This is happening in my family. A feminine leaning cousin, 3 kids, married long-term. A bit of a shy nerd who never felt confident. All of a sudden, he decided he wanted to be a woman; thus, he changed his name and is currently on hormone therapy. They had to move back in with his parents, with three small kids due to a "burnout." All in the name to live his " personal truth. " He still looks like a man because he's in his 40s. His wife stayed out of sheer desperation to keep the family unit going, taking on a " lesbian" relationship role. Imagine the sheer lunacy and selfisheness to be able to drag your family through such destruction so you can chase your delusional sense of distorted self.
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
It is risky to stay, as I see in the data on us I'm collecting that these husbands are often engaging in sex outside with men or prostitutes. From the women I've got information on who stayed for 3 or 5 or 10 years, it does them harm, leading to problems of anxiety being held in the body: panic attacks, teeth grinding, muscle spasms, nightmares. I hope she'll find enough help to get him out and start her next chapter.
@maryrankin9869
Жыл бұрын
God Bless those children. Something horribly went wrong and someone should have at least rescued those poor little things.
@NickyM_0
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@NickyM_0
Жыл бұрын
@@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Ute, are you on Tik Tok? There’s a trans widow on there that my heart bleeds for. She made a video FINALLY letting out that she misses her husband (she’s a fitness instructor so she tries to be positive , positive & more positive but you can tell she is dying inside) and of course now she has been turned into a lesbian. Meanwhile her husband is so happy, living his best life in his delusion (aided by the affirmations of other trans who see him as a courageous and brave idol). He has boasted on Tik Tok of sleeping with other men, whilst married but that’s all about validating being a woman.
@non_ideological_transexual7414
Жыл бұрын
Very selfish thing to do, it is women that have made it so very easy to leave marriages & now a few selfish men who likely have AGP are leaving to "find themselves" & their "personal truth " as women have been doing well. They have a right to do even if they to are destroying family's & marriages because there are no boundaries for women or men to hold them or constrain them to a marriage or relationship. Well done feminists
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, Tammy! It was wonderful to revisit our conversation. I now have data on the experiences of 53 trans widows, and counting. May you walk in the light, always. Ute
@TammyPetersonPodcast
Жыл бұрын
Good work Ute. I’m looking forward to the results of your questionnaire . Thanks again for joining me in conversation
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
Yes, our cohort grows, our need for healing ideas must grow equally~@@TammyPetersonPodcast
@amyc.peters1064
Жыл бұрын
❤thank you for writing and talking about this❤
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, I hope to gather information on our experiences for the rest of my active life. @@amyc.peters1064
@sspashleymae24
11 ай бұрын
I am a transwidow too and my kids were little. 2 months old and 3 when I discovered what he was doing. This happened in 2020. Thank you for voicing this!
@emd5095
Жыл бұрын
WOW! So struck by the beauty & femininity of these two women.
@glszq4
Жыл бұрын
On the thumbnail, definitely
@y2ksurvivor
Жыл бұрын
@@glszq4still more feminine than your husband turned "wife" who will never be feminine, only effeminate at best. your comment is an obvious neg on these women from someone that claims to be oh-so-tolerant based on your other comments. not shocking in the least, par for the course in fact.
@sugarspice7768
Жыл бұрын
It is the natural, aging beauty of the mature and confident woman. There is strength and gentle at the same time in the countenance. There is wisdom in their words, but a desire to listen as well. It is a beauty inside and out. It is true beauty.
@rosemaryalles6043
11 ай бұрын
Yes. Gratitude.
@justininscoe6913
Жыл бұрын
As a Gay man, God BLESS you both. Tammy I've followed Jordan for years. Its so wonderful to see you WELL and bringing voice to the divine feminine spirit. God- The eternal Spirit of Renewal is present here. Thank you.
@ainarsavotins3659
11 ай бұрын
@rxdeath I wish people would argue with such intensity to love and care for someone...At least, sometimes.
@Proverbs--tx6yr
11 ай бұрын
@@ainarsavotins3659there's no argument, that person is merely stating facts, but most don't like facts and truths...
@ainarsavotins3659
11 ай бұрын
@@Proverbs--tx6yr Well, you can pick up whatever flowers from the garden you want - fresh or rotten - and make a garland for yourself or others. Will they appreciate it as with the case of @rxdeath who is trying to discriminate and attack some particular part of society. Also, he getting emotional and already saying words like "So when you refer to "god" your referring to some vague spiritual non-sense?". It implies several things - one thing for sure - he has never had experience of God (nor his love which you would shower upon others) and another using identity of being part of certain religious group (trying to act out as Christian) to attack another part of society (LGBT community). Using knowledge as a pretext to discriminate certain part or group of society. Isn`t love more important quality of God then knowledge? That`s a good question...
@dewilew2137
6 ай бұрын
There is no such thing as “the divine feminine spirit”. Good lord, this is the most misogynistic, pseudoscientific nonsense I’ve ever heard. This is nearly as bad as the nonsense the gender crowd talks about. 🙄
@deborahanne9793
Жыл бұрын
The story Ute told about the child who said she wanted to be called by a different name, and how Ute handled it, is worth the entire video.
@Gingerblaze
Жыл бұрын
Do you know the time stamp?
@deborahanne9793
Жыл бұрын
Starts around 57.20
@dewilew2137
6 ай бұрын
@@deborahanne9793 57:20
@bluejay2309
11 ай бұрын
As a 54 year old woman, I often tell my 28 year old daughter that I wish young women had the confidence of us older women. The world would be a different place! ❤
@Simpy553
10 ай бұрын
Go take your estrogen your menopause is showing
@r.m5883
Жыл бұрын
My father cross dresses and was affirmed similarly. He also hid it from everyone. Funny enough i always felt his sexual perversion in that i wanted to always be covered and less feminine around him. Curious how that worked. Thanks for this, will send to my mother x
@sia9907
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for what you went through. There are other women who've experienced the same, though, and I hope you'll find some of their stories on KZitem.
@scaringclaring5240
Жыл бұрын
It's a pity adults won't keep their sh-t away from children. That's the least good they could do.
@TammyPetersonPodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. God bless you and your mother
@jame2182
Жыл бұрын
These men claiming to be women ARE DANGEROUS
@-Stella-Maris-
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you've had to experience that. Your feelings of wanting to cover yourself may well have been instinctively self-protective.
@winniecash1654
Жыл бұрын
I just came across this video. I didn't know there is a community of trans widows. Can't wait to join in since I'm one of them in this marginalized group.
@-Stella-Maris-
Жыл бұрын
It's a growing community, Ute has done a great deal of work to help survivors find their voices. There are also parents-of, children-of, and siblings-of coming forward with their own stories, trying to find healing.
@NickyM_0
Жыл бұрын
@@-Stella-Maris- It must be a living hell for these families.
@harrietbrown8807
Жыл бұрын
praying rosary everyday keeps me grounded
@ceeez3072
Жыл бұрын
Hi Tammy, as a therapist I know several therapists with common sense and I pray they stay that way. It’s a privilege to know some even if they are few and far between.
@babs_babs
Жыл бұрын
oh so you do conversion therapy?
@robertmarshall2502
Жыл бұрын
@@babs_babsOh so you do bare-faced lying? "Conversion therapy" was a terrible practice for homosexuals that is incredibly rare nowadays (particularly outside of the USA) . The name has been appropriated for exploratory therapy, the type most ppl assume would happen in affirmative care but doesn't. I wonder if you've read about the Dutch protocol and know how many kids in affirmative care are same-sex attracted? You don't think that is more apt for the name "conversion therapy"?
@babs_babs
Жыл бұрын
@@robertmarshall2502 “exploration” therapy the way you mean it IS conversion therapy. you are intentionally treating gender incongruence (not gender dysphoria) as the psychological symptom that needs to be cured. you’re trying to change someone’s gender through manipulation and coercion in order to make them fit into your narrow world view. and you’re citing a well known quack. ffs i’ve been able to publish papers, it’s not that hard to publish bullshit in a journal if you know what you’re doing . find a meta study that supports your bullshit and maybe i’ll believe you
@ceeez3072
Жыл бұрын
@@robertmarshall2502 THIS 🙌🙌
@terfalicious
Жыл бұрын
@@robertmarshall2502 These TRA types engage in forced-teaming with the LGB to create a false sense of (coerced) compliance and artificially inflate their numbers (same as they appropriate DSD's). The bastardization of language is also part of this process... conversion is what they do to gay kids - GC folk are trying to save gay kids them from unnecessary surgeries, hormones, and genital mutilation.
@robertmarshall2502
Жыл бұрын
Highly recommend Ute's youtube channel. It's a fantastic source for a criminally underrepresented group in trans widows. I would warn however that some of the stories are heartbreaking but for that reason it's all the more important that they're listened to. It's also a fantastic source for a critique of new studies and often the first place I see new studies and articles mentioned. (I regularly see other places pick them up two months later or miss important inconsistencies). A truly remarkable woman.
@robertmarshall2502
7 ай бұрын
@@Helloitsme328 Glad to hear it. 4 months on from this comment and not seen a bad video yet.
@ellasoes8325
Жыл бұрын
I can see how Tammy is the calm listener and Dr. JBP the jumping bean talker in the marriage.
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
I regard their marriage as monolithic! I've also seen him interview Helen Joyce and Chloe Cole, quite calmly and with well crafted insights.
@ellasoes8325
Жыл бұрын
@@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 🙂
@debrahunt5374
Жыл бұрын
Around 1:25 Tammy remarks about women dying in childbirth being buried with warriors in one society. I think it was Dr. Peterson who said men go to war and women have babies and in this risking of their lives they ensure there will be a future for their people.
@rachelmoore5079
Жыл бұрын
This is my favourite episode so far. Beautiful inspiring women, thank you both 💖
@christelle9122
Жыл бұрын
What a courageous woman ❤
@em-dy3hn
11 ай бұрын
I know someone who is divorcing her husband and somewhere in this process, he decided he is a "woman". He has addiction issues. I suspect there is a history of childhood abuse that is arising with this shaken confidence in his manhood. They have two young sons who are caught in this situation. Mental health professionals tied to the courts cannot be trusted to properly assess this to help protect the children from the man's current confusion.
@ruckboger
Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear her story. Gardening and praying has gotten me through the most traumatic experiences in my life. Or, I should probably say praying while gardening.
@acfatemi
Жыл бұрын
THANKS for confirming this healthy path to healing ❣️
@nannygirlkc
11 ай бұрын
I know a woman with 3 children from church who was abandoned by her husband in this way. I think he had the surgeries, too. The sickening thing is that many people "affirmed" him and blamed her! She has supported herself with an online bookstore, St. Joseph's Press. I heard that he has regretted it, but that it was too late to go back.
@HeathenGranny
6 ай бұрын
Aww I'm sorry that menopause isn't treating you well please get some help and stop blaming trans women for your unattractiveness.
@877swissmiss
6 ай бұрын
That physical therapies you mentioned, Ute, helped me a lot too to reconnect with my body. It‘s a very important point but is totally neglected in treatment of mental illnesses.
@cosmicartsastrologicalserv242
11 ай бұрын
I’m only 53 but you’re making me super excited about being over 60! Thanks, gals. And I thought I had a big mouth already. My mouth will be huge by the next decade. :-) and on a very serious note, this was a heartfelt story. Thank you for sharing and being so beautiful.
@Woodman-Spare-that-tree
11 ай бұрын
Don’t be. It’s 5h1t
@HeathenGranny
10 ай бұрын
I mean your mouth is already huge my friend 🤣🤣🤣🤣coz you were waiting for the you know what but then you realized that no one wants to you know what with you.🤣🤣🤣🤣
@HeathenGranny
7 ай бұрын
Just don't let menopause drive you insane and you'll be fine.
@benreed3517
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your excellent content. The World needs these conversations.
@lizardqueen2011
Жыл бұрын
"Attention is a manifestation of love", so fantastic and something that has been more on my mind in recent weeks... thank you so much for these conversations and sharing so much of what is needed in the world right now - and always.🕯❤
@autumnleaves2766
Жыл бұрын
What a brilliant discussion, so important. Ute Heggen was really impressive, I had not heard of her before. As a child I was a bit of a tomboy, musical and creative, and I loved to play soccer and cricket in the back garden, play with toy soldiers, knights and archers in a castle, train sets, toy cars etc. But I also loved teddy bears, dinosaurs, animals, and any art materials for drawing or painting etc. Today someone would probably be trying to convince me that I was really a boy trapped in a girl's body. I do have a more male brain in some ways and my ability to play jazz on more than one instrument, including improvisation, is quite unusual in a woman. But I grew up very much a heterosexual woman. Sadly my own age group of men showed no interest in me, I had more success with older men, most often foreign or with some strong foreign connection eg my Jewish boyfriend David. He ditched me after a few months but we stayed good friends up until his untimely death from lung cancer at the age of 39. The fact that I have never been married or had children does not mean that I am really a man hidden within a woman. I shudder to think what is going on in schools now, here in the UK children as young as nine years old are being told about transgenderism, pansexualism and more besides, this is happening in Church of England primary schools too. To their great credit, Muslims and Orthodox Jews push back hard against this collective insanity. Many children can see through it, and even satirise it, as I would have done if I were a child now. However, many are being confused and upset by what is going on. These young people have been badly let down by those adults who have brought in this gender identity madness. At some point in the future, when they have reached more influential positions within society, there is going to be a terrible backlash. They will want to take their revenge on someone or some thing. Incidentally, I am told that at the local secondary school, the gender neutral toilet that was introduced a few years ago, is used as place for kissing and cuddling between heterosexual teenagers. So perhaps there is some hope still !
@AXRYXN
Жыл бұрын
'Mistaken Identitites' was a profound phrase, Tammy. That's exactly what they are.
@Terpsichore1
Жыл бұрын
Appreciated your ‘Hokusain’ introduction Ladies. Thank you for highlighting the unacknowledged suffering of the Wives lost to this insane ideology. You’re a brave and joyous woman Ute. Thank you both!
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Terpsichore1
Жыл бұрын
@@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 🩰
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
Thanks. I never know if I'm going to come off as sensible and linear. Tammy is the best interviewer! Thanks again.@@Terpsichore1
@jayjaychadoy9226
Жыл бұрын
Ute is a remarkable patient , and responsible woman, educator and mother. What more could she have done? Nothing. I was glued to her story. I feel desperation as my daughter and her husband have allowed, by all appearances, puberty blockers to my 15 year old granddaughter after she became friends with two school mates when she got to high school who were long time friends and kind of befriended her. She is a shy kid and is not bold, and is quite suggestionable. I’m not allowed to speak and I keep even keeled as possible. She, my granddaughter had no defence against these two best mates who have adopted the gender fluidity idea. Dear God I pray for awareness of these traps.
@kutie216
11 ай бұрын
I am so sorry to hear about your granddaughter. I hope she finds her way. I will pray for you and your granddaughter
@daisyviluck7932
9 ай бұрын
Your daughter may have been threatened with the lie that *her* daughter would commit soo icide if she didn’t get the hormones. Many parents get terrorized into doing things they know are bad, then they have to use cognitive dissonance to maintain their decision
@magdalenawestman6285
9 ай бұрын
I fully agree. I am 65 and I also feel that it is the right time for me to say something. I wrote a big book about art therapy.
@baroquefiddle4790
11 ай бұрын
My heart is breaking for what you've been through, I am estranged from my parents (they abdoned me) so I can relate, both very abusive. I am a mother to 2 teenage sons and this whole ideology is terrifying. I an an ex psychotherapist and I quit it because I couldn't affirm it for anyone. Tammy you are wonderful woman, this is my first time listening to your podcast, I've listened to your fantastic husband and your daughter lots of times ❤
@DavidNavarrete-s6o
Жыл бұрын
Hey Tammy, I enjoyed this podcast. I typically listen to your husband's podcast a lot and I found this episode to be captivating and nice to listen to. Thank you.
@LakechB
Жыл бұрын
How many families are breaking like this for decades is heart-breaking. 😭 May God sees each family with his eternals love and help them to heal. Thank you Tammy. I have started listening Dr. JP a year ago, then your daughter and now I have subscribed your channel too. You are a great family voice. Keep the good work of sharing knowledge objectively in your own way. God bless you all.
@swiftwindturning
Жыл бұрын
This is like the soft side of the Peterson duo perspective. It's relating to the same current issues the other Peterson often addresses, yet this is from another perspective. Women connecting. Awesome.
@blahblahblah1988
Жыл бұрын
So happy you had Ute on! Great conversation❤️
@patsylynn2
10 ай бұрын
Tammy you have such a sweet smile and your entire demeanor says "Tammy is kind person". I love watching and listening to you. Ute has the same kind demeanor and I am so sorry she had to go through this, but it turned her into a wonderful person. God bless you both.
@ellasoes8325
Жыл бұрын
Well 4 kids over 20 years tells you how exceptional it is. Also sometimes kids get exposed to things they shouldn't by their home life.
@mik569
Жыл бұрын
I am in awe of you! Your Divine femininity is beautiful. The way you speak, so much kindness and understanding.
@juliesheard2122
11 ай бұрын
I am a mother who's aspergic son is under the control of a trans person (a man who mistakenly thinks he is a woman). My son no longer speaks to me. I am bereaved. 😢
@kutie216
11 ай бұрын
I am so sorry
@daisyviluck7932
9 ай бұрын
I’m sorry your child got caught in this cult 😔
@Taylor-bee
Жыл бұрын
I loved hearing this woman’s story. ♥️ Thank you both so much.
@margueritespringer3687
Жыл бұрын
I agree with Tammy's remark re concerns about very young children in childcare. I think one of the parents or extended family caring for the child is absolutely best.
@scaringclaring5240
Жыл бұрын
I'm thinking the closet is the a good place for people to keep their weirdnessses.
@maryrankin9869
Жыл бұрын
Yes, and please please do not involve others and children. Shame shame shame. Go get some help.Please.
@scaringclaring5240
Жыл бұрын
@@maryrankin9869 Who are you shaming? Not sure you understood my comment. I don't need any help on this front. Perverts, however, do.
@-Stella-Maris-
Жыл бұрын
Tammy, thank you so much for having Ute on your show. She's a sanity-companion to so many of us. 5:25 For anyone interested, there are (I use the terms with some irony) medical and academic pedigrees for this "science." Here's a core list -- not exhaustive. *Medicine/Psychiatry* Havelock Ellis (eugenicist) Magnus Herschfeld (eugenicist) John Money *Sexology* Alfred Kinsey Ray Blanchard Kenneth Zucker J. Michael Bailey *Academia* Michel Foucault Gayle Rubin Judith Butler *Informed Dissent* Steven B. Levine Michael Biggs Miriam Grossman
@mariasoulastrology8169
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tammy for interviewing Ute. Happy to see you and your family having peaked. God bless you!
@HeathenGranny
7 ай бұрын
No one is peaking at you especially with what is dry crusty and smelling down there absolutely tf not. 🤣🤣🤣
@lr8734
Жыл бұрын
This was the best episode! We need to have more of these kind of conversations ❤️
@overcatter7647
Жыл бұрын
I have heard talk recently that some people want to make changes so that people can only be divorced in the cases of abuse or adultery. Personally I hope they never do that. However, if they do make those changes, one’s spouse changing their gender identity, or their sexual orientation should qualify a person for a divorce.
@hollywoodn_t
10 ай бұрын
Bringing back the wisdom of the Elders (in comparison to that of those in their twenties at least!) ❤✨❤
@americathebeautiful9613
11 ай бұрын
The story of Sarah the little kindergartener Ute told brought me to tears - that to me is the gospel of Jesus Christ in action - lovingly patiently helping her giving all the positive attention while standing firmly in the truth - Ute was placed there on that little girls path like a guardian angel to help her I see that clearly ❤ I pray to God we can all be useful in His ways like this especially to children
@thesoulmateconnection
11 ай бұрын
With the woman coming into her power, her confidence can be intimidating for a man who does not know himself.
@11antun
10 ай бұрын
Tammy, thank you! it is a delight to hear the interviews you have with other women! Truh femininity and maternity! it is healing for us women in the western world, how are just to seeing only feminists in the public… I never had the gut to go with feminisam ( I am 48). So this is amazing. in Love and pray with you both. And dear Tammy, we are praying for your catechumenat… We whant to you wellcome HOME in prayer. Love from Medjugorje!
@GraceNawon
Жыл бұрын
Wow, such a fascinating story. Thanks for the interesting interview.
@SimeShow
Жыл бұрын
Stop gender ideology!
@Simpy553
Жыл бұрын
Stop your bigoted ideology
@amateur_football9751
11 ай бұрын
My cousin husband is now a "woman" she is devastated, the ex husband who I know from college was always a man's man, I can't understand what happened
@Simpy553
11 ай бұрын
@@amateur_football9751 honey trans people exist you can't stop it from happening and for your now wife to come out as trans in the current bigotry of hate for us trans people she is incredibly brave so with that much live and healing to you. Transitioning is hard ok its HARDER to transition from MALE TO FEMALE especially if they are doin it much later in life with all the male characteristics already there.
@twitchbiddy6880
11 ай бұрын
What a lovely rapport between these two wise women. Ute, you are brave and gracious ❤
@glassytea3315
11 ай бұрын
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
@yvonnetatalovich4485
11 ай бұрын
Tammy you have such a tender way of speaking, you do indeed have wisdom of women and life❤️
@juliettejuliette-bf8df
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ladies for this great episode ❤️ Much love Ute xx
@leazy1618
Жыл бұрын
What a lovely heartfelt conversation between two lovely graceful women. ❤
@singingway
Жыл бұрын
I so wish your sons knew the truth about Neddy's lying and the effort you made to give your sons a good childhood.
@jayjaychadoy9226
Жыл бұрын
As they come to know God they will see the difference between lying and truth.
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
11 ай бұрын
New info for them is the man who wanted stepfather role with them is now dealing with a sarcoma cancer diagnosis. I will let them know. I wonder if their brainwashing or their shame will prevent them from supporting their mother in her second great grief.
@patsylynn2
10 ай бұрын
@@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Ute, I am praying that God will cause circumstances to change that will cause them to realize the truth.
@ellasoes8325
Жыл бұрын
I was never for the licentiousness part of liberalism. And liberalism always likes that space that courts Evil with glee. I've always felt like I've had to protect my individuality from Liberals. Isn't that funny and strange?
@womensactiongroup8255
Жыл бұрын
Lovely to hear from you Ute.
@trishinbrissy1515
11 ай бұрын
I have the same story after 10 years of marriage
@tracymayer5519
3 ай бұрын
Me as well 😢I am so sorry this happened to you
@deborahanne9793
Жыл бұрын
1:57:51 Stay away from the multiplicity that is created when you leave God. So well said Tammy Peterson.
@jayjaychadoy9226
Жыл бұрын
...but believe me, this is why children need to know Jesus meek and mild, as well as Jesus who ineased in wisdom and stature and in favour with God and man. We need guidance and love in these areas as we grow up into adulthood.
@JanetHanning-f2f
Жыл бұрын
I am a woman with a strong love of the aesthetic,so I was immersed in what Ute was saying about adding spiritual layers in her rock garden and planting as well as her religious experiences. As a woman experiences sex differently to a man physically, emotionally and spiritually, my development of my female sexuality was an aesthetic and spiritual experience that developed during and after puberty and marriage. One might call it romanticism but it is a deeply spiritual experience of being an adult woman. The same with childbirth and breast feeding. I find it hard to understand transitioning in terms of the development of aesthetic ideas about sexual expression. Also I think that a man who crossdresses and is an autogynophile is effectively riding roughshod over a woman's sexual experiences, and for the woman it is similar to being raped. Any woman or girl who is sexually assaulted would have a brutal interruption of normal sexual physical and emotional development. I agree autogynophilia is about rage against women and mothers in particular. Is this man so lost in the development of his own emotional and physical aesthetic development of how a man experiences sex ? Narcissism and the suicide narrative would be consequences of this disturbed development. Does the violence and toxicity of mother and father's relationship interfere with a person's aesthetic development of their own body and sexuality?
@SYA357
Жыл бұрын
To your last paragraph: I'm a psychodynamic child therapist, and I think the way you see your parents and other adults handle each others and their own bodies and sexuality plays a huge role. Children learn a huge deal by example and internalisation. I'd go as far as to say that the way you're looked at and touched as a baby at bath time and during diaper change plays into your body mapping.
@jayjaychadoy9226
Жыл бұрын
@@SYA357 We as mothers and parents do the best we can. It is still a fallen world and tragedy can occur. I attended a group called covenant keepers.
@danelcutler6467
11 ай бұрын
My sister gets mad at me because I’m 60 now and I speak the truth that’s all I love the freedom and Mrs. Peterson I think you guys are amazing
@MariaMilenovasArt
Жыл бұрын
God give strength to all family members and people hurt by the trans movement
@maryrankin9869
Жыл бұрын
Tammy this is all about foundation and formation. Unfortunately mothers do play a big part in childrens lives during the first 4 years and/but fatherhood is essential too but more so after. I am not big on these trans terms. Just my thoughts. I am in my 60's and have done a fair share of work and study in this department. God Bless Ute and her sons. Hope everyone heals.
@jayjaychadoy9226
Жыл бұрын
These are pre-heaven conversations. I like that Ute was able to rise up at the Judges chambers, though she perseveres in a way that is remarkable. The love God loves us with is like that. I take issue with the phrase "unfortunately mothers", but I still love you.
@Gingerblaze
Жыл бұрын
"Contrived affirmation" is a really astute term.
@gabbygutierrez1885
Жыл бұрын
Great conversation. Thank you.
@XeniaAidonopoulou
Жыл бұрын
What a disgusting man you married... I am so sorry for what you are going through/went through... I know people like this all too well... It is despicable... And you are so worthy, such a wonderful person.... I am sorry but your children are awful too at this stage for not seeing this and being on your side...
@karinelaxa959
Жыл бұрын
Thank you both ❤
@juliesheard2122
11 ай бұрын
I can tell that Tammy has been treat so well by her husband. She doesn't have a single frown line on her face, her femininity is in tact. I believe that the sacred feminine disolves when women are not cherished.
@sigma_carnivoresse
11 ай бұрын
Tammy also talks alot about her food intake impacting her health and physical appearance
@lizrobertson2704
Жыл бұрын
In sisterhood from a transwidow. I appreciate what you are saying.
@mossandsea
11 ай бұрын
These women fill me with the joy of the next chapters in my own life. Beautiful women with wisdom. Thank you, thank you both.
@HeathenGranny
10 ай бұрын
I mean they fill me up with joy and laughter when they tell their fake and pathetic stories and also how they weaponize actual widow's pain to hate other people and spread bigotry. These are attention seekers and they are only making fools of themselves.
@Uncivilize
Жыл бұрын
This was an amazing interview.
@rebm987
Жыл бұрын
I'm looking forward to her next book!
@acfatemi
Жыл бұрын
Oh dear, such a tragic story. Interesting how many parallells there are to stories of physical abuse as well of those that were in a relationship with someone with narcissistic personality disorder. Seems to me that we should be cautious of these dangerous men and not pity them for being confused! Actually, when I have watched videos of ”transwomen” (Blaire White & others) the give away is a special kind of aggression no matter how well they ”pass” in looks. Also, an interesting story on how to survive, come through the turmoil and find natural happiness again ❣️🌹
@iwannabewherethenakersaren6884
10 ай бұрын
It's domination, they're men domineering a space, they can't help it. I think it's sheer hubris that a man can think he's able understand a woman's inner workings enough to become one. I see them for what they are, hyper effeminate homosexuals.
@szrn1239
Жыл бұрын
A never ending progression....living past 70...then 80....and more...🙄....always full of introspective surprises we discover....(some harder to face/swallow, than others)....Family disconnects, moving apart from each other on such divisive matters does indeed scramble your deep innards...As for your experience with conversion...regardless of any religion for that matter, trust in the source of all..." Shu " required that all day and everyday we looked into our own hearts, discovered what caused us pain, and then refrained, under all circumstances, from inflicting that distress upon other people. It demanded that people no longer put themselves into a special, separate category, but constantly related their own experience to that of others."...."Happy Trails....!!!
@katherinefulkerson2866
11 ай бұрын
You must interpret all of this sexu confusion in light of the phenomenal increase in pornography at younger & younger ages.
@ep5005
Жыл бұрын
What an insightful interview. Thank you so much, Ladies. ❤️
@vannesagannon4555
11 күн бұрын
Beautiful ❤❤❤love to JORDAN PETERSON AND MRS PERERSON BEAUTIFUL SOALS
@linathin7461
Жыл бұрын
In Swedish, Ute means “outside” which I think suits her so well. Nothing’s hidden, no lies and deeply connected to nature and the earth. I am not religious myself, even though I do have my own ideas of what god means to me. Weird I know, but also very Swedish. However, my morals and ideas are almost identical to yours. I found it sad that Ute won’t call herself a feminist anymore, and women like her are exactly what that word once stood for, and I wish it would have never been stolen from us, however we know our truth. I also loved Utes talk about what heaven could be, a place in good memory of those who are still alive. I am much younger than Ute, and she will definitely forever live in my memory as the good hearted and caring woman that she is. I wish her all the best.
@helenestiernstrand6575
6 ай бұрын
I think its grand that she doesent do it. I dont either anymore - that ideology has been broken.
@beepowl8006
Жыл бұрын
Ute talked about the child in her class needing attention. I wonder how much the loss of attention is contributing to children not identifying with their body or born gender. With most families not having a stay at home parent and most of us addicted to our phones, are kids getting the attention they need to build a strong sense of self?
@jayjaychadoy9226
Жыл бұрын
…or getting the wrong kind of attention. Mature men act this out.
@jayjaychadoy9226
Жыл бұрын
Another way to put lack of attention is called neglect. The groomers look for that child. The only antidote to this that I can see is giving the child attention, but insightful attention that is consistent where the child can walk away, but come back when they need more help.
@sixdollar4117
11 ай бұрын
The "mistaken identity" story of Sarah wanting to be called Steve (:55-1:05 minutes) is a wonderful recollection with a happy outcome for Sarah. Imagine if her too-busy-for-Sarah lawyer mother faced that dilemma today...what a nightmare...for not just Sarah, but all her kin and all her school chums and all the people outside her immediate circle FORCED TO CALL HER STEVE!!! Excellent job in child psychology, Uta! Thank you on behalf of Sarah...and all the others in her life spared a nightmarish scenario but for your simple questions and much-needed attention properly placed.
@ST-ff1zd
Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear this today. Helps put my own losses in perspective.
@riverdonoghue9992
9 ай бұрын
Great to see Mrs Peterson looking so well. God bless you from Ireland ❤
@Realitycheck-rh4bk
5 ай бұрын
Wow thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed to find and hear today 🙌🏼 God is good. I have so many commonalities with Ute, But not quite as bad, as it’s my son / middle child with the cross sex ideation, and my 2 daughters that affirm him. They have disrespected and rejected me, but we are not fully estranged (yet) … because I’m about to go public speaking out against this and I suspected it will turn them completely against me, but I can’t be quite any longer! Too many people are being harmed.
@deborahanne9793
Жыл бұрын
Excellent talk.
@martinadavidson3006
11 ай бұрын
Beautiful, interesting and intelligent women ❤
@vannesagannon4555
11 күн бұрын
What a beautiful women the JEWISHwomen is oh my GOD unreal what a women.I am a celtic IRISH WITCH LIVING IN IRELAND I AM A PAGAN WOMEN .WHAT A BEAUTIFUL PODCASTE LOVE TO ALL THE EARTH ❤❤❤
@lisalynch629
9 ай бұрын
30yrs ago a “friend” transed to the grief of his teenage boys(how sick to hurt yr kids) I began to realize gradually how pathological ,self centered he was
@singingway
Жыл бұрын
Someone needs to start collecting the stories from the grown "children-of"
@-Stella-Maris-
Жыл бұрын
There is one blogger I'm aware of, she publishes "Children of Transitioners" on WP. Harrowing.
@GiC7
Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot, be blessed in Jesus Christ name amen
@paulet990
10 ай бұрын
That was awesome. I want to have lunch with these two ladies.
@HeathenGranny
7 ай бұрын
maybe the 3 of you should go to a gyno appointment and see what treatments you can have for your bad menopause coz it's driving you HYSTerical and deranged.
@lizaj3339
11 ай бұрын
Why did I just find you?? ❤ I admire you as well.
@salomejouan2905
Жыл бұрын
I loved this episode and Ute's gentleness, but I wish you would have delved deeper into the actual story and the legal battle that ensued... The story was a bit sketchy to follow ;) All the best to Ute
@singingway
Жыл бұрын
More details are in her book
@daisyviluck7932
9 ай бұрын
Wow Ute and Tammy podcast ❤️❤️❤️. Thank you both so much what you do
@JanetHanning-f2f
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately there is a huge fight within the Catholic church at present with the Synod on Synodality happening in the next few weeks. The participants have been selected for their wokeness, and conservative bishops are being set up for being the focus of rage in order to score points. The problem is this ideology of acceptance and inclusion . I had a horrible experience this week when a priest told me that woman in a marriage with a crossdresser should accept him as he is and stay in the marriage. Even if the man says he is now a lesbian and demands that she go along with this.Your recent comments about women being refused annulments look set to become the typical church response. Of course a celibate male would have no concept of how a woman feels when she discovers her clothes covered in semen. So I told this guy that "acceptance" is not enough. You have to understand that this person is likely to engage in destructive behaviours eg bodily mutilation, AIDS, and may also harm others. His narcissism and domination of family dynamics in his desperate search for acceptance could destroy his family. The priest was pretty dismissive and hostile. I thought this "acceptance and inclusivity" model was dangerously naive and really bad news for women. I told him that transitioning children is child abuse and that women should not be erased just so that a man could cross dress, but he had no concept of these things as harmful. What hope is there if Catholics have to put up with this level of ignorance and woke capture in our priesthood, especially in the Vatican? This is the reason for the imminent schism in the Catholic Church with anyone speaking out against it being called a heretic by the Pope and his followers.The new heresy is transphobia.
@-Stella-Maris-
Жыл бұрын
"I had a horrible experience this week when a priest told me that woman in a marriage with a cross dresser should accept him as he is and stay in the marriage. Even if the man says he is now a lesbian and demands that she go along with this." I'm very sorry to hear this. I know a couple where the husband "transed" midlife, when the grandchildren were arriving. He and his wife attended a local church, Methodist I believe. There was no solace of community for the wife after the "transing" -- by default, her role in the congregation became "the lesbian wife of the 'trans' husband." She'd survived a period of deep depression before this, and I believe she had little say in the matter, or agency to leave the marriage. Sadly, she passed away not long after. I honestly feel she died of grief.
@helenrobinson985
Жыл бұрын
I’m not Catholic, but my heart goes out to you in such a terrible situation. I am a recent widow, having lost my husband to cancer, even though I was 10 yrs older than him. My grief has been unrelenting, but when I think about your situation, it seems even worse than mine. My husband and I loved each other passionately, and he has come through the “veil of the spirit world” repeatedly since he passed. He lets me know how much he still loves me. I thought “losing” him was the worst thing possible, but I believe what you are going through is even worse. I hope God pours his love out on you and you receive the healing that your ignorant and deluded priest is evidently incapable of.
@rccyberwarrior2267
Жыл бұрын
Those individuals in the Vatican are not Catholic -- many of them are practising satanists. The pectoral cross worn by the anti-pope has a male figure with one leg facing backward -- a symbol of a demonic creature (anti-christ) not Jesus. Catholics have to reject the lies of the usurpers in the Vatican and rely on the traditional Catholic teachings.
@jayjaychadoy9226
Жыл бұрын
You think he has womens clothes underneath? I met a former priest, his parents sent him for education purposes at age 15. He said many priests are homosexual.
@janehartman6871
11 ай бұрын
I am a transphobe, terribly afraid of this ideology and of these people as well. They seem hostile and vicious, ready to re-write history and undo all of true life. Plus I have a niece that is a trans man and another who is non-binary. Terrified of this in our society.😭
@faithf5846
11 ай бұрын
Sy Rogers spoke at a church I was attending. He was a gentle, magnificent, speaker spoke from his heart. unfortunately, he died at age 63 )a couple years ago ) He was president of Exodus international an organization promoting conversation therapy.. His writings and utube educational videos are amazing and loving. I think the sad part is the young people that are being influenced. Some young people wanting to detransition . Some are sad and I hope not depressed…….they are & were so very vulnerable. ❤️🙏
@aligned4good
Жыл бұрын
That was an eye opening insight....Thank you for sharing your story. You ex husband is a very selfish man.
@mjcoz4720
11 ай бұрын
WOW!!! Excellent show ❣️🙏🙌🕊️🤍
@lightofday1122
Жыл бұрын
Incredible interview. Thank you
@vannesagannon4555
11 күн бұрын
Pagans are beatiful as all soals are ❤❤❤love to all the earth
@ellasoes8325
Жыл бұрын
Okay, did the mother's role in cross-dresser's psych ever get told? I was really hoping for the answer.
@-Stella-Maris-
Жыл бұрын
If you mean in Ute's story, she's spoken elsewhere about the father having been abusive. I believe she also gives details in her book.
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