
Жыл бұрын
“And Nancy don’t play, so….”😂❤😂
@nelle5686
Жыл бұрын
This in law is a monster who needs to grow up!
@helenlewis2510
Жыл бұрын
This right here is why I’m glad my boyfriend’s mom loves me
@angiejones3714
Жыл бұрын
I got married outside by the river barefoot I was told no you have to wear shoes and why at the river I said yes I can be barefoot it's fine with my husband and it's our wedding. Get over it.
@EmP-2022
Жыл бұрын
Thankfully didn’t have that! My mother in law did want to invite everyone she’s ever met which is an Eastern European thing, we gave her a number and said if people rsvp’d no she could invite additional people. I don’t think she loved it, but it worked out! I have sons and will shut my mouth and do what is asked of me unless it’s something ridiculous which doesn’t seem to be a common issue!
@starrpatrick2905
Жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful to have a step mother in law that’s so sweet.
@Bluefrog757
Жыл бұрын
Nancy don’t play! Sounds like her daughter don’t either! 😂😂😂
@tarawalker7193
Жыл бұрын
Real. Establish the rules at the jump. Minimizes your headaches later.
@IMOO1896
Жыл бұрын
I love how she stands up to Lynda
@NH-pk7eb
Жыл бұрын
Nancy seems LEGIT!!! I think I want to hang out with her. 😂
@christinaschannel589
Жыл бұрын
That's right Nancy don't play she will make sure her daughter has the perfect wedding day.
@moonrock6221
Жыл бұрын
Okay but... If the mil is that vial why has the partner not helped... And them being their mother is not a free pass for abuse!
@swayzieandchinita
Жыл бұрын
It’s better she handled it herself. This way MIL knows exactly where she stands. As well as letting her hubs know she won’t take his moms crap. I’m sure he got an earful. Those things don’t go unnoticed.
@saraleneak7386
Жыл бұрын
You just might be my new favorite person on the internet! This is great 😂 😂
@Idkwhattonamethis-d8z
10 ай бұрын
Make her sit next to Eve she will definitely make ML leave😂
@jokerzbabe13
Жыл бұрын
Nancy don't play!
@AshlieMaddox
9 ай бұрын
My girls would be more like “H3LL Naw I ain’t sitting your pot stirring self by my momma! My momma ain’t the one.” (They wouldn’t use my given name bc they are scared I’d jump out from behind a plant or something yelling “what did you call me?!” 😂😂😂😂) I love these videos! 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
@absinthexiii4376
2 ай бұрын
“Nancy don’t play” 😂 that was gold!
@missamanda2703
Жыл бұрын
I love my mother in law. These are hysterical but my in laws are all wonderful.
@christinacarrier8246
Жыл бұрын
Lmao..Nancy don't play, not sure you would make it out alive..I feel this to my core. My husband and I eloped for this reason basically
@MirthMama
Жыл бұрын
All I know is marrying in to a family like this never goes well 😂😂😂
@tashatrine6034
Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you have a "Nancy"😅
@julietteoscaralphanovember2223
Жыл бұрын
There should be some type of compromise but usually doesn't happen. I have all sons and being the groom's mother, we contributed to their weddings, I learned as a mother in law, its best to show up, wear beige and shutup!!
@Cheerleader644860
Жыл бұрын
Yes I hate that when it comes to these weddings and mother's in-laws in daughter's in-laws that people forget all the time that you could let someone else help since it's going to be a very stressful time and event you should let someone else help you with the wedding in the Mother-in-law shouldn't get so upset about a wedding that doesn't belong to her
@jeanetteporter8114
10 ай бұрын
Weddings aren't stressful, people make them stressful, all of this perfect day fantasy, HUMANS love attention, humans love playing victim, so again planning a wedding isn't stressful, PEOPLE MAKE IT STRESSFUL BY ALLOWING OTHERS TO MAKE DECISION ABOUT THE WEDDING, AND TRYING TO HAVE A EXPENSE WEDDING
@aneatasewell8525
Жыл бұрын
From one who knows- If you see any... And I mean ANY signs that the Momma or Father has unnatural control over the life of the person you're thinking of marrying, being a 'Momma's boy' never changes- and if the Mother is an extremely arrogant Narcissist, than Run, and run fast! Your husband will never be able to 'cleve unto you', he'll have to live 'drop in' close, and his family will covertly poison your children against you! 😢 It's Sooo destructive all the way around!
@Goldies86
Жыл бұрын
🙌🏼
@LazyGirl4Life
Жыл бұрын
Ooo..u gotta do Your Mom and his Mom speaking/interacting😂❤
@ladywindzephyr7540
Жыл бұрын
I want to meet the bride's Mom Nancy...
@prynkya
Жыл бұрын
Awww. This wife is amazing because I would not have her patience.
@AllyBubblesSpriggs
Жыл бұрын
Sorry, I already have one toxic mum. If my bfs mum was toxic. I'd run like hell!!! That is just too muc stress and drama...
@ToeTag1968
Жыл бұрын
You know who else doesn't like the beach? Anakin Skywalker, aka Darth Vader. He hates sand.
@Je551kuhhh
Жыл бұрын
It’s coarse, gets everywhere
@alim.9801
Жыл бұрын
@@Je551kuhhh don't forget rough
@michabaran8683
Жыл бұрын
Nancy sounds formidable!
@KatenJace
Ай бұрын
“Nancy don’t play” 😂😂 that’s my own mums name. 🎉😂😂😂
@laurapowersbrown3477
Жыл бұрын
My late husband passed away from cancer in 2011. His mom came to our house the evening of his passing. My 3 friends from work came over to my house to "cheer me up" it really helped to have them there with me. When my MIL saw me laughing with my friends, she blew a gasket, she started yelling, (I do understand he was her only child so I know it was hard). She was telling me how awful it was for me to be laughing and carried on with more insults... Y'all ... My 6 year old son (now 17), said, "Nana, stop yelling at my mom, if you're going to act like that you just need to leave....NOW!" I WAS SHOCKED! My 6 yr old new not to act the way she was and he let her know it. I still think about that night, we barely made it through the celebration of life. We had to make decisions together, rough few days. My late husband had told me that he wanted an Irish funeral (kind of like PS I Love You.) We went a bought Basically the Irish flag colors and some shamrock party favors. He said he wanted it to be "FUN" Our 6 yr old told me that he wanted to dress in a little black vest with a white shirt and black pants. He was adorable! He also wanted the balloons in Skittles colors, so we put those around the front meeting area and he greeted EVERY SINGLE PERSON who walked through the doors and Thanked them for coming. I don't know what I did to deserve this special kid who is now almost a man.. He is my world. Ps. It took 2 years before my MiL and I started conversing again and a couple more to be okay in each other's presence. Thank you for reading. He doesn't see her much anymore. It was a little awkward the last time we were there. (2019) 🤨🤨🤨
@helenamcginty4920
11 ай бұрын
So glad you out transcript up in the corner. Im English but got foxed by the accent a couple of times and realised just how useful this is for students. I live in Spain and only yesterday was discussing how difficult it can be understanding other languages when they are spoken. Reading is easy.
@Shelabayy
Жыл бұрын
My husband and I eloped on the beach, just the two of us. My parents eloped at the courthouse with 2 family members as witnesses, so they were happy to let us go. His parents, however, still will never forgive us. Now that I’m having our first baby, I’m afraid it’s going to be awkward forever. It enrages me that my precious husband has been treated less than his brother and as if he’s doing something wrong by just happily living his life. These should be the best moments in our life, and I find myself stressed about doing anything that can be interpreted as bad on my character. Trying to learn to not care about people’s reactions, especially knowing that’s part of the manipulation strategy.
@jeanetteporter8114
10 ай бұрын
Ask yourself, ARE his parent's opinions on your life worth high blood pressure, a stroke, a heart attack? If the answer is no then tell them if they want a relationship with their grandkids they need to drop the childish crap, get a backbone stand your ground, because you didn't let them control your wedding , stay with that, the best way to get them on board, ignore them, don't call, don't visit, don't speak about them, it will drive them crazy, post picture of your family with the baby and any of his family that not a jerk, BUT WHATEVER YOU DO DONT BOW DOWN TO HIS PARENTS IT WILL NEVER END
@tarotbysemaj2424
10 ай бұрын
“Nancy don’t PLAY”, 🤣😂🤣
@CL-lx2pm
Жыл бұрын
See no cuz a Nancy who don't play is exactly what these people need in their lives. I've never met a Nancy who doesn't throw down like an Avenger. You'd have dinner and a show then!
@johexxkitten
Жыл бұрын
my mum tried to make our wedding into "her wedding" she wasn't marrying, she just wanted it ALL her way. solution? we got married after she died! she wasn't there, it was NOTHING she told us we MUST have... we got married basically without the "Wedding" and it was AWESOME!
@ceephii6594
2 жыл бұрын
...ha, they speak as if I'm actually gonna INVITE my mom to my wedding. My dad can come. She can't.
@katiejenkins4361
Жыл бұрын
This is my biggest fear of inlaws ngl 😅
@TR230de
Жыл бұрын
I NEED TO HAVE NANCY IN A VIDEO NOW 😂
@jeanniewhite9227
Жыл бұрын
Id like Nancy! Nancy don’t play. Me either!! Lol
@jerrykinnin7941
Жыл бұрын
As a man who's been married twice. The best way to get married is go to each families reunion. Find out where everyone lives. THEN DON'T MOVE THERE. as for the wedding kidnap a preacher your best friend his best friend and get hitched.. if either of you cannot leave their family. Then it's not going to work.
@23musicismylife
Жыл бұрын
Now former MIL ruined my wedding. My best friend who was our town's baker made my cupcakes wedding cake and she did it all in my terrible kitchen for free. Now if your wondering why she didn't make the cupcakes at her store. My venue was not in our town but at a Native American reservation area that had no kitchen. My MIL thought they didn't have enough icing on them. My MIL grabbed icing from the grocery store and added them to all the cupcakes not realizing that the icing was custom made. No one at my wedding ate the cupcakes on top of that my MIL decided to go behind my back and pay for my venue when my own mother was about to pay for it. After the wedding my MIL decided to use paying for the venue over my husband and my head.
@CheapsKate77
Жыл бұрын
I think I would've put icing in her head! How can someone be so ridiculous?!
@23musicismylife
Жыл бұрын
@@CheapsKate77 I've been asking myself the same question. I've seen crazier and more extreme. You see some crazy stuff as a wedding photographer, that you think we're making it up but oh, no. My last wedding I did, I got to the venue and literally was getting my camera setup to take pictures of the bride getting ready. I walked into the bathroom and saw a vase going towards the wall. I slowly backed out with my camera in hand. I later asked what happened and the mother-in-law to be said their would be no wedding. Bride confirmed too and she said she really was sick of her husband to be mother. I found out through my friend that did their wedding photos. They ended up eloping instead, to avoid the drama with his mother.
@boogertater
6 ай бұрын
I am so thankful I get along with my daughter's MIL. She is the best, down to earth and absolutely hilarious. And my SIL is the best too. I trust him with everything. I don't play either. 😉
@itsevelynnbabez
Жыл бұрын
Imagine asking her where she wants to sit instead and she picks next to her son because “he needs me to be there for him”
@Goldies86
Жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom: If you're having issues with future in-laws and your SO refuses to speak up on your behalf......they likely never will. Don't think getting married changes everything. What you see is what you get. People can change, but you shouldn't assume they will.
@MorgaineRiddlePrince
Жыл бұрын
My brother in law talks more with our mom than we do.
@sistakia33
Жыл бұрын
"Nancy don't play!" I know what you mean! That's a lot like my mom, "Sherry will shoot you!"
@lisaedwards2542
Жыл бұрын
If I pay she gets no say.
@ugsvciwa
10 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh. My father in law switched all the seats at the rehearsal dinner because he gets anxious if his back is to the door. I stepped in and told him no, he has to sit where the arrangement is. My husband got so scared that he would start yelling that my husband jumped over and insisted that it was fine. The smug look on my father in law knowing that he is better than me. I’m so glad my husband doesn’t jump to obey his dad anymore!
@staceyschleef84
9 ай бұрын
I am blessed with awesome in-laws. My sister in law and I made the favors. She also made a custom card box and guest book. My MIL made 4 flower girl baskets, ring pillow, and centerpieces. My family likes my husband's family...mine likes his...we have had many good times for the last 20+ years! Grateful beyond words for that...❤
@anakatsukifangirl2944
Жыл бұрын
I'm grateful that my s/o's parents love me. I've heard the horror stories of monster in laws trying to upstage their future son or daughter in law at the wedding and I honest to god dare his mother to try to upstage me in my gown if we get married. I fell in love with the dress back when I was with my ex-girlfriend and still want it to this day. It's a black and white vintage Celtic dress with a hood so I don't think I'd need a veil for it.
@lydiaames3441
9 ай бұрын
We had one of those moments where things could be good or go really wrong. My mom & dad made dinner plans with his parents, and we weren't invited. Thank God they became friends that night. It sure helped to not have to referee the in-laws like some of our friends had too.
@idiotsandwich4912
Жыл бұрын
My future father in law is going to be like this. He’s adamant that I become Catholic and raise my future kids Catholic. He’s gonna be surprised when I say NO
@bridgetkleyn9600
10 ай бұрын
Please say no way can you elope and have a wedding where just your friends attend?
@rose4490
9 ай бұрын
*"NANCY DON'T PLAY"!!!* 🤣
@rachelf1599
7 ай бұрын
My MIL was upset that my husband and I were paying for our wedding instead of sticking to “tradition”, where my parents would foot the bill. She was hounding me and hounding me about it and finally demanded to know why my parents weren’t paying for the wedding, and I finally told her it’s because my parents spent ALL of the savings for their children’s collage fund, wedding, EVERYTHING on my sister’s cancer treatment. After revealing that, my MIL still said they should have budgeted for every scenario and it’s a shame her son should have to pay for the wedding. She then continued on saying her parents paid for her wedding and how lovely it was to not worry about a thing, and finished by saying it’s a shame her son has to worry about money and hopes our wedding will still be fine.
@emailtosumesh
5 ай бұрын
"Church wedding of no wedding at all." Yeah i hope they had a beach wedding. I might when i grow up
@audreysmith6923
Жыл бұрын
Nancy don’t play 😂🤣🙌😎
@silvam7408
Жыл бұрын
my husband and I had a court wedding and both of our parents were pissed but my parents behaved while his mom was throwing a tantrum and he ended up trying to console her at her house while I was at an Olive Garden with my friends and mom :| he learned his lesson to prioritize our marriage over her feelings
@marlynnek6449
Жыл бұрын
Run. Run away. When you marry a man you marry his mother. If you think she's bad now wait until you have children. Think long and hard before you decide you want to be chained to that woman for the rest of your life. I hope this is 99% humor and only 1% truth. I managed the last 36 years with my mother-in-law, who is now 90, by saying NO a lot, having strong boundaries, and basically being unliked by her. But she doesn't like anybody so I'm in pretty good company. LOL
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