My parents were really toxic and tbh it’s affects me now I have low self esteem and no confidence at all I couldn’t even communicate properly with anyone not even with my parents and they blame me but they still don’t understand
@moodmeditation4458
Жыл бұрын
Same.
@ayeshakhurram9672
Жыл бұрын
Get help of a good therapist dear...... To function properly n over come your emotional damage, may Allah makes it easy for you 🤲🏼
@razamughal4582
Жыл бұрын
They will roti their old age. Just wait.
@TOMB0I_1020
Жыл бұрын
That's what makes us empath or maybe a codependent or ppl pleaser for our generation but girl stay alert get to know your attachment theory and pray for a good husband in future not for sociopath and self awareness is most amazing thing ✨ and trust Allah and keep Faith pain is temporary world is temporary don't expect peace in there lol but pray beshq
@hinagill9051
Жыл бұрын
Same
@tanusid4455
Жыл бұрын
Kindly do a session for evil and toxic words that parents use and say to their kids.
@waqarali-oz9rc
Жыл бұрын
I love my parents even though they're pretty toxic, my sister too, makes me feel So hopeless at times, always criticizes me ... And I really don't wanna be like them, I wanna educate myself and be a better parent because I read in my books ke Bache Allah ki taraf se parents ke Liye imanat Hain and as a Muslim hummae imanat ma khayanat nhi krni chahiye.
@afreenparveen2684
2 жыл бұрын
Literally "Allah narm hai narmi ko pasand karta hai" should be printed 👌
@Sameen-l9i
4 ай бұрын
Apart from teenage,i being in my adult-hood suffers from all of the above; being discussed in the session yet i have a strong connection with Allah talah ,who has rewarded me with the independency and other bold initiatives.Yet it made me cry,scream a lot regarding what I had suffered from.As I always try to bear more than that,even accepting what I couldn't but that actually doesn't makes you valuable what I thought.
@arzooimtiyaz2980
2 жыл бұрын
Plz a session on how to select a life partner, in present time, there are lots of barriers exist in early or late marriage . There are lots of people who are willing to marrie but non wants to marrie them becoz of in so called criteria like good looks, qualification, job, etc , they don't fit.
@zk9961
2 жыл бұрын
As a young mom - how do we learn parenting since everything is changing around us so rapidly.. what my mom did will not work on my kids..
@zk9961
2 жыл бұрын
@52:00 empathy - wow. I literally got the answer of training in one word. My mom says the same thing to deal with people.. i guess i need to empathize with the kids
@catinthebread
Жыл бұрын
Judge situations between you and your mother to understand better of what to do and what not to do. Do activities to teach them new things.
@talatkhalid3593
Жыл бұрын
111ل11111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111لل 11¹آقا قابل
@razamughal4582
Жыл бұрын
Successful parenting can only be achieved by knowing your religion, knowing that pakistan is ex hindu with a hindu culture, then making the children understand what islam says when they see western culture and hindu culture. Explain that this is our culture, we love it because we are ex hindu, however this is not what islam says. Explain the solutions that islam provides when an issue arrises in the west. Tell them the difference between cultures. Pataans are ex jews thats why despite living in pakistan they have a different ( and better, more connected with islam) culture and a different identity. Tell them about geography, have a map on the wall. Tell them about islamic history. Why shias exist. Tell them they cant marry qadiyanis and shias. Tell them why islam wants a man to have four wives. Tell them islam is not racist. Although marrying in a different culture changes ones life to the point a lot of people are not comfortable in it. Tell daughters they are allowed to demand their inheritance from their brothers in the event both parents die. The brother WILL have to arrange finances, take out a loan, or sell the house. Tell them the importance of education and good grades. People are so thick they dont know the basics, thats why they dont raise kids well. Striving to keep them in good schools is one of the best things you can do. Keep them away from riff raff. And keep them connected with nature. Being outside is good for mental health. Too many mothers are so lazy they dont even take them to the local park, Keep them in local rubbish schools. Then you have mothers who if they have money take them abroad on holiday, never mind the local park. You have mothers who wake up earlier than others and who drive miles to good schools. Dont discourage them from playing outside alone, and going out with their friends alone. Associate fresh home cooking with a good upbringing of children. Especially with sons, who knows what kind of wife he will end up with. He could end up with one that boils a packet of pasta every day.
@KandR101
Жыл бұрын
They touched almost every aspect in a very comprehensive way . I use to wonder about all this and still do in my 30s that was it right for parents to insult and abuse like that and finally when a grown up child in mid 20s speaks up even without using harsh words they are left guilty that they said something bad to their parent and Allah will not be pleased with them.Most of us grows up opposite to islamic teachings and parents are not ready admit the correct ones because they are holding on to their old ways not Islam in reality . My household trauma is never ending and would not heal . But I am educating myself for future generation and brining changes in me because I fell in love with the true and correct Islam. It's incredible hard because in the society people like us are considered outlaws and have hear the words that feels like a knife through the heart but hopefully Allah is watching over and will help. May Allah give all of us correct knowledge and help us to be steadfast on it .
@island.91
9 ай бұрын
You have explained what I went and am still going through perfectly
@Awarabillay
2 жыл бұрын
Although I am not married yet still these podcasts are si informative MaashaAllah💟💟 JazakAllah khair. Ameen.
@aaminah952
9 ай бұрын
Let the parents understand that their exists a problem between them and their children. Most of the parents doesn't acknowledge this and thus the tussle goes on...
@Aisha_Atique_Arar
7 ай бұрын
100 %
@wonderfulworld2678
2 жыл бұрын
Kahan ta ye discussion is tareeqe ka lookout mere time pe . Love u all for such an eye opener . Ye sab gutti ab mai apne ghair shaadi shuda bacchon ko pila rahi hoon , jazak Allah khair .
@hayansaif2638
Жыл бұрын
Subhaan Allah what a discussion by chosen ones , jazakillah ekhair kaseera
@SanaKhokher
2 жыл бұрын
Child abuse is a major problem in Pakistan but government doesn't do anything for children. It is not mandatory that every mother and father is like angel.
@TOMB0I_1020
Жыл бұрын
💯
@unknownuser298
Жыл бұрын
100%
@yasinzahid3233
Жыл бұрын
True
@asmatanweer1685
Жыл бұрын
So true
@ZuhaaFareed-hg4dn
Жыл бұрын
No bilkul Galt Soch hai apki first of all main apka sath agree toh Kar rahi Hun ke yh social problem hai Pakistan ki or main bhi is problem SE suffer Kar rahi Hun but iska har GIZ yh matlb Nahi ke hum apni government SE koi demand karain ap Kia chahti hain than per bhi Europe wala haal hojaya bacha Ka Jake apna parents KO jailon main dalwain or phir muqafat unka sath bhi ho isbat Ka socha mtlb yho hai ke family system barbad hona Hume khud ki islah Karni Chahiye apni family ki
@zainabasif8737
2 жыл бұрын
It was wonderful talk Ali Bhai kindly do some discussion for single mothers how they could be good parents
@muniraahmad1191
Жыл бұрын
Too much of everything is bad, result is zero, Related to the good deeds it’s with freedom of choice, so In my opnion and try to improve in me to balance and with memorizion it’s important to understand why we are doing.
He is right.mera experience yeh hi hey k mey ney apney bachon ko azadi di or bataya k tum kersaktey ho .to us mey confidence aya or us sey questions ky to us mey adat pari questions kerney ki pehley wo merey question ka answer detey phir mey deti rahi.phir jub wo barey hogay to ab wo merey question ka ans detey hain
@fathimarincy
8 ай бұрын
My parents had taken all decisions for me ....even if try to choose cloth or food from table ...i dont had any role Result : I couldnt figure out what i like and dislike I had married for 4 years But still couldnt My husband is frustrated with me
@Aisha_Atique_Arar
7 ай бұрын
Are they your parents or enemy? Make Dua for them.
@island.91
9 ай бұрын
I am 32 years old and I have very very very traumatic experiences and memories since I was 3 and my parents honestly are very toxic and I really don’t trust anyone. I was abused mentally emotionally mentally and most importantly SPIRITUALLY. I still live in a highly toxic environment which I still live with my toxic parents. My parents led me to a wrong path my parents divorced when I was 3 then my stepdad and mom married then the trouble didn’t stop there he molested me and didn’t stop until this year then emotionally abused me and gave everything to my older brother. Where I’m left stranded I called that favoritism. They do keep everything under the rug like Indian people do! My mom took me to spiritually based people and did work on me. Both my stepdad and mom BOTH tried to KILL ME? My mom family is highly judgmental. I have trusted them but not no more. I have done NOTHING WRONG TOO THEM THEY DO ALL OF THIS TOO ME AND OF COURSE I AM CONFUSED WITH THIS RELIGION AND ALLAH.
@Waleed123-u1k
7 ай бұрын
May Allah ease your life forever and ever ❤❤
@fatimamudassar2049
Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for discussing on such an important issue.. As a mother of a 4 years old kid, I learnt so much from you guys.. JazakAllah..
They say if your parents are toxic, you won't hate them, you will hate yourself..!
@javeriazaman6962
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent topic I can listen all day to discussion.You all are doing excellent work May Allah swt give all you reward .Waiting for more new topics
@shabanaashraf4693
2 жыл бұрын
Aslaamwalikum as parents we need to have a balance of deen and duniyah. This is a challenge may Allah azawajal make it easier for us all to achieve Ameen.
@rukhsanamojiz342
Жыл бұрын
Very beautiful discussion I am very proud of your parents Allah gave these beautiful children
@lone_heena_official
Жыл бұрын
Ya Allah mery husband mai bhi aise best qualities dena he should be the best father and me best mom bcz i suffer a lot 😭😭😭
@sal13luckyforme
7 ай бұрын
ماشاء الله amazing discussion. I am 53 and suffer the trauma of abuse from my childhood . Beatings and very abusive language, labels , taunts were normal behaviour from my mother . She still says I am your mother and have a God given right to beat you . The humiliation and horrific treatment has caused me suffering which now my children sadly suffer too . How do I get over this . I have been an obedient daughter but cannot carry on anymore . I am God conscious and don’t want to neglect my duties towards my mother . I am also human and in psychological distress. What can I do to help myself ? Please give me some indication . Thank you ❤
@sulmanchaudhry7918
2 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah bht acha topic tha aur sb guests ki baatin b
@online-brand-shopping
2 жыл бұрын
plz recite at least 5 times...اللھم صل علی محمد وعلی ال محمد کما صلیت علی ابراھیم وعلی ال ابراھیم انک حمید مجید اللھم بارک علی محمد وعلی ال محمد کما بارکت علی ابراھیم وعلی ال ابراھیم انک حمید مجید... jazak Allah
@W4jeeh4._
5 ай бұрын
I am 19 and facing the toxic parents
@masoodasubhan2194
Жыл бұрын
Zaberdast eye opening discussion v right talks JAZAKALLAH KHAIR.
@ALLAHkabanda8125
8 ай бұрын
46:40 respect others is key to earn respect When you grow then responsibilities aati hai 52:00 true 53:20 his favourite hadis , Allah taala ko naram mijaj Pasand hai 1:13:30 true
@motivationalreminders9746
Жыл бұрын
Most awaited video from Ali bhai....so happy to see the title 😀
@hasanmahbub-ulkarim602
2 жыл бұрын
You are missing the point. Do you know what bad parents is. 1. Beating wife Infront of children. 2. Uttering Supreme bad words. 3. Keeping everyone on alert all the time. 4. Keep cursing on small mistakes. 5. Parental alienation. 6. Father is full of anger and emitting fire, and mother is crying Infront of children. 7. Narcissistic father and mother. 8. Treating daughter in law as house servants 9. Create fear inside the mind of the children. I can go on. What you are talking about privacy is minor things.
@fatimatariq9375
2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@moodmeditation4458
Жыл бұрын
Right and thing themselves as superior to Allah then others.
@artismypassion
Жыл бұрын
I really liked the parenting discussions in your channel!
@lailatalat2225
2 жыл бұрын
Extremely beneficial session! May Allah bless you all abundantly.
@moazzamkhan398
Жыл бұрын
Mere parents partiality krte hain mujh me or mere bhai me. Wo haq baat nhi krte. Mai is wajah se depression me ja rha hu. Mere liye dua kre.
@Islam-videos835
Жыл бұрын
my mother and father don't even trust me my cousin ran away from home near her marriage that time i was 11 and now i am 17 but still i am not able to gain their trust and it is a great trauma for me that they think of me so low they use bad words in front of the guest my mother never did asked me how i am doing in school or in college how i was bullied sexullay by my own classmates well they are not gonna do anything but gonna tell me that i am useless and a weak person because i am a girl and when i try to be a little strong they say i am overacting...... i am not saying they are toxic but why treat me like this because i was born as a girl or why because i don't have good skin colour or is it because i have bad face feature it is not my fault that i was born with ugly feature i do love my self but they everyday make me realise that beauty is very important
@Ginger-u5d
2 жыл бұрын
26:30 Kuch Parents boht zyda abusive language use kartay hein boht ghaleez galiyan nikaltay hein slander kartay hein impure curses nikaltay hein. So it should also be considered as "LOVE"? Some RICH parents force their children to go and beg to your relatives our money is for someone else. Some parents do not let their children to get married just to not being lonely. Means some parents just provide their children "Worst Imprisonment". So is it Also Considered as "LOVE"? 100% I am convicted that no one will answer. Or will try to find any way to let go the parents off the hook.
@KaleemNoonari
2 жыл бұрын
those people are not guided , not on the right path.
@Medicolifeshorts
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, it happens too often and parents need tO develop the capacity to understand their children who consider bringing up the child everything !
@Curlzzz1
2 жыл бұрын
absolutely.. some parents are like this.. and it's really a sad fact. But no one has any solution for it because they think parents can never be wrong.
@ayeshakhurram9672
Жыл бұрын
It all happens when you are far away from deen ......and then become a parent with out knowing the teachings of islam, if we want to bring change ..... We will to start from ourselves i.e learn deen so we dont make the same mistakes when we become a parent.
@taniafawad1808
Жыл бұрын
Bht hi acha bht helpful JazakAllahkher ap Sab kq
@Samiyasaghir
Жыл бұрын
Very informative, thanks for this podcast 🫡👏🏻
@aliyamushtaq9073
Жыл бұрын
Ma sha Allah ! Booster for us being parents .
@Red_Ninja-w
2 жыл бұрын
Mere parents ny beton ko itna space de diya hy k aaj aakhir umar me akaily hain 😔
@allyayaan5
Жыл бұрын
Was excited coz i thought it was in English? It's misleading to have English Titles then have the topic in another language without subtitles. Very important topic 😢
@yagsarsh7165
7 ай бұрын
Aunty Alimah, can you shed some light on the treatment of daughters in our society if you don’t know boys are treated better than most girls in our well educated and desi culture kindly shed some light on the topic in some lecture . Jazaak Allah
@shandarjan1656
2 жыл бұрын
JAzak Allah
@shaikh423
2 жыл бұрын
بِـــــسْمِ اللَّـــــهِ الرَّحْـــــمَنِ الرَّحِيْـــــمِ السلام عليكم ورحمةﷲوبرکاته CHOOSE A PARTNER People who love for the sake of Allah, He does not invite to disobedience, does not invite courtship. He treats us according to Islamic teachings. He will forbid what is displeasing to Allah, If it is love for the sake of Allah, surely he hates sinful acts and does not act in the name of Allah for Love. The sign of a person who loves you for the sake of Allah is that he wants safety and happiness for you in the world and the hereafter and he does not expect anything in return to be loved or anything else from you. The point is people who love for the sake of Allah, he loves goodness, beauty, and truth (things that are pleasing to Allah) because he knows Allah likes that and he is like that because of Allah's grace, not because of his greatness. And those who love for the sake of Allah, he can also hate for the sake of Allah, namely hating the things that Allah does not like. So if you want to choose a partner for istiqomah in this world and the hereafter, look for one who loves you for the sake of Allah. Look for those who love you because of your religion. So a Muslim should strive to get the most honorable potential partner in the sight of Allah, namely someone who is obedient to religious rules. Rasulullah also recommends choosing a wife who is good in religion. From Abu Hurairah radhiallahu'anhu, the Messenger of Allah said, “Women are usually married for four reasons: because of their wealth, because of their position, because of their looks and because of their religion. So, choose a woman whose religion is good. Otherwise, you will surely lose.” (Narrated by Bukhari no. 5090, Muslim no. 1466). From Abu Hatim Al Muzanni radhiallahu'anhu, Rasulullah also said, "If a man comes to you whose religion and character you are pleased with, then marry him. If not, there will be fitnah and corruption on earth." (HR. Tirmidhi no. 1085. Al Albani said in Sahih At Tirmidhi that this hadith is hasan lighairihi). If so, then the science of religion is an important point of concern in choosing a partner. Because how can a person carry out Allah's commands and stay away from His prohibitions, if he does not understand religion So choose a potential life partner who has a good understanding of religion. Because one of the signs of a person who is given goodness by Allah is to have a good religious understanding. "The person whom Allah wills for good will be made aware of the science of religion."
@maazali8032
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a lot to say
@ateeqsrehman9230
2 жыл бұрын
Asalamualaikum Ali Bhai, is there a way to get in touch with you.
@hajraabdullah1725
2 жыл бұрын
جزاكم الله خير 🤲🏻🤲🏻
@MahiSiddiqui-mo2nc
Жыл бұрын
Parents ko deen par kaise lae agr wo namaz na padhte ho gali galoj krte ho please btae
@faiz1876
2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful podcast...... Jazakallah
@abdullhalimtomal9760
2 жыл бұрын
Very much more learning conversation.
@rizk131
2 жыл бұрын
Arabic language should be taught first then Hifz should be done. To understand what one is learning.
@har00nsaeed93
2 жыл бұрын
100% agreed. Astaghfirullah, but Higz without Arabic void.
@careergamer9118
2 жыл бұрын
Very nice conversation 👏 .jazak Allah
@mahamkhan8215
Жыл бұрын
I think parenting is big responsibility. Or parents ka right ha wo us ka phone check kar sakte han
@aaliyaiqrakausar583
2 жыл бұрын
Jazakllah khair
@islamic_muslim_life3573
Жыл бұрын
SIR ABDUL ALEEM ❤
@SabaKhan-sy8zf
5 ай бұрын
Na hi sub parents toxic hota hain aur na hi sub bachey aik sa hotey hain
@user-ni1mh6hr9k
Жыл бұрын
what a great podcast !!
@TowardsInfinity
Жыл бұрын
Please make video on Relations with Siblings..
@sadatalikhan2603
Жыл бұрын
Best mashaAllah
@rubbiazaman
Жыл бұрын
Ali bhai mere 3 bche hain pr mere maa bilkul aese hain like toxic mom even after my marraige wo mere life control krti theen ab bht rokne k bawajood wo kahi kahi koshish krti hain..yhn main ye btadon mere mother single parent rahi hain
@summaiyavlogs
Жыл бұрын
my marriege was forced but what if i hurted my parents but now i am sad and repenting on it will Allah forgive me ???
@humee7088
Жыл бұрын
Awesome thanks
@khadijaali3322
2 жыл бұрын
Allah jeeee i wish i would be the student of zeeshaaaaaaann Bhai as well❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Aisha_Atique_Arar
7 ай бұрын
MUJHE AFSOS HO RAHA HAY YE PODCAST BANANE MEN BUHUT DER KAR DI. JO ITNI ZYADA BACHE TABAH HO CHUKE HAIN, AAJ PAKISTAN MEN KUCH KARNE KE QABIL NAHIN TOXIC PARENTING KI WAJAH SE, MUJH SE US KA DUKH SAMBHALE NAHIN SAMBHALTA!!!
@umesabeeh2201
Жыл бұрын
Aoa jazak Allah Kia Pindi main koi lecture plan hy ap ka issee topic per
@pranjaliychaturvedi202
2 жыл бұрын
If it is about parenting, there should have been a seat for sir sahil adeem
@sadiqatariq5887
2 жыл бұрын
Behtreen
@Riok648
Жыл бұрын
How can we contact you people?
@aaminamohammad4516
Жыл бұрын
Inspirational....
@ahsanafzal9104
Жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah
@muniraahmad1191
Жыл бұрын
Quality time is very important ✅
@saniakhan5392
Жыл бұрын
I have a question plz ans.agar apky siblings mae se kisi jy apky sath bachpan mae sexual relation rakha ho to Kya unko maff kr Dena chay.Allahnoe chor Dena chay ya Kya krna chay Kesy unko face kren
@hasansiddiqui3422
Жыл бұрын
fakaru mina ta'yassira minal quran is it write? if yes then what's the meaning
@RaptorAbdullah
Жыл бұрын
As-salamu alaykum bahut behtarin topic aapane nikala hai baccha jab tak metric nahin kar le jab tak use Pran Hills Nahin karvana chahie Jab vah Matric kar le Apne shauk se vah Quran hifz Karega to Jyada Behtar to padh sakega aur Achcha Rahega uske liye
@naziarafique1125
Жыл бұрын
I think we should work on language learning
@joyjay4738
2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah🤗🤗🤗🤗
@ayeshaahmed2170
Жыл бұрын
Same asa mara abu aj tak ek ek minutes pa namz namz namz namz or baki kise bat pa amal ni karty mari ami ki izat nhi karty ham sa kabi pyar sa bt nhi karty gar ka mhaol aj tak karb ha ham jwan hogya hain bachy waly hogya hain bacha aj be asi ha
@nidanido9480
2 жыл бұрын
Aap Ka podcast bht he zabardast tha Par Mera aik sawal Ali aap SA k parents Jo new parent's hia wo kasay sikha means humhary Pakistan mein mujha nhi lagta k parents k lya koie workshop hoti hai JB aap parents Bana Tu ya sub aap na apni bachao k sth Karna kasay ? Aur humhary ghr Ka mahol Tu Bura hia koie suna ko tiyar nhi hota
@islamicurdubayan4122
2 жыл бұрын
Galti na maa-baap ki hai Na bachche ki hai Galti un ulemao ki Hai jo aalim banane ki jagah Hafiz banane par zor de rahe h Jo arbi jante hai wo hifz karte hai unke liye to thik h Par un bacho ke liye Quran ke kya mayne jinhone Quran to pura hifz kr liya lekin tarzum "tafseer" ka ata-pata Hi nahi
@sabakhan-en8yd
Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah Aunty 😘
@nahidshahab7421
2 жыл бұрын
Words are true
@farzanaejaz3100
Жыл бұрын
very good
@hunza.qureshiqureshi7949
5 ай бұрын
I am a toxic parent and I don't know how to deal with it I don't want my kids like me I am stuck
@lovelystudent1
2 ай бұрын
I'm glad you admitted your mistake. Ask Allah for help and watch Dr. Javed Iqbal's videos on parenting.
@tofayel_ahmed
6 ай бұрын
The lady is biased about parents.
@nighatseema2914
2 жыл бұрын
Independent banana hey to bachon ko duniya ko khud watch kerney dain.
@iqraanwar8807
2 жыл бұрын
Zabrdast keep it up.
@qammerjahanara7732
Жыл бұрын
Hr lamha aik chees ho gi to bshir ka mahaul n match nai krts aik haddd hoti h haan yahi mahaul thha to phhir uss ka kisi Sura mubarik ka waqea btate tlawst bndd kr k drmiyana treeqa ALLAH N KHA H
@sairahnaeem1973
Жыл бұрын
@Mohammad Ali bhai: how to contact you for my son's counciling?
@amnasdiary_
Ай бұрын
My parents are extremely toxic that i cant even define in words they keep saying me such words that have hearted me so badly that i am getting panic attacks & panic attacks are so bad that i hate when it happen just caz words they keep saying me is getting my inner peace affected very bad yar mama used to call me kanjari randi without any reason abu keep saying such words like tmhy mn chaklay p chor ata hu just caz i went out with my female cxn for ice cream & it i was late only half of an hour of my curfew & when i keep saying that stop staying such words to me they start begin saying achaa itna pathanay k ye faida huaa har wkt mjhy taaany dete hain k humny tmhy parhaya hai tm p paisay lgaya hain or agrr maa baap parhaty bhi hain tu ye unka huq huta hai k wu bachu ko parhai in k 2 bete b hain ik doc banra hai or wu bhi private pr sab sy zyada us p paisay lg rhy hainn lakin tana mjhy dena hai mjhy inhu ny meri pasand ka professional nh chunay dya inhu ny apni marzi ki kb mn inky pasand k professional mn achi nahi hu tu tana b mjhy dete hain kia kch nahi kha inhu ny mjhy mera mental state itni kharab hu chuki hain na k mjhy ghar mn rehna azaaab lagta hai mjhy bahar gali mm b kharna pary in jsy parents k bagair tu mjhy bht sakoon mily ga meri tu apni dushman k lia b dua hai k asy parents unko kabhi b na mily kabhi b nahi asa maa ju din raat baap ko bharkati rehti hai mre khilaaf or wu a kar marta h mjhy baghair koi waja ke galiyan deta hai itni gandi gandi k main bayan bhi nahi kr skti likh b nahi sakti k kasi gandi gandi galiyan deta hai ye mard mjhy tbvh mjhy in dono sy nafrat hugai hai jinhu ny mjhsy kabhi bhi piyar sy baat tak nahi ki na kbhi mjhy mre naam sy pukara mjhy kehte kanjari idar au randi idar au ye sb bht toxic hai itna uff Allah sy dua h mjhy sabar dain bas kch or bas main nahi mere main apny pairu p khari hujau bbaag jaugi inko murr k b nahi dkhugi or khud ik ghar ly kr nukri kar kamaugi apna pait khhd bharogo takay bar bar tanay na sunnay paray k humny tm p paisay lgay hain bsss ab meri zindagi ka yahi maqsad
@aimmybutt213
Жыл бұрын
What to do when mothers decision in term of parenting is degraded by other in joint family system
@Shail_mua
Жыл бұрын
If your parents are toxic you won't trust anyone.
@rubbiazaman
Жыл бұрын
Yehi mere sath hua hai
@Eish_QueenXx
Жыл бұрын
True
@TOMB0I_1020
Жыл бұрын
@@rubbiazaman ptsd l also don't know what to do I got learned helplessness 🆘
@rubbiazaman
Жыл бұрын
@@TOMB0I_1020 what happened believe in Allah
@TOMB0I_1020
Жыл бұрын
@@rubbiazaman hm :(
@javeriaijaz8558
Жыл бұрын
I'm just at my breaking point. I'm so done with everything. No matter whatever I do its never enough. They are always scolding me and taunting me for everything I do. I can't even ask for my favourite food now. Its pathetic. I'm just done.
@RehanShaikh-ld6gc
7 ай бұрын
hows the situation now?
@thesavageunnie
6 ай бұрын
Same siso i can understand your situation...😔
@naved5209
5 ай бұрын
R u any way better now?
@ShahzadKhan-hc3wk
3 ай бұрын
u should lower your expectations with your parent As Allah has mentioned in Quran that he is the only helper and no one else not even parents U should avoid your parents t There curses have no value Infront of Allah bcz u don't deserve that and its for little mistakes Allah also tells to maintain a distance from your family cuz he knows some people r toxic by nature
@lovelystudent1
2 ай бұрын
And then you just want to runaway from everything. 🙂
@Salmanaseh
Жыл бұрын
Parents who are narcissist damage their kids to an imaginable level. Hyper critical parents need to get therapy.
@TOMB0I_1020
Жыл бұрын
Also the toxic shame it's hard to imagine
@5mintalk
Жыл бұрын
Literally I'm unable to stop my tears while listening to this. I'm struggling with the trauma i got from my parents and I'm also mother of 2 kids and i want to become a better mother for them.
@medicomuslimahdr
Жыл бұрын
So beautiful sis and above all be best friend to ur kids .toxic parenting is so difficult
@truebeliever3948
Жыл бұрын
👑
@senponyo
8 ай бұрын
May Allah ﷻ make things easy for you sister. Same, I'm healing from traumas.
@MAKILLLL18
2 ай бұрын
😢
@muskanbegum7020
Ай бұрын
Mee also
@maz127
Жыл бұрын
Yes parents can be toxic. Mental abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse and creating highly unhealthy environment at home is all toxic. Any parent telling their kids badly about the other partner or faults of other to gain sympathy from kids is toxic. But parents especially mothers do it. They talk negatively and badly about children’s father to children, which is highly toxic.
@farheenansari2962
Жыл бұрын
Exactly same story ،،😭😭😭
@madihailahi1457
6 ай бұрын
Do not generalise mothers, in my case it's the opposite, m so done with my toxic father n his abuse. M done.
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